"Why Can't I Get Over It?"

Deceit, infidelity, and betrayal profoundly shake our inner worlds. If you're struggling to heal from relational harm, you may be endlessly ruminating on the past and wondering why you can't just let it go. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra breaks down the process of forgiveness and provides seven reasons why you can’t get over it.
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Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want (bookshop.org/p...) by Dr. Alexandra Solomon
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[@nodeal1973]

Trust has to be felt. It’s so hard. Words and actions must match.

[@nikkiallen1500]

SO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT and sort through. Feel as if she’s talking directly to me. This is excellent, Dr Solomon is excellent and compassionate. Thank you.