Why I wasn’t married in my 20’s and early 30’s || cont’d series
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- Опубликовано: 24 июл 2024
- Hey Odysseys, this is continued series of my previous videos. I am one person who likes to reflect on my life and I really enjoy it because it shows that I am evolving as a person.
So, rem first I am sharing these videos for myself first and for YOU who is also a person who reflects on your life and want to improve and learn about yourself.
Thank you so much if you are here to learn and enjoy my talks.
Sending you love 💕
You are such a genuine soul. I love watching you and your energy is soothing. I absolutely resonate with you because I am in my mid-thirties and have never been married or in a long-term relationship because my 20s were me trying to do life. I deeply believe in marrying when I find the person who resonates with my values and who I am. All I do is work on myself to become a stronger and better human being. The rest is in God's hands. You are truly inspiring many women like myself. Keep doing what you do! Inshallah God will always guide you.
I haven’t even finished watching the video, but I had to comment. This video resonated so much with me. I turned 30 this year and I had a similar story for some of my 20s. I was focused on learning more about other people and not getting to know myself or my Rabb. 😞
I was always practicing to some extent and fulfilled the Fardh, but I really only started making regular dhikr and reading more Quran the last couple of years. I’m so grateful every day that Allah (SWT) invited me back to Him. ❤
This comment, wallahy it is a great blessing to be guided by Allah 😭……I totally relate and am always grateful for the same subhana Allah 💕
@@FatmaOdyssey ♥️♥️ your videos are such a comfort. We love you content, walaal, keep going!
Fatima, Wallahi your emaan to me is worth everything in this dunia combined. This is coming from a mother/wife. Don’t underestimate this gift 🎁 from Allah, allahumabarak! I come to your videos for to learn from you and especially an emaan boost! May Allah reward you, ameen❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
🥹🥹🥹 I am really glad to read your comments, I hope I can share even better beneficial knowledge in Sha Allah. May Allah grant us all hidaya 🤲🏾
Thank you so much sis 💕
This inspired me to self reflect and I realized I was never ready to share my space or myself with someone else. I also lowkey don’t want my future partner to see my struggles with deen/prayers & have him judge me. The only reasons I would want to get married is to stop my parents from pressuring me or society looking down or targeting a single muslimah, which are not good reasons.
Honestly sis you’ve hit the nail on the head. When your ready go for it otherwise enjoy your own space. I’m currently going through exactly what you stated you’d fear haha alhamdulillah
Sis, this is 100% shaytaan trying to put you off! Fear Allah more than you fear a human being. In sha Allah you and your hubby will encourage each other to get closer to Allah. It will shame you into it, at the very least. Either way marriage is half your deen. I promise you my husband and I bring the best out in each other because you don’t want your partner thinking bad of you lol. Put your fear aside and put your trust in Allah❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@kkahin3557 I get that but every guy I want critiques the way I follow the religion & is harsh about it even though they JUST started being on the deen more. why are they so harsh and impatient with me when they themselves JUST stopped their sins
If they judge you for being close to Allah, then they are not the right people irregardless of gender.
Marriage should be for you and only you when you feel right and ready. You only have one life to live, the most important thing is to live a life that is pleasing to Allah. I pray that Allah grants you righteous people in your life 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Qudar Allah . Alhumdullilah nobody has a perfect life we will never truly find happiness in this Dunya . This Dunya is a prison for the believers . If we don’t get a husband here we will have one in Jannah Insha Allah 😊😊😊😊
Masha'llah well said it's really making me pray to get a Good Woman like you it's a Blessing which many can't see
@MohamedOmar-nl2qn, you're reading too much into it.
that is right masha allah
Profound self reflection, well done. BTW 38 is young, Love.
Thank you sis 💕 young at heart 🤣🤭
My Takeaway: keep fixing your relationship with Allah swt,learn and practice your deen and every other thing will fall into place ♥
More than 💯 it’s the only way we will find true fulfilment in this world 💕
Fatma,
I rarely comment on anything, but I find myself wanting to comment on every single post.
I watched every single video you have posted and loved every single one. I love how you are so open and honest about your thoughts and feelings. You are a beautiful soul. keep posting
Love 💕 from Toronto 🇨🇦
🥹🥹🥹 stop, you gonna make my cry 😪. Your comment is enough motivation for me to keep sharing…because these topics are heavy in my heart and it takes so much will to sit down and share. So thank you and appreciate you sis 💕💕
Jazaka-llahu kheir
Mashaa Allah, your story resonates deeply with mine. It feels like I'm hearing my own experiences reflected back to me. May Allah reward you abundantly for sharing your videos. May Allah's protection and guidance continue to surround you, beloved sister. You are indeed loved for the sake of Allah. 💕💕💕Stay blessed.🙏
Thank you so much my sister and ameen to your duas, may the angles supplicate the same for you 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
I love you too for the sake of Allah 💕
Ameen Allahumma ameen🙏
You earned a new subscriber because of this powerful reminder🎉Allahu baarik
Thank you so much 💕
Hi Fatma, thank you for this video ❤. Actually about the Ayat of remembering Allah, I don't think that He means that if you are not remembering Him, He will make your life miserable. Instead you will have a miserable life on your own as you will lack guidance from Him. That's how I understood it.
💯💯💯 if we live a life without remembering Allah in worship then we are bound to live a miserable life. Because we were created to worship Him Allah Subhanahu wa taala
Love this reflection
Dadka maxaa ka qaldan like saying why u didn’t born in 2024 plz my people always remember qadr y can’t ask same one why u didn’t marry in ur 20s or ur 30s that’s bullshit
Yes sister ❤ May Allah protect us from toxic and bad people, gotta leave them and run
Ameen 🤲🏾
In life nobody can fade up enjoying moments whether it is happy moments or the opposite it just disappear one day so enjoy while you can without breaking your maker guidelines keep moving
I have to also call myself out for somethings as well. am about your age and I went to medical school from 18 all the way to 29. I was too focused on that, that I neglected to have a social life. I was also depressed for another reason but also a family tragedy happened when I was around 28, after which I felt like my life stopped. I also look too young and I feel too young 😂😂😂. So I never really think much about marriage but recently am thinking about it a bit. My parents also don't pressure me. While that is a good thing, I feel parent should ensure that their children have a social life when they are young. They should encourage them, especially someone like me because am an introvert.
This is one of your best video
Thank you 💕
There is a divine reason as to why you have not married yet.
Let everything be as Allah planned for your sister.Never regret it.
May Allah continue to bless and guide you to the straight path.
you look 26🥰
اللهم بارك
Alhamdulillah it is ne’ema from Allah. 💕
You can still get married inshallah don't let age stop you. I know many men that are offering to marry women 35+ that have been divorced once or twice with 2,3, and even 4 children!
there is a scarcity of men, especially successful men in Africa, it's not about God, it's just a matter of preference of numbers, who do you want and is he available.
Great reflection dadangu wa Kenya.
Thank you 💕
Subhan Allah May Allah reward u sister for these beautiful reminders
Thank you too Amina always 💕
Asc..my humble opinion.i think not that you didn't love urself, u lacked guidance on wat to tolerate or not. a mother plays abig role in molding a gal to adulthood.
Alhamdulillah you turned out to b the best version of a muuminat.
It happens also most young pple( 16-23yrs) tend to av laxity wen it comes to deen.
dont b hard on yourself😢
Alhamdulillah that is true but as you get older you also need to be accountable to your life because you know better…so you do better but Alhamdulillah am always grateful for the experiences good and bad 🤗
Wa alaykum sallam
And be not like those who forgot Allāh, so He made them forget themselves. Those are the defiantly disobedient. (Surah Al Hashr )
^^^As I was listening to you, I was thinking about the above ayah. If I dont hold steadfast to the rope of Allah , I'll forget myself and lose sight of what's important for my deen and dunya. Your video was a timely reminder, Jazak Allah khair.
As for acknowledgement and accountability, I think it leads to growth in mindset. Its a chain reaction that leads to positive behavioural changes. As long as we are above the ground there is room for improvement in our lives. May Allah subhana grant us the ability to change for the better in all aspects of our lives, ameen ya Rabb. Jazak Allah khair for sharing your life lessons. They were golden nuggets of lessons and the viewers will benefit in sha Allah. It certainly was a reminder for me .
Love how you touched upon the importance of self love. It's the foundational basis for being a complete healthy and whole being. Ppl come into our lives for a reason, season or a lifetime. The relationship with yourself is long lasting.
Side note, goat kefir is my jam. Also love colostrum(sorta taste like Nido). Alhamdulilah for the blessings of Allah subhana wa ta'ala
Idyll I always love your input wallahy 🥹. I am also definitely learning from you for sure 💯.
Yes Alhamdulillah so many ways Alah reminds us in the Quran to be of the righteous. And it is only for our good…Allah does not need us but we need Him.
I am happy to hear that these reminders are beneficial Alhamdulillah so thank you for your kind words sis always and the gems you share 💕💕💕
I wish I could meet you in person 😭😭
I love you for the sake of Allah 💕
@@FatmaOdyssey The pleasure is all mine since your videos have been so cathartic 💞The feeling is mutual and in sha Allah our paths cross in the dunya or in Jannah Fardaus by the mercy of Allah subhana wa ta''la. I would love to connect with you online, in sha Allah. Truly want the best for you and I love you for the sake of Allah subhana wa ta'la.
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم "" من ترك شيئا لله ، عوضه الله خيرا منها""
Qurahyee gurkaa mahaad kaaaaminsantahyeee
زوجك الله زوجا صالحا وإيانا جميعا يا ربنا
Sister what country were you raised in? Kenya?
Prolly Kenya 🇰🇪
Yes, born and raised in Kenya 🇰🇪
I feel like you are so hard on yourself...
Just reflections and life lessons. Because I am work in progress 💕
Fatima u doing a great job. I love watching your videos.... but You didn't quote the verse well... it is zikrAllah و من عرد من ذكر االله
وَمَنْ أَعْرَضَ عَنْ ذِكْرِي فَإِنَّ لَهُ مَعِيشَةً ضَنكاً وَنَحْشُرُهُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ أَعْمَى
may Allah bless you a righteous spouse and healthy beautiful children - soon inchallah.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته ❤
Dear faatima I wanna to share with you something fast cause the نبينا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said if you have a plan and isn't working for fast everything that you fast for it you will find it insha allah and i hope you all the best love you for the sake of allah I'm your young sis from somaliya I hope you will see it my comment insha allah and i will pray for you ❤🌼⚘️ trust allah and say حسبي الله ونعم الوكيل ❤
Allah said في كتبه
ومن يتوكل على الله فهو حسبه ❤
bonjour fatma je regarde tes vidéos tu ressemble beaucoup à mes sœurs je ne comprends pas
Unlucky girl
Lol we don’t believe in luck so take your comments elsewhere. Wrong community.
Wdym? nice words are sadaqah, if you cant shut your mouth
U are so rude 🤦♀️in life we all hv sm missing okay , u might be married with kids but I ‘m sure u lost a love one of ur , no one is complete it , if you can’t say anything nice keep it quiet . Stop with that rude as shit😒
are you now married my sis? @fatmaodyssey