KEN READS | EPISODE 61: HE PROMISED NOT TO CHEAT ON ME BUT HE ULTIMATELY DID
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
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Ken - your outrage was palpable. I too felt physically sick and angry. Simone - all the best with your healing.
I still want to send a letter, but this one hit so close I almost feel like this commentary fits my situation too. From the childhood/teenagehood friends, to the apologies and then betrayal after like he was never sorry, to the addiction issue, to being used up and then discarded the day of a scheduled date+holidays and birthdays...
I have no idea what happened to the sweet, creative, loving person I met years ago. By the time everything happened, I was dumbfounded by how intentional the abuse really was and how little I knew him-he even admitted what he did and named the offense and claimed the addiction he had. He said what he did (claimed the offense) before I even did! So he knew what he was doing! He even said "this made me finally understand what I've been realizing about my abuse" or something like that. Jesus. Thank you for this letter. I'm sorry someone else had to go through this too.
I hope that Ken makes an avoidant s*x/p*rn addict video soon, since that was my ex's vice.
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Amy's voice and tone is ideal for EFT ❤
I can’t help but get tripped up on her boundary of speaking to him post break up only if he assures her he is not looking for intimacy from anyone else.
She stated this boundary. He assured her. Fine. They speak and start to discuss healing.
However, when he admits he slept with someone else, she doesn’t HOLD her boundary. She continues dialog with him. Boundaries are for US to hold, not them.
I wish she would have cut him off that very day, realizing what she ultimately did, that he is not worth any of her time, affection, or energy 💔 33:27
Simone, as someone who's been through someone's darkest times and pushed out when they were getting 'better', I firstly want to praise you for your empathy and your ability to hold space for someone.
Secondly, trust me on this, as well as stated by Ken and Amy, he pushed you away because he wasn't ready for change.
These people have lived a life as they've shown you, and to change is scary.
Amy has such a soothing voice
A lot of this resonates with what I experienced. Constantly on/off. What a roller-coaster. Also, the flaking-out in connection with holidays, special events, and hospitalization is something I experienced with my ex. Unfortunately, I still hold a lot of love and compassion for him, but listening to this helps me to see how abusive it really was!
I love Amy she is my favorite
That first guy is the biggest red flag guy ever. I hope the poor woman blocked and deleted him from her life. She is far too good for him. Save your mental health, do not engage.
I also experienced my DA ex saying he was doing "what was best" for me and my kids. Without talking to me about it at all. Like he was somehow a good guy for doing this. It maddened me - so arrogant and manipulative
Same thing I experienced. It's very common with them
He skipped out on her surgery day and she didn't break up with him?
Wow this is so fucked up. I am living this nightmare right now and can’t get away because we own property together. Constant texting between us over this property which is just and excuse to hang on to me but dosent want me back but misses me and my dogs. So sick such mental fuckery. Makes me sick to hear what people are going through with these avoidants. It never ends and as soon as I can get this property sold I have to get this toxic man away from me
I have lived this for the past 8 months holy shit this is so fucked up. I’m so upset for this girl
All these guys are just playing with the women, it’s so transparent and cringe. Women, please level up.
The fact she got back in close contact with her family after her first long marriage and not when she was married is weird. Then a long distance relationship, shows she wants people around from far away at her convenience. Family or someone you want a relationship on your own terms and expectations, who would want that? I smell bs from her.
Uhh no? It's pretty clear she is living on the other side of the world from her family. Not sure how it's weird to not have the time for your wider family when you are busy creating your own family and living on opposite time tables......