This is the EXACT WAY Your EX will Reach Out to You when YOU are in NO CONTACT
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- This is the EXACTWAY Your EX will Reach Out to You when YOU are in NO CONTACT
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I've been in no contact with my ex for almost 2 months today's her birthday and I didn't text or call her she just called a few minutes ago and was angry didn't reach out on her birthday. What should do please?
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Hi what happens when your Ex wife wants to call you about something, was going to do this friday(which is move the rest of my stuff out) shall I just wait and see what she has to say before trying to get a face to face?
If your ex comes back just be the best version of yourself and treat them right.
If they don’t then in your next relationship be better than in your previous relationship
What in the simp 💩 is going on here….😂 if there were a ex why would you want them back to hurt you ,If you let them go? To show them that then if they cheated or played games to become a ex that your okay with that and a sucker? Or let me guess you were thinking about playing stepdaddy to her new side guys kid weren’t you? and she say it’s yours 🤓
Ye, be better to yourself
Bruh thanks I needed this dude fr you positive af
Never take them back.
sometimes it's best to let sleeping dogs lie. unless a person truly puts in the work for themselves to be better not for a relationship's sake, but better than their old self plus the legit apologize to my soul and ancestral line...and i genuinely see it in her eyes...just let it be. never chase or entertain someone who never saw your value or felt you brought nothing to their life. furthermore, always remember your worth people.
Wise words, my ex left suddenly 2 weeks before we suppose to go to my home country on little holiday and to meet my mom, without apology. I thought man 50 years old would be mature enough to communicate and try to work things out🤷♀️ I couldn't be more wrong. He didn't contact me even after months of no contact. I am starting to accept he has a 'reason' and trying to heal and move on.
@@andziagreen4922that’s really crappy
Love this
thank you so much for this. i think this is what i needed to read. its been a week since our breakup with no communication. he was the one that gave up on the relationship because i guess for him it was easier that way than improving our relationship altogether. he just didn't see my value and have to accept that i wasn't worth anything at all. its so painful right now.
I 💯% agree! If not the 1st thing I hear from my ex is an apology for how he treated me/what he said and an admission wrong doings, I DON'T WANT IT!🙅♂️ If you have not grown from the situation and bettered yourself, IZA NOO‼️😤
I survived a week of no contact it’s been a emotional rollercoaster but I’m slowly getting there 😖😖😖
tell me what ended up happening, its been 2 months
@@jakefwsosa He got in contact with me as I went radio silent and he was really worried but we talking now and then but not often but I’d rather we didn’t so it’s just minimal 😊😊
He reached out in under a month and we’re back together no contact works well.
I’m only in a week of no contact does it get easier because I’m struggling really bad 😭😭😭
I was left 5 weeks ago and sadly made mistakes, last one was a few days ago when I tried to establish some boundaries and she lashed out at me over it so now its true full NC. It sucks so bad but I'm doing this for me to be the man I know I am with no traumas or fears holding me back. Thankfully I have this mans videos to help me stay strong when I'm questioning everything. I have hope for our future but only the Divine timing of life will tell
@@ZAC90715did she reach out to
@@cuteandfluffypikachu3405did they reach out
@@ZAC90715stay strong I’m going through it to
Time heals all ! Level up and start working out !
Can we just appreciate that this man is also Gorgeous lol! but i will continue to concentrate on what he is saying!
My ex just got back to me after 9 months of no contact. I already forgive him for everything but suddenly after a few weeks of us seeing each other again he told me he is not ready for a "commitment". I take a break and see what is going to happen and come to a point that i will block him and go into silent treatment cause i don't deserved a person who doesn't even want to commit
My mom passed away in January. My ex broke up with me by ghosting me a month later. We were together almost two years. I know she'll never reach out because she's most likely feeling extremely guilty for what she did.
I went into NC as soon as I realized what she did. I never called or texted her. Her birthday was in May and I said nothing but suddenly in July she blocks my number. I figured she was waiting for me to call her up and do my best Keith Sweat impersonation.
I don't want her back. After what she did? Never! The only thing I want from her is a sincere apology. I'll probably never get it because she's a coward. I'm still fighting feelings of anger, sadness, and depression but I think I'll get through this eventually. Oddly enough, the only time I don't really think about her is when I'm at work. My co workers take my mind off of her without them knowing anything about my situation.
It’s like you never did anything for them. Just gone, who does that🤷🏾♂️
@@v.o.warrior9021All I ever did was be good to her. I never cheated on her or any girlfriend I ever had. I thought she was the one. I wanted to marry this woman. Well now, I'm glad she showed me her true face. She probably would've divorced me a month after getting married, citing whatever fear she had about us being together.
I guess I did dodge not a bullet but a freaking cruise missile. Some people may say that I'm wrong for this but I despise women now. I'm still attracted to them of course but I don't trust anything about them now. After watching so many videos on female nature and "logic", I can't take the opposite sex seriously anymore.
Yeah, I'm hurt. Yeah, I'm pissed. I don't think I'll be getting into any more relationships after this. I'm done. If I have to keep risking my heart being ripped out of my chest like a character in Mortal Kombat, I'd rather stay single. Just sex.
Fuck your feelings.
I don't care about what you're dealing with.
Whatever you're telling me is just BS so you can use me.
It's situations like mine that turn good guys into villains who don't give a fuck anymore. All these women keep crying about no more good men. Well, you turned a lot of us into monsters now with the BS you do. I don't give a fuck anymore.
It hurts so much.,. I cant believe that this has happened to other people besides me
@@Eagles4eva I know what you're going through bro. I was where you're at now. You'll get better as time goes on. The best advice I can give you is just say "fuck it". She gave up on you and doesn't even care. That's some cold hearted shit. You gotta get even colder. I know you have memories etc. with her but don't let the past kill you. She doesn't care. You shouldn't either.
1 month of no contact and then she reach out blaming me for talking and commenting girls pictures on instagram😅 i said we were in no contact i thought you gone, and she start blaming me, im trying to fix it and i know she want to fix it but she's just want to play hard to get so im gonna fix it by myself😂
I'm NOT finding 'no contact' difficult. I'm loving it and I find it empowering. I ALREADY feel the power shifting. He has tried to reach out, but he needs to feel uncomfortable a bit longer.
Yes, I got the 3rd one after he saw I wasn’t going to chase him 😅. He was doing his best to trigger me but finally reached out with a “hey, how are you?” text. He said he wanted to be friends and he’s trusted me more than most. I’m taking it at face value. I really don’t think we should reopen the toxic door anyway as much as we might miss each other. I won’t reach out to him. Letting him to do the work.
Amen...me too in my situation as well
I would just replay: oh hi, feels so nice to hear from you. well, J was your friend, but I can‘t be just your friend.
check out adrienne everheart. she is all about female energy❤
It has to be mutual ladies.
Holy cow, what a great comforting coach. I go to bed and can listen to you over and over again.
Same! His voice is comforting and soothing
Who knew that there would be so many rules when it comes to this stuff I had no idea 🤷♀️
Good comment. Me either. This has been quite the journey.
Haven’t heard from her in 2 weeks ima give it a month with no contact hopefully we find our love again man she was the love of my life. I’m right now giving her space to think things thru
I almost lost the love of my life, I was going to try no contact because she blocked me, but I figured might as well shoot her 1 good message about how we can still make things work. She came back the next day. I got lucky, not taking her for granted again
How’d it end up
Let them go, level yourself up and find better
After 24 days of No Contact I got a text from her saying Please I Want Sex so I thought she wanted more and I let her come over but afterwards I didn't hear from her anymore and I went back to no contact.her birthday is coming up on the 23rd of this month I know she'll be waiting for my text or something but I ain't gonna give her that. Thanks coach ❤ from Nigeria
My ex ghosted me for days. I sent one text, stating I will no longer reach out to you. You made it obvious, it's over by pushing me away. 18 days later, he knocked on my door un announced. I left him on my doorstep knocking.
Good! He doesn't deserve you.
He reached out to wish me happy birthday which was 10 days after he blindsided me with the breakup. The only reason he did it is cuz he felt guilty cuz it was a milestone birthday for me & cuz we were supposed to spend the day together. He knew how important spending my day with him was, yet he strategically broke up with me 20 days prior to my bday. I responded to him 3 days later with "Thx" & I haven't heard from him since. The only reason I want him to reach out again is to have an honest conversation about why he lied, faked his feelings & chose to discard me the way he did. However, if I never get that convo, I'm ok with that. He can't provide me any closure cuz I can't expect what hurt me to heal me.
You’ll never get an apology nor an explanation.
@@MN-rw2ntNot always true someone from my past after 7 long years gave me an apology. I accepted it and moved on. Not everyone is going to apologize but some people do. 🤷
I never got any closure from my ex either and okay with living with that. ❤
Been just about 4 months NC. She’ll watch my snap stories but that the only sign. Been working on myself tho, gained 25lbs from the gym, learning about how to be a better partner. Although learning hurts now because I feel like I’ll never be able to show all the things I’ve learned
Prepare for the next/best person for yourself
Any update?
it's been 6 months, and he texted me 10 minutes ago after 5 months of NC asking if he could take me to a musical that our mutual friend is in
we'll see how things go
You give me hope 😊 . I'm in 3 months now in NC...
How was it ?
we went with a group of friends so it wasn't a "date"
however recently he's been showing signs of jealousy bahahahaha
it's also clear that he's showing signs of regret and honestly it seems like he's gone downhill... meanwhile I've been working on myself and have become a 2.0 version of myself. @@envyallison926
Update?
@@tjtanner9311 I moved on, and happier now that i'm out of the relationship :)
If she messages me with the excuse of returning my spare house key, I'm going to tell her "Cool, thanks! You can mail it to me."
The ex reached out with a video. I don’t really use social media and he does not have access to mine. I realize he was testing the water. I made a comment and said thanks for sharing. It sucks to double guess yourself.
Your videos are really helpful grateful to you 😊
Nice step by step explanation
Thank you! You're a national treasure. Thanks again for the advice.
Wow awesome speech coach
Thanks for this video. This is more information to my question the other night on live. I appreciate you sir
6months into NC I’m good on her reaching out now
Thanks for the positive video
Always! Thanks for watching
Coach. Please do another video more in depth like this.
Words of wisdom
😂 PREACH IT BIG DOG
👑👑👑kingstyle thx my man
She can’t reach me unless she calls/text. I blocked her on everything 🤣
Bro I just did this and she texted me hope your doing good should I respond to this
Coach Blac, i havent found any video in your channel talking about if the dumper start the no contact rule and he's teaching them a lesson to like "dont lie again after many chances" or maybe "stop being manipulative" u see so many dumpers after a while would feel the same as the dumpee but wont ever initiate contact to make them confortable at lying again or manipulate again.
Your videos are helpful
Glad you find them useful
You rock brother.
Iam so happy with this video
I don't trust my ex's intentions at all. The last time he reached out to me, it was all to shade me. I was done with him after that, went no contact completely! A year and a half later he's in my dms trying to call me. Like nah, you had your chance and you blew it🤷♂️. I'm gone✌️.
Thanks!
Broke NC after 3 weeks! Got her to come over and make
dinner with me, we ended up sleeping together and she
stayed the night. Just got back from the beach and now
she's texting me that she misses me haha sometimes
breaking NC is the best thing to do.
Sex can be a smoke screen... You think things are getting better, but it's just Oxytocin talking... Wishing you the best tho
Bread crumbling you bro
I broke up w my ex about a week ago now after 2 years and she’s already with another guy but her friends were never the right kind of influence on her based on what she told me I power tripped over her so hard wrote a letter that I haven’t given to her and I got blocked for begging to meet up face to face I know now that I’m only pushing her away but I’m taking a few college courses now and hoping to score a good job to keep me occupied and honestly can’t wait to start that gym life but for now I’m just sitting and waiting she clearly doesn’t want to reach out yet way too soon but imma mature myself up and better myself for my overall health and wellness rather than doing it for anyone else
Yes Bro! Do you🙌😄💪. You deserve better, and better will come.
I got dumped via text and given the “let’s be friends cuz I still value you as a person and I’ve never felt so strongly for someone before” we still hung out and did extra curricular activities 🤭 but I’ve gone a week no contact told her I’m not interested in anything less than romance and left it at that. Still watches my stories etc, but I’m a be 38 soon I’m over these shenanigans 😂 I’m not into hooking up, but seems like that’s what girls are into or at least the ones I’ve talked to. 🤷♂️
Same thing happened to me being friends leaves and open door for them to use us because we are still in love with them , they want us but don’t want to be with us it’s not right. Move on find that person that wants all of u and is willing to commit
@@YahwehsButterfly I was out of dating for a long time. I’m comfortable alone and honestly this relationship reinforced my desire to remain alone and do the things I like to do. Not gonna lie it still hurts hahaha
Aint no way she was over 30. Stop messing with these 22 year oldsz
@@chantalsmissingselfawarene7655 😂 over 30 been ran thru have trauma and all of sudden they “know their worth” hard pass.
Got on a call with coach 2 days ago. The day after the call my ex called me, asking if I wanted to go to the beach with her this weekend but I have to freaking work 🤦🏽♂️ I was on day 4 of no contact. Going back on it, until she contacts me again.
Lmao " pump fake"
When they reach out to try and tell you they're moving or to say bye after months of NC. Or, stalking your insta with an alt.
after a divorce of a 17 yr marriage... my wifes idea.... i was trying to be polite...my ex i believe took it as i was trying to manipulate her or something.....she told me out of nowhere...I am never coming back.........its been 2 yrs...never heard from her since.
You should never contact your ex if she's never start to contact you again and show she's have changed... just stay in NC for ever and grow your life up.
Had quite a mature breakup a few weeks ago. We both went into NC right away from the moment we broke it off. Neither of us have reached out. Have you seen a lot of situations like this? I'm in a tricky situation as I am overseas for work and need to get my stuff out of her place when I go back home in a few weeks, and one of us will need to contact the other eventually here.... neither of us have taken down social media posts we have with each other, neither of us have blocked the other. It's been tough but have been able to remain strong nonetheless (for all of you out there struggling right now - you can do it).
They’ll always be 1 how wanted it more! You need to admit to yourself if you the dumper or the dumpee. If you the dumpee stay no contact
@@remyd1984 oh no yeah she wanted to end it haha it's been brewing for pretty much the last year now. We have had almost a 9yr relationship - where we have both just loved each other like crazy (with ups & downs of course). She just started losing some attraction & interest due to some reasons in our relationship. I've always been quite independent and done a lot of things without her- and vice-versa, so it wasn't because I was being over-bearing or needy. I honestly told her right from the start I would do anything for her and that we are stronger together, but also told her that I'm a self-respecting man and won't beg for her as it has to come from within her to want this too.
^ word of advice for everyone else out there!!! It's ok to let them know you care, love them, etc. but do it from a place of self-respect and let them realize the consequences of their actions. If they care about you enough, they won't stand being away from you for too long and you will know it is mutual...
STAY NO CONTACT UNTIL HE CONTACTS YOU! No matter what! No contact works even long term! Do it!
@mariefricchione437 as I mentioned, I can't because I go back home in September and I need to move everything out of her place. It's a different situation for me. When we broke it off over the phone, I brought up moving my stuff out and she said to just give her some time and we'd talk about it. It's been almost a month since then... lol
Good luck to you
Homie... now 13 months and no contact... because it's just over.
I got my ex indirect lingering by unblocking - blocking. I find it rather childish if this the way to contact me. It predicts nothing good. So i will stay NC. I really like him but it's not worth the stress and games.
I am binge watching some coach Blac vids while i clean my apt :) Thanks for all you do
Awesome! Good to have you here 🙏
@@blacademicif she like my post in unblock me what does that mean
He lives in NY. FaceTime is out too. All his phones are stolen.
Almost 3 months NC, blocked and starting to lose hope
You have to move on so she can miss the relationship and come back, and you have to move on for yourself in case she never comes back.
In no contact, my separated husband reaches out to me every single time. He starts the texting with checking in and being nice but then it all goes sexual. He won’t ask me out on a date, although last week he texted late and asked if I wanted to go get dessert but then have “dessert” afterwards. I’ve started to feel used and so I’ve had to ask him not to ask me for sex if he doesn’t want to heal our marriage. Part of me feels good about this decision but then another part wonders if this was his journey back. He did this when we dated and I’m just now seeing the cycle. All I know is he makes minimal effort and has said he doesn’t want to be married and yet we’ve been separated over a year. I feel so manipulated and just done. File the papers if you don’t want to be married. Seems like a no brainer. Another thing, I went somewhere to sing and he showed up. We didn’t speak. Haven’t seen him in over a month and he shows up at a place I rarely go to. Just nuts!!
We had a very bad breakup she ain't never coming back
It’s not true, it can happen. With time it can happen.
Ayo ! Great advice but if she dumped you , you shouldn’t rush to see her. No there might be a punishment of some sort otherwise the behavior will repeat itself and longer. I did it the first time she went ghost. I reached out. I did the pipe work. The second time she disappeared for 4 months and reappeared and start talking about the past. I just asked if she got something to say that concerns the present moment. She said nothing. It means these girls know what they are doing and understand the power dynamic. Don’t fall for it fellas. She must submit and make it up to you
We were talking and now its been 2 months of silence. I'm scared he won't reach out again
Love the music and love the advice. Split up with my person of over 2 years Friday evening. I told her I didn't want this, and never did. I told her, however, if this is what she WANTED, I would respect her wishes. I want her to be happy. We exchanged "I love you(s)" and goodbyes. No contact now. No texts, calls, no snapchat, not viewing story etc. I hope this works, because it is so hard. Maybe she will recognize the lack of attention, love, and caring she once received. Thanks for the videos, coach Blac.
I'm really nervous to text back, let alone read it. it's been a month since we talked 😢
And what if part of you wants them back but are also repulsed and hurt at the fact they went and slept/ in some kind of a relationship with the coworker they were having an emotional affair with, causing you to separate?! I still love him but it's also slowly fading and I'm very hurt, disgusted and repulsed by him... 😢
I know it will never be the same. He ruined us and gave me betrayl trauma.
I'm dealing with exact same thing and feel traumatized in panic anxiety and depression my self esteem was damaged my confidence
My ex ghosted me came bk and ghosted me again....and she send a little nonchalant message and soon as I respond she does it again
@@beastmasterakathabarbaric1509 that's terrible. What is wrong with our people?! This world is screwed. I'm scared to date again. I'm going to put my faith in God to find me someone.
One thing that scares me is my ex fiancee showed up 7 years later after cheating on me and ghosting me....we rekindled a freindship...and after 6 months of just friendship...i saw none of the old red flags like having to fight tooth and nail for a place in her life in the beginning or her becoming so cold and unempathetic to the pain my heath disorders put me in...she grew as a person so much..a relationship blossomed.....only for things to end nearly identically...i still dont see any of the old red flags or any new ones now....id like to think people can change...but maybe the flag was how they left originaly......if they can live without you once....even if they grew tremendously...they can and will choose to live without you again....but that shakes my faith of any 2nd chances because its unpredictable even when all signs point toward the positive
The best indicator of what a person will do next is PAST behaviors.
Alot of mind games. Best to just lease with automatic trade-in every fee years ...
I’d like to book a 1-2-1 but I’m away at the moment and have no laptop. I was wondering if FaceTime or something else would be ok?
Not looking for friends! Ive tried to escalate multiple times and have been rejected by his actions but him never saying the word no...and I even asked "should I just stop reaching responding"....he never responded to my question (Ghosted).....Im back at hard no contact and put it into Gods hands as I should of to begin with. 😢😮😊
My ex of 5yrs after 6 months following the break up dm'd me last week saying "Hey 👋 looks like ur doing well!! Just came by to say well done, I'm proud of you! And I've been missing talking to u x" about my gym progress. Does this count as a direct indirect or a direct? I just pressed like and ignored it. Did I do the right thing or did i completely screw up by pretty much ignoring her?
She dumped me, i didn't beg chase or dispute the situation, went into NC straight away. Two weeks later she messaged me on my bday, I've done the pump fake and am now waiting. This period seems harder than the initial NC. Any tips as to what to escalate with of she dosent reach out again? She didn't reply to the last message I sent and instead liked it, although the message I sent didn't really need a reply.
Me and my sort of ex girlfriend stopped being sexual a week ago. She said she wasn’t ready for a relationship. But she’s been texting and calling nonstop since it happened. Got super jealous when she saw I was talking to other women. At this point, she could have me if she wanted me. She wants to meet up this weekend. We’ll see. At this point I haven’t even stopped the nonstop communication
I need to man up and probably start posting pics of myself with gorgeous women in public/group settings.
They still talking to you? what happened
@@Tristan-fh5ui still stalking my social media. I deleted her. Didn’t block. I don’t gaf what she sees me doing
@@I.E.I.E. This is a move to try to make her jealous. If you want her back it won't work.
This man is saving lives 🫡.
You are doing gods work with broken hearts. God bless you!
Now im in LDR this you say on video happens to me we broke up last October and she move to another city for a new job and she contact me almost every day until april then i try to see and talk to her in the phone and she says to me in this moment she dont want to reconcile our relationship and i say to her we have to stop contact its other and i say what you say in the video i unfriend her from my social and going to no contact, after 3 months she contact me to ask me about a mutual friend she has a car accident we speak only for this for 3-4 times for a week about and then she disappeared again ... I continue my no contact
It’s been 3 days since he broke up
With me. I immediately went into
No contact. Neither of us has removed our pictures/names from IG bios nor have we unfollowed/removed the other person. I’m
Not sure what to think/make of the fact that he broke up with me but still has everything up including our pictures from when he proposed…
What to do when ex keeps sending memes through Social Media, and what does this mean?
My ex is confusing 🙈 texting I'm thinking of you. We catch up few weeks later for me to take my stuff then when I'm there his cold and absent. Then he offers to drop my stuff to my place later on in a week.
What about if they DM you a meme to your instagram, do you open it, do you like, or even reply to it? (Keep in mind - there’s no contact happening)
My first day of no contact after 4 years together 2 years of marriage I don’t care if he comes back or not
What about this reach out. Hi I hope you’re well and everything is going your way. Then I answered the same to you and she never wrote back three weeks later I wrote to her but blew it
Question please. When does no contact really count? For example I stated it immediately but i would go every 2 weeks to see how he was and his kids for like 2 months until Finally I stopped and it's been 7 weeks I have not broken it but he has with like you said testing the waters I'm assuming because it was for random things that he didn't have to reach out for
Did it count when I first started it or 7 weeks ago ? Ofcourse my responses were short but polite
Thank you so much for your videos. Would you mind doing a video on not only how to get an ex back, but how to get an ex back ready to commit(propose)?
How long were you together before the breakup?
@@blacademic almost a year, about 11 months
@@danilaroche1156 thank you for your advice. I’d appreciate your prayers. Yes I am very much a Christian, once again thank you 🙏🏽 I receive your prayers
My ex was writing with me alot. Watched almost all my stories. Said he feels like we are connected. Shared some personal details about himself. Was warm. Then said I shoult tell him if I want sec. Then I acted very stupid and went to him. Had sex. And after that he said I better go home. I left but said it's not ok. After that he didn't answer my message. And hasn't watched my stories since. I am devastated.
I don't know what to do anymore. Could You give me some advice, please?🙏
I just got out of the hospital after almost dieing. I really can not afford 1on1 session. And I'm very desperate allready, because he's moving out of our apt building in 1 and half months.
What if he is texting me every few days asking me questions that he already has answers to? Or calling me to ask for help like he needs a jumpstart? I politely answer and don’t text anymore. He stops texting after I respond. I don’t understand what he is doing? I started NC a month ago. He said he has a lot going on which he does I know this for sure and he needs to get through this before anything. So I had to pull back and decided no contact would be best. I’m just so confused. Anyone have any advice? Oh and I have ZERO social media. Is that a good or bad thing?
Please can you tell me I didn’t understand the meaning of getting together when you said asking them to get together you mean just meet in person or you ask them to restart the relationship and you said at the end of the video if they don’t accept to get together that means that they are breadcrumbing us ? Please answer to this question iam from North Africa English is not my first language thank you coach ❤
Coach please answer this I am in no contact for 3 months but the problem is she is my classmate we come face to face daily but I don't talk with and try to avoid as much as I can I am not talking with her at all she just see me everyday is No Contact working or not?
3 months broken up, 2 weeks no contact. He's called 3 times asking how I am and when he's going to see my new car lmao. 3rd time I straight out said "is it my car you want to see or me"? He said "well your car isn't going to come on its own". Smh. So he mumbled and stuttered something about his schedule and being free Saturday, I said OK, but he didn't give me a time. So I didn't say anything, just said I have to go because I have something to do. So let's see what happens next.
what happend?❤
My ex left me for her ex boyfriend of 6 years 1 week later there engaged he even knew about me left me Sunday Monday there going out next Sunday there engaged we where together for 5 months she had 5 years with him she was single for 8 months we became boyfriend and girl after the third months I see no hope of her coming back not even coach can help me
Dude. If she dumped ME. I am not reaching out from no contact or fixing what SHE broke. Its on HER. Im not gonna ignore or reject but its on that person to chase to earn YOU back. Plus who wants trust a person that bailed on you for weeks or months to be with someone else. Lots holes this logic coaching here but good luck for those whom use & it works
She asked me if I wanted my guitar back, I got there and she asked me in for a drink, we talked a bit and I said I had to leave we had a long hug and I kissed her on the cheek, I wanted to ask for a date but didn’t because I didn’t want to over chase , I texted her after that it was good to see her, she said it was good to see me too, I let the convo die and I plan on waiting till she reaches out again , I feel like I should have asked her out on a date , is it too late?
After 4 weeks of NC she started to do indirects approach on her WhatsApp stories. So yesterday i publicate a small picture of the place we meet the first time, guess i was a little reactive... Dont know what to do next...
Does this work if you dumped the person but want them back?
I have noticed my ex friend came back from no contact by starring at me and smiling but won’t approach me in public. She did write a mean letter for no contact it seems like she’s not interested anymore. What is your advice to get her interested again with the no contact?
What if I was a remorseful guy who called and pleaded right after getting dumped but then I went no contact for a week. She got upset that I went no contact. I told her that I was giving her the space that she wanted and then reminded her that weren't an item anymore. How do I handle this?
Stay in no contact until she reaches out to meet up. She's bread crumbing you.
Coach blac, will being friends with an ex buy time from your ex moving on to someone new? I know it would be inevitable that they rebound eventually but I feel like it would delay it. I would not be able to go back to them if they came back after a rebound. I would just feel like a 2nd option and would not accept that.
Being friends is not a good idea
She would be trying to friend zone you. Or watch what you're doing.
dude is on step 2 - indirect/direct. he IM’d me about a work question and he did keep it at just that. is it worth even responding to though? again in the future? cause then isn’t he using me?
Hi coach blac i was in a relationship for 4 yaears after the breakup i made all the wrong moves and chased we were still talking and she came to drop off my keys she told me she had been seeing someone it had only been 4 weeks since she left me after that i wished her well and went into no contact she reached out about 2 weeks later but it seemed it was just to tie up loose ends it has now been a futher 3 weeks and she has an official relationship posted on fb have i lost the love of my life ?
been 6mnths in NC, shud i reach out to my ex coach
Definitely!
@blacademic My ex who blindsided me unblocked me after 4 months saying that cheated on me and was asking for friendship. I said no. So he gaslighted me for 1 hr and blocked me again. Will he reach out again?
My ex was suicidal, i blocked her then unblocked her just in case she needs help , sometimes unblocking is not an indirect message to an ex it's just being empath i guess .
Maybe I'm wrong 😅
She breaked up with me...all bcos she was saying I don't trust her.And again I texted her younger sis,cux her sister sometimes her mum uses her fone so she didn't want me to do that. Buh before dis she made me aware of that. And I texted her sister to check out something on her
why do they block you some places on social media but not all
Does all this work if your married me and my wife separately 6 weeks ago we have two kids I have to contact regarding the kids we have agreed to only speak about the kids but I am struggling with this what do I do.
Dear Coach...I had commented on a previous video, I have been flowing no contact for 38 days...I was blocked all the time...but after 38 days I have been blocked...please tell me what to understand