@@illum1n8teddif you think leaving humans behind is the only legacy I disagree. Ask Jeffrey Dahmer’s parents. Some people are bringing devils into this world just to have a legacy.
I'm 47 , divorced, no kids. There are pros and cons. Pros: Being at peace Drama free Being free to do whatever Cons: Feeling lonely at times Growing old alone. Having no one to bury you and/or having the fear of dying alone or becoming sick and ending up in some home with strangers wiping your azz for you etc.
I’m 53 and very successful, happy, no kids, home owner, enjoy traveling and staying at nice hotels…..I’m enjoying my peaceful life and very happy staying single having lots of money. 😊😊😊
Brother is on point. I had two children in my late-tweenties. I should of waited until I was more mature in age. When the women you had bonded with makes off with what y'all produced it really make getting to that state of success and value much more difficult. A lesson learned from life.
Im 37 going on 38 and 40 is just right around the corner. I just now earned enough money at 36 to live a decent lifestyle and pay back my student loans. My projection for the future is 1 or 2 children before 50 and a wife. Right now my priorities are build my organization under the radar and leave behind a legacy like the bush family. Todays, modern women are not marriage material. I was always taught men are on financial clock at 21 and women on a biological clock once they hit the wall at 30. I feel no pressure to marry or have children in 2024. I do realize time is passing by but i do not want to rush into a serious marriage until i get my passport, buy a home, and start my organization.
@@illum1n8teddPeace and blessings to you brother your video came up in my RUclips recommendations. The times have changed in the dating, and marriage market. I blame feminism and capitalism which it makes it extremely harder to find the Proverbs 31 woman. Modern woman are not into LOVE anymore they want financial security. Black men we gotta play the game theory of marriage and children like chess not checkers cause these family courts are killing black families. Thanks for the video.
Men in their 40's have geriatric swimmers. 😂 Look it up it's a medical term. I'd never risk my life to have children for a man in his 40's. Men are in their reproductive prime in their 20's NOT their 40's and 50's. 🥴
Tom Brady can't win? It seems to me like he is arguably the greatest winner ever. You must be talking about can he be perfect, which of course doesn't exist.
The problem with this is that a lot of men thinks this applies to every woman. Men nowadays treat all women the same. Women are not a one size fits all. This is where they end up missing out on a good woman following this type of advice and using it on every woman.
@@kenyattathompson6685 I said what I said. If you don’t like it scroll to the next comment section. No one shamed men. I simply made a factual statement.
Blame women not men. We don't care no more. Figure it out 🤓 A lot of men have been raised by single mothers so how are they going to tell what a good women is when they believe they goofy ass momma is 1?. You BW never place yourself in men's shoes that's why we gon start treating y'all like men
You don't have the pick of the litter. I'd never have children for a man in his 40's. Not sure why middle aged men with one foot in the grave always think they are spring chickens. 😂
A flag is a flag. They come in all categories. And not all flags are bad. Flags just represent something. Know what they may represent and just be grateful for them.
Not a red flag at all. You dont have to like or be with anyone if you dont want to period. Everything is temporary anyway in this big aquarium/loosh farm called earth.
I just got out of a 3 month relationship today so I'm back to being smart lol. it's a shame in this day and age we have to feel like we have to avoid them at all cost smh. I'm 49 one child never married and single.
@@kenyattathompson6685 When I was in my 20's, I would have never dated men in their 40's. I thought they were TOO old and considered them Dirty Old Men.
Early 40’s…never married…never put on child support…never divorced and put in a blender. Would love kids one day but I’m not indoctrinated to need to check in with a woman. The system is rigged! Would love to have a woman in my corner but don’t need one. Chuuuuch!
If you want kids why don't you adopt? Oh yeah because men only want children when there is a house slave around to do all the physical labor of taking care of said child. 🤣😂😂🤣
In my opinion, it's a loss either way dealing with then for all the reasons you mentioned ie: promiscuous, not loyal if 50/50 they won't respect you. If you pay 100% there's countless cade studies to date about infidelity on their part because ie: " he worked too much, didn't show me enough attention etc" just look at celebs etc. And that whole notion of them waiting @ the finish line to do all the aforementioned after making fun of you on the come up. Its best to stay single or leave the country
Muddbaby, I worked on myself paid attention to the emotions of everything I went thru. I broke my generational curses. Plus I woke up out the matrix. 35 no kids dnt want non cause I can see
@@illum1n8tedd Manifestation isn't a theory nor is it an hypothesis. I don't believe a man at any age should leverage manifestation. Also, the logic in the video is solid, but I could never live that life. Seems like a miserable existence to me.
I dont agree with your Red Flags statement...Im 47 years old & single & at peace! The good Lord place me to be alone to spend more time with him! He separated me from a narcissistic female that I had a relationship for 10 years. I wasn't going continue to commit sin with her without being married! The Lord has a place for everybody. It may not be my purpose to be married or whatever. My purpose maybe different. I have a niece & nephew that need me after my brother passed away & they are fatherless. Now, I'm their father & they will inherent the fruits of my labor because my brother couldn't. So, I dont agree with what you are saying. Also, the Bible says: Romans 8:38-39 THE LORD WILL GIVE ME A HELPER AT THE RIGHT TIME, JUST NOT NOW!
See when you meet these women they start off good later on down the line they looking for too much out of me when she don't have nothing it's just like a battery Ben drain out is kind of tricky out here everyone I like that independent on what is she looking for does she have a job do you have a job you can take it and put it together and make something happen
Will Americans are obese 61% of the population so who you going to grow old with in your second half of life that's physically fit we got to make this make sense most 40 year olds on pharmaceuticals high blood pressure sugar diabetes so on and so on look at them 40 and up
@illum1n8tedd even if everything do go well in a relationship 65% of American women are obese so you going to run into health problems even if everything going smooth because the lack of exercise and diet what woman can you really go grow old with in to your 90s only the gym women order vegan women I promise you you're going to get what you want but she going to be fat AKA thick
I believe over all Pops was making a distinction between hypergamy - and team work to succeed in the current economy. This ties into having realistic expectations in the dating pool while understanding the amortization clock of how long it takes to acquire wealth and why men over 40 have a more stable foundation vs a young on the hustle 20 - early 30 year old man on average. These clear understandings help rationalize the different finacial levels in the separate age brackets. In conclusion if you want to build together and have equity in over time growth with your partner picking in the earlier age bracket is ideal. If you want overnight success picking older is ideal but both have their pros and cons. I hope this cleared that up for you.
I’m 72 and single, never married… no problems
Wishing you many blessings and peace 🙏🏾
You didn't miss nothing sir😅 salute🫡
60 here, never married, no kids, retired army, retired post office, life is good.
@@Kelvin-H.😮😮 Retired from the military and Post office!! Retirement package is elite
Any kids?
SINGLE MEN OVER THE AGE OF 4O ARE THE MOST SMARTEST THING IN THE WORLD
They have the experience
AGREED 👊🏾👊🏾
Why? Also, how about single dads over 40? Even more of a red flag I say!
47 single, no kids, never married and enjoying my life, traveling the world, and stacking my money
Many blessings to you
@@DealwiththeReal 👍
44, single, no kids, happy and abundant
@@DevilsAdvocate619 Many blessings to you 🙏🏾
i just made 44 no felonies or children "Life is great"...🎉🎉🎉
I approve this message lol. If you can't find a woman who adds to your life, stay single.
I'm single 49 and no kids. I am happy as ever. No drama in my life.
That's great to hear, do you want to leave a legacy?
@illum1n8tedd how do figure he hasn't left a legacy?
@@illum1n8teddif you think leaving humans behind is the only legacy I disagree. Ask Jeffrey Dahmer’s parents. Some people are bringing devils into this world just to have a legacy.
Children are not a legacy
You leave a legacy for your children
Not the same
SMART MAN 💪🏾💪🏾
I'm 47 , divorced, no kids. There are pros and cons.
Pros:
Being at peace
Drama free
Being free to do whatever
Cons:
Feeling lonely at times
Growing old alone.
Having no one to bury you and/or having the fear of dying alone or becoming sick and ending up in some home with strangers wiping your azz for you etc.
It's all about give and take. Sacrifices
Believe it or not
Even if you get married all your fears may still happen
There are no guarantees in life
@@kenyattathompson6685 knowing my luck? You're probably absolutely right! Lolbvs
Get a dog
50. Single. No kids. Never married.
Blessings to you 🙏🏾
SMART MAN
I’m 53 and very successful, happy, no kids, home owner, enjoy traveling and staying at nice hotels…..I’m enjoying my peaceful life and very happy staying single having lots of money. 😊😊😊
Im 47 single no kids and living my best life
🙏🏾
Im 42 single in shape chilling living a peaceful life
Peace of mind
Same here!
That Charlie Sheen , saying, I'm not paying them for sex, I'm paying them to leave directly after the sex
The symmetry about it all
Spoken like a true trick
Always better to rent than buy at my age, become a passport bro and meet foreign fit, fun, friendly, feminine women…
Me too. 👍👍👍👍
Now that is just uninelligent to be a lifelong renter
Brother is on point. I had two children in my late-tweenties. I should of waited until I was more mature in age. When the women you had bonded with makes off with what y'all produced it really make getting to that state of success and value much more difficult. A lesson learned from life.
@BronzeAcanic we live and we learn
Very true
Unfortunately most younger guys can’t afford financially what they want…
@@hump1953 true
They still smashing woman in their 30’s that don’t mind spending money on them if u for smoothness about yourself.
47 years old. I keep in shape, keep working towards my future and do better than I deserve
That's a blessing 🙏🏾
@@illum1n8tedd gota keep in shape and try dress well, especially as getting older
This is that grown man heavy hitter conversation, keep giving it straight with no chaser, keep your foot on the gas.
@Kelvin-H. Pops appreciates That
Brother D keeping it grown and clean! Love it!!
@@charlesudoh7214 👍🏾
39 and no kids feels good 🧱🏦
43yr black man never been married no kids atacking paper but bw say we don't exist 😮
Im 37 going on 38 and 40 is just right around the corner. I just now earned enough money at 36 to live a decent lifestyle and pay back my student loans. My projection for the future is 1 or 2 children before 50 and a wife. Right now my priorities are build my organization under the radar and leave behind a legacy like the bush family. Todays, modern women are not marriage material. I was always taught men are on financial clock at 21 and women on a biological clock once they hit the wall at 30. I feel no pressure to marry or have children in 2024. I do realize time is passing by but i do not want to rush into a serious marriage until i get my passport, buy a home, and start my organization.
Many blessings to you
@@illum1n8teddPeace and blessings to you brother your video came up in my RUclips recommendations. The times have changed in the dating, and marriage market. I blame feminism and capitalism which it makes it extremely harder to find the Proverbs 31 woman. Modern woman are not into LOVE anymore they want financial security. Black men we gotta play the game theory of marriage and children like chess not checkers cause these family courts are killing black families. Thanks for the video.
Men in their 40's have geriatric swimmers. 😂 Look it up it's a medical term. I'd never risk my life to have children for a man in his 40's. Men are in their reproductive prime in their 20's NOT their 40's and 50's. 🥴
If Tom Brady can’t win, none of us can.
Tom Brady can't win? It seems to me like he is arguably the greatest winner ever. You must be talking about can he be perfect, which of course doesn't exist.
@ Bot
The problem with this is that a lot of men thinks this applies to every woman. Men nowadays treat all women the same. Women are not a one size fits all. This is where they end up missing out on a good woman following this type of advice and using it on every woman.
It's not every women I assure you
Women treat men the same way
Got to stop shaming men for protecting themselves
@@kenyattathompson6685 I said what I said. If you don’t like it scroll to the next comment section. No one shamed men. I simply made a factual statement.
Blame women not men. We don't care no more. Figure it out 🤓 A lot of men have been raised by single mothers so how are they going to tell what a good women is when they believe they goofy ass momma is 1?. You BW never place yourself in men's shoes that's why we gon start treating y'all like men
Time to go to the Philippines bro. Let them 304 be 304. Love self.
40 plus and single is not a red flag but a green flag. Inner peace ,all ur bread, no headaches. U have the pick of the litter...🎉
You don't have the pick of the litter. I'd never have children for a man in his 40's. Not sure why middle aged men with one foot in the grave always think they are spring chickens. 😂
When I was in my 20's I would have never gone out with someone twice my age. I considered them DIRTY OLD MEN!
A flag is a flag. They come in all categories. And not all flags are bad. Flags just represent something. Know what they may represent and just be grateful for them.
Very true
Keep speaking facts brother.
I can spray seed till I'm 70. Can you deliver past 40???
True players don't bring jumpoffs to the crib
100
In 48 single, no family and it’s a tragedy
This video says it all…I’m 52, he’s on point… thanks bruh
Pops says thank you
I didn't listen... then I learned the hard way, TWICE.
It takes a fool to learn that love don't love nobody lol
Damn Right!
I’m 40 and cool being single if I get married cool if not I’m cool either way.Much love and respect for this message
Not a red flag at all. You dont have to like or be with anyone if you dont want to period. Everything is temporary anyway in this big aquarium/loosh farm called earth.
Agreed
Keep them coming. Your really tapped in right now.
@@SnuggleSquadCentral thank you
I just got out of a 3 month relationship today so I'm back to being smart lol. it's a shame in this day and age we have to feel like we have to avoid them at all cost smh. I'm 49 one child never married and single.
Single men over 40 something don't need to be dating someone in they early 20s. Unless you wanna feel older lol
😂
Stop policing men’s choices
Worry about your own
Get off men's D goofy bop. Value your vagina. Simple
@@kenyattathompson6685 When I was in my 20's, I would have never dated men in their 40's. I thought they were TOO old and considered them Dirty Old Men.
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 good for you
Others love life differently
Im over 40 & single! Just got land & im a home owner! No problems what so ever!😊
Love offerings 😅. Similar to the parting gifts Derrick Jeter used to give women.
Single men over 40 are happy ASF, we have more option as we get older than women.
Early 40’s…never married…never put on child support…never divorced and put in a blender. Would love kids one day but I’m not indoctrinated to need to check in with a woman. The system is rigged! Would love to have a woman in my corner but don’t need one. Chuuuuch!
If you want kids why don't you adopt? Oh yeah because men only want children when there is a house slave around to do all the physical labor of taking care of said child. 🤣😂😂🤣
Money is how we keep score in this game called life.
Very true
Keep score??
@josebro352 Yes. In the black community we have all of these mfs trying to lead from the bottom; and they always broke.
I'm 45
Single guy No kids
Debt free
😂
Get my pension in 8 years
Full retirement 25 years on the job
That debt free / financial freedom Is what we're pushing over here.
In my opinion, it's a loss either way dealing with then for all the reasons you mentioned ie: promiscuous, not loyal if 50/50 they won't respect you. If you pay 100% there's countless cade studies to date about infidelity on their part because ie: " he worked too much, didn't show me enough attention etc" just look at celebs etc. And that whole notion of them waiting @ the finish line to do all the aforementioned after making fun of you on the come up. Its best to stay single or leave the country
I say call it “hook up offering” haha
51 single no kids , no wife . Life s good
Ill add a comment. I am 51, never married no kids. Single man enjoying life.
Muddbaby, I worked on myself paid attention to the emotions of everything I went thru. I broke my generational curses. Plus I woke up out the matrix. 35 no kids dnt want non cause I can see
Breaking generational curses 🙏🏾
I’m single and I’m good straight up 💯
👍🏾
Solid logic, though at the same time it seems like a hard way to live. Especially, for someone in their 40s/50s that may live to 80+ years of age.
Finding your peace is the way everything else you need will manifest it self accordingly
@@illum1n8tedd Manifestation isn't a theory nor is it an hypothesis. I don't believe a man at any age should leverage manifestation. Also, the logic in the video is solid, but I could never live that life. Seems like a miserable existence to me.
He talking about hoes not women
I wasn’t put here to sponsor perfectly capable adults or pay for their mistakes. You didn’t want me on my grind, why should I take you on in my prime?
That's everyones gaining topic
The strategy is great it's a beautiful thing it's best used overseas I wouldn't do it in the US that's my personal opinion
Hump1953, congratulations to you. Nice peaceful life.
You aswell 🙏🏾
Preach my brotha
🙏🏾
We are here for it.
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY NO CAPPING
That's true, to eachs own
What is he talking about ?
53yr old White man single no kids never married.
I stopped counting my conquests after 50 count
Ok preach brother get chu a tv show lol I subscribed get us together lol
🙏🏾
Thank you for the subscription more on the way
I dont agree with your Red Flags statement...Im 47 years old & single & at peace!
The good Lord place me to be alone to spend more time with him!
He separated me from a narcissistic female that I had a relationship for 10 years. I wasn't going continue to commit sin with her without being married!
The Lord has a place for everybody. It may not be my purpose to be married or whatever. My purpose maybe different.
I have a niece & nephew that need me after my brother passed away & they are fatherless. Now, I'm their father & they will inherent the fruits of my labor because my brother couldn't.
So, I dont agree with what you are saying.
Also, the Bible says: Romans 8:38-39
THE LORD WILL GIVE ME A HELPER AT THE RIGHT TIME, JUST NOT NOW!
We're glad you found peace
Yes single over 40 women feel the same sir I will wait on God i know I'm a good woman with a good heart ❤️
What happens if l get dervoced then want to marry again?
Have to do the re marry process
44 single with one daughter that’s 23.
50 single happy it's a stressless world brother's I traveled,a bag, investment, property 4 vehicle's..I forgot about my passport.
Can't forget the passport lol
@@illum1n8tedd damn Skippy 😂
I’m 35 and single no kids
Gotta leave that legacy
Hey bro, try not to promote fornication.. it will lead to spiritual death 😢
Get the women while building
@canadianbrotv1303 smartest way to do it
No I will select who I want when I want
They Just Players🤗
Know Dat😎
Game recognize game
@@illum1n8tedd
See Ya Later😌
Cause Baby I'ma Playa🤗
N All I Heard Was😎
Pump n Dump
Hammer time
🙏🏾
See when you meet these women they start off good later on down the line they looking for too much out of me when she don't have nothing it's just like a battery Ben drain out is kind of tricky out here everyone I like that independent on what is she looking for does she have a job do you have a job you can take it and put it together and make something happen
These woman have a price, but what are you getting in return
Im a single getting on with my life flag
Lol
Will Americans are obese 61% of the population so who you going to grow old with in your second half of life that's physically fit we got to make this make sense most 40 year olds on pharmaceuticals high blood pressure sugar diabetes so on and so on look at them 40 and up
Health is wealth
@illum1n8tedd even if everything do go well in a relationship 65% of American women are obese so you going to run into health problems even if everything going smooth because the lack of exercise and diet what woman can you really go grow old with in to your 90s only the gym women order vegan women I promise you you're going to get what you want but she going to be fat AKA thick
I was going to disagree with but u 100% correct . But must bw cant play that role right
Give us your opinion on why but make a video and react to it if possible just tag us
@@illum1n8tedd I miss understood the title 1 . But I glad I listen to the whole thing .
Are you talking about being a sugar daddy?
I believe over all Pops was making a distinction between hypergamy - and team work to succeed in the current economy. This ties into having realistic expectations in the dating pool while understanding the amortization clock of how long it takes to acquire wealth and why men over 40 have a more stable foundation vs a young on the hustle 20 - early 30 year old man on average. These clear understandings help rationalize the different finacial levels in the separate age brackets. In conclusion if you want to build together and have equity in over time growth with your partner picking in the earlier age bracket is ideal. If you want overnight success picking older is ideal but both have their pros and cons. I hope this cleared that up for you.
I dont mind trickin.....not at all.
This !! 😅
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This is a super cope video. 😂😂
Dude you trippin.....
Please elaborate on how.
🩷. Great information 🩷. Nice Video 🩷. Thank you. 🩷. 666
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I'm 45 and I don't feed Hyena's.... 🥃🥃🥃🫗😎
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