John Bradshaw on Moral Intelligence Living Smart with Patricia Gras

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • Author, counselor, theologian and lecturer John Bradshaw discusses his newest book, Reclaiming Virtue, the definition of virtue and how to live life with moral intelligence. Referencing his own experiences as a former seminarian and recovered alcoholic, Bradshaw takes these theological and philosophical concepts and applies them to our everyday lives. Bradshaw draws on decades of psychological, social, and theological expertise he has used in numerous lectures and previous books.

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  • @katesage3221
    @katesage3221 5 лет назад +25

    If only she could have listened and let this great man express his thoughts. He helped so many people. RIP John Bradshaw 🙏

    • @johnphillipsplumbing7148
      @johnphillipsplumbing7148 2 года назад +2

      I thought the same thing,she's got issues,he could have helped her

    • @marysial7
      @marysial7 Год назад

      Patricia Gras ...hopefully you see these comments and you learned to listen...instead of constantly talking over Mt Bradshaw

  • @holdmeback47
    @holdmeback47 12 лет назад +7

    Bradshaw is just wonderful. a nice man and a genius.

  • @marycull3607
    @marycull3607 11 лет назад +13

    She just does not follow his train of thought. He truly is Master of his own emotions. Well balanced.

  • @morgan886
    @morgan886 8 лет назад +38

    Great interview of John. Sure wish she didn't keep talking over him.

  • @bellebeauty67
    @bellebeauty67 2 года назад +4

    It would have been more soothing for this listener if Patricia Gras had allowed Mr. Bradshaw to speak uninterrupted.

  • @anabronte8010
    @anabronte8010 9 лет назад +28

    Great author, John Bradshow. The unskilled interviewer made the video less desirable to watch.

  • @justine4115
    @justine4115 12 лет назад +13

    Healing the Shame that Binds you helped me change many many aspects of my wounded life over 20 years ago. Now, at aged 42, and many books, therapy sessions, groups, prayer and bible study, i'm joyful to announce that i have lots of Moral Intelligence and Virtue thanks to folks like you and the power of the Holy Spirit living in me. Thanks be to Jesus and our Heavenlly Father.

    • @tulinbeyduz920
      @tulinbeyduz920 7 лет назад +2

      Justine Koukoulis I could never follow the bible as the Old Testament is just a terrible wrathful god that allowed a lot of terrible things . Slavery , stoning killing of whole villiage .. :-( I have been heaps happier since replaces religion with kindness

    • @BeingMe23
      @BeingMe23 2 года назад +1

      @@tulinbeyduz920 I don't believe in God because it's Crutch. Someone asked me what I believe then? I said myself I am the only one that can effect change.

    • @markrichmond2168
      @markrichmond2168 Год назад

      @@BeingMe23so you have no crutches. Before you take your last breath you will be looking for a crutch.

  • @paulreider
    @paulreider 8 лет назад +15

    I saw John way back in the early 90's and I've kept up with his work ever since...what a gem of a man he will be missed RIP John, RIP...

  • @icedora
    @icedora 10 лет назад +2

    Cleaning solutions right after the talk on moral intelligence, way to go Patricia!!!!!

  • @icedora
    @icedora 10 лет назад +22

    Her "active listening " skills are irritating

    • @undyboy91
      @undyboy91 10 лет назад

      you weren't kidding

    • @GQElvie
      @GQElvie 6 лет назад

      agreed.. you wonder how these losers get to the point they get to

    • @manthonychavez
      @manthonychavez 4 года назад +1

      Bradshaw is a professional, not a teenager who needs her validation/reassurance.. lol

  • @In2MeUcU
    @In2MeUcU 11 лет назад +16

    She is not even listening to his answers. She is one thought ahead of him. She probably doesn't even realize it! :P

  • @sebastianhelm1718
    @sebastianhelm1718 7 лет назад +7

    she's like a family guy character with her strained frown

  • @gregfincher9433
    @gregfincher9433 7 лет назад +5

    People that grow up in a disfunction family’s are more aptly effected with PTSD in traumatic situations.

  • @jhbidwell
    @jhbidwell 14 лет назад +7

    Vintage John Bradshaw as we all need him, I can't wait to get the book.

  • @makaylahollywood3677
    @makaylahollywood3677 3 года назад +4

    I love this man.And, glad to have been exposed to all his teachings. An honorable human being.

  • @Zeuszgrl
    @Zeuszgrl 10 лет назад +16

    She's a terrible interviewer for him, she's trying way too hard !

    • @realisticthinking3490
      @realisticthinking3490 6 лет назад

      dont be rude she didnt have much time mr.bradshaw was known to talk a lot

  • @Whisky_Four-Three
    @Whisky_Four-Three 11 лет назад +3

    love watching and reading this man's stuff....I have a image in my mind of 92% of americans saying huhh whats this dude on about. What a quandary for them for him to have come from what they perceive as their ranks.

  • @johnnysprocketz
    @johnnysprocketz 3 года назад +2

    what a badass

  • @bburnsga
    @bburnsga 9 лет назад +17

    She is annoying, always talking over Dr. Bradshaw. I love hearing any & everything he has to say, as I learn SO much, but it's distracting how she talks over him.

  • @storybored972
    @storybored972 11 лет назад +2

    Prudence is a great virtue. It has nothing to do with "prudery," as prudence allows as much as it forbids. I think of it as moral good taste.

  • @clvanhorne7841
    @clvanhorne7841 6 лет назад +2

    LoVe BiG JOHNNY~!!!...He's in his CasTLe noW!! with Iousha...for tea & cookies...

  • @AprilWatters
    @AprilWatters 11 лет назад +1

    practice , PRESENCE,, BE Present,, Not too tight,, or Not too loose.

  • @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge
    @ThuyNguyen-bu9ge 8 лет назад +2

    "The life of happiness is the life of virtue." I agree. Every pain, suffering, and desperation I have is a result of lack of moral intelligence to make the virtuous decision. Thus increase of moral intelligence leads to increase in life's happiness and all the good that will blossom.

  • @DawnOfTheDead991
    @DawnOfTheDead991 11 лет назад +1

    Little to none rational thought went into your remark. The point I was making that you are unable to appreciate is that rationality is a mental schema that needs to be cultivated but our subconscious doesn't work on that level. I am sure you would make a great psychologist, "You sound illogical and irrational, get a grip on those wild thoughts and you'll be fine"

  • @rebecasalzman50
    @rebecasalzman50 Год назад

    The interviewer in my opinion could have done a better job in this presentation by allowing Mr. Bradshaw talk freely without interruptions.

  • @taylormccracken970
    @taylormccracken970 Год назад

    This lady is annoying me. She keeps interrupting him. Interviewer 101- listen more, speak and interrupt less.

  • @dasse1588
    @dasse1588 4 месяца назад

    This man has lived it .He's taught it; studied to be a priest and therapist.

    • @dasse1588
      @dasse1588 4 месяца назад

      She keeps interrupting him though

  • @joefox9765
    @joefox9765 11 месяцев назад

    I'm glad John had the intelligence enough to talk over that narcissist

  • @65sm
    @65sm Месяц назад

    What an annoying interviewer talking over John! Sheesh….

  • @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939
    @robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 2 года назад

    Brilliant man, he helped no many baby boomers!!!

  • @DawnOfTheDead991
    @DawnOfTheDead991 11 лет назад +1

    Our minds don't work on a rational level

  • @bobeden5027
    @bobeden5027 3 месяца назад

    Everyone has an inner moral compass, hey?

  • @margaretsmith5119
    @margaretsmith5119 Год назад

    Right Right Right Right. Really Patricia

  • @tabm2u
    @tabm2u Год назад

    RIP John Bradshaw. You are an inspiration. May your legacy live on for all generations to come! I wish I could express my gratitude for your work and how it has changed me,my perspective and my parenting values. There are no words. I am so grateful for you!

  • @AprilWatters
    @AprilWatters 11 лет назад

    YOGA,, the breath lets you know when you're pushing to much or Not enough. You should be able to take a Deep Breath in any Posture in life. Let go of Struggle,, but don't be complacent

  • @bobeden5027
    @bobeden5027 3 месяца назад

    Stop interrupting him!

  • @zytigon
    @zytigon 12 лет назад +1

    interesting ideas, thanks

  • @LightBumble
    @LightBumble 11 лет назад +1

    We agree with you. :-)

  • @roslynr9767
    @roslynr9767 2 года назад

    Absolutely an extraordinary man! I wish I could have told him personally how he changed my life.There has not been anyone who has been able to speak of shame as he did!

  • @agustingdelvalle6003
    @agustingdelvalle6003 2 года назад

    edit her out

  • @jillianclemmons
    @jillianclemmons Год назад

    When he said the missing link is emotions, I just loved him.

  • @sSunbeamM
    @sSunbeamM 9 лет назад +3

    moral perfection in "geting angry at the right person at the right time" is easy: just don't be angry at any body any time. Jesus was the only one. turn the other cheek he said! .. that's what Jeez said

    • @sSunbeamM
      @sSunbeamM 9 лет назад

      sSunbeamM of course you have to release your anger and rage in order to connect to the underlying fear and grieve. but you don't need somebody to adress it or project onto. it just inflicts fear and the idea that he deserves to be punished an motivated by fear to do or to stop something. that's no moral perfection. That'S not loving. moral perfection is: being loving ALL the time. and not decide when it's justifyed to be unloving... NEVER... and it's not about justice it'S about wheather it damages your own an others souls. every unloving act damages you own soul and the soul of the others.
      it's soo fucking simple but so hard to live in Love constantly. just because we have emotional reactions because fear is still inside us (false believe systems) and needs to be corrected. everytime you choose to be angry at somebody, you chosse to avoid healing your soul and think about why you even get angry.. why fear do you want to cover? the fear of death? the fear of the death of your own children?

    • @sSunbeamM
      @sSunbeamM 8 лет назад

      ***** just unexpected and unmistakable demonstration of self love in my opinion feels like hatret to other people. without you being angry at all :)
      anger rather shows your LACK of self-love... because you somehow feel deep inside you, you deeserve this treatment.. that's how you lost your ability to speak up and ask in that situation "honestly, do you want to die..?" or something like that... without the intention of killing somebody of course :)
      that also applys (in my opinion) to the situation when somebody smiles at you and expects you to smily back (for example when somebody is flirting with your girlfriend), because you seem to have learned you deserve to get expectations towards "being happy or nice" ... but all ecpectations are unloving. a wish is not an expectation. unfullfilled expectations lead to frustration (more or less) or condescention and you get blamed for the frustration (everythign unclear(?) :) )... a wish is not like that.

  • @jihaeyeom4126
    @jihaeyeom4126 7 лет назад

    I saw behind her buda.

  • @lanceaugust
    @lanceaugust 6 лет назад +7

    She interrupts him: she is a terrible host and interviewer.

    • @AndreChandler
      @AndreChandler 4 года назад

      Yes, I completely agree. He's a legend. Its insulting to be interrupted like this!

  • @SuperScreamingEagle
    @SuperScreamingEagle 14 лет назад

    @jkbidwell yes.

  • @nacholibre1962
    @nacholibre1962 5 лет назад +2

    3:57 You never had an actual relationship with god. You were just going through the motions You are a humanist with no connection to your creator and therefore have to make it up yourself.

  • @nick8252
    @nick8252 Год назад

    10:00

  • @agustingdelvalle6003
    @agustingdelvalle6003 2 года назад

    an interrupting interview

  • @mudchair16
    @mudchair16 7 лет назад +1

    lol 500,000 my ass.

  • @Snoopies622
    @Snoopies622 4 года назад +3

    Love Bradshaw but goodness that woman needs to shut up.

  • @sSunbeamM
    @sSunbeamM 9 лет назад

    18:11 chicken alert 18:12

  • @spoken48
    @spoken48 4 года назад +2

    She's too annoying. I can't watch anymore.

  • @LightBumble
    @LightBumble 11 лет назад

    You're ego problems are worse then his. Pull the plank out of your own eye. Now that is a rational thought!!

  • @LightBumble
    @LightBumble 11 лет назад

    Actually if you look at your comments, you can see you're the angry and need attention. The words you use show how angry you are. And obviously you need attention. Perhaps you should work on fixing your own hangups?