John Bradshaw and Patrick Carnes: Together One More Time
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- Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2016
- Two giants in the field of recovery, John Bradshaw and Patrick Carnes, have labored separately and together to empower sexual health in people. Over a decade they did workshops together, called Sexual Shame: the Agony and the Ecstasy. Both were known for their inspiration and entertaining presentations.
They reunited for an evening to support the Houston Council on Addictions sponsored by the Meadows in Wickenburg where both have served as Senior Fellows for years. Production support came from the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP) and the American Foundation for Addiction Research (AFAR).
John Bradshaw died peacefully on May 8, 2016. His death in effect makes this not only the last time these two icons of recovery help appear together, but John’s last public appearance. John’s life, books, and example has touched many millions of people. His PBS series have been one of the widely watched public broadcasting programs ever. He has written many books which continue to be on best seller lists including classics such as Bradshaw on the Family, Healing the Shame that Binds Us, and Homecoming.
On behalf of the Council, the Meadows, IITAP, and AFAR, their staffs, members and alumni, we post this recording of his last moment in public life to honor all that he has done and was.
For more information on John and his life: www.johnbradshaw.com/
For more information on Patrick and his work: patrickcarnes.com/
During this talk the following were also mentioned:
The Houston Council on Recovery - www.councilonrecovery.org/
The Meadows - www.themeadows.com/
International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals - www.iitap.com/
American Foundation for Addiction Research - addictionresearch.com/
I am blessed to say John Bradshaw touched and change my life forever. A man that gave me tools to find the lost child that was struggling to survive in a very cruel world. The very first man that I can honestly say that I told that I loved him the first day I met him in person in Napa Ca. It felt like something I had never experienced. Rest In Peace John, I Love You Dearly..........................
Robert,
Thank you for your share.
I feel the exact same sentiments about two men;
John Bradshaw and Dr Charles Whitfield.
Completely changed my life.
Both handheld me to the truth.
Abdal-Jabbar Husayn
Manchester, UK.
I have followed John for about 35 yrs... He will be truly missed 🤗
A legend who helped many
What a legacy you have left John Bradshaw, so sad to hear of your passing.
These men are brave, humble, and hilarious. I am so grateful for their courage to do hard things, their shame resilience, and their service to world with their work.
May God rest John Bradshaw's soul. Thank you Mr Carnes for this video. God bless you too. John Bradshaw spoke the truth in his books and lectures and it is only the truth that can set us free. 'To thine own self be true'Abdal-Jabbar Husayn. Manchester. England. 2.2.2017.
I was privileged to see John Bradshaw live in Sydney. In a building at Sydney Uni. I have also been privileged to meet Pia Mellody in Sydney when she was guest at an alumni gathering. I also went to South Pacicfic Hospital in Sydney based on the treatment model of Pia Mellody. Thank you so much for including me indirectly in your work. How blessed am I.
In 1991 I started up a group basically on his ideas. It changed my life, especially when he said. There is no book that will heal what ails the Inner child. So true.
this has has opened my eyes forever. Good man. amen
Thanks for posting this, Pat. The book "Healing the Shame that Binds You" and a multiple cassette edition of "On the Family" introduced me to John Bradshaw, a great man who spoke truth to my core. I will miss him.
John Bradshaw, a truly lovely human being. I wish I could have shook his hand.
I SOOO miss you John. RIP.
Patrick Carnes' book "Out of the Shadows" is remarkably written. He needs ALL his books in audio form. All of them. Thank you. Many will listen who won't sit still and read. We listen at work. We take notes. Stop, reply, listen again. Bookmark significantly beautifully written bits that speak to us.
Listening more, I can see why John is beloved how he is. He has what is necessary to connect to with all, humor. He puts us at lease. Wonderful man. Great team. What a gift to mankind, both of them. I'm put all Carnes books into Audible's search engine, which I believe they moderate, so hopefully his will get recorded like John's.
Lust, Anger, Love by Maureen Canning needs to put into Audible's database, Kindle whisper-sync, too.
Can u pls give me link to download out of shadows .i tried so much to download this book but i can't.
I listened to it on Audible (go to Amazon.com then search Audible or download the Audible app (free) then search Out of Shadows. I then bought the Kindle version to have the printed words and my highlights. Money well spent. I just think ALL his books need recording. Audio works best to infiltrate our brains. We can read and re-read, but what you hear gets digested better, and faster.
Kathryn ok thank you.i think that their is download version of this book
Two Wonderful Godly Men
So blessed that i came upon Mr Bradshaws lectures and teachings
Remarkable man!!! RIP!!
Just discoveres Mr Carnes. Watched his lectures as well. Very helpful. Very wise men. Terry Kelloggs work is also good.
Thank you John, a truly great man.
I love and appreciate this man. I have attended a few workshops with him and a huge number of people in San Diego. I am so grateful! He also touched and changed my life forever as Robert Grisso stated in the comment before me.
Wise men! Thank you!
this man john Bradshaw has changed how I feel.....I thankyou for all what you left us......x god bless you....
Addiction is the side effect from a poorly regulated anxiety.
thank you,great
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I am so grateful to this channel ❤
I really want a copy of John Bradshaw's book, PRSD. I was born a little late but I really really really really want the book if anyone has it 😊
Thanks for this upload... Wise, compassionate, brilliant humans.
Wonderful!
I love 💕 John Bradshaw.. he’s been such a help in ref to healing ❤️🩹
He’s humorous too.😂
WOOOOOW WEEEEEEEEE TWO GREAT MEN.. I LOVE THIS THANK YOU ANGELA
I really enjoyed that you guys. R.I.P. Mr Bradshaw
Truly a brilliant man who helped me make peace with my inner child . Yazdi Kohiar
I have only just found you I am grateful for this🙏❤️
Very good keep it up
Thank you Thank you Thank you
so awesome
I only listened to the first minute of a guy saying what a great job they have done for Houston.
39:19 the will is a physical force. Can change your brain chemistry. The Mind and the Brain - Jeffrey M. Schwartz and Sharon Begley.
Very good point made at 1.05 .."singularity of purpose" versus a broad spectrum approach.'. I listen to Eckhart Tolle who I found helpful and he'd say there is only ONE issue. ONE underlying driving factor that leads to humanity's destructive, unconscious, reckless, behaviour. Human ego. It tells us "'we must experience MORE pleasure in order to survive"' driven by Dopamine etc. Fear does play a huge part. It (ego) appears to encompass ALL forms of addiction, and the downward spirals of humanity that afflict us. The recommendations/solutions are very similar in some ways. There has to be conscious awareness in order to stop. I think Dr Jeffrey Schwartz would agree. Thank you for this superb video. Both such wonderful speakers and so sorry to hear of Mr Bradshaw's demise.
I’m so surprised to see them up the wonderful author and head of the movement of adult children of alcoholics. I had him comfy and an ACL meeting at sold out and then I went to the cocktail party afterwards fighting in front of all human beings. I’m sorry that he’s gone. He made such a contribution to the ACOA tod children’s alcoholics.
HI PATRICK, ** DEAR CHANNEL ** THX FOR HAVING THESE...
WOULD I BE ABLE TO USE SEGMENTS IN MY RUclips CHANNEL??
PLEASE LET ME KNOW?
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I KNEW JOHN WE WERE GOOD FRIENDS,
HE WAS AN AMAZING HUMAN BEING. THANK YOU ANGELA
What date was this talk.
Its the first I have watched J Bradshaw. Discovered Carnes first but, another wonderful thinker on addiction
1:30:00 Those whom don't have their own reality will take on others.
Those whom don't respect themselves generally don't respect others.
40:27
The will is a physical force that can change the brain. You can create a new brain because of nuro-plasticity.
Believe that your will power can change your brain, and thus feeling and behaviour.
you act yourself into the right way of feeling and thinking.
Don't try to think yourself into right action.
🌿🌿🌿🌻🌻🌻🌹🌹🌹
Use will power to change yourself, not your partners.
Thanks John. 7 November 2023.💖💖💖🦋🦋🦋🦋🌷🌷🦆🦆
Amanda told me over the phone before she arrived in Stockton CA on Feb 10, 2003 that she went with her family to look at several Houston mental health places but she could not find any she wanted to go to.
What was the Breach book talked about around the 18:00 mark? I've looked for it but cannot find it.
For Houston and their people in recovery. Amanda was not a drug addict or alcoholic.
an 'Egalitarian social structure' has been worked historically to the reality that the result is separation / divisions that results in a break down socially of roles / beliefs that are outcome based to evaluate needed changes / needed changes to resolve harmful outcome(s) repeating to where we all are today ... stuck in harmful roles ... i.e. Healthy Coping Mechanisms need to be always at the forefront of needed change ...
I see Kids in Adult Clothing acting out a broken childhood everyday.
I do not know a single soul who was in her family or that knew her. Even after moving here to Austin Texas in Feb. 2015. I have found her grave. A woman on the phone from the funeral home also told me her mother died and is also buried there.
Excuse me? What did you all do for Amanda Cardillo?
3;20...John wiLL ALWAys be "...WiTh US!..".
was this his last public speaking event? im just finding him.
R.I.P.JOHN SAYS, (***DJ.DEB
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5/6/2020
She did not want me to talk to her sister in law but when I did her sister in law told me to take her to saint Joseph's behavioral health in Stockton because their insurance would cover her there. When I asked Amanda if she would let me take her there she got extremely upset. She said she wanted to go to the alanon meeting. I took her there. She did not want me to go in. So I picked her up after it was over.
1:00:00 Most people are too distracted trying their emotional needs met everyday, hour, minute and second...
Great lecture tons of interesting stuff.
I constantly kept notes.
One thing that didn't go down well is that the second speaker(in line) must leave obesity alone.
Talking about stg you clearly have done the work is better to b left out or say to all that you too have problem.
Sex based relationship is the side effect. From those not getting their emotional needs met as a child.
LoVe = reSPecT... 53-4 min...
Her sister in law said Amanda was overdrawn $900. She said Amanda's brother would come to Stockton on Friday. I did not tell Amanda I talked to her sister in law. I came home from work the next day and found Amanda dead. It looked like suicide. Her brother did not show up in Stockton the next day. But my brother had been sent by the trucking company he worked for on a load to a town 13 miles from Stockton. I think someone murdered Amanda and tried to pin it on my brother. Amanda told me she was afraid her sister in law's family was going to murder her.
beauTiFuL,...we ought do a how r u in heaven John ELLiot,..?
I just noticed a woman standing across the street at a grocery store a few days ago who looked like a woman who was in charge of the bank real estate department u worked for through a temp agency after I moved to Stockton in 98. I noticed she looked a lot like Amanda. The woman was also very much into women's golf. I am wondering if someone has not been trying to blackmail that woman and getting me mixed up with her. She sort of looks like a Kennedy.
The bank I worked for not u.
Someone capitalized the I as in eye and changed the I which is not possible to type a small case I on RUclips and it also changed the I that I typed to a u.
RUclips might also want to improve its website by allowing people to make edits on their comments.
@@privatedeletebuttongooglei5221 look for the 3 dots to the right of your comments ...there is an "edit" your comment option :)
I asked her if she wanted to go to San Joaquin Behavioral health several times and she said no . She did go with me to several 12 step meetings.
Someone changed the I to a u again in my comment below.
The bank was a different bank back then.
X
You have a President who would possibly do well in some form of recovery.
She was either murdered or committed suicide after trying to find therapy in several Houston mental health places between December 2002 and February sometime before February 10, 2003.
Washington Mutual Bank.
I talked to her sister in law while she was there. Now the payphone is destroyed I talked to her sister in law from on pacific in front of senior frogs in Stockton on pacific
She was an innocent 26 year old .