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  • Опубликовано: 20 сен 2024

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  • @sydneyice
    @sydneyice 2 дня назад +767

    There was an update on Story 4, CPS has been called the little sister has been removed from the mom's custody and placed in the dad's custody. Op is looking for a place out of town and she's not planning on telling any of her family where she's moving

    • @Nina-Kat
      @Nina-Kat 2 дня назад +89

      Good for her honestly. She really needs to be far away from her sister until she's get the help she needs. Still wouldn't let any animals around ever tho.

    • @kimkeith8170
      @kimkeith8170 День назад +12

      Amen!!!!! Good on her, this is exactly what needs to happen.

    • @kimkeith8170
      @kimkeith8170 День назад +30

      The mom needs MAJOR help!

    • @victoriavalenzuela5840
      @victoriavalenzuela5840 День назад +12

      I need the quote “my anxiety barely lets me date and it’s not going to let me be a home wrecker “ on a t-shirt please

    • @chairofbowlies10
      @chairofbowlies10 День назад +8

      Thank God, I am so livid for poor Arlo 🤬

  • @_paigeanna
    @_paigeanna 2 дня назад +531

    The story about the psychopath sister terrrriiiiiifies me. Am I the only one that sees this as a literal preface to a horror movie? Forget the sister, The MOM is literally TAKING her to OP's pet knowing that she killed the last one... calling and calling insisting that she allows her to see the pet.. why? Why is she so obsessed too? If you told me that this mom and daughter w doing some sacrificial shi I would believe you.

    • @Nowaybozay
      @Nowaybozay 2 дня назад +26

      This little girl sounds like the niece in Finding Nemo

    • @meirionamaddy2096
      @meirionamaddy2096 2 дня назад +12

      I would definitely at that point start thinking of moving states

    • @992dancer
      @992dancer 2 дня назад +45

      I think the mom is clearly at the very least complicit, but it honestly seems to me like the mom enjoys watching the suffering of the daughter who cares…it’s rare, but there are some people who enjoy watching others suffer, and I’m honestly just as concerned by the mother’s behavior as the psychopathic daughter’s behavior.

    • @meirionamaddy2096
      @meirionamaddy2096 2 дня назад +45

      @@992dancer yep taking the daughter out of school? It’s not just her letting the daughter get away with stuff, it’s taking an active interest in the pain and suffering the daughter causes. Also I’m sorry, at 13 you know not to ride a dog. It’s not normal behavior, not even abnormal it is pathological.

    • @chanelleford6318
      @chanelleford6318 2 дня назад

      I'm thinking the psychotic sister inherited it from the mom, and they both probably participate in the torture of animals.

  • @LeahBarney-v7y
    @LeahBarney-v7y 2 дня назад +286

    Animal abuse is considered a felony in most states. I would’ve 1000% called the cops

  • @samanthasherlock7763
    @samanthasherlock7763 2 дня назад +330

    My daughter is 12 and dogsits for the neighbors regularly. Both my kids have been gentle and loving to animals since they were preschoolers. At 12 they consciously understand their actions and how injury occurs. And a golden isn’t a small fragile dog. The amount of force needed to break its spine indicates her actions were intentional.

    • @parallaxpatella
      @parallaxpatella 2 дня назад +43

      I seriously doubt that she just sat on the dog like a pony. My massive cousin accidentally landed on their puppy and he was fine. I feel like she probably got something really heavy and smashed the dogs spine repeatedly.

    • @naty821
      @naty821 День назад +16

      @@parallaxpatella agree the dog must have been hit with something 😢

    • @AshlieJermaine
      @AshlieJermaine День назад +10

      EXACTLY!!! I was waiting for them to say something like this!! But also, the potential for that girl (the 13 year old) to escalate her behavior to people. That's how serial killers are made.

  • @MAYiHaveMERCY
    @MAYiHaveMERCY 2 дня назад +1080

    Story 4: I'm an only child, but if i wasnt, and i had a sibling who killed my animal, i would be an only child again.

    • @ladiasy
      @ladiasy 2 дня назад +17

      Haha yup same

    • @cuddlecows
      @cuddlecows 2 дня назад +41

      For real. So my brother bred mice to feed to reptiles which sounds crazy (and he is, honestly. lol) but he would also come knocking on my door to give me any super friendly, special needs, or adorable mice because he "felt bad" feeding them off, but knew my rodent sanctuary will take them (we are very different people). 😂 He can have anger issues and be grumpy, but like he would never hurt any animal for fun and at moments shown a soft side for something he thought was just "reptile food."
      If he did hurt an animal, though, I would also he an only child. lol.

    • @MountainPearls
      @MountainPearls 2 дня назад +12

      Same. I have a Beagle. I could channel John Wick really quick if anyone hurt him.

    • @catbeara
      @catbeara 2 дня назад +4

      I'm guessing the daughter inherited ASPD from her mother. 😪

    • @ms.tinygiant
      @ms.tinygiant 2 дня назад

      Poor mice..

  • @Allysia622
    @Allysia622 2 дня назад +143

    “I need you to start thinking with the desire to stay out of a body bag.” 💀

  • @bizzle4266
    @bizzle4266 2 дня назад +138

    Amanda- THANK YOU. Thank you for talking about how people behave when you cut out a toxic parent. "But he's/she's still your dad/mom." I can't with that.

    • @LittleAF88
      @LittleAF88 День назад +5

      So appreciative of her saying this! It is so difficult to cut ties with a parent. And so many people are ready to tell the adult child that the responsibility of mending the damaged relationship falls on them. No one can grow in poisoned soil, and no one should ever be expected to accept toxic or abusive behaviour from anyone - especially from a parent

    • @SongBird101
      @SongBird101 День назад +6

      What she said is so real, my husband is trying to decrease contact with his parents and the amount of times my parents have given the “BuT tHeY’rE yOuR PaReNTS!” thing drives me up a wall. My mom is getting a bit better but still

    • @DiMagnolia
      @DiMagnolia День назад +3

      This is SO real. I’m so tired of people minimizing ab*se just because you’re related to a person.

  • @Avg567
    @Avg567 2 дня назад +585

    Story 1 he made the bed with someone who doesn’t make theirs. Now mad he has to lay in it alone 😂 cause she at the club

    • @temporal_lacunae
      @temporal_lacunae 2 дня назад +77

      I think it's so funny, "my mistress is terrible at acting like my wife, who i left". Okay, play stupid games...

    • @mistycappadonia5307
      @mistycappadonia5307 2 дня назад +11

      Lol beautifully written

    • @sparksflylove
      @sparksflylove 2 дня назад +9

      This is poetic lmao

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад +1

      I was about to get offended because I don't make my bed I'm the morning but then I relaxed when I heard the story 😂

    • @abigailsandoval2632
      @abigailsandoval2632 День назад +1

      Love this 😂😂

  • @chimes023
    @chimes023 2 дня назад +231

    Story 4 (crazy sister) made me so mad!!! I felt so bad for OP's rescue dog, just imagining what the poor dog must've went through just makes me wanna cry... Get her mentally evaluated asap!!

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад +3

      And the fact HE WAS LAYING ON THE GROUND IN PAIN FOR HOURS...my sister would NOT exist anymore after that

  • @sophieepurvis
    @sophieepurvis 2 дня назад +239

    Story 4: I know the U.S doesn’t has the best healthcare systems but.. I’d call CPS or report the child to some metal health department to try to get her evaluated and then get a restraining order. The animals is horrid I wonder what is like at school- that sounds like it should be alarming everyone. OP has every right to cut off everyone, including the father!

    • @PenelopeAstony
      @PenelopeAstony 2 дня назад +11

      Ugh this was similar to my thoughts as well. I worry SO strongly for that child's well-being. She needs so much help, and she needs it yesterday, and this level of neglect from her mother of her mental health is downright abusive. I live in the USA, our healthcare system DOES suck, and therapy is often not accessible at all. But I see parents who still try everything they know and have available still, even if it isn't counseling. You can try to find a mentor that they look up to, get them into support groups or clubs that are free, ask the school for help ideally before the animal killing behavior starts (remember they are mandatory reporters), ask a religious leader or community leader or family member who is widely respected to step in and help, idk what else but doing NOTHING is going to doom this poor child to a life of anti-social behaviors, poor connections with others, criminality, house struggles, struggles maintaining occupations or hobbies, etc.
      I hope OP can get to safety ASAP.... Oh my gosh.
      And I really hope the mom or dad (or maybe even brother since it sounds like he's in agreement?) can see how bad things have truly gotten and that she needs immediate intervention before the rest of her entire life -and the lives/safety of every human and animal around her- is potentially fully f***ed.

    • @christopherselvam4198
      @christopherselvam4198 День назад +8

      doesn't seem like op is in tbe US they're somewhere in the southern hemisphere, if it's Australia maybe it's better.

    • @Lexxilim
      @Lexxilim День назад +7

      @@christopherselvam4198 I’m guessing it’s South America because they mentioned she owned hamsters and they’re illegal in Australia and New Zealand

  • @AG0919
    @AG0919 2 дня назад +84

    I hate story 4 so bad. That kid needs to be locked up somewhere to get help before she ends up killing her parents while they’re sleeping. She needs to go no contact with her entire family ASAP.

    • @992dancer
      @992dancer 2 дня назад +9

      I actually think the mom is just as lacking in empathy as the psychopathic daughter…i’d be concerned about being near either one of them

  • @jazzyj6368
    @jazzyj6368 2 дня назад +320

    Story1: shocker the person u “found a spark” with isn’t into doing the relationship thing. Sometimes that “boring” is really someone being a responsible adult. Imagine that. Karma struck perfectly.

    • @marshmallowk
      @marshmallowk 2 дня назад

      😂😂 I have no sympathy for him … what an idiot

    • @meganchambers8108
      @meganchambers8108 2 дня назад +12

      That story is the actual definition of "fk around and find out"!

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад +2

      Rightttt he really thought...

  • @Franziska-px4it
    @Franziska-px4it 2 дня назад +93

    Story 4- that’s absolutely scary, I’m a true crime girly and so so many serial killers kill animals as a child. I think that should be taken more than just seriously

  • @karlagonzalvez4703
    @karlagonzalvez4703 2 дня назад +345

    "My anxiety won't allow me to date as it is, so it definitely won't let me be a homewrecker" 😂😂😂 Amanda is funny lol. I think I seen her in an episode on Smosh. I love how OP in story 1 is getting his karma❤❤ "DELICIOUS!" *In my Charlotte Dobre vc* 😂

    • @LolitaAngel6
      @LolitaAngel6 2 дня назад

      Oh that's one of my favorite episodes to re listen too! She's amazing!

    • @zoeinkerman969
      @zoeinkerman969 2 дня назад +14

      This is the RUclips culture I'm subscribed too ❤😂

    • @Manders73
      @Manders73 2 дня назад

      ​@@zoeinkerman969 i literally came here to say this too 😂 My people!!!❤

    • @monetchandler1654
      @monetchandler1654 День назад +1

      Same subscription feed haha

    • @SammyLammy1D
      @SammyLammy1D День назад

      I subscribe/watch the same people and Swell Entertainment 😊 But yeah, Amada is very funny. I watch her videos even when I don't understand the topic at all just for her personality 😅

  • @charlotterose416
    @charlotterose416 2 дня назад +74

    My momma passed away 12 years ago with dementia. Her eldest son’s wife did the same thing. And I watched my mother stand in our window, watching him go up and down the road, never bothering to stop. She cried so many times to me, asking why he had abandoned her. This story pisses me off so much. Brother and Kara can get wrecked. 😢

    • @BreeS-zd5rx
      @BreeS-zd5rx 2 дня назад +6

      I mean, my grandmother got it and passed away in early 2021, and because she lived in another country and covid happened, I couldn't see her when she was starting to get really bad. I know it's not my fault, but the guilt eats at me anyway. So yeah. That man and his wife can get fucked, because she was RIGHT THERE. He had the chance to say goodbye to his mother, to be there for her, and he didn't do it.

    • @courtneysmith2917
      @courtneysmith2917 2 дня назад +3

      How terrible for all involved. I’m sorry for your loss

  • @FantazomiXroma
    @FantazomiXroma 2 дня назад +71

    Story 4: I have a pet lizard. If harm came to my lizard because of my sibling, harm would come to that sibling. What the fuck is wrong with that mom and sister.

  • @Crochet_by_mic
    @Crochet_by_mic 2 дня назад +626

    I CLICKED SO FAST WHEN I SAW AMANDA

  • @lesliesheppard6112
    @lesliesheppard6112 2 дня назад +113

    Story 4, many serial unalivers start by harming animals. This child desperately needs psychological help! Her mother needs to be held accountable for allowing and supporting it!

    • @alma2594
      @alma2594 2 дня назад +10

      for real, that mom needs to be sued. Parents are responsible for the actions of their minor children. This is crazy.

    • @cerrisalyn
      @cerrisalyn 2 дня назад +1

      This was one of my first thoughts.. 😳

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад +3

      Just say killers...

    • @givelyeve
      @givelyeve День назад

      @@leilanitauheed3334youtube flags the word k*ll

    • @CP-ko3xz
      @CP-ko3xz 7 часов назад +1

      ​@@leilanitauheed3334 RUclips censors some words

  • @midnight_yota
    @midnight_yota 2 дня назад +59

    "assault on the eyes" is a great way to describe the cyber truck

  • @ashassassin
    @ashassassin 2 дня назад +89

    Story 1 cracks me up! Dude went for the "fun" girl and then is surprised when thats all she wants to do?! Lol. 😂

  • @raspberryitalia3464
    @raspberryitalia3464 2 дня назад +39

    Story 4 - I'm concerned that the mom enjoys the suffering too. Restraining orders and reports are needed. Get the records from the vet about how that sweet golden was lost as proof. Genuinely so terrifying.

  • @hannahhhg59
    @hannahhhg59 2 дня назад +27

    Morgan, I just want to say how selfless and thoughtful it was of you to get your grandma a new car. That goes to show how truly genuine you are. It’s always so refreshing when I see someone do such positive things for the ones they love when they become successful. I’m so sorry your family members were so bitter towards you about it- that screams jealousy. Keep being the ray of sunshine that you are no matter what anyone thinks ❤

  • @Heather_Duke
    @Heather_Duke 2 дня назад +47

    For the sixth story, OP definitely needs to send the screenshots of the messages this guy sent his daughter, his own texts with the guy, the guy's behavior toward his daughter, both in front and away from the eyes of other people, etc. to the ex wife and girlfriend. Even if he isn't a threat to his own children, those kids have friends and I really worry for them if they're girls. He should definitely be nowhere near them.

  • @erica23jayne
    @erica23jayne 2 дня назад +143

    So glad you are setting healthy boundaries from work and taking time to be with your family 🤍🔥

  • @abrarkadabrar7829
    @abrarkadabrar7829 2 дня назад +149

    Story 4 - children lacking empathy is a reflection of terrible parenting. I would elaborate further, but the whole part about the mother just standing back and letting her child smash her lunch against a window to the point of having the police called??? Nuff said. Mama needs a lobotomy and kid needs a straitjacket. Poor Arlo rest in peace buddy ❤️

    • @jis666
      @jis666 2 дня назад +3

      perhaps but that's not always the case . there are killers who had normal childhoods & still came out to be psychopathic killers , which i feel is scarier . this might be the case for story 4 , or not , but damn that child needs help asap ..

    • @cb.r6146
      @cb.r6146 2 дня назад +3

      Story 3 - seems like the gf has major attachment issues and a possible real/perceived abandonment wound. She is clearly not well and it is not on OP to try to fix her issues. GF needs some major therapy

    • @aliciabarrie7229
      @aliciabarrie7229 2 дня назад +3

      ​@@jis666 it's really really really really rare - like almost unheard of that a kid who ends up being a murderer has a good childhood. Usually there's something going on somewhere - if not at home. Or there was a big head injury.

    • @maria-ii7gz
      @maria-ii7gz 2 дня назад

      ​​@@aliciabarrie7229There's never actually been any real evidence for this that can establish causality. Plenty of children receive head injuries and plenty of them grow up in unsuitable conditions but most of them turn out to be regular people. We don't actually understand why people develop psychopathy or lack of empathy

    • @jis666
      @jis666 2 дня назад +2

      @@aliciabarrie7229 YES THE HEAD INJURY !! i listen to murder podcasts like it's a religion & the amount of head injury coincidences is insane . but yeah , still creepier when those had normal childhoods become killers .

  • @deborahzozimo
    @deborahzozimo 2 дня назад +53

    Story 1 I'm curious how old is the "baby"? I'll bet money that OP lost his spark with his wife while she was, you know, postpartum taking care of their newborn

    • @jaylynn8630
      @jaylynn8630 2 дня назад +5

      ugh ur probably right

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад

      Righttt and also (not giving her credit) her ex husband could have been checking out a little so she leaned on OP for help. Pieces of shit like OP often do that.

  • @ThomBaws
    @ThomBaws 2 дня назад +239

    Hey, just a heads up for Morgan and/or editor: Title of the video says "Amada" of Swell Entertainment, not "Amanda" :]

  • @marianatraductoraargentina
    @marianatraductoraargentina 2 дня назад +50

    s2: nta.
    the wife accused ops mother of FAKING her illness and also did it publicly. Those 2 are awful people, they dont deserve anything.
    I bet they want the ashes just for show.

  • @thatblueseed
    @thatblueseed 2 дня назад +121

    I'm a simple lady. I see Amanda, I click.

  • @LaurelLaneBowen
    @LaurelLaneBowen 2 дня назад +42

    13??? Thats someone about to enter high school. Absolutely not, call the police.

    • @djjay-kay7636
      @djjay-kay7636 День назад

      13 is middle school...you should be 14 by the time you hit high-school

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад +3

      @@djjay-kay7636 Nope I was 13 entering high school

    • @toxicmomo
      @toxicmomo День назад +2

      @@djjay-kay7636 I was 13 when I entered high school; it really depends on where your birthday falls

    • @Decodethefallenmoon
      @Decodethefallenmoon День назад

      @@djjay-kay7636it depends on what grades are involved in the area. Middle school is grades 6-8, junior high is 7-9. It changes what grades and ages are in high schools. It is absolutely possible this person is in high school

  • @alma2594
    @alma2594 2 дня назад +33

    Story 4: reporting to the police is a necessity at this point. For Arlo, for you and for your new pup, but also for the rest of animals and people who will inevitably cross paths with that ""kid"". Don't feel bad, your sister needs help and your family doesn't care so you reporting to the police is the only way she will get that help. Commenters that told you to telll shelters are in the right as well

  • @Alli_egator
    @Alli_egator 2 дня назад +89

    Story #6 said that he's known his kids for over a decade and watched her grow up. My first thought was if he's creepy now, maybe he was a creep towards her back then, too.
    Edit: The update with the comments he made about her "growing up" and how they've always given him hugs. He's 100% a pred but who knows how long hes been waiting to come back into her life.

    • @layladavis02
      @layladavis02 День назад +4

      Omg that story made me sick to my stomach. I know she’s 20 but he should be in jail!! If anything for at least stalking and sa. I’d someone is pulling away from you and you keep grabbing them. That’s assault. You can’t touch anyone without their consent. Doesn’t matter the age. Her body and actions are saying no. She doesn’t have to say words

    • @jimbobjones9330
      @jimbobjones9330 15 часов назад +1

      I have two daughters -- 18 and 21. I also have two best friends, around my age (I'm a 49-year-old guy who has a great relationship with both my daughters)
      If either of my daughters came to me with issues with either of my best friends, I'd be spending my 50th birthday in prison while whichever of those best friends that harmed my kid would be spending that time in a coma.

  • @laurafritsch6042
    @laurafritsch6042 2 дня назад +21

    Story 6: on reacting with violence. I was a volunteer advocate for a few years and we highly discourage reacting with violence to support ppl. It can make the survivor feel even more unsafe. Her dad's attitude and calm support was probably what allowed her to come forward and share a fuller truth. If he got angry then her fears about upsetting him would have felt true even if he wasn't mad at her. It also makes you look bad to the cops. They're already degrading this guy's behavior. Which is disgusting and ridiculous.

    • @frmaha
      @frmaha 2 дня назад +5

      Yes this. I understand the impulse but unfortunately know from experience what a tough position that kind of thing puts you in.

  • @kcolton
    @kcolton 2 дня назад +13

    For story 4:
    I own 6 golden retrievers. They all play SO ROUGH and NOTHING comes even close to BEING ABLE TO BREAK THEIR BACK?? They run over each other and still absolutely no injuries. This child is INSANE and needs mental help. This is so scary and upsetting, I feel so awful for that golden.

  • @spknott85
    @spknott85 2 дня назад +28

    Story 3 - GF is out of line with her behavior, but also why did OP not get a plus one for his partner of 2 years? Idk if I missed something but I think it's weird she couldn't go with him

    • @amy1841
      @amy1841 День назад +16

      I think he prob did get a plus one but she was having her bday party at the same time, so didn't go to the wedding.

    • @LittleAF88
      @LittleAF88 День назад +3

      Yeah super weird. It seems like something is off with that story

  • @alexism538
    @alexism538 2 дня назад +17

    That little sister WHO HAS KILLED MULTIPLE ANIMALS IS A SERIAL KILLER.

  • @HelloHello-jc8hv
    @HelloHello-jc8hv 2 дня назад +35

    This episode was rough 😂 I felt a lil bad for Amada, especially when you were telling the viewers “if you can’t handle the rest, skip to the end for the pallet cleanser!” And I was thinking “what if Amada can’t handle it? She’s just stuck going along for the ride like a roller coaster” 🤣🤣🤣 lol all very interesting stories as always though, I love you guys!

  • @crosswindstudio
    @crosswindstudio 2 дня назад +23

    Story 6: I have a stalker. He started stalking me as a stranger, this has been ongoing for nearly a decade to the point of him stealing my pet. Getting a restraining order has been impossible. The most that police have done is to verbally tell him to leave me alone. It is rough out there, ladies.

    • @LittleAF88
      @LittleAF88 День назад +2

      I’m so sorry. I don’t understand police who don’t want to like actual police work, it’s literally their job

    • @Decodethefallenmoon
      @Decodethefallenmoon День назад

      @@LittleAF88their job legally is to protect property, and cops/police in the US have no legal obligation to help or respond to 911 calls. There’s an entire federal Supreme Court ruling stating such which is horrific.

  • @proctorsledge
    @proctorsledge 2 дня назад +10

    story 3: unpopular opinion but my birthday really isn’t that big of a deal to me. of course i want to celebrate it and feel special but if you can’t come to my little get together or dinner or something, i’m not gonna cut you off. ending a relationship over it is crazy

  • @Jupiter556
    @Jupiter556 2 дня назад +52

    10:08 whatttt? Your affair partner has questionable morals and isn’t a solid partner for you? 🤡 you made your bed, sir.

    • @katanaatakka4554
      @katanaatakka4554 2 дня назад +5

      Right?? Like bro you literally picked this over your loving caring WIFE nobody feels bad for you

  • @MNBLUCKY
    @MNBLUCKY 2 дня назад +20

    Story 3: she doesn’t sound like a narcissist but more like someone with borderline personality disorder. Prioritizing him and not hanging out with her friends sounds like she always tries to be available for him because she is anxiously attached. Feeling abandoned when he has a legit reason for not being at her birthday. Shifting from sweet and love bombing to angry. Making up emergencies because she wants him to proof that he is not abandoning her but then confirming that he is in her own head, when he really didn’t,

    • @alicia-om9ww
      @alicia-om9ww День назад +3

      21 and diagnosed with bpd and thought the same thing. Hope she can get some dbt therapy

  • @sparksflylove
    @sparksflylove 2 дня назад +11

    “I have the desire to stay out of a body bag” lmaoooo Amanda is hilarious

  • @jaqijarboe3374
    @jaqijarboe3374 День назад +11

    Story 6 had me throwing up. That’s absolutely disgusting. “She never said stop”???? Repulsive. R*pist behavior

  • @nanaasmah938
    @nanaasmah938 День назад +4

    “My anxiety barely lets me date. It’s not gonna let me be a home wrecker.” Amanda is so real for that😂

  • @lalalaleex
    @lalalaleex День назад +11

    story 6: i dont even want to say it... but i just know that man has had this planned since that girl was born. HE WATCHED THEM GROW UP. J A I L.

  • @kristinaerickson2353
    @kristinaerickson2353 2 дня назад +3

    Morgan "I don't want her to get hit by a car"
    Me in my head "I do"

  • @lns4life
    @lns4life 2 дня назад +7

    Story 4: I HAVE to gaslight myself into thinking the story is fake. Have to. I should've listened to the trigger warning. I hate animal abuse

    • @alisawonka8652
      @alisawonka8652 2 дня назад +1

      Me too! I did not think a reddit story can go this bad. I ruined my day if not days by not skipping.

  • @chimes023
    @chimes023 2 дня назад +53

    OMG I WAS JUST THINKING AMANDA fromswellentertainment WOULD BE A GREAT GUEST!!!!

  • @peytonlyla6027
    @peytonlyla6027 2 дня назад +62

    Story 3 - The girlfriend has an anxious attachment style. He should leave because she needs to learn that about herself and heal that part of her.

    • @joshuabarnett88
      @joshuabarnett88 2 дня назад +21

      That's so much further beyond just an anxious attachment. It's borderline pathological co-dependency.

    • @992dancer
      @992dancer 2 дня назад +7

      Yes, she needs therapy and love in her life and this clearly isn’t a good fit for either of them

    • @nicoleconrad9274
      @nicoleconrad9274 День назад +6

      Just in case the girlfriend ever comes across this… please consider finding a therapist with experience in DBT. I have borderline personality disorder, and it involves a deep-rooted fear of abandonment due to childhood trauma. When I feel abandoned, I can have uncontrollable, intense feelings of rage. You’re not a bad person, and you can learn healthy ways to channel your intense feelings! 💖

    • @barmhjertige1
      @barmhjertige1 День назад +3

      Yeah and the whole giving an ultimatium that’s like: choose my birthday or we’re done, is… not the way to do it

  • @flowergleamandglow9317
    @flowergleamandglow9317 День назад +13

    Story 6 makes me want to cry, and after hearing the update made me want to throw up. Good LORD 😭

  • @LittleAF88
    @LittleAF88 День назад +6

    Story 6: the police saying they can’t really do anything because she got in the car with him is akin to saying “she asked for it”. Report that officer. Accepting a lift a home is not consent. What a disgusting attitude that only serves and protects predators.

  • @mmmmmmmmmmmm666
    @mmmmmmmmmmmm666 День назад +5

    Story 4: The MacDonald Triad in full effect. I can guarantee that behaviour will get so much worse. That girl needs serious help and consequences and the mother is infuriating. What a shitty parent. Poor animals 😔

  • @nicolesanchez9714
    @nicolesanchez9714 День назад +5

    The story about the sister that abused/killer the animals. It doesn’t matter the size of the animal or anything, there is correlation to those children killing people as adults. In my state if you kill an animal as a child (purposely) there are protocols in place to get them help and intervene because it will escalate if untreated.

  • @nataliaalves4060
    @nataliaalves4060 2 дня назад +6

    last story: just a curiosity: here in Brazil people propose with the ring they gonna wear when getting married, so you get proposed with the gold ring and it goes on the right hand and both of the fiancee wear a ring (the man and the girl, regardless of being a straight or lgbt couple)

  • @SmthAbout.Money.SmellsLikeLove
    @SmthAbout.Money.SmellsLikeLove 2 дня назад +10

    Story 6: he is a Predator! I had an uncle that was in his 50 and I was 12 I was a shy kid so wouldn’t talk much and I would keep a lot to myself. My whole family knew this! He knew and touched me in weird places when I was asleep, I woke up and he just grinned at me this happened twice. I luckly lived in another country an only saw him in summer or else he would clearly go further…
    I told my friends when I was 15 and my sister I told them to keep it secret. One day my mother watched a Turkish drama where a girl was SA my mom told us to tell us if something like this ever happens to us, and that she would always be at our side. I finally told my sister to tell my mom got a bottle of wisky and left my home at 2 in the morning.

  • @sweetmemoriesms
    @sweetmemoriesms 2 дня назад +21

    Story 3: People can be that vindictive and sometimes for no reason at all. There's this story of this grandma who wanted to celebrate her 80th birthday big over a weekend. Everybody was on board. And then OP's brother and SIL announce that their wedding is going to be in that same weekend, so grandma's birthday party gets cancelled, but the family coming over for grandma's birthday, don't have to cancel their tickets because of the wedding. OP then comes up with the idea to sing for grandma at 0.00 u and let her cut a cake, but SIL is not having any of that. In one of the updates it becomes apparent, that SIL did intentionally plan the wedding in grandma's birthdayweekend.

    • @lissa._.
      @lissa._. 2 дня назад +11

      i honestly was getting this vibe as well before the comment about how sister did not know it was her birthday weekend (which is odd to me if they have been together for 2 years, especially since it sounds like the siblings aren't close if this planning has been happening for MONTHS and sis didn't even know) and gf was not even invited to the wedding? what?
      op also did not clearly explain why the wedding was moved up besides illness, whereas the gf has been planning, announcing, and looking forward to her (in her experience) first real birthday party for months. he knows how much she's felt let down on her birthdays in the past, and I can guarantee everyone has at least one birthday where they were absolutely gutted and it sticks with you, now imagine you feel that way about every birthday you've had. it sucks. I don't think she's necessarily the ah at all.
      I also think Morgan's comment about how their two year relationship basically doesn't mean anything with her comment about how she's had cake in the freezer longer than their relationship is a bit tasteless. like she said, people get married within 2 years of a relationship. and im pretty sure her and justin have not been together for much longer than that.
      I do think this is one hell of a difficult position to be in for op, the story missed some key parts for me, besides every birthday could be the last, you never know. in the end she did handle it well in comparison to the disappointment she must have felt, her behaviour on the wedding day was annoying though and they should have just broken up when they got to this issue knowing they couldn't move past it

    • @Itzkaroll
      @Itzkaroll 2 дня назад +4

      @@lissa._.idk if someone has illness and wedding is extremely stressful my last thought would be someone birthday. Also it was a small wedding so just assuming that’s why gf wasn’t invited.
      She didn’t handle it well giving your partner an ultimatum over a birthday (as someone that has shitty birthdays).

    • @chaiteat8097
      @chaiteat8097 День назад +3

      @@lissa._. there are definitely a lot of missing parts for me in this story 🤔 (ages, illness details, etc). I personally don’t think 21 is a huge birthday, but that’s a me thing 😂. I understand how big it is for others. I think OP and GF are a just a plain mismatch.
      (Oh and haven’t Morgan and Justin been together for 5 years going on 6?) If I’m wrong I’ll feel like a fake TwoHotTakes listener 🤣

  • @ARTiSTgirlLPS
    @ARTiSTgirlLPS 2 дня назад +15

    I never thought, in a million years, that two of my favorite RUclips channels would collab like this!!!

  • @ChefSarah4104
    @ChefSarah4104 2 дня назад +11

    Story #2 broke my heart. My mom lives hours away and we only see her once a month at most. My in-laws live in the same town and we get together weekly. I cannot imagine turning your back on family "just because." I hope she keeps all of the ashes.

  • @baileysil07
    @baileysil07 День назад +2

    First story, the guy thought the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. It turns out it was piss yellow. 100% deserved.

  • @darkfox8i873
    @darkfox8i873 2 дня назад +10

    Im in UK and it cost about 8 to 10 THOUSAND pounds to have the funeral my Nanny asked for, disgusting how expensive it is and the grieving family has to deal with it, awful.

  • @ellewang8767
    @ellewang8767 День назад +3

    I don't have animals at home, but whenever my child meets an animal, I've always taught her to be gentle and careful. She's five now and she knows not to chase animals or frighten them. She's gentle with her pats and always give animals space. Unless there's something really wrong with the child, these things can be taught despite the young age.

  • @MirandaMerkes
    @MirandaMerkes 2 дня назад +5

    My mom tried to fake dementia and even said she had 6yrs to live..... She was LYING! and guess what 8yrs later she's totally fine and runs her own bakery.

  • @abrarkadabrar7829
    @abrarkadabrar7829 2 дня назад +30

    FIRST HOUR GANG LET'S GO
    Also. Morgan. Loving the thumbnails recently! The last few videos have SO MUCH click value and this episode is no exception!
    ALSO ALSO Amanda is such a vibe! First that video with Shane and Smosh Pit and now she's here! Love Morgan and love the shared love between THT gang and Smosh Pit gang. So much love for y'all. ❤️

  • @AyleenHerreraTV
    @AyleenHerreraTV 2 дня назад +5

    Latest update on the animal abuse story 4 from OPs Reddit page:
    “So, the past few weeks have been HECTIC. I reported my mom to the CPS version there is of my country, and she is under investigation. Meanwhile, my sister is now under custody of my dad. I have been looking for apartments out of my city, and am not planning to give any of my family the adress, much less give them a pair of keys. My maternal aunt, the one that gifted me Buzz, has been taking care of him this past few weeks, because I was TERRIFIED of what happened and because right now I'm living in a hotel.”

  • @rafaelastoakes2062
    @rafaelastoakes2062 День назад +5

    Story 2: am i the only one who thinks OP should put some poop in an urn and let her brother and SIL think theyve got some of the mother's ashes. 😂

  • @zinetwine
    @zinetwine 13 часов назад +1

    Amanda is my favourite guest so far! She really gets into the stories, remembers and considers all the details and gives really good takes + nice chemistry with Morgan! Much love ♡

  • @jonafer2698
    @jonafer2698 2 дня назад +45

    YEAAAAHHHH TWO HOT TAKES AT 4:42 AM!!!

  • @freudianslip2010
    @freudianslip2010 2 дня назад +4

    Morgan, a word of advice about wedding planning-it is okay to not enjoy it. People often talk about how fun it is and almost imply that something is wrong with you if you aren’t enjoying it. Most of wedding planning is stressful (guest lists, invitations, coordinating vendors, etc). It’s okay to not like those parts. Enjoy the parts that are fun (buying your dress, picking colors, food tastings, etc.) and get through the parts that aren’t.

  • @eduardabohrer383
    @eduardabohrer383 2 дня назад +15

    story 4: sis it’s getting dahmer vibes

  • @LorenaAkaCams1
    @LorenaAkaCams1 День назад +3

    The story about the mom with dementia, I would honestly argue that the brother NEGLECTED the mother. Like maybe he didn’t have a full blown obligation to take care of her but for him to not notice something was wrong or at least take his mother’s concerns seriously long enough to try seeing what might be wrong with his mother and take her to a doctor, and likely living in the same town as his mother the entire time, it’s just neglectful and idk what else to call it

  • @MG-hz7wi
    @MG-hz7wi 2 дня назад +7

    FYI: all of the betta fish sold at pet stores are males. The males fight in competition for the females. They don't normally sell female bettas because they don't have those long bright fins. Like a lot of birds, the male Bettas are colorful, and the females are just these little mostly brown fish with a tiny bit of color. Usually you only get a female better if you're some sort of breeder

  • @misscrazzyD
    @misscrazzyD 2 дня назад +34

    Today, I had to wake up at 4:45am for work to pull a double shift, but at least I have this upload

    • @supernovarodriguez435
      @supernovarodriguez435 2 дня назад

      no literally😭 woke up at 4, saw it up and immediately played it while getting ready

    • @leilanitauheed3334
      @leilanitauheed3334 День назад

      Oof you are better than me. I set my alarm for 4:45am and turned it off and went back to sleep 😭

  • @chrysanthi_
    @chrysanthi_ 2 дня назад +9

    For story 6, after the update I instantly remembered of the trend "Do you hear that Syd? There is a man in the woods" where women shared their stories about receiving video or photographs from people they didn't know and didn't keep in contact about their abuser/r4pist/attacker getting jumped basically. I really hope she hears soon that he gets his karma, especially after that French case that is going to be on trial...

  • @lonewizzy
    @lonewizzy День назад +2

    Morgan! PLEASE invite Caitlin Doughty/ask a mortician!!! Her channel is so educational and gentle regarding funeral rights, cultural perspective, and major death events from history ❤

  • @lasilvymoon
    @lasilvymoon 2 дня назад +14

    1:11:28 Mexico is not on the Southern hemisphere 😐

    • @fegom_art
      @fegom_art 2 дня назад +2

      I was about to comment just this!! 😅 I had to make a double take when she said Mexico 😆

    • @alanabetanzo1253
      @alanabetanzo1253 День назад

      Omg I felt so petty about to comment this and it’s the first comment to come up 😂 and there’s more countries under Mexico that are still in northern hemisphere

  • @erickhenriques6296
    @erickhenriques6296 2 дня назад +4

    The crossover I didn't know I needed! Been watching both channels for years, and I looooved the dynamic on this one! Amanda is a terrific co-host, and I would love it if you guys collaborated again in the future! ❤

  • @shelby_button
    @shelby_button 2 дня назад +2

    Story4: one day those parents are going to HAVE to say no to the younger sister and in turn are going to get themselves k*lled.

  • @francheskauribe626
    @francheskauribe626 2 дня назад +3

    “Hope she left them out of the will” bold of you to immediately think everyone has a will 😂

  • @joselinbatista5826
    @joselinbatista5826 День назад +1

    The story with the dad’s friend and daughter literally made me fucking sob I was so mad. The fact that she kept that to herself because that was her dad’s only friend speaks volumes about her character and how she was raised. I’m so happy she had someone to advocate for her because a lot of people in her same situation don’t. Good job on that dad for making his daughter feel heard and safe.

  • @josettenkamzy
    @josettenkamzy 2 дня назад +5

    Story 4 is so tragic! I foster and find homes for dogs and cats, and this is a huge fear of mine. You never truly know the people. I have asked the humane society if they have a "list" of people who are not good with animals and they do not! I don't understand.

  • @meganharpster7057
    @meganharpster7057 День назад +10

    Hot take on story 3: I would not want to continue a relationship with someone that gave me an ultimatum of missing MY OWN SISTER’SSSS wedding! 39:02

    • @origamipurple9386
      @origamipurple9386 15 часов назад

      Right! Like the GF could have had something like a 3 day birthday! 1 day with friends, 1 with partner and 1 with family. I would love to have a 3 day birthday 😂

  • @samanthapettibone3955
    @samanthapettibone3955 2 дня назад +3

    In the same relm of the last story before the palette cleanser. My uncle was a cop and had an inappropriate relationship with a 17 year old cadet and was fired over it. My family refuses to talk about it. When I found out I stopped interacting with him. U fortunately, he is still invited around the family and I do end up bumping into him on occasion. Whenever I speak about the situation, I say he's a pedophile. My family gets really mad at me for saying that, but he is. He engaged in inappropriate relations with a minor, the definition of a pedo. It doesn't mean that he would ever touch his own kids, bit it doesnt change the fact. I'm so glad that the daughter spoke up eventually and that the dad immediately took his daughters side.

    • @Decodethefallenmoon
      @Decodethefallenmoon День назад

      People are regularly SO adamantly against calling out ped0philia when it blatantly happens in front of their faces. Just because the person it happened to, the victim, was an older teen, doesn’t make that not an inappropriate and p3d0philic relationship. People need to stop protecting predators AND stop allowing them to get away with the behavior and make excuses just because they’re friggin family.
      Proud of you, stranger, for having healthy internal ethical boundaries on this’ fuck that noise entirely I would riot!!!

  • @ChromeXByakuranz
    @ChromeXByakuranz 2 дня назад +6

    THE CAKE IS STILL THERE!? MORGAN!! 😂

  • @BeckhaDoyle
    @BeckhaDoyle 2 дня назад +10

    Amaaandaaaaa. Now this is a crossover for the books. 🎉

  • @aidenoneal552
    @aidenoneal552 2 дня назад +1

    Morgan, your wishes are actually also describing Jewish burial practices! We don’t do embalming and cremation (which is part of why the funerals take place very soon after death), we just have a pine box in the ground with family helping to fill in the grave as part of the funeral service. So when you say you feel Jewish in your soul, you’re really onto something 😊

  • @winterburden
    @winterburden 2 дня назад +3

    Thanks for having Swell on, she's the coolest.

  • @rebeccaernette1749
    @rebeccaernette1749 2 дня назад +15

    1:42:23 my dad would always say, "When it comes to my kids I look pretty good in orange." This friend is terrible

  • @KatarinaC24
    @KatarinaC24 День назад +2

    The sister harming and killing multiple animals regardless if it was by accident or intentional is a statistic fact and pattern connected with serial killers. This is a hugeeee concern. I agree informing the school is a really good idea. As an ex family case manager with child protective services this is a huge concern and intervention needs to be a priority for the safety of the child, family and others.

  • @onionchampion3765
    @onionchampion3765 2 дня назад +4

    Former funeral director here. I had to take a break after six years between covid burnout and bc charging for death gives me the ick.
    This stuff is SO common with death. Weve had fights to the point that we’ve asked families to leave the funeral home. Family dynamics can be so intense, and there’s usually guilt involved from those who weren’t around.
    Anyway AMA lol.

  • @lifeassil
    @lifeassil День назад +1

    my grandma has dementia and i visit her every sunday, she has no clue who i am anymore, but ever time she sees me she gets so happy. That story is rough, poor mom

  • @AshleyKeenan-m6u
    @AshleyKeenan-m6u 2 дня назад +5

    Why is the mom infantilizing a 13 year old? I was ripping cigs and drinking in fields at 13, not trying to ride a dog as a horse wtf

    • @wild_pixie
      @wild_pixie 2 дня назад +1

      Fr. They aren't 4, they understand what they're doing.

    • @frmaha
      @frmaha 2 дня назад +2

      Yeah exactly. I was an immature kid at 13 but old enough to have a solid moral compass. I used to dress my friend’s cat in doll clothes when I was 6 but stopped on my own because I realized it made her uncomfortable. That kid and the mom need serious help.

  • @kerryntaylor4942
    @kerryntaylor4942 2 дня назад +1

    My mother in law is a teacher and one of her students poured soap in her classroom betafish tank. 100% alert the school of the sister's behavior.

  • @ginbug7061
    @ginbug7061 2 дня назад +3

    I’m so happy omg 😭😭 worlds colliding in the BEST way

  • @Taewills
    @Taewills 2 дня назад +2

    Story 5: financial stability is everything when a parent is trying to leave a relationship with kids in tow. Just bc OP might get awarded alimony & child support doesn’t mean he’ll pay.
    She def needs to start planning her exit whenever possible. Apply for assistance programs or contact fam who might be supportive until she finishes school.

  • @lemonberryconda
    @lemonberryconda 2 дня назад +8

    THE CROSSOVER OF THE CENTURY😮

  • @SaraMT.
    @SaraMT. 2 дня назад +11

    Blessed at 09:42 AM ?!!! (in the uk) WOOP WOOPPP!

  • @gracethompson6926
    @gracethompson6926 2 дня назад +2

    That last story before the palette cleanser FLOORED ME 😮 My dad is dead, but I’m telling you now, if he was alive and anything remotely like this happened he’d be in jail for a very long time. That is absolutely insane predatory disgusting behaviour.

  • @bigelowkaryn
    @bigelowkaryn 2 дня назад +3

    Story 4: OP needs to report her sister to the authorities. If the parents won’t get the help needed, then they need to be made to get the help

  • @cr0w666valorant
    @cr0w666valorant День назад +1

    unrelated- morgan looks SOOO good with her straight hair in the sponsor segments 😭❤️

  • @QueenofChaos80
    @QueenofChaos80 2 дня назад +3

    Wooow!! 5:30am? Istg there are SO many perks to being awake all night and sleeping during the day.😅