I Crashed a Deaf Party “Speaking” Sign Language, They Were Shocked

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @seanseligman8875
    @seanseligman8875 2 месяца назад +13785

    I work at a pizzeria. One day a man walked in, and naturally I asked him “What can I do for you today sir?” Instead of responding verbally, he simply touched his ear, shook his head, and pointed to the pizza on the counter that he wanted.
    After serving him his food, I bolted to the bathroom and quickly looked up how to sign “Have a nice day!” After a few minutes, he got up to leave and I signed it to him.
    I’ll never forget the way his face lit up. It completely made my day. This encounter inspired me to learn some more ASL. The man comes into my pizzeria regularly now and I try my best to learn from him!
    This video resonated with me so strongly because of my new friend. Thank you for bringing deaf culture to the spotlight with this masterpiece, Xiaoma!

    • @pppppppppppggggg
      @pppppppppppggggg 2 месяца назад +404

      you are angel

    • @Zabzabzab
      @Zabzabzab 2 месяца назад +264

      aw that's a nice gesture!

    • @AdamWest-h5z
      @AdamWest-h5z 2 месяца назад +81

      That's cool. 👍

    • @adorableadory
      @adorableadory 2 месяца назад +56

      the distinctions between each sign are so fascinating ong

    • @thomasbrinkston4496
      @thomasbrinkston4496 2 месяца назад +95

      @seanseligman8875 Dude, you’re the man for putting in that effort. I love that! My story isn’t as cool as yours, but it’s kind of funny. I was at an outdoor concert in Philly. It was The Roots and The Goo Goo Dolls on the 4th of July. I could sit anywhere I wanted so I picked this wide open section on the 3rd row directly in front of the speakers. After like one song I yelled at the guy next to me “holy cow dude, this is SO loud!” And he started signing to me; that’s when I realized I was in the deaf section and that’s why there were empty seats because I was the only person (who wasn’t previously hearing impaired) to sit there. We had a conversation for about an hour by passing my phone back and forth and typing to each other on the notepad app. It was a great time. I’ll never forget the laugh and smile on his face when he realized that I was just an idiot and typed, “THIS IS FREAKING LOUD DUDE!” to him on my phone.

  • @danielreed5199
    @danielreed5199 2 месяца назад +11866

    That party was the loudest quiet one I have ever not heard.

    • @RealDealNeilJ
      @RealDealNeilJ 2 месяца назад +88

      🤣🤣🤣 hilarious

    • @AggressivelyLoving
      @AggressivelyLoving 2 месяца назад +82

      this comment deserves to get the "internet price".

    • @HectorTheConnector914
      @HectorTheConnector914 2 месяца назад +132

      I understood that perfectly. Like when my wife says “ get the thing, in the thing, next to that thing “

    • @AlwaysBenevolence
      @AlwaysBenevolence 2 месяца назад +5

      True!, That's why I won't bring my hearing girlfriend to deaf party.

    • @ChadCarney-hu3du
      @ChadCarney-hu3du Месяц назад +6

      Surpised they didnt have bass tracks playing so they can all feel the music

  • @_chilinelson
    @_chilinelson Месяц назад +699

    I’m tearing up.
    It’s crazy that there was a time when we didn’t have ASL and there were these communicational barriers.
    It’s amazing that signing has given so many people a voice and language.
    A mother’s love for their child.
    Guh, my heart!

    • @leonardodalongisland
      @leonardodalongisland 26 дней назад +7

      Actually, sign language in one form or another has been around for a LONG time.

    • @Nookoni8724
      @Nookoni8724 12 дней назад +2

      ​@@leonardodalongisland Actually, the comment clearly states " there was a time we didn't have ASL "

    • @Nookoni8724
      @Nookoni8724 12 дней назад +2

      Of course there was a time that ASL wasn't around. AMERICAN ENGLISH didn't happen until just before 1776 when different BRITISH DIALECTS MIXED coming into THE NEW WORLD. The ENGLISH LANGUAGE came from a different part of the world, the same as the colors of the U.S flag.

    • @leonardodalongisland
      @leonardodalongisland 12 дней назад

      Clearly you don't know that for as long as we've been humans-there's been some form of "Sign language."

    • @Nookoni8724
      @Nookoni8724 12 дней назад +3

      @@leonardodalongisland Clearly, you don't understand the difference between ASL and sign language. ASL came in the early 1800's. Technically, that's not a long time compared to the beginning of sign language as human beings.

  • @BubblesHughes
    @BubblesHughes 2 месяца назад +5536

    My daughter worked in fast food as a teenager to make extra money on the weekends. A customer came in once a week with his son to order chicken and was deaf. He wrote his order down on paper. She took it upon herself to learn basic signing along with the items on her menu.
    After two weeks he came in and she signed to him “hello! What would you like to order?”
    He literally started to cry…. He was so impressed and excited that she went out of her way to learn ASL and make him and his son welcome and comfortable.
    It’s probably the proudest moment I’ve ever had of my child 🤗

    • @araragisenpai4088
      @araragisenpai4088 2 месяца назад +257

      You've raised a wonderful person, this is heartwarming and definitely something the world needs more of.

    • @danielasanmartin2997
      @danielasanmartin2997 2 месяца назад +97

      Your daugher is amazing, you raised her well ❤👏^^

    • @Wexelent
      @Wexelent 2 месяца назад +34

      That's amazing! Good job!!!

    • @JohnKim_24
      @JohnKim_24 2 месяца назад +24

      A great parent leads to great daughter :)

    • @AlexBizzar
      @AlexBizzar 2 месяца назад +49

      SAME! I used to work at a Smoothie King. A family came in, and they were all signing. I couldn't understand anything, they were writing things down, I had to bring them around the counter, and it was just a genuine "cluster eff" in general. I felt HORRIBLE about it because Xiaoma is/was my inspiration to learn Mandarin. Somehow I managed to forget a group speaking a different form of English. I went home and found a few online tutorials to, at the very least, learn how to take their order next time. But I got hooked and have been continuing to learn it and trying to talk with deaf or hard-of-hearing folks when the opportunity arises.

  • @RealKepsi
    @RealKepsi 2 месяца назад +5265

    I'm deaf! this is FKING AWESOME!!! LITERALLY i was hoping you learn sign language someday and FINALLY you LEARNED!! i been watching you for 5 years or more! KEEP IT UP!!

    • @savantfool7123
      @savantfool7123 2 месяца назад +167

      I really wish it would become a school subject thing

    • @camden5325
      @camden5325 2 месяца назад

      @@savantfool7123It’s depends on the school but some do offer learning sign language. Even for my university ASL is listed as an official language you can learn.

    • @cansuStBenoit
      @cansuStBenoit 2 месяца назад +32

      I am not , but for me too after seeing that video i said “finally he did it” for that concept , it is really satisfying to see people communicating very spontaneously with out making sounds

    • @Fa11en34
      @Fa11en34 Месяц назад +28

      This one made my day as well and somewhat emotional. I'm hearing but I'm a school psychologist for deaf and hard of hearing schools in my area. His sign is rough but just the fact that you try and make the effort is what people love. It makes people feel good to take interest in their culture. This made my top 3 videos from him.

    • @prn_97_
      @prn_97_ Месяц назад +3

      what's your favourite song?

  • @Groovingforwardatx
    @Groovingforwardatx Месяц назад +274

    I love how expressive your aunt is while interpreting, it feels like an extension of what they’re saying rather than blandly just saying the words.

    • @mcfeddle
      @mcfeddle 25 дней назад +8

      I've met talkers who are not at all bland, and signers who are very bland. Individualism is a factor you must always consider in this modern world.

    • @AudreeAdam
      @AudreeAdam 14 дней назад

      @@mcfeddlenot 100% true when we are talking about ASL. All sign languages are very expressive. I mainly use LSQ (langue des signes québécoise) and I know ASL (they have similar sign. In LSQ, sometimes the only difference is your expression (I’m good and are you good at exactly the same signs, but you need to express he question part)

    • @mcfeddle
      @mcfeddle 13 дней назад

      @@AudreeAdam what I said was so generalized, there's no possibility of it being 100% true.

    • @nmularoni1
      @nmularoni1 6 дней назад

      Great affect indeed.

  • @trevorholland5032
    @trevorholland5032 2 месяца назад +4648

    After a long ASL conversation, shaking hands feels extra-intimate

  • @ClipFixed
    @ClipFixed 2 месяца назад +13208

    Bro has officially learned everything

    • @JaSon-wc4pn
      @JaSon-wc4pn 2 месяца назад +232

      Klingon ?
      Next week I attend a star wars convention...

    • @daisywalshe8904
      @daisywalshe8904 2 месяца назад +13

      Fr 😂

    • @KAOSPROT0
      @KAOSPROT0 2 месяца назад +24

      @@JaSon-wc4pn And the week after that Vulkan for star trek

    • @tanizaki
      @tanizaki 2 месяца назад +47

      He is still avoiding Japanese.

    • @DS-uy6jw
      @DS-uy6jw 2 месяца назад +1

      What a great video. "Never stop LURNING" :P

  • @lilarose3285
    @lilarose3285 Месяц назад +644

    1:00 YOO THAT"S MY PROFESSOR LMAOO !!! I'm literally abt to go to her class in an hour that's insane haha, I did not know she worked for a duolingo esq signing app that's so sick lol

  • @robertfrazier3425
    @robertfrazier3425 2 месяца назад +2411

    The POV watching this is so trippy with how even though youre looking at someone your talking/signing with, it doesnt look like your actually looking at them lol. Love the videos!

    • @rodlawyerr7540
      @rodlawyerr7540 2 месяца назад +194

      Yeah it made it funny and weird at the same time, I get the idea of showing two POV's at the same time but man, I think a picture in picture would be much better lmao. I loved it anyways.

    • @uncommonarchive9766
      @uncommonarchive9766 2 месяца назад +118

      yeah i think that was the 360 camera just messing with eyelines it was pretty funny made us all focus on who else was signing in the moment to Xiao

    • @biancaisidk
      @biancaisidk 2 месяца назад +52

      It was also funny seeing them walk 🤣

    • @kathryndrew5618
      @kathryndrew5618 2 месяца назад +3

      @@biancaisidk yes!!!

    • @kathryndrew5618
      @kathryndrew5618 2 месяца назад +16

      yes it is super weird, i am very curious how this camera is positioned / how it works

  • @VansForever
    @VansForever 2 месяца назад +2716

    This video is very peaceful

    • @trevorholland5032
      @trevorholland5032 2 месяца назад +60

      The silent party was a unique experience

    • @FightingCoward
      @FightingCoward 2 месяца назад +19

      It IS peaceful isn't it.

    • @adammiller9179
      @adammiller9179 2 месяца назад +21

      The restaurant experiences were so relaxing.

    • @MrJuulia01
      @MrJuulia01 2 месяца назад +2

      Fr

    • @KanariRaspberry
      @KanariRaspberry Месяц назад +3

      I have anxiety and generally, deaf video make me nervous due to the silence. Here, nope! So happy to watch this without freaking out ❤

  • @LordOfTheSteez
    @LordOfTheSteez 26 дней назад +36

    As a CODA this is my favorite video you have done. Growing up with .y parents being deaf none of my classmates believed i knew 2 languages and English being my 2nd language... the deaf community is one of the best and all they want to be is heard and understood.

  • @ShamblerDK
    @ShamblerDK 2 месяца назад +1106

    I really believe him, when he says it's his favorite language he's learned - this video was quite special.

    • @cait3
      @cait3 Месяц назад +17

      i can imagine everyone he communicates with is super excited!! its def the most underrated language, everyone overlooks it.

    • @idontneedaname318
      @idontneedaname318 Месяц назад +8

      ASL is extremely fun to learn frankly

    • @ullianoliveira6135
      @ullianoliveira6135 Месяц назад +4

      quiet especial lol sorry

  • @lok14
    @lok14 2 месяца назад +2261

    the level of wholesome this Vlog brings isn't even calculable. I want to learn now.

    • @7thgenhonda
      @7thgenhonda Месяц назад +25

      Yeah this may be weird but like this video gives me hope in humanity 😂

    • @DopeIsotope
      @DopeIsotope Месяц назад +7

      Don't do lean.

    • @acertifiedidiot-g2f
      @acertifiedidiot-g2f Месяц назад +3

      Ah yes, I would love to LEAN sign language.

    • @lok14
      @lok14 Месяц назад

      @ cheers just fixed up

    • @yourlifeisagreatstory
      @yourlifeisagreatstory Месяц назад +3

      I love how the restaurants had their names spelled in sign. Obviously most can read, but it’s a welcoming sign (no pun intended.)
      After starting this comment, I googled about ASL and reading. 30% of deaf children are leaving school illiterate! Im shocked but somehow not surprised. (Not on the part of them but not surprised by the education system.)

  • @Kvothe3
    @Kvothe3 Месяц назад +43

    Love the code switching in this video. Deaf people are so good at repairing communication with us as we mangle their language 😂

  • @friesxnxcoke
    @friesxnxcoke 2 месяца назад +918

    I love that Ari has a fan in almost every community.

  • @EAGLE_MANN
    @EAGLE_MANN 2 месяца назад +995

    I am a CODA (child of a deaf parent) and sign language is my first language and I love how you used expressions while chatting with others because most people learning/using asl will have a straight face and not even bother to smile or frown while chatting with others. Keep up the work and continue learning sign language you are doing amazing!

    • @raquel_sofia512
      @raquel_sofia512 Месяц назад +13

      I'm a CODA too! This video was great to see :))

    • @SlodBox
      @SlodBox Месяц назад +4

      No way man I am a CODA too!

    • @TiagoAdam
      @TiagoAdam Месяц назад +3

      NO WAY MAN im stupid too... i wish i can speak this many.. i love to connect to people.. but i can only do it in 2

    • @GOBBLESGTA
      @GOBBLESGTA Месяц назад +2

      what’s good brothas??

    • @janhenrik4170
      @janhenrik4170 Месяц назад

      Really enjoyed the movie CODA and had no idea what it means until now

  • @alexmufc3487
    @alexmufc3487 Месяц назад +38

    I think this is your best video ever. So eye opening! It’s embarrassing that we don’t learn this as a subject - the world needs more of you!

  • @str0xy
    @str0xy 2 месяца назад +482

    this whole video is just so wholesome i dont know why.. seeing people connect with sign language hits diffrent

    • @Kattrina-catt
      @Kattrina-catt 2 месяца назад +10

      Ikrr it's so peaceful and wholesome!

    • @Iliekmelonz
      @Iliekmelonz Месяц назад +19

      I’m not deaf, but wow. Everyone seems actually connected to each other, like people are have authentic conversations.. to me that is beautiful, I think being able to express yourself with hand gestures is so cool and unique language

  • @marialvarez7954
    @marialvarez7954 2 месяца назад +720

    The way sign language instantly connected me with my kiddos who couldn’t speak but knew asl… like, i swear to god, language is culture is community is connnection- so many people struggled with these kiddos because they didn’t meet em halfway.
    I honestly believe asl should be taught in all schools, nothing is lost by learning more languages.

    • @Echs_D33
      @Echs_D33 Месяц назад +1

      Something neat: Hawaii has something called the Seal of Biliteracy, where if you speak one of the state's languages + prove proficiency in another, including ASL, you get a certificate and a medal you can wear during your high school graduation.
      In my experiences, at least in public schools, they don't offer ASL as a language elective though. Still, I think it's cool.

  • @zaquueen
    @zaquueen 29 дней назад +20

    as a Deaf person, i am truly thrilled to see that you are learning American Sign Language. it's amazing! i believe this is such an important step, and i feel like you are embracing a part of the Deaf culture in a meaningful way. i have been watching your videos for years, and i always wished that you would learn ASL.

  • @johng.4711
    @johng.4711 2 месяца назад +397

    I only knew a few signs, but after signing “thank you” to a cashier at Trader Joe’s and seeing her amazing reaction to a tiny gesture I decided to learn it for real.

    • @maggiemccauslin1084
      @maggiemccauslin1084 2 месяца назад +15

      That's why it's one of the languages I'm trying to learn I've done simple things and have seen people light up... it seems worth it to fully learn it

    • @AlwaysBenevolence
      @AlwaysBenevolence 2 месяца назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @_marshaI_
      @_marshaI_ Месяц назад +1

      Was she deaf

  • @joshbarwick
    @joshbarwick 2 месяца назад +673

    I was almost crying in parts of this video. I almost didn't click but it's maybe one of my favourites you've ever done!

    • @LiveInSydney
      @LiveInSydney 2 месяца назад +17

      Im with you on this

    • @johnnydang141
      @johnnydang141 2 месяца назад +11

      Agree 100%

    • @acapellasanonymous
      @acapellasanonymous 2 месяца назад +20

      The family at the pizzeria got me

    • @bill944
      @bill944 2 месяца назад +20

      I actually was crying at 21:36, the woman in the background in the pink shirt talking to another woman. I think I picked up on what message she was sending.

    • @duncanj9696
      @duncanj9696 2 месяца назад +5

      same! esp the pizzeria

  • @onelove7069
    @onelove7069 Месяц назад +12

    This is one video where i wih you didnt use the wide angle lens. It would have been really nice just to see clearly the signs. I hope you do more signing videos with easy to see angles. I love watching the signs

  • @danielwolk3576
    @danielwolk3576 2 месяца назад +355

    this is just beautiful.. I dont know.. there is a different aura in ASL conversations, it just seems to be peaceful, fun, kind and welcoming. Much different than having a vocal conversation.

  • @puppy2haley
    @puppy2haley 2 месяца назад +343

    My daughter is an ASL adjunct instructor. She took to learning sign language instead of Spainish in the 8th grade. It is now her career going on 15 years. This is great you learned this language. People are so nice! ❤️❤️👍 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @Seby1223
    @Seby1223 10 дней назад +2

    YOU HAVE TO RUN IT BACK WITH A PART 2…i’ve been watching for years and this is by far my favorite video so far

  • @Nikohhh04
    @Nikohhh04 2 месяца назад +729

    This video was so quiet. Truly gives you perspective on what it’s like being deaf every day. Damn. Great video bro!

    • @JohnKim_24
      @JohnKim_24 2 месяца назад +3

      Perspective for sure

    • @spikey420
      @spikey420 2 месяца назад +16

      see, as hearing people (Im hard of hearing but hear enough to get by most of the time so for the sake of reply, say im hearing)
      we hear the background noises in the video like his mutterings of the words
      alot of them dont hear that, or the little noises like the fans and the shoes etc
      they can just feel alot of the sounds around them

    • @samuelhernandez9820
      @samuelhernandez9820 2 месяца назад +4

      Watch it on mute

    • @Sk47_bangouuut
      @Sk47_bangouuut 2 месяца назад +2

      @@spikey420okay so question, considering deaf people can “feel” the sounds how are they feeling it? the same way hearing people do or is it different receptors that feel the sounds?

    • @ReneHH91
      @ReneHH91 2 месяца назад +3

      @@Sk47_bangouuuti‘m no Expert at all and That’s just a guess ..but Everything that happens around you Sends out frequencies/vibrations/Energy?! They might be more sensitive to it?
      This is actually what we as humans were way more capable of in the past and it‘s some
      Type of deeper conncection to your surroundings and the World itself. I might be totally wrong but that was the First thing that crossed my mind

  • @urmaker
    @urmaker 2 месяца назад +1385

    21:35 The chick in the back! LMFAO! I don't know ASL, but I can guess what that means.

    • @elusive73
      @elusive73 2 месяца назад +192

      lmfao I totally missed that the first time watching!

    • @TheMaxxsj
      @TheMaxxsj 2 месяца назад +48

      oooo nice one sherlock haha

    • @Igmus
      @Igmus 2 месяца назад +218

      Good catch, that's hilarious. I guess it's hard to be discrete when signing about sex lol. I guess a lot of the time if you want to be discrete you'd have to spell out the words so hearing people don't see you gesturing a whole scene LOL.

    • @mandelbrot7095
      @mandelbrot7095 2 месяца назад +6

      lolllllllllllllllll hahhahahhaha

    • @Wengeh
      @Wengeh 2 месяца назад +306

      lol and the way her friend smacks her and points to the camera

  • @kd-yd3db
    @kd-yd3db Месяц назад +56

    That conversation at the end was so wholesome it made me smile so hard omg I take hearing for granted 0:15

  • @redknights2007
    @redknights2007 2 месяца назад +273

    I don't think I've smiled so much watching a RUclips video. Really enjoyed this one.

    • @BuckfastTonicWine
      @BuckfastTonicWine 2 месяца назад +6

      neither especially in these times where ive had a falling out with my family and have become almost dependent on drink watching this made me the happiest ive been in months and somehow makes me want to change my life for better and mainly learn some asl to kill time and enjoy the process

  • @denniskim1352
    @denniskim1352 2 месяца назад +114

    I thought the super quiet Starbucks was cool.... but the party was even more amazing. Really great work Ari. Not only do you have a gift for languages but also one for people

  • @ruthcarlton9761
    @ruthcarlton9761 Месяц назад +4

    As someone that signs professionally, you did amazing for only learning for a month.
    You are doing great! Keep it up! ❤

  • @EE-bg1de
    @EE-bg1de 2 месяца назад +134

    Finally, you found the language i love the most. ASL is my love, Been speaking for about 11 years now, i have a deaf sister in my congregation and it's amazing.

    • @monosy1ab1k
      @monosy1ab1k 2 месяца назад +3

      I'm fascinated with it. Is it something one could make a career out of as an interpreter easily (once asl is learned) or not so much?

    • @johnr.6029
      @johnr.6029 28 дней назад

      @@monosy1ab1k Well, not so easily. Yes, it is easy to learn basic sign language, but learning ASL takes real commitment and a long time. It's not just replacing words with signs- you can say SO MUCH without actually signing - expressions, miming, and just being funny! I started learning ASL back in 1987, and so did my wife. We've had many deaf friends over the years. My wife went to college and got her degree in ASL interpreting. She interpreted at several churches as we moved over the years, and she also interpreted at several schools. I've never become fluent, but I did reach a conversational level. Being part of the "deaf community" really changed our lives. They helped us and we helped them. Our family became part of many deaf families. We had weekly game nights, went to many deaf events, taught others how to sign, learned as they also did - to incorporate new technologies which decreased communication roadblocks. Deaf people have really impacted our lives, and made our lives so much richer.

  • @mgollow
    @mgollow 2 месяца назад +172

    I love how pumped his friend was that Ari was doing ASL

  • @Mike75W
    @Mike75W 6 дней назад +2

    I've seen many of your videos, but this one is hands down the most amazing video you've done. You can feel the appreciation and overall community. Well done man, keep it up.

  • @azer86x
    @azer86x 2 месяца назад +161

    At my last job, I had a coworker who is deaf and when he found out I already knew a little ASL he was so excited to teach me more! Being able to sign to him without having to use his writing tablet was so great! He could also read lips, but I usually spoke too fast for that lol. 謝謝你, 小马!

  • @cheewok
    @cheewok 2 месяца назад +167

    I’m a student of Italian, Sicilian, Latin, Spanish, Cantonese, Japanese and ASL, and hands down ASL is my favourite. Not only is it a beautiful, elegant, expressive and lyrical language, but Deaf culture is so dynamic and varied in its richness. I feel very at home signing and in my local Deaf community. Really love to see this. 🤟 I hope you do more ASL episodes in the future.

    • @burritosupreme5310
      @burritosupreme5310 2 месяца назад

      Hands up*

    • @mar420.74
      @mar420.74 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@burritosupreme5310 no the expression is actually hands down!

    • @LartinBeats-rg6pf
      @LartinBeats-rg6pf 2 месяца назад +3

      Actually if found LIBRAS ( Brazilian sign language) to be even more fun on dynamic than ASL. I've learnt a couple of Sing languages, and LIBRAS and JIS ( Japanese sing language) were my favourite ❤

    • @burritosupreme5310
      @burritosupreme5310 Месяц назад

      @@mar420.74 I would be very confused why someone would be speaking ASL with their hands down at their hips unless they were whispering.

    • @graceplayz4u
      @graceplayz4u 15 дней назад

      parlo anche Italiano ma vorrei imparare siciliano perché il mio nonno è Siciliano! È difficile?

  • @BradleyAndrew94
    @BradleyAndrew94 Месяц назад +1

    I love how throughout all the deaf people signing, it’s almost completely silent with laughter being the exception. Proof that it really is the universal language.

  • @j.svensson7652
    @j.svensson7652 2 месяца назад +86

    My youngest son has autism and ASL was the first way we found that he could communicate. We still use some signs to help him tell us what he needs. "Help", "Thank you", "Please", "More" were and still are some of his favorites. Well done Ari!

    • @feelinghealingfrequences7179
      @feelinghealingfrequences7179 Месяц назад

      does he read lips yet

    • @kerim.peardon5551
      @kerim.peardon5551 6 дней назад

      I worked with a lady whose grandson was diagnosed as autistic. She went full mama bear on researching interventions and getting him everything he needed in terms of therapy. The family also learned ASL and taught him so they could communicate with him. By the time he was old enough for kindergarten or first grade, he was verbal and where he could integrate into a regular school with just some additional therapy/special ed a few hours a week to help him along.
      I don't know if he would achieved so much if they hadn't started signing with him as soon as he was diagnosed. That's a critical time of brain development and not developing language skills at that time has permanent effects. ASL works just like any other language, so it developed those language skills in his brain until he was ready to process a vocal language.
      I've heard of people teaching babies a few basic signs; they say that babies can learn to sign before they can speak, and that they can achieve a surprisingly high (relatively speaking) level of fluency in ASL compared to average spoken fluency for a child of the same age. Apparently we're wired and ready for a language before we can vocalize, and our hand dexterity progresses faster than our vocal dexterity. Some sort of sign language might be our original ancestor language.

  • @HandsIntoHistory
    @HandsIntoHistory 2 месяца назад +658

    I've been an ASL interpreter for the last almost 20 years. I went to RIT (Rochester Institute of Technology) to get my degrees, and I am SO jealous, because in all that time, I've NEVER been given a sign name, yet you got one after going to a deaf party one night! (Deaf people say my name, Suzie, is too easy to sign and that's the reason I haven't been given a sign name). Oh, and for those wondering: only Deaf people can give sign names. Great video!

    • @djniebs
      @djniebs 2 месяца назад +74

      My mom interpreted for many years and had a lot of Deaf friends. I was given a sign name before I could even learned to sign! I grew up with it thinking it was normal. I was felt so honored when I realized not everyone just had a sign name. Hope you can receive one soon!

    • @DarrenBush
      @DarrenBush 2 месяца назад +11

      I went to the U of R! I miss deaf culture. Customers come into my shop and they’re always surprised to be greeted in ASL. 😊

    • @HandsIntoHistory
      @HandsIntoHistory 2 месяца назад +14

      @DarrenBush With Rochester being the largest Deaf population per capita, you'd think after all these years working there, that I'd get a name sign. I've interpreted classes at U of R, and of course I'm a patient thru the whole UR/Strong system, which has SO many great doctors, nurses, techs, etc! Can I ask what you studied? I mostly do educational interpreting (secondary, post-secondary) and love hearing about what people major in and how they use it later. What is your store? That's awesome you are able to sign to customers-sweet!Rochester is very Deaf savvy, which is SO nice! We have Starbucks here that have drive thru ordering with screens so if someone is Deaf, the baristas can do a video order with them! Some day I'll get to the Deaf Starbucks in DC. My daughter lives just outside of DC so I visit her and need to just make the time to go there.

    • @abj136
      @abj136 2 месяца назад +4

      @@HandsIntoHistory My friend who is hearing impaired would bring me to the deaf club, and he had me just make up a name sign for myself.

    • @TheGeeMan
      @TheGeeMan 2 месяца назад +9

      It's like Fighter Pilots, they have to be given a callsign by their pilot buddies, I hope you get your sign name soon

  • @kianna7911
    @kianna7911 8 дней назад +2

    i spent all 4 years of my highschool career learning sign language and all i’ve got to show for it are the basics and how to write in ASL. MAJOR KUDOS TO YOU 💕💕💕

  • @Team7NarutoSakuraSai
    @Team7NarutoSakuraSai 2 месяца назад +75

    I’m not crying, you’re crying. Beautiful video!
    I’ve fundraised for NDCS (National Deaf Children Society), a British charity and this video just portrays brilliantly how beautiful and welcoming the deaf community is. Amazing work man

    • @dionh70
      @dionh70 2 месяца назад +6

      I'm a grown man, a father & grandfather, and I'm unashamed to say this video brought tears to my eyes as well.

    • @jellysalsa
      @jellysalsa 2 месяца назад +1

      @@dionh70I’m a grandfather also, and brought tears to my eyes too.

  • @peterivero4337
    @peterivero4337 2 месяца назад +57

    I am tearing in my eyes. My daughter, a teen, and many years ago was teaching me that I learned simple to be more respectful to their community . Heartfelt bro, and I really understand a new view of my daughter golden heart and value. Hope to see you do more involvement with their community.

  • @awol_molly
    @awol_molly 16 дней назад +3

    This was so cool! I was born deaf, but started hearing around 2 years old. I've been told I'll go deaf again some point in my life, so I've been trying to learn ASL before it happens. I don't know many signs, but I'm glad I was taught how to read as it was very much needed in this video.

  • @Velanae
    @Velanae 2 месяца назад +68

    I've been taught sign language since the age of 2 with my mother being deaf as well as my aunt. You will almost always make a deaf persons day when you speak to them in ASL, especially when you don't know them. I've had the pleasure of having these sorts of interactions my whole life. Glad to see you do this!

  • @erikamartin7403
    @erikamartin7403 2 месяца назад +58

    One of my favourite Xiaoma videos of all time! Seeing that 3 generation deaf family was amazing: they get to be a part of this incredible culture together and you can see their joy!
    My dad lost his vision when I was 13 and though we as a family faced numerous accessibility barriers, communication was one thing that was relatively unaffected; I took this for granted until now. Such admiration for deaf people and their families who make the effort to learn to sign - a true love language!

  • @monothecamel
    @monothecamel 24 дня назад +3

    This video is so wholesome and makes me so motivated to learn ASL! But 4:11, the girl’s hunchback is killing me 😭

    • @JustMitchPool
      @JustMitchPool День назад

      I know what you mean. Unsure if you know, it's because of the fisheye lense the camera has.

  • @Tomatokillz
    @Tomatokillz Месяц назад +80

    This is beautiful. I bet these people will never forget how passionate you were to learn their language.

  • @deepfriedlostchildren2627
    @deepfriedlostchildren2627 2 месяца назад +207

    3:50 guessing they can’t misspell your name when you literally spell it out for them

  • @HowGamersPlay
    @HowGamersPlay 2 дня назад

    I wasn't ready to cry right after waking up, thanks again Xiaoma, The silence gave me room to think while watching a video and now I really intend to learn at least some signing this coming year.

  • @jesuschrist194
    @jesuschrist194 2 месяца назад +100

    Bro that was something else. You're a something else youtuber xD I never in my life expected to see you learn SIGN language and then I remember Its a freaking language!! dude that was insane. I saw you tear up several times throughout the video, I think this method of speaking is just so VISCERAL and PHYSICAL and you probably FEEL the language much more because Its literally body language haha, and that's 90% of our day to day language anyway. So wow, I'm so in love with this video, you're an awesome youtuber man, and Its nice to get videos like this one and the one where you explained why you move away from New York, and how your weight loss journey went, you're more than Xiaoma, you're Ari! and you're an inspiration. Keep it up man :)

  • @GuyWilson706
    @GuyWilson706 2 месяца назад +75

    As someone who wasn’t born deaf, but became profound at 3 due to illness this video made me so happy to see! Thank you Ari! 🙌🥹

    • @maylily820
      @maylily820 Месяц назад

      What illness did you get when you were young that made you lose all of your hearing?

  • @jadenreimer4753
    @jadenreimer4753 Месяц назад +2

    This is really fascinating. It's so interesting to see how sign language makes a person's full expressiveness come alive. Their face is so active and the rest of their body language is so clearly speaking too. With spoken word it's far too easy to mumble and people expect to be understood. These people seem so glad to be understood and share these interactions

  • @Maymaysmaymays
    @Maymaysmaymays 2 месяца назад +23

    I’m fluent in Swedish Sign Language, and this is exactly how I learned it; by meeting deaf people and going out for a drink or throwing deaf parties with my friend. It really is as relaxing as it seems in this video, and deaf people are very welcoming.

    • @tpaine7680
      @tpaine7680 2 месяца назад

      How much of the American one can you make sense of watching it?

    • @Maymaysmaymays
      @Maymaysmaymays 2 месяца назад +4

      ⁠​⁠ASL is quite difficult for me to understand. Some signs are the same, like “eat”, “what” and “where”. But for the most part, it’s too different. I definitely have an easier time with BSL.

  • @gracielarojas3200
    @gracielarojas3200 2 месяца назад +100

    ARI, PLEASE MAKE A PART 2....😂😂😂.

  • @kokopopping
    @kokopopping Месяц назад

    Absolutely OBSESSED with the idea of a deaf college, it must be so refreshing to have a community that understands you and be surrounded by people who can communicate with you uninhibited. Hope to see similar institutions in future.

  • @stephendeon4028
    @stephendeon4028 2 месяца назад +45

    As a CODA I've been waiting for you to learn ASL. So glad you did. Awesome Video!

  • @EM-ru3eh
    @EM-ru3eh 2 месяца назад +29

    I love this video! My late husband of 20 years was Deaf, and I am (a former ASL interpreter) still fluent in the language. Thank you for highlighting Deaf culture, and the intricacies, beauty, and joy of ASL. 🤟🏻

  • @t.grimes9973
    @t.grimes9973 28 дней назад

    Ari, this is the first video of yours that made me cry! My best childhood friend married into a deaf family, as this has inspired me to work harder on my ASL. Thank you for creating and sharing.

  • @LilChuunosuke
    @LilChuunosuke 2 месяца назад +45

    I follow multiple deaf creators, so I was completely caught off guard when I realized this video was by Ari! 😂
    Thank you for highlighting this beautiful language and culture! I truly think more schools should offer sign language classes. A terrifying 70-90% of parents with a deaf child never learn sign language. For those with only partial hearing loss or auditory processing disorder, many are not even taught sign language at all and are left to struggle and learn how to to manage completely on their own in a hearing society.
    Deaf people deserve access to language and community and would LOVE to see more hearing people learn and chat with us!

    • @resourceress7
      @resourceress7 Месяц назад

      What are your suggestions for Deaf creators to follow?

  • @Lucassssmile
    @Lucassssmile 2 месяца назад +57

    As a CODA, I was so happy to see this video!! You’re truly talented with the amount of languages you can master. I’m so happy you find ASL to be an enjoyable language

  • @thefoxmoonlight
    @thefoxmoonlight Месяц назад +2

    9:50 The laughing sighs deaf people make when really happy are so fricking cute and wholesome X_X my god.

  • @TheKatarinaGiselle
    @TheKatarinaGiselle 2 месяца назад +63

    The interaction in the pizza place was so nice and wholesome! Also, I hope this doesn’t come off as offensive, but hearing deaf people laugh has always given me the same instant serotonin and pure joy as hearing babies laugh/babies laughing in their sleep. I think for many reasons. One, it’s hard to make me laugh..like truly laugh out loud sincerely and with my whole body letting go and truly finding something hysterical. And I seek to be able to do that because sometimes it feels like a lot of time goes by between a true, deep belly laugh. When I hear a deaf person laughing, I believe it. As in, I don’t believe it’s ever fake..they are genuinely experiencing that feeling, and that energy rubs off on me and just makes me feel their joy! I really hope that makes sense! 😅 I have always wanted to learn ASL, and I would like to start practicing!

  • @Spookalypse
    @Spookalypse 2 месяца назад +248

    Probably the most underrated language and most quiet language ever lol

    • @InvisibleSquids
      @InvisibleSquids 2 месяца назад +36

      As a person who does not know very much sign language, I can only imagine heated arguments look like aggressive flailing. I fear upsetting a deaf person and finding out

    • @closebutnope4978
      @closebutnope4978 2 месяца назад +6

      @@InvisibleSquids That's accurate haha

    • @badcornflakes6374
      @badcornflakes6374 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@InvisibleSquids That and some grunting and groaning sounds for sure

    • @fa3bl3d
      @fa3bl3d Месяц назад +4

      As a CODA, I can comfortably say that while the language may be quiet, very rarely are the people or the culture, you’ll routinely have TVs blasting, rooms shaking, and deaf people yelling when they’re telling each other jokes

    • @evangelion045
      @evangelion045 Месяц назад

      "most quiet language"

  • @david.the.disaster
    @david.the.disaster Месяц назад +1

    It's your favorite language you've learned and it's my favorite language you've learned. Very wholesome to see an inner look at a unique culture in the deaf community and the fact that they're people all the same with their nuances and humor. I'm glad they have restaurants and cafes that accommodate them.

  • @Melissa-tw2gp
    @Melissa-tw2gp 2 месяца назад +15

    ASL is just an incredible human accomplishment in my eyes. The artistry of the language, the vibrancy of deaf culture. It’s amazing. The facial aspect of the language is under appreciated imo.
    Also, your guide is so handsome.

  • @melissaculpepper7663
    @melissaculpepper7663 2 месяца назад +30

    I’m blown away, Ari! You never cease to amaze me! Thank you for opening up this “silent world” to the “hearing world”!!! Blessings to all!

  • @angrysloth
    @angrysloth 19 дней назад

    I love josh's vibes, immediately hugging the strangers in the party and always a big smile on his face.

  • @TheAmbientBlanket
    @TheAmbientBlanket 2 месяца назад +16

    By far the best video you've ever done. To see the world from the perspective of the deaf was wonderful, and I have so much love and respect for the community they've built there. Thank you for doing this. I love the fact it truly seemed like you enjoyed your time there.

  • @blakewilliams3702
    @blakewilliams3702 2 месяца назад +139

    As a white guy married to a Chinese lady, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed watching your videos, especially the ones with your family. I’ve got to say, this is by far my favorite video. Tears are flowing. Thank you.

    • @dinkster
      @dinkster 2 месяца назад +4

      love the beard!😯wish mine was like that... (im not the person in my profile picture by the way😅)

    • @blakewilliams3702
      @blakewilliams3702 2 месяца назад +11

      @@dinksterThanks. It draws a lot of attention when we’re in China!

    • @dinkster
      @dinkster 2 месяца назад +6

      @@blakewilliams3702 my dad had a similiar exprience in a thailand vacation, said all the old ladies were touching it like he's some husky😂

  • @flipmash1207
    @flipmash1207 14 дней назад

    I think it’s interesting how group conversations happen, there’s a presence and balance to the groups they must all share equal space physically unlike spoken language. It’s beautiful

  • @brianedgin
    @brianedgin 2 месяца назад +24

    This is one of the best you've done Ari. Just so good on so many levels for so many reasons. Thank you.

  • @txterbug
    @txterbug 2 месяца назад +28

    Awesome bro. Everything you do is for the betterment of mankind. We should all learn more than 1 language. Sign language should be a given mandatory. I’m going to start today.

  • @Classic_seeker
    @Classic_seeker Месяц назад +9

    Omg I clicked soooo fast!!! Dude you finally started learning my language!!!! ASL is the absolute WIZARD!!! Once you learned sign language it’s impossible to stop! Incorporate sign in every conversation with both deaf and hearing people! You won’t regret it!!

  • @echopeak
    @echopeak 2 месяца назад +19

    This tears it- I learned basic ASL in fourth grade and loved it. I have been wanting to re-learn ASL for years now and always put it off. I am going to become proficient!

  • @JTsunami
    @JTsunami 2 месяца назад +18

    I'm raised CODA (child of deaf adults), so this was a cool video to see you do! Thanks for bringing awareness to the deaf community! 🤟😊

  • @adamr67
    @adamr67 29 дней назад

    The end had me teary eyed. The respect an honesty had me holding back the ocean.

  • @rachelreine
    @rachelreine 2 месяца назад +8

    Your friends who helped you around were so lovely and had such warm smiles! The deaf community is so wonderful

  • @normiewoo787
    @normiewoo787 2 месяца назад +8

    Honestly, man, you are the G.O.A.T. I can't stop crying. This was incredibly moving.

  • @thatfishingnoob
    @thatfishingnoob 16 дней назад

    The ASL community has been the most consistently nice people I’ve ever met and even attempt to sign to them a little. Their faces all LIT UP when I tried to sign. It’s really sincere.

  • @xyzxyzxyzxyzxyzxyz
    @xyzxyzxyzxyzxyzxyz 2 месяца назад +17

    This is your best and most heart-warming video so far.

  • @TacoStacks
    @TacoStacks 2 месяца назад +18

    This guy does everything!

  • @saramckenna9845
    @saramckenna9845 Месяц назад +1

    As a progressive HOH (hard of hearing) and long term studyer of ASL, I am soooooo grateful and appreciative to see you sharing this language and culture with your community and world! Thank you!

  • @slash8729
    @slash8729 2 месяца назад +24

    This was my favourite video of yours mate. Incredible

  • @kristinaj9159
    @kristinaj9159 2 месяца назад +9

    Signing is beautiful. I’m glad that you finally did this! I’ve been wanting/trying to learn more myself. I think it’s a good reminder for us hearing viewers - who often rely on our ears too much. We have to pay more attention to the video. Be in the moment more.

  • @amitboga1667
    @amitboga1667 15 дней назад +1

    This is video is wholesome
    I have been trying to learn sign language for a couple of days through self learning and it is really hard with no one teaching me
    Kudos to you Xiaoma

  • @flibben
    @flibben 2 месяца назад +10

    I only know some basic Swedish sign language, but it's so much fun to express one self with the whole body, makes you feel more alive! Was really fun seeing you learn ASL and how far you came in 1 month!
    I hope you get the chance to do more videos like this!

  • @huntergarland3234
    @huntergarland3234 Месяц назад +20

    12:23 “where’d you learn sign language???”
    Does bro keep his channel a secret like he’s spider man???😭

  • @MichaelJones-ff9gb
    @MichaelJones-ff9gb Месяц назад

    This was such a terrific and wholesome video! The Deaf Party was a highlight for sure, looked like y'all having so much fun! I learned so much about the deaf community, thank you. :)

  • @flipflopsneeded
    @flipflopsneeded 2 месяца назад +47

    Last part was amazing and can't wait for part 2.😂

  • @miriellourraineaque
    @miriellourraineaque 2 месяца назад +8

    Why am I crying? I just remembered Moses. 😢 You could have been learning ASL with him together . I know he's proud of you Ari. Moses, Ari and Kazuma are the reasons that Im trying my best to learn language❤

    • @2kaza
      @2kaza Месяц назад +1

      RIP the GOAT!! Hope he’s learning god’s language rn 🥰🥰

  • @lightmage666
    @lightmage666 Месяц назад

    I love that you did this. The deaf community is literally some of the best people.

  • @Elphie204
    @Elphie204 2 месяца назад +28

    I've been an ASL Interpreter for over 30 years, the language and community are amazing ✨️

  • @OhDeerLordie
    @OhDeerLordie Месяц назад +9

    I love how that because inherently your videos are about speaking different languages, you subtitle so much of your videos!
    I bet you never really thought about how that also makes it accessible for deaf or HoH, it's super cool!

  • @rnarine89
    @rnarine89 29 дней назад +1

    I’m a pediatrician and am from Queens, have been watching your videos for years. This is amazing bro!

  • @joshwarner9208
    @joshwarner9208 2 месяца назад +11

    100% one of my most favorite videos yet!

  • @allys103
    @allys103 2 месяца назад +53

    9:20 this angle is killing me

    • @ICantCreateAUsername
      @ICantCreateAUsername 2 месяца назад +7

      I immediately opened the comments when I got to that part of the video 😂

    • @perilous_8432
      @perilous_8432 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ICantCreateAUsernameSame 😂

  • @cmz3866
    @cmz3866 28 дней назад +1

    Watching this video brightened up my day. I reside just outside Washington, D.C., and I immediately recognized every location you visited. As a member of the Deaf (D/d) and Hard of Hearing (HH) community, this video brought a smile to my face. Within the past five years, American Sign Language (ASL) was finally recognized as a foreign language after years of advocacy in the Fairfax County Public School System. I’m currently in college, minoring in ASL, and I absolutely adore it. It strengthens my connection to my family even more. My aunt, who is profoundly Deaf, meaning she has almost no hearing, and my sister, who is also hard of hearing, are both part of this community. Thank you SO much! If you ever want to meet more people in the area and or meet with some D/deaf educators as well please let me know!

  • @ofthenearfuture
    @ofthenearfuture 2 месяца назад +9

    This was super cool and a fun video. And I apparently didn't know a lot about ASL or deaf culture, so it was also very interesting. So I hope to see part 2 and more ASL videos in the future!