"When Will The Pain Finally Get Better?!" (Non Duality & Trauma)
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
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My channel is a resource for helping you reduce suffering in daily life through the application of root level solutions. This is advocated with orientating toward Awakening/Non-Dual awakening, Source-code emotional integration using somatic (emotional) inquiry and taking on an empirical, open hearted investigation of core beliefs and perceptual overlays that innocently accrue in childhood and create suffering.
If you resonate with teachers such as Angelo Dilullo, Ramana Maharishi, Jeff Foster, Suzanne Chang, Violet Synergy, Joseph Goldstein, Scott Kiloby, Michael Taft and Adyashanti - you’ll find this material very relatable.
All of the hopelessness and the challenges of knowledge acquisition I find are opportunities. I approached meditation with seriousness. But the freedom from desire, freedom from attachment comes from ease. Holding things more softly. One becomes great at articulating experience but words are not experience and they have no use to inner peace.
I like to frame it like this. The way you proceed in life and meditation are the focus and emphasis. They are the force and they create the conditions that keep us free from desire. It’s an old adage but focus on “the way” and you will also acquire the destination. Sit with softness, beginners mind, ease and just watch. We are not meditating for results but it’s an act of being the natural self.
My aspiration for this process for myself is to learn to do no harm to myself or others. I honestly believe that is where the peace is. I do feel better, and am more capable of facing myself. But it has been a really hard slog. For me, it is not that the psychological pain lessens exactly, but that it comes and goes and is observable. In this way I see all things are changing all the time. There is comfort in this and does reduce suffering because I am less fearful. I am grateful to my teachers especially for introducing me to the brahmaviharas.
@@jaimemoore6 Powerful aspirations and authenticity. Thanks for sharing.
Looking back on any dream you ever had you can realize the personal perspective always was erroneous although each time it took awakening to (be able to) realize it.
Any suffering requires a personal perspective.
Consciousness is all there is (in any dream including the dream called life): just awaken to realize your essential nature.
thank you!!!...yea...starting again....loads of knowledge...' # ALICE MILLER!
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Hi Sam. Big wall of text incoming.
I don’t believe things very easily, and I don’t normally talk at people trying to convince them of anything, because I myself am not a good person. So I’ll just tell you what’s come to in my heart and you can make of it what you will.
I imagine that I’m in heaven, I’m at complete peace for countless years lasting all of eternity. At one moment, I’m on a beautiful beach and I hear a little whining noise beneath the warm sand. For the first time in a long time I feel something is wrong. I slowly turn my eyes to see a little black rat crawling out of the sand, squealing. I hear a loud shrill scream coming from all around me. Only to realize that it’s me who is screaming, because I had forgotten to account for one single detail. One minuscule work of disillusionment that I didn’t complete before retiring from myself.
In my horror, I see the black rat has turned so black that I no longer see a rat but a void, where there is neither duality nor unity, where God dies. I look closer, closer again.. even closer. And I see a Good Man, Jesus Christ, the Savior of all things who tells me, “It’s ok”.
Sorry for the dramatics, but with all of my love I can tell you that as deep as the eye can see, there is a friend.
Thanks for your attention and I wish you all the best.
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Sounds good. But is it possible to get all the good stuff without going through trauma, fixing the energy system? I wonder myself. Will be waiting for the next video
@@Kogirius will come out soon in 24 hours or so :)
No bypassing possible, at least not in my direct experience. find a good coach and therapist that are conscious! The good news, is if you are oriented towards or abiding in truth, the residues, vasanas burn when they burn, don't go diving in.
Hi, What do you mean by losing your sens of self? How could this happen?
@@ellenolsson3703 In non-duality, one can practice to dissolve the illusory sense of self through self inquiry that is apparently separate from the rest of the world.
@@SamRoff Okay do you mean by meditation? Non-duality is it meditation? It's a little confusing if there is no self? :) ❤
@@ellenolsson3703 non duality is a truth of reality that we are not separate from everything. You could call non-duality a meditation practice I suppose, but it’s more so a truth of non-separateness from the universe. Meditation practices bring us into contact (such as self inquiry). Hope that makes sense :)
@@SamRoff okay, thanks for the explanation Sam! :)
@@ellenolsson3703 you’re welcome!
Non-duality is an absolute truth that people can find out through self enquiry
Ask yourself, what am i?
Maybe you are trying too hard.....and thus not simply surrendering.
@@bhawna9705 Things are much better now. These videos are what I would have liked to hear 2 years ago
Stop the psyco-babble and accept the fact that there is no meaning or purpose in the universe. As simple as that. Now get off your arise and start living, knowing its only a game where others have defined the rules for you. "It is not your responsibility to solve the problems in the universe"-Richrd Feynman.
@@bibap-uo2io sorry buddy, you’re gonna have to put up with my psycho babble at this stage as it’s where my heart is aligned to. Take it or leave it. There’s always the option to just not watch the videos.
Bibap would rather follow victim mentality
BiPAP-uo2io - Ask yourself - Is it really necessary to criticise someone who is trying to help? What benefits do you gain from this type of comment? Are you trying to help by making this sort of comment? Are you better off trying to understand? If this is not for you then simply go where you connect better to. I hope you get your answers.
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Hey bro im going through the same thing..dudvyou have trauma in CHILDHOOD
@@MrADTNZ we all do to some degree, where small t trauma or big T Trauma. Significant events or otherwise. So yes. Hope you’re well!