We also made a video on the signs someone likes you, even if you don't think so: ruclips.net/video/ZhYxXwi_VCU/видео.html [EDITED] So many of you commented about the song "Dude SHE's just not into you". How many of you know this song?
to anyone who has a person who likes you but you don’t like them in a romantic way : please do tell them the truth. not being clear is the worst thing you can do. if you worry about hurting them,, it’ll hurt them more if you give them false hope. they need to face rejection to move on !!
1. they don't open up about themselves at all 0:47 2. they haven't made the move to ask you out 1:22 3. you just aren't feeling it 1:51 4. they ignore you 2:20 5. their responses are short 2:43 6. they don't introduce you to family or friends 3:09 7. they bring up their ex often 3:41 8. their phone is protected at all costs 4:07 9. they're not ready for a relationship - and they've told you 4:35 I hope I could help! :D
If you like someone but they are not into you that much. Just leave. Don't get your expectations high and get hurt. If someone is not making an effort to be with you or their words don't match their actions. Leave. Instead Focus on yourself and Love yourself Love your flaws, imperfections, insecurities, everything❤️
If someone is really into you then he/she will make you a priority (and break their own rules). They will adjust their schedule and make an attempt to make it work around you. If not then they just aren't that into you
While I agree with what you’re saying generally, I don’t like the phrasing of “break their own rules.” That reads to me like someone who lack boundaries and who doesn’t care about themselves. There’s absolutely a way to accommodate the people you love in your life without breaking the rules that you’ve set for yourself (probably for good reason).
@@myacct8304 The video was about initial dating so the rules I was referring to were her dating rules. It goes both ways of course. Breaking rules for those we love is different. But I would agree that if we have to set rules around love then it's a completely different conversation
This channel is literally my therapist tbh.Calming voice, accurate points, cute animations,relatable contents and they help many people.The most helpful channel throughout yt.I love you guys please don't stop making these.
True. I don't bother looking (I just enjoy watching videos from this RUclipsr). As I live my life, I see friends, family, and others in miserable marriages. I can't imagine living like that, so this is something I am guaranteed not to have if I'm not in a relationship with someone. Sure, there may be that one person who is perfect for me, but I doubt I'll meet her, so I'm not worrying and enjoying my money grow.
@@Realgenelive100 I am 26 and have never been in a relationship in my life. I had my first date 4 years ago, never had a girlfriend though. Girls make it pretty clear that they have no interest in me and I am okay with that. It isn’t the end of the world. Happiness is doing what gives your life meaning; your passion is a factor of happiness. Companionship is just another factor of that happiness as well; companionship ship isn’t complete happiness. I have my own values and engage them; it ain’t the end of the world for me to remain single the rest of my life because other things makes you live life.
Well, I'm about to invite someone for meeting, and I'm really into this person. Any of those sings just don't fit our relationship, so I can feel free to do something to push is further
Heck yeah! And even if, for some reason, things don't work out, just remember: There is more honor in taking a shot and missing than not taking the shot at all. :D
That's great you want to pursue something more with that person. However, do take into consideration that this video is just for educational/fun purposes and not considered to be professional advice.
For the record, I've confirmed that my crush doesn't give a shit about me for the 1000000th time with the help of this channel. Thanks a lot!!! Jk, I love this channel as heck❤
I think some people just like your company but maybe you keep giving them mixed signals. Like maybe bringing up past events that they clearly have let go. Maybe you still allow them to kiss you. Maybe you don’t want to admit that you love them so you push them away. Afraid they stop talking to you completely
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Because it's vague. There's no such a thing as being ready to relationships, but rather in love enough to get into that. So when you tell someone that and they like you, they may be nonchalant about that, after all what matters is how the relation between the two of you evolves. But yes, people should take the “I'm not ready for a relationship” as “I didn't like you enough to want a relationship” and deal with that.
people reluctant about opening up may be a result of past trauma and not because theyre not interested in someone. There have been times where I was hesitant to open up because i have been burned in the past by people I mistrusted and now Im more wary about opening up
@mei yes yes exactly that!!! Opening up definitely isn’t the easiest thing for me and it’s something I’m working on. Btw no need to be scared of commenting! I’m glad you shared your insights!!
Sometimes when u are to insecure, the more u like the person the more u'll shut ur self out of insecurities and fear. Fear ur life and ur story might not be interesting for them or even drove them away
Keeping your expectations in check is important in matters like this. It’s okay to understand that you like someone, but I think people should try not to grow to attached until your relationship with them has shown signs of progressing to something else. I intend to expand upon this in a video of my own. Please take care of yourself. ❤️
I literally clicked on this video because im worried that someone secretly hates me, but then i realize that he literally tells me that he loves me constantly and tells me how much i mean to him and never ignores me, hes talked to me literally every single day since we met a year ago and always puts in the same energy and shows his appreciation constantly and then it makes me feel a lot better. Still doesnt change that ima overthink it again by tomorrow 🤠 this is a daily predicament
There are many more fish in the sea and many more sheep in the cattle 🤷🏽♂️. Rejection or disinterest does not imply you are “unlovable”. Self love first and foremost. There is no such thing as the one
Exactly, somehow the modern society tricks us into thinking there would be only one "the one", while perfection is unattainable and there would be at least a few people throughout our lives (when we are emotionally ready and open) to fit that "the one" criterea. Lots of love to you of you xx
@@Serene3574 I know I can be repetitive but it’s the same as saying “there are many more fish in the sea”. I made the sheep one up of course not to be funny or anything but just a reminder that there are many more beautiful people in the world who will love and appreciate you
"I'm not interested in a being in a relationship/ I'm just not putting myself out there" is what I tell myself to feel better since ik no one's into me
I'm with you, I'm not into Bf & Gf relationships anymore, cuz I experienced some bad guys hurting their girlfriends by breaking their hearts by cheating on them, having an affair, unappreciated, & not very nice & acceptable to other girls/women. My friend's boyfriend left her, cheated on her, unappreciated her, etc.... & she was hurt & heartbroken by that nasty unacceptable boyfriend of hers. I really feel sorry for her & finally I support her by telling her: "Always think about the ones who loved you more (friends & family), & move on. I know it hurts I know but its life, its the circle of life. Focus on the family & friends who loved one, focus on what your good at (your job, hobby, etc....), focus on the positive, & focus on your life. Always focus on those & move on. Mens are not worth it." Finally she thanked me for it & finally moved on. 🥰🥰🥰💖💖💖💖💖
i have an online friend and i’m SUPPERRRRRRR into her and she introduced me to her dad to me and i know she doesn’t like me back though and that’s fine! it’s ok for someone to not like you back :]
1:17 Just gonna mention, if the person you’re into is hella introverted or shy or anxious, then they might not have asked simply because it’s less stressful to rely on you to do it
One of my friend said that he likes me. But i kindly said that "i dont feel the same way". Even though sometimes he still keep on insisting, i believe he respect my feelings. He is kind and i treasure him as a friend, it's just that i dont feel the same. And since i am not that kind of person who will make the person hopeful out of nothing, i just directly said what i was feeling towards him cause i dont want to hurt him even more.
@@andresadame4058 that's what i did. He is my friend but i back away for him to heal, cause i dont want to disregard his emotion. I respect him of course.
Due to circumstances, I went out with a guy for almost 4 years when we had no real chemistry, we were just awesome people and better off as friends…where was this video four years ago 😅😅😅
@@meevc4319 friendship is a very important key part of relationships, but you can’t have a relationship on friendship alone…you need that connection, that chemistry, the “click”. It’s impossible to explain, it’s something you feel
This might be long: Well, I was seeing this to check my bff because she just don’t talk how she used to (we are in long distance friendship in different countries) I didn’t text her first to see if she even misses me or no and guess what its been a whole frikin week we haven’t talked so I texted her like “hey.. Whatsup” and she didn’t ask me anything I asked her like “how did ur day went and all” she just texted “all good” and she reacted to my message and ended the conversation. And nowadays even I don’t get the same vibe from her and not get too excited talking to her on a video call or some🙃 I ALSO KNOW THAT MY CRUSH IS NOT INTO ME So currently: my bff and crush both are showing the same sign, crush showing these signs is okay but I think im losing my bestie 🤡🤡
A whole week? I've been with my "friends" for decades and when Corona started we haven't seen eachother for almost a whole year, when I got to see them they were barely excited.. I mean, they were, but yknow.. I didnt feel it. So yeah.
awh that must be really hard for you 😟 i understand losing a best friend. maybe ask them if everything is alright? if you have done anything that hurt their feelings? maybe your friend is going through tough times and is keeping to themselves.
@Pr.incorporated There is But in my case I don't want to be in the gray area because eventually I'll continue to have feeling for her and that's a no no
Hate how some people thing the smile means im into them. I litterally always have a smile and if that constant smile is broad that means im nervous and scared.
6, 8 and 9 bruh especially 9. she told me in person that she's not ready for commitment, but now a month later, i often see her with another guy. this is a fucking wake up call
I relate to more than 4-5 points and thank you for clarifying my confused thoughts which I've been having in for a person in my life. I got my answers.
Thank you! I wish I could go back in time and show this video to myself. Two years+ of prioritizing one guy (who I never even dated) over the many guys I could have met and actually dated (if I wasn't so scared of online dating)😔
Sometimes you just need to talk in front of the people instead of chatting on the phone, and i say this by a personal experience, i used to know a very cool girl and we clicked, but chatting was really boring and neither of us knew how to start talking about something when on phone And sorry for my english, not a natural speaker
I don't want people going through my stuff and will get mad if someone does. It's not their's to go through, I have nothing to hide but my stuff is none of someone else's business.
I met this person online last June. After talking, I always feel doubt and his personality changes after we talked. I stayed away from him so I am okay now. But yesterday, he texted me that he really misses me 🤨 You can feel that this is immaturity when he wants you around but doesn't want to be with you. Do you get it? He's not into me and it's okay. 😂
I’m just the rebound guy. Everything is peachy at the beginning but as soon they meet someone they deemed as Mr Right, they leave me and give me laundry baskets of how I’m not good enough for them. Now I’m just living my life and help set dates for others while I’d rather dodge the bullet
😂Guilty as charged on the last part. I remember when I say this “ I’m not ready” to a person. That doesn’t mean that I will not being serious in a relationship. I just want to know the person or become a friend before Jump to relationship with someone.
I feel the same way. Left a relationship with my ex of 10 yrs… Took some time for myself, & I met someone who I fell hard for but now she seems to be just like the ex. Big bummer
This signs are more common in lives of people who are below average in looks , Financial conditions can also come into the picture, Professional success also matters . So, For someone who is still emotionally attached to the crush .Stop !! It may hurt you ,But If you continue it will deteriorate your self worth . You play with your strengths not weaknesses.There are people who admire you. Think about them and especially do a gratitude exercise .It is very helpful.
Success is when you know you have left a footprint in lives of people that no one has to know about but yourself. Live enjoy treat yourself. We have to meet people where they are meeting us. But we don’t want to compete with our partner but be there support system
My crush does things that are signs he likes me (from other videos that I have seen in this channel) but also he makes some signs of this video too and I am confused 😂
I know that nobody will ever be in to me. Because all think that I am weird, and my opinions and perspectives are always different from all. So I will always be alone
You're probably a great person, focus on your weirdness and perspectives. Pour the search into yourself and someone just as strange as you will be drawn to you 👌🏼
Because you are hopeful that someone will choose you for you. See past all your flaws and because you might be one who can love they just never met someone like you.
they showed none of these signs, and did quite the opposite. i went for it and ended up losing a friend. can i get some advice? i’m really confused and not sure what went wrong since i was just being honest and vulnerable.
If you lost a friend because you confessed to them then it's likely the friendship was fragile and was bound to sink in a matter of time. I've had two of these instances - one was someone that cheated on me, and the other was a toxic narcissist that I knew I could not keep in contact any longer if I valued what remained of my sanity.
I've Been talking to this one girl...and everythig sayd in this video... IS NOT HER AT ALL!!🥰 I wanted to make sure, beacose I don't want to lose her. I'm glad I met her
We also made a video on the signs someone likes you, even if you don't think so: ruclips.net/video/ZhYxXwi_VCU/видео.html [EDITED] So many of you commented about the song "Dude SHE's just not into you". How many of you know this song?
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Im felling Sassy sis
Thanks Psych2Go
Dude she’s just not into you
Also I would change the fact that I deleted some old videos bc they were really nostalgic
Heloo!!
"If a girl wants you, nothing can keep her away from you. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay" - Barrack Obbamma
👌💯💯
Wut about boys?
Same goes with boys
1 too many Bs and Ms but great statement
I'm not sure about Barack Obama said that lol
to anyone who has a person who likes you but you don’t like them in a romantic way : please do tell them the truth. not being clear is the worst thing you can do. if you worry about hurting them,, it’ll hurt them more if you give them false hope. they need to face rejection to move on !!
thats really important. Good comment
This is invaluable wisdom.
Seems like you have had some crushes friendzone you....hmm
I couldn't agree more.
I think in general people should be more honest and nice to each other.
That's true
“Dude, she’s just, not, into youuuuuuuu~!”
Omg i can hear this 💀 insta reel lmao
I hear this lmao
tiktok haha
When I clicked on this video I literally sang that out loud looking for this comment😭
EXACTLY
1. they don't open up about themselves at all 0:47
2. they haven't made the move to ask you out 1:22
3. you just aren't feeling it 1:51
4. they ignore you 2:20
5. their responses are short 2:43
6. they don't introduce you to family or friends 3:09
7. they bring up their ex often 3:41
8. their phone is protected at all costs 4:07
9. they're not ready for a relationship - and they've told you 4:35
I hope I could help! :D
2 months ago 😳 this was posted 1 minute ago
How can you these comments at the start of the video!?
@@anna-jp1nx members get early access to vids
@@asomeoneperson4608 ooohhhhhhhH
@@asomeoneperson4608 that is something I didn’t know
If you like someone but they are not into you that much. Just leave. Don't get your expectations high and get hurt. If someone is not making an effort to be with you or their words don't match their actions. Leave.
Instead Focus on yourself and Love yourself
Love your flaws, imperfections, insecurities, everything❤️
I disagree. Work on yourself and make the best you that you can be.
@@EfiXtra yeah it will 😇if you are focusing and loving yourself you'll start to work on yourself, that's the way it works
Thanks for sharing!
@ScarletGameplays become a member to the community by "join" button.
Thank you winter🥺❤️
If someone is really into you then he/she will make you a priority (and break their own rules). They will adjust their schedule and make an attempt to make it work around you. If not then they just aren't that into you
While I agree with what you’re saying generally, I don’t like the phrasing of “break their own rules.” That reads to me like someone who lack boundaries and who doesn’t care about themselves. There’s absolutely a way to accommodate the people you love in your life without breaking the rules that you’ve set for yourself (probably for good reason).
@@myacct8304 The video was about initial dating so the rules I was referring to were her dating rules. It goes both ways of course. Breaking rules for those we love is different. But I would agree that if we have to set rules around love then it's a completely different conversation
as soon as i saw the title......
" *dude, she's just. not. INTO YOU.* "
lol same
Noo i wanted to write that lmao
“youu, you gotta move onnn, gotta move onn”
*He’s not 😂
Same😂😂
"9 signs that someone is just not into you"
*Don't worry ,I know that nobody is into me anyways*
My name is nobody all of a sudden...
Jk 😅
Same, I'm just too ugly, weird and unloveable to ever be liked by anyone :')
@@elliotthefennekin6506 who told you that?
I'm not gonna give you brainless compliments, but if you're a chill person I'm chill back. That's how I work...
Smart idea
Me: Already emotionally broken
Psych2Go:
F
Well tbh this is why you’re emotionally broken, its the way you think…
@@vanbi9430 ik it was a joke
This channel is literally my therapist tbh.Calming voice, accurate points, cute animations,relatable contents and they help many people.The most helpful channel throughout yt.I love you guys please don't stop making these.
We won't stop! Glad you enjoy our videos! :)
@@Psych2go OML have mercy IM SO HAPPY and also I won't stop watching ;)
@@Psych2go , what's the name of person in this video (if I may ask you)? Kelly? I like her voice 😍!
It’s not the end of the world if someone isn’t into you.
True. I don't bother looking (I just enjoy watching videos from this RUclipsr). As I live my life, I see friends, family, and others in miserable marriages. I can't imagine living like that, so this is something I am guaranteed not to have if I'm not in a relationship with someone. Sure, there may be that one person who is perfect for me, but I doubt I'll meet her, so I'm not worrying and enjoying my money grow.
@@narata1541 Good, very good. 👍
@@narata1541 was that sarcasm?
You’re right, someone can live up like there’s no tomorrow
@@Realgenelive100 I am 26 and have never been in a relationship in my life. I had my first date 4 years ago, never had a girlfriend though. Girls make it pretty clear that they have no interest in me and I am okay with that. It isn’t the end of the world. Happiness is doing what gives your life meaning; your passion is a factor of happiness. Companionship is just another factor of that happiness as well; companionship ship isn’t complete happiness. I have my own values and engage them; it ain’t the end of the world for me to remain single the rest of my life because other things makes you live life.
Well, I'm about to invite someone for meeting, and I'm really into this person. Any of those sings just don't fit our relationship, so I can feel free to do something to push is further
I hope everything works out for you 👍
Heck yeah! And even if, for some reason, things don't work out, just remember: There is more honor in taking a shot and missing than not taking the shot at all. :D
Friends first
@@CFSworks agreed..
That's great you want to pursue something more with that person. However, do take into consideration that this video is just for educational/fun purposes and not considered to be professional advice.
For the record, I've confirmed that my crush doesn't give a shit about me for the 1000000th time with the help of this channel. Thanks a lot!!!
Jk, I love this channel as heck❤
If it took that much. You are by default an id;ot
That makes two of us. :')
We are all in this together, I'm such a masochist 😂😂😂
We are all in this together, I'm such a masochist 😂😂😂
I wanna be like a rocket i am not giving up i like her and wanna get into something with her
It's incredible how much people ignore when you've said "I'm not ready for a relationship." Please take it in stride and don't keep pursuing.
I think some people just like your company but maybe you keep giving them mixed signals. Like maybe bringing up past events that they clearly have let go. Maybe you still allow them to kiss you. Maybe you don’t want to admit that you love them so you push them away. Afraid they stop talking to you completely
Because it's vague. There's no such a thing as being ready to relationships, but rather in love enough to get into that. So when you tell someone that and they like you, they may be nonchalant about that, after all what matters is how the relation between the two of you evolves.
But yes, people should take the “I'm not ready for a relationship” as “I didn't like you enough to want a relationship” and deal with that.
thank you for your explaination..i thought she really didnt ready yet..sigh...time to move on.
no one:
comments: "dude, she's just not into you"
Ikr 😆
pretty much
"You are so sweet, I wish I had someone like you" *proceed to ghost*
"There are no other people like me"
😂😂😂😂
"You're rapidly becoming my favorite person to talk to!"
Annnnnnnd dipped
thats. the. worst. but also the best idky
I been ghosted for like half a year lol
people reluctant about opening up may be a result of past trauma and not because theyre not interested in someone. There have been times where I was hesitant to open up because i have been burned in the past by people I mistrusted and now Im more wary about opening up
@mei yes yes exactly that!!! Opening up definitely isn’t the easiest thing for me and it’s something I’m working on. Btw no need to be scared of commenting! I’m glad you shared your insights!!
Sometimes when u are to insecure, the more u like the person the more u'll shut ur self out of insecurities and fear. Fear ur life and ur story might not be interesting for them or even drove them away
@@tantina.octa44 This
Keeping your expectations in check is important in matters like this. It’s okay to understand that you like someone, but I think people should try not to grow to attached until your relationship with them has shown signs of progressing to something else. I intend to expand upon this in a video of my own. Please take care of yourself. ❤️
@@eternalnoob9708 Good point.
“If you don’t want me, you ain’t human”
Boe Jiden
For some reason i read that as "Joe Biden"
@@mickerlinestephene7101 same
"If you don't like me, ur not sane"
Trump Donald
@@dflolcool4180 Tonald Drump
@@Kelle0284 oof *dies of cringe*
Oh, I don't need signs to know this...I use reddit, so I'll be single my whole life!!
Damn
Delete reddit and read books.
Wth! I use reddit too
I literally clicked on this video because im worried that someone secretly hates me, but then i realize that he literally tells me that he loves me constantly and tells me how much i mean to him and never ignores me, hes talked to me literally every single day since we met a year ago and always puts in the same energy and shows his appreciation constantly and then it makes me feel a lot better. Still doesnt change that ima overthink it again by tomorrow 🤠 this is a daily predicament
Love is very powerful and it hold nothing against you. So take chances
I noticed the signs and I’m aware his not interested in me or a relationship but it still hurts…. Big bummer
Than watch when you move on, boom they want you
Keep ya head up, you'll find someone great who would love to be with you 🙌🏼
There are many more fish in the sea and many more sheep in the cattle 🤷🏽♂️. Rejection or disinterest does not imply you are “unlovable”. Self love first and foremost. There is no such thing as the one
Exactly, somehow the modern society tricks us into thinking there would be only one "the one", while perfection is unattainable and there would be at least a few people throughout our lives (when we are emotionally ready and open) to fit that "the one" criterea. Lots of love to you of you xx
Sorry, but what does “many more sheep in the cattle” mean?
@@Serene3574 I know I can be repetitive but it’s the same as saying “there are many more fish in the sea”. I made the sheep one up of course not to be funny or anything but just a reminder that there are many more beautiful people in the world who will love and appreciate you
"I'm not interested in a being in a relationship/ I'm just not putting myself out there" is what I tell myself to feel better since ik no one's into me
I'm with you, I'm not into Bf & Gf relationships anymore, cuz I experienced some bad guys hurting their girlfriends by breaking their hearts by cheating on them, having an affair, unappreciated, & not very nice & acceptable to other girls/women.
My friend's boyfriend left her, cheated on her, unappreciated her, etc.... & she was hurt & heartbroken by that nasty unacceptable boyfriend of hers. I really feel sorry for her & finally I support her by telling her:
"Always think about the ones who loved you more (friends & family), & move on. I know it hurts I know but its life, its the circle of life. Focus on the family & friends who loved one, focus on what your good at (your job, hobby, etc....), focus on the positive, & focus on your life. Always focus on those & move on. Mens are not worth it."
Finally she thanked me for it & finally moved on. 🥰🥰🥰💖💖💖💖💖
always best to assume they're not into you. after all if they wanted you too you wouldnt be sitting there wondering
Yep, case closed. If you have to ask yourself, then it's a no, move on.
I gotta screenshot this and the reply above it hits hard but it's true
i have an online friend and i’m SUPPERRRRRRR into her and she introduced me to her dad to me and i know she doesn’t like me back though and that’s fine! it’s ok for someone to not like you back :]
So this video basically killed my last drop of hope!
Same
The sooner u realize the better
1:17
Just gonna mention, if the person you’re into is hella introverted or shy or anxious, then they might not have asked simply because it’s less stressful to rely on you to do it
My mind rn:
Dude She's just not into you~
Samee
gotta move on
IKR I THOUGHT THAT TOO LMAO
Same 😭
Yee came to my head too!
It’s all fun and games until all the signs are right
with the rest of these videos on the channel:')
I’m just thinking about the “Dude she’s just not into you” meme…
Same
its stuck in my head now :(
Same
Lol same
Same
I need to show this to the guy who’s been chasing me for 5 years when I’ve told him multiple times to stop because “I’m just not that into him”
Wow, 5 years is a long time. Hopefully, you can get it sorted out.
"they're not ready for a relationship - and they've told you"
*cries softly* :') Just when I thought it all was going my way I get hit with that.
Have you got any updates?
One of my friend said that he likes me. But i kindly said that "i dont feel the same way". Even though sometimes he still keep on insisting, i believe he respect my feelings. He is kind and i treasure him as a friend, it's just that i dont feel the same. And since i am not that kind of person who will make the person hopeful out of nothing, i just directly said what i was feeling towards him cause i dont want to hurt him even more.
Good for you but if they need time away from you to heal. Could you respect that too. Especially if they have to move away hours from you.
@@andresadame4058 that's what i did. He is my friend but i back away for him to heal, cause i dont want to disregard his emotion. I respect him of course.
Due to circumstances, I went out with a guy for almost 4 years when we had no real chemistry, we were just awesome people and better off as friends…where was this video four years ago 😅😅😅
it wasnt here, thats for sure
Dont great relationships start as great friendships? I dont get it
@@meevc4319 Usually yeah. Some great friendships are just better as being someone who you get along with and can trust rather than marriage
@@meevc4319 friendship is a very important key part of relationships, but you can’t have a relationship on friendship alone…you need that connection, that chemistry, the “click”. It’s impossible to explain, it’s something you feel
I hate people in general and id prefer to be alone then stressed out and forced to do things out of another persons will....
Lol.
"Dude, she's just not into you."
YES OMG
Oooooh~
I was thinking of that when I read the title
I replied that to the pinned comment lololol but yes this is good
Yes
I like how half of the comments are about the 'dude she just not into you' song
I just got FRIEND ZONED and this video came at the same time.
This might be long:
Well, I was seeing this to check my bff because she just don’t talk how she used to (we are in long distance friendship in different countries) I didn’t text her first to see if she even misses me or no and guess what its been a whole frikin week we haven’t talked so I texted her like “hey.. Whatsup” and she didn’t ask me anything I asked her like “how did ur day went and all” she just texted “all good” and she reacted to my message and ended the conversation. And nowadays even I don’t get the same vibe from her and not get too excited talking to her on a video call or some🙃 I ALSO KNOW THAT MY CRUSH IS NOT INTO ME
So currently: my bff and crush both are showing the same sign, crush showing these signs is okay but I think im losing my bestie
🤡🤡
I can relate with regards to the friendship one. But in my case it's been months. 😅
A whole week? I've been with my "friends" for decades and when Corona started we haven't seen eachother for almost a whole year, when I got to see them they were barely excited.. I mean, they were, but yknow.. I didnt feel it. So yeah.
awh that must be really hard for you 😟 i understand losing a best friend. maybe ask them if everything is alright? if you have done anything that hurt their feelings? maybe your friend is going through tough times and is keeping to themselves.
@@Hanna-po6mt She sometimes uploads pics with her new friends and that really makes me jealous. Tho, I will surely talk to her🤗
My crush: Straight up telling me she's not interested
Me: "LoL bye"
My crush: Sit there and wondering why I don't talk to her anymore
Why this gives me attention seeker vibe ?
@@CoolSerafin The one thing I know is I don't regret this at all
@@FrostGiant91 Thank God !
@Pr.incorporated There is
But in my case I don't want to be in the gray area because eventually I'll continue to have feeling for her and that's a no no
@@FrostGiant91 facts
Hate how some people thing the smile means im into them. I litterally always have a smile and if that constant smile is broad that means im nervous and scared.
I'm sorry that happens to you in that way. But some of us don't receive smiles often so its not as simple for us as you think.
@@FallenRingbearer
I received 0 smile
6, 8 and 9 bruh
especially 9. she told me in person that she's not ready for commitment, but now a month later, i often see her with another guy.
this is a fucking wake up call
Amanda's voice is just so soothing to hear in every video, keep it up!
I relate to more than 4-5 points and thank you for clarifying my confused thoughts which I've been having in for a person in my life. I got my answers.
Thanks for sharing. We hop this video gave you clarity
I'm probably one of these people because I'll never be ready to be in a relationship.
Some people can make psychological moves though...like making you feel like they are into you when they are actually not!
Some people are really into you but sometimes there heart hates the rejection
Thank you! I wish I could go back in time and show this video to myself. Two years+ of prioritizing one guy (who I never even dated) over the many guys I could have met and actually dated (if I wasn't so scared of online dating)😔
No problem!! How many signs did you relate to?
"Dude, she's just not INTO YOUUUU"
Sometimes you just need to talk in front of the people instead of chatting on the phone, and i say this by a personal experience, i used to know a very cool girl and we clicked, but chatting was really boring and neither of us knew how to start talking about something when on phone
And sorry for my english, not a natural speaker
Literally some just say they're not into a relationship because of fear and past experiences but they really love you I've been there before e
I don't want people going through my stuff and will get mad if someone does. It's not their's to go through, I have nothing to hide but my stuff is none of someone else's business.
I met this person online last June. After talking, I always feel doubt and his personality changes after we talked. I stayed away from him so I am okay now. But yesterday, he texted me that he really misses me 🤨 You can feel that this is immaturity when he wants you around but doesn't want to be with you. Do you get it? He's not into me and it's okay. 😂
I’m just the rebound guy. Everything is peachy at the beginning but as soon they meet someone they deemed as Mr Right, they leave me and give me laundry baskets of how I’m not good enough for them. Now I’m just living my life and help set dates for others while I’d rather dodge the bullet
😂Guilty as charged on the last part.
I remember when I say this “ I’m not ready” to a person. That doesn’t mean that I will not being serious in a relationship. I just want to know the person or become a friend before Jump to relationship with someone.
not ready to be in a relationship with you, but ready for someone
I should have watched this video way back in 3 months ago.
Now this is just reminds my first ex. 😓 This is literally every sign of her, oof...
Hey Bill The Disaster, sorry that happened to you. But now you're more aware of the signs because of your experiences and that's good progress.
I feel the same way. Left a relationship with my ex of 10 yrs… Took some time for myself, & I met someone who I fell hard for but now she seems to be just like the ex. Big bummer
“their phone is protected” bro i keep my phone away from EVERYONE even if i do have a crush on them!!
5 out of 9
Time to think about my relationship 🥺
😂 😂 😂
for example : it's easier to stalk than talk...♡
“Gamora is not the one for you Quill”
-Drax
Thank you for reminding my crush thinks I'm a needy, pathetic, clingy and annoying piece of shit!
…man…i felt that last one more than i should have…ouch
You don't have to force yourself into their life, it may hurt you but it is better than waiting for something that may not happen
I can already hear the "dude he's just not into you" music
I found out one thing. My crush doesn’t show any of these signs. I’m definitely overthinking.
Well most Narcissists will show how much they are interested to you . So be very careful.
Love bombing
I have only A few Things That Are Boundaries, with Anyone.1 st Don't Go into my Wallet,2 Nd Don't Go through my phone and 3rd Don't Go through my mail
me, in a very healthy relationship: I just need to know
Today, I saw him and finally got my answer...He's not that into me😢
This signs are more common in lives of people who are below average in looks , Financial conditions can also come into the picture, Professional success also matters .
So, For someone who is still emotionally attached to the crush .Stop !! It may hurt you ,But If you continue it will deteriorate your self worth .
You play with your strengths not weaknesses.There are people who admire you. Think about them and especially do a gratitude exercise .It is very helpful.
Success is when you know you have left a footprint in lives of people that no one has to know about but yourself. Live enjoy treat yourself. We have to meet people where they are meeting us. But we don’t want to compete with our partner but be there support system
The 9th point happened to me. It bums me out, but what can you do? Just take it in stride, remain friends and move on
My crush does things that are signs he likes me (from other videos that I have seen in this channel) but also he makes some signs of this video too and I am confused 😂
The short replies one hit hard
I know that he's not into me but I like him so much to the point that I hate what I feel about him.
Yea relatable
I know that nobody will ever be in to me.
Because all think that I am weird, and my opinions and perspectives are always different from all.
So I will always be alone
You're probably a great person, focus on your weirdness and perspectives. Pour the search into yourself and someone just as strange as you will be drawn to you 👌🏼
No trust me there is always someone more weird than you. But hey embrace your weirdness
Thanks
The title made me think of that song called: She's just not into you.
Getting ghosted and blocked eventually with no explanation is prob the worst thing and should be on the list somewhere
The truth hurts...🥲
The video opened up some old wounds... But also gave hope for my current crush.
Ted could learn a lot from this video.
Crush = extremely happy and hurt at the same time
I could listen to your voice all day😇😇
The channel saves the time of a person and saves the life of a person.
9 signs ive been ignoring to keep my daydream fantasy alive ✨✨✨
Good video to watch while I'm already mentally and emotionally broken
I need to send this to someone
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Rather painful to watch, but very much needed for me. Thanks!
Why is it that everytime , i love someone soo truly, i end up depressed
Because you don’t love yourself, if you love yourself, you wouldn’t depressed when things don’t go your way with relationship situation
Because you are hopeful that someone will choose you for you. See past all your flaws and because you might be one who can love they just never met someone like you.
@@andresadame4058 this is the reality man... What should i do? Thank u
Great video. Informative.
Definitely.
Finally a video from Psych2go that I can relate to.
It has to be a two way street not one way. Cause it will never work out that’s just how it is.
When I saw the title all I think was:
" Dude, she's just, not,
*INTO YOUUUUU~* "
" gotta move on
move on "
This is for both boys and girls. If anyone is not into anyone. It is better to move on. Be it a boy or a girl.
they showed none of these signs, and did quite the opposite. i went for it and ended up losing a friend. can i get some advice? i’m really confused and not sure what went wrong since i was just being honest and vulnerable.
If you lost a friend because you confessed to them then it's likely the friendship was fragile and was bound to sink in a matter of time.
I've had two of these instances - one was someone that cheated on me, and the other was a toxic narcissist that I knew I could not keep in contact any longer if I valued what remained of my sanity.
If your not the one they want. Then you must accept that. Yes it’s hurtful but it’s not the end of the world yet.
I've Been talking to this one girl...and everythig sayd in this video...
IS NOT HER AT ALL!!🥰
I wanted to make sure, beacose I don't want to lose her.
I'm glad I met her
Im just about to confess to my crush tomorrow and this video pop up.
Do it don’t be afraid
@@andresadame4058 thank you dude. And she said yes.
Chances are they don’t even think about you for even one minute of the day 🤣