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Hey Victoria! I missed your live stream last night and wanted to rewatch it but it’s been cancelled due to privacy reasons i suppose but like I said I support your channel and I’ll always stay with you in your live streams when i can. I want to understand girls more, i love women and want to have great success with them so thanks Victoria, im glad you and your man are happy together!
Thank you Laurie!!!
53:00 Honestly, when I'm in state, the weirdest things happen. Like this one time, when I was in a particularly good mood - in a mood that we could energetically call "bliss" for lack of better words - a girl caught my eyes on Karl Johan (it's the parade street of Oslo, the capital of Norway) on a busy day. She then smiled and promptly came right over and kissed me before slipping further into the crowd. No words spoken. Just a soft kiss. And then she was gone. What a wonderful thing to experience! Being a guy who's experimented with various energies, states and visualizations, I can whole-heartedly say that these things work!
great yes but here in the US they would call that a sexual assault...no really it would be.
@@dojocho1894I obviously assaulted her, I'm assuming them. I mean, technically she kissed me, but, you know, since I'm a guy, and I, like, _let_ her do this, then I should go to jail. I like your system man. Almost as good as Sweden! :D
I’m just so inexperienced that I don’t think I can play the “playing hard to get” game. If I work up the courage (gigantic If, for me) and they don’t seem interested im just gonna take that as polite rejection.
I think that's the hardest part. Becoming OK enough with rejection that you don't let it stop you from taking action. That possibility is always going to be there. It's like any game you play. You don't go into it knowing ur going to win every single time, but you know the more confident you go into it, the better your chances are. If u get rejected, it just means you need to improve and be better next time.
Stop trying to be perfect when approaching women. Get used to at least make small talk, and build up from there. Make yourself a schedule to talk to at least x number of women per day, even if it's just a hello, or how's your day going, or can you tell me where the food court is, or check out them boots!
Yeah what they said. You're human. You can make mistakes. Allow yourself permission to not be perfect.
Here’s the thing you’ve got to understand because it’s among the hardest things to stomach for some before they realize it’s actually true: your phone number to sex ratio is not going to be better than 10:1, and the *approach* to sex ratio will be even worse. So yes, being able to handle rejection is actually a sizable part of the game and if you accept it, it’s no big deal anyway. This is why it’s clear to those in the know that the “sexless nice guys” who get butthurt when they get rejected are so much dumber/ignorant than they think they are.
Who is this guy? You really admitting it's okay to stay soft and down??!!!! My bro, my equal... I want you to win, keep winning, even after you die.. win ❤
Appreciate it.
Hi Victoria, new subscriber here. When is next live? these are so good, I want to join
I do them whenever I feel like it so I apologize for there not being a schedule
Pop quizzes facilitate interesting discussions. 🎧 sorry you felt not so great last night.
thanks a lot Michelle. What did you think of the 2 pop quiz items. Did you agree with the second one about the 2024 bucket list?
@@mynonleatherlifesecond pop quiz- guys have confidence in your relationship & enjoy knowing that others admire your girl for the super 10 that she is... 🔥
First pop quiz- too crude of a text to send but general theme could be good if done better; 🪄✨✨✨.
100% I couldn't agree more!! Thank you for sharing your opinion.
Why do guys put other guys down and why do other girls like it ?should i learn to use comebacks or avoid this
Hi
I respect you a lot and rekon you are a true marvel as you are very sincere and if say in the ball 🎉
Thank you Darren!!
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Are you single? Lol 🤣🤣
Im in Australia
Thru watching a lot of your pioneering info and a couple of other podcasts I'm realised so much and instead of taking the crisis point of view I now understand the female human nature view
In saying that it's still a hard pillow to swallow
Cheers Daz
22:10 I think you should correct that to the advantages the 5 percent of men have in dating. Most men can't get a date to save their lives. Meanwhile 5 to 10 percent of men get 80 percent of the action. Naturally these guys get quite good at understanding women due to all the practise they get. As a man you can do positive work to get better results in dating, but being _like_ those 5 percent of men is a pipe dream.
I have a little question, me and my girl are in a LDR, despite being in a LDR we always used to be intimate, we'd sext/send nudes/face time each other while self pleasuring. Recently all of that has completely gone, there's no intimacy from her side, matter fact she doesn't even call me daddy any more. I confronted her on this topic twice and she just says she's not "into" it and shys away. Could you please help me out with what to do here? Its been months since this has been going on and its borderline mental torture for me
She probably found someone else
@@OlujaDoTokija I'd think that too but everything else is the same for me to think that, she still talks to me every chance she gets and makes every attempt to talk to me, which is why I don't think that's happening
@@georgemichaelforever4079 I hope you are right and she is still loyal, but sooner or later you either need to have a real talk about this face to face, where she can't shy away, or you have to let her go if you can't agree on a solution to the problem.
@@OlujaDoTokija I hope and pray that too, thank you my friend for your encouragement. I'll really need to have a talk with her because this entire situation has brought my confidence and self respect to 0, I feel like I am not enough
@@georgemichaelforever4079 Keep your head up my man. You sound like a nice person. If she can't appreciate it, it's her fault and I'm pretty sure you will find someone else who will.
Hi Victoria I bought you a coffee and you emailed me asking me to email you back as you had a question, its only 4 days ago though but was wondering if you check your junk folder.
I have not seen it yet🫨 I will check the spam folder when I get back today. I was wondering if u had seen that message on kofi ☕️thx for letting me know!!
oh no, i just checked the spam folder and it was in there plus so many other emails I have missed cuz i was not checking spam😳🤯🤯🤯
@@mynonleatherlife It happens to us all lol!
Something I’m not getting,,,I’m just entering a new relationship and I hear about discussing bedroom adventures.
How do you initiate this conversation without sounding desperate??
are you guys in a relationship and if so have you had sex yet
1:10:00 Kinda hard to answer correctly on this one without the context😅
Did I miss the whole show?
No 🥸
in the message at 30:35 the only thing that i see that is negative is that he is being needy when he says that he hasnt had sex for a long time and will be dead siin, so please! He shouldnt have said that he almost sounds like begging! Needy!
I think that’s a good way to sum up the worst thing about the message 💯
What happened to the rest?
a mysterious occurrence..........
You, me, dinner tonight?
Im way too "guy brain" to understand how women think...lol
Awareness is the first step!
@@mynonleatherlife It seams like both parties really just objectify each other....to varying degrees.
@@mynonleatherlife Like "how many boxes do you allow me to check off my list before I scratch your name off as incomparable or not interested"...lol
Why would a woman need to show her sexuality to anyone other than her bf?
For validation. She wants to feel like there are men out there who want her. If she has a boyfriend and she is seeking it outside of him. She either doesn't respect him enough. Or she has low self-esteem and needs to be constantly reminded.
it's a great question that deserves an in depth answer
Validation is more something men need as women get validation all day long and it doesn't have the same value to them as it does to guys who never get it
@@mynonleatherlife i see your point but in my experience I've seen more women actively seek it then men. I certainly struggle with the thought of my girl showing her sexuality to anyone other than me because I take it as advertising to other men whether that's her intention or not, it encourages men to think a certain way and while we can't control what others think, we can control how much we encourage them what to think. So to me, showing that to other men is disrespectful.
@@mynonleatherlife btw Victoria, love your videos. I really appreciate your insight and perspective, it's been very helpful so thank you! Don't let the haters discourage you! Idiots will twist your words no matter what so don't pay attention to em. 😎
wow I like ur lungs
what does that mean?