What do women WANT and WHY: 7 core, foundational sexual desires of women explained

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  • Опубликовано: 28 янв 2025

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  • @Zack-tx7oz
    @Zack-tx7oz 3 года назад +357

    A wiser man once said.. Its not where you bring a woman, its how you bring her and make her feel on the way there.

    • @markhernandez3860
      @markhernandez3860 3 года назад +13

      100

    • @silubonileletsikamlandu855
      @silubonileletsikamlandu855 3 года назад +11

      Ahhh,💯 this is pure gold

    • @sMASHsound
      @sMASHsound 3 года назад +5

      ull get a lot of them that way, but u may not keep a lot of them for long. but as long as all parties agree, its aokay.

    • @ASW-et4iv
      @ASW-et4iv 3 года назад +1

      Only somebody with a close mind would say something like that.

    • @hninwai1375
      @hninwai1375 3 года назад +1

      Wise

  • @s0urp0wer5
    @s0urp0wer5 Год назад +51

    Honestly fascinating how this low fi corner of youtube has the deepest most honest takes on not just the female angle but the whole of human sexuality. Im here for it.

  • @dougkaplan514
    @dougkaplan514 3 года назад +229

    I’m a 52 year old guy and I wish I heard this stuff when I was younger. I had to learn it through life - mistakes and whatnot. And now I’m having to unlearn things I thought I should do. You’re accelerating my process. You put out amazing content delivered in an authentic and vulnerable way. Really... thanks.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +22

      Thanks so much Doug...like what were some of the things you thought you should do?

    • @bleblee732
      @bleblee732 3 года назад +2

      Look up MGTOW and red pill content
      On RUclips

    • @Hannhbanana
      @Hannhbanana 3 года назад +4

      @@bleblee732 nah that stuff makes you hate women... she has the best content

    • @bleblee732
      @bleblee732 3 года назад +3

      MGTOW also teacher you to be 10 moves of what woman are going to say! And how you can get them easily!
      And not to send them money for nothing

    • @satoshinakamoto7253
      @satoshinakamoto7253 3 года назад

      Read then

  • @rodneyjaee1137
    @rodneyjaee1137 4 года назад +99

    Finally someone that dives deep and keeps it real thank you

  • @matthewroberts3724
    @matthewroberts3724 2 года назад +104

    As a 45yo man trying to reclaim some sort of masculinity I can’t express enough my appreciation for your honesty. I promise you men these days have no clue about any of this. I’m not sure why women keep all this such a secret or even lead you down the wrong path purposefully. Please keep going

    • @artofmybody2882
      @artofmybody2882 2 года назад +17

      I don't think woman know either. I didn't understand or enjoy sex until 34 as a woman. Still learning

    • @RealityCheck1
      @RealityCheck1 Год назад

      You cannot speak for all men. You can only simp for yourself

    • @beesmongeese2978
      @beesmongeese2978 Год назад +6

      Natural selection

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 Год назад

      Be a drug addict, heavy drinker or a jerk and you will find plenty of women.

    • @cbskwkdnslwhanznamdm2849
      @cbskwkdnslwhanznamdm2849 Год назад

      Romance is such a cluster FFFF
      I wish I were asexual.

  • @jumpman6518
    @jumpman6518 4 года назад +177

    Honestly i appreciate the fact that your secure in yourself enough to elaborate on the choice of content it's honorable, not alot of women can just say it how is without any fear but really unless your dead life is never over ,there's always a brighter side,keep up the good work.

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 3 года назад +10

      @@mynonleatherlife youre a freaking hero , theres nothing better than the truth , it makes all the confusion go away

    • @cdavis3584
      @cdavis3584 3 года назад

      @@mynonleatherlife Victoria; would you say that most of your co-workers at the Clubs would concur with your opinions in this video?

    • @masterchief1992HHQ
      @masterchief1992HHQ 3 года назад +1

      The greatest part is that she’s not trying to sell you something

  • @maxwillson
    @maxwillson 3 года назад +158

    I like how honest you are. I think society sugar coats sex and attraction too much. Most of this stuff is barbaric and animalistic.

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 3 года назад +7

      true

    • @satoshinakamoto7253
      @satoshinakamoto7253 3 года назад +3

      read the unplugged alpha

    • @artofmybody2882
      @artofmybody2882 2 года назад +8

      Animalistic in some ways.. I wouldn't call it barbaric. I'm still not sure where men go during sex.. but women enter a beautiful and spiritual place during sex. Although society definitely sugarcoat relationship and love. Sex can b beautiful even without relationship

    • @MrParkerman6
      @MrParkerman6 2 года назад +1

      @Art of My Body
      Men DON'T go ANYWHERE during sex that is your problem right there. You assume men are like women and "go" somewhere, we do not.

    • @TrillBill
      @TrillBill Год назад +3

      @@MrParkerman6 Speak for yourself. I've had multiple "Out of body" experiences during sessions.

  • @BeardoSpeaksYT
    @BeardoSpeaksYT 3 года назад +37

    Great point around 10:00 in. Women don't want to be appreciated only for their looks in many situations, their careers for example, but they definitely do want to be appreciated for their looks in romantic situations and relationships. Great job highlighting this distinction!

    • @artofmybody2882
      @artofmybody2882 2 года назад +2

      Yes we enjoy attention and to b objctified but not in professional situations. Bec both men and women ate most importantly human. With interests and knowledge and desire for purpose

  • @ericsmidt6923
    @ericsmidt6923 3 года назад +11

    your ability to communicate things we only suspect, and women DO NOT say, and we find ourselves doing intuitively, is amazing. Keep it up!

  • @saml.williams6321
    @saml.williams6321 3 года назад +9

    Your amazing! Your not like other people in your class. So many people in your group are hungry for money and want to convert their viewers into customers for their products. But I can tell you are doing this simply from the goodness of your heart and your not trying to sell anything and I love how it seems like your just an ordinary girl and how you could be someone’s older or younger sister. That makes everything your saying in your videos all the more appealing. Thank you so much and I like you so much I wrote a whole song about you! :) (I’m a musician so whenever I feel inspired by someone or something I usually write a song about it).

    • @CellGames2006
      @CellGames2006 2 месяца назад

      Please make a song, "Victoria's Secret"... Then if it played in public people would know more about this channel and awareness would spread...

  • @BenjimenAnderson
    @BenjimenAnderson 3 года назад +20

    Thank you for sharing these videos, even though I have been married for 38 years I have been helped from your honesty. I am always trying to improve my relationship with my wife. Thanks for giving me good ideas and understanding.!!!

  • @him.4808
    @him.4808 3 года назад +20

    Dude your channel is growing rapidly by the day, keep it up

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +6

      thanks...it's intimidating, gonna try to film 1 today

  • @Climberwriter
    @Climberwriter 3 года назад +41

    I call it sexual enlightenment. It's a level or two beyond being just a great smasher, though that is certainly part of it. It's almost like magic, when you two are so in tune, so in the moment, so accepting of passions with absolutely zero reservations that you can stand in front of each and just touch palm to Palm and feel a electric pulse through your whole body and soul and you can't help but exclaim "oh my God do you feel this" and you come together fully and both your entire personhoods meld into one as travel through the heavens. This can only happen when two are emotionally and spiritually (for lack of a better word) inline.
    Also being a giver and not just a taker is so big nowadays. Lots of men only care about getting off, it is absolutely secondary to me. If she's not calling me her hero by the end then it ain't over yet... Lol And that means a total willingness to put in the correct work, anywhere and everywhere 😉
    Like a jackhammer of love... Lol

  • @k2000samir
    @k2000samir 3 года назад +285

    a wise man once said: never ask a woman what she wants, because she doesn't know, it's up to you to show them what she wants ?!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +79

      Well it depends on the context but I agree there can be some unconscious deception involved or even conscious. at the same time sometimes they will tell u straight up

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth 3 года назад +9

      yeah but need to be careful

    • @samwallaceart288
      @samwallaceart288 3 года назад +16

      But the prerequisite to that is that you actually give a shit how she does feel about it. Suggest shit and decide shit, but if she doesn't like what you pick, you better notice and adjust yourself.
      Too many broken marriages where the husband had zero idea the wife was as unhappy as she was. Pay attention. Decision-making means taking responsibility for the consequences, and being able to face when you decided wrong and pivot without condescension, denial, or pettiness.
      Hank Hill's sexist dad may have a point about women needing a leader, but he uses that as an excuse to be a pushy crybaby who flat-out ignores everyone around him.
      Never use truisms as a get-outta-jail; truisms like that, if true, are only so with a hefty responsibility at the other end.

    • @vacaspen5038
      @vacaspen5038 3 года назад +2

      That person was a fool. She knows what she wants. Types about not knowing what's available

    • @michajastrzebski4383
      @michajastrzebski4383 Год назад +6

      @@mynonleatherlife if there's deception involved, she's a liability, not a partner.

  • @omegaman9145
    @omegaman9145 3 года назад +35

    Excellent break down. My wife always tells me I'm the only man thats been able to tame her & I never understood why that was such a big deal or if its even a good thing. I attribute taming to taking away freedom but this helps me to understand at a deeper level. I'll own it now :0)

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +11

      really interesting. yes many women want to see themselves as wild and they want the man to be like a horse whisperer or a horse breaker even. (I'm very against taming or riding horses IRL but this is still a fantasy for many)

    • @dbabini1
      @dbabini1 3 года назад +7

      @@mynonleatherlife Now I understand why they like it when the horse whip comes out

    • @justinw2232
      @justinw2232 3 года назад +2

      @@dbabini1 haha😉

    • @artofmybody2882
      @artofmybody2882 2 года назад +10

      Bec we are uncomfortable with our own darkness hardness wildness. It's something we struggle with.. at least I have. And we feel men won't accept us bec of it. Some men complain about nonsubmissive women those men don't realize that it's them who don't have the power to make these woman want to submit.
      When a woman finds a man who is not afraid of this raw power but can ride the waves with her
      And se through it to her inner true softness. She is grateful bec. That goodness and softness is who we really want to be. Just as a man may want to b strong but when a woman gives him softness he becomes even stronger. Abd the strength feels good for a man.
      There's something strange in this.
      That woman are quite hard without being tamed and men are quite soft without a woman who believes in him.
      But woman feel so wonderful when we can find our softness. And men feel so wonderful when they can grind their hardness!!!

    • @steyraug96
      @steyraug96 Год назад

      ​@@artofmybody2882and it does the opposite when reversed.
      Meaning, a Hard woman will grind a man down to nothing, resent him for being soft, and never think twice. He just couldn't handle her. Well, we handle Problems, we don't want to Handle the woman, too. She becomes a problem. The "like" polarities repel, after all.
      I have a hard woman now, I can't "out alpha" her - it would require physical force. She's unwilling to follow, can't lead, and the facts that I'm smarter, earn more, more organized, taller, higher social status, better educated - none of it matters. The fact I didn't corral her from day 1 is a problem. But she wanted a short term fling, so I didn't invest the effort because she'd be leaving - why pick fights, just enjoy the ride. Turns out a man should ALWAYS be shutting her down. Which with my upbringing means, you're abusive.
      Can't win. You have to treat her with kid gloves, but out-Alpha her at the same time. Know where she wants to go, then take her there before she knows what's happened.
      Mean time, while trying to provide the container where she can feel safe, she's burning your world to the ground, completely out of control, and blames you for her containment (imprisoning, to her) but also for NOT controlling her (you don't care enough to HANDLE her).
      Gen X from Jersey. Both of us, but she's a bit older. 20 years ago, a "summer fling" lead to bankruptcy and foreclosure, and I haven't gotten free yet. But she refuses to be lead, and will not follow, and we both need a place to live, so does her daughter (now 28, btw). How do you make someone feel safe when they're so damaged? Not by being genteel, that's for certain.

  • @andrewjbayliss4017
    @andrewjbayliss4017 8 месяцев назад +1

    it resonated well with me, really clear and well expressed. Some woman aren't able to articulate this, i love the passion you put into your videos; it makes a BIG difference to show you enjoy sharing this stuff so honestly.💯

  • @Balling4Jesus
    @Balling4Jesus 4 года назад +120

    I like your unbias authentic perspective

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +13

      Thank u very much

    • @staysonshaw5973
      @staysonshaw5973 3 года назад +4

      @@mynonleatherlife NOOO.. THANK YOUUU! Im not sure you know how much weight this stuff really holds.. Salute!!👏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Zack80funny
    @Zack80funny 3 года назад +7

    You learn so much form someone who speaks on both genders without bashing either of them. The best out there, your videos have more meaning than those fake dating coaches out here. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @bizbite2
    @bizbite2 3 года назад +217

    1 Tamed by Alpha (to be outAlpha’ed)
    2 Masculinity
    3 To be owned (by one man), owned body, mind and soul.
    4 To be objectified, controlled and sexualised
    5 To be Competed for by top men
    6 INTENSITY Wild, passionate, intense sex ( Emotional rollercoaster (highs and lows)
    7 Deep emotional trust and healing
    +

    • @threat645
      @threat645 2 года назад

      If she is a wild animal she wants a wilder animal to dominate her

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 2 года назад +6

      I would leave out emotional rollercoaster - highs and lows happen automatically in life. I'm more turned on by competence. Maybe switch out the rollercoaster for spontaneity.

    • @danielleadair7394
      @danielleadair7394 2 года назад +3

      L.A. I believe the reference was to passionate sex, specifically

    • @lisaariottiart
      @lisaariottiart 2 года назад +4

      @@danielleadair7394 You can have mad passion without emotional contrast

    • @deagor4578
      @deagor4578 Год назад +1

      Yes, she literally put this info in the video description -_-

  • @rickwallin6724
    @rickwallin6724 7 месяцев назад

    Thank You! AND Thank YOU! I See your struggle and fierce efforts to reach your place of revealing in your talks here. Impressive!!! I just turnt 62yo and your heart felt sharing of; "core, foundational desires of women explained" and your others, hits like a canon ball to the chest. I've been lied to my whole life and only on very rare occassions allowed anything other than "Candle lit gentle affection with women, and immediately STOPPED EVERYTHING at the hint of : "Ouch, I'm tired, I have a headache you smell like sweat, you're dirty." That whole wrong value system has had me mindtwisted and afraid of expressing with women with whom we share an established intimacy, my own genuine emotion and sexuality. For context: I'm retired US Army, Cavalry Scout, and from another hellish extremely dangerous job as well. My current wife Validates a lot of what you reveal!

  • @pratj8003
    @pratj8003 3 года назад +63

    my testosterone level is sky high after watching this,hell ya ,keep up the good work woman

    • @44aske
      @44aske 3 года назад +5

      yeah she is a diva in a good way.

    • @bleblee732
      @bleblee732 3 года назад +3

      Dude look at MGTOW. And RED PILL
      Content on youtube and learn brother

    • @MrFosthesensei
      @MrFosthesensei 3 года назад +3

      @Bleblee hell no most is complaining and no solution.this is the closest thing to an answer

    • @javierborda8684
      @javierborda8684 3 года назад +1

      @@bleblee732 MGTOW is terrible, al least as a final stage, but try, why not, some might need it for a while.

    • @mgtowacademy8433
      @mgtowacademy8433 3 года назад +3

      @@bleblee732 I second this. Most people are mentioning that you may develop toxic behaviors and tendencies, but it’s been quite beneficial to me.

  • @ramparaksh2987
    @ramparaksh2987 3 года назад +8

    Your advice is very knowledgeable and really different from others

  • @cripz1436
    @cripz1436 4 года назад +5

    This channel is pretty good you keep things real and insightful. Its pretty amazing seeing different perspectives of these things now

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +2

      I appreciate that and so glad it is helping u see things differently

    • @cripz1436
      @cripz1436 4 года назад +1

      @@mynonleatherlife Yes indeed

    • @cripz1436
      @cripz1436 4 года назад +2

      @@mynonleatherlife oh yeah I'll be watching more of your content later on to catch up

    • @cripz1436
      @cripz1436 3 года назад

      Thank you for more hearts!!!

  • @Donquijote98
    @Donquijote98 3 года назад +4

    You’re awesome Victoria. I completely understand what you’re speaking of. Human beings have so many inputs and outputs and shades of emotions and traits. But, I agree with everything you said. Keep up the great work!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +1

      Absolutely I agree that everyone is different, and I realize this is a massive generalization... but thank u very much

  • @onlyjoetee
    @onlyjoetee 3 года назад +72

    All these natural things are now called “controversial”!!

    • @Breakfastststst
      @Breakfastststst 3 года назад +7

      Right? These things are just what we are born with most natural and easiest thing men can do. She just telling us to act according to our natural instincts isn’t it?

    • @onealaska
      @onealaska 3 года назад

      exactly! :-)

    • @justinw2232
      @justinw2232 3 года назад +2

      Cos they want to destroy the West.

    • @tbys1416
      @tbys1416 3 года назад +1

      @@Breakfastststst can I ask you how to become a man like she mentioned in this video?

    • @inst1tution
      @inst1tution 3 года назад

      Simp

  • @clarencehoover6748
    @clarencehoover6748 2 года назад +2

    I learn something new from you every time. Thanks for sharing.

  • @banditulnoptii
    @banditulnoptii 3 года назад +6

    Thank you, Victoria. You made me understand women so much better. I realize that I lived my life believing all kinds of shit, or not knowing exactly what I was dealing with. My life could've been different if I knew these things years ago, that's how much impact knowing things about the other can have.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад

      wow! this is so amazing. what kind of things did u understand from the vids?

    • @banditulnoptii
      @banditulnoptii 3 года назад +1

      @@mynonleatherlife Mainly, why they don't behave according to my logic :)

    • @johannesswillery7855
      @johannesswillery7855 3 года назад +1

      Same story here. I believed the Feminist/Leftist lie about women.

  • @1000crls
    @1000crls 3 года назад +1

    every time you make a TOP, my mind says, this is probably either in the description or in the comments, but then I remember how honest you are, and I watch all the 15 minutes of video

  • @willtopower2158
    @willtopower2158 3 года назад +20

    I think if our society is to survive we need more of the base feelings and actions you are describing! Nice videos Victoria!

  • @Luis2077-xj2fq
    @Luis2077-xj2fq 6 месяцев назад

    I appreciate your honesty, you're speaking stuff I wished I knew seven years ago

  • @DrRocketTurner
    @DrRocketTurner 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for the dose of honest talk to masculine men!!! Love these videos you do! Rocket 🚀

  • @thekailbrothers
    @thekailbrothers 2 года назад +2

    Victoria thank you for the great content. JustPearlyThings used your content but was hammered with negative response, thankfully your channel has a different audience. I am 40, always had to go against the grain by instinct, be confident about masculinity, and you are the first woman to confirm what all men feel. On behalf of men, thank you.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  2 года назад +1

      Thank u for alerting me eugen, I am watching her vid now. I didn’t think the response was too negative… I have seen far worse on my channel lol. I am glad u like the vids eugen!!!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  2 года назад +3

      After reading all the comments lol eugen I see what u mean more they really insulted me in 100 different ways but like I said luckily I’ve already become immune to the exact same insults on my channel. But I agree she does have a different audience like I have probably blocked most of those types on my channel but she has them coming by the horde commenting on her vids I don’t know how she takes it but then again I didn’t see her respond or engage with a single comment

  • @DAVID.PRINCIPE.DURAN.
    @DAVID.PRINCIPE.DURAN. 4 года назад +8

    I love your content, you are sincere and thats great! Thanks to you!!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +2

      Thank you David I appreciate that, thx for commenting

  • @rayv1963
    @rayv1963 2 года назад +1

    BAM you are on it now. You are crystallizing the formation of that book. You have spelled out . Congratulations. Mindgasm coined here first ?

  • @bobmathews9072
    @bobmathews9072 3 года назад +14

    literally seen Vicky’s subs jump by 3,000 in a day , almost unheard of , including “Pewdeepie” & “Milo” , that proves honesty is the best policy !!

  • @russelldodd93
    @russelldodd93 3 года назад +1

    Kudos on your thumbnail. Intense, slightly hidden but still knowing your appeal. I know much of what you speak is true from my own life experiences. Way to go!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +2

      thank u Russell! I am glad u know what I am talking about

    • @russelldodd93
      @russelldodd93 3 года назад +1

      @@mynonleatherlife most men and women are very basic creatures and when they try to deny their intuitions and instincts, they go awry. Basic Primal urges are always there even if you cover them up.

  • @ats4670
    @ats4670 3 года назад +90

    Men like wild passionate reckless abandonment sex too, but I believe many men are afraid in the modern world that nearly and sometimes literally criminalizes aggressive masculine behavior.

    • @vanessak7069
      @vanessak7069 3 года назад +21

      Strong, intelligent women like it though

    • @justinw2232
      @justinw2232 3 года назад +11

      Societies with weak, feminine men will fall to masculine ones

    • @vacaspen5038
      @vacaspen5038 3 года назад +3

      They want to criminalize heterosexuality. Still you save your aggressiveness for your enemy. Remember she is the alpha MEMD ELT a and omega. She is not brute like him but of course she can have a wild spiritual and physical dominance.. Is a spiritual sexual dominance And authority. Don't confuse the humanbeing wish for thrills with ignoring will and boundaries

    • @matthewlorona5522
      @matthewlorona5522 3 года назад

      🤣

    • @michajastrzebski4383
      @michajastrzebski4383 Год назад +1

      @@vanessak7069 untill they say they didnt like in in the first place, or their mind has changed and now they dont like it. Why risk that? :)

  • @cacdistadosapi2667
    @cacdistadosapi2667 2 года назад +1

    Excellent idea summarising your presentation in text below!!! :)

  • @keithbrunson7190
    @keithbrunson7190 3 года назад +5

    Every time I’ve ever been a gentleman and then turned it into a fall on blanketyblank session, I was always complimented on the transition. Your right, make it a full on Event, and they never forget you.

  • @denishillman5942
    @denishillman5942 Год назад

    I love your presentations Victoria. And I especially love that you don't use annoying music xoxo

  • @raaajeshkatarapu3069
    @raaajeshkatarapu3069 3 года назад +3

    Simply straight to the point . Love u🌸

  • @dannybower4192
    @dannybower4192 2 года назад +1

    Your insight has enhanced my life. Thank you

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  2 года назад

      thank u for telling me that danny. was there anything in particular that helped the most? 🙏🏼

  • @Malumbrus
    @Malumbrus Год назад +7

    I hate that we live in this society where everything is safe and people don't need to rely on their physical strength and prowess anymore and yet we're still expected to have all of these traits and exhibit them. It's like our physiology of psychology hasn't caught up with our evolution yet.

  • @onealaska
    @onealaska 3 года назад +2

    I discovered your channel earlier this week. I'm impressed by your raw articulation and insight to what men need to know in regards to being competent men as a whole and competent suitors for that woman. Keep up the content. I will try to find some constructive criticism for you. t/y again.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +1

      I’m kinda overloaded on criticism right now so maybe wait a couple weeks but I really thank you for the kind words and compliments.

    • @onealaska
      @onealaska 3 года назад

      @@mynonleatherlife Yes, I can imagine. People can be brutal on mundane topics: this subject matter and your intuitive perception is going to trigger people and some will bust a vein. Simply don't read comments until you are in the right state of mind. Ignore comments until you feel strong and powerful and can perceive that negativity from a position of strength. A time when you can realize they aren't attacking you but your narrative and that these people are having a rough time in life as it is and you are the focus of them releasing their pent up negativity. I think choosing the time you read comments will allow you the control you need to keep things in perspective and not be emotionally drained. You have and display so much courage by putting yourself on camera and sharing your perspective. That in itself is threatening to many who don't have that courage, that confidence. Stay on point. You are doing well and providing a unique service for many. thank you

  • @jpphilosopher
    @jpphilosopher 3 года назад +11

    I appreciate you making this video and revealing this, there is definitely lots of truth to this. However this poses a challenge for most men. We don’t think like this, to my male brain this sound largely irrational (yet I acknowledge its true from my past relationship experiences). I know women are operating off their evo-wiring but regardless this is too demanding for most men. But that could explain the dynamic of 80% of women wanting 20% of men, given that the 20% of men are the ones who understand this and are willing to live up to all the unrealistic expectations 80% of women have.

  • @waldek32
    @waldek32 4 месяца назад

    Interesting and honest. Greetings from Poland

  • @andrewshantz9136
    @andrewshantz9136 4 года назад +8

    You're almost to 1000 subs :)

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +2

      Very wild. Very grateful to you and fearless man.

  • @rocknroll0087
    @rocknroll0087 2 года назад

    You are a true master at giving a highly intellectual perspective

  • @manji83
    @manji83 3 года назад +6

    2 major experiences. Growing up on R&B. Women singing about "love me for what's on the inside, and not the outside" with such passion and force. My wife's mom advising her to present herself to me on our first date, looking tore up. That way I'm forced to focus on what's on the inside and NOT the physical. It would SEEM that women are obsessed with NOT being physically/sexually objectified. But at age 37, this is what I find.
    Many, many women really don't have this profound depth or intellect that the R&B singers impressed upon me as a kid. Also, when there is an emotional disconnect in a relationship... sex, sensuality, and objectification is the first weapon of choice to get things on track. My wife and I had a disconnect, she b-lines to Victoria's Secret. Her Mother had a disconnect with her husband, b-line to Victoria's Secret. My wife's girlfriend dealing with her men when they get tired of her, Victoria's Secret. They don't know what else to do with a man! Mixed message?...
    All that Ra-Ra mess about Manji83, the possible sexual objectification thirsty wolf preying on a woman, out the window! But in order for these 3 women to succeed, they need a sex crazy, tongue wagging goof, not a cerebral man who's been conditioned by upbringing, religion, society, and entertainment to peer deeply into your inner person.
    I'm not saying all women are lame brains. My situation is an extreme case. But yes physical objectification is a positive. This is my long winded way of agreeing with you.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +7

      very interesting thoughts manji83. I sympathize cause on the one hand women want to be loved for what's on the inside, but they also want to be loved for what's on the outside and sexual objectification is actually very important as well for many of them I totally agree. It must be really confusing to most guys.

    • @manji83
      @manji83 3 года назад +1

      @@mynonleatherlife Confusing? Absolutely.

    • @jkd9637
      @jkd9637 3 года назад +1

      Religion is not the best example of being cerebral.

    • @manji83
      @manji83 3 года назад +5

      @@jkd9637 dude, I love your perspective. I understand. My dear brothers and sisters can be quite one dimensional and boring to the point of depressing me. But 1Peter 3: 3, 4 is what influenced me despite what we may have witnessed in PEOPLE in religion, "3 Do not let your adornment be external-the braiding of hair and the wearing of gold ornaments or fine clothing- 4 but let it be the secret person of the heart in the incorruptible adornment of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God." So that's what I meant. I think us thinking men can agree on that even if we are atheist. Don't get it twisted though. I love a woman who can hold a conversation. Not a quite little mouse, but not one of these belligerent loud mouth ones who THINK they're strong for being distasteful either.

    • @jkd9637
      @jkd9637 3 года назад +4

      @@manji83 I apologize for my comment. It was inappropriate of me to question your intelligence, due to my opinion.
      Search out the woman who is as close a friend as a lover. Eyes should be what you find most attractive about her, physically.
      Eyes are the one thing that never changes with age.

  • @donovanw.2943
    @donovanw.2943 4 месяца назад

    Your videos are helping me a lot. Thank you 🙏❤

  • @louismazzullo203
    @louismazzullo203 4 года назад +10

    Thank you Victoria for your reply, its a breathe of fresh air to come across a woman like yourself, down to earth and a good looking woman to add. You are very deep that is a sexy quality, I believe you should branch out and get into other topics of interest to include in your repertoire....

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +1

      Thank you Louis for those kind words...what other topics do u think I should cover

    • @louismazzullo203
      @louismazzullo203 4 года назад +1

      Whatever topics you feel that you can offer help to people in general .

  • @peterhaywood4111
    @peterhaywood4111 Год назад

    Thanks for another great episode.

  • @taylorhuff2228
    @taylorhuff2228 4 года назад +19

    This Is a spot on commentary, unfortunately I began to understand the emotional side of my wife too late. As I focused too much on being a provider, and wasn't able to fully comprehend being emotionally engaged to her needs. The passion was gone and I'm left with the learning process of a new me.

    • @taylorhuff2228
      @taylorhuff2228 4 года назад +5

      Married almost 8 years, definition of a slow learner😂

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +6

      Thank U for commenting and sharing some of your story, What do u mean emotionally engaged to her needs.. what do u think she was lacking...ur passion for her and emotional support? Did she try to explain it to u and u couldn’t understand or did she just never come out and be truly honest with u about what she needed.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +5

      @@taylorhuff2228 I realize these are somewhat intrusive questions but I am just very curious.

    • @taylorhuff2228
      @taylorhuff2228 4 года назад +2

      @@mynonleatherlife I believe she tried some, but I just didn't understand. Maybe I didn't want to understand.?? Maybe she didn't explain where I could understand??

    • @taylorhuff2228
      @taylorhuff2228 4 года назад +2

      @@mynonleatherlife Honestly I didn't get much help from my Dad on that area. He is a great man, but oblivious to a woman needs. So I had a huge lacking in that area

  • @DarkThedarker-f8r
    @DarkThedarker-f8r 22 дня назад

    love how this girl can dive in deep darke theme and still has the feminine energy.

  • @harrybarrow6222
    @harrybarrow6222 3 года назад +10

    You confirm things that I have been thinking about for a while…
    We have a veneer of civilised behaviour, but underneath we are driven very much by our basic biology.
    That includes competition for mates, the drive to have sex (and procreate), and security for the family.

  • @SuperMj244
    @SuperMj244 3 года назад +1

    you're so precious because of you honesty about attraction between men and women

  • @justadrian3126
    @justadrian3126 4 года назад +31

    Everything is primal

  • @aa19nn
    @aa19nn Год назад

    Learning new stuff. Great video.

  • @milekj5821
    @milekj5821 3 месяца назад +3

    9:20 throughout history, peoples got conquered, men slaughtered/castrated and enslaved and the women... Well, you can guess. Also, kidnapping women from other tribes was a common occurrence, allowed for greater genetic variation between tribes, but also ensured that the woman would get a high quality, capable male - kidnapping a hottie from the enemy's base was not a small thing, and a risky, ballsy thing. Hence why women today have those traits of being attracted by those evil kidnappers and conquerors. Many women report experiences where their boyfriend gets beaten up and they develop the hots for the winner of the fight, for example.

  • @sushinfudoshin8991
    @sushinfudoshin8991 3 года назад +2

    This longing to be yours is beyond age....I have seen it even more expressed into women after the menopause.

  • @eonstar2441
    @eonstar2441 4 года назад +4

    greatly appreciate everything you do stay the path. My only thing is i hear and believe all of this but i have trouble putting it into practice

  • @Dodinosound
    @Dodinosound 3 года назад +1

    You have opened my eyes to lot of things . I really wish i known years ago . you are great

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад

      I love hearing that, so happy. which things did ur eyes get opened to?

  • @balagchandrasekr4846
    @balagchandrasekr4846 4 года назад +3

    Truly wonderful video 😍

  • @jasonlee64
    @jasonlee64 2 года назад

    I really learn so much from your videos....Thanks Victoria

  • @sheroblue3495
    @sheroblue3495 3 года назад +29

    I always feel really manly when im dating a girl. And i feel like other girls notice that. I wanna come to the point where i feel really powerful even single. Does anyone else have this problem?

    • @archangel_gold2451
      @archangel_gold2451 3 года назад +13

      No attention from girls make you feel unManly basically. My opinion is to always have some type of female interactions, even if single. Make alot of female friends if single. A man can't get that joy from of being around a soft woman, unless he is actually around a soft woman.

    • @sheroblue3495
      @sheroblue3495 3 года назад +3

      @@archangel_gold2451 yeah thanks idk id rather just be in a relationship i know im only 23 but im tired of just changing girls id rather look for something serious.

    • @iamwhole8910
      @iamwhole8910 3 года назад +4

      I totally get that to. I feel most feminine when I’m dating as well. That polarizing energy centres me in my feminine nature.

    • @bleblee732
      @bleblee732 3 года назад +2

      Simp

    • @archangel_gold2451
      @archangel_gold2451 3 года назад

      @@bleblee732 the message show no simp traits. You must be a female.

  • @aquadisiak9357
    @aquadisiak9357 Год назад +1

    I love your comments... I think your talking about is a short-term type of thing. It's now trendy for beautiful women to be business owners... Woman have taken away a man's primeval need provide and protect. This is what makes us men. We feel useless now... on a whim, a woman with money and beauty has no problem leaving you for another man and 70 to 80% a woman do because they're bored and want excitement. They're proud of their body counts. More and more are not having children. In Japan, they have night clubs that are exclusive to women only.

  • @ahrengroesch8774
    @ahrengroesch8774 4 года назад +50

    "A lot of these things I just assume men know" 😂🤣😂🤣 if only. I used to think I had to protect women from my sexuality. I felt it in my bones.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +10

      What was the worst or main things u felt u had to protect them from

    • @ahrengroesch8774
      @ahrengroesch8774 4 года назад +43

      @@mynonleatherlife There is this overwhelming feeling that my sexual desires are bad and shameful. I believed women didn't want sex, it was just something men tricked them into. I feel this when I so much as make eye contact with a woman I find attractive. It crushes my energy and fills me with anxiety.
      I wasn't introduced to this concept that women like sex and they enjoy the sexual energy they get from men until a few years ago. Thank you youtube for that. I've been slowly letting go of the shame ever since.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +12

      @@ahrengroesch8774 it’s so good for me to hear this stuff

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +24

      @@ahrengroesch8774 I got to make another vid on this topic, thx for inspiring me yet again

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 3 года назад +8

      @@mynonleatherlife Hi well you are not the average woman, I guess you are gifted with a high I.Q., aren't you (if not indiscreet) ?

  • @mrwideguy
    @mrwideguy 3 года назад +1

    I love and appreciate your honest content.

  • @sineaterd36
    @sineaterd36 3 года назад +6

    Your analysis on the subconscious psychology of women's emotions resonates with that of Professor Jordan Peterson. Are you by any chance a student of psychology?.. 😀
    Anyhow, your honest no bullshit breakdowns are very informative and quite helpful in understanding the female character too... Do continue your good work.
    Thank you.

  • @dennilovejoy6399
    @dennilovejoy6399 3 года назад

    I’ve never heard everything you’ve said in your videos. Thanks a ton!

  • @jaykay6387
    @jaykay6387 3 года назад +20

    The problem is a lot of the guys that have all these awesomely masculine traits are complete jerks and end up abusing their girlfriends and wives.
    I've viewed several of your videos, and I don't dispute anything you've said, you are being completely honest and that is a rare thing.
    I was fortunate and lucky enough to have been born with some abilities and physical "looks" that allowed me to just be "myself" and not
    have to pretend that I was something I was not. I got pursued just because of my looks when I was younger, which makes things much easier, you
    don't have to bother putting on all these different "masks" to convince a girl you can "protect and provide" for her.
    I'll be honest, that shit gets tiring. I think girls pass on a lot of really good guys simply because they are not "aggressive" or "cool" enough.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +13

      I agree, very similar to how many guys pass on girls with a great personality because they’re not good looking enough

    • @jaykay6387
      @jaykay6387 3 года назад +9

      @@mynonleatherlife It's somewhat "analogous", but not perfectly so. Guys can be "superficial" like that, no doubt. But when a girl rejects you,
      it cuts much deeper, because she is not necessarily only rejecting how you look, she is rejecting "you". And that's why many guys are so "gun shy" about asking girls out,
      it hurts on a very deep level to be rejected like that. Girls, IMO, have too many unconscious "hoops" that they make men jump through, some of them not all that crucial in the modern world. On the deepest level, they are wired to "protect their eggs", but don't even realize it. As I said before, I think it results in many of them making poor
      decisions in who they choose to date.

    • @gilgamecha
      @gilgamecha 2 года назад +1

      @@jaykay6387 why would you think it hurts a girl any less to be rejected than it hurts a guy???

    • @jaykay6387
      @jaykay6387 2 года назад +5

      @@gilgamecha Where in my comment did I say that? Of course, women can be hurt as much as a guy, but it's much easier for a girl to find somebody else.
      To "paraphrase" something I saw once, Women go "shopping" and men go "hunting", and that is not all that far from the truth. Women can always "find" a guy, whereas the converse is not necessarily true.

    • @gilgamecha
      @gilgamecha 2 года назад +1

      @@jaykay6387 "when a girl rejects you, it cuts much deeper"

  • @vinslungur
    @vinslungur 3 года назад +1

    Wow this makes so much sense! Like why women seem to be super attracted to men who seem to be assholes, even bad. When in reality they protect their own while not letting strangers affect their mindset. BTW Victoria are you familiar with Jordan Peterson? The main thing he preaches to men especially is to take on responsibility and bear the burden of life. The lessons from you two go a long way dispelling all the bullshit that society has forced down our throats. You're doing so much good for us men. We are lied to everyday and made to believe what people, especially women THINK they want.
    Thank you so much Victoria
    Love and appreciation from a fan of yours from Iceland

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +1

      I didn't know that was one of Jordan Peterson's main messages. I listened to one interview with him and kinda got turned off by him so I didn't listen to anything more. That is interesting. I'm so glad u like the vids and find them helpful. Also I am a YUUUUUUGE fan of Iceland. I wan't to go back badly. It's so incredible.

    • @vinslungur
      @vinslungur 3 года назад

      @@mynonleatherlife Nice! Not everything Jordan Peterson says is helpful but he does preach some important rules for life. Also you're very much welcome in Iceland anytime. We would love to have you

  • @robertoromoli1250
    @robertoromoli1250 4 года назад +8

    Girl, your an angel

  • @robertogiraudo4435
    @robertogiraudo4435 3 года назад +2

    5:15 yeah I mean ITS in every thing! Love it

  • @nocind6752
    @nocind6752 3 года назад +5

    Its like, after listening to your videos i like females even more. Its because i understand alot now

  • @gideonlapidus8996
    @gideonlapidus8996 Год назад

    you the first woman that tells the truth about women want, i love it❤

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  Год назад

      then i'm gonna tell u the truth that women are not liars 🤯 it's your own blindspots keeping u from understanding the truth. check out my latest vid on male blindspots

  • @funkymunky
    @funkymunky 3 года назад +7

    Women want a want to admire, to rebel against, while denying both. Give her the gift of discomfort.

  • @loyal4theway159
    @loyal4theway159 3 года назад +1

    I can't thank you enough for this video
    It's honest and well explained

  • @CashCowz962
    @CashCowz962 3 года назад +15

    So I hope you answer this to me...I grew up very quickly..I looked mature beyond my age...and so I got a lot of rejection from girls my actual age....a ton..until I discovered that I should seek out older females...but it also never feels right....but as I got older I realized that the same younger women who rejected me when I was their age in our 20s...they are now attracted to me cos am older and more established...unfortunately tho..these days I see those women as ..mentally immature..its like what are you gonna offer me outside of your body?...and then also I have a long memory and I never forget things. I have hi IQ and ..a memory like an elephant...so how can I get over that? I also dont want a younger female that I cant connect to mentally. The older women ..well they are older..and usually have kids..aka...another mans kids...😂😂

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +3

      So go for it Cashcow nothing wrong with liking older women, you will get a leg up from them anyway cause they can teach you stuff and know themselves better as well. Is the problem u want kids but they already have kids? Or just the idea of being with them when they have another mans kids?

    • @nicholasrocco5084
      @nicholasrocco5084 3 года назад +2

      Find an attractive woman a couple years younger then you or possibly a woman your age that doesn't have kids. Maybe you need to ask yourself are you in a position and/or high value enough to get an attractive girl in your age range that doesn't already have kids. From what your saying, your high value enough for an older woman and a much younger woman but maybe you need to work on yourself so you can get an attractive women in your age range that you can connect with and she would be winning by choosing you to have children with.

    • @CashCowz962
      @CashCowz962 3 года назад +1

      @@nicholasrocco5084 great advise is great advise...I can get the youngins.. i am not desperate enough to entertain their youngish ways...and drama....we will see how it plays out tho....

  • @joeybarron222
    @joeybarron222 3 года назад

    Really interesting that you referenced Outlander. I like your videos and appreciate your honesty. Thanks!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +1

      Why do u find the mention of outlander interesting. Are u a fan?

    • @joeybarron222
      @joeybarron222 3 года назад

      @@mynonleatherlife not me personally, but the last girl I had strong feelings for did.

  • @markhernandez3860
    @markhernandez3860 3 года назад +9

    I like this chick we need more of them out there. I knew alotof this stuff but the woman needs to know what the woman needs to be to make a man be more like what the woman is describing.

  • @archangel_gold2451
    @archangel_gold2451 3 года назад +1

    We love your hair Victoria, btw. And no makeup ❤

  • @abfdy
    @abfdy 4 года назад +4

    I'm under the impression that whether the pace in the bedroom is slow or fast, the crucial ingredient is the 'oomph', which isn't necessarily a physical thing. In my mind, the 'oomph', is non-physical. It's hard to describe in words, but we could say it is "psychological", perhaps coming from that intense energy of domination and submission, which is much more the result of a way of relating to each other than it is the result of physical actions. I think when men in our culture think "making love", they foolishly throw domination out the window, under the assumption that domination and love don't go together, so therefore, lovemaking is understandably perceived as "weaker" than animalistic sex. But when a male has mastered his role, he can 'oomph' his way through the whole encounter whether he moves fast or slow, lovingly or dryly, and every move he makes is imbued with it. He can then, by making love to her, send her brains into orbit better than a porny-but-oomphless display of acrobatics can. What do you think about this, Victoria?

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +4

      ur absolutely right, and pointing out something very important. I kinda made it seem like "lovemaking" is sub par and boring but it absolutely does not have to be, whereas I was making it seem like domination is everything, whereas I so agree with you that if you just go through the motions without any psychological depth or passion or oomph to it it is not good at all. For example much of the kink content online does absolutely nothing for me because it seems so lacking in depth, nuance, psychology, and the oomph like you're saying...just hitting someone with a paddle but where is the chemistry, truth, passion, connection, flow etc. I was thinking like u said that men are foolishly throwing intensity and domination out the window and wanting to inform them that gentle and soft are not all women like. But ur right, there is something else there...do u think people can improve their oomph or is it just chemistry with the right person?

    • @abfdy
      @abfdy 4 года назад +6

      @@mynonleatherlife First of all, you're great. I love that you're so open and generous in thoroughly sharing your thought process with everyone, both in the videos and in replies to comments.
      Honestly, I think the oomph is actually something that would *naturally* be there in male-female relations in Homosapiens groups untouched by modernity, but we as a civilization have immense baggage and conditioning, and are too smart for our own good; we have conditioned ourselves out of it. In comparison to an animal (who would do it naturally), we're so smart we're dumb. The genders have to unlearn all of our conditioned crap and re-learn what's natural, with the help of information ambassadors like yourself.
      I think a girl can absolutely improve her oomph if she chooses to be more submissive, and by golly that's fucking hot. And men can, too. The challenge we all face isn't in the act of choosing to dominate/submit in itself (that part is easy); the challenge is in the mental barriers: unlearning all the false beliefs that make one afraid of doing it. I can't speak for women (although I imagine it boils down to shame and fear), but I can speak for men, and I know that growing up in our culture, we develop by default a sense that being dominant is wrong and mean and we shouldn't do that; in fact we develop the opposite view: be as nice to her as possible. Guys intuitively know that niceness is attractive (to us), so we try to *be* that which we like in girls. And since we lack the female perspective, we're clueless about the fact that domination is what is wanted.
      What's funny is, I think the same phenomenon happens in the inverse: Girls intuitively/subconsciously know that being dominant is hot, so they try to be a "boss bitch" to impress men, which really isn't that attractive to us at all (lol). And since they lack the male perspective, they're clueless about the fact that submission is what's wanted. But if a girl figures it out and she talks to us with that nice weak, helpless, receptive and submissive puppy-eyes voice and body language, it's done. I want her.

    • @richardgomesarruda5590
      @richardgomesarruda5590 4 года назад +4

      @@abfdy hardly someone can give a better answer than that. Thanks bro.

    • @richardgomesarruda5590
      @richardgomesarruda5590 4 года назад +2

      @@mynonleatherlife After read the book The Dominated Men from Ester Villar, i acknowledge that I can't love woman the way I used to love, showing the way a woman use to control man and offer to little.
      But after this video i can love again a submissive woman without fear of being dominant, that something the society and my woman parents teach me is bad.
      Thanks again.

    • @abfdy
      @abfdy 4 года назад +1

      ​@@richardgomesarruda5590 Glad to contribute, bro.

  • @bigtrubs6173
    @bigtrubs6173 2 года назад

    I understand 100% and I love your videos

  • @thearunmishra
    @thearunmishra 3 года назад +5

    Women wants freedom, a guy who gives it all freedom by protecting her in all ways . ❤️

  • @esotericgamedev
    @esotericgamedev 3 года назад

    Your videos are FANTASTIC

  • @przeskurwesynxd9023
    @przeskurwesynxd9023 3 года назад +4

    The problem with all those novels is that they end at the beginning of longer relation with a woman. The trick is to play the novel plot, but never get to the happy end.

    • @jfo3000
      @jfo3000 3 года назад +2

      So true, in marriage it's tough to sustain a woman's interest.

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 3 года назад

      @@jfo3000 That's because women are biologically programmed to find reasons to DISqualify a man from mating consideration. Think about it. For most women, most men would/could have sex with her. There's no way she has the time or energy to have sex with even a fraction of a percent of the men that want sex with her. A woman that doesn't have an innate desire to "weed out the losers" will have less descendants than a woman that has that genetic characteristic.
      This is why women typically lose most of their sexual desire for their husbands after around 10 years of marriage, and men keep theirs with only a slight drop, even though after 10 years she's probably way less physically attractive than she was at the beginning.

  • @nethervvoid
    @nethervvoid 3 года назад

    Yep. You understand the animal side of us humans that the world wants to ignore and forget. You can't get rid of it. It's in our genes. And I have also experienced what you're talking about first hand. What I and women both want is to give her freedom in the outside world while giving her structure and rules in our world. A place to feel safe and recharge for the next day of going out into the world and conquering like her man does, day to day.
    Nice work.

  • @GunkleJaja
    @GunkleJaja 3 года назад +4

    Men know absolutely nothing of what you talk about. Please keep it coming, thank you so much!!!!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +3

      haha are u serious? none? which part did u find most surprising I am curious

    • @JustPlaqohh
      @JustPlaqohh 3 года назад

      I disagree. Some men, myself included, found some relief knowing that their strongest sexual desires are actually normal and not degrading women.

  • @giuliano4527
    @giuliano4527 3 года назад

    Hi Victoria
    As usually, very interesting :)
    Cheers
    Giuliano

  • @bslimm.b1739
    @bslimm.b1739 3 года назад +27

    Figuring out women never made any man alpha or legend some of the greatest men to exist didn't even bother with women fuck all this kings 👑 rise up if shes not cooperative you leave and move on with purpose a man without purpose will focus on these women videos which is bullshit men stay in frame always be a man and have purpose

    • @bslimm.b1739
      @bslimm.b1739 3 года назад

      @@jakienobyzwas I'll try that thank you

    • @lazygam3r183
      @lazygam3r183 3 года назад +5

      You can do both. Having a better understanding of how women think is only going help.. Once you master the understanding then you can go back to not focusing on these types of videos, and still be armed with knowledge in case you need to use it at a later time.

    • @bslimm.b1739
      @bslimm.b1739 3 года назад

      @@lazygam3r183 very true very true indeed💯

    • @bslimm.b1739
      @bslimm.b1739 3 года назад

      @@lazygam3r183 very true very true indeed💯

    • @MrFosthesensei
      @MrFosthesensei 3 года назад

      It’s has to be a balance if your a heterosexual man dealing with women is in inevitable

  • @solarmanbeats5078
    @solarmanbeats5078 2 года назад

    All I can say to You is
    “THANK YOU “💚💯

  • @maxamedkhadar1454
    @maxamedkhadar1454 4 года назад +5

    Thank u victoria for helping to be true men that women crave..

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад +3

      Thank you very much Maxamed and thanks for commenting, did u know all this already or was any of it surprising to you?

    • @maxamedkhadar1454
      @maxamedkhadar1454 4 года назад +1

      @@mynonleatherlife yeap the thing that surprasing me is that MUSCULINITY and becoming dominant in sexual activty also being protective ...unfortunetly strong dominance confident man is rare in modern era

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  4 года назад

      @@maxamedkhadar1454 very interesting and very good to know that that is what was surprising to you. thx a lot for letting me know.

  • @HumayunMirza-s8f
    @HumayunMirza-s8f 9 месяцев назад

    Brilliant talk on sub conscious or deeper psychology of women. Some of it look instinctual preferaces for their better survival n some of it can be socio cultural influences. But societies n people r also changing n evolving with time n three r new circumstances behaviours n preferences. Persons r also going for better choices n changes now. Say with education n socio economic opportunities women prefer n rely more on their independence instead of being a protected housewife which has more vulnerabilities n suffocating for many.
    The old conditionings which u so well described also go side by side but with more awareness women realizing these wants r idealistic not mundane realities.

  • @ShyamChandak54
    @ShyamChandak54 3 года назад +4

    Thank you, commenting for better reach/algorithm!
    Hope you keep making these honest genuine videos and steer clear of the online hate!

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +2

      Thanks Shyam, I really appreciate your support. Luckily so far people haven’t been too critical heh I hope that continues 😅😅

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад +2

      Is there any video topic u are curious about from a girls perspective or anything u would like to see

    • @ShyamChandak54
      @ShyamChandak54 3 года назад +2

      @@mynonleatherlife I've recently just discovered your channel so I've only watched a few videos so far. I'm slowly going through the channel, the videos so far have been gems. I think you're amazing and I wish you the best on RUclips, I hope you can make some good money from it. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Raymond-rr5iv
    @Raymond-rr5iv 3 года назад +1

    I'm enjoying listening so much to what you have to say... that my curiosity wants me to press on to your next stellar instinctual observations and assessments on desires and interactions that lead to successful fulfillment emotionally and sexually.
    You're very interesting expressive and quite on target in my opinion. I would however feel somehow slightly guilty if I did not stop and recognize how abundant you are. It would bother my conscience. So, as right you are and even at this point in my life having seen 7 decades packed with stories that would leave you stunned... Now I've got the thrill of my life with a woman who has many qualities that you speak of. It's wonderful !! Your description of a woman being like a wild stallion is so true. Running wild now and loving it. Thanks again.

    • @mynonleatherlife
      @mynonleatherlife  3 года назад

      thanks Raymond but what do you mean abundant haha

  • @colinesquire2480
    @colinesquire2480 3 года назад +4

    The one thing I still can't figure out is why women want to have lots of different men it seems to contradict a lot of the rest of the stuff

    • @iamwhole8910
      @iamwhole8910 3 года назад

      For women to stop desiring other men, that primal femininity must be met. Women can sense a mans level of masculinity. It is a God given sense that ALLLLL women have and the opposite it true for men.

  • @MyLawrence04
    @MyLawrence04 2 года назад

    What you said I’ve used it and trust me you are real speaking the truth

  • @justadrian3126
    @justadrian3126 4 года назад +13

    It’s really simple it’s primal

  • @cbraat27
    @cbraat27 3 года назад +16

    My gf and I ‘made love’ once at the end of a very tumultuous day: she found out she was pregnant in the morning and called me about it at work and I spent the next 12 hours stressing about it. By the time I got home I had gone through all 7 stages of grief and making love was the sweetest acceptance I’ve ever experienced

    • @iamwhole8910
      @iamwhole8910 3 года назад

      @#Here's Your TRIGGERWARNING why is that so triggering?