Would You Let Your Man Take Your Weave Out?
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- Have you seen the video of Ayesha Curry letting her MVP hubby Stephen cut out her weave? It’s going viral, and the ladies of #TheReal are sharing their thoughts in today’s #GirlChat.
Adrienne be clapping for herself every time she thinks she made a point 😂
lmaoooo Jeannie did it too
lmaooo right! Straight crickets
nah, Adrienne claps and then the audience follows suit as sort of a second thought. Jeannie claps with the audience.
+VONiiE8 Yeah. It's different. You can tell from the past season too. Jeannie will clap to involve the audience. To keep them engaged, she'll refer to them. Adrienne usually always looks at the audience after she's made a point or starts clapping because she wants the applause.
Yeah, Adrienne wants validation for her opinions, it seems like.
The way Adrienne forced a clap from the audience 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
lol yes i saw it
she is always forcing claps from them 😂😂
Lmmfao you have me dying laughing. I caught that too though lmao
girl I died! 😂😂😂😂
Loni, I pray you stay on your self-love journey, cause that natural hair is NOTHING to hide or be ashamed of.
I though the same thing too Nallah brown looks like for her weaves are better than our natural hair.
Mostly just wear extensions that emulate black hair. That's what I do. Then I don't have to comb it daily.
My ex use to take out my weave and grease my scalp after I washed my hair. It's been two yrs and I'm still not over his ass. 😩😂😂
lmaooo girlllll
lol
😂😂💀
Someone else will do it better for you girl :)
Greasing the scalp...that boy loved you
Tamar would have been like, "Get yo life, umm No ma'am honey, Vincent D Herbert will NOT be touching any part of this head" lololol
LIES
spot on!
AND that he did not pay for her BEAT
she actually said in the first season or test season that she let him do it
Lol Omg I miss her! 😭
JEANNIE IS NOT 37 I REFUSE TO BELIEVE IT
She looks like she's in her early 20's ...
that's Asians for you
Lol, you act like 37 is supposed to look old.
Lol hush but its 100% true
+J Q I know right??? Lol 37 is NOT old...
Jeannie looks 25 not 37 lol
agreed.
***** men too. want to spend more time with their careers.
she probaby drinks holy water
She did mention at one point that her and Freddy were considering children so they could be trying and not having any luck, which makes your "she will regret not having kids" comment all the more upsetting to her. Also, they have mentioned that their not having kids has been a big issue in their marriage. I could be wrong about them trying to have kids but I'm sure that's not what she wants to hear regardless.
tha is cause the lack of kids
I wish loni didn't view her kinky hair as less beautiful than her straight weaves
same. she seems to promote beauty to all other women except for herself. if she got some natural girl products and rocked an afro she would be bomb as hell.
I know right!
Taylor Sanders do you know how hard it is to wear 4C hair outside? The minute air gets in your hair it's going to get hard and then what are you going to do
HOW ELSE IS SO SUPPOSED TO THINK WHEN SOCIETY CHOOSES BEYONCÉ BEFORE THEY WOULD EVEN LOOK AT LUPITA
Melissa Charles lupita is Mexican!!!
I don't mind women showing their natural hair. There is no good or bad hair, it's just what the media and people put in your head. Yes, you can switch it up whenever you want to but you should always be proud of your natural hair and texture and raise your daughters to do the same.
Jeanie.. They were clearly talking about sew-ins... No woman would have a problem with their man taking out a clip in
lol. right.
Mine did all the time when I wore them!
😂😂😂
Thank you!
Right 💀💀
Jeannie's head looks like the golden butterfly Snapchat filter
Yaa!
I thought the same thing! 😂😂
Nah, I wouldn't trust a man with a scissor near my hair except he was a hair stylist!
Then Ray ( Adrienne's hair stylist ) is the man for you lol
But I will say that I admire her trust in her man and Steph's sweetness to do that for his wife!
UNLESS* he was my hairstylist
Lol not even that.
My boyfriend would cut all my hair off. Then we'd fight so hell no.
Yassssss same here
A-FLIPPING-MEN! If my hair gets cut, I would be uber pissed. It takes an extremely long time to grow hair and I can't be messing with anybody who's not as invested as me in my hair journey. Therefore, if it's not me doing the cutting, the only other person I'm allowing is my mother since she knows my hair struggle and respects the amount of hair care that goes into my natural hair journey.
h Bag lmao. My boyfriend has fat fingers and would do the same!!! 😂😂😂
AlphabetSoup SAME HERE
I swearrrrr Tamar's commentary to this would have been sooo funny lol
Weave? why not hair? xD
Yeeeeesss!!!
Yeah, maybe....Naw, still glad she gone! 😂
Nellah Grace Yes!! This Was Sooo A Tamar Episode
YESSS
I just imagine tamar being like 'let my man cut out my weave? Whachu mean' 😂😂 I miss her so much 😭😭
😂
right! LAHS! (lies) I miss her lip smack before she goes off. lol
ME TOO!! 😭😭 I thought I was the only one!
I'm gonna have to disagree with Loni about letting your man see your real hair if you're not married. Sooner (rather than) later they better see the real you. I really like what Jeannie said at the end!
agreed ! deffo important
agree.
a lot of girls don't like if yall just dating casually not in a relationship or a serious one
Yeppp I totally agree with Jeannie
that true
The way the conversation would have gone if Tamar was still on: Absolutely positively no, no and no. Thank you and good night. Okay hunty, there is no way I'm letting Vincent Herbert near my tracks, no God!
Loni: I'll let Mr. Vincent Herbert take off more than just my weave okay!
Tamar: You trrrrried it!
YASSSSS
Yes thank u SM bc I miss Tamar!
Lol.....ok!!!!
Lo
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How hard it is to take clip ins out Jeannie Mai ?!? 😒
She just wants to bond with bae, that's all.
She just wanted to relate 😂
Sit down Jeannie. Clip ons are NOT THE SAME as taking out our weave!💺💺💺
Girl LMAO!
Girl Yes!!! They are!!!
Kiona McNutt they really not
it's not about it being the same thing, she meant it in the context that "it's not your real hair" 🙄
Exactly
She said "Adam is Caucasian" 😂😂
the new seating arrangements have me so confused. like Jeanie sitting in the wrong spot.
Lol I've gotten used to it when I saw on Snapchat
I honestly think its to balance them out i.e they don't want all the black ppl on one side of the table
to balance out the ladies. Jeannie and Adrienne bring a lot of spunk. So they made it even across the table.
Adrienne "just because you wear a weave does not mean you are bald"
crickets....
*Adrienne forces clap*
But it's true, I don't know why the audience didn't clap for that one. Everybody isn't bald under the weave 😂😂
AyonnaSpeaksPeaceTV maybe everyone happened to be bald under their weaves 😂😂
Simone G It's true. Wearing weave does not mean you are bald.
Life With Ayonna Right, weave is an enhancement.
I like how Adrianne started clapping so the audience would clap lol
***** really? That seems lame af. But I guess ordering make it lookalike there's more energy.
loll
Damn I'm sorry but I just love this show so much better without Tamar. There is no shade or bullying or sarcasm between these ladies. Everyone gets to share their own experiences and opinions
Yesss
exactly! so refreshing.
ikr
I love it too,,,,😍 I never liked Tamar anyway
What "shade or bullying" happened when Tamar was there?
Beyonce don't even look like Beyonce when she wakes up.
3 years Later and this comment took me out 😂
That's exactly what I said 🤣
I have to admit Loni's comment about comparing her natural hair to Adrienne's natural hair is the reason why some black women feel like there is something wrong with their hair. These backwards standards of beauty that dictate that the silkier your hair, the more beautiful, is ridiculous. The truth is, if you LEARN to take care & style your kinky/coily hair, you can slay just as well as the next woman with straight silky hair. I for one KNOW this because I rock my natural hair and I know for a fact that it is beautiful. This is not to say that there's anything wrong with black women rocking weaves/wigs/clip in extensions etc. I used to wear them myself as a protective style or to change it up. And my boyfriend being a white guy (was also confused about weaves like Adam lmao) but I was never hesitant to show him my natural hair; he thinks it's beautiful. It's literally the texture that grows out of your scalp; why not love it? So Loni, saying your hair underneath is different from Adrienne's as a way of saying that she can let her man take off her extensions and not you is just silly. Lol I was having question marks in my head at her comment. Otherwise, I loved this discussion lol
I get what your saying but I don't think she was saying black women in general, I think she was speaking for herself..
once again another person reading too much into it. she was just explaining that her texture of hair is different from Adrienne which is true. she's not saying I don't like my natural hair and I prefer adrienne's. what r ya'll hearing for real?
Morgan Johnson Yeah I get that she's speaking for herself but they have a platform and many viewers/followers. Some women might think it's okay that she feels negatively about her hair.
***** You're going to ignore the way she said it though? She literally said, "I look like Esther Rolle up under here. I don't want him to see that." Tell me that was not said as thought it was a bad thing. And Adrienne literally had to argue back and say, "What if he's into that Esther Rolle?" I rest my case.
Thanks for this comment! At the end of the day she has a platform and there are too many Black women out here feeling like our natural hair isn't beautiful.
I have a new respect for MS Tamara... she kept is all the way REAL... "When you keep that weave in for a long time.... I don't want to knock my husband out with ten smell"....💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😭
This is why a lot of people believe weaves are a sign of self-hate. Too many black women think like Loni. Kinky hair may be difficult, but there are plenty of ways to make it look good. You just have to be willing to accept that "good hair" or "beautiful hair" doesn't have to be long, straight and flowing. And women who say the men won't accept them should know that it's not about the men. Men can see your beauty. It's all about yourself and your own insecurities...
I want to add though that I'm glad Loni said it. Whether we like what she said or not, it felt "real" and it opens discussion much better than trying to be PC.
no because weave is a protective style
absolutely! but I don't think its that many women compared to the women who are now accepting or who have always accepted their natural hair. I have many aunts who are hair stylists and they told me that recently they haven't been putting weaves in anymore but get customers who only want to wash their natural hair or put in box braids or twists or bantu knots as protective styles. Weaves are protective styles too but a lot of black girls don't want it anymore! I certainly don't hahahaha! but I do love love wigs, because I refuse to apply heat to my hair and I want it to grow without too much manipulating to cause it to break (my hair breaks easily, but its been getting stronger because I add oils before I put on a wig!) it has nothing to do with "self-hate" per se but I want to have different styles without actually damaging my real hair, some girls wear weave for this reason and others like myself just wear wigs or put in braids occasionally. Never leave out your natural hair in the winter! esp if its brittle and breaks easily! it would be better to cover it and protect it even if its a weave
Tamera!!! "he still ain't taking my weave out" I just love her
I know y'all don't care about Tamar but I would've loved to hear her comments on this 😩😂😂
tamar would've KILLED in this segment!!! I do miss her
she would a said something Hella funny!
Lol Tamar's commentary would have been hilarious. It would be basically the same thing Tamera said, but louder and funnier.
+lola smith Tamar is dead. Vince ate her. Move on.
+inasexymood 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I really cant stand Loni...we're supposed to be ashamed of our natural hair?? foh
Lanessa Hickman I know right. I can't stand when she says bad things about natural hair. She's so ashamed of her own hair that she thinks everyone feels the same.
It’s just her personal opinion, everyone is entitled and that’s how she feels around Her man. It’s not that deep
She didn't say that she likes her hair but when you take it out from the weave that's what she mean
Right. She didn’t say she didn’t like her hair but when you have “that kind of hair” some people don’t like it, and I have 4c type hair, fortunately my man don’t mind but to me it’s the same concept as using the bathroom in front of him
I agree with Tamera. I would feel uncomfortable if my boyfriend take my weave out of my hair, I prefer a professional licensed hair stylist to take my wave out. And Adrienne is right about women who wears weaves are not bald a lot of women wear it to protect their natural hair and they also wear to have different styles.
Lol Adrienne be hyping up her own claps recently. Why isn't the crowd feeling her?
lol she's done that for a while
She aways does that, bih aint nobdoy gotta clap if they dont want
"men are visual creatures" that's because they grow up seeing the hyper sexualization of women!!! let's teach them how real and natural women actually are! Men shouldn't grow up thinking that women look beat naturally all the time.
That's right. Societies standards have been for centuries, the teacher of how men and women "should" be.
I am sure Tamar wouldn't let Vince do that. He might eat it! It explains why she has no edges!
Wooww
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Where that come from tho lol
+Alan Whitfield this is the real so we need to keep it all the way savage
She is really insecure. She said herself, she wouldn't eve. take her weave in front of him.
Is it just me or does it seem so much more peaceful this season? I love hearing everyone stories without the lip smacking or being interrupted.
loni and jeannie are both ignorant. loni just because your hair is a certain texture does not mean all Black girls have the same. Our hair comes in so many different curly to kinky patterns. And adrienne's hair is not that different. She straightens it just like all the other spanish girls with naturally curly hair. Jeannie cannot be serious thinking that taking clip-ons out is the same as taking out a sew-in. It's way more complicated.
I feel like the point was about letting your man see the transition. Not about hair texture or type of weave, it's about letting them in on the "behind the scenes" of it all.
She was not assuming or saying that at all
I'm so tired of Lonnie's self-hate. This isn't the only times she's said this...
We've seen a pic of Loni's natural hair on the show in the past. There's nothing wrong with it. 😒
I feel like Lonnie is embarrassed by her natural hair and that's a problem black women are beautiful too we have beautiful hair too we are just different and that's why I rock my natural hair
so she's going to talk about Israel like she not been married to him for 60 seconds--- i feel like she's BEEN itching to include him in the vince/adam/jeannie's white chocolate😩 club
*engaged
😂😂😂😂😂😂
+N Mohammed i thought the same
Jeannie's white chocolate lmao
🙆🏾😂😂
My boyfriend always help me take my weave, he's very helpful and he doesn't mind. Your boyfriend/husband should be your best friend .
I agree with Adrienne. Quit shaming black women for wearing weave.
" If I am not okay with me I am not gonna Find the Guy that's okay with me" Jeannie be always dropping some good wisdom. Love her
Sorry, Jeannie, but scissors aren't required for clip-ins.
FYI, Tamar is blocking anyone on her Instagram that posts anything regarding the real...
lmaoo petty wop
She mad 😩😩😩
lol she has time to do that?
+joejill51lala well she is no longer working on the Real and her album isn't doing that well...
LOOL xD
Loni kind of upset me here. I just want to say as a woman of African descent, I love my hair and I wear it with pride.
I'm glad Lonnie addressed the elephant in the room. Black girls wear hair that is NOT similar to their natural kinky hair texture whereas Latinas or White girls that wear hair pieces only wear pieces to blend in with their natural hair, that's the difference.
I still don't understand how that is relevant to what she said. Why does that make our natural hair less appealing to look at under weave than a Latino's?
+madeyoulook ask Loni! She's the one who said it. My guess would be kinky hair is less appealing looking than straighter/open curled silky type hair which is why most black girls prefer to wear weaves that resemble Asian, Latin, European hair texture? (I know some wear Afro textured weaves too).
adriennes natural curly hair is far different from a black curly hair person... point blank. So either way if she decides not to wear a weave I'm pretty sure 10/10 she would still look better than a black chick with natural hair ... unless the black chick has them pretty spiral curls but other than that , thats it.
Yea but all black girls don't have hair like Lonis...😁
lmao right ... like some black women have amazingly kept natural hair like my sister ❤👌
But non have naturally straight hair.
Many black girls have naturally straight hair, in my family as well.
77deerose are they mixed race?
77deerose my neighbourhood is full of black people and none of the females have naturally straight hair and no black celebrity has naturally straight hair including guys.
I think this season wont be bad.
It seems like it'll be okay
It's gonna be better
Tamera just gets prettier every year!
jeannie needs her own show. she is so uplifting i can hear her preach for hourssss!
tamera looks sooooooo good you can tell she's been working out sooo cute and adrienne too
My bf takes my braids and do a cornrow for me
Aww. That's so sweet.
+La Suprema Catalina now thats real relationship goals
Loni killed me with the massage story 😂😂😂😂
People, 37 is SUPPOSED to look young! It IS 37!!! If someone died at 37, you say they were too young and yet, you act all surprised that they look their age- young? SMH!
Jeannie looks much younger than 37 though
J Q Completely agree!
I love it when Tamera explains things 😂😂😂😂
I'm watching old The Real clips out of boredom. I loved the dynamic the ladies had together. It's definitely different without their old cohost's HUGE personality, but I believe the ladies will find their groove. I will still be watching. I think they are doing great.♡
Tamera has lost a lot of her baby weight. She looks great!
I loved them in this video! They were so entertaining and funny! So excited for more videos! :)
my man is white and he always helps me take my weave out lol I love my man!!!
Awwww
Brittany Jackson No, I wouldn't want my man helping me to take my weave out. Hahaha haa!! It's ruining the fantasy. To be honest, I don't like weave or wigs. I like it natural when I'm natural and soft and fluffy when relaxed. I'm getting ready to wear a relaxer and I want it light and fluffy.
I love jeannie's small talk about self love. If you're always keeping some real ness of you tucked away, then the one you're with wouldn't even know the true you. In a sense they grow to love someone else.
Love that part Jeannie!
Ayesha and Stephen are blessed to have each other for real! Stephen is a good man for doing that, and with those kitchen shears too omg...but he's being super careful and it's really lovely how much Ayesha trusts him.
But Loni's comments...smh I love her but she definitely has some issues because there is nothing wrong with any black woman's natural hair. Take care of it and it will thrive. Natural hair is gorgeous in all its different coils/curl patterns and lengths. We have the most unique hair texture in the world but instead we beat it into submission and hide it because....? Loni and black women like her need to look deep within themselves to love themselves, seriously now. I thought we would have moved past using wigs and weaves as beauty crutches or a more acceptable way to present ourselves to the world. Just consider them as beauty options. Self-love is important, and so many men actually love and prefer natural hair as opposed to weave/wigs/relaxed hair so I don't know why some sisters still get insecure about how men perceive them. It's not about them anyway, it's about loving yourself and the beauty that radiates from within when you do. If you rock your natural hair with confidence, there is nothing more beautiful.
I love these ladies... they always bring a huge smile to my face and remind me of where I want to be in my life and to never stop working hard
Loni Loni Loni please don't go there about natural hair....If you are ashamed of your afro textured hair keep that self-hate to yourself.
4:06 Tamera is the cutest thang.
No shade but people complain Tamar cut them off. Yet she is gone and they are still cutting each other off. It's a power struggle ,it had nothing to do with an individual.
I wasn't a big fan of Tamar, but damn this is boring.
I thought the same..I kept imagining what Tamar's reaction would've been!
i thought exactly the same, its gone borrring
I agree. I didn't care for Tamar's antics sometimes, but the ladies on this panel really play it safe with everything that they say and it's a bit boring to watch. They need someone who's gonna "tell it like it is," so to speak.
Deadass they need a new permanent member.
Totally agree peanutjelly ! Loni tries wayyyy too hard to be funny, Tamera is true to herself and is what she is, Adrienne is over the top/loud, and Jeannie is just an expert at everything..we're missing that hard core in-your-face brutal truth..like IDGAF what anyone thinks but here's what I think attitude! !
This girlchat was maaaaade for Tamar 😩 #NotTheSameWithoutSHE,ME,HER !
Jeannie stay dropping that wisdom!
I feel like they have less of a problem talking over each other, since there's obviously one less person to add to the conversation but it seems like they have more of a respect for what each other says and whose turn it is to talk.
Adrienne please don't bore us all season with your Israel stories.... don't jinx it gurl keep quiet and get married. Remember it was LENNNY LENNY LENNY LENNY LENNY THEN LEN LE TILL IT WENT DOWN TO L
LOL
lmao
someone else husband. her words before, my GOOD GOOD GIRLFRIEND! and now you engaged to that same girlfriend husband! take several seats!
+Renee Kinney exactly Jumping Jack Jeannie had better be careful cause this heifer here doesn't play. Her desperation to be a Mrs is REAL.
this comment is sooooo funny!
Jeannie is 37? No way!!! She looks 16 at times. Looking good lady!
Lmao I love how focused he is. I have let my bf take my weave out before. He even helped me take out my braids. Hell, he at some point needs to see me at my worse.
I see Jeannie still keeping it 💯 that's my girl.
when I told my man how much I spend at the hairdresser he went on youtube and learned so now he perms and treats my hair for me lol I tease him and call him a cheap bastard but secretly I love it! he does a really good job too
Wasn't that Tamar's joke... Not letting your man see you without your wig?
4:04 - 4:08 tamera has the cutest personality lol
the currys are so cute!!!
This is such a perfect topic for Tamar to have me dying laughing on... "LIES. He ain't gonna touch my weave. Like WATCHU MEAN?!?!"
I'll be scared though! I'll be like please don't cut my hair! PLEASE!!!
My husband is white and I've let him take out my weaves and he's even tried braiding my hair! It really depends on how comfortable you are w you SO
Gosh why is everyone so obsessed with Curry and his girl? So over them at this point. Everyone praises everything they do together
Chile! I'm saying though!
I agree, I am getting tired of The Curry's. The NBA treats Stephen Curry's family as if they are the first family of the NBA. I would much rather see Lebron James family more or other basketball players families more than The Curry's.
I love them they're so cute! I just think they're lovable individuals who make an awesome couple. That's not a super complex response to why people are obsessed with them but just my 2 cents. lol
I prefer to hear about them than Jay-Z and Beyonce. Now that is a couple that is over rated.
people don't realize their marriage isn't perfect, no one knows what happens behind closed doors..that's why I don't see why people say celebrity relationships are "goals"
My husband doesn’t even know how to help me tighten my bra straps, he’s not going near my head!
I actually let my boyfriend cut out my tracks (been together 5 years) and he makes sure to be extra careful because he be scared of cutting my hair. lol. so he takes a long ass time. and he helps me flat iron it when my arms get tired. lmao
that's what you call a husband!
Tia Perry Yea. Whenever he propose. Lol.
Lol
Lol my boyfriend takes out my weave all the time, he even undos my braids and washed it sometimes lol.
Wait a minute....did Jeannie just say she's 37??? There's no way.
I wish more people in the comments would talk about what Jeannie said at the end because I can so relate to that. That was some truth right there, I hope it touched somebody.
Tamar would have been funny as hell in this girl talk
This is weird without Tay I'm waiting for her to pop out 😂😭
She would have killed this. They just ran all over poor Loni.
yass
It's nice! You get to hear everyone's opinion. The ladies are so beautiful this season.
RønnïeTv omg. Get over it.
It's a TV show, it's a damn business, it's life.
Ppl come n ppl go
She's not frickin dead
Alright it's time to have Jennifer Lopez as a guest on the show
Tamera's HAIR IS EVERYTHING TO ME
So when is Tamar's talk show coming out?
Next September
September 2017
Did Adrianne Start The Clap To Her Own Comment? LOL
Loni has some growing up and more self-loving to do..she got on My damn nerves with how she obviously doesn't embrace her natural self.
Adam's reaction to the weave was priceless!
So sad about Loni's self hate. So sad
Everybody's got their own journey I guess.
Yup! my husband takes out mine and way better than me cause he doesn't cut the tracks...or my hair which I'm always left with uneven hair when I do it. It's feels good knowing that you can be that free with your significant other (True love right there)
Really miss tamar on the show , would of loved to her input on this 😣, loni trynna fill her space in the joke department and its not working 😒
My husband-to-be is my best friend, we've been together 8yrs. Back in the day (before I went natural) he helped me put a relaxer in my hair.