Could You Forgive a Cheater?

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  • Опубликовано: 4 авг 2021
  • Is cheating a forgivable offense? We discuss the fallout from #KevinHart’s cheating allegations. Plus, is “American Idol” eyeing #KimKardashian as a potential judge?
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Комментарии • 303

  • @BabeyCapricorn
    @BabeyCapricorn 2 года назад +583

    "As long as he comes home to me" Lord may I never be that woman.

    • @LunaNovaTarot
      @LunaNovaTarot 2 года назад +5

      What if your man made the same amount of money as him? And you’re pregnant with his kid? Maybe they have an agreement that he provides her and their soon-to-be child with all the materialistic things they could want , nice house/car/nanny/clothes etc and in return he can see people on the side ? Or maybe it’s just during pregnancy? She seems awfully chill with it to me for it to be a betrayal or a shock to her. I think personally she cares more about the lifestyle she can have with him over actual love at this point. Hell she might even have someone on the side too? We never know what’s going on behind closed doors … especially mansion doors!

    • @diannaa.62
      @diannaa.62 2 года назад +6

      @@LunaNovaTarot I do kinda see if u had no way to sustain yourself and ur kid, meaning no college degree, job experience or talent, then yea by all means, even more so if your kid has a disability. That’s the only good reason I can think of to forgive a cheater.

    • @LunaNovaTarot
      @LunaNovaTarot 2 года назад +1

      @@diannaa.62 absolutely ! But also in this case it hasn’t actually been verified he definitely cheated (as far as I’m aware) If he had admitted it to her and confessed ESPECIALLY publicly I would be saying run for the hills and don’t look back! But as of that moment she said she thought it was just rumours and gossip

    • @zayxzayzay8305
      @zayxzayzay8305 2 года назад +6

      @@LunaNovaTarot If a person is with a somebody just so they can take care of you financially then they're just a gold digger. Also why be married if your not going to respect it? This is why it's important for everybody to always have their own money so they don't have to put up with disrespect for the sake being provided for. Women have to realize they that can make it on their own and not need anybody to do it for them. They have the power and the ability to take care them selves they just have to want to do it.

    • @bellankhor4187
      @bellankhor4187 2 года назад +2

      Okayyyy

  • @poz_veto555
    @poz_veto555 2 года назад +99

    The way Tamera laughed when Loni said “Friend of Kim” 😂

  • @FlwrPetalsOnVenus
    @FlwrPetalsOnVenus 2 года назад +397

    9:50 “ok friend of Kim” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Adrienne was NOT feelin that 😭😭😭

    • @jazziesworld103
      @jazziesworld103 2 года назад +11

      @Travis Lane but Adrienne does it for they status not weather it right or wrong

    • @TheTruthAintInYa
      @TheTruthAintInYa 2 года назад +4

      Had me rollin

  • @didntask4793
    @didntask4793 2 года назад +805

    Cheating isn’t “ups and downs in a relationship” that’s the END of a relationship. If we agreed to only be with each other and you pulled this, that just shows your intentions.

    • @Anthony-fu6cl
      @Anthony-fu6cl 2 года назад +40

      EXACTLY! If you cheat, the only "up" you might see is that prenup.

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 2 года назад +8

      FACTS

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 2 года назад +19

      @User572 right?! Or health issues. You are so right!

    • @yourfavoriteoompaloompa139
      @yourfavoriteoompaloompa139 2 года назад +7

      Exactly who tf thinks that

    • @X_scarlet_x1
      @X_scarlet_x1 2 года назад +9

      @@Anthony-fu6cl “The only “up” you might see is that prenup” that line is so iconic 😂

  • @secretwhispersasmr8259
    @secretwhispersasmr8259 2 года назад +525

    This isn't going through hard times together, this is just him putting her through hard times 🤣

    • @LadyC285
      @LadyC285 2 года назад +12

      For real

    • @TheTruthAintInYa
      @TheTruthAintInYa 2 года назад +8

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nouunii
      @nouunii 2 года назад +8

      👏🏽🤣

    • @user07-awubt01
      @user07-awubt01 2 года назад +6

      Say that again!!!!

    • @MadaraUchihaaXx
      @MadaraUchihaaXx 2 года назад

      Well, if i was her, forgive him, shut up, and deal with the fame and money he earned ya

  • @d.g6059
    @d.g6059 2 года назад +321

    No cheating is not a up and down in a relationship it's a deal breaker.

  • @missydomtom
    @missydomtom 2 года назад +524

    loni was on fire , to Adrienne: " here we go, friend of kim" !!!! I was not ready!! she made my day!!!! she is telling what every one is thinking!!!

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 2 года назад +29

      Why does she go so hard them?😂 Where were they and their HUGE social media following when everyone was calling her a homewrecker back in 2016?😂😂

    • @cookiecookielookies
      @cookiecookielookies 2 года назад +20

      @@omphilemoerane2569 ikr. It’s bc of Kim’s social status that Adrienne wants to be good friends with her. Maybe she gets benefits from that 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @sos5371
      @sos5371 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @leonibrown87
      @leonibrown87 2 года назад +2

      I’m rolling 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @deamula4570
      @deamula4570 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @wenzizikalala7650
    @wenzizikalala7650 2 года назад +522

    Yo Loni's so mean in this episode but she ain't wrong 😂😂😂🤣had me laughing the whole time

  • @zandiswatembe13
    @zandiswatembe13 2 года назад +75

    Honestly Loni was on a roll this episode😭😂I can’t with her

  • @rahulhp9890
    @rahulhp9890 2 года назад +150

    Loni had me dying of laughter 😂😂

  • @yana212
    @yana212 Год назад +27

    I know a girl who was cheated on when she was pregnant. She miscarried her child and when they ran test to figure out what was wrong it was determined that she had gonorrhea and it ended the pregnancy. That's how she found out her man was cheating smh

    • @sarahb426
      @sarahb426 Год назад +11

      That is the saddest thing i might have ever heard. This comment alone may cause depression

  • @ceeare12345
    @ceeare12345 2 года назад +199

    I’ve never been married (though I’ve had 3 boyfriends who wanted to marry me.) Because I take marriage very seriously. I’m a Christian and if a spouse cheats, you have every right biblically to divorce them! Cheating is an absolute dealbreaker for me. No excuses. I’d rather be alone.

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 2 года назад +21

      Absolutely!!! I’d 100% rather be alone than put up with that.

    • @santamariadey9817
      @santamariadey9817 2 года назад +13

      True, he might end up infecting you with STDs

    • @dscjmc6513
      @dscjmc6513 2 года назад +7

      I’m so glad you you think like that I’m w someone who cheated on me and I’m disgusted by myself working on myself currently

    • @ceeare12345
      @ceeare12345 2 года назад +10

      @@dscjmc6513 You deserve a faithful partner.

    • @dscjmc6513
      @dscjmc6513 2 года назад +4

      @@ceeare12345 thank you 🥰

  • @victoriahuynh
    @victoriahuynh 2 года назад +68

    the producers of the show are realizing that the original ladies are the reason the show works

  • @oofx2698
    @oofx2698 2 года назад +65

    Once a cheater, always a cheater… I’m not shocked by this behavior by Kevin. Honestly, it’s just disgusting at this point how many times he’s done this and how many allegations there have been. Over👏🏻 him👏🏻

  • @TheFuronda
    @TheFuronda 2 года назад +24

    Loni had me wheezing this episode 😭😭😭

  • @Thewifelife40
    @Thewifelife40 2 года назад +50

    Loni's Kim K impersonation was fabulous 😂😂😂😂 I loved it cause its very accurate!!!

  • @dscjmc6513
    @dscjmc6513 2 года назад +33

    She’s foolish for staying w a cheater but remember sometimes there’s a lot more going on i.e: selfsteem issues, financial issues, personal fears

  • @vannah0411
    @vannah0411 2 года назад +12

    The crowd was so brutal this episode😂

  • @tiamarie6997
    @tiamarie6997 2 года назад +5

    Right Loni “friend of Kim”🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jin8640
    @jin8640 2 года назад +51

    the way people stay with someone that cheats on them is beyond me. i don’t get it.

    • @tanvia.d5331
      @tanvia.d5331 2 года назад +10

      Me neither! . I have known a friend whose boyfriend at the time cheated on her multiple times. She still went ahead and married him. Now she has 2 yr old kid with him. I have no idea how she did that!!

    • @nomthimalunga7880
      @nomthimalunga7880 2 года назад +6

      @@tanvia.d5331 its CRAZY 😂😂😂

    • @auramonroe6966
      @auramonroe6966 2 года назад

      They DICKmatized 😂😂

  • @dscjmc6513
    @dscjmc6513 2 года назад +51

    Cheating is not a mistake is a choice. Cheating is a reflection of someone’s character

  • @sailor6322
    @sailor6322 2 года назад +27

    LOOL loni really was on one this episode 🤣🤣 i wish she was like this all the time

  • @adamsey_mame9043
    @adamsey_mame9043 2 года назад +97

    I'm glad they waited a year to post this episode 🤭😆😃😅😂🤣😭LONIIIIII !!!!! Had me laughing the whole 14:45 straight ‼️‼️

    • @jens8223
      @jens8223 2 года назад +2

      It's a repost

    • @eireneomoniyi1184
      @eireneomoniyi1184 2 года назад +8

      That's what I was saying. As soon as she mentioned Freddie I was like but he did cheat on u

  • @jadaimani4510
    @jadaimani4510 2 года назад +26

    LMAOOOOOO LONI !!! "Friend of Kim!" LMAOOOOO nah no way

  • @simphiwehlatshwayo5007
    @simphiwehlatshwayo5007 2 года назад +18

    I could never forgive cheating, I don't care why or how he did it
    I have forgiven cheating before and I become toxic towards myself, all I could think of was him cheating, I became so insecure and had a low self-esteem
    you cheat am out, good-bye

  • @nishnish12
    @nishnish12 2 года назад +34

    Loni is a straight talker and that's why I love her so.

  • @zayxzayzay8305
    @zayxzayzay8305 2 года назад +12

    Tamera and loni were the only ones keeping it real.

  • @mireillem3150
    @mireillem3150 2 года назад +36

    Loni is a mes and I'm here for it!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @micahm2177
    @micahm2177 2 года назад +33

    These hardships are only allowed when it's men that cheat, it's never worth it, leave. Really surprised four women did not pick up on this when Adrienne read that comment out.

  • @Izzylopezz
    @Izzylopezz 2 года назад +142

    HELL NO cheating isn’t a mistake the only mistake you’ll make is losing your wife in the process! Bye dusty

  • @berylhall2204
    @berylhall2204 2 года назад +44

    Loni's glam squad really turned up👍👍, she always got her funny on too 😁😁

  • @emekaemmanuel5258
    @emekaemmanuel5258 2 года назад +7

    Loni is my spirit animal 🤣🤣

  • @snoopz2
    @snoopz2 2 года назад +29

    Business woman or not, she has no business judging people with actual talent, Kim is nice and all, but hell nah, why not get people who actually sing for a living, do the judging.

    • @itumelengthokwane5096
      @itumelengthokwane5096 2 года назад

      I think she'd make a good judge tbh

    • @dalatuy104
      @dalatuy104 2 года назад

      If u have a good ear for music without having been a singer or in the music industry I still think u could do it. Sure there might not be much constructive criticism when it comes to vocal techniques and how to adjust ur vocal muscles according to each songs but ppl who love music could still hear what's good and what isn't I would think u know.

  • @lisamoonstrike5613
    @lisamoonstrike5613 2 года назад +16

    SMH... LONI, LONI, LONI🤦🏾‍♀️...🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Selbeauty04
    @Selbeauty04 2 года назад +10

    I could never take back a cheater. I don’t care about the “never say never.” I Simply will not. To me if I carried our children for 9 months, changes to my body, depression, postpartum. On top of that falling back with my career being a mother. All of that just to get cheated on is a no for me. I wouldn’t be able to sleep & everytime I look at him I couldn’t forget it. I can’t imagine having to live the rest of my life visioning him with another women. Truth is if the women cheated most men would say hell nah & walk away. I think ppl look at women like we naturally forgive, hell nah 🤣.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 года назад +32

    The whole point of American Idol is to have people apart of the judging who have experience in music and are apart of the music industry ! Kim at that time had a HUSBAND who is in music... They could’ve had Kanye on

    • @deer1843
      @deer1843 2 года назад +7

      They can’t afford Kanye 😭

  • @drtash21
    @drtash21 2 года назад +17

    Yeah women tolerate cheating WAY too much. A guy would NEVER take a woman back knowing there was another guy making his woman wet like the ocean. He wouldn't be able to take it. The relationship would instantly be over. But you women, you'll take him back fifty-leven times because you love him and "it's what men do". My dad has never cheated on my mom in the 40+ years they've been married. Maybe that's why I have a zero tolerance for it. It's too normalised today, esp. by women.

    • @thelovelyone2828
      @thelovelyone2828 2 года назад +1

      I agree. The first time he cheats, it's over, he's out, he can pack his bags. If you take him back, you're giving him the ok that he can do it again and you'll still stay. I've never understood why people take cheaters back

    • @Kspachannel
      @Kspachannel Год назад

      So true and a lot of women just by saying that that’s what men do teach their daughters to stay through things like that

  • @jens8223
    @jens8223 2 года назад +15

    If it would've been the other way around and she was caught with a dude, I promise you he wouldn't be walking beside her

  • @ratitrajectory6664
    @ratitrajectory6664 2 года назад +11

    Some girls stay with a cheater cos they are so "in love" or have children with them or are financially dependent on man. But seriously cheating is a deal-breaker. The person consciously choose to cheat on you knowing that it would disrespect and hurt you.
    Love these girls:)

  • @isabellejoseph3387
    @isabellejoseph3387 2 года назад +6

    I loveeeeee when Loni talks lmfaoooo

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub 2 года назад +24

    Also, this audience is so wild!

  • @brandenj7038
    @brandenj7038 2 года назад +8

    Insecure women financially and emotionally find reasons to stay...be strong women....cheaters stay cheaters...you deserve true love and better

  • @jadesmith7983
    @jadesmith7983 2 года назад +11

    Have I, Yes. Should I, No. I realized that you teach people that it's ok to lie and gaslight you just to sell you a dream that your getting monogamy from them.

  • @angelvillalta9810
    @angelvillalta9810 2 года назад +51

    I miss Tamera so bad and I loni just speaks facts

    • @nkt.11
      @nkt.11 2 года назад +3

      Yes tam speaks the truth, gracefully

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 2 года назад +40

    I think as a man the idea of having to come forward because you HAD to... let alone shows me where your morals are... the best way to not be in a situation like this... is to NOT CHEAT ! Period point blank ! As much as I do like Kevin and his stand up that kind of reckless rhetoric and pattern can truly rub off and set a tone where his kids may either look at him as a role model and either follow after him or resent him for cheating on their mother !!

  • @givememagic4588
    @givememagic4588 2 года назад +23

    Hmm I'll forgive him (eventually maybe) but I'd never taken him back, hes out on his ass with his stuff being lit on fire

  • @slytherinfan1188
    @slytherinfan1188 2 года назад +42

    Tamtam looks lovely in pink 💫💗

  • @ceeare12345
    @ceeare12345 2 года назад +24

    Dang Loni was feeling some type of way this day lol

  • @CottoncanzyAnnchristine
    @CottoncanzyAnnchristine 2 года назад +67

    I love loni, she always keeps it real 🤣❤️

    • @nkt.11
      @nkt.11 2 года назад +8

      Yes, she was holding nothing back

  • @shestayready
    @shestayready 2 года назад +3

    THANK YOU!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @gabrielaquevedo6753
    @gabrielaquevedo6753 2 года назад +23

    I personally couldn't forgive a cheater. You cheat on me, we are done. That is the lowest thing you could do to me. If you're going to do this to me, then what else are you doing to do?

    • @lizmariequinn
      @lizmariequinn 2 года назад +5

      Me either bcuz I know me and ik I culd never trust u the same ever again. I culdnt feel comfortable even cooking for u without thinking abt putting laxatives in it😂

  • @isabellejoseph3387
    @isabellejoseph3387 2 года назад +6

    Damn and Freddie’s goofy ass cheated. He lost a GOOOOD ONE

  • @tykiriaalexis
    @tykiriaalexis 2 года назад +4

    Tam was STUCK @10:00 😂😂😂

  • @ec6621
    @ec6621 2 года назад +4

    Women are more likely to forgive an affair than men. Women are more likely to blame "the other woman" instead of (or in addition to) her cheating husband. Men are more likely to wholely blame his cheating wife than "the other man".

  • @greyx3441
    @greyx3441 2 года назад +3

    Loveee Loni here!!

  • @ritajit4730
    @ritajit4730 2 года назад +2

    Adrienne looks very 70's glam here, i'm all for it!

    • @riverx6802
      @riverx6802 2 года назад

      She needs glitter on her outfit, then it’d be glam! Also, lots of color!!

  • @smartcookie1094
    @smartcookie1094 2 года назад +9

    She better stay with Kevin because that is how she got him in the first place. She cheated with him on his wife, I don't feel sorry for her.

  • @phumelelamantwana6300
    @phumelelamantwana6300 2 года назад +4

    I am living for this Loni

  • @kendaljones930
    @kendaljones930 2 года назад +4

    I love loni's impersonation. lol.

  • @Notplayingnow
    @Notplayingnow 2 года назад +2

    Good on Loni. How you get them, is how you lose them.

  • @kingly1407
    @kingly1407 2 года назад +1

    Homie at 6:02 was looking guilty as hell when Tamera was talking about cheating lmao

  • @daishaorgelato5113
    @daishaorgelato5113 2 года назад +14

    Yeoooooo loni !!!! Yessss this is probably the realest and funniest episode EVER !!!

  • @rasheakorren
    @rasheakorren 2 года назад +28

    I miss the original FIVE girls !!! But since Tamar and Tamera left, it hasn't been the same 😔

    • @LalaLala-jz4td
      @LalaLala-jz4td 2 года назад +3

      So true they had the best chemistry and i loveeed their personalities

    • @itzy0763
      @itzy0763 2 года назад +6

      I stopped watching. Now I just watch old videos

    • @bupedoes2447
      @bupedoes2447 2 года назад +1

      Try watching the new 4 its actually a nice dynamic. I was the same as I liked all 5 but the 4 gives a different vibe

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub 2 года назад +9

    Can the audience shut up? I’m trying to hear the ladies saying their opinion and the audience thinks that they’re at church

  • @smaao
    @smaao 2 года назад +12

    Thank God for Loni. Tell it how it is🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Joellsr
    @Joellsr 2 года назад +1

    I miss The Real like this

  • @asefawsoliana5009
    @asefawsoliana5009 2 года назад +5

    I love loniiiiiiii I love her honesty.

  • @andreamoss2322
    @andreamoss2322 2 года назад +10

    I LOVE LONI! She is so Detroit in this clip!

  • @jg7538
    @jg7538 2 года назад +2

    I agree with Tamera fully! They onus is always on the woman to keep her vows when men don't

  • @beth1188
    @beth1188 2 года назад +2

    I did and he cheated again smdh. Cheaters don't change they get better at hiding it

  • @mknight993
    @mknight993 2 года назад +1

    I can’t watch the new real I come back to watch the old clips

  • @isabellejoseph3387
    @isabellejoseph3387 2 года назад

    Lmfaoooo Loni mocking Kim

  • @raeniecethemakeupartist491
    @raeniecethemakeupartist491 2 года назад +2

    Loni is cutting up in this video 🤣😭

  • @anjanettebyrd3764
    @anjanettebyrd3764 2 года назад

    What year is this video from?

  • @cassiecakegames1057
    @cassiecakegames1057 2 года назад +13

    I don’t think I’ve ever been this early

  • @zintlecele316
    @zintlecele316 2 года назад +5

    Loni looks good👌🏿

  • @LuzdoSol00
    @LuzdoSol00 2 года назад +1

    No. Its so wild, who is cheating in the middle of a pandemic!!!

  • @starblane1023
    @starblane1023 2 года назад +1

    Loni Love said Where else she's going to go 😆😭🤣 and Adrianna said living her life that means she ain't got nowhere to go because he is her life

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 2 года назад

    A didnt have no words when loni said her friend

  • @charmingheartphotography6758
    @charmingheartphotography6758 2 года назад

    People cant comprehend open relationships

  • @siyolisemakaka6013
    @siyolisemakaka6013 Год назад

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Loni's impersonation of Kim killed me

  • @bani7412
    @bani7412 2 года назад +3

    Jeanie that sweater is a no go, under any circumstances!!🙄💛🖤

  • @brianataylor5204
    @brianataylor5204 2 года назад +1

    Never settle ❤

  • @briijohnson9587
    @briijohnson9587 2 года назад +2

    DID YALL FORGET SHES A LAWYER OR STUDYING TO BE ONE

  • @kashlynsmith5684
    @kashlynsmith5684 2 года назад +25

    whoever is reading this , GET RIGHT WITH GOD! GOD IS SO AMAZING! HAVE FAITH! TRUST GOD! GOD BLESS!

  • @greyciepesh9784
    @greyciepesh9784 2 года назад +1

    Jeanie's point plus Tamera ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

  • @annie9573
    @annie9573 2 года назад +1

    This is the ONE time I’m not a fan of Loni’s comment...

  • @Mamamia90210
    @Mamamia90210 2 года назад +2

    Well when the man has money these women will always turn a blind eye. Beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Hillary Clinton, the list goes on and on.

  • @me23435
    @me23435 2 года назад +5

    Ade pisses me right off I love loni keeping it real

  • @mikaylakimberly
    @mikaylakimberly 2 года назад +7

    Loni just real 🤣💯

  • @schuh384
    @schuh384 Год назад

    I hate how it looks like Lonnie wants to talk but everyone else keeps talking smh

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 Год назад

    It would never be the same

  • @silviaj4965
    @silviaj4965 2 года назад

    “Here we go friends of Kim” Chile

  • @izzyem
    @izzyem Год назад +2

    i can 100% forgive cheating, cuz i have had to so… but i will never date that person again

  • @ntombyomzulu1527
    @ntombyomzulu1527 2 года назад

    Long has no filter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @xxgizelrixx5480
    @xxgizelrixx5480 2 года назад

    loni cutting jeannie off yelling “tam” like bro let jeannie finish talking i just hate how they treat my girl sometimes

  • @quilswaistbeadsfollowontik9644
    @quilswaistbeadsfollowontik9644 2 года назад +1

    No I couldn’t

  • @aleeshaali3650
    @aleeshaali3650 2 года назад +2

    Jeannie really be out here wafflin like mad but still has nothing to say😒😒 if you know what I mean...#tiresome

  • @aartisaggar2791
    @aartisaggar2791 2 года назад +6

    Loni is so mean to Jeannie as she’s trying to explain her point, stop bullying her Loni!! You are not always right!

  • @victoriajohn6486
    @victoriajohn6486 Год назад +2

    Loni is absolutly right about Kim. Kim can't judge a talent competition because she doesn't have talent. She can't sing, dance, do magic, or any of the talent people are gonna audition with. Kim would only be there for ratings and that's it.