As a fairly tall white German guy, I was never really worried about personal safety here in Germany. But this also means that I never had to make any of these calculations for personal safety that women routinely have to do. So I am not offended if women pick "bear", and men who personalize this as meaning to imply that they _are_ a threat should contemplate whether they are part of the problem. You aren't _entitled_ to other people feeling safe around you by default.
Sad really sad to hear how women view men. So I guess if you’re lost in the woods and a bear is there with your Dad, brother, uncle or male cousins, women will choose the bear? Smh
it's hard not to chose the bear when so many men known for sa and other unspeakable torture happen to be fathers, brothers, uncles and cousins. one would rather die than go through such hurt at the hands of men, I think. But you are right; it is quite sad.
@@kakesisthename8685 so many men? People love to use minority as examples for the majority. The majority of men you interact with daily or don't interact with daily as you go about your life has never SA anybody. I wonder how man great things a wild bear is known for... go ahead a choose the bear, I'm sure a rescue team of brave MEN will be sent to find you
@@1NASDAQ of course it's minority of men that SA people. after all, only about 20% of women get SA'd in their lives, which is minority, yes. A minority of 3.95 billion women worldwide. Do you know how many of those cases are committed by men we interact with on a daily basis? 51% by our own partners and 40% by people we know. Yes. SOOO many MEN...can you imagine how scary it is not knowing which one's next...? but seeing how brave men have been thus far, i'm sure you can pardon us if we'd rather be mauled by a wild bear who isn't known for any great things. ig we aren't that brave, but at we least we know the bear isn't responsible for 790 million SA victims, if any at all.
It’s unfortunate that so many women have been victims of SA but, the bear will be responsible for more than 790 million victims once women chooses it@@kakesisthename8685 .. it’s like if somebody asked men “ if you fell off a boat at sea would rather be rescued by a woman or a shark” and all the men chose the shark.
The question was not phrased as choosing a bear or your dad, husband, brother, or another man you ACTUALLY KNOW. If it was a bear vs my fiance, I'm going to pick my fiance, cause I know he's a good person who I trust and feel safe with. The question meant a bear vs a random man that the woman does NOT know. Not all men will SA a woman...but its common and prevalent enough that the majority response being the bear makes sense. If you respect women and wouldn't hurt us then you have zero reason to feel offended by their answers. Girls/women are taught to be wary of their surroundings and to not go out late at night alone for good reason, and that reason is obviously not bears, its to be wary of the men who have ill intentions.
@@oriondouglas1475 no one said they’d need to be hateful in the comments, also the context was about men agreeing whilst women are disgruntled. Hope it makes sense and thanks for tuning in
@@TheSheSessions It was the phrase about men “attacking you in the comment section” that made me choose the word hateful. I understand the context it was said in, but within the broader context of feminism if it’s preferable that men don’t agree you because it appears they’re trying to make up for the impact of patriarchy, what should that interaction look like than?
Also, thanks for the engagement! I enjoyed the conversation and understand that you can only speak from your experiences although I’m sure a lot of women resonate with what you’re saying
As a fairly tall white German guy, I was never really worried about personal safety here in Germany.
But this also means that I never had to make any of these calculations for personal safety that women routinely have to do. So I am not offended if women pick "bear", and men who personalize this as meaning to imply that they _are_ a threat should contemplate whether they are part of the problem. You aren't _entitled_ to other people feeling safe around you by default.
This setting is really pretty
Sad really sad to hear how women view men. So I guess if you’re lost in the woods and a bear is there with your Dad, brother, uncle or male cousins, women will choose the bear? Smh
it's hard not to chose the bear when so many men known for sa and other unspeakable torture happen to be fathers, brothers, uncles and cousins. one would rather die than go through such hurt at the hands of men, I think. But you are right; it is quite sad.
@@kakesisthename8685 so many men? People love to use minority as examples for the majority. The majority of men you interact with daily or don't interact with daily as you go about your life has never SA anybody.
I wonder how man great things a wild bear is known for... go ahead a choose the bear, I'm sure a rescue team of brave MEN will be sent to find you
@@1NASDAQ of course it's minority of men that SA people. after all, only about 20% of women get SA'd in their lives, which is minority, yes. A minority of 3.95 billion women worldwide. Do you know how many of those cases are committed by men we interact with on a daily basis? 51% by our own partners and 40% by people we know. Yes. SOOO many MEN...can you imagine how scary it is not knowing which one's next...?
but seeing how brave men have been thus far, i'm sure you can pardon us if we'd rather be mauled by a wild bear who isn't known for any great things. ig we aren't that brave, but at we least we know the bear isn't responsible for 790 million SA victims, if any at all.
It’s unfortunate that so many women have been victims of SA but, the bear will be responsible for more than 790 million victims once women chooses it@@kakesisthename8685 .. it’s like if somebody asked men “ if you fell off a boat at sea would rather be rescued by a woman or a shark” and all the men chose the shark.
The question was not phrased as choosing a bear or your dad, husband, brother, or another man you ACTUALLY KNOW. If it was a bear vs my fiance, I'm going to pick my fiance, cause I know he's a good person who I trust and feel safe with. The question meant a bear vs a random man that the woman does NOT know. Not all men will SA a woman...but its common and prevalent enough that the majority response being the bear makes sense. If you respect women and wouldn't hurt us then you have zero reason to feel offended by their answers. Girls/women are taught to be wary of their surroundings and to not go out late at night alone for good reason, and that reason is obviously not bears, its to be wary of the men who have ill intentions.
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I think switching to this type of thumbnail is helpful for bringing in viewership!
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14:57 How can you say that you prefer men to be hateful in your comments, yet also have an issue with them creating their own “Man vs Bear” scenario?
@@oriondouglas1475 no one said they’d need to be hateful in the comments, also the context was about men agreeing whilst women are disgruntled. Hope it makes sense and thanks for tuning in
@@TheSheSessions It was the phrase about men “attacking you in the comment section” that made me choose the word hateful. I understand the context it was said in, but within the broader context of feminism if it’s preferable that men don’t agree you because it appears they’re trying to make up for the impact of patriarchy, what should that interaction look like than?
Also, thanks for the engagement! I enjoyed the conversation and understand that you can only speak from your experiences although I’m sure a lot of women resonate with what you’re saying