My mother always ordered pizza with anchovies, and it was supposed to be a ‘treat’ so saying I don’t like it meant I was being ungrateful. Anchovies are little salted fish canned in olive oil, with bones included, on pizza. Imagine that being the treat for a birthday meal, and being told it’s good as a child? Guess what I still don’t eat? Forcing people to eat things they have tried and don’t like is so strange to me.
Anchovies are the least popular pizza topping so I get it. My dad used to force feed us gross breakfast cereals and I hated drinking the soggy milk after. I would sit at the table all morning. Traumatized... I never forced my kid to eat what he didn't like. It's such a waste of food and time.
She has such a calming, therapeutic voice. Listing to this has opened my eyes to parenting. Let's not forget we were once children. Let them babies be babies and do baby things.
Who is she? Every now and again I'll check on The breakfast club when I see someone I don't know or haven't heard of before that's probably not in the music industry just to see what's popping what do you know about her
@@melanatedrichconvo7927 A therapist but she is most famous for her instagram posts. No way can break down mental health and trauma the way she does so that is why she is popular on Instagram. I suggest following her!
Awesome, well needed conversation. It hit home when they were talking about how to interact with our kids. I’ve had to check myself a few times because the same insecurities I had as a kid, I can’t expect my children to somehow have my 40+ year old mind at the age of 12.
Same here, granted my kids are still very young 5 and 2 but I just focus on adding good moments instead of beating myself up for lashing out on them ir getting frustrated.
Yeah but at the same time it’s so obvious he didn’t read the book. So he kept asking questions that were off topic. Good questions, but not about what she’s an expert in…
So glad I found this Charlamagne, I appreciate a lot of the things that you have shared each time I've heard you being interviewed. I have just now found that you have this Podcast. Can't wait to explore more of your episodes. Nedra Tawwab also seems excellent! Wisdom and stories like these are like informational gold. I'm really grateful for these kinds of offerings.
I am a big advocate and supprter for people living their lives the way that they choose to want to. What I do not support is them bringing their confusion, chaos and straight up b.s. into my life in the process. Certain sh*+ you just can't do if you want to be a part of my life and that's all there is to it. If you condone sucka sh*+, you're a sucka, too.
I like her, I needed this. And becoming more aware, black parents who are present pls make it a point to be present emotionally as well as physically because what's the point if we grow as adults not knowing how to verbalize what we're feeling.
This Book [Set Boundaries, Find Peace] is so practical, I most def keep in my Arsenal 💁🏾♀️🤗💖 (I recommend the Workbook too)‼️ Emotional maturity & wellness is key❣️
Many don't understand that you can state what you need at an "intake appointment". It's important to have a therapist that most definitely understands your culture, upbringing etc and not be afraid to call you on your ish. You have to be able to open up and feel comfortable.
Very true. Also, clients sometimes want to just " get it off their chest" so they'll show up for the intake and not return for a follow-up appointment.
The breakdown and types of boundaries is vital. I also admire she linked other topics such as parenting, communication & significance of self expression at a young age.
🧐Taking a closer look at myself so glad my therapist recommended Nedra Tawwab's book to me. I was scanning through trying to figure out who she is and ended up watching this Breakfast Club episode! Happy to know that it is becoming the "norm" in our culture to talk about our Mental Health. Very healthy and engaging even without the veggies! Let's Keep Talking...☺ until then I'm heading to Amazon to order the book!
So happy to see my Favorite therapist from IG on here!!! She provides so many helpful posts that just help me every day and not to mention her Book!! Thank you Nedra💗🎆
Im happy I clicked to view this episode, as a Mom of 2 boys 4 & 11yrs old. Both kids are so different and I have taught both of them about boundaries. My 11yr old is pulling away to the pre-teen stage this really helps.
They feel free enough to say I dont want to, because one they dont have the proper respect on expressing themselves. And two they tested the parental fences enough to find a weakness that they realized they can push back against the parents " "boundary" wall and they fold. So that means the parents have to have a conversation on respectful boundaries. Because at the end of the day you still are responsible parents and have to set boundaries. Otherwise the children feel they can choose to listen or obey their parents🤷🏾♀️ The cycle that we was raised with hearing because I said so. May not be the route you go as a parent. Just having regular conversations and listening in a way your child needs to be heard.
I agree, I also noticed that if the kid is giving a choice: hey do you want to wear this PJ after shower or that? . that way the kid has a say but they will still get up to take the shower. at least that worked with my 5 year old
This was so good. I can take things that I can apply to my relationship, my parenting and for my childhood trauma. Bring her on more. And I will definitely be reading the book and look for more interviews.
Great stuff! I’ll be purchasing this book as a valentine’s day gift for a few ppl. Also - I loved how CTG held up the book at the end and also replaced the two that are usually on the wall behind him. #support 👑
Bought her book a few weeks ago when Charlamagne recommended it…. life changing. So glad to see this today - Go buy that book.
I wish they will put the link to the book in the bio so we ain't got to go all around the internet searching for it
@@melanatedrichconvo7927 right smh
Healing and boundary setting is the most revolutionary thing Black people can do in these times. Thank you for sharing.
So happy to see Nedra on this platform. She deserves to spread her genius and reach as many people as she can.
Same! I been on her for a min now. Glad I found her.
Her IG…..has been BLESSING MY LIFE‼️ So glad to see her being acknowledged‼️
Such a classy lady. No cussing 🤬 just intelligence & comfort
Love how smooth and calm she speaks and makes me feel.
I love listening to her. I would love to talk to her as a therapist. She seems so peaceful and soothing 😍
she looks like badu to me.
@@jayclearmen411 It’s her hair for me 😍
Right!?
Me too, I would like her as a therapist. If I had the 💰, I would do it if she had availabilty. Maybe virtual appointments.
My mother always ordered pizza with anchovies, and it was supposed to be a ‘treat’ so saying I don’t like it meant I was being ungrateful.
Anchovies are little salted fish canned in olive oil, with bones included, on pizza. Imagine that being the treat for a birthday meal, and being told it’s good as a child? Guess what I still don’t eat? Forcing people to eat things they have tried and don’t like is so strange to me.
Anchovies are the least popular pizza topping so I get it. My dad used to force feed us gross breakfast cereals and I hated drinking the soggy milk after. I would sit at the table all morning. Traumatized...
I never forced my kid to eat what he didn't like. It's such a waste of food and time.
Love her natural hair. A very intelligent woman.
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She has such a calming, therapeutic voice. Listing to this has opened my eyes to parenting. Let's not forget we were once children. Let them babies be babies and do baby things.
I rarely watch Breakfast Club interviews but the minute I saw Nedra I clicked the video. So happy y'all have her on the show.
Who is she? Every now and again I'll check on The breakfast club when I see someone I don't know or haven't heard of before that's probably not in the music industry just to see what's popping what do you know about her
Same for me! I love this conversation with Nedra
@@melanatedrichconvo7927 A therapist but she is most famous for her instagram posts. No way can break down mental health and trauma the way she does so that is why she is popular on Instagram. I suggest following her!
@Melanated rich Convo She has also been on Red Table Talk. It was a great episode. I suggest you check it out.
I love how smooth and calm she speaks!
🎙❕🙉 this just happened 🙊🖨❕🎙
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"have a level of compassion in your parenting" Love this ❤️
I love Nedra! I bought her book last yr & I follow her on IG where she is ALWAYS dropping 💎
Nedra you are the best & your book is awesome!
She is so real. I really enjoyed her interview. Please conduct more of these interviews. I will definitely purchase her book! 💕
Awesome, well needed conversation. It hit home when they were talking about how to interact with our kids. I’ve had to check myself a few times because the same insecurities I had as a kid, I can’t expect my children to somehow have my 40+ year old mind at the age of 12.
Same here, granted my kids are still very young 5 and 2 but I just focus on adding good moments instead of beating myself up for lashing out on them ir getting frustrated.
Wow, going thru the same thing with my 13 year old. It’s tough man
I could listen to her all day.
Wow envy you have truly improved on your questions this past year. Kudos to you…. You’ve come a long way
No Forreal 😭 cause his questions before were a miss
Yeah but at the same time it’s so obvious he didn’t read the book. So he kept asking questions that were off topic. Good questions, but not about what she’s an expert in…
So glad I found this Charlamagne, I appreciate a lot of the things that you have shared each time I've heard you being interviewed.
I have just now found that you have this Podcast. Can't wait to explore more of your episodes.
Nedra Tawwab also seems excellent! Wisdom and stories like these are like informational gold. I'm really grateful for these kinds of offerings.
Nedra! So happy to see her here. Her book and advice has been life changing for me!
she is brilliant and so logical and i love her demeanor its so calming.
I love this womans down to earth and realistic approach! May she continue to flourish and excel!
This is the first interview where a person is promoting book I actually feels like I NEED TO BUY 😩😩😩😩💯 she dropping gems 💎
MORE INTERVIEWS LIKE THIS, PLEASE! 👏🏾 Really enjoyed listening to Dr. Nedra! 💎
I am a big advocate and supprter for people living their lives the way that they choose to want to. What I do not support is them bringing their confusion, chaos and straight up b.s. into my life in the process. Certain sh*+ you just can't do if you want to be a part of my life and that's all there is to it.
If you condone sucka sh*+, you're a sucka, too.
I completely understand why I have no boundaries as an adult & it all starts with childhood experiences & trauma smh
Loving the educated guests you all are highlighting on the show lately. There should always be a balance 💙
I like her, I needed this. And becoming more aware, black parents who are present pls make it a point to be present emotionally as well as physically because what's the point if we grow as adults not knowing how to verbalize what we're feeling.
She is CRUCIALLY IMPORTANT 👏🏾💐💯
Nedra Tawab such a blessing!! Her Therapeutic advice has brought me long way! ❤️❤️
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Tiggy She gives me a similar likeness to Erykah Badu. 🤷🏽♀️ I Love how she teaches to set Boundaries.
Nedra is an awesome therapist and I am so happy she blessed us with her knowledge. Love her!
This Book [Set Boundaries, Find Peace] is so practical,
I most def keep in my Arsenal 💁🏾♀️🤗💖
(I recommend the Workbook too)‼️
Emotional maturity & wellness is key❣️
Thanks for sharing. I have the book but I didn’t know about the workbook.
No worries, it was released at a later date 💞@@Bsherrell
I just placed my order! I cant wait to read it
I like this lady.
She is an entire vibe
Nedra Tawwab is so calming. I wish she cold be my therapist
The boundaries lesson in the beginning was exactly what I needed!
This was an amazing interview. Getting her book.
Many don't understand that you can state what you need at an "intake appointment". It's important to have a therapist that most definitely understands your culture, upbringing etc and not be afraid to call you on your ish. You have to be able to open up and feel comfortable.
Very true. Also, clients sometimes want to just " get it off their chest" so they'll show up for the intake and not return for a follow-up appointment.
We love Nedra! Thank you for having her! Her work has changed my life! #setboundariesfindpeace
Her hair captured my heart
The breakdown and types of boundaries is vital. I also admire she linked other topics such as parenting, communication & significance of self expression at a young age.
Nedra is my therapist. She doesn’t know that though 😂
Mine too!
Yoooo this lady is a scholar on this everyone needs her book !!
This lady has actually changed my life. She’s so insightful.
more therapist please they are so positive for all of us.
Yes that woman is an angel
Greetings from France madame
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We went to college together! Such a smart lady and sweetheart back then and now
we all needed this one! xx
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She's a beautiful spirit
🧐Taking a closer look at myself so glad my therapist recommended Nedra Tawwab's book to me. I was scanning through trying to figure out who she is and ended up watching this Breakfast Club episode! Happy to know that it is becoming the "norm" in our culture to talk about our Mental Health. Very healthy and engaging even without the veggies! Let's Keep Talking...☺ until then I'm heading to Amazon to order the book!
I❤️her‼️ I wish I had her book years ago. Better late than never, because there’s always room for growth/learning. 🪴
Hey Nedra!!!! So glad you’re speaking in this space where others may have an opportunity to receive your gems 💎.
Awesome interview 🙂
So happy to see my Favorite therapist from IG on here!!! She provides so many helpful posts that just help me every day and not to mention her Book!! Thank you Nedra💗🎆
Thank you for the light you bring to this world Nedra! 🌅
God sent her for me cause I swear she said everything I’ve been feeling 😮💨
Follow her on ig
What a beautiful Queen! 👸🏾✊🏿🥰
“We’ll normalize mess real quick” that part!! Because culturally we don’t talk about mental health let alone setting boundaries
Im happy I clicked to view this episode, as a Mom of 2 boys 4 & 11yrs old. Both kids are so different and I have taught both of them about boundaries. My 11yr old is pulling away to the pre-teen stage this really helps.
So good so needed !!!
I absolutely love this woman. I follow her on IG and she always has a word. 💎
She is dope! Thank you all for this show today!
I moved away instead of setting boundaries with my family I wish I was strong enough to set boundaries
🙏🏾 Never to late to reach out🤷🏽♀️
Thank you for bringing her on the show. I follow her on instagram for years. She is Golden!
Great interview! The evolution of Charlemagne, I'm here for it!
Best 47 mins of my day. Can't wait to read her book.
The collaboration I never thought I needed. Nedra has changed my outlook in so many ways
They feel free enough to say I dont want to, because one they dont have the proper respect on expressing themselves. And two they tested the parental fences enough to find a weakness that they realized they can push back against the parents " "boundary" wall and they fold. So that means the parents have to have a conversation on respectful boundaries. Because at the end of the day you still are responsible parents and have to set boundaries. Otherwise the children feel they can choose to listen or obey their parents🤷🏾♀️ The cycle that we was raised with hearing because I said so. May not be the route you go as a parent. Just having regular conversations and listening in a way your child needs to be heard.
I agree, I also noticed that if the kid is giving a choice: hey do you want to wear this PJ after shower or that? . that way the kid has a say but they will still get up to take the shower. at least that worked with my 5 year old
her hair is 😍😍😍 beautiful black woman
Amazing interview I’m definitely gonna purchase the book
This was so good. I can take things that I can apply to my relationship, my parenting and for my childhood trauma. Bring her on more. And I will definitely be reading the book and look for more interviews.
I love this!!! Please bring on any of the Buddhist contributors writer’s of the book black & Buddhist book! Thank you!
I truly enjoyed this interview!
Her hair is gorgeous !!
Great stuff! I’ll be purchasing this book as a valentine’s day gift for a few ppl. Also - I loved how CTG held up the book at the end and also replaced the two that are usually on the wall behind him. #support 👑
Great questions, Envy!!
Thanks to this interview i just bought this book… 🙏 thank you
I just saw her on Women of Impact. I enjoy listening to her take.
Her hair is beautiful. She is indeed a talented sista.
Amazing book!! Workbook even better!!
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This 👏🏾 interview 👏🏾was 👏🏾so needed 👏🏾 thank you!
This was a great interview…. Keep up the good work Breakfast Club
Beautiful melanated queen. If only more of our sisters proudly rocked their natural hair 😍
Okay ENVY with the questions! Lol
Yoooo I'm so glad she made it to The breakfast club! I hope Dr. THEMA is next
This was a great interview!!! I’m going over this book in book club and it is amazing!!!!
This is by far one of my favorite interviews. Very insightful, definitely going to check out that book.
Talk therapy is a strenuous, yet rewarding, process.
It’s such a great book!
Great conversation. I’m a new fan of Nedra. So proud of Charlemagne’s growth.
Love love love her!!!! Please come back!
I love her guidance on children's boundaries
The wisdom in this room is so helpful 🙌❤
I appreciate me this. Buying her book on Amazon today
I definitely buying this book, i have learned a lot
I loved this interview. I need her on here regularly too
Go girl! Very proud of you!
“2022 WILL BE MY OUT BREAK YEAR IN MY MUSIC CAREER”🙏🏽🚀
My daughter wear her hair like this. Natural
Small core of friends is the best way to be. ❤