The thing is ... (what he did not explain well) that a kiss for us is more of a pure thing, it is not the same as going to bed with someone and it does not mean that it will happen any time soon. A kiss is just a little displaý of affection and reciprocacy. While for other nationalities and cultures if/when they kiss it means a lot more than that, it means they are ready to go to bed. That's why this is such a big step for them to do that so soon.
Even when you say it, "does she shows with her body language that she wishes to take it further." I can see you did not get it. A kiss or an "almost" kiss ( when she "escape"/ditch it flertingly and not abruptly) would mean only that she is still up for being courted. Thats all.
We are much more romantic than usually we are perceived as. It comes from our feelings and being open to it. Usually people judge our culture just by how it looks through the eyes of their own culture that are more similar around the world...with the touching and kissing thing in a date meaning necessarily lust with no strings attatched to it.plus forcing to take them to bed imediatly.
Or maybe someone want a long term thing and not put all cards on the table in one date?! It's not a game always. So ... If you are tired don't date. Or they are shy, thinking is that to much? Or they had bad experiences. Once I tought a divorced man will mary me when I was 20 😂 only because he was very open and not hiding me from his circle of people. Man...I can write all day so many reasons. If you think like that than people should say: "Hi my name is... Nevermind, I want to have 3 kids at least in maximum one year from now and be maried. Yes or no?! No? Next!" 😂😂😂
Wow! Or maybe you dont know its called immaturity. And no offence but your reaction tells me this is your normal. 1 day youll grow up and see there is no point in playing games when you trust yourself and have true confidence.
@@shazz3404 This things were years ago, I'm 35 curently with a healthy relationship, maried for 13 years. I try to understand each part not only him not only people who are insecure to engage in something. Have a nice day! ☺️
If I would tell something to my younger self would be: don't be so open, don't trust anyone so easy. I am not a person who played games and other mans were take that as advantage for own interest.
@@OnelineadaywithLaura You don't need to explain anything, your original comment made it clear you had problems because you trusted someone who didn't deserve it.
Never go on a date, just set to meet up in your place, if she really wants to sleep with you she will show up and it will happen. If she doesn't, or wants to meet up at a restaurant, run, she doesn't want to sleep with you.
@@digitandoshshuaIt is about that. It’s always about that bro. The sad thing is that you were convinced by society that it isn’t always about that. Through millions of years of evolution, do you think we had even a single date? No. She either is sleeping with you, or there is nothing.
@michelstronguin6974 sure coz no one want to know the other person out of bed in your brain 🙄. Yeah that type of think will sure lead to marriage wen u can't even keep a conversation 🙄
@@anacarolinasm2008You can have have a lovely conversation over nice food, but only if it’s in the guy’s place. A date should be a beautiful meeting of what he wants AND what she wants. She wants a relationship, he wants sex. If they are meeting far away from his place in some far restaurant, the only person getting what they want is her. And it’s the man’s fault if she convinced him to meet up far away from his place.
Even if i want to be with that person, if it is a man i probably wouldn't go to his place alone, for women that is really scary most people i know think and undertand that can be a problem. I personally love going to small places that you can drink and eat a little, like a coffe shop or go for some ice cream, i feel very comfortable, safe and relax to talk about anything
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The thing is ... (what he did not explain well) that a kiss for us is more of a pure thing, it is not the same as going to bed with someone and it does not mean that it will happen any time soon. A kiss is just a little displaý of affection and reciprocacy.
While for other nationalities and cultures if/when they kiss it means a lot more than that, it means they are ready to go to bed. That's why this is such a big step for them to do that so soon.
Even when you say it, "does she shows with her body language that she wishes to take it further." I can see you did not get it.
A kiss or an "almost" kiss ( when she "escape"/ditch it flertingly and not abruptly) would mean only that she is still up for being courted. Thats all.
We are much more romantic than usually we are perceived as. It comes from our feelings and being open to it. Usually people judge our culture just by how it looks through the eyes of their own culture that are more similar around the world...with the touching and kissing thing in a date meaning necessarily lust with no strings attatched to it.plus forcing to take them to bed imediatly.
I guess I have to move to Brasil now 🤷
Proves that the stupid behavior isn’t universal
Or maybe someone want a long term thing and not put all cards on the table in one date?! It's not a game always. So ... If you are tired don't date. Or they are shy, thinking is that to much? Or they had bad experiences.
Once I tought a divorced man will mary me when I was 20 😂 only because he was very open and not hiding me from his circle of people. Man...I can write all day so many reasons. If you think like that than people should say: "Hi my name is... Nevermind, I want to have 3 kids at least in maximum one year from now and be maried. Yes or no?! No? Next!" 😂😂😂
Wow! Or maybe you dont know its called immaturity. And no offence but your reaction tells me this is your normal. 1 day youll grow up and see there is no point in playing games when you trust yourself and have true confidence.
@@shazz3404 This things were years ago, I'm 35 curently with a healthy relationship, maried for 13 years. I try to understand each part not only him not only people who are insecure to engage in something. Have a nice day! ☺️
If I would tell something to my younger self would be: don't be so open, don't trust anyone so easy.
I am not a person who played games and other mans were take that as advantage for own interest.
@@OnelineadaywithLaura You don't need to explain anything, your original comment made it clear you had problems because you trusted someone who didn't deserve it.
Dating in Brazil is abysmal, SKIP!!
Never go on a date, just set to meet up in your place, if she really wants to sleep with you she will show up and it will happen. If she doesn't, or wants to meet up at a restaurant, run, she doesn't want to sleep with you.
Its not about that bro.
@@digitandoshshuaIt is about that. It’s always about that bro. The sad thing is that you were convinced by society that it isn’t always about that. Through millions of years of evolution, do you think we had even a single date? No. She either is sleeping with you, or there is nothing.
@michelstronguin6974 sure coz no one want to know the other person out of bed in your brain 🙄. Yeah that type of think will sure lead to marriage wen u can't even keep a conversation 🙄
@@anacarolinasm2008You can have have a lovely conversation over nice food, but only if it’s in the guy’s place. A date should be a beautiful meeting of what he wants AND what she wants. She wants a relationship, he wants sex. If they are meeting far away from his place in some far restaurant, the only person getting what they want is her. And it’s the man’s fault if she convinced him to meet up far away from his place.
Even if i want to be with that person, if it is a man i probably wouldn't go to his place alone, for women that is really scary most people i know think and undertand that can be a problem. I personally love going to small places that you can drink and eat a little, like a coffe shop or go for some ice cream, i feel very comfortable, safe and relax to talk about anything