Young man with Asperger's

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

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  • @raedarden9830
    @raedarden9830 4 года назад +199

    He found purpose, and acceptance, because he was willing to go beyond his comfort zone. A blazing success in spite of public education and due to his own fortitude and a loving mom. Thanks to those who gave him a chance.

  • @dimpleza
    @dimpleza 4 года назад +210

    "It's not about talking to the horse, it's about listening to the horse."
    As it is with humans, always.

    • @nemome5837
      @nemome5837 3 года назад

      Lol, and what did the horse say? NAAAAAAAY 😆

    • @PeanutButterCoffeeBread
      @PeanutButterCoffeeBread 3 года назад +2

      Which is also why aspies only like select individuals.. Even in their own family. They listen and understand how corrupt humans are.

  • @brengz7663
    @brengz7663 7 лет назад +547

    His voice is so soothing and his demeanor is so relaxing. I can see why the horses respond well to him. Oh and let's not forget how gorgeous he is!!

  • @shainaepstein380
    @shainaepstein380 7 лет назад +2035

    Let's be real, this guy is seriously handsome, and so sweet too.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +109

      He sure is! Thanks for the support Shaina, we hope you enjoyed the episode!

    • @logandunn947
      @logandunn947 6 лет назад +112

      Being handsome and aspergers is weird cause girls want to do you but won't because they feel it would be weird.

    • @christineh86
      @christineh86 6 лет назад +156

      i'm a girl with this problem. guys find me attractive looking, but then my aspergers, adhd, anxiety and depression makes it really difficult for me having a relationship. I just need to find someone like me. I like this film a lot too. it gives me hope that I might have a job soon too. and I love horses !

    • @keithbuddyAmbassador4NHusa
      @keithbuddyAmbassador4NHusa 6 лет назад +30

      Logan dunn, this is interesting. I will be asking this kind of question to my friends. And they could ask that question. But I won't use "do you"
      Christine H, you just didn't found the right one yet. Guys just don't really understand.
      Just because you have aspergers and adhd. You can use those skills and find a job. I mean volunteer job first.

    • @tobflipped
      @tobflipped 6 лет назад +40

      Gergely Horvath, and so is the president of the United States. I think this guy is more sane. Those who refuse to admit or acknowledge they have mental issues, are the sickest! Just saying....

  • @fahadsherhussain
    @fahadsherhussain 7 лет назад +365

    Beautiful. I am dating someone with high functioning spectrum. This video makes me emotional and appreciate my partner a lot.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +17

      Thank you for your kind words, we're glad you enjoyed the video!

    • @paulanthonyhoeflich8988
      @paulanthonyhoeflich8988 5 лет назад +20

      Best of luck to you two.

    • @kathy2888
      @kathy2888 4 года назад +2

      What’s it like?

    • @elsakristina2689
      @elsakristina2689 4 года назад +7

      I'm autistic and my boyfriend has ADHD but we think he might be autistic too.

    • @marias5088
      @marias5088 4 года назад +4

      @@elsakristina2689 My autistic son is 8 y.o. I homeschool him. He learned to read at 7 but still not talking in full long sentences. I am not sure if he is mildly autistic or somewhere in the middle between mild and severe. What were you like when you were 8?

  • @AbigailBGnath
    @AbigailBGnath 7 лет назад +360

    His mother is fantastic!💙

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +14

      Thanks for your kind words Erin! She is indeed, thanks for watching ! Hope you enjoyed!

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 5 лет назад +10

      Yes! Amazing woman. Much respect.

    • @audfosutv2500
      @audfosutv2500 5 лет назад +9

      Yes! A true Queen.

  • @larrykeagan6491
    @larrykeagan6491 4 года назад +177

    he's going to outlive all of us, doing a job you love and with minimal to no stress or anxiety.. he's got it right

  • @badbabybear1
    @badbabybear1 7 лет назад +233

    Sounds like a cool and honest dude, sucks he's had to put up with so much misunderstanding.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +10

      Thanks for watching badbabybear1 😊

    • @videosdeecologia7468
      @videosdeecologia7468 3 года назад +10

      It is a symptom of the Asperger to say what they think, sometimes Asperger's are excessively honest... I have Asperger, so... I'm telling that with basis in my own experience.

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +8

      Let’s hope he will someday find a woman who is able to love him.

  • @wired4933
    @wired4933 5 лет назад +82

    Can we just appreciate how amazingly supportive their mother is? She made possible that their children felt understood and loved and get somewhere in life. What a great documentary film.

  • @redrockasrama7215
    @redrockasrama7215 7 лет назад +142

    I am also an autistic adult who enjoys working with animals. I helped found an animal sanctuary.

  • @kitfash
    @kitfash 6 лет назад +77

    When he smiles...WOW! Christmas morning.

  • @AbigailBGnath
    @AbigailBGnath 7 лет назад +186

    He really communicates quite eloquently. His true calling has been found. 💜

  • @auroram8ify
    @auroram8ify 5 лет назад +178

    My son has asperger too and he's very sweet and loving like this young man !

    • @mimesthaisilva8321
      @mimesthaisilva8321 5 лет назад +1

      Aurora M my best friend has Asperger. He, too, is very sweet and loving. I wish your son much happiness.

    • @sagrammyfour
      @sagrammyfour 5 лет назад

      Sweet and loving? We're obviously not looking at the same person.

    • @mimesthaisilva8321
      @mimesthaisilva8321 5 лет назад +3

      sagrammyfour what do see about him that makes you think the contrary? I’m puzzled.

    • @wired4933
      @wired4933 5 лет назад

      I bet he is, bless!

  • @jenniferduvall147
    @jenniferduvall147 5 лет назад +124

    It would be a privilege and an honor to be this young man’s friend! What a pure and beautiful soul!💖

  • @zannc
    @zannc 6 лет назад +981

    “Sometimes I don’t want to be around humans” literally me.

  • @lagueraitiswhatitis142
    @lagueraitiswhatitis142 5 лет назад +123

    Beside the fact that he looks like model material... just beautiful, look at how determined he is. He's overcoming so many of his struggles. He should be so proud of himself. 💕

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 4 года назад +6

      Laguera Itiswhatitis but unfortunately you aren't reaLly attracted to him. You just feel good about yourself around him

    • @foljs5858
      @foljs5858 Год назад +6

      @@howmathematicianscreatemat9226 She hasn't been around him (to "feel good about herself around him"). So she is probably just attracted to him, based on his looks on the video

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Год назад

      @@foljs5858 of course his looks is attractive. But sadly his personality turns most women off. I’m not sure if it’s subtle non verbal deficits or coming across as too much soyboy like. I don’t understand women enough to be able to confidently tell

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 Год назад

      @@foljs5858 I was talking about the lady in the above comment by the way, not his gf in the video. Of course I know that the gf in the video is attracted. I meant the commentator.

  • @LightLife4
    @LightLife4 5 лет назад +62

    I myself was diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome when I was in the pre-teens in the mid/late 90's when it wasn't well known so it made self-acceptance and coming to terms with it more difficult. Due to my problems I also found it awkward to be in crowded places, and there were times I just preferred being alone than being with people. I started working as a Support Worker in late 2017 and most of the people who I've helped support are on the Autistic spectrum. One of the plus-sides about my disability is that I'm able to use my own experiences to help the people I support and I can communicate and empathise with them on those sort of levels. I'm 35 now and am learning how to use my Asperger's as a means of helping others in similar positions

    • @wolfiethehedgehog3900
      @wolfiethehedgehog3900 3 года назад +5

      That is wonderful to hear! I’m so glad you went above and beyond to help others. (As an Aspie myself, I applaud and appreciate that effort of yours!)

    • @henkaistudio
      @henkaistudio 2 года назад +3

      @@wolfiethehedgehog3900 I have High Functioning Autism and I can really can relate to this and I now how it feels to really help other people who ether have same disability as us.

  • @mdgraystone
    @mdgraystone 5 лет назад +183

    What an amazing advocate the case manager is. Wow.

    • @goya6493
      @goya6493 4 года назад +3

      Michael Graystone the Case Manager could get out & teach others HOW TO BE A CASE MANAGER - how amazing our beautiful children’s lives could be - so grateful Josh has grown to be a most Amazing young man

    • @free2baeiou
      @free2baeiou 3 года назад +2

      Behind that case manager was his mama calling every week like "Did you find him something yet? He really wants to work!"

  • @virginiamoss7045
    @virginiamoss7045 5 лет назад +29

    His mother's a real hero! Strength and love combined with intelligence and patience. And she did it in spite of her own "disability". Seems she possesses a ton of ability, just like this son of hers.

  • @jarrettcody2998
    @jarrettcody2998 7 лет назад +338

    I think he's one of the most gorgeous men on the planet, God blessed his mom and family. his heart blows away regular people. humble, I know he'll get a gorgeous woman one day.

    • @diane9247
      @diane9247 7 лет назад +8

      Aw, just give it a go, David. You never know what may come your way!

    • @VeganoGuy
      @VeganoGuy 6 лет назад +7

      I dated a good-looking aspie guy. He used to put disgusting things in my food because he thought it would make me laugh. He made me leave him.

    • @Gabriela_Tyler
      @Gabriela_Tyler 5 лет назад

      @@matts5478 you are absolutely right.

    • @germanenriquez8891
      @germanenriquez8891 5 лет назад +18

      @@matts5478 One thing I hate about being an atheist myself is that I have to be compared with people like you. Bud, nobody is asking you about that. Let people have their beliefs.

    • @shanebeudeker441
      @shanebeudeker441 5 лет назад +9

      Or guy, since he is very handsome imo (:

  • @caliluv4244
    @caliluv4244 7 лет назад +80

    Lovely, bright and handsome young man. His relationship with those massive, gorgeous animals is beautiful.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching Caliluv!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

  • @laurathompson2484
    @laurathompson2484 8 лет назад +255

    this Is why you give people breaks. well done lad! :-)

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +11

      Thanks for watching Laura! Hope you enjoyed!

    • @henkaistudio
      @henkaistudio 2 года назад

      @@AttitudeLive I have High Functioning Autism and really can understand what this person who has Asperger Syndrome is really going through. Because people who have these disabilities do struggle in life with it but it’s always best to learn how to get through it.

  • @schoikim7978
    @schoikim7978 7 лет назад +32

    He is smart and full of grace.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Schoi Kim, hope you enjoyed!

  • @valeriegordon3000
    @valeriegordon3000 7 лет назад +171

    What a great story. He definitely has a special bond with horses. I also wouldn't be surprised to hear that he has been approached to model. Goodness what a handsome man. Never give up on your dreams. We'll be watching for you in the jumping ring.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +5

      Thanks for the kind message and support Valerie! hope you enjoyed the episode!

  • @paulkossak7761
    @paulkossak7761 4 года назад +40

    I'm a 65 year old man who has had social anxiety for my entire life but was never diagnosed with Asperger's. This young man is a great inspiration for myself.

  • @scrappygirl--danayates3075
    @scrappygirl--danayates3075 4 года назад +35

    My son has aspergers and this gives me hope that he can and will find a way to get through life happily. You are amazing Josh and I am glad you found your happy place.

    • @INTJ82
      @INTJ82 3 года назад +6

      Check out Tom Stoltman on RUclips. He has Aspergers and finished 2nd in the World's Strongest Man this year.

  • @Hako2004
    @Hako2004 7 лет назад +34

    It was really nice to spend 27 minutes inside the life of this beautiful young guy, and I learned a lot. I wish him all the best.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +5

      Thanks for your comment, we're really glad you enjoyed Josh's story!

  • @fionab5407
    @fionab5407 5 лет назад +47

    wait omg i knew he looked familiar.. i used to ride there and i remember him! he is the loveliest guy :) i remember one time he climbed out on a tree branch over a cliff to rescue a baby goat that had gotten stuck, what a hero. Pete and Carla (the owners) are the loveliest people, being there with them and the horses was absolutely life-changing, truly a lifeline for me at the time and it shaped me into a better person. honestly the best 7 years of my life was spent at trinity valley. im tearing up a bit watching this honestly, i miss the place, the people and the horses so much

  • @jarrettcody2998
    @jarrettcody2998 7 лет назад +57

    HUMILITY, I'm in tears, he's a genious. you've been blessed with a rare gem. BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @mrs.garcia6978
    @mrs.garcia6978 7 лет назад +119

    He's wonderful with the horses and speaks to his boss directly, I'd say that's success. Most 20 yo have trouble doing that honestly.

    • @mrs.garcia6978
      @mrs.garcia6978 7 лет назад +1

      Excellent seat on the horse!

    • @mrs.garcia6978
      @mrs.garcia6978 7 лет назад +3

      And teaching! Yup a success. His boss was blessed hiring Josh. (Josh was too 😊)

  • @bluebutterflywellness2273
    @bluebutterflywellness2273 5 лет назад +36

    This was so heartwarming to watch, but I don't necessarily see his disability--I see a unique ability to move in ways others can't. We need to learn how to appreciate those with different abilities that need to be cultivated just as much as mainstream ones. When people reject & label others negatively, I feel like THEY'RE the disabled ones! Good on you, Josh! ❤

    • @Caprifool
      @Caprifool Год назад +6

      This was the comment I can here to see. We may lack some neurotypical abilities. But we have abilities that the NT's don't. In most relationships, whatever they may be, I feel our abilities complete eachother. Rather than one being able and one disabled. It's about truly seeing eachother. ❤

  • @Toyon95
    @Toyon95 5 лет назад +150

    Sounds like he had a really good case-worker. And a good boss too that didn't want to take him for grantet and not pay.

  • @michellegruber4187
    @michellegruber4187 5 лет назад +45

    Great people. The mum is such a clever and sensitive woman and her son is a good young man. Bless them.

  • @mamamillwright458
    @mamamillwright458 7 лет назад +116

    This one made me cry! (Happy tears) He reminds me so much of my son. It gives me an overwhelming since of hope for my boy. Thank you!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +4

      We're glad this episode was so touching for you Angela! Thanks for watching!

  • @rebekahbridges-tervydis5054
    @rebekahbridges-tervydis5054 6 лет назад +21

    I agree with that lovely mum, Asbergers needs it own funding. He’s wonderful and wish him all the best.

  • @geoffreycollis7041
    @geoffreycollis7041 6 лет назад +13

    I have a son with Asperger`s syndrome and no the pain and emotional stress he go`s through on a daily bases, this young man is inspirational at every level, be very proud my friend you are a special human being.

  • @waaf25
    @waaf25 7 лет назад +347

    As a teacher, this has made me more aware of paying attention to each student in my class. However, it is extremely difficult to focus on each one when there are so many in a class. Hence the importance of support for us teachers so that students like Josh end up with such negative thoughts of school. This was an educational, calming and inspiring story. Thank you...and Josh.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +7

      Thanks for watching W Francis!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

    • @ikigai3232
      @ikigai3232 6 лет назад +2

      W Francis 💖

    • @rslynch2
      @rslynch2 5 лет назад +9

      I teach preschool. We are supposed to be providing special needs services and identifying those who may need them. The problem is that we are spread very thin. In my class of 20, there are 5 with speech IEPs. Several other children need some sort of diagnosis, but it is hard to get them the services they need for needs like autism or ODD, etc., because we don't have the support. The mental health and disabilities people start with the most severe. In the classroom, we try to do the one-on-one as much as we can, but I feel like a third person in the room would have to happen for us to be really successful, because there is that notion of putting out fires and then dealing with the more easygoing children after that. It's really sad.

    • @kietherhamilton3654
      @kietherhamilton3654 4 года назад +8

      Nagolbud excuse me I have Aspergers and your opinion is actually disrespectful and insulting to other people.

    • @jimmatthews6365
      @jimmatthews6365 4 года назад +4

      Exactly I'm 49 no one pick up on it until l was 36 every kid is different

  • @shariarnold9649
    @shariarnold9649 5 лет назад +47

    This young man is nothing short of inspiring...he has overcome so much and has such a positive attitude...an amazing and gifted person for sure. I wish him all the best in his future goals.

  • @thewatcher2270
    @thewatcher2270 5 лет назад +12

    What a special person. His determination to not let his disability determine how he would live his life is such an awesome story. His Mother has every right to be proud of him. I'm proud of him too!! I love this story.

  • @ellenbarnette9261
    @ellenbarnette9261 5 лет назад +42

    Peter God Bless you for giving Josh a chance

  • @terryankevmiller470
    @terryankevmiller470 6 лет назад +106

    I have 2 sons with aspergers and they are the best.....u just have to be patient and find out what they like by listening.....whatever they tend to focus on the most....that what they are into....they are loners and need a lot of emotional., social support......they are the best kids to have, they love deeply, give them plenty of love...

    • @MistakenMystery
      @MistakenMystery 4 года назад

      Vaccines are amazing aren't they?

    • @IshanDuttagglblord
      @IshanDuttagglblord 3 года назад

      you have 69 likes i dont wanna spoil it

    • @johnbrock4974
      @johnbrock4974 3 года назад +3

      @@MistakenMystery it has nothing to do with vaccines. Asperger's brain is wired differently, meaning it's developed but radically differently.

    • @wolfiethehedgehog3900
      @wolfiethehedgehog3900 3 года назад

      @@johnbrock4974 Thank you for understanding how Asperger’s truly is. Not enough people know that Asperger’s is a neurological thing, not caused by a vaccine. =)

    • @vincentgiasullo
      @vincentgiasullo 3 года назад +1

      @@MistakenMystery found the anti vaxxer.

  • @webdesignerguy
    @webdesignerguy 7 лет назад +661

    This is criminal. No one should be that ridiculously handsome.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +19

      Haha yes! Thanks for watching John!

    • @plerpplerp5599
      @plerpplerp5599 5 лет назад +3

      What?😳

    • @joshbonner9409
      @joshbonner9409 5 лет назад +3

      John criminal?

    • @joshbonner9409
      @joshbonner9409 5 лет назад +15

      cm cmancuso717 oh I see! I got Asperger syndrome so I didn’t pick up on it sorry

    • @joshbonner9409
      @joshbonner9409 5 лет назад +7

      cm cmancuso717 I basically had to learn to ask 🙂

  • @ginastotallybodaciousunive2375
    @ginastotallybodaciousunive2375 6 лет назад +14

    It is wonderful to see someone who is so caring and respectful about horses. :)

  • @seanmccormick2824
    @seanmccormick2824 7 лет назад +48

    What an awesome story. My son is Asperger's as well and has had similar struggles. The problem was mainly at school with teachers not understanding or knowing how to engage. Any idiot can teach a normal child but it takes a real teacher to teach the children that are not normal. Some of my sons teachers incited student bullying to try and "make" him conform and it was only in year 10 - 11 that he has finally found himself. Aspies are beautiful people and all we need to do is look.
    Thanks for telling stories like this one to help everyone :-)

    • @francesskane6492
      @francesskane6492 4 года назад +1

      Sean sir .. i truly feel how you feel to what your son's wen thru in school .. me as an educator i am struggling for the welfare of the student in school yes thier r some teachers and students as well that are bastards (sorry about ) i always have differences frm.my collogues bcoz i am always at the side of the children wt like those aspies
      . Would u beleived that i m the only 1 in school who gives extra attention to them .. some just tend to just showy but not continues . 1 incident was that a teacher was so mad bcoz she said i am siding wt those who are not supposed to be n a regular school .I said that they still can be when we only give them an extra little time and understanding bcoz parents cant afford sending thier kids in a school intended for like wt aspies.

    • @jameslawson9644
      @jameslawson9644 4 года назад +1

      There is nothing normal. Any teacher can teach a regular student .

    • @wolfiethehedgehog3900
      @wolfiethehedgehog3900 3 года назад +1

      I am glad you are so supportive of your son. Asperger’s people like me, others, and most definitely him, appreciate your dedication, loving care and support. Take care. =)

    • @henkaistudio
      @henkaistudio 2 года назад

      @@wolfiethehedgehog3900 There’s another way to call people who have Aspergers for short and it’s called Aspie that’s how you call a person who have Aspergers for short.

  • @swerveon
    @swerveon 5 лет назад +13

    He's so beautiful inside and out.

  • @mjbombm8825
    @mjbombm8825 7 лет назад +39

    such an amazing young lad, good on him for trying so hard and succeeding.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +2

      All his hard work certainly has paid off. Thanks for watching!

  • @lazysummerdayes7
    @lazysummerdayes7 5 лет назад +20

    Happy for this young man that he has found his place in life.

  • @Sentientmatter8
    @Sentientmatter8 7 лет назад +213

    This guy is so handsome! And his gentle way with horses!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +5

      Thanks for watching Magdalena!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

    • @tonytunbridge6275
      @tonytunbridge6275 4 года назад +3

      Do you honestly think Attitude would have any interest in him if he wasn't nice looking?

    • @Sentientmatter8
      @Sentientmatter8 4 года назад +2

      @@tonytunbridge6275 It certainly didn't hurt.

    • @sell3100
      @sell3100 3 года назад +1

      @@tonytunbridge6275 Yes, I think they would have!

  • @TheBartomon
    @TheBartomon 4 года назад +5

    the hero in this story is mom. God bless your heart.and god bless the rancher who gave this boy a chance.

  • @crystalrd7601
    @crystalrd7601 7 лет назад +36

    just beautiful. goosebumps when he was riding his horse, listening, he understands, fantastic?

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for your kind words Crissy! Glad you enjoyed the episode!

  • @SOMERJOY1
    @SOMERJOY1 4 года назад +6

    My 8 yr old grandson has Aspergers, he is ‘magic’. So smart, well mannered, and kind. I loved watching this young mans story, he copes with it and goes on to enjoy what he loves.

  • @MLSoll
    @MLSoll 7 лет назад +47

    I know everyone has already said it but damn he is handsome. And such a sweet soul as well.

  • @michelledawson566
    @michelledawson566 5 лет назад +33

    This beautiful young man is more trustworthy than most able people, his only disability is with us not him, these horses have someone special looking after them, good on you mate 🇦🇺🌈💕🦋x

  • @Kaprisyosa
    @Kaprisyosa 7 лет назад +260

    I thought he was prince charming when he ride that horse! He's job is paradise. Thanks to Pete for giving him a chance to be better.

    • @laurids2007
      @laurids2007 5 лет назад +5

      I believe it's the contrary. This boy gave Pete the chance to be better. That boy was born with a heart of gold. 💞💝

  • @sarahleach9997
    @sarahleach9997 5 лет назад +11

    I love his genius with horses. Hes a really sweet guy.

  • @myka788
    @myka788 5 лет назад +14

    What a seriously gifted and handsome young man! I hope he has his own ranch some day.

  • @notefromjan
    @notefromjan 4 года назад +8

    If I had to choose one hero from his story, it would be impossible. Mom, who never gives up on her babies. Pete, despite his initial feelings, who taught so much using so few words and saw Josh as a great, paid, part of his team. The invisible social worker, who coached with love and patience and wouldn’t take no for an answer. But Josh, with all your trust and hard work and sweetness and strength, you are the star of this show and my life is richer from observed it all. Thank you, Attitude! ♥️

  • @Davewilliamson5w
    @Davewilliamson5w 4 года назад +6

    My 18 year old son has Aspergers. I see so much of this young man as I see my own son. This is probably one of the best videos I've watched on RUclips, and not because I was looking for it or researching anything. It's as if I was to see it for a reason? Wonderfully done. Very inspiring. I can't find any reason why anyone wouldn't simply enjoy this presentation? Great work!

  • @lemcg5574
    @lemcg5574 4 года назад +3

    His confidence shines thru just by participating in this video. Wishing him continued happiness with his life.

  • @heenalu03
    @heenalu03 7 лет назад +20

    what a bright young man. its great to see someone gave him a chance. great story thank u for sharing. best of luck to him and his future in working with horses.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching Keauililani!Hope you enjoyed our channel!

    • @maipoina-xk5zk
      @maipoina-xk5zk 5 лет назад

      I love your pic🤙🏽

  • @jarrettcody2998
    @jarrettcody2998 7 лет назад +15

    horse listener! how beautiful. you became something indescribable, and you found a pure enjoyment that nobody can touch or take away from you.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Jarrett! Glad you enjoyed the video 😀

  • @theresakipilo4662
    @theresakipilo4662 5 лет назад +119

    And he strives to be a professional, competing across the world? This is a movie waiting to be made.

    • @rsmith155
      @rsmith155 5 лет назад

      Steady on. It's heartwarming, but hardly Hollywood

    • @rsmith155
      @rsmith155 5 лет назад

      I've changed my mind. If we can get Owen Wilson to star in it I'm totally on board

    • @kathypetersen4694
      @kathypetersen4694 5 лет назад +3

      My son who is 15 has Adhd and a psychaitrist told me once " I think he is a little Asbergy" My son gets a pulling away anxiety from his classmates. He is for the most part in his own head. This young man is great what he is learning and accomplishing.

  • @ms.michealh893
    @ms.michealh893 7 лет назад +34

    This made my heart smile!!

  • @shireenis4937
    @shireenis4937 6 лет назад +7

    What an awesome young man! I only see him going from strength to strength. His affinity with the horses is magical. If I was 40 years younger I would find him and pursue him - he is my perfect man! Thank you Pete too for giving him that chance that enabled the light in him to shine so bright! I'm in love!

  • @bellalis9520
    @bellalis9520 3 года назад +10

    They are usually very very intelligent... And their hearts are pure.

  • @kathlenecharbonneau
    @kathlenecharbonneau 6 лет назад +13

    Such a beautiful and strong young man, inside and out. God bless Pete for bringing him into his family and introducing him to his destiny with the horses. ❤

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching Kathlene Charbonneau

  • @charlesdavis7087
    @charlesdavis7087 5 лет назад +23

    You should probably be a movie star. Do you like riding horses? Lots of people out here think you're wonderful. Blessings on all you love.

  • @dcbeez5956
    @dcbeez5956 5 лет назад +5

    Josh, love seeing your innate affinity with horses. I'm so grateful to Pete for giving you this opportunity to embrace your talents. Would love to see more. And Josh your mum is an amazing woman! School and school kid's are discriminative. They're not a part of your life now thank God. What is now for you is your resolve and survival to your credit. Your a survivor and a gentle leader. Your not lost for words and your Natural horsemanship skills are enduring and impressive. Great stuff!!

  • @Buttondor345
    @Buttondor345 3 года назад +10

    I don’t know this man, but I’m proud of him.

  • @tommyboybr
    @tommyboybr 5 лет назад +6

    That’s such a beautiful story!!!
    It’s so awesome that he was given a chance to work, grow as a person and professionally.
    Animals are all about energy, intuition and trust, and he got it all right.
    He has a bright future ahead, and that is great.

  • @diane9247
    @diane9247 7 лет назад +15

    A wonderful testament to courage and determination! Warm regards and best wishes from Oregon, USA.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for watching diane9247, hope you enjoyed!

  • @xyttra
    @xyttra 6 лет назад +6

    Such a beautiful mother.

  • @evilmickey
    @evilmickey 7 лет назад +18

    That's awesome. Guy he works for seems cool and understanding. Its what we need with autism. If you have a job you're interested in without too much pressure and being asked to do things you cant do you'll get on great and be a great asset.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Mickey, hope you enjoyed!

  • @richies6420
    @richies6420 7 лет назад +33

    We all definitely need to see more videos like this.

  • @itsj4375
    @itsj4375 6 лет назад +8

    amazing mother 👏🏼
    & Pete for giving him a chance

  • @amandaalley77
    @amandaalley77 4 года назад +3

    My oldest brother only just got diagnosed a few years ago with Aspergers and he is in his 50’s. He has struggled his whole life... I am glad that there is more education and awareness these days to nurture these beautiful intelligent souls... God bless his mumma and case worker... 🙏🏼🦋💖

  • @sancraft1
    @sancraft1 5 лет назад +11

    My fiance has Asperger's. Sometimes it's a lot to deal with, but he's worth it, just like this man.

  • @thebluestplanet6768
    @thebluestplanet6768 5 лет назад +196

    "What is normal, anyway?"

    • @justsomerandominternetuser6379
      @justsomerandominternetuser6379 4 года назад +2

      Elisa Bell a setting on the drier.

    • @aglaves4922
      @aglaves4922 4 года назад +6

      There is no such thing as normal. We are all unique. If we were all the same we would be automatons.

    • @aglaves4922
      @aglaves4922 4 года назад

      @Stephen Murphy I get what you are saying and I agree with you. Horses, and animals in general, are incredible in how they see into a person's heart and can read the soul.
      Please reconsider how you view "weirdness" in general though. I understand that you mean "not good". Weird, in general, is good though. Weird can be funny, it can simply be different or not THE normal. "Normal" isn't even necessarily representative of 50% of the population, it's just a representation of the largest group.
      I'm weird, but I'm also good, kind, compassionate, caring, and animals naturally feel comfortable with and drawn to me, even wild animals.
      My best to you and wishes that you are able to continue spending your life with horses.

    • @gerardosalas9477
      @gerardosalas9477 4 года назад

      Elisa Bell statistically, the value that represents the central or typical value of a set of data.

    • @gerardosalas9477
      @gerardosalas9477 4 года назад

      A Glaves statistically, there is.

  • @thecognitivedissonant5206
    @thecognitivedissonant5206 3 года назад +5

    Such beautiful scenery, music, and horses! I was late diagnosed at 51 and have always struggled. Animals are easier for me to relate to also, but I did become a rehab therapist and caregiver ❤ I still don't have the support I need but hoping people are willing to become friends and supports so everyone feels like they belong and are appreciated for their unique gifts

  • @vincelowry2671
    @vincelowry2671 7 лет назад +91

    I'm 24 and recently discovered that I have Aspergers, it terrifies me to be honest. I'm scared of what may happen to me in a few years. Sometimes I feel lonely and worried. I'm still going through the phase of accepting that I have Aspergers...

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +3

      Thanks for watching, Vince. Hope you enjoyed our documentary and are able to take something away from it 😊

    • @Numantino312
      @Numantino312 5 лет назад +18

      Vince, was diagnosed myself at age 35. figured it out because my friend's son has aspergers. had struggled so much for so long without really knowing what was up. upon going online and reading up, was all "that's IT!". not much changed, yet everything changed. was quite happy to learn about it cos it solved a whole lot of mystery for me. it's less about acceptance, more about learning the best ways to take care of yourself, and generally work things to be more successful.

    • @geobigntall3830
      @geobigntall3830 5 лет назад +4

      Youre not alone..im 44 scares me to death

    • @joncampos5551
      @joncampos5551 5 лет назад

      Vince Lowry I thought that Asperbergers took away emotion?

    • @EricQuesnel3D
      @EricQuesnel3D 5 лет назад +11

      @@joncampos5551 No, emotion is intensely intact. If that was the case eye contact would be no problem, since it wouldn't be as disruptive internally. Reading, and expressing emotion's correctly is what's "taken away". People inherently have a harder time distinguishing the correct intentions of those on the Autistic spectrum because of it, which can have a lot of serious some times fatal consequences. It's a deficiency in the ability to correctly read micro-expressions, and output matching internal emotional micro-expressions that generally causes the breakdown in communication. It requires a significant amount of cognitive effort to make up for it in social situations, which leads to mental exhaustion. Without supports individuals will eventually regress, burnout, and isolate as a way of self preservation. Not something I would ever wish on anyone, even my worst enemy.

  • @renabeck
    @renabeck 5 лет назад +6

    Very inspiring person and touching to see how he found meaning and fulfilment being Asperger.

  • @tanana2070
    @tanana2070 5 лет назад +3

    Beautiful, exquisite! I love this life story! Thankyou for giving this young lad a chance. He clearly has a way with horses and horses with him.

  • @SethHarrisGordon
    @SethHarrisGordon 4 года назад +11

    This dude is in his pure spiritual form and I feel we all need to tap into that on the daily!!!

  • @mariai.g.r.2786
    @mariai.g.r.2786 6 лет назад +11

    Honestly speaking, you just had me in tears. Watching this has made a huge impact in my life. I have been learning a lot Asperger's and have come to the conclusion that anyone with Asperger's should feel privileged and blessed to be an Aspie. With some help and support Aspies can truly soar. Pete, what an awesome way to make a difference in Josh's life. Wow! Ah, and if Josh ever fires you, that's what you get for employing an Aspie! hahaha They often end up doing a better job that you could ever do!

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +1

      So,would you be willing to date him ? With this info you would give me hope for my autistic students. The problem is most ladies here do virtue signaling but do not internally respond on a relationship level.

  • @RedCloudBeechWaveAhh
    @RedCloudBeechWaveAhh 6 лет назад +15

    Absolutely clear that this helps people see the good and the beauty of the different, those with ASD. But it's easier when you focus on one who is so easy on the eyes. What about those who are less appealing, less handsome? We need to extend our compassion for and identification with these folks as well.
    So, thank you! and, it was an easy task.

  • @lindagozdzik8859
    @lindagozdzik8859 4 года назад +1

    What a genuine, beautiful and wise person!

  • @re-joyce4806
    @re-joyce4806 5 лет назад +3

    What an incredible young man, I feel sad that you had so little support and understanding at school, however I'm delighted for the way you have matured and grown into an amazing, caring man, the connection you have with those horses is totally awesome ,and to your boss who gave you a chance to prove to the world how efficient hard-working and how great an asset you are in the workplace is commendable, I hope others will learn from this, I pray that you will move onwards and upwards to achieve your goals in life , you are a truly inspirational young man with a wonderful loving Mum supporting you all the way.
    Thankyou for sharing your story.
    God Bless you and your family.

  • @gauntlettolife833
    @gauntlettolife833 4 года назад +2

    What a fantastic Mum! Josh you are awesome, I loved what you said about " listening" rather than talking to the horses ( When you commented that people say your a horse whisperer ) Animals are so connected with that realm of what you referred to as "spiritual" & I myself prefer the company of animals because there is not that expectation simply acceptance. More people need to give the Autistic community a chance to show how valuable and how much they have to offer! We matter, we exist & we deserve to succeed in our strengths! Thank you for sharing your life & your experience with the world Josh!!!

  • @SuperMatt2112
    @SuperMatt2112 4 года назад +4

    I love this, what a great little documentary on this young man, the horseman farms, as well as the Social worker who had the insight and wherewithal and persistance to get him working with these horse, its all a perfect example of the what can happen when humans work together, I applaud everyone in this film, I know that their are probably still challenges that we did not see, but WOW, if this is the result than whatever challenges their might be can never out weight the goodness, thank you for sharing this story. I am truly in awe.

  • @lisabeth8036
    @lisabeth8036 5 лет назад +3

    You blessed us with a beautiful video of a wonderful family, with or without disabilities. The mother is the most caring of moms. Thank you again I really enjoyed this

  • @hughlingard
    @hughlingard 7 лет назад +186

    He is really gorgeous.

    • @jwalt8019
      @jwalt8019 7 лет назад +17

      Yes, he is.

    • @theresag1969
      @theresag1969 5 лет назад +6

      Yes, the horses are very attractive.

    • @gripitl6878
      @gripitl6878 5 лет назад +2

      Brian HL Being in a relationship with these people is exhausting. I dated one for six months it was the most exhausting time in my life.

    • @cidar4750
      @cidar4750 5 лет назад +2

      ​@@gripitl6878 Because everyone of them is the same :)
      Like girls with makup. Everybody knows. Like boys with short hair as well, all the same.
      Lessons of life, I tell ya.

    • @LB-pg3no
      @LB-pg3no 4 года назад +1

      Brian HL Really really, like actor gorgeous!!!!

  • @connie.h2435
    @connie.h2435 4 года назад +2

    This young man is so handsome and what a wonderful gift he has with the horses 💛no wonder his mother is so proud of him 💛

  • @connieericksen8663
    @connieericksen8663 5 лет назад +4

    Amazing. I'm so impressed with how far you've come and how wonderful Josh is with horses. Very impressive. Great job.

  • @adamkirby2570
    @adamkirby2570 4 года назад +2

    What a great guy...he is so good with the horses! Hope he continues to do well and has a happy/successful future. Mom seems like a wonderful person. Bless them all🙏

  • @pokemonmaster8925
    @pokemonmaster8925 6 лет назад +15

    I live with Autism and Aspergers myself and I think it's extraordinary what people like us can do, I relate a lot to this guy and he seems to have a bright future ahead of him and I think he is a good example of what people like us can do. Congrats 😊

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 лет назад +2

      Thanks for watching Pokemon Master

  • @jackiejames6510
    @jackiejames6510 6 лет назад +2

    Loved this story in every way. The support and partnerships of others but especially his genuine love and rapport with the horse and how this connection helps both him and this majestic animal.

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  6 лет назад

      Thanks Jackie James glad you enjoyed this episode

  • @jacquettabanana
    @jacquettabanana 7 лет назад +14

    What a remarkable young chap!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад +1

      He really is - thanks for watching Jacci! 😃

  • @kristenbupp2037
    @kristenbupp2037 5 лет назад +2

    What a smart, sweet young man with a wonderful gift.

  • @maciejones4883
    @maciejones4883 7 лет назад +7

    Beautiful story!! Thanks so much for sharing!

    • @AttitudeLive
      @AttitudeLive  7 лет назад

      Thanks for watching Macie, hope you enjoyed!

  • @surfergirl2943
    @surfergirl2943 2 года назад +2

    What a great young man. He’s really found such a purpose , many of us never do ! I think it’s awesome .