I like your old videos. Your tactics work. They foster infatuation. I discovered through experience that I can get anyone that i want but using these tactics to start a relationship there's a toxic seductive and addictive aspect to the connection and as amazing as that is, it's not sustainable and then the fantasy drops and it gets hard because you really have to get to know the person and find understanding. I hope your new videos maybe address healthy communication once you are in the relationship. A video that explores the transition from the addiction to building a life with another person.
I had to learn the hard way. I'm such a loving and caring lady. And I love to express it. But not anymore, Father Alex has groomed me. I'm better and my relationship is a lot better this days. I have peace of mind now that I'm just leaning back. It's so cool. Thank you as always 😅😅😅
Alex I would love to know your opinion on this.... I'm starting to notice a correlation between being self assured, confident, and resilient, and being low key narcissistic. What is the line that separates the two?
Google 9 traits of NPD. If at least four of those are present, you've likely got a narcissist on your hands. That being said, only a trained and licensed mental health clinician can diagnose, not people on the internet.
I’ve been watching all your old videos the past week. My guy has pulled away after telling me he loves me. I’m so f hurt. This relationship is just not going ok because I’m white and he is black, plus we live in South Africa so it’s still so racist. I am in pain. I don’t want to be needy. I’ve pulled away completely. But damn it hurts AND he flaked on me on my birthday , now that really hurt
Sorry, have to disagree with you Alex about being too tired to see someone. I, as an older woman, can say for a fact, and have also read in many books, that for woman, even if it's the man of our greatest dreams, we quite often will avoid meeting up with a guy when we're exhausted. The reason being that women focus on the EMOTIONAL quality of the time together. If we're tired or have our periods we know that we won't be at our best, won't make a good impression and that this will affect the relationship NEGATIVELY longterm. Better to sit it out until we feel more vibrant. Also, women will forgo sex or even just a date, if she has to get up extremely early the next day for an important role at work. Classic senario: A pilot or a surgeon. We have a more inate sense of responsibility. Men, on the other hand, being purely sex driven and ego-point-scoring needy will never turn down an opportunity for sexual contact. Learn up!
Very true! And around that time of the months women may experience painful cramps, breakouts, low immunity, bloating. Women don’t owe explanations when we say we are tired, because men don’t bleed.., men have no clue what it’s like painful bleeding all day for a week and still have to show up to work everyday, bills don’t pay themselves, and still men expect us to look and act sexy or whatever. Okay, Alex is gives good tips, but you are a still a men at end of the day you can’t relate to us being tired.
Here’s what I message: Hi, i wanted to check on you and see if you’re okay. If for some reason, your silence is intentional, then I wish you the best. Either way, I don’t water dead plants.
The story of you and the girl was weird. You was waiting for the girl to come to see u ?? But you are the man you should go to her . Or maybe you are a feminine man .
Even men do that. Once guy I did talking stage with. He wanted to be serious about me relationship wise. He let one of his female friend to pick up my calls. I downplay the whole thing. He wanted me to be upset about that. I kept it cordial. I said let me know when u want us to talk. 😆 he then later said , I was testing you. I downplay some of his games.
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please don't ever stop doing these videos, u saved my life thank you 🥰😭🐑❤️❤️❤️🙌u deserve more views comments etc ☺️ u re brilliant Dalexis
If people try to do these stuff on me, I feel it boring and cutting them out. Best healing for them.✌🏻
"You are not as weak as you thought I was MF'er. " - That is my favorite line. I've watched that video several times. I like old Alex and new Alex 😎
Your Videos nowadays are the Best! They are more calm. Thank you!
😂😂😂yooo…you saying “ what type of people was i meeting back then” made me think back too😭… so happy we are smart and grown and don’t take shit😊
I like your old videos. Your tactics work. They foster infatuation. I discovered through experience that I can get anyone that i want but using these tactics to start a relationship there's a toxic seductive and addictive aspect to the connection and as amazing as that is, it's not sustainable and then the fantasy drops and it gets hard because you really have to get to know the person and find understanding. I hope your new videos maybe address healthy communication once you are in the relationship. A video that explores the transition from the addiction to building a life with another person.
I love what you said. When a guy pulls back you get cold As balls.
Alex you are the epitome o a VIRGO MAN hahaha I love it. Y'all are great at dissecting and giving grounded, rational advice
You are so young but so wise , your talk makes sense to me much more than others
Alex is write about everything. Trust me. I started watching his video 1 year ago. Now I start to understand while some men act the way they do.
I’m too tired: “You don’t release enough dopamine for me” yooo I’m literally ☠️😭😂😂😂😂😂 7:31
I had to learn the hard way. I'm such a loving and caring lady. And I love to express it. But not anymore, Father Alex has groomed me. I'm better and my relationship is a lot better this days. I have peace of mind now that I'm just leaning back. It's so cool. Thank you as always 😅😅😅
2:00 = Ok, I see what you mean..too cute..u r talking to you. Love your videos. So helpful. Thank you.
Thanks for all you do, Alex
I loVE that you crack yourself up
I just wanted to be like Jlo was when she was with her back up dancer! A cutie pie who caters to my every whim!!!😂❤
I wonder why there are moments of silence throughout still love the content!
mic went no contact
Lol
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
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Alex I would love to know your opinion on this....
I'm starting to notice a correlation between being self assured, confident, and resilient, and being low key narcissistic. What is the line that separates the two?
I second that 😅
EMPATHY.
Google 9 traits of NPD. If at least four of those are present, you've likely got a narcissist on your hands. That being said, only a trained and licensed mental health clinician can diagnose, not people on the internet.
I’ve been watching all your old videos the past week. My guy has pulled away after telling me he loves me. I’m so f hurt. This relationship is just not going ok because I’m white and he is black, plus we live in South Africa so it’s still so racist. I am in pain. I don’t want to be needy. I’ve pulled away completely. But damn it hurts AND he flaked on me on my birthday , now that really hurt
Did things workout?
You deserve better than a man who doesn't even bother about your birthday. That should tell you all you need to know.
Sorry, have to disagree with you Alex about being too tired to see someone.
I, as an older woman, can say for a fact, and have also read in many books, that for woman, even if it's the man of our greatest dreams, we quite often will avoid meeting up with a guy when we're exhausted. The reason being that women focus on the EMOTIONAL quality of the time together. If we're tired or have our periods we know that we won't be at our best, won't make a good impression and that this will affect the relationship NEGATIVELY longterm. Better to sit it out until we feel more vibrant.
Also, women will forgo sex or even just a date, if she has to get up extremely early the next day for an important role at work. Classic senario: A pilot or a surgeon.
We have a more inate sense of responsibility.
Men, on the other hand, being purely sex driven and ego-point-scoring needy will never turn down an opportunity for sexual contact.
Learn up!
Exactly
Very true! And around that time of the months women may experience painful cramps, breakouts, low immunity, bloating. Women don’t owe explanations when we say we are tired, because men don’t bleed.., men have no clue what it’s like painful bleeding all day for a week and still have to show up to work everyday, bills don’t pay themselves, and still men expect us to look and act sexy or whatever. Okay, Alex is gives good tips, but you are a still a men at end of the day you can’t relate to us being tired.
This is true!
Here’s what I message: Hi, i wanted to check on you and see if you’re okay. If for some reason, your silence is intentional, then I wish you the best. Either way, I don’t water dead plants.
Much love Father Alex
I Wonder why does the sound sometimes disappear ??
I’m taking notes for the future
Funny how you saying I can't see shit reminded you that we couldn't see it either. I was over here thinking the same thing. 😆
Good Advice
Can you make a video of what the bitchy women do? Like your tinder convos so we can replicate that shit cuz clearly it works 😂
Needed this
What should I do when my long-term narcissist fuck buddy becomes distant shows minimal effort when together and continues to reach out?
Disappear
Pull away harder
Leave and don't go back !
Another dope video
New Alex has mellowed huh lol thanks 🙏
He seems a bit more grounded and empathic, maby because the meditation sessions.
That's what I'm doing now.. Cold
your mic goes silent in this video a couple of times
😂 you literally have to play dumb for some folks indeed. Give no validation
You can’t see it see what? 😂 yoooooo
At least you're reflecting.
“Overly emotional “
Father Alex Love your videos &
Your Laugh 😅
😂 is funny the way you recap your own video 😊
The story of you and the girl was weird. You was waiting for the girl to come to see u ?? But you are the man you should go to her . Or maybe you are a feminine man .
Nah. The chick wanted to boost her ego and wanted validation. Alex didn’t give her that. 😂 he did the opposite.
Even men do that. Once guy I did talking stage with. He wanted to be serious about me relationship wise. He let one of his female friend to pick up my calls. I downplay the whole thing. He wanted me to be upset about that. I kept it cordial. I said let me know when u want us to talk. 😆 he then later said , I was testing you. I downplay some of his games.
You sound like you have grown Alex.
On point
Your mic went silence
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By gettin cold You mean ignorin his msgs?
You can still answer not right away , being cordial but play distant.
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I'm not thinking long terms, guys are just stupid with all the playing ..mind games..rudeness..then when you do that back..they go bezerk ..too bad
ALEXXXXXX...Your voice mutes several times during this video.
He creeps me out
Fix ur mic or I’ll unfollow 😡
No womens preparation is harder maybe thats why we can refuse. Both physically and psychologically