At first I was going to comment that a 6 year age gap between adults is not a big deal, but then the story kept getting weirder and weirder? She was in high school? The hashtag? The conspiracy?? The racism??? Literally everything else??? What the actual fuck???
@reckless_herb hey can you clarify which part of my comment you're referring to? If we're talking about the 6 year age gap, then that's why I specified that between adults, it wouldn't be a big deal. Things get different at younger ages though
@@littleclownfrosty the age gap. 19 yr olds are still basically children. 19 is SUPER YOUNG. things change when they’re young, that means it changes when someone is 19
Want some tea: my mom bought me their book because I have PCOS and Amazon refunded us saying it was a fraudulent version of the book even though it was from their official link and such. Not actually tea but let me have my moment.
graduated high school in rural Ohio in 2006 and there were SO MANY teacher/student abuse scandals that weren't really framed as abuse so much as they were framed as scandals
At my school was never really a student, and teacher situation. It was more of a older teacher with a lot younger teachers aid situations. They were all adults, but I was friends with this girl, and her dad was dating my class teachers aid. There was a 17-20 age gap, and then another teachers aid was in a relationship with the principal with a 20-25 age gap. Yeah that was a crazy story, and she was married and so was he. The first two I mentioned were both single before the relationship. Both women were on there early 20s
I graduated in 2020 and same, there was one specific teacher who was kinda notorious for cheating with their students, teacher in question had been doing it for at least 7 years and nothing was ever done about it until the year i graduated which was their last year apparently but I haven’t been back to see if that was true
Grew up in rural Ohio and graduated a few years ago, and it’s STILL happening. Finding out your fav teacher/role model is dating one of their students, possibly before they graduated, is absolutely world shattering.
Personally, I don't think you can be an internet famous couple and not be weird. Being a normal couple and making couple content are just incongruous concepts
using the recent tragedy in Maui as some sort of IG bait is so heartless. People lost their homes, lives and livelihoods. Hate the government all you want but have the decency to no use Maui as ammunition.
People and animals died homes were destroyed environments and habitats demolished absolutely horrific but that doesn’t take away from the serious fact that the government definitely could have done this to maui believing the conspiracy doesn’t take away from the clear destruction it just says that it was purposely done to Hawaii not a natural disaster
@@rayraymind😞 The government’s basically driving out the native people in favor of tourists and rich people. Edit: It’a just too expensive to live in Hawaii now
them posting their baby like that feels even worse knowing the weird comments they’ve made about being possibly turned on by breastfeeding & talking ab their daughter being conceived via backshots… not accusing them of anything but i’m worried about the environment that child is being brought into
Wtf, I really hope more laws come about about social media people posting and using their children for content. It's gonna be really weird for this generation's kids being able to look back and see their parents having no filter
@@Shyknit agreed! it’s gross and i’m tired of the notion that legality = morality but it seems as if something is legal people will continue to use that as an excuse
Edit: I shouldn’t have commented before finishing the video those people are way more messed up than I thought I still think the strange sex comments are negligible (not the ones including their child), but they’re definitely exploiting that kid.
The irony of them believing all these right wing conspiracies, but not being concerned at all about posting naked pictures of their baby is wild to me. Like, isn’t that one of the biggest talking points, that anyone and everyone is out to get your children? There’s definitely creeps out there, that’s pretty undeniable, so why is that the one they’re not worried about?
its not about the obvious fact that babies shouldn't be sexualized, its about the fact that they COULD be, and i would feel really hurt to grow up and find my parents didnt choose to protect me from that.
I have PCOS that affects me greatly and have simply ADORED this couple for years. I always hoped I'd get a partner like Tom... this is my first time seeing this bc I'm not the type of fan to dig into a creator's personal life, and it's heartbreaking to have the facade crack
I never know if people using their parents as an example to argue age gaps (big ones often with a disgusting power dynamic) aren't predatory makes me wanna laugh or cry.
If someone’s parents are happily married, then great for them. However, that doesn’t prove that age gap relationships are healthy, normal, or okay. Also, it’s doubtful that children truly know the intimate dynamics of their parents’ marriage. Plenty of people just cope. And that works great until it doesn’t. The bottom can fall out at anytime.
Yeah my bsf’s grandparents met when he was 21 and she was 14 and she was pregnant shortly thereafter 😢. She had 3 kids with this man before she was in her mid-20’s. At least she got through grad school. Apparently (to no one’s surprise) she wasnt very connected to her children and was known for being cold and distant with them. My bsf says she doesn’t doubt her grandpa loved her grandma but she doesnt like to think about their relationship.
@@abigailchristenson388stories like that are so sad. Her teen and young adult years were literally taken from her by some weird older dude that’s heartbreaking.
The fact that people think the Lahaina fires is a goddamn conspiracy theory tf???? I’m sorry were your friends and family running for their lives, jumping into the Harbour to survive?? That makes me sooooo mad Maui is my HOME not a CONSPIRACY
I audibly gasped when he said "the first conspiracy theory" was about the fires. Absolutely horrible to spread misinformation about such a tragedy. Especially when you have that large of an audience.
to give her the _only_ credit she's due here, the conspiracy wasn't 'the fires didn't happen,' it was 'the fires happened, but they were a false flag attack by **shakes magic 8-ball** the united states, carried out via **throws dart at dartboard** top secret laser satellites with the goal of **rolls dice** making oprah richer.' it's arguably more offensive, bc we _know_ what caused the fire (privatized electrical utilities crumbling away) and frankly yeah, the rich WILL likely profit off this so just pour more salt in the wound, lady.
tim pool said the same thing (space lasers started the fire) only he blamed china. she fits in with the right wing nutjobs, complaining about how all lgbt ppl are pedophiles while living like _this_
If you feel you have to lie about how you met then you must know that your relationship started off in a bad way. Also, that Maui fire theory is one of the wildest reaches I've ever seen.
Eh, there are contexts like queer people hiding romantic aspects, people who met through things like dating websites who don't want people to judge (if people/area is mostly affluent they tend to judge that more), or double that if people met through things like sex work, it doesn't have to mean anything bad, but lying about a power dynamic? That part seems sus.
Or people lie bc people make videos about it and then people comment with out knowing like honestly, I'm starting to think everyone wants to infantilize women like it feels everyone thinks young women are too stupid to make a choice on who to date 💀
I feel like the age gap isn't too crazy, but it's VERY strange that they seem really into the fact that they were basically teacher/student,,,, Also. It genuinely makes me SO mad when people post half-naked pics of their children online. Like. Yes. No one should ever view children in a sexual light, any normal person wouldn't. But that doesnt stop predators from being able to see those pics. It makes me even more mad when the parent influencers ignore all the concerned people and just double down. Of course theres always the parasocial defenders who go "there's nothing wrong with what ur doing ❤️😍🫶! Dont listen to the haters!" Weirdos Edit: if you try to argue with someone in the replies I'll automatically assume that the two of you want to kiss (😳). Consider that a warning (?)
Yea I guess they were both consenting adults, but I will automatically judge a 25 year old for dating a 19 year old, because why??? What’s the reason? Why can’t you pull anyone your age group? Are you that desperate? I’m pretty biased, so that’s probably radiating in my comment, but I’m just not keen on large age gaps.
@@danhumphrey8357 oh no I agree. Like, if a 25 year old can't get dates with people their own age and have to aim for younger, more easily influenced people, then I assume they're a weirdo. Ig I just say it's not too crazy bc I'm so used to messed up influencer age gaps being like 20+ years :')
Oh because they know what they're doing and they don't care because $$$$$. But the age gap ain't shit I agree. I have a 6 year age gap between me and my partner rn. I'm 31, he's 37. Gen Z tends to get really weird about age gaps over 2 or 3 years, sometimes I wonder if there is any age in which they feel someone is an adult and is just going to have to make adult mistakes and learn from them or if everything is predatory and bad. Who knows
@@thisisreallystupidhelp Personally I feel that 31 and 37 aren't that bad because you have similar life experience. But 19 and 25 is a large gap due to maturity and life experience. One is out of high-school and presumably finished with their tertiary education as well, while the other is only in their second year of adulthood and has probably just started university.
I think people missed the point about that photo of that baby I had actually been more concerned that predators would be taking that and distributing the picture
It also greatly disturbs me that their fans' defense of the picture was simply, "It's a baby; stop sexualizing it." Like, no, girlies, people who are saying you shouldn't post your naked child are the ones who are worried about literal pedos downloading and distributing the image for their sick pleasure. They're not the ones sexualizing it.
@@blueai5022 heck, even before "those" sites were established pe*o's settled on selling head shots of wannabe child actors ON EBAY, people will go far for access to view someone's child, random/influencer family photos posted online are unfortunately easy pickings so people really should be aware of it.
@@blueai5022 yes omg! it's way more likely that the "its a baby, its fine, theres nothing wrong with photos like this" are the pedos. A pedo wouldn't be warning you about themselves, they'd be your biggest supporter and implore you to keep posting. I doubt that all of the saves photos like that get are from people who just think its a cute picture..
how creepy. i went to a smaller religious school + the same gross thing happened at mine. a male coach ended up marrying a student. i'm not sure of their age gap, but i ended up going to school with their sons. the creepy dad was still a coach at the school + he was a total douche. i was on the track team + he called me thunder thighs in front of my whole co-ed team (this was back when stick thin bodies were "in" so thicc thighs/ booty weren't appreciated like they are now). he also loudly asked me (in front of the whole co-ed team) why i was getting a 2nd plate of pasta at our team meet up. knowing he married a former student of his + hearing him say that stuff about my teenage body was so sickening + upsetting for me. the pasta night actually set off a 15yr battle with EDs for me. sorry for trauma dumping lmao, i just had to share it to show how much i absolutely hate this story. ew. gross.
It’s disgusting that he was able to get away with stuff like that and I hate that he made you feel like it was your eating habits that were the problem and not him being a perverted asshole. I hope you’re doing better now and don’t have to deal with people like him anymore
Wouldn't be surprised if they interacted/were interested in each other before she graduated. You mean to tell me, they were at the same school and JUST happened to start dating once she was 19 lol
Even being curious about being turned on by anything regarding your child or any other child, seek help immediately. Nourishing your child should be separated from adult stuff and always safe for your baby. I’ve fed 2 kids and I’m disgusted she would even try to normalize this *ish*
Yeah I think not enough people are discussing how fucking insane that is for her to say. Imagining herself being turned on by her infant child's very normal behavior of eating is a huge issue. Like massive red flag, go book an appointment with a mental health professional, perhaps you shouldn't be around children kind of issue. Like I'm not about to make accusations, but this, combined with how she refuses to remove the picture of her naked baby, is extremely concerning. Idk but something is extreeeeeeemely suspicious here and I can't believe so many people are just zooming right over how she publicly admitted she wondered if she'd be sexually aroused by her baby.
A lot of women actually stop breast-feeding because it can arouse them. Not because they’re predatory, sometimes it’s just the sensation. It’s a highly traumatic thing for moms to go through and I cannot imagine the pain it would cause to see someone joke about it if it’s something you’ve struggled with. Not all intrusive thoughts need to be shared or laughed at.
@@lees10203 Have you ever breathed a child or infant? Because nothing about that is arousing. It’s uncomfortable. The baby sucks on a large part of your nipple and breast, and sometimes they bite down. Again, if you’re aroused by anything pertaining to any children or your child, you are sick and need to get help immediately.
People and animals died homes were destroyed environments and habitats demolished absolutely horrific but that doesn’t take away from the serious fact that the government definitely could have done this to maui believing the conspiracy doesn’t take away from the clear destruction it just says that it was purposely done to Hawaii not a natural disaster
yeeeeess! and they do it all the time too 😭 like "how did they build the pyramids, its impossible" my guy they stacked big rocks, they even made it easier by making it smaller and smaller as it got taller. It's not rocket science
As someone with OCD I wasn’t “curious” if I would be stimulated by breastfeeding, I was TERRIBLY PARANOID that I would be and I wouldn’t be able to breastfeed my baby. I so was afraid I’d get intrusive thoughts with my baby. I somehow convinced myself I would be a danger to her Breastfeeding her made me dissociate for a long time. Im glad we’re doing good now but Jesus that was hell.
If it’s any consolation, many people who have breastfed told me that shit is actually a lot more painful than you think. There is no way a parent is feeling any sort of sensitivity besides discomfort. I know that doesn’t always rid fear, but hopefully it does ease you a bit
i feel like its one thing having a 6 yr age gap, i really dont care as long as ur both consenting adults, but its the teacher and student thing thats so gross. like the power imbalance is wildddd
it’s still kind of weird for me because while 18 is legally an adult, scientifically, it is still incredibly far from full development. however, science doesn’t change the law so my opinion is just that, an opinion
Also you just know if he has a daughter and she tried to do the same he'd go haywire, I couldn't imagine my future teen daughter dating a for faculty member from her school, weird af
@@serenaisproblemno shit 25 is mid twenties, that doesn’t explain anything though. a 25 year old who never had the chance to attend college, doesn’t party or drink, would really, really be at a wildly different mental age vs a 19 year old who goes to college and has a steady job?
The anti-vax thing makes a lot of sense for them because the whole reason they make certain meals is so it can help her pcos or whatever reproductive disorder she has. She always gave off those “natural remedies are the only solution” vibes. Not justifying but it’s not as surprising as I thought it would be that they subscribe to ideology like that
medicine that alleviates it. If you go to the doctor you essentially just get told all you can do is try and control your hormones via diet/ see a dietitian, and to stay healthy/fit. Though it may seem like a nutcase naturalist approach it’s unfortunately the only medical suggestion that helps is a very specific diet.
I mean the doctors never helped her what else could she do? She turned to natural ways of healing herself and ot worked. Why wouldn't she be a little biased and distrust modern medicine?
The fact is, when you're a grown ass adult dating what basically amounts to a teenager fresh out of high school there is still a power dynamic because one of you has a home, job, savings, etc. and the other does not. To me that still feels like a power dynamic but idk
Absolutely. I think at that age what matters the most is really life stages. If you are at the same life stage, fine. But more often than not the situation is what you mentioned in your post. But say it's a 19 year old that moved out as soon as they turned 18 and has had a job for years. Personally I would find that a lot less sketchy than if the 19yo was still living at home/reliant on their parents.
I’ll say this: her being 19 when they started dating isn’t thaaaaat weird, but the fact that she felt confident enough to message him with the intention of starting a romantic relationship shows me that there has always been at least a little something going on. Wanting to start a romantic relationship with someone who was once, and recently, your teacher doesn’t just come out of nowhere. That’s what makes it weird.
Honestly as someone who is 25 I would never even consider dating someone who is still a teen and even 20/21 because it’s just such a different point in life. The whole thing is weird and he’s known her since she’s 14 and he was literally 20 that’s so wack.
less than 2 minutes in and I'm already triggered by the wedding photo of their tongues just out and about in each other's mouths. I didn't sign up to view that no I did not
thank you so much for talking about the maui wildfire. the town my community grew up in is gone and some people treat it as if many lives haven't been lost due to the fire. people are suffering and there are other people who act like its a joke or don't even know that it happened, so i thank you again for providing donation links and doing what you can to help those in need.
Fr, it's so disrespectful and just plain shitty to turn this into a whole "AI government control" conspiracy. Ppl lost their lives, their families, their businesses, theirs homes to the fires, and ppl treat it like it's " an interesting conspiracy". Like stfu
It's honestly disturbing, considering it's the deadliest wild fire in US history. I'm sorry you were directly impacted by this, and I hope you and your loved ones recover.
I go to school where a teacher and his wife (who he started dating as soon as she dropped out as one of his students) work. He convinced her to drop out. She got her GED, but she never went to college, something she had actively planned on. She works under him at the school. Her entire livelihood relies on him. It’s not healthy, and the power dynamic stays.
I just personally don’t get it……I’m a lesbian. I met a woman, she was STUNNING. Easily the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in person. Heard from a mutual friend she was actually interested in me. Fucking dope…..then I found out she was 19……I’m 30. I instantly lost interest. Why do men and even some other women struggle with this??! It’s technically legal but it’s still creepy af!!!
And the idea that “it’s hard to tell”. Nope, absolutely not. It is extremely easy to tell a TEENAGER from someone my age, even like a 5 year gap is blatantly obvious to me.
@@hello7032 yes, even if you can't tell just by looking at them, it certainly becomes obvious once you start speaking with them... i'm only 22 and the idea of dating someone fresh out of high school gives me the ick.
@@mothmanatee2326 absolutely! I’m 27 and the idea of dating someone even 22 is odd to me. There’s just such drastic differences in a lot of ways(which is fine, there should be!)
Seriously. Teenagers are *children* - no question. And that’s no shade to teenagers. My point is the same as others; teenagers think and act like teenagers. There’s no confusing them with fully grown adults.
I went to a school about their size and i dont believe that she knew NOTHING about him. Attractive young male teachers are a main talking point in a lot of teenage girl circles.
There’s a picture of me as a baby wearing a diaper with a Walkman clipped to it (I’m old okay?). It’s such a cute photo but I was so embarrassed about it being framed when I was younger because my nipples were showing and anyone that came to my house could see it. Now that I’m 31, I don’t see the issue with that photo being framed at home…. But I still wouldn’t want it on SM for just *anyone to see. There’s no way to tell how this baby will feel about her parents posting this photo when she older… but that’s the problem, ya know?
This. We have a similar picture of my son hanging in the living room. If he ever gets embarrassed, we can take it off the wall and nobody will have access to it, that's not possible online. Somebody will most likely screenshot it or something. Especially if the parents have a lot of followers.
A girl from my graduating class married our 8th grade math teacher who was also her HS soccer coach. Still can't wrap my mind around it. They got together not long after we graduated. There's no way he wasn't attracted to her when she was a minor. I remember she had to put out a long fb post defending their relationship 😬
Well in the first tik tok of Rachels she said "debating messaging a teacher on face book after graduation" so either he was at least a "a" teacher, even if not hers specifically, but she must have at least known he existed prior.
This happens way more than you’d like to think at catholic school. Happened at my catholic high school, coach of the field hockey team ended up marrying a girl from my grade. Nobody batted an eye
So weird that a guy who may or may not have groomed his wife while she was in high school doesn’t seem concerned about his daughter being posted online in situations that might be enticing for predators…
It's problematic and gross because she was a student when he was an authority figure, regardless of if she was involved in the sport. It's just as gross simply because of the age gap. Her brain was undeveloped, his was not. Instead of going after someone his age he went for a moldable child who he determined as "fair game."
@@reina8284the age gap was a problem because like the other person said, she was at an age where her brain was not fully developed, and he was at an age where his was. i agree that now it would not be a problem bc they’re both adults
The thing is as I understood, SHE initiated it after graduation when she was 19 and she went after him? I don't see the issue in here. The baby stuff is worrisome for me but their relationship is fairly natural for me. I would go after guys 5, 6 years older than me when I was 15,16 cause I thought boys my age were dumb and immature and I don't like the idea that the 20yo boys I dated when I was 15yo to be considered predators? If she initiated it after graduation when she was 19 then it's a completely normal and acceptable situation and age gap! I didn't see any mention of it happening or him trying anything while she was a student? The baby exposing is bad tho. That I'm not on board with, but the age gap is just like my Mom used to say "looking for hair in an egg shell".
@@brucaritathere is so much wrong with your comment but I just wanted to say that yes there was something wrong with those 20 year olds. Even if you approached them, you were still *LITERAL CHILD* .
To be fair, getting aroused while breastfeeding is a known thing. I've read a lot of studies while doing my master thesis about children-mother relationships, and it's something mothers struggle with a lot because of the shame, yet it has nothing to do with the baby itself. But posting about it randomly, without the context of wanting to educate at how it's something mothers can struggle with is really weird.
thats so disappointing :( my mom and i have PCOS and its affected my life very greatly (im not in the market for pregnancy so i obviously dont relate to her exact struggle) but the idea of a husband helping his partner cope with her PCOS was so sweet to me when I found one of their videos a long time ago on tiktok. really wish they werent weirdos :/ gdi
While we were both adults when we met and started dating, I was 19 and my ex was 24. Me and everyone around me found it normal at the time, but looking back it was super weird. He had finished 4 years in the army and I was in my second year of college after I graduated, barely knew what I was doing with my life. That relationship was super toxic and I always felt inferior to him, and he would use my age against me sometimes.
At my old highschool istg there’s like 4 different teachers/ school officials who got with students. Like I think two of them are married, I cannot believe it’s just being allowed to happen
Literally call the cops. Honestly tho even if someone were to attempt to intervene they've already been groomed sooo much the damage is done and climbing out of that hole is....I'm sending good luck
Depending on your birthday, 19 could easily be JUST out of HS. Summer birthdays make things weird and different kindergartens have different cut off dates.
Side note: I’m from Chicago and my high school was rivals with Marist. That school had so many controversies from horrendous racism and homophobia to students protesting to sudden deaths and now these alums…Not even surprised honestly
My graduating class was about 825 students, and all the classes were about the same (about 2,700 kids total). I went to a 3 year high school (10th to 12th), and there were other students in my class that I never met and saw for the first time at graduation, but I definitely knew all of the teachers.
My graduating class was like 98 students with like 400 students in total and I didn't even know a good portion of the kids who went to my school and there where a few teachers i didnt know But i also didnt really socialize outside of my friend group/grade so
I went to a super small school. Only about 72 kids per grade. My graduating class only had 60 though because it was an advanced program and a lot of the kids didn't keep working hard during the pandemic. Anyway, everyone knew everyone. Especially the teachers. We only had about 10 teachers total so we had them for multiple classes and at least 2 times throughout our high school years.
My teacher lives just across the state line and drives to my state for work because he was banned from teaching in his state for marrying a student but he still teaches like what the heck?
Actually technically the wife did confirm that she knew him based off the very first tiktok that was shown where she was debating messaging her teacher
This situation is concentrated-family channel mess. Nearly everything a family channel could be called-out for, they’re just running through those bases, good lord.
I genuinely shed a tear at the “blink” post caption, I’m sure that this woman likely doesn’t know what it means, but it just shows how little caution she takes when it comes to social media
would you mind explaining what it means? I didn't really understand that part of the video, I tried googling it but I didn't find anything that made sense...
@@emillazarmeszaros she’s saying that he looks Asian while smiling like that (because his eyes squint when smiling big), and she uses a racist slur to describe his smiling expression. Saying he looks Asian when smiling would’ve sounded pretty racist even if she wasn’t using a racial slur too. It’s technically possible she didn’t know it was a slur and maybe only heard it used for smiling eyes before so thought that’s what it meant, nothing to do with race. However, I think she should’ve realised by now if she was truly completely ignorant.
If you’re a native English speaker, how can you not know what that slur means? /gen (as in ‘genuine question’) Like I grew up in a small town and I can assure you people used that slur against me (or used it in the same context that she did) and clearly knew what it meant and that it was derogatory
I don’t know what her birthday is, but I have a fall birthday, so I was 19 in high school. So this could be even creepier. Also, I went to a high school of about 1800 people and bullshit she didn’t know he was a coach while she was there. Everyone knows all the teachers, especially hot young teachers and coaches have to teach classes so she could have had him for health or whatever easy coach class he taught.
I went to a similarly sized high school. If she wasn't into athletics it might be possible she never had a conversation with him. But there's no way she wouldn't have known who he was when connecting later. She'd at least know his name and face
There’s a lot of parents online and especially tiktok/Instagram who know exactly who’s saving and favoriting weird videos of their kids and babies and do it on purpose. It’s disgusting and sad
There was another tiktok where they did a blind milk taste test with college kids and one of the milks was her breastmilk. The college kids did not consent to that. The video was deleted.
In a similar vein, a coach at our hs messaged a friend of mine after we graduated trying to hook up with her while we knew he had a whole wife and child. She thankfully turned him down and exposed his ass and he got fired but I fear how many girls he might’ve done that too in the past
Yeah because telling a pedophile that sexualizing children is disgusting is going to end all child attraction… people really just don’t think things through. WE’RE not the ones viewing children sexually, but we ARE acknowledging that there are people who are going to that regardless.
This EXACT thing happened at my high school, he was a boys coach so he wasn’t HER coach and they started dating after she graduated. And you know what my school did? THEY FIRED HIM rightfully so because it’s gross and wrong
The age gap doesn’t bother me. but the teacher student relationship does. Not only is it illegal to date students (regardless of their age) but it is also unprofessional and gross. A 6 year age gap between adults isn’t really that surprising or unusual, to me it’s kind of meh. but 6 years between a teenager and am adult is weird, especially because I can guarantee that they were talking before she was 19 or 18. to put it in perspective, imagine being a TEACHER who worked at a school and a student who’s been there since she was 14 asks you out… that’s super weird and uncomfortable and I’d immediately say no!
I mean you definitely can’t guarantee they were talking before she was 18 and if they did know each other then it’s super weird. But coaches aren’t always teachers. My school had ~600 people total in our high school and the there were coaches that weren’t teachers. At bigger schools that’s more likely to happen as well because they have more resources. Most people knew the coaches but it was like 1/3 the size of their school
I had a teacher from my old high school and her boyfriend proposition me while I was wearing an old school sweatshirt when I was 18 or 19. I was at a concert and she was super pumped about the fact that I went to her school. I wish I had gotten her name to report her, because she didn't even ask my age and she very well thought I was a student. So effing creepy. She wanted to buy me drinks, too
The way this happened at my school. Teacher was married, had kids, and then dated a girl who was his student after she graduated. Hes now married to her and has kids with her as well, and its so. Weird. Not to mention he was just the worst math teacher ever
This stuff happens and it is so gross. At my high school, a girl from my graduating class ended up dating our health/gym teacher a little after graduating and ended up getting married and having kids. Another teacher (English studies) was married, ended up dating a senior student and got divorced. They didn't stay together. But it made me feel like a lot of the young male teachers were just predators after that.
Dude this whole coach ends up dating a student thing is so weirdly common. I know two from my highschool alone. One was actually only a year age gap and they got married. the other was the soccer coach Rory (who I believe was associated with Chicago Red Stars?) and that’s was v gross.
Its always the coaches 😂 ours didn't date them but he would make the early developed girls ALWAYS do an example of what he wanted us to do. The crazy thing is, even though we were 14-16 we were all fully aware why he did it and were so uncomfortable.
When I was 18 and just joined dating apps my freshman year wrestling coach (of which I was the only afab person on the team) liked me and sent a message that said "wow youve grown a lot 😉" super weird shit fr
This literally happened with my friend and our high school track coach except he was considerably older🤢 there were other faculty members at/in their wedding it was so gross
I have to imagine that the space lazer maui thing is connected to the anti-semitic space lazer conspiracy theory. at this point it wouldn't surprise me tbh
The girl in my high school dated our soccer coach after we graduated. Ended up getting married and having three kids. She was always chasing him too. They're divorced now.
There was a girl at my high school that started dating a coach when she was a senior. Every one could tell they were dating. When she graduated she started bringing him to our parties which was super awkward because most of us were still in school and he was still a coach/teacher there 😂😂. They got married, had 2 girls and were married for almost 20 years. They divorced a couple years ago.
In my high school theres a teacher who isn’t allowed to any dances or proms because he cheated on his partner with a student and kissed them during their prom. They now have a child together and pretty much every one calls him a creep (I have no idea how he’s not fired)
There is a girl who went to my high school who ended up dating our gym teacher (he was in college already for a few years and was helping out) and she dated him when she was a senior and now they are engaged
So! They're conservatives with weird conservative views why they're hiding it online is wild but I was on team it's just a baby get over it AND THEN SHE SAID THAT! Breastfeeding is literally feeding. We out here trying to get people to see it's not sexual and she took it there.
6 years isn't that weird, normally. i'm 6 years older than my partner now. except we started dating when they were like 25, not 19. and i _didn't used to be their high school teacher._ when **i** was 19, i got into a really messed up relationship with a 30 year old and THAT sure messed me up. context matters lol.
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11:00 Fellow Illinoisian, I can back that up. The health teacher was the football coach, history teacher was the women's basketball coach, Spanish teacher was the track coach.... I don't think there was a single coach there that wasn't also a teacher. I live rural and idk where this person went to school, but that is a really common thing, especially in rural communities.
I saw they went to a catholic high school and was immediately reminded of this girl from a catholic family that I went to college with who was the youngest in our program and turned 21 about halfway through. She had a boyfriend that, iirc, she met when she was 19 and he was like 30. I would also be interested in seeing if they continue to feature their daughter so heavily when she isn’t a cute little baby they can carry around and use like a prop anymore
19:43 Just a quick fact check: Half of America being republican is a common misconception. The reason so many southern states (which are actually much more racially diverse than most northern states. There are actually more sundown towns in the north than the south.) is because of gerrymandering and voter suppression. Not trying to nitpick, just thought I'd mention it as someone who's from TN.
There was a girl on my water polo team that dated the coach (he was mainly the boys coach but he was the girls coach for the time in question).. she was barely 18 and still a student at the time. He was over 25, I believe. I was the only one who found this deeply disturbing at the time. They aren't together anymore, thak goodness.
I think tossing out a Logic style “Who can relate?” After saying something deeply unrelatable is one of my new favorite things
who can relate is based
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@@YuqiBearI FEEL LIKE IM OUT OF MY MIND
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WHO CAN RELATE?
At first I was going to comment that a 6 year age gap between adults is not a big deal, but then the story kept getting weirder and weirder? She was in high school? The hashtag? The conspiracy?? The racism??? Literally everything else??? What the actual fuck???
if she dated a 13 yr old i think people might have an issue with that
@reckless_herb hey can you clarify which part of my comment you're referring to? If we're talking about the 6 year age gap, then that's why I specified that between adults, it wouldn't be a big deal. Things get different at younger ages though
the age gap is weird bc theres a huge gap in maturity between 19yr olds and 25 yr olds
@@vxx3576 i’m putting emphasis on emotional maturity difference, not the laws. law ≠ morality
@@littleclownfrosty the age gap. 19 yr olds are still basically children. 19 is SUPER YOUNG. things change when they’re young, that means it changes when someone is 19
Want some tea: my mom bought me their book because I have PCOS and Amazon refunded us saying it was a fraudulent version of the book even though it was from their official link and such. Not actually tea but let me have my moment.
what?? thats so weird!
Omg that account from 2 years ago. I have pcos too I’m surprised
I wonder if maybe they bought a book off Amazon and rearranged it and gave it a new title
Oooh the tea is HOT 🥵
I heard all the pcos stuff they use is like mommy blog info at best but im no doctor what do i know
graduated high school in rural Ohio in 2006 and there were SO MANY teacher/student abuse scandals that weren't really framed as abuse so much as they were framed as scandals
@Pistachios36because it’s normalized
At my school was never really a student, and teacher situation. It was more of a older teacher with a lot younger teachers aid situations. They were all adults, but I was friends with this girl, and her dad was dating my class teachers aid. There was a 17-20 age gap, and then another teachers aid was in a relationship with the principal with a 20-25 age gap. Yeah that was a crazy story, and she was married and so was he. The first two I mentioned were both single before the relationship. Both women were on there early 20s
I graduated in 2020 and same, there was one specific teacher who was kinda notorious for cheating with their students, teacher in question had been doing it for at least 7 years and nothing was ever done about it until the year i graduated which was their last year apparently but I haven’t been back to see if that was true
Grew up in rural Ohio and graduated a few years ago, and it’s STILL happening. Finding out your fav teacher/role model is dating one of their students, possibly before they graduated, is absolutely world shattering.
Yeah that happened at my school to with one of my classmates and a teacher
Personally, I don't think you can be an internet famous couple and not be weird. Being a normal couple and making couple content are just incongruous concepts
Yeah, n9body would watch
Jenna Marbles and Julien Solomita were a *great* internet couple.
cody and kelsey ko 😊
@@alexwyatt2911exactly and Jaclyn and David. This comment is ehhhh
theres Aileen and Deven, they just post funny tiktoks
using the recent tragedy in Maui as some sort of IG bait is so heartless. People lost their homes, lives and livelihoods. Hate the government all you want but have the decency to no use Maui as ammunition.
People and animals died homes were destroyed environments and habitats demolished absolutely horrific but that doesn’t take away from the serious fact that the government definitely could have done this to maui believing the conspiracy doesn’t take away from the clear destruction it just says that it was purposely done to Hawaii not a natural disaster
especially since native hawaiians get absolutely no support from the us government
I'm Croatian and my mother believes that bs. I fkn died inside when she told me
@@rayraymind😞 The government’s basically driving out the native people in favor of tourists and rich people. Edit: It’a just too expensive to live in Hawaii now
Using SA to promote your drama reaction yourube channel is fucked up too
them posting their baby like that feels even worse knowing the weird comments they’ve made about being possibly turned on by breastfeeding & talking ab their daughter being conceived via backshots… not accusing them of anything but i’m worried about the environment that child is being brought into
Wtf, I really hope more laws come about about social media people posting and using their children for content. It's gonna be really weird for this generation's kids being able to look back and see their parents having no filter
@@Shyknit agreed! it’s gross and i’m tired of the notion that legality = morality but it seems as if something is legal people will continue to use that as an excuse
Edit: I shouldn’t have commented before finishing the video those people are way more messed up than I thought
I still think the strange sex comments are negligible (not the ones including their child), but they’re definitely exploiting that kid.
also the pic of her & her baby naked i went to look and the caption is “starting the weekend with some cake” like…
if u think "its so hot my child was made through backshots and i find it hot when my wife breast feeds her!" is okay, u need to get some fuckin help.
The irony of them believing all these right wing conspiracies, but not being concerned at all about posting naked pictures of their baby is wild to me. Like, isn’t that one of the biggest talking points, that anyone and everyone is out to get your children? There’s definitely creeps out there, that’s pretty undeniable, so why is that the one they’re not worried about?
nick should’ve put a trigger warning for the scary shirt 😢
yea...it was so scary ☹️☹️
I’m quivering in my boots
I almost got a heart attack, had to drink hot tea and cry on my blanket to calm myself down.
I'm traumatized and went to therapy because of Nick's shirt. I don't think I'll ever recover from this.
Ikr, I would've clicked off but now I'm gonna have nightmares about Nick's growl with that shirt.. sent chills down my spine.
its not about the obvious fact that babies shouldn't be sexualized, its about the fact that they COULD be, and i would feel really hurt to grow up and find my parents didnt choose to protect me from that.
Nick wearing scary shirt makes him 10x more terrifying, he's so OP he needs to be nerfed
Quench your toes 😭😭😭
maybe you hear this a lot but BRO YOU ARE EVERY FUCKING WHERE BC WHY DO WE WATCH ALL THE SAME PEOPLE ALL THE TIME
@@SUNFLOWERDAISYROSEim deadd
My Timbers are shivered😔
It’s nurf or nothing
A six year age gap would make it literally impossible for them to be students in High School at the same time…
YES I COULDNT GET OVER THIS! How can you even claim to “meet as students???”
Eh it is possible that someone stayed back a few years. I knew some people like that. Not that I believe these particular people in their story.
I have PCOS that affects me greatly and have simply ADORED this couple for years. I always hoped I'd get a partner like Tom... this is my first time seeing this bc I'm not the type of fan to dig into a creator's personal life, and it's heartbreaking to have the facade crack
@@InedibleOlivePolyCystic Ovary Syndrome - messes with women's hormones.
Fr, I loved their relationship and thought they were a wholesome couple🥲
Same, their content is tainted now
Maybe you should dig into the personal lives of online strangers you "adore"
I also thought they were really wholesome!
I never know if people using their parents as an example to argue age gaps (big ones often with a disgusting power dynamic) aren't predatory makes me wanna laugh or cry.
People talking about the age gaps in their parents etc lead to me almost cheering when my grandparents told me they met when they were both in college
If someone’s parents are happily married, then great for them. However, that doesn’t prove that age gap relationships are healthy, normal, or okay. Also, it’s doubtful that children truly know the intimate dynamics of their parents’ marriage. Plenty of people just cope. And that works great until it doesn’t. The bottom can fall out at anytime.
@@gracel2martMy parents were born three days apart lol
Yeah my bsf’s grandparents met when he was 21 and she was 14 and she was pregnant shortly thereafter 😢. She had 3 kids with this man before she was in her mid-20’s. At least she got through grad school. Apparently (to no one’s surprise) she wasnt very connected to her children and was known for being cold and distant with them. My bsf says she doesn’t doubt her grandpa loved her grandma but she doesnt like to think about their relationship.
@@abigailchristenson388stories like that are so sad. Her teen and young adult years were literally taken from her by some weird older dude that’s heartbreaking.
The fact that people think the Lahaina fires is a goddamn conspiracy theory tf???? I’m sorry were your friends and family running for their lives, jumping into the Harbour to survive?? That makes me sooooo mad Maui is my HOME not a CONSPIRACY
I’m so sorry this happened, I hope you and your community can build up and get through this! Remember: you’re awesome AND you matter
I audibly gasped when he said "the first conspiracy theory" was about the fires. Absolutely horrible to spread misinformation about such a tragedy. Especially when you have that large of an audience.
The conspiracy is not that it didn’t happen. The conspiracy is that it was an intentional as opposed to a natural disaster.
to give her the _only_ credit she's due here, the conspiracy wasn't 'the fires didn't happen,' it was 'the fires happened, but they were a false flag attack by **shakes magic 8-ball** the united states, carried out via **throws dart at dartboard** top secret laser satellites with the goal of **rolls dice** making oprah richer.'
it's arguably more offensive, bc we _know_ what caused the fire (privatized electrical utilities crumbling away) and frankly yeah, the rich WILL likely profit off this so just pour more salt in the wound, lady.
tim pool said the same thing (space lasers started the fire) only he blamed china. she fits in with the right wing nutjobs, complaining about how all lgbt ppl are pedophiles while living like _this_
If you feel you have to lie about how you met then you must know that your relationship started off in a bad way. Also, that Maui fire theory is one of the wildest reaches I've ever seen.
Eh, there are contexts like queer people hiding romantic aspects, people who met through things like dating websites who don't want people to judge (if people/area is mostly affluent they tend to judge that more), or double that if people met through things like sex work, it doesn't have to mean anything bad, but lying about a power dynamic? That part seems sus.
Or people lie bc people make videos about it and then people comment with out knowing like honestly, I'm starting to think everyone wants to infantilize women like it feels everyone thinks young women are too stupid to make a choice on who to date 💀
I feel like the age gap isn't too crazy, but it's VERY strange that they seem really into the fact that they were basically teacher/student,,,,
Also. It genuinely makes me SO mad when people post half-naked pics of their children online. Like. Yes. No one should ever view children in a sexual light, any normal person wouldn't. But that doesnt stop predators from being able to see those pics.
It makes me even more mad when the parent influencers ignore all the concerned people and just double down. Of course theres always the parasocial defenders who go "there's nothing wrong with what ur doing ❤️😍🫶! Dont listen to the haters!"
Weirdos
Edit: if you try to argue with someone in the replies I'll automatically assume that the two of you want to kiss (😳). Consider that a warning (?)
Yea I guess they were both consenting adults, but I will automatically judge a 25 year old for dating a 19 year old, because why??? What’s the reason? Why can’t you pull anyone your age group? Are you that desperate? I’m pretty biased, so that’s probably radiating in my comment, but I’m just not keen on large age gaps.
@@danhumphrey8357 oh no I agree. Like, if a 25 year old can't get dates with people their own age and have to aim for younger, more easily influenced people, then I assume they're a weirdo. Ig I just say it's not too crazy bc I'm so used to messed up influencer age gaps being like 20+ years :')
Oh because they know what they're doing and they don't care because $$$$$. But the age gap ain't shit I agree. I have a 6 year age gap between me and my partner rn. I'm 31, he's 37. Gen Z tends to get really weird about age gaps over 2 or 3 years, sometimes I wonder if there is any age in which they feel someone is an adult and is just going to have to make adult mistakes and learn from them or if everything is predatory and bad. Who knows
@@thisisreallystupidhelp Personally I feel that 31 and 37 aren't that bad because you have similar life experience. But 19 and 25 is a large gap due to maturity and life experience. One is out of high-school and presumably finished with their tertiary education as well, while the other is only in their second year of adulthood and has probably just started university.
Bruh she was 19 and he was 25 thats nasty asf .
As someone who’s family was affected by the Maui fires, to hear that there are “conspiracy theories” on our tragedy is fucking vile!
hope you & your family are doing ok! 🫂💗
You should be mad at the people who did this to your family. It's not a conspiracy
@@insightful-fg6so End it.
I think people missed the point about that photo of that baby I had actually been more concerned that predators would be taking that and distributing the picture
the fact that she’s more concerned about proving an argument over the safety of her baby is disgusting
It also greatly disturbs me that their fans' defense of the picture was simply, "It's a baby; stop sexualizing it." Like, no, girlies, people who are saying you shouldn't post your naked child are the ones who are worried about literal pedos downloading and distributing the image for their sick pleasure. They're not the ones sexualizing it.
@@blueai5022 heck, even before "those" sites were established pe*o's settled on selling head shots of wannabe child actors ON EBAY, people will go far for access to view someone's child, random/influencer family photos posted online are unfortunately easy pickings so people really should be aware of it.
And I fail to see how they don't see what's wrong with the picture when the picture is clearly a "my babies" "joke"
@@blueai5022 yes omg! it's way more likely that the "its a baby, its fine, theres nothing wrong with photos like this" are the pedos. A pedo wouldn't be warning you about themselves, they'd be your biggest supporter and implore you to keep posting. I doubt that all of the saves photos like that get are from people who just think its a cute picture..
how creepy. i went to a smaller religious school + the same gross thing happened at mine. a male coach ended up marrying a student. i'm not sure of their age gap, but i ended up going to school with their sons. the creepy dad was still a coach at the school + he was a total douche. i was on the track team + he called me thunder thighs in front of my whole co-ed team (this was back when stick thin bodies were "in" so thicc thighs/ booty weren't appreciated like they are now). he also loudly asked me (in front of the whole co-ed team) why i was getting a 2nd plate of pasta at our team meet up. knowing he married a former student of his + hearing him say that stuff about my teenage body was so sickening + upsetting for me. the pasta night actually set off a 15yr battle with EDs for me. sorry for trauma dumping lmao, i just had to share it to show how much i absolutely hate this story. ew. gross.
that is so gross and i’m so sorry that happened to you!
It’s disgusting that he was able to get away with stuff like that and I hate that he made you feel like it was your eating habits that were the problem and not him being a perverted asshole. I hope you’re doing better now and don’t have to deal with people like him anymore
if they feel the need to lie/not tell the whole truth, they know the truth isnt great.
Wouldn't be surprised if they interacted/were interested in each other before she graduated. You mean to tell me, they were at the same school and JUST happened to start dating once she was 19 lol
Fr its so odd wouldn't be surprised if they were dating while she was in school
Why would she message a random teacher fresh out of hs to me obviously they had to know each other beforehand 💀
Let’s also acknowledge the baby picture has almost 2x more likes than any of her other posts 🤢
I don't even want to know how many saves
nick let me out of his basement so i could watch this. thanks nick!
luckyy
dam, i'm still in the attic
Lucky
Lucky, I’m still in the cupboard
Lucky, I’m still in the freezer
Even being curious about being turned on by anything regarding your child or any other child, seek help immediately. Nourishing your child should be separated from adult stuff and always safe for your baby. I’ve fed 2 kids and I’m disgusted she would even try to normalize this *ish*
Yeah I think not enough people are discussing how fucking insane that is for her to say. Imagining herself being turned on by her infant child's very normal behavior of eating is a huge issue. Like massive red flag, go book an appointment with a mental health professional, perhaps you shouldn't be around children kind of issue. Like I'm not about to make accusations, but this, combined with how she refuses to remove the picture of her naked baby, is extremely concerning. Idk but something is extreeeeeeemely suspicious here and I can't believe so many people are just zooming right over how she publicly admitted she wondered if she'd be sexually aroused by her baby.
Yeah this really weirded me out
A lot of women actually stop breast-feeding because it can arouse them. Not because they’re predatory, sometimes it’s just the sensation. It’s a highly traumatic thing for moms to go through and I cannot imagine the pain it would cause to see someone joke about it if it’s something you’ve struggled with. Not all intrusive thoughts need to be shared or laughed at.
@@lees10203 Have you ever breathed a child or infant? Because nothing about that is arousing. It’s uncomfortable. The baby sucks on a large part of your nipple and breast, and sometimes they bite down. Again, if you’re aroused by anything pertaining to any children or your child, you are sick and need to get help immediately.
ill never understand why people instantly go to theories about stuff when the logical answer is RIGHT THERE?! 😭
People and animals died homes were destroyed environments and habitats demolished absolutely horrific but that doesn’t take away from the serious fact that the government definitely could have done this to maui believing the conspiracy doesn’t take away from the clear destruction it just says that it was purposely done to Hawaii not a natural disaster
It's because they are idiots with too much time on their hands
yeeeeess! and they do it all the time too 😭 like "how did they build the pyramids, its impossible" my guy they stacked big rocks, they even made it easier by making it smaller and smaller as it got taller. It's not rocket science
@@ciciamanda.Not necessarily, it’s actually really cool the more you look into it! The amount of effort and thought
It’s an ego thing, it’s very strange.
As someone with OCD I wasn’t “curious” if I would be stimulated by breastfeeding, I was TERRIBLY PARANOID that I would be and I wouldn’t be able to breastfeed my baby. I so was afraid I’d get intrusive thoughts with my baby. I somehow convinced myself I would be a danger to her Breastfeeding her made me dissociate for a long time. Im glad we’re doing good now but Jesus that was hell.
If it’s any consolation, many people who have breastfed told me that shit is actually a lot more painful than you think. There is no way a parent is feeling any sort of sensitivity besides discomfort. I know that doesn’t always rid fear, but hopefully it does ease you a bit
i feel like its one thing having a 6 yr age gap, i really dont care as long as ur both consenting adults, but its the teacher and student thing thats so gross. like the power imbalance is wildddd
it’s still kind of weird for me because while 18 is legally an adult, scientifically, it is still incredibly far from full development. however, science doesn’t change the law so my opinion is just that, an opinion
idk i truly believe he knew her when she was still in high school...and ofc they wouldn't say that because why would they expose themselves
Also you just know if he has a daughter and she tried to do the same he'd go haywire, I couldn't imagine my future teen daughter dating a for faculty member from her school, weird af
19 and 25 year olds are veryyyy different mentally as well. One person’s still a teenager and the other’s in their mid-twenties. Gross
@@serenaisproblemno shit 25 is mid twenties, that doesn’t explain anything though. a 25 year old who never had the chance to attend college, doesn’t party or drink, would really, really be at a wildly different mental age vs a 19 year old who goes to college and has a steady job?
The anti-vax thing makes a lot of sense for them because the whole reason they make certain meals is so it can help her pcos or whatever reproductive disorder she has. She always gave off those “natural remedies are the only solution” vibes. Not justifying but it’s not as surprising as I thought it would be that they subscribe to ideology like that
medicine that alleviates it. If you go to the doctor you essentially just get told all you can do is try and control your hormones via diet/ see a dietitian, and to stay healthy/fit. Though it may seem like a nutcase naturalist approach it’s unfortunately the only medical suggestion that helps is a very specific diet.
Half my reply cut off- essentially just said that PCOS has no cure and no medicine to help with symptoms.
I mean the doctors never helped her what else could she do? She turned to natural ways of healing herself and ot worked. Why wouldn't she be a little biased and distrust modern medicine?
The fact is, when you're a grown ass adult dating what basically amounts to a teenager fresh out of high school there is still a power dynamic because one of you has a home, job, savings, etc. and the other does not. To me that still feels like a power dynamic but idk
Yeah its just one of those things where maybe it isn't inherently bad but that power dynamic can easily be abused and that is the issue.
Absolutely. I think at that age what matters the most is really life stages. If you are at the same life stage, fine. But more often than not the situation is what you mentioned in your post. But say it's a 19 year old that moved out as soon as they turned 18 and has had a job for years. Personally I would find that a lot less sketchy than if the 19yo was still living at home/reliant on their parents.
You have a home at 25?
Who the fuck has a home at 25 tho
Or like savings???
I’ll say this: her being 19 when they started dating isn’t thaaaaat weird, but the fact that she felt confident enough to message him with the intention of starting a romantic relationship shows me that there has always been at least a little something going on. Wanting to start a romantic relationship with someone who was once, and recently, your teacher doesn’t just come out of nowhere. That’s what makes it weird.
Honestly as someone who is 25 I would never even consider dating someone who is still a teen and even 20/21 because it’s just such a different point in life. The whole thing is weird and he’s known her since she’s 14 and he was literally 20 that’s so wack.
less than 2 minutes in and I'm already triggered by the wedding photo of their tongues just out and about in each other's mouths. I didn't sign up to view that no I did not
Same 🫠 TW NICK PLS 🗣️
And him grabbing her neck like that 🤢
Idk why this comment isn't higher up 😭
Same wheres the censor bar
Family channels/family influencers always struck me as low-key creepy... not surprised this lady posted something sexual about her own baby. Tsk tsk.
thank you so much for talking about the maui wildfire. the town my community grew up in is gone and some people treat it as if many lives haven't been lost due to the fire. people are suffering and there are other people who act like its a joke or don't even know that it happened, so i thank you again for providing donation links and doing what you can to help those in need.
Fr, it's so disrespectful and just plain shitty to turn this into a whole "AI government control" conspiracy. Ppl lost their lives, their families, their businesses, theirs homes to the fires, and ppl treat it like it's " an interesting conspiracy". Like stfu
It's honestly disturbing, considering it's the deadliest wild fire in US history. I'm sorry you were directly impacted by this, and I hope you and your loved ones recover.
I go to school where a teacher and his wife (who he started dating as soon as she dropped out as one of his students) work. He convinced her to drop out. She got her GED, but she never went to college, something she had actively planned on. She works under him at the school. Her entire livelihood relies on him. It’s not healthy, and the power dynamic stays.
that’s so scary
@@chkingvictim it’s horrible to see. She’s never in a good mood, and I wish the best for her.
I just personally don’t get it……I’m a lesbian. I met a woman, she was STUNNING. Easily the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in person. Heard from a mutual friend she was actually interested in me. Fucking dope…..then I found out she was 19……I’m 30. I instantly lost interest. Why do men and even some other women struggle with this??! It’s technically legal but it’s still creepy af!!!
And the idea that “it’s hard to tell”. Nope, absolutely not. It is extremely easy to tell a TEENAGER from someone my age, even like a 5 year gap is blatantly obvious to me.
@@hello7032 yes, even if you can't tell just by looking at them, it certainly becomes obvious once you start speaking with them... i'm only 22 and the idea of dating someone fresh out of high school gives me the ick.
@@gotmilkbutt no if they met at these ages we're talking teens and grown adults
@@mothmanatee2326 absolutely! I’m 27 and the idea of dating someone even 22 is odd to me. There’s just such drastic differences in a lot of ways(which is fine, there should be!)
Seriously. Teenagers are *children* - no question. And that’s no shade to teenagers. My point is the same as others; teenagers think and act like teenagers. There’s no confusing them with fully grown adults.
I went to a school about their size and i dont believe that she knew NOTHING about him. Attractive young male teachers are a main talking point in a lot of teenage girl circles.
The breastfeeding post seems like something you'd see on Whisper, not a public Instagram account
It's insane to me that parents (influencers especially) don't understand how insane some people are online. Never post your kid naked.
you probably shouldn’t even post your kid at all
@@kailee_c that too. But bare minimum, never post them naked
There’s a picture of me as a baby wearing a diaper with a Walkman clipped to it (I’m old okay?). It’s such a cute photo but I was so embarrassed about it being framed when I was younger because my nipples were showing and anyone that came to my house could see it.
Now that I’m 31, I don’t see the issue with that photo being framed at home…. But I still wouldn’t want it on SM for just *anyone to see.
There’s no way to tell how this baby will feel about her parents posting this photo when she older… but that’s the problem, ya know?
Also I told my parents that I was embarrassed about the photo being on display, and they immediately took it down. :)
They’re good people ❤
This. We have a similar picture of my son hanging in the living room. If he ever gets embarrassed, we can take it off the wall and nobody will have access to it, that's not possible online. Somebody will most likely screenshot it or something. Especially if the parents have a lot of followers.
A girl from my graduating class married our 8th grade math teacher who was also her HS soccer coach. Still can't wrap my mind around it. They got together not long after we graduated. There's no way he wasn't attracted to her when she was a minor. I remember she had to put out a long fb post defending their relationship 😬
I love the inclusion of “intimate chapel” bc I went to a Catholic school of similar size in the area and all anyone used our chapel for was to hook up
Well in the first tik tok of Rachels she said "debating messaging a teacher on face book after graduation" so either he was at least a "a" teacher, even if not hers specifically, but she must have at least known he existed prior.
This happens way more than you’d like to think at catholic school.
Happened at my catholic high school, coach of the field hockey team ended up marrying a girl from my grade.
Nobody batted an eye
So weird that a guy who may or may not have groomed his wife while she was in high school doesn’t seem concerned about his daughter being posted online in situations that might be enticing for predators…
It's problematic and gross because she was a student when he was an authority figure, regardless of if she was involved in the sport. It's just as gross simply because of the age gap.
Her brain was undeveloped, his was not. Instead of going after someone his age he went for a moldable child who he determined as "fair game."
obviously her brain is still underdeveloped since she said that shit about maui
@@reina8284the age gap was a problem because like the other person said, she was at an age where her brain was not fully developed, and he was at an age where his was. i agree that now it would not be a problem bc they’re both adults
@@reina8284 honestly yea maybe but it’s hard to change laws lol. so this is more of a morally wrong issue.
The thing is as I understood, SHE initiated it after graduation when she was 19 and she went after him? I don't see the issue in here. The baby stuff is worrisome for me but their relationship is fairly natural for me. I would go after guys 5, 6 years older than me when I was 15,16 cause I thought boys my age were dumb and immature and I don't like the idea that the 20yo boys I dated when I was 15yo to be considered predators? If she initiated it after graduation when she was 19 then it's a completely normal and acceptable situation and age gap! I didn't see any mention of it happening or him trying anything while she was a student? The baby exposing is bad tho. That I'm not on board with, but the age gap is just like my Mom used to say "looking for hair in an egg shell".
@@brucaritathere is so much wrong with your comment but I just wanted to say that yes there was something wrong with those 20 year olds. Even if you approached them, you were still *LITERAL CHILD* .
To be fair, getting aroused while breastfeeding is a known thing. I've read a lot of studies while doing my master thesis about children-mother relationships, and it's something mothers struggle with a lot because of the shame, yet it has nothing to do with the baby itself. But posting about it randomly, without the context of wanting to educate at how it's something mothers can struggle with is really weird.
thats so disappointing :( my mom and i have PCOS and its affected my life very greatly (im not in the market for pregnancy so i obviously dont relate to her exact struggle) but the idea of a husband helping his partner cope with her PCOS was so sweet to me when I found one of their videos a long time ago on tiktok. really wish they werent weirdos :/ gdi
i never followed them but admired their mission so much, this was probably the first time i said "NOOO" when nick revealed who he was talking about 😭
@@angelaoriel5912 I usually don't know infLueNcEr cOupLes but this one hurt lol
While we were both adults when we met and started dating, I was 19 and my ex was 24. Me and everyone around me found it normal at the time, but looking back it was super weird. He had finished 4 years in the army and I was in my second year of college after I graduated, barely knew what I was doing with my life. That relationship was super toxic and I always felt inferior to him, and he would use my age against me sometimes.
At my old highschool istg there’s like 4 different teachers/ school officials who got with students. Like I think two of them are married, I cannot believe it’s just being allowed to happen
Literally call the cops. Honestly tho even if someone were to attempt to intervene they've already been groomed sooo much the damage is done and climbing out of that hole is....I'm sending good luck
making theories while people are losing everything and dying is INSANE.
This is the least scary Nick has ever been definitely
wdym hes terrifying. quaking in my boots rn
@@wahoodotwav Same im now scarred for life
Never been scared waiting for the next
Depending on your birthday, 19 could easily be JUST out of HS. Summer birthdays make things weird and different kindergartens have different cut off dates.
the breastfeeding thing actually made me feel so sick 😭😭
The fact they began dating IMMEDIATELY after HS means it's probably not "25 and 19", but "22 and 16". The breastfeeding but is just-
nick never fails to entertainingly introduce me to some shit i’d never see nor care about otherwise
Side note: I’m from Chicago and my high school was rivals with Marist. That school had so many controversies from horrendous racism and homophobia to students protesting to sudden deaths and now these alums…Not even surprised honestly
My graduating class was about 825 students, and all the classes were about the same (about 2,700 kids total). I went to a 3 year high school (10th to 12th), and there were other students in my class that I never met and saw for the first time at graduation, but I definitely knew all of the teachers.
Same! Mine was about 2,000 kids, and I definitly knew the all the teachers.
My graduating class was like 98 students with like 400 students in total and I didn't even know a good portion of the kids who went to my school and there where a few teachers i didnt know
But i also didnt really socialize outside of my friend group/grade so
I went to a super small school. Only about 72 kids per grade. My graduating class only had 60 though because it was an advanced program and a lot of the kids didn't keep working hard during the pandemic. Anyway, everyone knew everyone. Especially the teachers. We only had about 10 teachers total so we had them for multiple classes and at least 2 times throughout our high school years.
25 is really young to be a full fledged teacher. He more likely was a coach and some sort of para pro or teachers aid
@@tarettime9392 not really. If you go to college at 18, depending on the state. It def takes less than 7 years.
My teacher lives just across the state line and drives to my state for work because he was banned from teaching in his state for marrying a student but he still teaches like what the heck?
so glad these are posted so often‼️‼️ I cannot keep up with drama so these are very appreciated
Actually technically the wife did confirm that she knew him based off the very first tiktok that was shown where she was debating messaging her teacher
EXACTLY!!!!
This situation is concentrated-family channel mess. Nearly everything a family channel could be called-out for, they’re just running through those bases, good lord.
I genuinely shed a tear at the “blink” post caption, I’m sure that this woman likely doesn’t know what it means, but it just shows how little caution she takes when it comes to social media
would you mind explaining what it means? I didn't really understand that part of the video, I tried googling it but I didn't find anything that made sense...
@@emillazarmeszarosif this is the ch*nk one, it's a slur against Asian, specifically Chinese, people
@@emillazarmeszarosthe post didn't actually say blink, if you go back in the video you'll see she wrote an old racial slur against East Asians 😵💫
@@emillazarmeszaros she’s saying that he looks Asian while smiling like that (because his eyes squint when smiling big), and she uses a racist slur to describe his smiling expression. Saying he looks Asian when smiling would’ve sounded pretty racist even if she wasn’t using a racial slur too.
It’s technically possible she didn’t know it was a slur and maybe only heard it used for smiling eyes before so thought that’s what it meant, nothing to do with race. However, I think she should’ve realised by now if she was truly completely ignorant.
If you’re a native English speaker, how can you not know what that slur means? /gen (as in ‘genuine question’)
Like I grew up in a small town and I can assure you people used that slur against me (or used it in the same context that she did) and clearly knew what it meant and that it was derogatory
I don’t know what her birthday is, but I have a fall birthday, so I was 19 in high school. So this could be even creepier.
Also, I went to a high school of about 1800 people and bullshit she didn’t know he was a coach while she was there. Everyone knows all the teachers, especially hot young teachers and coaches have to teach classes so she could have had him for health or whatever easy coach class he taught.
For I'd understand if it was English cause there would prolly be a lot but a coach? There's prolly like only one or two
Facts lol
Their birthdays were in the video. She's a may baby.
I went to a similarly sized high school. If she wasn't into athletics it might be possible she never had a conversation with him. But there's no way she wouldn't have known who he was when connecting later. She'd at least know his name and face
There’s a lot of parents online and especially tiktok/Instagram who know exactly who’s saving and favoriting weird videos of their kids and babies and do it on purpose. It’s disgusting and sad
There was another tiktok where they did a blind milk taste test with college kids and one of the milks was her breastmilk. The college kids did not consent to that. The video was deleted.
Please tell me you’re joking
In a similar vein, a coach at our hs messaged a friend of mine after we graduated trying to hook up with her while we knew he had a whole wife and child. She thankfully turned him down and exposed his ass and he got fired but I fear how many girls he might’ve done that too in the past
Yeah because telling a pedophile that sexualizing children is disgusting is going to end all child attraction… people really just don’t think things through. WE’RE not the ones viewing children sexually, but we ARE acknowledging that there are people who are going to that regardless.
This EXACT thing happened at my high school, he was a boys coach so he wasn’t HER coach and they started dating after she graduated. And you know what my school did? THEY FIRED HIM rightfully so because it’s gross and wrong
The age gap doesn’t bother me. but the teacher student relationship does. Not only is it illegal to date students (regardless of their age) but it is also unprofessional and gross. A 6 year age gap between adults isn’t really that surprising or unusual, to me it’s kind of meh. but 6 years between a teenager and am adult is weird, especially because I can guarantee that they were talking before she was 19 or 18. to put it in perspective, imagine being a TEACHER who worked at a school and a student who’s been there since she was 14 asks you out… that’s super weird and uncomfortable and I’d immediately say no!
I mean you definitely can’t guarantee they were talking before she was 18 and if they did know each other then it’s super weird. But coaches aren’t always teachers. My school had ~600 people total in our high school and the there were coaches that weren’t teachers. At bigger schools that’s more likely to happen as well because they have more resources. Most people knew the coaches but it was like 1/3 the size of their school
I had a teacher from my old high school and her boyfriend proposition me while I was wearing an old school sweatshirt when I was 18 or 19. I was at a concert and she was super pumped about the fact that I went to her school. I wish I had gotten her name to report her, because she didn't even ask my age and she very well thought I was a student. So effing creepy. She wanted to buy me drinks, too
The way this happened at my school. Teacher was married, had kids, and then dated a girl who was his student after she graduated. Hes now married to her and has kids with her as well, and its so. Weird. Not to mention he was just the worst math teacher ever
This stuff happens and it is so gross. At my high school, a girl from my graduating class ended up dating our health/gym teacher a little after graduating and ended up getting married and having kids. Another teacher (English studies) was married, ended up dating a senior student and got divorced. They didn't stay together. But it made me feel like a lot of the young male teachers were just predators after that.
Dude I would see their videos all the time and would think it's so cute and now their videos hit so sour
every single time i think im in for a tame drama video i end up being jaw dropped at the 10 minute mark lmfao
Dude this whole coach ends up dating a student thing is so weirdly common. I know two from my highschool alone. One was actually only a year age gap and they got married. the other was the soccer coach Rory (who I believe was associated with Chicago Red Stars?) and that’s was v gross.
The coach at my highschool was known for dating girls that recently graduated...which means they met when the girls were still students.
Its always the coaches 😂 ours didn't date them but he would make the early developed girls ALWAYS do an example of what he wanted us to do. The crazy thing is, even though we were 14-16 we were all fully aware why he did it and were so uncomfortable.
When I was 18 and just joined dating apps my freshman year wrestling coach (of which I was the only afab person on the team) liked me and sent a message that said "wow youve grown a lot 😉" super weird shit fr
NOT THE TEACHER X STUDENT THING OH MY LORD
This literally happened with my friend and our high school track coach except he was considerably older🤢 there were other faculty members at/in their wedding it was so gross
I have to imagine that the space lazer maui thing is connected to the anti-semitic space lazer conspiracy theory. at this point it wouldn't surprise me tbh
It is. It’s connected to the Jewish one and a new one about China because China uses some types of lasers for satellite mapping.
yeah apparently we have space lasers on top of controlling the banks 🙃@@InedibleOlive
You missed the worst transgression of all: they named their kid Sutton Sullivan
The girl in my high school dated our soccer coach after we graduated. Ended up getting married and having three kids. She was always chasing him too. They're divorced now.
Yikes
There was a girl at my high school that started dating a coach when she was a senior. Every one could tell they were dating. When she graduated she started bringing him to our parties which was super awkward because most of us were still in school and he was still a coach/teacher there 😂😂. They got married, had 2 girls and were married for almost 20 years. They divorced a couple years ago.
some fresh drama to satiate my bloodlust
In my high school theres a teacher who isn’t allowed to any dances or proms because he cheated on his partner with a student and kissed them during their prom. They now have a child together and pretty much every one calls him a creep (I have no idea how he’s not fired)
Imagine PEOPLE FROM YOUR SCHOOL FINDING A PHOTO OF YOU AND UR MOM NAKED HELP NO 😭😨
LIFE RUINING
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There is a girl who went to my high school who ended up dating our gym teacher (he was in college already for a few years and was helping out) and she dated him when she was a senior and now they are engaged
My high school had 524 kids
Poor girl I hope she’s free from him
@@ShendonV They have a house and a dog together
@@InedibleOlive yeah 🥲
@@KYRUTInot the grooming :( hopefully she does what's right for her in a timeframe that gives her the most life to live
So! They're conservatives with weird conservative views why they're hiding it online is wild but I was on team it's just a baby get over it AND THEN SHE SAID THAT! Breastfeeding is literally feeding. We out here trying to get people to see it's not sexual and she took it there.
6 years isn't that weird, normally. i'm 6 years older than my partner now. except we started dating when they were like 25, not 19. and i _didn't used to be their high school teacher._
when **i** was 19, i got into a really messed up relationship with a 30 year old and THAT sure messed me up. context matters lol.
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Nothing creeps me out more than these influencer couples on instagram.
11:00 Fellow Illinoisian, I can back that up. The health teacher was the football coach, history teacher was the women's basketball coach, Spanish teacher was the track coach.... I don't think there was a single coach there that wasn't also a teacher. I live rural and idk where this person went to school, but that is a really common thing, especially in rural communities.
I saw they went to a catholic high school and was immediately reminded of this girl from a catholic family that I went to college with who was the youngest in our program and turned 21 about halfway through. She had a boyfriend that, iirc, she met when she was 19 and he was like 30. I would also be interested in seeing if they continue to feature their daughter so heavily when she isn’t a cute little baby they can carry around and use like a prop anymore
My fave way to let my brain smooth out as a STEM girlie? TikTok tea 😩🙌🏽
Your channel is perfect for a 30 something year old mom raising gen z and alpha children. Super informative and your commentary is spot on.
19:43 Just a quick fact check: Half of America being republican is a common misconception. The reason so many southern states (which are actually much more racially diverse than most northern states. There are actually more sundown towns in the north than the south.) is because of gerrymandering and voter suppression. Not trying to nitpick, just thought I'd mention it as someone who's from TN.
I love how Nick backed away from the microphone when he said 9/11 as if it helps it not get him in trouble 😂
Are we surprised that a woman who got married to her school coach would be so unedcuated as to post a conspiracy about the Maui Fires.
when are internet couples getting exposed not weird lmao
There was a girl on my water polo team that dated the coach (he was mainly the boys coach but he was the girls coach for the time in question).. she was barely 18 and still a student at the time. He was over 25, I believe. I was the only one who found this deeply disturbing at the time. They aren't together anymore, thak goodness.
If she was still a student, that is extremely illegal! How was he not fired and arrested???