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Sam it’s because most of the time Men don’t just leave relationships we stay even through all the red flags and get comfortable with the person and we lose who we are! I’m currently divorcing my ex which is a Covert Narcissist and let me tell you the biggest thing is 1. The Trauma Bond and 2. Knowing my Value and breaking Codependency
Same situation, brother. I'm glad you had the strength to break that bond as I am doing now with my wife. It's not easy guys but we'll worth the life change if you're not happy.
Same here, but I am at the beginning, that crucial break the chains and fetters point and I am struggling more so because I daughters. Keep me in prayer.
@@starclassic71 I hope all works out my friend. I have 2 little boys as well. It is hard. Women do not care about the family structure these days. They will see on the other side that the grass is not greener.
I have lost my wife of 19 years to cancer last May, and am in the process of re-inventing myself as a single Sigma male. There are a lot of good people on RUclips that have helped me to do this, and you are obviously one of them. I am enjoying becoming the new, improved me, but when I meet someone like you, I will be more prepared to get married again. Thanks for your input!
I had to learn that years ago, my ex was a complete narcissist, only cared about herself & I was too comfortable, she didn’t respect me at all & now I know the respect has to come first before anything
They want to take the lead because they don’t want you to. They want what they want not what the leader wants . Nothing more stifling than a narcissistic person. Always a battle.
As a leader myself your thoughts Samantha are on point. Feedback of your significant other (female) and smart suggestions. We love our women feminine not feminist ❤
As a man I can tell you it is not easy being the leader of the house hold and I wish more women appreciated that and knows it is not to be taken for granted
Just done with the whole video and I just want to say that listening to you is relatable and it makes it easy to understand what you’re saying. Keep doing what you’re doing✅ and keep being our voice✌🏽
It's very important as a individual to pay attention and be on point. Men and women. When you do that no one even as the chance to take advantage of you. 💯
I like what you’re saying! Men usually want to lead! We do want respect. We want help mates! We should uplift each other! But there should be boundaries to work together! ❤️❤😊💯
A man cannot be disrespected unless he allows it. As soon as the first sign of disrespect it has to be checked once ,happens again and it's over. In life it's who you allow in to your life . Alot of men were not taught about self respect growing up and knowing what's acceptable and what's not.
What would you suggest for guys who just can't up and leave a relationship that they are more invested into than just a girlfriend that is living across town? Some women have been known to turn it up after that man can't just step off that easily.
I lost myself sacrificing, encouraging, guiding and motivating only to leave empty handed not even gratitude. Fellas focus on yourselves and find ur purpose in life. You’ll attract the woman God has for you.
There are many women that want to lead their household. They sometimes are the same women that end up by themselves, plus telling lies about the man that they forced out of their household.
Can I get a witness????!!!! What he said in the video is exactly what happened with me and my ex-wife. The respect wasn’t there. She walked away, and I changed the locks and kept it moving. She wanted to come back, but I had to guard my heart. She didn’t want me to be a man who could lead, she wanted to be in charge.
I agree with what you’re saying. But as far as leadership, I put it this way. In any situation; a good leader is not someone that just tells others what to do, a good leader is someone others want to follow.
This is just to say a big thank you for this piece and others I have come across. We need honest voices that keep men and women in check towards creating a better world of meaningful relationships. You are one of those rare ones with a balanced, honest and effective view. Keep the fire burning 🔥🥊
I'm 52, single, no kids, educated, decent career, but for the life of me, I don't know exactly what a leader is!!....common sense has told me to protect my loved ones as best I can...now if that loved one doesn't want to take my advice, I cant force them to....common sense should be the leader, in all relationships.
Understood. Its hard for me to give you advice on this because I’m typically not in a leadership role. But I would check out other content creators. Typically men who have been in the military are good leaders
My current car is a 02 mercedes which i was nervous about upkeep despite reputation. This thing is an absolute tank taking road damage so when things finally break the repair cost is worth it eventually dwindling down. -------- Point is when men find value in something the effort put in doesn’t have a cost, we’ll understand it better over time. Crux being women give the best parts of herself to everyone except the man taking care of her
Boundaries define us, as individuals. We have different boundaries because we are all different individuals. Pick your values and you will get the results that your choices yield.
In this video Samantha says a man prefers respect over love first. I disagree as a man because the respect is the love for a man. You can say that is his love language or HUGE part of it. She is not wrong just want to point that out. You are a wise woman Samantha much Love to you!!!!!
Respect is EARNED NOT GIVEN! Some women were never taught how to respect themselves and others that’s the main problem. If they were taught how to respect themselves and value their standards they would know what respect mean to a man . As a man I have standards and I think a woman who is truly feminine who would respect me without a doubt and I would show her respect also, if not I’m walking away!
The best leaders are the ones who already know how to follow. Never ask someone to do/follow something you (in general) aren't willing to do first. As for disrespect...any woman needs to know I got at least 1 overly protective daughter.
One word to have the most wonderful, loving and harmonious relationship with a soulmate, that word is HUMILITY. Being HUMBLE is a trait wich includes all the emotional and passionate feelings bundled into one. Here is the definition. H = Harmony U = Understanding M = Memories B = Beloved L = Learning E = Everlasting The main flaw in humanity is PRIDE. PRIDE is a tool satan uses to keep us apart. One can not have PRIDE and be HUMBLE at the same time. PRIDE harbors demonic spirits. HUMILITY harbors GRACE😊 🤔 THINK ABOUT IT😮
You're a dominant personality? That got me thinking, "dominant versus overbearing." Dominant is great. Overbearing is stifling, and chokes the life out of the spirit of the person on the receiving end. Dominant is decisive, sure, stands up for one's self directly, etc. Overbearing is more of, not necessarily "controlling," but more of that idea. Dominant is cool. It's nice you're dominant.
Thanks Ms. Samantha..!'m a SIGMA and ! 'm glad you cover soooo much and bring it to light for most..we're really getting noticed in the past year or so..but we come off weird..distant..different and outcast..sorry but we're just unique people in our own way..like everyone else from the realm.. thanks for all the great insight as of late..keep it going..❤🖤
Thank God for you and what he is doing through in your life and online with your social media etc! So many men need to hear this and especially with the way things are nowadays. The idea for how God wants things and how this world believes it should be is completely opposite. It’s easy to get stuck into what everyone else says what it should be and not God’s original design being considered. Speaking from my own past experiences of looking everywhere else in this world. May he continue to use you and grow your presence even greater and anointing to reach his children. 💯🙏🏾
I think actually defining what romantic Respect means for both genders and not just leaving up to subjection would help out alot bc I know I’m not the only one a lil confused when I hear that word.. especially nowadays everybody throws that word around
I've seen and lived around both kinds of relationships where the man or woman takes on more dominant role. The ones that work are when both are content and enjoy each other regardless. I'm no therapist, but have lived through what I would call 'parental attachment' when one or both either, unknowingly, repeat bad learned behavior or overcompensate to make up for what one parent was or wasn't to the other. (The cycle is a grinder, to say the least) This seems to show up more if the child is compelled to choose sides
Hi SamanthaLee I hear you very well, We all need to have a boundary to keep our relationship strong . When you have stronge leader who is responsible to lead your family in right direction that is a 😊blessing!!! It call good values
I didn't get that in my last relationship and it took me 15 years to get over her and she messed up my relationship with my children and me and I had a court order for visitation and still didn't get my kids with the police officer there!
I agree. I even caught myself not considering my bf feelings. As women we are taught men should do x, y, x for you but not what you should do other then traditional things like cooking and cleaning but o never really considered his feelings and even asked if he was happy until recently or what I could do more of.
I wholeheartedly agree with your talking points. Your take on things make me wonder. What do you think about the chemistry between two like-minded people? Would it last; or would it be too idealistic or too transparent because the couple can easily see eye to eye and stay on the same accord about meeting in the middle, making things work, and moving forward? Personally, I believe any woman would become too reactive, as opposed to her being proactive, because she will be overwhelmingly bored with anything about her role in the relationship that she deemed to be too transparent, too idealistic, or simple mundane- just as soon as the man gets comfortable with any kind of at home routines, roles, or rules she imposed upon him.
Never let disrespect go unchecked. Ever! As a man if it continues ; step 1, try to find out the source of disrespect from her Step 2, if you’ve addressed things as best you can while remaining true to yourself, walk away. The guy in the video is too full on red pill brainwashed. Everyone is unique as is every situation to some extent. He not as big an expert as he’d like to think. Nice work Sam 👍🏼
Good teaching Sister! You successful cause you know what you want! We suffer cause we not taught our good that gets greater with the proper development of men and women. Selfishness dominates our People in America! Knowledge of God & Self frees us!
The issue is that humanity has gone so far off Gods original course and standards to the point that king Solomon stated at Ecclesiastes 8:9 "All of this I have seen, and I applied my heart to every work that has been done under the sun, during the time that man has dominated man to his harm".. what we as the human race need to do is stated at James3:17,18 "But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peaceable, reasonable, ready to obey, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial, not hypocritical. 18 Moreover, the fruit of righteousness is sown in peaceful conditions for those who are making peace".Proverbs 13:10 "wisdom belongs to those who seek advice".
@@LoveSamanthaLee of course I mean thank you wholeheartedly..some of these dudes do need a good talking to buy I hate the whole war of the sexes with my beautiful people..I just wish men and woman realize we need each other and stop tearing each other down..but nevertheless peace and blessings..
Why I'm single now...focused on growing my personal trainer and security consulting businesses + youtube channel.....no time for modern women's bs and feminist bigot ways...#RepsectOverLove...respect you partners boundaries...this goes for men too respect goes both ways
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Always made it seem like she wouldn’t keep my babies from me and 2 days after walking away she brings up going to court if i want to see them. So glad i didn’t marry her
Some women use the kids as pawns in their game. Although I have no kids, I always said that I wouldn't be the guy that they play with in that manner. There are guys who never abandoned their children but got hauled into child support court by an evil, vindictive, or jealous woman that sometimes is mad that the man didn't stick around for more of her toxic bs. Since I know that honorable or so called nice guys get screwed over a bit too often, I see certain things a bit differently when a person is clearly treating you like you're less than. In that case, I'd pay my support, then give them exactly what they'd accuse you of. After throwing dirt on my name, don't think I'm going to do anything other than paying what I'm ordered to pay. You can now enjoy being a "single parent" without me physically being in the picture. It may be a messed up way of thinking, but you have to fight fire with fire. 🧔🏾♂️🤳🏾Hello? 🤷🏾♀️I need you to come get your kid/kids this weekend/for the week. 🧔🏾♂️ Since I'm a deadbeat, I won't be doing anything of that nature. 🤷🏾♀️@##%:&@ ! ! 🧔🏾♂️ 🤳🏾 Click!
New to your channel luv your content.... It's helps me a lot and a lot of things you have said have been oh so true and I'm recently just out of my 9 year relationship Dec "22".... Now I'm seeking my piece of mind she left to run the streets etc etc... But her karma will get her.. but thanks for the great content and advice helps me a lot now!!!...
Many men put up with a lot of 💩 in order to try to keep the family together. They often lose themselves in the process. By continually putting up with the woman's 💩💩💩, he usually ends up losing her respect, then she wrecks the home anyway.
My brother was in that situation with the mother of his two sons. My brother isn't an abusive guy, nor is he the guy that's creeping around with side women. He's a great father that had no problem with trying to at least try to be a father figure/role model for her son that has no father in his life. Along with stepping up to the plate, he was greeted with confrontation for laying his law when it came to maintaining respect for the two adults in the household. Eventually, his ex turned cold towards him. He tried to hang in there for years, plus be civil. It didn't work for him. He recently had gotten to the point he had to leave his household of about 16 years. He's now rebuilding his household on his own.
Okay here's a hypothetical for you Would you follow a man who makes less money than you could not afford to buy you a sports car or take you to a five-star restaurant But you say yes to a date anyway because you really don't know what he's like and he shows up for your date and he's driving say a 71 Chevy Impala station wagon that has rust all over it and he's wearing blue jeans and a t-shirt and says we're going to Burger King Other than that he checks all the boxes of your perfect man I don't think you would go out on a date with him
I thought woman was afraid to be alone nope men are too. Some men are settling just to be in a relationship. There is no way I'm spending lets say 8 hours away from my Home earning a living to come house to any type of drama or disrespect. Pay attention to your mate they tell you more than not what they DESIRE. Some mates do not listen or choose not to listen. You know you're in trouble when the most important thing to you mate is his or her phone.
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Hey Samantha, could you address women who say they are spirtual. I would truly appreciate, and keep on with the heat!!!!
What drives you to speak on the topics you express yourself in? What’s your love story? You are a very interesting woman.
ruclips.net/video/s-7aAQUkfWU/видео.html This is a good one....
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The link doesn’t open. :-/
Sam it’s because most of the time Men don’t just leave relationships we stay even through all the red flags and get comfortable with the person and we lose who we are! I’m currently divorcing my ex which is a Covert Narcissist and let me tell you the biggest thing is 1. The Trauma Bond and 2. Knowing my Value and breaking Codependency
You’re right! The good news is that you are getting out of that cycle. God Bless you ❤️
Same situation, brother. I'm glad you had the strength to break that bond as I am doing now with my wife. It's not easy guys but we'll worth the life change if you're not happy.
Damn!!! I am going thru a divorce as well. Same situation and the person is a narcissist. It is a epidemic.
Same here, but I am at the beginning, that crucial break the chains and fetters point and I am struggling more so because I daughters. Keep me in prayer.
@@starclassic71 I hope all works out my friend. I have 2 little boys as well. It is hard. Women do not care about the family structure these days. They will see on the other side that the grass is not greener.
I have lost my wife of 19 years to cancer last May, and am in the process of re-inventing myself as a single Sigma male. There are a lot of good people on RUclips that have helped me to do this, and you are obviously one of them. I am enjoying becoming the new, improved me, but when I meet someone like you, I will be more prepared to get married again. Thanks for your input!
How is that dishonoring anyone? That’s idiotic. I would want her to find someone to take care of her, if I was the one who passed!
My Condolences
Thanks for your kind words Barry. May God Bless you ☺️❤️
@@lesliethomas5088 Thank you, she was the best!
@@LoveSamanthaLee Just keep doing what you’re doing. You and others like you have helped me to get my life back on track.
I had to learn that years ago, my ex was a complete narcissist, only cared about herself & I was too comfortable, she didn’t respect me at all & now I know the respect has to come first before anything
Yes respect is first and foremost
They want to take the lead because they don’t want you to.
They want what they want not what the leader wants . Nothing more stifling than a narcissistic person. Always a battle.
@@drleo6409 exactly
As a leader myself your thoughts Samantha are on point. Feedback of your significant other (female) and smart suggestions. We love our women feminine not feminist ❤
Thank you ☺️
As a man I can tell you it is not easy being the leader of the house hold and I wish more women appreciated that and knows it is not to be taken for granted
It’s definitely not. It’s a lot of responsibility that goes into being a leader
Men strongly desire to solve or solution broken things - including relationships. We are also highly committed when we have vowed to our partner.
That’s very true Tony ❤️
Just done with the whole video and I just want to say that listening to you is relatable and it makes it easy to understand what you’re saying. Keep doing what you’re doing✅ and keep being our voice✌🏽
Thank you!!! ❤️
It's very important as a individual to pay attention and be on point. Men and women. When you do that no one even as the chance to take advantage of you. 💯
Exactly ❤️
I like what you’re saying! Men usually want to lead! We do want respect. We want help mates! We should uplift each other! But there should be boundaries to work together! ❤️❤😊💯
👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️.
👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️.
Thanks Jonnard 👌🏼❤️❤️
I love how she’s not bias & understand the plight of what men go thru, especially sigma males like myself
Thank you ❤️❤️
A man cannot be disrespected unless he allows it. As soon as the first sign of disrespect it has to be checked once ,happens again and it's over. In life it's who you allow in to your life . Alot of men were not taught about self respect growing up and knowing what's acceptable and what's not.
This is very true ❤️
THIS.
What would you suggest for guys who just can't up and leave a relationship that they are more invested into than just a girlfriend that is living across town? Some women have been known to turn it up after that man can't just step off that easily.
@@rgw1380rw leave
Can't thank or express appreciation enough for what you say Samantha. Thank you for speaking up for us
👆👆sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴛᴇIᴇɢʀᴀ'ᴍ ʀɪɢʜᴛ ᴀᴡᴀʏ ✍️.
I will continue to do so ☺️❤️
Sigma males are often underestimated ...but it could be one of the biggest mistakes a person can make with this type of male.
I lost myself sacrificing, encouraging, guiding and motivating only to leave empty handed not even gratitude. Fellas focus on yourselves and find ur purpose in life. You’ll attract the woman God has for you.
Very true
I always tell this to all the females, show me respect and care and I will do the same, love yourself and care for others.
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Love to see this channel growing rapidly!Keep it up Samantha,your words and reasoning is highly appreciated ❤
Thank you so much for the support Stefan ❤️
There are many women that want to lead their household. They sometimes are the same women that end up by themselves, plus telling lies about the man that they forced out of their household.
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Can I get a witness????!!!! What he said in the video is exactly what happened with me and my ex-wife. The respect wasn’t there. She walked away, and I changed the locks and kept it moving. She wanted to come back, but I had to guard my heart. She didn’t want me to be a man who could lead, she wanted to be in charge.
Sorry this happened ❤️
It's real ... I can't believe what I went through when all I done was love her .
Sorry to hear that you went through this
I agree with what you’re saying. But as far as leadership, I put it this way. In any situation; a good leader is not someone that just tells others what to do, a good leader is someone others want to follow.
Absolutely ❤️❤️
This is just to say a big thank you for this piece and others I have come across. We need honest voices that keep men and women in check towards creating a better world of meaningful relationships. You are one of those rare ones with a balanced, honest and effective view. Keep the fire burning 🔥🥊
Will do Frederick ☺️❤️
I'm 52, single, no kids, educated, decent career, but for the life of me, I don't know exactly what a leader is!!....common sense has told me to protect my loved ones as best I can...now if that loved one doesn't want to take my advice, I cant force them to....common sense should be the leader, in all relationships.
Understood. Its hard for me to give you advice on this because I’m typically not in a leadership role. But I would check out other content creators. Typically men who have been in the military are good leaders
My current car is a 02 mercedes which i was nervous about upkeep despite reputation. This thing is an absolute tank taking road damage so when things finally break the repair cost is worth it eventually dwindling down.
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Point is when men find value in something the effort put in doesn’t have a cost, we’ll understand it better over time.
Crux being women give the best parts of herself to everyone except the man taking care of her
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Wow! So impressive thanks a lot, looking forward to see more of your videos.
I'm listening and taking this all in I'm taken my power and respect back frfr 💯
As you should sir ❤️
Boundaries define us, as individuals. We have different boundaries because we are all different individuals. Pick your values and you will get the results that your choices yield.
This is true Chris ☺️
I appreciate you speaking on what true leadership is. I think a lot of people think being a good leader means being a dictator.
Unfortunately you’re right
There are to many folks that think that and operate in that realm....
Great advice Samantha! Just subscribed
In this video Samantha says a man prefers respect over love first. I disagree as a man because the respect is the love for a man. You can say that is his love language or HUGE part of it. She is not wrong just want to point that out. You are a wise woman Samantha much Love to you!!!!!
Thank you ☺️ ❤️
Respect is EARNED NOT GIVEN! Some women were never taught how to respect themselves and others that’s the main problem. If they were taught how to respect themselves and value their standards they would know what respect mean to a man . As a man I have standards and I think a woman who is truly feminine who would respect me without a doubt and I would show her respect also, if not I’m walking away!
And you should walk away if respect is not there
Amen, a man a leader, to be respected, he cares about how I feel.
That’s true sis ❤️
I love your commentary. I love your perspective. I love how thoughtful you are before you speak. Keep up the good work and may God bless you.
Thank you for your work Sis.
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Thanks for the support ☺️❤️
Your way of thinking is amazing.. Thank you for that.. .
I❤️Samatha!!! Thank U For Ur Support!!! U Are One Of The Only One’s Who Stand On Our Side!!! Ur Efforts Are Not In Vain🖤🖤🖤
Thanks for the support Ellis ☺️❤️
The best leaders are the ones who already know how to follow. Never ask someone to do/follow something you (in general) aren't willing to do first. As for disrespect...any woman needs to know I got at least 1 overly protective daughter.
Absolutely ❤️
Good job great comments keep up the good work👏👏✔⚘😊
Thanks Samuel ❤️
Ms Lee you are speaking facts, please 🙏🏾 keep doing you. You are on a different level of this RUclips space. I’m a true fan.
Thanks Percy ☺️❤️
girl i love your voice so much ,you spit the truth like DMX the legendary, rapping his style (female version)
Haha thank you ☺️ ❤️
One word to have the most wonderful, loving and harmonious relationship with a soulmate, that word is HUMILITY.
Being HUMBLE is a trait wich includes all the emotional and passionate feelings bundled into one.
Here is the definition.
H = Harmony
U = Understanding
M = Memories
B = Beloved
L = Learning
E = Everlasting
The main flaw in humanity is PRIDE.
PRIDE is a tool satan uses to keep us apart.
One can not have PRIDE and be HUMBLE at the same time.
PRIDE harbors demonic spirits.
HUMILITY harbors GRACE😊
🤔 THINK ABOUT IT😮
Your channel is GOLD💯❤
In Building Stronger Righteous Men , you’re building Stronger Righteous Families… Keep doing God’s Work… 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you ☺️ ❤️
You're a dominant personality? That got me thinking, "dominant versus overbearing." Dominant is great. Overbearing is stifling, and chokes the life out of the spirit of the person on the receiving end. Dominant is decisive, sure, stands up for one's self directly, etc. Overbearing is more of, not necessarily "controlling," but more of that idea. Dominant is cool. It's nice you're dominant.
Thanks Ms. Samantha..!'m a SIGMA and ! 'm glad you cover soooo much and bring it to light for most..we're really getting noticed in the past year or so..but we come off weird..distant..different and outcast..sorry but we're just unique people in our own way..like everyone else from the realm.. thanks for all the great insight as of late..keep it going..❤🖤
Thanks John! Will do ☺️
Excellent quality information 👌
Thanks for the support Hilton ☺️
@@LoveSamanthaLee most welcome. Your authentic transparency and humility are blessing humanity 🙏..Kind regards to you and your family.
Appreciate the channel just subscribed. So thankful ❤❤❤
I absolutely love your content! Continue growing Samatha ❤
Thank God for you and what he is doing through in your life and online with your social media etc! So many men need to hear this and especially with the way things are nowadays. The idea for how God wants things and how this world believes it should be is completely opposite. It’s easy to get stuck into what everyone else says what it should be and not God’s original design being considered. Speaking from my own past experiences of looking everywhere else in this world. May he continue to use you and grow your presence even greater and anointing to reach his children. 💯🙏🏾
Thank you so much for your support ❤️☺️ God Bless You!
Thank you for speaking the truth that a lot of women don't want to hear 🙏🏼
Sure thing Luka and thank you for the support ☺️❤️
Most of the time men will allow women to do whatever they want because they want a home with peace. I love what you said about Dominant vs submissive
Thanks Lamar ❤️
Keep doing your thing you are saving lives with your content ❤
Thanks for the support Jordan. This means a lot to me!
I think actually defining what romantic Respect means for both genders and not just leaving up to subjection would help out alot bc I know I’m not the only one a lil confused when I hear that word.. especially nowadays everybody throws that word around
This is correct. It’s left to interpretation a lot 👌🏼
I've seen and lived around both kinds of relationships where the man or woman takes on more dominant role. The ones that work are when both are content and enjoy each other regardless. I'm no therapist, but have lived through what I would call 'parental attachment' when one or both either, unknowingly, repeat bad learned behavior or overcompensate to make up for what one parent was or wasn't to the other. (The cycle is a grinder, to say the least) This seems to show up more if the child is compelled to choose sides
Meant to say, like how you 'bring it'
Great points Don ❤️
Hi SamanthaLee I hear you very well, We all need to have a boundary to keep our relationship strong . When you have stronge leader who is responsible to lead your family in right direction that is a 😊blessing!!! It call good values
Absolutely Robert ❤️☺️
Samantha we love you fr, you helping us Queen
Thanks for the support ☺️❤️
Lol, it's the way you said you don't want to be a leader, the way you said it shows that actually. And it's cute too
Plenty leaders get treated like they are less than.
Unfortunately this is true
I didn't get that in my last relationship and it took me 15 years to get over her and she messed up my relationship with my children and me and I had a court order for visitation and still didn't get my kids with the police officer there!
Sam you nail it everything you say is true💯
Thanks Gilbert ❤️
All what your saying is so true for both genders tell yourself i know my worth and step back check yourself.
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Keep up the fantastic job.
I agree. I even caught myself not considering my bf feelings. As women we are taught men should do x, y, x for you but not what you should do other then traditional things like cooking and cleaning but o never really considered his feelings and even asked if he was happy until recently or what I could do more of.
I wholeheartedly agree with your talking points. Your take on things make me wonder. What do you think about the chemistry between two like-minded people? Would it last; or would it be too idealistic or too transparent because the couple can easily see eye to eye and stay on the same accord about meeting in the middle, making things work, and moving forward? Personally, I believe any woman would become too reactive, as opposed to her being proactive, because she will be overwhelmingly bored with anything about her role in the relationship that she deemed to be too transparent, too idealistic, or simple mundane- just as soon as the man gets comfortable with any kind of at home routines, roles, or rules she imposed upon him.
Men suffer more long term after break up.Once they decided to marry her he will never change under any circumstances.
They do I have a short about this ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee but girls they will cry for one day n it’s over,after that nothing matters
I've seen that more times than I care to recall.
Period.
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Some want to manipulate
A narcissistic person has a no regard for you. No feeling for your feelings. That’s it.
True ❤️
Never let disrespect go unchecked. Ever! As a man if it continues ;
step 1, try to find out the source of disrespect from her
Step 2, if you’ve addressed things as best you can while remaining true to yourself, walk away.
The guy in the video is too full on red pill brainwashed. Everyone is unique as is every situation to some extent. He not as big an expert as he’d like to think.
Nice work Sam 👍🏼
Thanks for the support ☺️❤️
Great video 👍
Thanks Edgar ❤️
Great Content
Thank you ☺️
A real sigma ain't being disrespected at home....thats something else....and if they are...they making plans to move.
True
Stand on it 🌴✌🏾
Good teaching Sister!
You successful cause you know what you want!
We suffer cause we not taught our good that gets greater with the proper development of men and women.
Selfishness dominates our People in America!
Knowledge of God & Self frees us!
Thanks so much ☺️❤️
The issue is that humanity has gone so far off Gods original course and standards to the point that king Solomon stated at Ecclesiastes 8:9 "All of this I have seen, and I applied my heart to every work that has been done under the sun, during the time that man has dominated man to his harm".. what we as the human race need to do is stated at James3:17,18 "But the wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peaceable, reasonable, ready to obey, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial, not hypocritical. 18 Moreover, the fruit of righteousness is sown in peaceful conditions for those who are making peace".Proverbs 13:10 "wisdom belongs to those who seek advice".
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For now on I will call you SAM LEE 💥. There's Bruce Lee, Jet Li, Chun Li, and now Sam Lee🔥❤️🔥
Love you girl. Keep doing the Lord's work!
Hahah thank you sir ☺️❤️
It's Biblical. The Bible says a woman needs to respect her husband and her husband needs to love her.
Yep
Awesome just awesome!
Thank you ☺️ ❤️
Queen of queens
I love Samantha Lee's content
Thanks for the support Rodney ❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee of course I mean thank you wholeheartedly..some of these dudes do need a good talking to buy I hate the whole war of the sexes with my beautiful people..I just wish men and woman realize we need each other and stop tearing each other down..but nevertheless peace and blessings..
Thank you ❤️🔥🌹🌹🌹
Why I'm single now...focused on growing my personal trainer and security consulting businesses + youtube channel.....no time for modern women's bs and feminist bigot ways...#RepsectOverLove...respect you partners boundaries...this goes for men too respect goes both ways
Absolutely AJ. Your happiness is top priority
@@LoveSamanthaLee amen to that...that goes for men and women...enjoy ur happiness to queen and stay blessed
Luv This 💙📝 #FREEGAME
Thanks Karlo ❤️
SiS'Queen 👑 U are a Very special Separate Woman With Great Common Sense These Colored Women Need Alot of Knowledge of SelF' Something they Don't Want 💥
I ❤ you Sam. Love from Paris
Thanks so much! Yes knowledge of God is 🔑 ❤️
I'm made different, any fefail I deal w/ is single when she is not in my direct line of sight.
Your right sweetheart
Thank you ☺️
I'm worthy, valuable, I will have peace of mind; security, comfort, and respect. Purrriod. 😎
#INFJ
#TheProvider
#TheProtector
#TheSeerOfSouls
#karmicslayerbreakingmoldsandgenerationalcurses
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You are gorgeous
Thank you ☺️
@@LoveSamanthaLee your truly welcome queen
A man lost his life on Facebook live due to domestic violence. Domestic violence affects both sexes man and women. R.i.p to the Mississippi man
Yes it does affect both genders. RIP
Thanks Samantha
No problem Shane. Thanks for the support ❤️
@Love, Samantha Lee my pleasure, Sam. ( honestly)
I salute u 👏🏽 🙌🏾❤️🔥
Thanks Revell ❤️
Remember a Man ,put the Most High first,then himself,handle your business manifest Wisdom, common sense and positive energy from within, please find a virtuous or Woman who's into U
AFTER 13 YEARS…
CURRENTLY AT THE CROSSROADS 💫
I know it’s not easy. I pray for your peace ☺️❤️
Always made it seem like she wouldn’t keep my babies from me and 2 days after walking away she brings up going to court if i want to see them. So glad i didn’t marry her
You dodged a bullet sir ☺️❤️
Some women use the kids as pawns in their game. Although I have no kids, I always said that I wouldn't be the guy that they play with in that manner. There are guys who never abandoned their children but got hauled into child support court by an evil, vindictive, or jealous woman that sometimes is mad that the man didn't stick around for more of her toxic bs.
Since I know that honorable or so called nice guys get screwed over a bit too often, I see certain things a bit differently when a person is clearly treating you like you're less than. In that case, I'd pay my support, then give them exactly what they'd accuse you of. After throwing dirt on my name, don't think I'm going to do anything other than paying what I'm ordered to pay. You can now enjoy being a "single parent" without me physically being in the picture.
It may be a messed up way of thinking, but you have to fight fire with fire.
🧔🏾♂️🤳🏾Hello?
🤷🏾♀️I need you to come get your kid/kids this weekend/for the week.
🧔🏾♂️ Since I'm a deadbeat, I won't be doing anything of that nature.
🤷🏾♀️@##%:&@ ! !
🧔🏾♂️ 🤳🏾 Click!
I am insanely attracted to this woman ❤
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New to your channel luv your content.... It's helps me a lot and a lot of things you have said have been oh so true and I'm recently just out of my 9 year relationship Dec "22".... Now I'm seeking my piece of mind she left to run the streets etc etc... But her karma will get her.. but thanks for the great content and advice helps me a lot now!!!...
I pray for your peace Warren. And thank you for the support ❤️
I can't go for that oh no, no can do.
Many men put up with a lot of 💩 in order to try to keep the family together. They often lose themselves in the process. By continually putting up with the woman's 💩💩💩, he usually ends up losing her respect, then she wrecks the home anyway.
Very true
My brother was in that situation with the mother of his two sons. My brother isn't an abusive guy, nor is he the guy that's creeping around with side women. He's a great father that had no problem with trying to at least try to be a father figure/role model for her son that has no father in his life. Along with stepping up to the plate, he was greeted with confrontation for laying his law when it came to maintaining respect for the two adults in the household. Eventually, his ex turned cold towards him. He tried to hang in there for years, plus be civil. It didn't work for him. He recently had gotten to the point he had to leave his household of about 16 years. He's now rebuilding his household on his own.
Okay here's a hypothetical for you
Would you follow a man who makes less money than you could not afford to buy you a sports car or take you to a five-star restaurant
But you say yes to a date anyway because you really don't know what he's like and he shows up for your date and he's driving say a 71 Chevy Impala station wagon that has rust all over it and he's wearing blue jeans and a t-shirt and says we're going to Burger King
Other than that he checks all the boxes of your perfect man
I don't think you would go out on a date with him
Real....❤
I thought woman was afraid to be alone nope men are too. Some men are settling just to be in a relationship.
There is no way I'm spending lets say 8 hours away from my Home earning a living to come house to any type of drama or disrespect. Pay attention to your mate they tell you more than not what they DESIRE.
Some mates do not listen or choose not to listen.
You know you're in trouble when the most important thing to you mate is his or her phone.
That’s true