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I asked ya to stay off my page numerous times😂😂😂 ur a sneaky devil who's jealous of meeee... I L❤VE my melanin Brown skin... Why compete???? I can't be mad imitation is the highest form of flattery, thanks boo fa being low vibrational have a blessed night bitter nancy who watches my stories an all I do... Thank You in advance❤❤❤
1. Emotional immaturity - lack of emotional control 2. Lack of accountability 3. Attention seeking Thank you for putting this into perspective. I stayed in a 5 year relationship with all these characteristics, and didn’t think it was that bad until we broke up and started processing our relationship. Great video. Keep up the great work!
Man, I stayed in mutliple relationships where I allowed disrespect, selfish in a victimized manner, them thinking and saying they are one this but another in actions, or incongruency in the person profile. Most of my relationships I've always felt that if I wasnt entertaining or on top of them they would leave and most of them, granted, my research has been hispanic south texas women ... lots of them. Its sad. Because they all think they want a good guy for them to love forever, but, they don't have the knowledge to keep us, only to nag us into doing what they want as opposed to knowing that aspect of relationships just as we know the conquest and approach aspect of relationships. It is men who know woman way more than woman know man, and in this day and age where young girls don't get or want or receive constructive criticisim, man i tell you, many a times i've known a woman in two seconds more than she knows herself after months of interactions.
Sounds a bit like an attachment disorder. You want a relationship but self sabotage, out of fear of being hurt. And it's usually childhood related. Like orphans or kids whose parents give them away. Or children whose parents divorced. Badly. Or maybe an unhappy marriage. .often, it's subconscious. . ( self sabotage)
Samantha I asked ya to stay off my page numerous times😂😂😂 ur a sneaky devil who's jealous of meeee... I L❤VE my melanin Brown skin... Why compete???? I can't be mad imitation is the highest form of flattery, thanks boo fa being low vibrational have a blessed night bitter nancy who watches my stories an all I do
@@LoveSamanthaLee i totally understand your situation. For me , my parents separated when I was 8 years old , my mother abandoned me and left to be with another man. My father cared for me until he passed away when I was 16 years old . I had no guidance in those years and so many wounds carried with me into my adult hood . When it came to meeting woman as a adult , I would meet many but I couldn’t give my full commitment and I would leave early into the relationship or not give my full self because out of fear for a woman leaving me like my mother had done . I preferred to be alone and I got more comfortable with that . I guess the sigma male lone wolf began in me when I was a boy and to this day I am the sigma. However I too sort therapy and helped my healing in moving forward in life and to not have fear like I used too. It has made me a stronger man and I don’t have that fear anymore of being left . I have learned to accept things and knowing I will still be ok with or without a lady in my life . Thanks for telling your story also and keep up the great work 🙌🏻🇦🇺
Was one of those children. I can confirm, it’s true what you say! Unfortunately it’s like that! I wish I could attach myself and commit. 43 and no children or fam. Life’s hard without fam. It turned me into lonely man. Bless people
I heard a better version of how to look at this situation. I struggled with the same self-sabotaging behavior (SSB). It's true that a troubled childhood (in whatever form) can impact your relationships, but it's not directly. The intermediate step is that it set the floor for what you deserve, very low, which in turn causes that SSB whenever you get something you believe is too good for you. In other words the floor of what you deserve is too low. As adults, we can work on raising that floor through paying attention to what we think of ourselves and realizing that the voice in our head is not us. We are just the observer of that voice.
The attention seeking part is real. I understand that women naturally seek attention & validation. But if it’s an unhealthy need, then the validation of any one man won’t be sufficient. Thanks for sharing!
U actually described my ex with the whole "runner" story only difference is I was willing to work out our differences I don't like running away from conflicts, whenever we would have a conflict she would cut our relationship off in an instant, & then she would try to come back, but I had to shoot her down, cause I'm not going thru that same mess again, cause it would teach her that its ok to keep running from conflict rather than trying to have a discussion so we can come to a resolution to help make our relationship stronger.
Love this video. More women need to not only speak out like this, but firstly do the growing & healing required to reach this level of self awareness. Keep spitting bars.
Good evening/morning @LoveSamanthaLee, I'm so very glad that as a woman you came out and was honest about your relationships. That takes real maturity, accountability, and honesty. Sadly not many women have matured to this level. AS a man I do appreciate this video very much. Mr KS aka the Godfather has been saying these very same things in much of his videos. Again I do appreciate the vulnerability it took to bring knowledge to both genders. I'm from Trinidad & Tobago in the Caribbean and I want to say you have earned a subscriber and a friend.
I'm not gonna judge because you lived and you learned. Look at the person you became. Your personality and character is a testament of growth. Thank you for your honesty and sharing with us your knowledge. I keep running into signs 1, 2, & 3. Wasted many years of my life. I can confirm that those flags mentioned are legitimate. My last relationship was with 1, 2 and 3 in one person. A total nightmare...I love the content you bring forth Samantha. May our heavenly father keep you and your household protected as well. Especially the little one.
"Lets get into it" Sammi Lee. It takes a big person to admit his or her faults. Sometimes you have to learn who you are as a person and enjoy being alone and accept the outcome in relationships it's called growth.
You just described my three longest relationships. I got out of that type of self destructive mindset by working on myself and when I got me in order, I attracted better women. Good job Samantha.
You are exactly right what you saying .Your a beautiful soul telling men what to look out for .I can see that you have seen the light and I sure your life is better now .Kisses and hugs to you !
Thank you Samantha.. I was also in a relationship like that in the past , so I can sympathize with your X .. But it takes a strong woman to admit her flaws and mistakes and in this day and age most women don't.. I love your videos.. you make a difference in people's lives.. Keep doing you..
Cool that you are open about your reality. A lot of people in this world, both men and women, don't live in reality to take responsibility for their life and actions. Nothing wrong with with seeing a therapist Samantha Lee.......sometime it's easier for a person to verbally release something that's possibly deep down in their soul that may not belong there, and/or keeping one from succeeding in life. Some of my best friends have used therapy and they state that that was the best decision they have ever made.
You are absolutely right because I see people on Facebook and they do that and plenty of women say I'm a very handsome man but I see everything what you said. Everything is so true
Being disrespectful towards waiters or towards a man, being dishonest, walking away when you talk to her, talking over you, interrupting during a conversation are some signs as well, but I enjoyed your video. I will also suggest you do a video in catching or spotting the lies women come up with because they're very slick with it. Thanks
My Ex wife had all these traits. They started small and stupid me (unexperienced) actually thought it would get better. I was wrong. I somewhat lied to myself also. In addition, when too much time pass, I just simply felt I invested too much even though I clearly knew I wanted out.
Thank you. After healing my trauma bond and mother/father wounds, it was an awakening. Forgiving with unconditional love and releasing it. A red flag would be people pleasing.
You nailed it, I learned much about relationships growing up. My parents divorced when I was 14 the marriage started falling apart when I was 12.Both parents told me they would not put me in middle of their fights but being a child 12-14 that is what they did unintentionally. Children see and can hear everything body language, heated arguments in force whispers, I was a human sponge. I had my heart broken but my High School sweetheart by her messing around with her ex (caught her red handed) while we were together, I dropped her like a hot potato. I am 59 with a body count of 6 due to my border line INFJ personality . At 30 I was married to my wife for 10 wonderful years (our fights included) until she passed in 2003. I only have 3 values I look for in any relationship Honesty, Integrity and Respect. If I am going to give you this, I demand the same in return.
I don’t know how I came across your page but you are a tremendous blessing. I am now a subscriber. Keep speaking facts and fire 🔥…. I commend you for your honesty in this video. I recently experienced a female that exhibited all 3 of these red flags but I overlooked them in hopes of trying to see the best in her. Trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Welp 🤦♂️ that came to an end and I don’t ever see myself doing that again……EVER….
Ty, this freed me from this great woman i dated months ago. I didn’t understand it, had me questioning myself mentally for months still to this day. She didn’t even want to talk it out in person. It hurts but I had to heal myself from it
My Ex 3 out of 3 I should have ran when I had the chance. I had so many chances to run, but I just did not wanna see it for what it was worth. I also used to tell her I don't like being cussed at. She said she did not care. You live, you learn
Appreciate you, sis! Not only are you beautiful . You're smart, secure of yourself, and most of all fun, and informative. We need leaders like you. I'm sure you would win at anything you went after. Proud of you. Keep going.
oh wow! I only ever saw your shorts and never knew you make regular sized videos.Now I can enjoy your beauty in a larger format! :) BTW also your nice clean intelligent advice.
I finally understand how you know all of this about us. You must’ve lost a sigma male but it’s great seems it made you step your game up and even better your paying it forward and that’s a great trait looked for in a wife.
Sam thx much for sharing. So.true on all points, but to me, it all comes down to honesty and a genuine willingness to share your feelings. In lieu of choosing to combat one another, just gently sit them down and express exactly how you feel - without shouting, w/o cussing, etc. Sure, this still may not prevent a breakup, but if it's handled the right way, nobody walks away completely broken. You may even remain friends.
Wow! The trifecta. That's 💯% real. I've experienced it. Either they work through it and you see results or you keep it moving. Staying may bring you great knowledge, but at what expense and for how long? Stay sharp my dudes 🤝
I wish people would exhibit this level of accountability. I actually sent this to a narcissistic ex in the hopes they might see sense but there response was that I was toxic for sending it lol
@Love, Samantha Lee these people can't be helped. The only people that can help are themselves, but that will only happen of they accept responsibility for their actions. Until then, they're happy to continue living in their delusional bubble
Lol. Truth though Samantha was dealing with a border personality disorder which quite clearly she has control over now and that is very different from narcissistic personality disorders who have no empathy or emotions, just cold hearted, hence response u got
Yeah, you're right my sista! Thanks for looking out for us good men I've been checking out ya shorts and I just gotcha notification here... the subject matter is spot on. I just subbed to ya. I'll be looking forward to your content Peace and ❤
From Telaviv..I just wanna say...Amazing and 100% truth..i had to get trough a relation with that kind of woman...you have a very strong and beatiful heart..and part of it is because you were polished by living all that...Shalom
This shit is gold! I just ended something from 12 years and she had all three of these and wouldn’t hear anything I was saying. I had to go so she could find herself. It hurt me bad but she wasn’t who I fell in love with anymore. Very sad
Good on YOU Samantha. Confession is good for the soul. ALSO taking accountability (which for most females seems like taking cryptonite to Superman) is a very good look. Here's to us ALL getting the help we need to get better 🥂.
SAMANTHA ! SIGMA MALES have very deep observation power , they judge a women in few words , few minuets , & few movements , but keep quiet & walk away smilling , at that time every sense is rapidly working , heart , brain soul & eyes , every line which appears on her face is clearly vissible & recorded in the brains . THANK GOD HE HAS GIFFTED ME WITH A " PHOTOGENIC MEMORY" Still remember all the Poems used to read in class 6 th . 🙏🏼💐
Make sure she is ready before you jump into that relationship because if you love hard and the girl ant on that then don't do it. You got to know between love and lust there is a difference.
@@LoveSamanthaLee I want to thank you so much for helping me to see that in all this time I wasn’t alone in what my intuition was telling me. That I’m not insane. Some people are just damaged and no matter what you do to help them improve they take it as an attack. This video was icing 🧁 to my cake 🍰 🙏
Appreciate your honesty crazy my last 2 relationships was like that and my sons mom is attention seeker I let all of them go couldn’t deal with it sad part is a lot of women out here like that and won’t go to therapy but I do cuz I got some healing to do myself
@@LoveSamanthaLee for us to meet and you interview me is what Im referring to Lady COOL and Blessed! Haha! Lets talk further in your instagram inbox ok? Im free and bored Lol
I find that If the structure of the ship is in agreement, meaning, if the basic values are on the same level, the sky is the limit. If first your minds agree on debatable issues, it's my suspicion that we would both find comfort in that and feel more a team then ever, and with every discussion. Clearly, this hasn't been discovered by myself, but the theory seems practical. 🤣
Another red flag 🚩 is when you have to date her Mom, best friend, co-workers etc. When she allows these people to be all up in y’all business and decision making processes, RUN!
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I asked ya to stay off my page numerous times😂😂😂 ur a sneaky devil who's jealous of meeee... I L❤VE my melanin Brown skin... Why compete???? I can't be mad imitation is the highest form of flattery, thanks boo fa being low vibrational have a blessed night bitter nancy who watches my stories an all I do... Thank You in advance❤❤❤
You dope
🍿+ definitely has a voice for #radio
Samantha, what motivates you to talk about the sigma male so much?
Sounds like almost every pretty girl on the planet. Personality disorders are a real thing.
1. Emotional immaturity - lack of emotional control
2. Lack of accountability
3. Attention seeking
Thank you for putting this into perspective. I stayed in a 5 year relationship with all these characteristics, and didn’t think it was that bad until we broke up and started processing our relationship. Great video. Keep up the great work!
No problem Ali. ❤️❤️
Man, I stayed in mutliple relationships where I allowed disrespect, selfish in a victimized manner, them thinking and saying they are one this but another in actions, or incongruency in the person profile. Most of my relationships I've always felt that if I wasnt entertaining or on top of them they would leave and most of them, granted, my research has been hispanic south texas women ... lots of them. Its sad. Because they all think they want a good guy for them to love forever, but, they don't have the knowledge to keep us, only to nag us into doing what they want as opposed to knowing that aspect of relationships just as we know the conquest and approach aspect of relationships. It is men who know woman way more than woman know man, and in this day and age where young girls don't get or want or receive constructive criticisim, man i tell you, many a times i've known a woman in two seconds more than she knows herself after months of interactions.
Sounds a bit like an attachment disorder. You want a relationship but self sabotage, out of fear of being hurt. And it's usually childhood related. Like orphans or kids whose parents give them away. Or children whose parents divorced. Badly. Or maybe an unhappy marriage. .often, it's subconscious. . ( self sabotage)
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Samantha I asked ya to stay off my page numerous times😂😂😂 ur a sneaky devil who's jealous of meeee... I L❤VE my melanin Brown skin... Why compete???? I can't be mad imitation is the highest form of flattery, thanks boo fa being low vibrational have a blessed night bitter nancy who watches my stories an all I do
@@LoveSamanthaLee i totally understand your situation.
For me , my parents separated when I was 8 years old , my mother abandoned me and left to be with another man. My father cared for me until he passed away when I was 16 years old . I had no guidance in those years and so many wounds carried with me into my adult hood . When it came to meeting woman as a adult , I would meet many but I couldn’t give my full commitment and I would leave early into the relationship or not give my full self because out of fear for a woman leaving me like my mother had done . I preferred to be alone and I got more comfortable with that . I guess the sigma male lone wolf began in me when I was a boy and to this day I am the sigma. However I too sort therapy and helped my healing in moving forward in life and to not have fear like I used too. It has made me a stronger man and I don’t have that fear anymore of being left . I have learned to accept things and knowing I will still be ok with or without a lady in my life . Thanks for telling your story also and keep up the great work 🙌🏻🇦🇺
Was one of those children. I can confirm, it’s true what you say! Unfortunately it’s like that! I wish I could attach myself and commit. 43 and no children or fam. Life’s hard without fam. It turned me into lonely man. Bless people
I heard a better version of how to look at this situation. I struggled with the same self-sabotaging behavior (SSB). It's true that a troubled childhood (in whatever form) can impact your relationships, but it's not directly. The intermediate step is that it set the floor for what you deserve, very low, which in turn causes that SSB whenever you get something you believe is too good for you. In other words the floor of what you deserve is too low. As adults, we can work on raising that floor through paying attention to what we think of ourselves and realizing that the voice in our head is not us. We are just the observer of that voice.
The attention seeking part is real. I understand that women naturally seek attention & validation. But if it’s an unhealthy need, then the validation of any one man won’t be sufficient.
Thanks for sharing!
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U actually described my ex with the whole "runner" story only difference is I was willing to work out our differences I don't like running away from conflicts, whenever we would have a conflict she would cut our relationship off in an instant, & then she would try to come back, but I had to shoot her down, cause I'm not going thru that same mess again, cause it would teach her that its ok to keep running from conflict rather than trying to have a discussion so we can come to a resolution to help make our relationship stronger.
Love this video. More women need to not only speak out like this, but firstly do the growing & healing required to reach this level of self awareness. Keep spitting bars.
It took you a long time to get to the point, but your voice is pleasant. That is a key to dealing with women. Men hear the tone as well.
Good evening/morning @LoveSamanthaLee, I'm so very glad that as a woman you came out and was honest about your relationships. That takes real maturity, accountability, and honesty. Sadly not many women have matured to this level. AS a man I do appreciate this video very much. Mr KS aka the Godfather has been saying these very same things in much of his videos. Again I do appreciate the vulnerability it took to bring knowledge to both genders. I'm from Trinidad & Tobago in the Caribbean and I want to say you have earned a subscriber and a friend.
Welcome to the family Desborne. And thank you for the kind words ☺️❤️
I'm not gonna judge because you lived and you learned. Look at the person you became. Your personality and character is a testament of growth. Thank you for your honesty and sharing with us your knowledge.
I keep running into signs 1, 2, & 3.
Wasted many years of my life.
I can confirm that those flags mentioned are legitimate. My last relationship was with 1, 2 and 3 in one person. A total nightmare...I love the content you bring forth Samantha. May our heavenly father keep you and your household protected as well. Especially the little one.
Thanks Andre! God Bless you as well! ❤️❤️
"Lets get into it" Sammi Lee. It takes a big person to admit his or her faults. Sometimes you have to learn who you are as a person and enjoy being alone and accept the outcome in relationships it's called growth.
That’s very true ☺️❤️
Glad I found this page it’s rare a women understands and values us ‼️
Thanks for watching Isaiah ❤️
You just described my three longest relationships. I got out of that type of self destructive mindset by working on myself and when I got me in order, I attracted better women. Good job Samantha.
Thanks for watching ❤️
You are exactly right what you saying .Your a beautiful soul telling men what to look out for .I can see that you have seen the light and I sure your life is better now .Kisses and hugs to you !
Thank you Samantha.. I was also in a relationship like that in the past , so I can sympathize with your X .. But it takes a strong woman to admit her flaws and mistakes and in this day and age most women don't.. I love your videos.. you make a difference in people's lives.. Keep doing you..
Cool that you are open about your reality. A lot of people in this world, both men and women, don't live in reality to take responsibility for their life and actions. Nothing wrong with with seeing a therapist Samantha Lee.......sometime it's easier for a person to verbally release something that's possibly deep down in their soul that may not belong there, and/or keeping one from succeeding in life. Some of my best friends have used therapy and they state that that was the best decision they have ever made.
Yes I’m a strong advocate of therapy ❤️
You are absolutely right because I see people on Facebook and they do that and plenty of women say I'm a very handsome man but I see everything what you said. Everything is so true
I think you hit a grand-slam out of the park home run giving your advice. I could clearly see from my experiences you are definitely correct !
Being disrespectful towards waiters or towards a man, being dishonest, walking away when you talk to her, talking over you, interrupting during a conversation are some signs as well, but I enjoyed your video. I will also suggest you do a video in catching or spotting the lies women come up with because they're very slick with it. Thanks
Good one. How you treat one person who you don’t need is how you treat everyone ❤️
My Ex wife had all these traits. They started small and stupid me (unexperienced) actually thought it would get better. I was wrong. I somewhat lied to myself also. In addition, when too much time pass, I just simply felt I invested too much even though I clearly knew I wanted out.
Understood
Thank you. After healing my trauma bond and mother/father wounds, it was an awakening.
Forgiving with unconditional love and releasing it.
A red flag would be people pleasing.
Well said. Well received. Those 3 tendencies do cover a lot of ground. I'm glad you grew into the lady you are today.
You nailed it, I learned much about relationships growing up. My parents divorced when I was 14 the marriage started falling apart when I was 12.Both parents told me they would not put me in middle of their fights but being a child 12-14 that is what they did unintentionally. Children see and can hear everything body language, heated arguments in force whispers, I was a human sponge. I had my heart broken but my High School sweetheart by her messing around with her ex (caught her red handed) while we were together, I dropped her like a hot potato. I am 59 with a body count of 6 due to my border line INFJ personality . At 30 I was married to my wife for 10 wonderful years (our fights included) until she passed in 2003. I only have 3 values I look for in any relationship Honesty, Integrity and Respect. If I am going to give you this, I demand the same in return.
Those are 3 great values to look for! ❤️❤️
appreciate you... followed you on IG not on YT. Great video appreciate the vulnerability leading by example. Thank you!!
Frequency and vibration really do play an important part of life, I see way I gravitate to your channel. Great work!
I'm in shock ... someone taking accountability in this modern world. Subscribed.
So many people need to hear this.
Thanks Courtney
Powerful message, preach “on!
I don’t know how I came across your page but you are a tremendous blessing. I am now a subscriber. Keep speaking facts and fire 🔥…. I commend you for your honesty in this video. I recently experienced a female that exhibited all 3 of these red flags but I overlooked them in hopes of trying to see the best in her. Trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Welp 🤦♂️ that came to an end and I don’t ever see myself doing that again……EVER….
Welcome to the fam Orlando ❤️
Ty, this freed me from this great woman i dated months ago. I didn’t understand it, had me questioning myself mentally for months still to this day. She didn’t even want to talk it out in person. It hurts but I had to heal myself from it
Glad you’re out of the situation Elijah ❤️ healing takes time but it gets better
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My Ex 3 out of 3 I should have ran when I had the chance. I had so many chances to run, but I just did not wanna see it for what it was worth. I also used to tell her I don't like being cussed at. She said she did not care. You live, you learn
Thank you for sharing this, Samantha. I'm happy you realized all those things about yourself
Thank you for being honest to yourself and saving others souls I just subscribed love your channel.
Thank you...great content...was starting to think that looking for accountability in my mate was a waste of time....
Thanks Tim. No not a waste of time at all
Wow 😮 you just explained this better than anyone could you earned my subscription 🎯💪🏽💯
Welcome to the fam! ❤️
Great video!
Congratulations on getting the help you need.
Unfortunately there are so many people who need help but will not get it.
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Appreciate you, sis! Not only are you beautiful . You're smart, secure of yourself, and most of all fun, and informative. We need leaders like you. I'm sure you would win at anything you went after. Proud of you. Keep going.
Thanks so much Lee ☺️❤️
Yup… Of one can’t be criticized they can’t be critical of themselves and can’t grow as a person. Keep doin wut ya do gurl 🙏🏽🤗
Thank you Samantha Lee we love you keep coming with it can't get enough you. Love on top of Love for you all in fan for you 💫💕💫💕💫💕💖
The truth's the truth and yer tellin it, ma'am! 🎯👏
Just recently started viewing your vids, and I love your content. Along with your eyes and that fly hoodie. 😂
oh wow! I only ever saw your shorts and never knew you make regular sized videos.Now I can enjoy your beauty in a larger format! :) BTW also your nice clean intelligent advice.
Thanks so much! Yes I make longer videos as well ❤️
I was too the runner for a long time until it happened to me. Someone I really loved left my life and it was in that moment I knew I had to change
Love your content...... your absolutely right.
Thanks Nathan ❤️
I finally understand how you know all of this about us. You must’ve lost a sigma male but it’s great seems it made you step your game up and even better your paying it forward and that’s a great trait looked for in a wife.
Thank You Queen Samantha Lee, Very Powerful Insight, Speaking Nothing Short Of The Truth..
Samantha Lee, you nailed it. I went through the same thing.
Samantha Lee, thank you, I appreciate you!!!
I'm already your biggest Fan!
Thanks Gilz! ❤️
Public comment . I am happy and proud of you Ms Samantha . Thanks for sharing your knowledge. Fact. No games. Real women don't play games.
You have a true heart for man to put this info out
Lotta women don't like to admit this info
Thank you ❤️
So you're like me just making up words from thin air- Framily..... that's a first for me...😂😂😂😂😂 Great video
It’s great to hear a female perspective on this issue I was in a similar situation, and I like what I see 😁
All three traits in one entity summed up perfectly.
Excellent video. Preach Pastor Lee!!!
Haha I’ll keep preaching ☺️❤️
You absolutely nailed this video
Thanks Shai ❤️
You welcome 🙏. Keep the fire truth coming
Wow. Good stuff my friend
Thank you ❤️
No matter where you go there you are!!
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It is type different when an actual 10/10 who went through the experiences gives you honest advice.
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Thank u........I need this
No problem Frankie ❤️
Sam thx much for sharing. So.true on all points, but to me, it all comes down to honesty and a genuine willingness to share your feelings. In lieu of choosing to combat one another, just gently sit them down and express exactly how you feel - without shouting, w/o cussing, etc. Sure, this still may not prevent a breakup, but if it's handled the right way, nobody walks away completely broken. You may even remain friends.
Definitely correct ❤️
@Love, Samantha Lee Sam, you're quite a blessing. And to think I once lived in GA, and yet we never met " (
Good stuff..🙏 Forgot 1🚩 the company she keeps, that 1 friend that can't keep a relationship together however 😂 got all the "advice"
Thank you for the heads up. I have seen this behavior behavior from my ex.
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Wow! The trifecta. That's 💯% real.
I've experienced it. Either they work through it and you see results or you keep it moving. Staying may bring you great knowledge, but at what expense and for how long? Stay sharp my dudes 🤝
I wish people would exhibit this level of accountability. I actually sent this to a narcissistic ex in the hopes they might see sense but there response was that I was toxic for sending it lol
Oh wow lol. Well good news is that they’re an ex now ☺️❤️
@Love, Samantha Lee these people can't be helped. The only people that can help are themselves, but that will only happen of they accept responsibility for their actions. Until then, they're happy to continue living in their delusional bubble
Lol. Truth though Samantha was dealing with a border personality disorder which quite clearly she has control over now and that is very different from narcissistic personality disorders who have no empathy or emotions, just cold hearted, hence response u got
Thank you for the info
❤️ no problem
Yeah, you're right my sista! Thanks for looking out for us good men I've been checking out ya shorts and I just gotcha notification here... the subject matter is spot on. I just subbed to ya. I'll be looking forward to your content Peace and ❤
Awesome video. Great job… Keep them coming. ❤️
Thank you ❤️
Ur videos always make so much sense and provide great advise. Thank you ! Blessings !
Blessings! ❤️ thank you
From Telaviv..I just wanna say...Amazing and 100% truth..i had to get trough a relation with that kind of woman...you have a very strong and beatiful heart..and part of it is because you were polished by living all that...Shalom
This shit is gold! I just ended something from 12 years and she had all three of these and wouldn’t hear anything I was saying. I had to go so she could find herself. It hurt me bad but she wasn’t who I fell in love with anymore. Very sad
Good on YOU Samantha. Confession is good for the soul. ALSO taking accountability (which for most females seems like taking cryptonite to Superman) is a very good look. Here's to us ALL getting the help we need to get better 🥂.
Thank you ❤️
Appreciate you, these were things I already was checkin for ✅
You’re on it ❤️
You nailed it .. I walked away from
An EX..
Oooo child ..
She was a ALOT. Good luck to the current guy
Yes it’s his relationship now ❤️
I'm glad you made change in your life and you got help life is a learning experience God bless you my beautiful sister always ❤❤😊
You made my day with this video. I was feeling some type of way. Thank you for your truth, Queen!!!
Thanks for watching Michael ❤️
Hope Samatha Lee that You have a Wonderful Sunday,You are very knowledgeable and Beautiful
Thanks for sharing
No problem
Great video 👍
Thanks Edgar ❤️
SAMANTHA !
SIGMA MALES have very deep observation power , they judge a women in few words , few minuets , & few movements , but keep quiet & walk away smilling , at that time every sense is rapidly working , heart , brain
soul & eyes , every line which appears on her face is clearly vissible & recorded in the brains .
THANK GOD HE HAS GIFFTED ME WITH A " PHOTOGENIC MEMORY"
Still remember all the Poems used to read in class 6 th . 🙏🏼💐
#DEEP very educational I enjoyed the depth
Thank you ❤️❤️
My love is rare. Love can turn into hate. People don't understand the thin line.
It absolutely can
Make sure she is ready before you jump into that relationship because if you love hard and the girl ant on that then don't do it. You got to know between love and lust there is a difference.
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Thank you for this
No problem 😌
Abandonment issues are WAY more prevalent than normal people think
Great video. Incredibly insightful. Sounds like you are describing a person who maybe a narcissist or has NPD.
Thanks for Sharing this 👍 To Thine Own self Be True and you cannot be False to Anyone 🥰💋❤️
Good video.
I don’t wanna sound wired Sam but I love u for all you do for your supporters and viewers👌💯
Not weird at all. Thank you for supporting me! ☺️❤️
Yes ma’am your welcome!
You’ve described my ex wife very well in your videos it’s like you knew her.
Sorry to hear that
@@LoveSamanthaLee I want to thank you so much for helping me to see that in all this time I wasn’t alone in what my intuition was telling me. That I’m not insane. Some people are just damaged and no matter what you do to help them improve they take it as an attack. This video was icing 🧁 to my cake 🍰 🙏
Turned it up preaching in my city New York as the Holy Spirit dealt with me
Appreciate your honesty crazy my last 2 relationships was like that and my sons mom is attention seeker I let all of them go couldn’t deal with it sad part is a lot of women out here like that and won’t go to therapy but I do cuz I got some healing to do myself
Therapy absolutely works! ❤️
Appreciate you Woman of God @LoveSamanthaLee God bless you more! I met Laterras recently in Texas
Thanks Tony! ☺️❤️
@@LoveSamanthaLee so glad to have you drop by ! Peace, love, blessings from Inglewood as Im here! Haha
@@LoveSamanthaLee i promise you, it will be much fun and enjoyable as I have so much to share as God has blessed me! To him be all the Glory!
@@LoveSamanthaLee for us to meet and you interview me is what Im referring to Lady COOL and Blessed! Haha! Lets talk further in your instagram inbox ok? Im free and bored Lol
My method still works I do most of the talking everything that comes out my mouth is game tight and never let her beat me in the conversation
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I find that If the structure of the ship is in agreement, meaning, if the basic values are on the same level, the sky is the limit. If first your minds agree on debatable issues, it's my suspicion that we would both find comfort in that and feel more a team then ever, and with every discussion. Clearly, this hasn't been discovered by myself, but the theory seems practical. 🤣
Another red flag 🚩 is when you have to date her Mom, best friend, co-workers etc. When she allows these people to be all up in y’all business and decision making processes, RUN!
Yes! A relationship is two people
PreachHHhH 🙏😇💯👏🏻🏆
@@rockosmith9874 Amen 🙏🏽
Spit that knowledge Girl !!! 😁
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Welp...my soon to be ex wife has all 3 of these warning signs. Your story is identical to hers. Thank you Samantha
No problem Adam ❤️
YOU KNOW WHAT I LOVE TO SEE ❤
Deep ❤️ 🙏🏼 stay blessed
You too! ❤️
Happy and a blessed Sunday @loveSananthalee - You preach and teach at your church?
I love your content ❤
Thank you ☺️