MGTOW mvt is just growing larger because both genders (let's not blame any one specific gender) both genders make it too difficult to coexist together. On top of that the modern busy selfish self serving society as a whole does not have room for imperfection and avg men. Therefore most men that are simply too average are just not interesting enough for the modern woman. Same goes for avg looking women to below avg women. It goes both ways. The female and male going their own way phenomenon is a quiet personal choice that many have chosen. They don't want pity, they simply lost interest in romantic relationships. Women got what they want. They don't need men anymore. Women got vibrators, sperm donars and lesbian relationships to explore. Men got what they want too - hookers, video games, sports, and materialistic things to keep them distracted. It is what it is. No one is to blame really. It is what it is.
In my opinion I feel people feel more obligated to bash women that wear less then men that wear less.........You guys should addres why both men and women bash the way women wear but never what men wear?
Yes but that’s literally most guys too. Girls are always taught to look for a husband and fairy tale ending. Then when young women get passed around in their teens and 20’s by men who just want to use them for their body, they realize that everything they were told is a lie. Most of these young men are not out here looking for relationships they just want a sexual release. They lead a girl on and then dump her once she gets pregnant or he loses interest. Women are initially taught to look for a relationship and men are taught to get a high body count. Especially relevant in the black community. When we were young we always thought the first, second, or third guy was going to be our happy ever after. Then we eventually become damaged when we realize the truth. It’s a huge failure on behalf of fatherless homes who failed to teach their sons or be involved with their sons at all.
It's odd though. The men I know that are conservatives are the ones with the biggest problems with porn. My liberal male friends use far less or zero pornography.
I think relationships are being destroyed by this "modern" feminism much more as well as various trauma we might have experienced in our life that make impossibile for many people to have a decent relationship. Porn is only a compensation
Completely agree. I’ve never been one to follow what society wears and yet here I am happily married. I have noticed that from my Facebook friends, those girls that want to look like the Kardashian’s are the ones who are still single
I currently live in a country where women are (90%) VERY feminine yet with spines of steel, dress as if they truly respect themselves, are happy to be women, appear demure yet know their power. It's SO refreshing!!
Whenever I was fixing myself a meal, I always asked my boyfriend if he wanted something and he did the same for me. And if we were watching a movie together and he got up to get a drink or a snack, he would always ask me if I needed something vice versa. It’s just about being a kind, compassionate individual. There is no power struggle when you’re together - you’re a team :)
@@mi3helle707 I just made an ig. I’m going to start posting singing covers and maybe the occasional thirst trap picture when I get to my ideal weight 😅😅. I agree with Candace though.
The girl im dating used to post the usual "look at me" stuff on instagram and fb and im like if you want to stay in this relationship you will NOT post crap like this.
@@TheGoodMMADog technically yeah it’s a social media, but don’t go saying it’s the exact same as Instagram😂 I just find yt less toxic that’s what I’m saying by social when she said she got off of it.
I'm a 61 year old woman from England. I hope my sons have a chance to meet someone as sensible and lovely as this young lady. Wish I had your ability to transfer my thoughts. Thank you for doing it for me ❤
Even if the girls took their clothes off I don't think men would listen to them either. We would give more attention because we like what we're looking, but really listening to what they're saying?
@@MissJade805 Where are you getting this ? If you knew anything about her which clearly you dont, you would know that she's the complete opposite of everything you've just said. Just because she's passionate when it comes to things that are important to her doesnt mean what you think.
"I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing and no matter what a woman is, it's a wonderful thing". - Patrice O'Neal
As funny as it sounds, she hit it on the mark. I have a friend whose parents were married together for 71 YEARS. Obviously, they were old school folks from Central Asia, but what held them together was tradition and morals...
@@nathanrakhman7176 geeez that's longer than a lot of people have actually lived Tradition and morals holds for a very long time especially if you are both in agreement with it
You'd be surprised how many women like her still exist. They're hidden gems in our society. They're out there, just unattainable to cheap men who entertained the latter.
It ain’t obvious coz we’re being pressured(almost brainwashed) by society to believe that it’s how things should be; the norm. We need reminders like this from time to time.
She’s speaking facts. I’m a feminine girl and ironically (or not so much anymore) I’ve only seen feminists degrade me for literally being a normal female, not men.
I try to speak up like Candace in my sociology classes and I get attacked for it, but I’m 42 and went back to school late, and I learned these lessons the hard way.
I remember meeting a girl I spoke to on phone for the first time. And as beautiful as she was I was more caught up by the way she was dressed. She was so decent and gentle. It commanded respect from me, such respect that would make you use “please and Mam” when talking to her. I wish women knew how little they have to do to avoid disrespect from men.
I used to be a stripper in my past, I was so unhappy and depressed no matter how much money I made but I never let nobody know, I turned my back on that life, put all the clothes I used to have in the bin and started changing my life to live as a traditional woman and I’m so happy, and I’m no longer depressed, i wish I had someone when I was younger who would off learned me that was not the way but I thank Jesus Christ for changing my life
@@godslittlegirl amen 🙏🏼 it was all Jesus Christ he is truly amazing and a blessing to my life, I only speak about it to point others to Jesus Christ so they too can find peace and happiness in there lives, GOD is GOOD ✝️👑🕊
Keep in mind Candice keeps saying "what men want in a woman". She is not talking about all these boys, douchebags, bros and bruhs. She's talking about respectable men with goals. Men who treat women and themselves with respect.
The problem is women chase the bros and the dudes bc the good men of value are "too boring" bc theyd rather come home from work eat dinner and watch a little tv then go to bed bc they have to work tomorrow vs lets go out to the club and have drink service and you can dance on this pole and well put on Instagram what a fun party it was
@@jlogan2228 - What kind of women are you talking about? Sounds to me like you're grouping all the wanna be Cardi B type women in with respectable women. Maybe you should up your standards??
@@KelleyBroussardMackaig just out of curiosity what does cardi b have to do with anything. Don’t forget she’s a married woman and stayed after he cheated. Maybe her perception of her man is off but you don’t know her to be judging her. Neither do I.
I literally told my ex upfront that she has been lying and I need an honest person. ..hinting her to be straight forward to me. .she hasn't spoken to me for a month.....can't handle the truth
A girl i was dating criticized me because i did not acknowledge her as " powerful " because she was always looking for attention on social media....dodged that bullet
What the hell? How am I a woman? They all seem nuts to me, I can't relate to my own gender. I would never act this way, but then its mens fault too because they will still hook up with these kinds of girls and use them just as much as these girls are using the men to boost their princess hungry egos. God, girls shouldn't even have egos, its so anti-nurturing. Like, what kind of mom would they be some day?
@Olive Green I’m surprised you haven’t received a “pick me” comment yet 😂. On a serious note I agree with you. Many women are taught to be non-nurturing, as though nurturing is weakness. Women are taught that men will take advantage of any shown kindness, which is not true for the majority of men. Women should surround themselves with good men and they’ll feel safe enough to be a humble and content woman.
I was raised by a single father never had a mother’s love, my wife today is a loving mother to my son and I, I adore her so much and never knew I needed a woman’s touch until she came into my life, she is the reason why my work boots stay dirty and I don’t mind. I wouldn’t be able to lead my family with out my wife’s support.
Perfectly said my brother. Been married 29 years and would do it again. It takes two to raise kids. I get crap all the time for being a proponent for marriage and family.
You wouldn't do the same if your wife just wanted your money while she fcks other dudes behind your back. Or keeps nagging you to make more money but at the same time, spend more time with her or do any chores on top of your job. Women think a man doing what he's written for them is a default. Get atta your fantasy and realize it should go both ways.
I deleted Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook well over 5 years ago and let me tell you that it was the single best desition for my mental health. Unfortunately, youtube is heading in the same direction. It might just come down to biting the bullet and getting the hell off of here too.
Being considerate to someone you love is never a bad thing. Extremely well said Candance. I appreciate that the interviewer allows the entire idea be explained - more of a discussion. Not a debate or trying to shut down the thoughts. Thank You!
I'm a stay at home mom and feel like other women look down on me for not working.... it's not fun... but I don't care....my family is happy and the stress level in our home is very low!!!
@Yulia 456 they are jealous that they have to slave away at work and she doesn’t🤷🏽♀️. If they weren’t jealous they wouldn’t look down on her, they’d just say “I’m happy for you but that lifestyle is not for me”.
@Yulia 456 she’s not a breeder she’s the literal glue that holds the family together. Without her the husband couldn’t function and the kids would be a mess and failing left and right. It ultimately comes down to Choice, if you want to peruse a high powered career you can more power to you but accept the consequences. Same with the stay at home Mom, she chose her life and she has to face the consequences.
"You wanna know why our grandparents stayed together? Because they weren't looking at ass cheeks all day on Instagram." This is quickly becoming one of my favorite videos in this genre.
they stayed together cuz they didnt have the money to separate, societal pressure, and women didn't have complete agency. i mean a few decades ago a woman needed their husband's signature to get a house or whatever. many women were abused and couldnt leave for said reasons or for the sake of the kids. please man
@@MsDudette21 Just because your grandparents were unhappy doesn't mean that mine and other peoples were. If you think it's bad advice to stop posting pics with your butt out on social media and seeking the dopamine hit from likes to get approval, then good luck with that. And also, this is a quote from the clip, so if you have a problem go @ Candace Owens
@@CodyLScaggs nah my grandparents were fine. I just know better to deny the cold hard reality and look at the past with rose colored glasses just cuz it appeared nice. And I never said or implied anything about posting butt pics being a good thing. Just cuz I don't like some thing she said doesnt mean I disagree with everything. There is such thing as nuance.
Candace, I have been very liberal in my past but I started watching your videos and absolutely adore how you speak about values and integrity. It has really helped me come into my own as a woman and start to choose more traditional choices for my future. If we saw more women and men like you (conservative that truly uphold their values) I think more people would listen and make changes because it brings so much peace, purpose and clarity into our lives. I think the problem (for me, at least) has been seeing many conservatives say these things but not truly live them or uphold their values. But seeing you actually speak about it so powerfully and confidently and carry yourself in such a refined way has been so incredibly refreshing and insightful - thank you!
I deleted my Instagram two weeks ago and I feel so much better already man. I only keep facebook messenger to keep in touch with my international friends, and RUclips to keep up to date and educated
“First wave feminists wanted women to have the option. They wouldn’t agree with third wave feminists today.” As someone educated in the history of feminism, I 100% agree.
Mary Daly was a 70's second wave feminist and wanted to cull the male population down to 1%. "there must be a decontamination of the Earth. I think this will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the population of males.”
First wave feminism was part of the devils agenda. To distort God's order of a family structure from God, man, women, animals... to Animals, women, man, God. The bible ever says the antichrist will create a society that favors women and hates men.
Personally, I enjoy making food for a man because I feel empowered when something I made brings someone else happiness and nourishment. Why do people never question or demonize women making food for their children, when it's fundamentally the same goal? Women, please don't hate providing joy and nutrition for the ones you love. It's one of the most powerful gestures and efforts you can provide.
Exactly I mean when we post pictures in general obviously it’s for attention because why will we follow people and want followers back unless it’s for attention but when you post pictures of you in a sexual manner you’re obviously seeking extra attention
Modesty has this stigma surrounding it. Like it's some kind of archaic rule that was enforced by a "tyrannical patriarchy" haha. But if you approach modesty with Love in mind everything changes. Modest women understand men value their body and the intimacy she is able to create with it. When you tell women to show more of themselves for all to see and to seek attention above all else two things happen: first, women become unsure of their true value, they become insecure and petty until they're consumed in self hatred without the added likes on social media. Second, you inevitably create a world where there's no more intimacy. When that happens the value of privacy goes down and when that happens the threat of totalitarianism nears. Women play a massive part in the world that determines whether or not people feel connected and valued, they're the guardians of the private space and are Traditionally seen as the beating heart of the family unit. So women, be beautiful and show off your abilities to creatively express yourself. But please do it in Love, be modest and become the solution to the loneliness, depression and suicide pandemic. Desire to challenge men to greater heights, to become virtuous and strong in order to show they're worthy to treasure the body mind and heart you possess. There's a few great joys in life. One of the greatest is to be with someone who's heart beats with yours in one rhythm; in a beautiful dance only experienced behind closed doors. You can either have that or 100k likes for the bikini photo you posted on social media. Your choice.
@@anothercat1300 Honestly, 1000000% agree!!! I am Orthodox Hindu, my GF is Romanian Catholic so we come form two different worlds, but these values persist! There was sexism at one time, but in terms of the scripture and the origins of the ideas not on a cultural level, but rather on a metaphysical or theological level, these ideas are commonly shared. My mother dresses in traditional Hindu garb, and when going out Indo-Western or even modest Western garb like skirts and dresses. I asked her once why, and she said "Everyone deserves my respect, some deserve my words, but not a single man other than your father deserves a square centimeter of my body. Simple." I think that speaks volumes as to the moral character of my mother and the man ho she trusts and loves so much, my father. My gf is also very traditional, told me that it was her father who (instead of FORCING it on her), told her that not a single man was worthy of her body and to see it in such intimacy, not even me, unless that man commits himself to her for life as her husband. I agree. This culture helps foster good women who are convicted to their morals and that is a sign of a strong woman, and men will rise up to meet that by being dependable, protective, good men. I can tell you that, as a guy, I face a lot even at just 19 years old. I have two jobs, a difficult major, research, and yet if I visit my GF's apartment, the very sight of her as you said gives me the sense that I am safe from all of that. She is the beating heart that keeps me going. I cannot tell you how many days my father has told me that he comes home broken and tired, and sometimes angry, and the way my mother glues the family unit together, really gives him inspiration. Modesty and being feminine is not bad, it'd beautiful truly. There was day where feminine women were not respected by men, now women do not respect them either. Sad, truly very sad.
@@viddykhaos2896 What an incredible mother you have. I have a few friends who were Hindu Orthodox then converted to Orthodox Christianity. They always talk about their culture and how they're inspired to reveal Christ in it to others. People are in need of much hope where I'm from and despair is heavy. I imagine you've seen people like that. I pray your wife reveals the Love of Jesus Christ to you every day. God bless you both!
What an amazing sight to see in the end! She has her time to speak, then when the host speaks she quietly listens. Unfortunately, something as simple as not interrupting someone while they speak is becoming increasingly rare.
My wife is a stay at home, I gave her the funds to start her own business. I’m not on the paperwork and I have nothing to do with her business. Now she works from home and her dreams are coming true because she stayed at home. When we got married, I told her that you can work if you want, but I’m the provider and that’s my job to take care of you and the kids.
@Graciela Y Etcheverry yeah, I think that true. I’m 35 and I think I’m old enough to have that mentality but young enough to have a different one. As for me I grew up in a home where my Step-Father was like that and I got it from seeing him do the same thing
That’s inspirational man. I’m 23, single and just now starting my business I plan to do the same when I get a girl and business pops off. I always wanted a stay at home woman.
@@JoshylovesTrance thanks, I’m trying to be one for my son and daughter. I don’t want my daughter to accept anything less or my son to do anything less.
You could easily turn that around. "You have to be modest and never show any skin to get attention and freedom? That's not freedom, that's bondage and slavery."
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua Still, it works both ways. It depends om the reason on why you're doing it: if you cover up because you think your body is sinful or inherently filthy, or because you think all men are potential rapists or because you think your god will send you to hell if you don't...then that's slavery too (arguably worse than uncovering), based on degrading yourself and demonizing men. It's a toxic worldview and should be called out. If you cover up (or just don't show much) just because you like it and it fits your personality, then its perfectly fine. Same for showing a lot of skin. If you do it just because you are an attention freak and believe yourself to have no other quality...you have a problem too.
I know she gets a bad rap in the Black community but she always tells the straight up honest truth. I think a lot of times people just don’t like to hear that type of brutal honesty.
@@kasdcomoa5567 she's tells the truth, she gets bullied by black people telling her she's acting "white", she married a white man, she's the women that men actually wants.
yes I dont agree with everything she says but I do like how she carries herself but after the Grammy's fiasco and the Satan shoes I am leaning towards her more because society is going down the drain
I have a gal pal who recently just quit her job because she wanted to spend more time with her kids and family. Her husband makes enough to support the family. I thought it was great she did that. She was saying how she felt she was wasting her time at work doing a job she hated. She wanted to spend more time raising her kids and making her family stronger.
I used to have social media, and I used to crave this attention so badly…. I’m so glad I’m going into a better path. I want to be respected for being educated, well spoken, opinionated, and finding values in life that don’t stem from materialistic possessions and unrealistic beauty standards.. you’re awesome Candace.
@Fnnelm mine did too.. I will admit I still go on it from time to time, but every time I do I always end up crying and comparing myself. It’s toxic. I just need to stray away from it completely.
@@Lilliana99 this comparison is something I struggle with a lot. And I mean A LOT! I want to delete it but I just want to look at the things that make me happy like interior design and architecture and I’ll have to unfollow so many accounts :(
@@dbmae1532 that has nothing to do with it dude. You can be the most attractive person in the world but comparing is something many people do. It’s a natural human reaction to compare. If something is bad you, just don’t do it. Simple. There will always be someone smarter, hotter, richer.
Tell that to the guy that gets up early to go work construction all day and pay the bills. I'm fine with a women staying home taking care of the children. But don't kid yourself. You're not special.
You are right it does take a strong woman. It always has. The issue is that having just the man work and woman stay home is harder now than ever before. Prices for things are crazy out of control. Back in the 60s the man can have one job. With that job have a home, a car, and be able to support his family. Now unless you make 100k a year that is almost impossible. I mean even kids that graduate from college making 50k to 60k a year is hard enough for them as well.
@@jplusosec977 .... aren’t both jobs important? Obviously working construction is a labor intensive job and hard on the body, so of course that should be appreciated. Bills getting paid is essential and I believe a women should think her man is special and amazing if he can provide financial stability single handily, and is willing to take on that burden alone. That being said staying home with kids who need things from you all day, while trying to keep on top of all the household chores, can be mentally taxing. Kids do better when they are little if mom (or dad) is home, as opposed to a day care. When a women is willing to put her career and Financial independence on hold for her children’s well-being , I believe that’s a good thing. Juggling kids and house work at the very least, takes a great deal of patience and time management. Why wouldn’t a husband find a women who can do those tasks well, special? A family tends to run smoothest with a provider and a nurturer. Both should be valued. This “you’re not special” attitude seems counter productive to me. A man and women should think what their partner does is special and be appreciative. Definitely makes for a more rewarding relationship when both people feel valued. It shouldn’t be a competition. It’s a team effort.
I’ve learned to view being a woman, carrying children, and bearing healthy femininity as a gift to myself and the world. It’s not about stereotypes or filling any role- it’s about loving and accepting every part of who you are and interacting in the world as your full self each and every day. I choose to live my life as the female role model I always hoped for- become your own example ❤️🧡
Good for you. Sorry to tell you that Black men...are looking at Brazilian women as the ''perfect partners'' in life...oh, so they think. Brazilian women just think....they have $$$.
Amen Candace, as a working single mother and once career-oriented, nothing makes me happier and content where I feel like I have a purposeful life than having my child and raising him. No career goals have given me this level of satisfaction than having a child and becoming a mother.
Love her!!! She’s only hated by many because she speaks the truth. I’ve been masculine in the past and my life changed for the better when I discovered my femininity.
Hey how did you go about becoming more feminine? My dad raised me to be a man, even though I am female. So femininity is something I really struggle with.
@@blackfilmmakerguide5720 - The man is an unemployable 50some year old who's never walked the talk he talks. He's long publicly admitted he's was never a "Henry", and he prides himself in being an effective salesman. So dude has pretty much put his card on the table and showed his hand. And people diss Steve Harvey book, why?
The Russians have a wonderful saying regarding families: "The man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck that steers towards the right direction."
@@trubnikov Мне не надо жить в России, чтобы у меня было право использовать русские выражения. И русский я уже выучил, именно чтобы дуракам как тебе отвечать. Как это шовинизм, если оба партнёра принимают участие в направлении отношения?
These are the words women need to hear after being brainwashed that only fans is something inspiring. I worry for these future generations with what society glorifies
Yes and a lot of women also need to realize that they are average at best. I'm not saying that in a derogatory way, I'm saying that most people, men and women are average. We're not models, we're not billionaires or celebrities, we're regular people. Average women need to understand that they can easily get an average guy who will be good to them if they do the same thing back, no cheating, poly, hyper all of that bullshit. If the next generation of women realized this and kept themselves more reserved for longer, they would actually be flooded out by genuinely good men, maybe not the richest men, or best looking, but good men who will love them. We're all sitting here alone. The society of hookup culture and social media have created a group of women who have overly inflated ego's, they all think they are perfect 10's and so they are all going for the perfect 10 guy, while in reality they are all average people with problems just like us average guys. There's nothing wrong with being average. It's called having humility and staying humble. 8 billion people in this world and only 10% of them are in the 10%. EDIT: Thought I was replying to a different comment there. Please understand this comment is not necessarily directed at you, I'm just making general statements.
Exactly, It's sad that so many women think that their self worth is tied to their attractiveness, a very shallow characteristic. The truth is, the type of women that men naturally find attractive and valuable for long term/marriage, are traditional, feminine women who are more submissive and let their man lead, and are happy rearing children, cooking, etc. And the type of men that women naturally find attractive and valuable for long term/marriage, are men who are assertive, leaders, have ambition, financial stability, are loyal and honest, etc. In fact, the psychological research shows that married women in these traditional roles are the happiest, and women in their 40s who are single/divorced, with a career working 50-60 hour weeks are miserable. it's just the way it is biologically, psychologically, etc. It's the way God intended! Btw, do you happen to be a Christian?
@@bryant475 I totally agree. Women can be successful and in a proper marriage without showing everything. Modesty Is looked at as if it was oppression towards women which is so sad! No! I am muslim but I do love and respect my Christian brothers and sisters :)
@@NA-sf1lh Yeah, completely agreed! Do you also agree with the traditional roles that men and women naturally have and are happier in? Aka men being more assertive, leaders, financially stable, etc., while women are more submissive and nurturing, child rearing, etc.? And yeah Amen, there are similar values between Christianity and Islam. I'd highly recommend checking out the amazing testimony of Nabeel Qureshi!
I adore Candice! 1000% Girls, listen to this woman. Men value high quality women. High quality women = feminine, strong but not masculine, values, integrity, learn to say no, know you’re strength and value. You don’t need to be the most beautiful woman to be powerful, you need to be mentally stable, confident but not arrogant, kind, but above all authentic
I went college with a girl who often said she would never make a sandwich for her man. She was only 20 at the time. She believed in the patriarchy being bad. Saw her years later, she was working at Subway, she made me a sandwich that day. 🤣
As a 33 year old Latina woman I have been bullied for not sleeping around, for not being a thirst trap by older feminist women who are in their 50s and dress like they’re 21… they’ve called me names and stuff. I simply laugh, I know who I am and I respect myself. Present feminist are angry rebellious women. A woman shouldn’t aim to be a queen, queens command and demand, but a goddess is revered and respected. Go Candace!
There should be NO traditional roles in society. We live in a patriarchy men already have power and being a stay at home wife who cooks and cleans for him you are just contributing to the patriarchy. Get some power and stop trying to serve a man.
@James Lee she ain't throwing shade on own people. BTW what does her "own people" mean? Last time i checked loads of black and colored ppl love candace coz she speaks the facts. The truth is harsh sometimes, bit you gotta swallow it
@James Lee Hey brother, I believe you're projecting your own narrative about her. I don't agree with what she says but she sure does speak logic the majority of the time. What you said about Trump seems personal and not really based in fact. Trump can be labeled whatever but he did in fact give minorities the highest employment rate they've ever had in the history of the US, I don't believe someone racist would do that. Also what she said about George Floyd being a bad citizen was factual, she didn't support the cop though and actually said he deserved all the ridicule.
My wife’s been chasing her tail taking care of our newborn and I’ve need working 50hrs a week. I can say without a doubt, she’s working harder than me and no way could I do this parenting thing without her strength.
I don’t agree with everything she says but I believe that everything she says can lead to a constructive conversation. (In this video I agree with her pretty much 100%).
I appreciate her as well. And she’s right on point. The roles have been reversed, and clearly the agenda working as many people are unhappy. And family values have been diminished badly.
Im not a fan of Candace but in this video she is really speaking the truth.. I have new respect for her BC I can hear the compassion in her voice.. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Well the lip injections earned her millions and heavily contributed to her being the “youngest self-made billionaire” so maybe that’s why she decided to get all Duckfaced McTransraced.
She did an interview on that and she explained that her first kiss she had with a boy she liked; he told her she was a great kisser, but her lips were small.🥺
I have been married 31 years. She makes me a sandwich one day, I make her a sandwich another day. It is not about obsession over who takes what role, it is about working out together privately what works best for the family overall. There is reality and then there is the fantasy world many people think exists today. If your life revolves around the social media screen, that is not a relationship, that is a fantasy land where you will most likely end up alone, middle aged and hurt....
How Candace carried herself with such poise and elegance on this topic spoke voulmes! it’s good to hear her viewpoints even though she knows some may not completely agree with them .But how she present herself and coming with straight FACTS will get peoples attention. 👌🏾
I agree. I like her because she doesn't agree with the TRENDS.. she sticks to her own morals and values despite what other people think. I don't agree with everything she says but i don't agree with everyone else either.
@@Regal1 okay so I just wanted to know how are you able to juggle your career and kids by the way I'm very happy for you with everything you have accomplished also wouldn't you wish that your husband helped more in the kitchen like division of house chores you know coz you both bring money to the table you see , i mean i would Just like to get your opinion
Plus there's still plenty of good men out there, women just tend to look right past us like we're made of glass. If all you look for is garbage, the world will seem like a landfill.
Modesty has this stigma surrounding it. Like it's some kind of archaic rule that was enforced by a "tyrannical patriarchy" haha. But if you approach modesty with Love in mind everything changes. Modest women understand men value their body and the intimacy she is able to create with it. When you tell women to show more of themselves for all to see and to seek attention above all else two things happen: first, women become unsure of their true value, they become insecure and petty until they're consumed in self hatred without the added likes on social media. Second, you inevitably create a world where there's no more intimacy. When that happens the value of privacy goes down and when that happens the threat of totalitarianism nears. Women play a massive part in the world that determines whether or not people feel connected and valued, they're the guardians of the private space and are Traditionally seen as the beating heart of the family unit. So women, be beautiful and show off your abilities to creatively express yourself. But please do it in Love, be modest and become the solution to the loneliness, depression and suicide pandemic. Desire to challenge men to greater heights, to become virtuous and strong in order to show they're worthy to treasure the body mind and heart you possess. There's a few great joys in life. One of the greatest is to be with someone who's heart beats with yours in one rhythm; in a beautiful dance only experienced behind closed doors. You can either have that or 100k likes for the bikini photo you posted on social media. Your choice.
Gone are the days I spent at my gma’s house just listening to the wind, looking out the window, quiet in my thoughts. I used to write in my journal and read books every day.... until I was 15 & social media existed. Not a single worry about what to look like, act like, be like, compete with.... nothing like that. The underlying sickness in the increasingly superficial world of social media: Covering up pain (whatever that pain may be) by distractions: dopamine hits from likes or comments / attention seeking behavior / objectifying the female body. It’ will ruin our minds and our relationships if we let it!
Amen sister I think all women have to come to the realization that comparison is suicide for our self-esteem and self-love. When we compare ourselves to other people this is a form of a rejected self-esteem we actually reject ourselves. Thank you for this enlightening comment
I never really listened to Candace Owens but had heard about her in passing. Usually seeing a negative article headline online or something. Actually listening to her, she makes a lot of sense.
As I read the comments I am actually enjoying the feedback. I can hold myself accountable and say I was once one of these women. Then after being used so many times I decided to do the work. I needed to find out what was wrong with me. It’s hard knowing a man only wants you because you are beautiful when I have so much talent. I’m smart and I’m educated. I have serious issues when it comes to picking men lol. At least I can be honest with myself. I have been single two years now and It has been nice getting to know me. Another funny things is all of my sisters are married except for me. I don’t want to keep blaming my childhood. Even though it was messed up. Im doing the work and that’s all that matters.
I had a messed up childhood and swore off marriage and children... until I realized that I can have a family of my own without all the pain and hardship I was forced to experience bc of my parents and so-called family. I was also single for a few years and started the process of getting to know myself more each and every day. I spent so much time alone that it was unbearable at times, but my little nephews and nieces actually helped me so much- remembering what i loved and who i was as a child was life-changing. I also stopped taking advice from other people, ESPECIALLY the toxic ones- no matter who they are or what they appear to be. You’ll get to a point in your life where “the old you” really feels like a familiar stranger, and it’s going to be BEAUTIFUL. Keep doing the work ❤️🧡
@@YoungBlaze Facing all the thoughts and emotions you ignore and put off for so long (or unfairly blame yourself for) can feel like an internal attack- like your mind attacking you... I used to LOVE finding something to do to distract myself from my own thoughts But once I went through everything and faced my reality, I was finally able to heal and MOVE ON
I think this is the first time I’ve ever agreed with Candace. This generation is sick, especially the ones who are following the Cardi Bs of the world.
@@purbmeisterExactly! And I have no idea why people single Cardi B out as if she's the first provocative female artist/performer! I don't dress provocative at all but my goodness some people can't handle it when people choose to live life differently. So quick to judge when we all fall short in one way or another!
I deleted mine over month ago haven’t looked back don’t plan to either it’s crazy you think you can’t live without it and once it’s gone you don’t even care anymore haha 😌
@@sl5950 exactly my point, that is the TRUE definition of freedom 🙏🏼 everyone on social media is blue pilled, those who let go are red pilled 🙏🏼 welcome to the matrix 🔥
I love this! This should be spoken about more🙏 I am a white woman who loves being at home, taking care of the home and lovingly serve my man who is the most beautiful and respectful gentleman I've ever met. This brings me so much joy. And what is wrong with that? Embracing womanhood and hoping ....praying...to one day be blessed to raise babies to be a better generation than we are. Without racial/sexual warfare! It doesn't mean I'm less than my man. It simply means I have a different role to fulfill. So that he can be the protector and provider that he is!
@@mayaj2354 Looks start a relationship easy but a good personality keeps it going. Try asking a guy out it'll catch him off guard cause it never happens
We're out here, it's just that the crazy women are the loudest. Crazy people are the loudest and the most seen out of many groups nowadays, it's unfortunate.
I hear ya! As a 52yo man, talk like this has been a long time comin!! A woman in casual/business attire using her mind to get ahead is alot sexier than the average pole dancer!!!
@@marcofalzone6469 If there is and that's the claim you are making... PROVE IT. Since you said there is one. And don't try to flip it onto me... I never made the claim
I don't agree with everything she says but her integrity, passion and ability to elaborate her views are to be respected. Much more so than AOC or Tlaib
When I was in my 20's (now 50's), I used to wear tight clothes because I wanted attention, and I got it. But once you get a man's attention what do you do, you honor, respect, obey and treasure him and only wear those clothes you use to get him, at home, for his eyes only. Moral of the story once you get his attention, capture his heart. (Happily married to him for 29 years).
What really sucks is that families can’t afford to stay home anymore. Children are being raised in daycare and i wish society could choose between daycare and home. But that choice is taken away by monetary constraints.
LexiKnows I agree, but I know that’s happening by design. Break the family to control society. Break the family by creating a monetary system where prices for basic goods continually increases so a family needs 2 incomes. God created the family and anti God forces tear it apart.
Live modestly. That's the key. Marry a man with a foundation in Jesus Christ and he will provide all that you'll need. It can be done! I know because I'm doing it. Trust in the Lord and put your anxieties on Him. The Lord is faithful
People don't wana admit that they want to be loved and respected. Moving from relationship to relationship with a bunch of douche bags isn't fun. Instagram energy attracts those people
The crazy thing is you can be loved, respected, and lusted after just by existing lol. We are women we will ALWAYS be wanted. To be untouchable makes you even more lit 😍
@@scinnyc why should she look @ her political views b4 agreeing to her??? does she being black makes her a liberal by default? the fact that people can't agree politically doesn't mean they can't love/like each other
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MGTOW mvt is just growing larger because both genders (let's not blame any one specific gender) both genders make it too difficult to coexist together. On top of that the modern busy selfish self serving society as a whole does not have room for imperfection and avg men. Therefore most men that are simply too average are just not interesting enough for the modern woman. Same goes for avg looking women to below avg women. It goes both ways. The female and male going their own way phenomenon is a quiet personal choice that many have chosen. They don't want pity, they simply lost interest in romantic relationships. Women got what they want. They don't need men anymore. Women got vibrators, sperm donars and lesbian relationships to explore. Men got what they want too - hookers, video games, sports, and materialistic things to keep them distracted. It is what it is. No one is to blame really. It is what it is.
In my opinion I feel people feel more obligated to bash women that wear less then men that wear less.........You guys should addres why both men and women bash the way women wear but never what men wear?
Have her back on whenever you can. Best guest ever.
She won me, when said today’s women are sexually desirable and not relationship desirable,
This statement is so spot on! That’s exactly how I see them and was just saying this a few days ago.
Very very true statement
You think a woman who doesn't work and is just a housewife is desirable in today's world? Hell no
Yes but that’s literally most guys too. Girls are always taught to look for a husband and fairy tale ending. Then when young women get passed around in their teens and 20’s by men who just want to use them for their body, they realize that everything they were told is a lie. Most of these young men are not out here looking for relationships they just want a sexual release. They lead a girl on and then dump her once she gets pregnant or he loses interest. Women are initially taught to look for a relationship and men are taught to get a high body count. Especially relevant in the black community. When we were young we always thought the first, second, or third guy was going to be our happy ever after. Then we eventually become damaged when we realize the truth. It’s a huge failure on behalf of fatherless homes who failed to teach their sons or be involved with their sons at all.
Nailed it...🔥🔥🔥
Pornography and a hyper sexaul society is destroying relationships between men and women. Conservatives need to be talking about this .
True. Pornography is a force of destruction. It’s all for the moment.
Conservatives get married. That’s the example.
It's odd though. The men I know that are conservatives are the ones with the biggest problems with porn. My liberal male friends use far less or zero pornography.
Conservatives ALWAYS talked about it,
But the media always calls them sexist and silence them.
I think relationships are being destroyed by this "modern" feminism much more as well as various trauma we might have experienced in our life that make impossibile for many people to have a decent relationship. Porn is only a compensation
Dressing modestly will NEVER GO OUT OF FASHION!!!
Totally agree with Candace Owens❤️.
Completely agree. I’ve never been one to follow what society wears and yet here I am happily married. I have noticed that from my Facebook friends, those girls that want to look like the Kardashian’s are the ones who are still single
I currently live in a country where women are (90%) VERY feminine yet with spines of steel, dress as if they truly respect themselves, are happy to be women, appear demure yet know their power. It's SO refreshing!!
@@bengedalecia9393 what country is that?
@@olafharoldsonnii4713 Viet Nam
If you carry yourself correctly a turtleneck is sexy as hell
Whenever I was fixing myself a meal, I always asked my boyfriend if he wanted something and he did the same for me. And if we were watching a movie together and he got up to get a drink or a snack, he would always ask me if I needed something vice versa. It’s just about being a kind, compassionate individual. There is no power struggle when you’re together - you’re a team :)
Social Media destroyed the concept of a real relationship.
AGREE
This
It's not social media, it's the people who use social media. You can cut vegetables or stab someone with a knife, it's not the knife's fault.
yes.. because it is often anti-social magnifying societies ills
@@farshimelt Not everyone is strong enough to resist the manipulation and social media knows it.
I’m 31 my wife and I have been married going on 7 years we cut social media out right before we engaged and, it helps so much..... She’s not lying
24 and my only social media accounts are LinkedIn, Pinterest and RUclips. Not too shabby 😅
@@mi3helle707 I just made an ig. I’m going to start posting singing covers and maybe the occasional thirst trap picture when I get to my ideal weight 😅😅. I agree with Candace though.
The girl im dating used to post the usual "look at me" stuff on instagram and fb and im like if you want to stay in this relationship you will NOT post crap like this.
@@jlogan2228 did you work out a more positive outlet or did you just say "no more serotonin because social media bad"?
@@jlogan2228 so when u met her you liked all her pics ?
This is why I got rid of all social media. Life has been so sweet since. Time to get back to the basics.
By definition RUclips is social media, so you’re lying.
@@TheGoodMMADog hardly. Yt is for posting vids not a whole feed of pics . So no not really
@@gingeritis actually yes really. You are trying to argue against facts. That doesn’t work, you tried, wasn’t a good try, but you tried.
@@TheGoodMMADog technically yeah it’s a social media, but don’t go saying it’s the exact same as Instagram😂 I just find yt less toxic that’s what I’m saying by social when she said she got off of it.
@@TheGoodMMADog bruhhhhhhh RUclips is social media, but it isn’t fb, twitter, tiktok, Instagram or any of the like.
I'm a 61 year old woman from England.
I hope my sons have a chance to meet someone as sensible and lovely as this young lady. Wish I had your ability to transfer my thoughts. Thank you for doing it for me ❤
Her awareness and intelligence is very attractive, she’s not the type I’d go for physically, but her personality is just marriage material
They don't.
“ You don’t have to take your clothes off to be heard in society”
- Candance Owens ✨
Candace Owens needs too start loving herself more, all that loathing and self-hate she has in her is not healthy and she’s hurting inside.
Even if the girls took their clothes off I don't think men would listen to them either. We would give more attention because we like what we're looking, but really listening to what they're saying?
@@MissJade805 What makes you think Candace Owens does not love herself?
@@daneshadavis453 it’s called psychology.
@@MissJade805 Where are you getting this ? If you knew anything about her which clearly you dont, you would know that she's the complete opposite of everything you've just said. Just because she's passionate when it comes to things that are important to her doesnt mean what you think.
"I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing and no matter what a woman is, it's a wonderful thing". - Patrice O'Neal
This makes absolutely no sense.🤦🏽♀️ “What a Man is, is subjective” and that varies between race, culture and religious backgrounds.
Makes total sense and as a women I agree with you
@@missvegan1967 No its not subjective. Men regardless of who they are are seen as horrible because they are men.... it makes total sense.
Being a man is the best thing, only if you decide to finally start being one -Myself
@@JuanRodriguez-tr6st 👏🏽
“You wanna know why our grandparents stayed together? Because they weren’t looking at buttcheeks all day on Instagram, hitting refresh” 🤣
As funny as it sounds, she hit it on the mark. I have a friend whose parents were married together for 71 YEARS. Obviously, they were old school folks from Central Asia, but what held them together was tradition and morals...
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@@nathanrakhman7176 geeez that's longer than a lot of people have actually lived
Tradition and morals holds for a very long time especially if you are both in agreement with it
Definitely less distractions back then
Quote for the ages 😭😂
You'd be surprised how many women like her still exist. They're hidden gems in our society. They're out there, just unattainable to cheap men who entertained the latter.
SO TRUE.
They're definitely not hanging out on RUclips.
@@charlesdonahue3667we’re hanging out in RUclips learning and growing. You mean were not on social media, yes.✔️
@@naztava5888 RUclips is social media.
I Totally Agree With You.
I hate it when I remember that we live in an age when we gotta explain the obvious.
Underrated comment
Deadass. Common sense isn't very "common" anymore, is it? Lol
It ain’t obvious coz we’re being pressured(almost brainwashed) by society to believe that it’s how things should be; the norm. We need reminders like this from time to time.
Perfect description of the world today 👏🏾👏🏾
@@geo.ies93 nah it's brain washing
She’s speaking facts. I’m a feminine girl and ironically (or not so much anymore) I’ve only seen feminists degrade me for literally being a normal female, not men.
Those aren't real feminists then.
@@samuelforesta Right. Unless there is a weird power dynamic and abuse tied up in it, it's about being the type of woman that you want to be.
What is a “Normal female” ?
Please can someone read the definition of feminist in the dictionnary and understand what is feminism or not?
Exactly
I try to speak up like Candace in my sociology classes and I get attacked for it, but I’m 42 and went back to school late, and I learned these lessons the hard way.
Continue to speak up sis. 👏🏼👏🏼🙏
Hopefully there are some students who respect and totally look up to you. Giving them more confidence to talk about these issues too. Awesome!!
You look 27 😀
Totally unrelated but I'm 30 and going back to school this fall. It's nice to have a kindred spirit here 😊
Ah, don't worry about it. You have the experience they've yet to acquire. They're still kids at this point, keep it up.
I remember meeting a girl I spoke to on phone for the first time. And as beautiful as she was I was more caught up by the way she was dressed. She was so decent and gentle. It commanded respect from me, such respect that would make you use “please and Mam” when talking to her. I wish women knew how little they have to do to avoid disrespect from men.
I'm sorry but you shouldn't have to avoid it.
I used to be a stripper in my past, I was so unhappy and depressed no matter how much money I made but I never let nobody know, I turned my back on that life, put all the clothes I used to have in the bin and started changing my life to live as a traditional woman and I’m so happy, and I’m no longer depressed, i wish I had someone when I was younger who would off learned me that was not the way but I thank Jesus Christ for changing my life
YES! Jesus can CHANGE YOU. Amen :) God bless sister.
Awesome congrats your rare
@@godslittlegirl amen 🙏🏼 it was all Jesus Christ he is truly amazing and a blessing to my life, I only speak about it to point others to Jesus Christ so they too can find peace and happiness in there lives, GOD is GOOD ✝️👑🕊
@@ninarenee9561 thank you 🙏🏼 so much, Jesus Christ is amazing ✝️👑🕊
Remember when you were saved
Keep in mind Candice keeps saying "what men want in a woman". She is not talking about all these boys, douchebags, bros and bruhs. She's talking about respectable men with goals. Men who treat women and themselves with respect.
Exactly!!!
The problem is women chase the bros and the dudes bc the good men of value are "too boring" bc theyd rather come home from work eat dinner and watch a little tv then go to bed bc they have to work tomorrow vs lets go out to the club and have drink service and you can dance on this pole and well put on Instagram what a fun party it was
@@jlogan2228 - What kind of women are you talking about? Sounds to me like you're grouping all the wanna be Cardi B type women in with respectable women. Maybe you should up your standards??
Weirdly enough today these men are called "fascists".
@@KelleyBroussardMackaig just out of curiosity what does cardi b have to do with anything. Don’t forget she’s a married woman and stayed after he cheated. Maybe her perception of her man is off but you don’t know her to be judging her. Neither do I.
Telling a lie has become such a norm that if you tell the truth, people get enraged.
Sadly...this is true....
Works for me because if they strike because I told some facts. Fast forward "your honor he hit me first so I whipped his ass" lol
I literally told my ex upfront that she has been lying and I need an honest person. ..hinting her to be straight forward to me. .she hasn't spoken to me for a month.....can't handle the truth
Lying is a disease worse than cancer.
Toon She, George Orwell had a quote similar to yours. "In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act."
Man! She nails it on so many points. It's truly a sick society we live in. Protect yourself and your family.
A girl i was dating criticized me because i did not acknowledge her as " powerful " because she was always looking for attention on social media....dodged that bullet
LOL!!!!!!
It seems to me, if a person has to constantly seek out attention, they lose their power.
What the hell? How am I a woman? They all seem nuts to me, I can't relate to my own gender. I would never act this way, but then its mens fault too because they will still hook up with these kinds of girls and use them just as much as these girls are using the men to boost their princess hungry egos. God, girls shouldn't even have egos, its so anti-nurturing. Like, what kind of mom would they be some day?
I'm guessing she feels the same way
@Olive Green I’m surprised you haven’t received a “pick me” comment yet 😂. On a serious note I agree with you. Many women are taught to be non-nurturing, as though nurturing is weakness. Women are taught that men will take advantage of any shown kindness, which is not true for the majority of men. Women should surround themselves with good men and they’ll feel safe enough to be a humble and content woman.
I was raised by a single father never had a mother’s love, my wife today is a loving mother to my son and I, I adore her so much and never knew I needed a woman’s touch until she came into my life, she is the reason why my work boots stay dirty and I don’t mind. I wouldn’t be able to lead my family with out my wife’s support.
Your wife is equally blessed.
Perfectly said my brother. Been married 29 years and would do it again. It takes two to raise kids. I get crap all the time for being a proponent for marriage and family.
What a beautiful tribute.
This is so sweet!
You wouldn't do the same if your wife just wanted your money while she fcks other dudes behind your back. Or keeps nagging you to make more money but at the same time, spend more time with her or do any chores on top of your job.
Women think a man doing what he's written for them is a default.
Get atta your fantasy and realize it should go both ways.
I deleted Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook well over 5 years ago and let me tell you that it was the single best desition for my mental health. Unfortunately, youtube is heading in the same direction. It might just come down to biting the bullet and getting the hell off of here too.
Same!
I actually thought about deleting youtube but i Feel like i can actually control it...
But Facebook, IG, TikTok is your memory. And an awesome memorial for yourself. Get back on it!
I understand that
Yep.. social media is actual aids
Being considerate to someone you love is never a bad thing.
Extremely well said Candance. I appreciate that the interviewer allows the entire idea be explained - more of a discussion. Not a debate or trying to shut down the thoughts. Thank You!
I'm a stay at home mom and feel like other women look down on me for not working.... it's not fun... but I don't care....my family is happy and the stress level in our home is very low!!!
they're jealous ;)
@@cutiepiebb let me tell you something, except your husband is the best thing in the world there ain’t nothing to be jealous of.
@Yulia 456 they are jealous that they have to slave away at work and she doesn’t🤷🏽♀️. If they weren’t jealous they wouldn’t look down on her, they’d just say “I’m happy for you but that lifestyle is not for me”.
@Yulia 456 she’s not a breeder she’s the literal glue that holds the family together. Without her the husband couldn’t function and the kids would be a mess and failing left and right. It ultimately comes down to Choice, if you want to peruse a high powered career you can more power to you but accept the consequences. Same with the stay at home Mom, she chose her life and she has to face the consequences.
@Yulia 456 must be all the feminist juice you’ve been drinking.
"You wanna know why our grandparents stayed together? Because they weren't looking at ass cheeks all day on Instagram." This is quickly becoming one of my favorite videos in this genre.
Mine too
100 % truth !!
they stayed together cuz they didnt have the money to separate, societal pressure, and women didn't have complete agency. i mean a few decades ago a woman needed their husband's signature to get a house or whatever. many women were abused and couldnt leave for said reasons or for the sake of the kids. please man
@@MsDudette21 Just because your grandparents were unhappy doesn't mean that mine and other peoples were. If you think it's bad advice to stop posting pics with your butt out on social media and seeking the dopamine hit from likes to get approval, then good luck with that. And also, this is a quote from the clip, so if you have a problem go @ Candace Owens
@@CodyLScaggs nah my grandparents were fine. I just know better to deny the cold hard reality and look at the past with rose colored glasses just cuz it appeared nice. And I never said or implied anything about posting butt pics being a good thing. Just cuz I don't like some thing she said doesnt mean I disagree with everything. There is such thing as nuance.
When she said women are desirable sexually but not personality-wise, that is very true
Because this is all men want or care about. Especially when you are skinny and make less and submit. Cheating is cheating.
Bull crap
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns You've got issues.
@@JaysonT1 Do you think they’re wrong though?
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns TBH many woman i know just have there body to offer. But if you find a girl who offers more, you gotta be quick...
Candace, I have been very liberal in my past but I started watching your videos and absolutely adore how you speak about values and integrity. It has really helped me come into my own as a woman and start to choose more traditional choices for my future. If we saw more women and men like you (conservative that truly uphold their values) I think more people would listen and make changes because it brings so much peace, purpose and clarity into our lives. I think the problem (for me, at least) has been seeing many conservatives say these things but not truly live them or uphold their values. But seeing you actually speak about it so powerfully and confidently and carry yourself in such a refined way has been so incredibly refreshing and insightful - thank you!
I deleted every social media account that I had in January and I have never lived so peacefully before.
You forgot RUclips.
@@youhearditherefirst6602 let them have some entertainment
@@chrollodranx-hunter3389, you're right. My bad.
@@youhearditherefirst6602 dont wanna be a monk bro
I deleted my Instagram two weeks ago and I feel so much better already man. I only keep facebook messenger to keep in touch with my international friends, and RUclips to keep up to date and educated
“First wave feminists wanted women to have the option. They wouldn’t agree with third wave feminists today.” As someone educated in the history of feminism, I 100% agree.
Agreed. Being a feminist in the 70's and 80's is very different from now.
Mary Daly was a 70's second wave feminist and wanted to cull the male population down to 1%. "there must be a decontamination of the Earth. I think this will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the population of males.”
@@emilyknowlton8602 First wave feminism happenned over 100 years, not in the 70's.
First wave feminism was part of the devils agenda. To distort God's order of a family structure from God, man, women, animals... to Animals, women, man, God.
The bible ever says the antichrist will create a society that favors women and hates men.
@@ten_tego_teges true. That's second wave feminism.
Man she's a breath of fresh air; I like when she talks about these sort of topics because she has her own mind and isn't influenced by the hive
I agree. She is very intelligent.
@@flourishomotola5306 Nah she's a bottom feeder. Not sure why she is on here
I've been on the Owens train now since 2012.
@@teebagur I encourage you to checkout Candace's book "Blackout" & see if calling her a bottom feeder is applicable.
@@medic6yaeta254 Any black person supporting Candace Owens needs help. This woman has serious self-hate issues
Personally, I enjoy making food for a man because I feel empowered when something I made brings someone else happiness and nourishment. Why do people never question or demonize women making food for their children, when it's fundamentally the same goal?
Women, please don't hate providing joy and nutrition for the ones you love. It's one of the most powerful gestures and efforts you can provide.
Amen to that
I love how woman are always like, “It’s not for attention.” Like that’s exactly why you posted your ass on Instagram! 😂🤣
Exactly I mean when we post pictures in general obviously it’s for attention because why will we follow people and want followers back unless it’s for attention but when you post pictures of you in a sexual manner you’re obviously seeking extra attention
Modesty has this stigma surrounding it. Like it's some kind of archaic rule that was enforced by a "tyrannical patriarchy" haha.
But if you approach modesty with Love in mind everything changes. Modest women understand men value their body and the intimacy she is able to create with it.
When you tell women to show more of themselves for all to see and to seek attention above all else two things happen: first, women become unsure of their true value, they become insecure and petty until they're consumed in self hatred without the added likes on social media. Second, you inevitably create a world where there's no more intimacy. When that happens the value of privacy goes down and when that happens the threat of totalitarianism nears.
Women play a massive part in the world that determines whether or not people feel connected and valued, they're the guardians of the private space and are Traditionally seen as the beating heart of the family unit.
So women, be beautiful and show off your abilities to creatively express yourself. But please do it in Love, be modest and become the solution to the loneliness, depression and suicide pandemic. Desire to challenge men to greater heights, to become virtuous and strong in order to show they're worthy to treasure the body mind and heart you possess.
There's a few great joys in life. One of the greatest is to be with someone who's heart beats with yours in one rhythm; in a beautiful dance only experienced behind closed doors.
You can either have that or 100k likes for the bikini photo you posted on social media. Your choice.
lmao the way ur a women saying this:/ like mind ur buisness and leave ppl alone.
@@anothercat1300 Honestly, 1000000% agree!!! I am Orthodox Hindu, my GF is Romanian Catholic so we come form two different worlds, but these values persist! There was sexism at one time, but in terms of the scripture and the origins of the ideas not on a cultural level, but rather on a metaphysical or theological level, these ideas are commonly shared. My mother dresses in traditional Hindu garb, and when going out Indo-Western or even modest Western garb like skirts and dresses. I asked her once why, and she said "Everyone deserves my respect, some deserve my words, but not a single man other than your father deserves a square centimeter of my body. Simple." I think that speaks volumes as to the moral character of my mother and the man ho she trusts and loves so much, my father. My gf is also very traditional, told me that it was her father who (instead of FORCING it on her), told her that not a single man was worthy of her body and to see it in such intimacy, not even me, unless that man commits himself to her for life as her husband. I agree. This culture helps foster good women who are convicted to their morals and that is a sign of a strong woman, and men will rise up to meet that by being dependable, protective, good men. I can tell you that, as a guy, I face a lot even at just 19 years old. I have two jobs, a difficult major, research, and yet if I visit my GF's apartment, the very sight of her as you said gives me the sense that I am safe from all of that. She is the beating heart that keeps me going. I cannot tell you how many days my father has told me that he comes home broken and tired, and sometimes angry, and the way my mother glues the family unit together, really gives him inspiration. Modesty and being feminine is not bad, it'd beautiful truly. There was day where feminine women were not respected by men, now women do not respect them either. Sad, truly very sad.
@@viddykhaos2896 What an incredible mother you have. I have a few friends who were Hindu Orthodox then converted to Orthodox Christianity. They always talk about their culture and how they're inspired to reveal Christ in it to others. People are in need of much hope where I'm from and despair is heavy. I imagine you've seen people like that.
I pray your wife reveals the Love of Jesus Christ to you every day. God bless you both!
What an amazing sight to see in the end! She has her time to speak, then when the host speaks she quietly listens. Unfortunately, something as simple as not interrupting someone while they speak is becoming increasingly rare.
It is very refreshing!
I totally agree
Well women feel entitled for everything and society has told them that this is ok
@@GroupKillingFrenzy Ok
This always has happened... nothing new under the sun
My wife is a stay at home, I gave her the funds to start her own business. I’m not on the paperwork and I have nothing to do with her business. Now she works from home and her dreams are coming true because she stayed at home. When we got married, I told her that you can work if you want, but I’m the provider and that’s my job to take care of you and the kids.
Respect to you sir 💯 role model for young men out there today.
@Graciela Y Etcheverry yeah, I think that true. I’m 35 and I think I’m old enough to have that mentality but young enough to have a different one. As for me I grew up in a home where my Step-Father was like that and I got it from seeing him do the same thing
That’s inspirational man. I’m 23, single and just now starting my business I plan to do the same when I get a girl and business pops off. I always wanted a stay at home woman.
@@GoldCODMyt you wanting a stay at home wife isn’t impossible, both of you will need the same mindset.
@@JoshylovesTrance thanks, I’m trying to be one for my son and daughter. I don’t want my daughter to accept anything less or my son to do anything less.
As a black women Candace and the roommates channel saved me. Yes lord!!
Same Candance saved me for sure
"You have to take off your clothes to get attention and freedom? That's not freedom, that's bondage and slavery."
We already experience that even if women have clothes on. Where is the freedom of breastfeeding?
You could easily turn that around.
"You have to be modest and never show any skin to get attention and freedom? That's not freedom, that's bondage and slavery."
@Victor Maze I mean don't get me wrong I do kinda agree with what she said. I just wanted to point out that that can go both ways.
@@A.K.33 Well you aren't actually trying to draw attention to yourself when you dress modestly. You're actually covering up.
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua Still, it works both ways. It depends om the reason on why you're doing it: if you cover up because you think your body is sinful or inherently filthy, or because you think all men are potential rapists or because you think your god will send you to hell if you don't...then that's slavery too (arguably worse than uncovering), based on degrading yourself and demonizing men. It's a toxic worldview and should be called out.
If you cover up (or just don't show much) just because you like it and it fits your personality, then its perfectly fine.
Same for showing a lot of skin. If you do it just because you are an attention freak and believe yourself to have no other quality...you have a problem too.
I know she gets a bad rap in the Black community but she always tells the straight up honest truth. I think a lot of times people just don’t like to hear that type of brutal honesty.
Facts my guy
Sweet lies vs harsh truth. People like to live a lie
I agree with you 100%.
Why does she have a bad rap in the black community?
@@kasdcomoa5567 she's tells the truth, she gets bullied by black people telling her she's acting "white", she married a white man, she's the women that men actually wants.
regardless of opinion on Candace Owens, most would agree that she is incredibly skilled at expressing a point of view
And she’s beautiful, she is a rare gem based on what I see on social media.
yes I dont agree with everything she says but I do like how she carries herself but after the Grammy's fiasco and the Satan shoes I am leaning towards her more because society is going down the drain
@@Pursuepeace0715 So very true.Someone has to sound the alarm & don't expect much out of these confused individuals we vote into office.
yeah i disagree.
@@acthegreat feminist triggered*
She is speaking like a true woman with dignity, Africans are proud of you.
I have a gal pal who recently just quit her job because she wanted to spend more time with her kids and family. Her husband makes enough to support the family. I thought it was great she did that. She was saying how she felt she was wasting her time at work doing a job she hated. She wanted to spend more time raising her kids and making her family stronger.
Better kids for the planet that way
Well said
Very smart and blessed woman!
Sounds like a good woman x
The next generation deserves mothers like your friend! Every single one of them.
I used to have social media, and I used to crave this attention so badly…. I’m so glad I’m going into a better path. I want to be respected for being educated, well spoken, opinionated, and finding values in life that don’t stem from materialistic possessions and unrealistic beauty standards.. you’re awesome Candace.
@Fnnelm mine did too.. I will admit I still go on it from time to time, but every time I do I always end up crying and comparing myself. It’s toxic. I just need to stray away from it completely.
@@Lilliana99 this comparison is something I struggle with a lot. And I mean A LOT! I want to delete it but I just want to look at the things that make me happy like interior design and architecture and I’ll have to unfollow so many accounts :(
@@HM-xi5zi I do too:( it’s bad. I will cry for hours just comparing myself to people that I know. It always makes me feel so worthless
If you not attractive just say that
@@dbmae1532 that has nothing to do with it dude. You can be the most attractive person in the world but comparing is something many people do. It’s a natural human reaction to compare. If something is bad you, just don’t do it. Simple. There will always be someone smarter, hotter, richer.
What people dont realize is how strong of a woman it takes to stay home and nurture a family and create a home.
True. It's not as easy as people think.
Tell that to the guy that gets up early to go work construction all day and pay the bills. I'm fine with a women staying home taking care of the children. But don't kid yourself. You're not special.
I appreciate this comment so much!
You are right it does take a strong woman. It always has. The issue is that having just the man work and woman stay home is harder now than ever before. Prices for things are crazy out of control. Back in the 60s the man can have one job. With that job have a home, a car, and be able to support his family. Now unless you make 100k a year that is almost impossible. I mean even kids that graduate from college making 50k to 60k a year is hard enough for them as well.
@@jplusosec977 .... aren’t both jobs important? Obviously working construction is a labor intensive job and hard on the body, so of course that should be appreciated. Bills getting paid is essential and I believe a women should think her man is special and amazing if he can provide financial stability single handily, and is willing to take on that burden alone.
That being said staying home with kids who need things from you all day, while trying to keep on top of all the household chores, can be mentally taxing. Kids do better when they are little if mom (or dad) is home, as opposed to a day care. When a women is willing to put her career and Financial independence on hold for her children’s well-being , I believe that’s a good thing. Juggling kids and house work at the very least, takes a great deal of patience and time management. Why wouldn’t a husband find a women who can do those tasks well, special?
A family tends to run smoothest with a provider and a nurturer. Both should be valued. This “you’re not special” attitude seems counter productive to me. A man and women should think what their partner does is special and be appreciative. Definitely makes for a more rewarding relationship when both people feel valued. It shouldn’t be a competition. It’s a team effort.
i'm disappointed in myself for not knowing her sooner, she speaks the truth
“Until you realize how easy it is for your mind to be manipulated, you remain the puppet of someone else's game.”
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Why has this not got 100K likes
Doing business they say, it's just chess board for them. And these unbridled women don't even have any idea
Mainstream media knows this. Turn them off.
She says in low cut top
If she gave this talk on a college campus we would reach peak levels of triggered.
Ultra instinct Donald ??
Lol right? They'd have her escorted from the campus just like the gun girl.
@@RedRoseSeptember22 and rightly so.
@@kirillzakharov7336 why because you don't agree with her
@@zenz.1363 he’s a racist democrat who doesn’t realize there is more to life than playing victim just ignore the thing lmao
I’ve learned to view being a woman, carrying children, and bearing healthy femininity as a gift to myself and the world. It’s not about stereotypes or filling any role- it’s about loving and accepting every part of who you are and interacting in the world as your full self each and every day.
I choose to live my life as the female role model I always hoped for- become your own example ❤️🧡
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Very Well said
Hope you find a good brotha and have a positive lasting marriage.
❤️ love this
Good for you. Sorry to tell you that Black men...are looking at Brazilian women as the ''perfect partners'' in life...oh, so they think. Brazilian women just think....they have $$$.
Amen Candace, as a working single mother and once career-oriented, nothing makes me happier and content where I feel like I have a purposeful life than having my child and raising him. No career goals have given me this level of satisfaction than having a child and becoming a mother.
Owh thats sad, what happened to his/her father :(
Speak for yourself
To sum up: Don’t be afraid of making a sandwich for a man, be afraid of the type of man you might be making a sandwich for.
Big true
And him make me a sandwich as well!
That right there... and don't give wife benefits to a boyfriend... he's not the husband if he's a boyfriend.
@@ShinySilverBunny don't give wife benefits to girlfriends?
@@kojinmaster you misread my comment. I said boyfriends.. its right there
Love her!!! She’s only hated by many because she speaks the truth. I’ve been masculine in the past and my life changed for the better when I discovered my femininity.
Hey how did you go about becoming more feminine? My dad raised me to be a man, even though I am female. So femininity is something I really struggle with.
@@AT-mq9wk it took me a while to find my femininity. I am probably still learning. The Bible does teach us to be soft, among other things.
@@AT-mq9wk you can check these RUclips channels Feminine fancy, Ayanime Edem, Dr Daf, Divine femininity queen.
This. I recognized my power lies in being a woman and my life gets better every day because of it.
No. She’s hated for good reason. Promoting white supremacy. But I agree with her points in this video
"you don't have to take off your clothes to be heard in society" please say it again!
Statement I completely agree on.
There a lot of us who believe “that’s beauty” but little did we know that we are worth mites than that. I was a victim of it.
That was aimed towards the Tik Tok and Instagram girls. It’s so annoying af
I love this ❤️
they have to for gaining attention from men
Candace is very on point I’m so happy someone is actually talking about it 🙌
The way the world is right now we could use more discussions like this.
Listen to "Kevin Samuel". The man is a G
On Gawd 🙌🏾 generally I struggle to agree with Candace but she has all my votes on this one ☑☑☑☑
M1:A lot more.
@@anthonytravis1852 Truth is truth.
@@blackfilmmakerguide5720 -
The man is an unemployable 50some year old who's never walked the talk he talks.
He's long publicly admitted he's was never a "Henry", and he prides himself in being an effective salesman. So dude has pretty much put his card on the table and showed his hand.
And people diss Steve Harvey book, why?
The Russians have a wonderful saying regarding families: "The man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck that steers towards the right direction."
I like that lol
Without that neck the head won’t survive . I love the Russian quote
@@trubnikov Мне не надо жить в России, чтобы у меня было право использовать русские выражения. И русский я уже выучил, именно чтобы дуракам как тебе отвечать. Как это шовинизм, если оба партнёра принимают участие в направлении отношения?
@Shubham 💯 %
@@SolarLingua Наверное потому что в России все еще есть шовинизм. И все еще очень много.
These are the words women need to hear after being brainwashed that only fans is something inspiring. I worry for these future generations with what society glorifies
I’m afraid Future parents and wife’s wouldn’t be a good parent
Yes and a lot of women also need to realize that they are average at best. I'm not saying that in a derogatory way, I'm saying that most people, men and women are average. We're not models, we're not billionaires or celebrities, we're regular people. Average women need to understand that they can easily get an average guy who will be good to them if they do the same thing back, no cheating, poly, hyper all of that bullshit.
If the next generation of women realized this and kept themselves more reserved for longer, they would actually be flooded out by genuinely good men, maybe not the richest men, or best looking, but good men who will love them. We're all sitting here alone.
The society of hookup culture and social media have created a group of women who have overly inflated ego's, they all think they are perfect 10's and so they are all going for the perfect 10 guy, while in reality they are all average people with problems just like us average guys. There's nothing wrong with being average. It's called having humility and staying humble. 8 billion people in this world and only 10% of them are in the 10%.
EDIT: Thought I was replying to a different comment there.
Please understand this comment is not necessarily directed at you, I'm just making general statements.
Exactly, It's sad that so many women think that their self worth is tied to their attractiveness, a very shallow characteristic. The truth is, the type of women that men naturally find attractive and valuable for long term/marriage, are traditional, feminine women who are more submissive and let their man lead, and are happy rearing children, cooking, etc. And the type of men that women naturally find attractive and valuable for long term/marriage, are men who are assertive, leaders, have ambition, financial stability, are loyal and honest, etc. In fact, the psychological research shows that married women in these traditional roles are the happiest, and women in their 40s who are single/divorced, with a career working 50-60 hour weeks are miserable. it's just the way it is biologically, psychologically, etc. It's the way God intended! Btw, do you happen to be a Christian?
@@bryant475 I totally agree. Women can be successful and in a proper marriage without showing everything. Modesty Is looked at as if it was oppression towards women which is so sad!
No! I am muslim but I do love and respect my Christian brothers and sisters :)
@@NA-sf1lh Yeah, completely agreed! Do you also agree with the traditional roles that men and women naturally have and are happier in? Aka men being more assertive, leaders, financially stable, etc., while women are more submissive and nurturing, child rearing, etc.? And yeah Amen, there are similar values between Christianity and Islam. I'd highly recommend checking out the amazing testimony of Nabeel Qureshi!
I adore Candice! 1000%
Girls, listen to this woman.
Men value high quality women. High quality women = feminine, strong but not masculine, values, integrity, learn to say no, know you’re strength and value. You don’t need to be the most beautiful woman to be powerful, you need to be mentally stable, confident but not arrogant, kind, but above all authentic
I went college with a girl who often said she would never make a sandwich for her man. She was only 20 at the time. She believed in the patriarchy being bad.
Saw her years later, she was working at Subway, she made me a sandwich that day. 🤣
Your story smells like cap
@@YohanPenny nah it smells like a foot long
I don't know what a "cap" is suppose to smell like, but what kind of footlong ? I love the foot long chicken teriyaki, it smells good.
You tried to troll, it was cute, now go away.
@@mikemikeyatyas6031, i laughed, ish was funny. Kick the troll back under the bridge.
As a 33 year old Latina woman I have been bullied for not sleeping around, for not being a thirst trap by older feminist women who are in their 50s and dress like they’re 21… they’ve called me names and stuff. I simply laugh, I know who I am and I respect myself. Present feminist are angry rebellious women.
A woman shouldn’t aim to be a queen, queens command and demand, but a goddess is revered and respected.
Go Candace!
Don't confuse promiscuity with feminism. Ya'll are all ignorant women who are Soo opposed to feminism but u don't even know what it is.
❤ Goddess yes!
Imagine generalizing feminists. Yoi sound like a pick me lmao.
Queen
I don’t like the goddess, queen or princess bs. I think we all need a little humility. No one is better than anyone else. We are all equals.
Packing my husband's lunch for work gives me a lot of pleasure. The right man will make you enjoy the most mundane tasks.
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I think that's lovely. It's not so much the task itself, but the meaning behind it.
Ong got a chance 2 throw that poison in if he tweakin
@@PainxSorrow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
There should be NO traditional roles in society. We live in a patriarchy men already have power and being a stay at home wife who cooks and cleans for him you are just contributing to the patriarchy. Get some power and stop trying to serve a man.
I love Candace Owens lot of respect for this beautiful, intelligent Black Women
I'm happy my wife gets to stay home with our kids and more so that she enjoys being a mom.
❤️❤️❤️
She gets a bad wrap but if you just listen to the message, she really drops some gems
What bad wrap, it’s the truth she’s speaking, and the truth hurts
see how she’s mainly appealing to men here
@@kaylanaomi-sd9dn no she’s appealing to ACCOUNTABILITY
@James Lee she ain't throwing shade on own people. BTW what does her "own people" mean? Last time i checked loads of black and colored ppl love candace coz she speaks the facts. The truth is harsh sometimes, bit you gotta swallow it
@James Lee Hey brother, I believe you're projecting your own narrative about her. I don't agree with what she says but she sure does speak logic the majority of the time. What you said about Trump seems personal and not really based in fact. Trump can be labeled whatever but he did in fact give minorities the highest employment rate they've ever had in the history of the US, I don't believe someone racist would do that. Also what she said about George Floyd being a bad citizen was factual, she didn't support the cop though and actually said he deserved all the ridicule.
"The society is ill, it's not normal" FACTS
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Yes 🙌🏻
Society, as a group, has always been "ill." It's only individuals who are healthy.
Love hearing this Woman, she speaks truth and isn't afraid to stick up for men as well.
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My wife’s been chasing her tail taking care of our newborn and I’ve need working 50hrs a week. I can say without a doubt, she’s working harder than me and no way could I do this parenting thing without her strength.
That's so sweet and considerate to recognize her work too!
Awesome. Wishing you both all the best and enjoy you newborn ❤️❤️
That's beautiful brain
Try working 80 hours a week, people do that
This is why I have a lot of respect for Candice Owens. I am sick and tired of the lies and toxic narratives in our society.
I don’t agree with everything she says but I believe that everything she says can lead to a constructive conversation. (In this video I agree with her pretty much 100%).
I appreciate her as well. And she’s right on point. The roles have been reversed, and clearly the agenda working as many people are unhappy. And family values have been diminished badly.
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@@sebastienc.2257 Agreed!
Right
Im not a fan of Candace but in this video she is really speaking the truth.. I have new respect for her BC I can hear the compassion in her voice.. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Stop watching MSM lol
Keep listening to her, she only tells the truth. Most can’t deal with the truth.
@@robertf2691 not really she usually says some really retarded stuff
@@ykx777 like what?
Why are you not a fan of hers though?
She killed me when she started with the.. “slay the day bae”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“…No shot to Kylie Jenner, but what did society do to make her think that she had to go get lip injections….” Sheesh!!
Well the lip injections earned her millions and heavily contributed to her being the “youngest self-made billionaire” so maybe that’s why she decided to get all Duckfaced McTransraced.
She did an interview on that and she explained that her first kiss she had with a boy she liked; he told her she was a great kisser, but her lips were small.🥺
@@gummy5862 😂
@@gummy5862 she ain't a self made billionaire
Yeah when did white women start to want to look like black women?
Wish my son would meet a woman like Candace , she’s everything I’ve ever wanted for him, unfortunately she is a very rare person .
@Black Boy King TV nothing With having a different skin pigmentation.
The heart is what counts .
@Black Boy King TV checked out your music , your talented .
You seem like a cool and lovely (mother in law)!
Greetings from Amsterdam
The Unicorn.
We're out here, just a matter of place and timing.
I have been married 31 years. She makes me a sandwich one day, I make her a sandwich another day. It is not about obsession over who takes what role, it is about working out together privately what works best for the family overall. There is reality and then there is the fantasy world many people think exists today. If your life revolves around the social media screen, that is not a relationship, that is a fantasy land where you will most likely end up alone, middle aged and hurt....
Preacccccccccch ⚖️🙏🎖️
I agree it's not necessarily about a role but compatibility and working as a team to fulfill both partner's dreams.
It's a great comment!
Yhhhhh!!!
So when you met your wife you both must have had pagers and called each other from pay phones to coordinate dates?
Once in awhile you find people who say exactly the same thing you are thinking and it makes you feel less crazy about your ideals and ideas.
How Candace carried herself with such poise and elegance on this topic spoke voulmes! it’s good to hear her viewpoints even though she knows some may not completely agree with them .But how she present herself and coming with straight FACTS will get peoples attention. 👌🏾
Yet so much of the black community and leftists call her a coon and an uncle tom. Which is sad.
I agree. I like her because she doesn't agree with the TRENDS.. she sticks to her own morals and values despite what other people think.
I don't agree with everything she says but i don't agree with everyone else either.
I vehemently oppose her rightwing political ideologies, but on this topic she is absolutely right. "Even a broken clock is right twice a day".
She is a joke! A college dropout who claims racism does not exist but sued her local school system for racism as a student!
@@DrSteveJ-gd3gn I've never, ever heard her say that racism does not exist.
She is so well spoken. I like how she gets her point across.
Facts👍
She is well spoken but you have to be careful to listen to her own personal agenda in interviews.
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@@drepark2294 what do you mean ? What is her agenda?
Kevin Samuel says the same thing
"During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act"
Wow, what a profound, powerful and true statement 👏🏾💫
Legitimate Quote!
That is a great quote by George Orwell from 1984. He really spoke the truth and understood the human condition. His writing is astonishing.
One of my favorite quotes by George Orwell.
thank you for this roomates. this clip was my red pill moment... forever grateful for you sharing knowledge and truth.
She's 💯 on point. I'm a VERY STRONG woman. I'm an engineer, a business owner, and a veteran. But my greatest accomplishment? My 3 AMAZING kids!
I am assuming you have a husband??
@@marting5815 yep. And you're damn right I cook for him, too.
@@Regal1 not you flexing this 💀
@@eunhastolemyheart6098 😭I'm dying lol
@@Regal1 okay so I just wanted to know how are you able to juggle your career and kids by the way I'm very happy for you with everything you have accomplished also wouldn't you wish that your husband helped more in the kitchen like division of house chores you know coz you both bring money to the table you see , i mean i would Just like to get your opinion
It boggles my mind why girls ask "Where are all the good men" meanwhile they don't act like good women smh
Plus there's still plenty of good men out there, women just tend to look right past us like we're made of glass. If all you look for is garbage, the world will seem like a landfill.
Totally agree
Modesty has this stigma surrounding it. Like it's some kind of archaic rule that was enforced by a "tyrannical patriarchy" haha.
But if you approach modesty with Love in mind everything changes. Modest women understand men value their body and the intimacy she is able to create with it.
When you tell women to show more of themselves for all to see and to seek attention above all else two things happen: first, women become unsure of their true value, they become insecure and petty until they're consumed in self hatred without the added likes on social media. Second, you inevitably create a world where there's no more intimacy. When that happens the value of privacy goes down and when that happens the threat of totalitarianism nears.
Women play a massive part in the world that determines whether or not people feel connected and valued, they're the guardians of the private space and are Traditionally seen as the beating heart of the family unit.
So women, be beautiful and show off your abilities to creatively express yourself. But please do it in Love, be modest and become the solution to the loneliness, depression and suicide pandemic. Desire to challenge men to greater heights, to become virtuous and strong in order to show they're worthy to treasure the body mind and heart you possess.
There's a few great joys in life. One of the greatest is to be with someone who's heart beats with yours in one rhythm; in a beautiful dance only experienced behind closed doors.
You can either have that or 100k likes for the bikini photo you posted on social media. Your choice.
There are good men and woman everywhere, don’t act like a victim please
@@cherryblossom7442 he's not acting like a victim.
Gone are the days I spent at my gma’s house just listening to the wind, looking out the window, quiet in my thoughts. I used to write in my journal and read books every day.... until I was 15 & social media existed. Not a single worry about what to look like, act like, be like, compete with.... nothing like that.
The underlying sickness in the increasingly superficial world of social media: Covering up pain (whatever that pain may be) by distractions: dopamine hits from likes or comments / attention seeking behavior / objectifying the female body. It’ will ruin our minds and our relationships if we let it!
I can relate to this. Those quite days before all this instant gratification/ social media world we live in was peaceful.
Amen sister I think all women have to come to the realization that comparison is suicide for our self-esteem and self-love. When we compare ourselves to other people this is a form of a rejected self-esteem we actually reject ourselves. Thank you for this enlightening comment
Says the fitness model pic account. You really look like that?
Things were more real back then
Kids seem to be so prone to boredom. As a kid, I found creative ways to not be bored. None obviously involved computers, cellphones.
I never really listened to Candace Owens but had heard about her in passing. Usually seeing a negative article headline online or something. Actually listening to her, she makes a lot of sense.
As I read the comments I am actually enjoying the feedback. I can hold myself accountable and say I was once one of these women. Then after being used so many times I decided to do the work. I needed to find out what was wrong with me. It’s hard knowing a man only wants you because you are beautiful when I have so much talent. I’m smart and I’m educated. I have serious issues when it comes to picking men lol. At least I can be honest with myself. I have been single two years now and It has been nice getting to know me. Another funny things is all of my sisters are married except for me. I don’t want to keep blaming my childhood. Even though it was messed up. Im doing the work and that’s all that matters.
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Its crazy out herrd
I had a messed up childhood and swore off marriage and children... until I realized that I can have a family of my own without all the pain and hardship I was forced to experience bc of my parents and so-called family.
I was also single for a few years and started the process of getting to know myself more each and every day. I spent so much time alone that it was unbearable at times, but my little nephews and nieces actually helped me so much- remembering what i loved and who i was as a child was life-changing. I also stopped taking advice from other people, ESPECIALLY the toxic ones- no matter who they are or what they appear to be. You’ll get to a point in your life where “the old you” really feels like a familiar stranger, and it’s going to be BEAUTIFUL. Keep doing the work ❤️🧡
@@Dannniellleee when you say it was getting unbearable , how so?
@@YoungBlaze Facing all the thoughts and emotions you ignore and put off for so long (or unfairly blame yourself for) can feel like an internal attack- like your mind attacking you... I used to LOVE finding something to do to distract myself from my own thoughts
But once I went through everything and faced my reality, I was finally able to heal and MOVE ON
I think this is the first time I’ve ever agreed with Candace. This generation is sick, especially the ones who are following the Cardi Bs of the world.
Me too
Isn't Cardi B in a committed relationship with a man who worships her and with a kid? Like leave people live their lives and mind your own jeez
@@purbmeisterExactly! And I have no idea why people single Cardi B out as if she's the first provocative female artist/performer! I don't dress provocative at all but my goodness some people can't handle it when people choose to live life differently. So quick to judge when we all fall short in one way or another!
@@purbmeister that man cheated on her like thrice but ok lol
@@NotJoegoldberg Hm I did not know that. I take the comment back partly. Partly because he messed up and not her
I’ve been off the gram for 2 years and counting now... best decision I’ve ever made for my life 🙌🏻
I deleted mine over month ago haven’t looked back don’t plan to either it’s crazy you think you can’t live without it and once it’s gone you don’t even care anymore haha 😌
@@sl5950 exactly my point, that is the TRUE definition of freedom 🙏🏼 everyone on social media is blue pilled, those who let go are red pilled 🙏🏼 welcome to the matrix 🔥
7 years of FB next is the gram.
I’m gonna join after seeing this video to find out what the hype is all about,wish me luck🤩
Never had 'the gram' in the first place
I love this! This should be spoken about more🙏 I am a white woman who loves being at home, taking care of the home and lovingly serve my man who is the most beautiful and respectful gentleman I've ever met. This brings me so much joy. And what is wrong with that? Embracing womanhood and hoping ....praying...to one day be blessed to raise babies to be a better generation than we are. Without racial/sexual warfare!
It doesn't mean I'm less than my man. It simply means I have a different role to fulfill. So that he can be the protector and provider that he is!
Thank god there’s women still out there that think like her 🙏🏻
Unfortunately that number is dwindling. Society needs more role models like Candace Owens.
we're here ✋🏼 it's just we don't look like IG models.
and men are visual right? that's why we're "invisible" to yall
@@mayaj2354 Looks start a relationship easy but a good personality keeps it going. Try asking a guy out it'll catch him off guard cause it never happens
We're out here, it's just that the crazy women are the loudest. Crazy people are the loudest and the most seen out of many groups nowadays, it's unfortunate.
Hopefully she like dark meat
As a male, this is super refreshing to hear
Candace is the truth
Nah you insecure with yourself
@@TheGoodMMADog how? 😂 makes no sense, you don’t know me son 😂
I hear ya! As a 52yo man, talk like this has been a long time comin!! A woman in casual/business attire using her mind to get ahead is alot sexier than the average pole dancer!!!
@@dondale68 likewise man, couldn’t agree more!
“What bigger deception, than telling men and women there are no differences between them” 🙌🏿
A bigger deception is "there is no God".
@@marcofalzone6469 naw I think believing there are no differences between opposites is as big as it gets.
@@marcofalzone6469
If there is and that's the claim you are making... PROVE IT. Since you said there is one. And don't try to flip it onto me... I never made the claim
Feminism is about equality is up there on the list.
@@Oliver-Closeoff true.
I say it all the time but I gotta say it again, I LOVE CANDICE!! She hits it on the nail head every time !! I 100% agree with her!❤😊
Love her or hate her, she's an intelligent young woman who is aware of what's going on in society. Very well spoken too
I don't agree with everything she says but her integrity, passion and ability to elaborate her views are to be respected. Much more so than AOC or Tlaib
The only reason why any American would hate her is because she’s a Black Republican
@@tomaofdonewelll7810 🤮
SHES 33, HIGH RISK PREGNANCY AGE, NOT YOUNG. WE NEED WOMEN IN THEY'RE 20'S AND ACTUAL YOUNG WOMEN SAYING THIS AS WELL AND BADDIES.
@@NOAHSRANT-V1 why does her age matter she’s still intelligent
She's the truth!!! ❤️
So is Kevin Samuels lol
Jesus Christ is the truth. Dont get it twisted, dont put your trust in mankind that can be corrupted.
No she’s not. She spoke some truths in this particular interview
@@vesselfit2use "She's the truth" = I agree with her statement(s)....
She looked pretty dumb on Joe Rogan's show.
Candice is the real deal. She's beautiful, smart, and she has so much integrity.
Lies
If she stop worrying about what someone else does.
She pandering to u that why.
@@adrianbriscoe7261 it’s called having an opinion
She's also the same person who got _offended_ when Harry Styles wore a dress.
When I was in my 20's (now 50's), I used to wear tight clothes because I wanted attention, and I got it. But once you get a man's attention what do you do, you honor, respect, obey and treasure him and only wear those clothes you use to get him, at home, for his eyes only. Moral of the story once you get his attention, capture his heart. (Happily married to him for 29 years).
What really sucks is that families can’t afford to stay home anymore. Children are being raised in daycare and i wish society could choose between daycare and home. But that choice is taken away by monetary constraints.
LexiKnows I agree, but I know that’s happening by design. Break the family to control society. Break the family by creating a monetary system where prices for basic goods continually increases so a family needs 2 incomes. God created the family and anti God forces tear it apart.
Is our society creating those monetary restraints or are we as parents?
Live modestly. That's the key. Marry a man with a foundation in Jesus Christ and he will provide all that you'll need. It can be done! I know because I'm doing it. Trust in the Lord and put your anxieties on Him. The Lord is faithful
@@militarymom6690 Well, it is up to "we - the people". I guess our "society", somehow, forgot about that, so did our government.
@@danb4115 "I do not regard a man as poor, if the little which remains is enough for him" - Marcus Aurelius
Being a Mom and raising two wonderful young men was my biggest accomplishment in life.
Make sure they feel powerful, so they don't diss women!
What role did your husband play in raising your two wonderful young men?
Thanks momma!
I don't understand why so many people hate her, she one of the most realistic women I've heard from on social media 💯
Because the media tries to paint a horrible picture of her, to scare people away from even hearing her perspective
That's why they hate her, they're adverse to truth
E X A C T L Y
Because she speaks the truth….
@@emilyr2118 Bruh she should sue them like wtf
Great thoughts guys, thanks for putting this out for people to hear.
People don't wana admit that they want to be loved and respected. Moving from relationship to relationship with a bunch of douche bags isn't fun. Instagram energy attracts those people
The crazy thing is you can be loved, respected, and lusted after just by existing lol. We are women we will ALWAYS be wanted. To be untouchable makes you even more lit 😍
@@Denailacole lost chic
@@Denailacole If you're untouchable...what exactly about you is so desirable? Sounds like an oxymoron to me.
Have you found your husband
This is why I ignore pretty much everyone but my friends on Instagram.
As a woman, I approve this message. I always liked her and I’ve been saying this for years. She’s got it ❤️
@@scinnyc I don’t necessarily agree with her political stance either but I definitely agree with what’s she’s saying here.
@@scinnyc so being a conservative is a big issue with you ?
@@scinnyc why should she look @ her political views b4 agreeing to her???
does she being black makes her a liberal by default?
the fact that people can't agree politically doesn't mean they can't love/like each other
@@scinnyc my point is that we should always look @ the truth in message regardless of the messenger
@@mr.boakye4949 exactly
When I was a teenager an adult told me to be the kind of woman that a good man would want. That made a lot of sense to me.
be the kind of woman God want you to be, NOT a man
@@elyzazaza But she's not marrying God. If he wants to get sucked can't he just pay someone?
Weird, adults told me to be myself and find out who I am. You shouldn't even be framing yourself within a dating economy context in your youth-- wtf
@@softshell812 As long as it's not hurting others. Do not screw with people's hearts. Be who you are + this. Let go if necessary for you OR them.
sis you’re a victim