Candace Owens Explains The Biggest Problem With Women Today

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Комментарии • 21 тыс.

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast
    @TheRoommatesPodcast  3 года назад +724

    Be sure to hit the subscribe button and get the manhood course via the link here: roommatesshop.com/

    • @danielwright9992
      @danielwright9992 3 года назад +17

      Great job on asking good questions

    • @tylerdeshommes8505
      @tylerdeshommes8505 3 года назад +8

      The set up is nice as hell🔥🔥

    • @laturista1000
      @laturista1000 3 года назад +9

      MGTOW mvt is just growing larger because both genders (let's not blame any one specific gender) both genders make it too difficult to coexist together. On top of that the modern busy selfish self serving society as a whole does not have room for imperfection and avg men. Therefore most men that are simply too average are just not interesting enough for the modern woman. Same goes for avg looking women to below avg women. It goes both ways. The female and male going their own way phenomenon is a quiet personal choice that many have chosen. They don't want pity, they simply lost interest in romantic relationships. Women got what they want. They don't need men anymore. Women got vibrators, sperm donars and lesbian relationships to explore. Men got what they want too - hookers, video games, sports, and materialistic things to keep them distracted. It is what it is. No one is to blame really. It is what it is.

    • @GuidetteExpert
      @GuidetteExpert 3 года назад +8

      In my opinion I feel people feel more obligated to bash women that wear less then men that wear less.........You guys should addres why both men and women bash the way women wear but never what men wear?

    • @immelting9834
      @immelting9834 3 года назад +5

      Have her back on whenever you can. Best guest ever.

  • @lorrainesimser446
    @lorrainesimser446 3 года назад +9431

    She won me, when said today’s women are sexually desirable and not relationship desirable,

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross 3 года назад +396

      This statement is so spot on! That’s exactly how I see them and was just saying this a few days ago.

    • @rooseveltdarbey9493
      @rooseveltdarbey9493 3 года назад +144

      Very very true statement

    • @YashRamisetty
      @YashRamisetty 3 года назад +171

      You think a woman who doesn't work and is just a housewife is desirable in today's world? Hell no

    • @agees924
      @agees924 3 года назад +683

      Yes but that’s literally most guys too. Girls are always taught to look for a husband and fairy tale ending. Then when young women get passed around in their teens and 20’s by men who just want to use them for their body, they realize that everything they were told is a lie. Most of these young men are not out here looking for relationships they just want a sexual release. They lead a girl on and then dump her once she gets pregnant or he loses interest. Women are initially taught to look for a relationship and men are taught to get a high body count. Especially relevant in the black community. When we were young we always thought the first, second, or third guy was going to be our happy ever after. Then we eventually become damaged when we realize the truth. It’s a huge failure on behalf of fatherless homes who failed to teach their sons or be involved with their sons at all.

    • @FmTrini
      @FmTrini 3 года назад +23

      Nailed it...🔥🔥🔥

  • @kurticusmaximus
    @kurticusmaximus 3 года назад +12863

    “You wanna know why our grandparents stayed together? Because they weren’t looking at buttcheeks all day on Instagram, hitting refresh” 🤣

    • @nathanrakhman7176
      @nathanrakhman7176 3 года назад +1019

      As funny as it sounds, she hit it on the mark. I have a friend whose parents were married together for 71 YEARS. Obviously, they were old school folks from Central Asia, but what held them together was tradition and morals...

    • @ebonyessence2838
      @ebonyessence2838 3 года назад +63

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @thedragonofechigo7878
      @thedragonofechigo7878 3 года назад +386

      @@nathanrakhman7176 geeez that's longer than a lot of people have actually lived
      Tradition and morals holds for a very long time especially if you are both in agreement with it

    • @alfredjones4925
      @alfredjones4925 3 года назад +304

      Definitely less distractions back then

    • @EagleZtoTheGrave
      @EagleZtoTheGrave 3 года назад +82

      Quote for the ages 😭😂

  • @sarcodonblue2876
    @sarcodonblue2876 Год назад +860

    Pornography and a hyper sexaul society is destroying relationships between men and women. Conservatives need to be talking about this .

    • @mariogiresi6792
      @mariogiresi6792 11 месяцев назад +42

      True. Pornography is a force of destruction. It’s all for the moment.

    • @cliffnotes5823
      @cliffnotes5823 11 месяцев назад +12

      Conservatives get married. That’s the example.

    • @poeticeclipse
      @poeticeclipse 11 месяцев назад +21

      It's odd though. The men I know that are conservatives are the ones with the biggest problems with porn. My liberal male friends use far less or zero pornography.

    • @hyberkonawa272
      @hyberkonawa272 11 месяцев назад +11

      Conservatives ALWAYS talked about it,
      But the media always calls them sexist and silence them.

    • @Echteseele
      @Echteseele 10 месяцев назад +6

      I think relationships are being destroyed by this "modern" feminism much more as well as various trauma we might have experienced in our life that make impossibile for many people to have a decent relationship. Porn is only a compensation

  • @rosettamariateresaguarnier3186
    @rosettamariateresaguarnier3186 9 месяцев назад +209

    I'm a 61 year old woman from England.
    I hope my sons have a chance to meet someone as sensible and lovely as this young lady. Wish I had your ability to transfer my thoughts. Thank you for doing it for me ❤

    • @swadey2.017
      @swadey2.017 2 месяца назад +6

      Her awareness and intelligence is very attractive, she’s not the type I’d go for physically, but her personality is just marriage material

    • @jprp999
      @jprp999 Месяц назад +1

      They don't.

  • @kaylam.panchisin597
    @kaylam.panchisin597 3 года назад +4976

    I love how woman are always like, “It’s not for attention.” Like that’s exactly why you posted your ass on Instagram! 😂🤣

    • @sofiabravo1994
      @sofiabravo1994 3 года назад +371

      Exactly I mean when we post pictures in general obviously it’s for attention because why will we follow people and want followers back unless it’s for attention but when you post pictures of you in a sexual manner you’re obviously seeking extra attention

    • @anothercat1300
      @anothercat1300 3 года назад +188

      Modesty has this stigma surrounding it. Like it's some kind of archaic rule that was enforced by a "tyrannical patriarchy" haha.
      But if you approach modesty with Love in mind everything changes. Modest women understand men value their body and the intimacy she is able to create with it.
      When you tell women to show more of themselves for all to see and to seek attention above all else two things happen: first, women become unsure of their true value, they become insecure and petty until they're consumed in self hatred without the added likes on social media. Second, you inevitably create a world where there's no more intimacy. When that happens the value of privacy goes down and when that happens the threat of totalitarianism nears.
      Women play a massive part in the world that determines whether or not people feel connected and valued, they're the guardians of the private space and are Traditionally seen as the beating heart of the family unit.
      So women, be beautiful and show off your abilities to creatively express yourself. But please do it in Love, be modest and become the solution to the loneliness, depression and suicide pandemic. Desire to challenge men to greater heights, to become virtuous and strong in order to show they're worthy to treasure the body mind and heart you possess.
      There's a few great joys in life. One of the greatest is to be with someone who's heart beats with yours in one rhythm; in a beautiful dance only experienced behind closed doors.
      You can either have that or 100k likes for the bikini photo you posted on social media. Your choice.

    • @nanaah4602
      @nanaah4602 3 года назад +50

      lmao the way ur a women saying this:/ like mind ur buisness and leave ppl alone.

    • @viddykhaos2896
      @viddykhaos2896 3 года назад +70

      @@anothercat1300 Honestly, 1000000% agree!!! I am Orthodox Hindu, my GF is Romanian Catholic so we come form two different worlds, but these values persist! There was sexism at one time, but in terms of the scripture and the origins of the ideas not on a cultural level, but rather on a metaphysical or theological level, these ideas are commonly shared. My mother dresses in traditional Hindu garb, and when going out Indo-Western or even modest Western garb like skirts and dresses. I asked her once why, and she said "Everyone deserves my respect, some deserve my words, but not a single man other than your father deserves a square centimeter of my body. Simple." I think that speaks volumes as to the moral character of my mother and the man ho she trusts and loves so much, my father. My gf is also very traditional, told me that it was her father who (instead of FORCING it on her), told her that not a single man was worthy of her body and to see it in such intimacy, not even me, unless that man commits himself to her for life as her husband. I agree. This culture helps foster good women who are convicted to their morals and that is a sign of a strong woman, and men will rise up to meet that by being dependable, protective, good men. I can tell you that, as a guy, I face a lot even at just 19 years old. I have two jobs, a difficult major, research, and yet if I visit my GF's apartment, the very sight of her as you said gives me the sense that I am safe from all of that. She is the beating heart that keeps me going. I cannot tell you how many days my father has told me that he comes home broken and tired, and sometimes angry, and the way my mother glues the family unit together, really gives him inspiration. Modesty and being feminine is not bad, it'd beautiful truly. There was day where feminine women were not respected by men, now women do not respect them either. Sad, truly very sad.

    • @anothercat1300
      @anothercat1300 3 года назад +22

      @@viddykhaos2896 What an incredible mother you have. I have a few friends who were Hindu Orthodox then converted to Orthodox Christianity. They always talk about their culture and how they're inspired to reveal Christ in it to others. People are in need of much hope where I'm from and despair is heavy. I imagine you've seen people like that.
      I pray your wife reveals the Love of Jesus Christ to you every day. God bless you both!

  • @daneshadavis453
    @daneshadavis453 3 года назад +5187

    “ You don’t have to take your clothes off to be heard in society”
    - Candance Owens ✨

    • @MissJade805
      @MissJade805 2 года назад +73

      Candace Owens needs too start loving herself more, all that loathing and self-hate she has in her is not healthy and she’s hurting inside.

    • @bhlacks
      @bhlacks 2 года назад +45

      Even if the girls took their clothes off I don't think men would listen to them either. We would give more attention because we like what we're looking, but really listening to what they're saying?

    • @daneshadavis453
      @daneshadavis453 2 года назад +184

      @@MissJade805 What makes you think Candace Owens does not love herself?

    • @MissJade805
      @MissJade805 2 года назад +11

      @@daneshadavis453 it’s called psychology.

    • @fascinatinglist9654
      @fascinatinglist9654 2 года назад +109

      @@MissJade805 Where are you getting this ? If you knew anything about her which clearly you dont, you would know that she's the complete opposite of everything you've just said. Just because she's passionate when it comes to things that are important to her doesnt mean what you think.

  • @kymberliveith1283
    @kymberliveith1283 3 месяца назад +73

    Whenever I was fixing myself a meal, I always asked my boyfriend if he wanted something and he did the same for me. And if we were watching a movie together and he got up to get a drink or a snack, he would always ask me if I needed something vice versa. It’s just about being a kind, compassionate individual. There is no power struggle when you’re together - you’re a team :)

  • @sotacoresabreenav
    @sotacoresabreenav Год назад +326

    You'd be surprised how many women like her still exist. They're hidden gems in our society. They're out there, just unattainable to cheap men who entertained the latter.

    • @debbiezenaida
      @debbiezenaida 8 месяцев назад +9

      SO TRUE.

    • @charlesdonahue3667
      @charlesdonahue3667 6 месяцев назад +4

      They're definitely not hanging out on RUclips.

    • @naztava5888
      @naztava5888 5 месяцев назад +28

      @@charlesdonahue3667we’re hanging out in RUclips learning and growing. You mean were not on social media, yes.✔️

    • @charlesdonahue3667
      @charlesdonahue3667 5 месяцев назад

      @@naztava5888 RUclips is social media.

    • @darliskawhitaker1979
      @darliskawhitaker1979 5 месяцев назад

      I Totally Agree With You.

  • @celeste3100
    @celeste3100 3 года назад +1748

    This is why I got rid of all social media. Life has been so sweet since. Time to get back to the basics.

    • @TheGoodMMADog
      @TheGoodMMADog 3 года назад +65

      By definition RUclips is social media, so you’re lying.

    • @gingeritis
      @gingeritis 3 года назад +148

      @@TheGoodMMADog hardly. Yt is for posting vids not a whole feed of pics . So no not really

    • @TheGoodMMADog
      @TheGoodMMADog 3 года назад +25

      @@gingeritis actually yes really. You are trying to argue against facts. That doesn’t work, you tried, wasn’t a good try, but you tried.

    • @gingeritis
      @gingeritis 3 года назад +105

      @@TheGoodMMADog technically yeah it’s a social media, but don’t go saying it’s the exact same as Instagram😂 I just find yt less toxic that’s what I’m saying by social when she said she got off of it.

    • @Hooperd2023
      @Hooperd2023 3 года назад +91

      @@TheGoodMMADog bruhhhhhhh RUclips is social media, but it isn’t fb, twitter, tiktok, Instagram or any of the like.

  • @CodyLScaggs
    @CodyLScaggs 2 года назад +4030

    "You wanna know why our grandparents stayed together? Because they weren't looking at ass cheeks all day on Instagram." This is quickly becoming one of my favorite videos in this genre.

    • @asenacatokona5783
      @asenacatokona5783 2 года назад +26

      Mine too

    • @Deliahszepinzky
      @Deliahszepinzky 2 года назад +29

      100 % truth !!

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 2 года назад +323

      they stayed together cuz they didnt have the money to separate, societal pressure, and women didn't have complete agency. i mean a few decades ago a woman needed their husband's signature to get a house or whatever. many women were abused and couldnt leave for said reasons or for the sake of the kids. please man

    • @CodyLScaggs
      @CodyLScaggs 2 года назад +167

      @@MsDudette21 Just because your grandparents were unhappy doesn't mean that mine and other peoples were. If you think it's bad advice to stop posting pics with your butt out on social media and seeking the dopamine hit from likes to get approval, then good luck with that. And also, this is a quote from the clip, so if you have a problem go @ Candace Owens

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 2 года назад +133

      @@CodyLScaggs nah my grandparents were fine. I just know better to deny the cold hard reality and look at the past with rose colored glasses just cuz it appeared nice. And I never said or implied anything about posting butt pics being a good thing. Just cuz I don't like some thing she said doesnt mean I disagree with everything. There is such thing as nuance.

  • @Msconstitutionalgirl
    @Msconstitutionalgirl Год назад +176

    Man! She nails it on so many points. It's truly a sick society we live in. Protect yourself and your family.

  • @elvissarpong5529
    @elvissarpong5529 10 месяцев назад +40

    I remember meeting a girl I spoke to on phone for the first time. And as beautiful as she was I was more caught up by the way she was dressed. She was so decent and gentle. It commanded respect from me, such respect that would make you use “please and Mam” when talking to her. I wish women knew how little they have to do to avoid disrespect from men.

  • @mikemikeyatyas6031
    @mikemikeyatyas6031 3 года назад +6276

    I went college with a girl who often said she would never make a sandwich for her man. She was only 20 at the time. She believed in the patriarchy being bad.
    Saw her years later, she was working at Subway, she made me a sandwich that day. 🤣

    • @YohanPenny
      @YohanPenny 3 года назад +545

      Your story smells like cap

    • @ElijahMcCormick
      @ElijahMcCormick 3 года назад +938

      @@YohanPenny nah it smells like a foot long

    • @mikemikeyatyas6031
      @mikemikeyatyas6031 3 года назад +242

      I don't know what a "cap" is suppose to smell like, but what kind of footlong ? I love the foot long chicken teriyaki, it smells good.

    • @mikemikeyatyas6031
      @mikemikeyatyas6031 3 года назад +197

      You tried to troll, it was cute, now go away.

    • @tito7754
      @tito7754 3 года назад +131

      @@mikemikeyatyas6031, i laughed, ish was funny. Kick the troll back under the bridge.

  • @hobb125
    @hobb125 3 года назад +728

    Social Media destroyed the concept of a real relationship.

    • @naimalee1046
      @naimalee1046 3 года назад +12

      AGREE

    • @LiGhTfOoT_
      @LiGhTfOoT_ 3 года назад +1

      This

    • @farshimelt
      @farshimelt 3 года назад +68

      It's not social media, it's the people who use social media. You can cut vegetables or stab someone with a knife, it's not the knife's fault.

    • @kathypetersen2447
      @kathypetersen2447 3 года назад +5

      yes.. because it is often anti-social magnifying societies ills

    • @hobb125
      @hobb125 3 года назад +14

      @@farshimelt Not everyone is strong enough to resist the manipulation and social media knows it.

  • @morganstubie
    @morganstubie Год назад +197

    I used to be a feminist ages ago. My parents taught me that growing up. In my 30s I realized my life was basically “humanist”. I’m pro real, genuine human kindness whether man or woman❤️

    • @yusufconteh4741
      @yusufconteh4741 Год назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @silentyboi4613
      @silentyboi4613 Год назад +1

      Should men have say in abortion? If ur having sex shouldnt anylne men or woman be ready to face the consecuense of a kid? Also if a woman aborts even tho the man wanted to have a kid should the woman pay child support for the unborn for 18yrs - 9momths?

    • @Mamba-Kush
      @Mamba-Kush Год назад +2

      Ah yes, when you encountered the WALL, then, then you found yourself. Classic scameleon damage control.

  • @user-og8rk7vi8f
    @user-og8rk7vi8f 2 месяца назад +6

    I love Candace Owens lot of respect for this beautiful, intelligent Black Women

  • @ChiseledAdonis
    @ChiseledAdonis 3 года назад +18225

    "I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing and no matter what a woman is, it's a wonderful thing". - Patrice O'Neal

    • @missvegan1967
      @missvegan1967 3 года назад +362

      This makes absolutely no sense.🤦🏽‍♀️ “What a Man is, is subjective” and that varies between race, culture and religious backgrounds.

    • @SDTarotReadings
      @SDTarotReadings 3 года назад +1023

      Makes total sense and as a women I agree with you

    • @jamescalder5115
      @jamescalder5115 3 года назад +1147

      @@missvegan1967 No its not subjective. Men regardless of who they are are seen as horrible because they are men.... it makes total sense.

    • @JuanRodriguez-tr6st
      @JuanRodriguez-tr6st 3 года назад +522

      Being a man is the best thing, only if you decide to finally start being one -Myself

    • @missvegan1967
      @missvegan1967 3 года назад +73

      @@JuanRodriguez-tr6st 👏🏽

  • @DrUnatiDrMHealthCorner
    @DrUnatiDrMHealthCorner 3 года назад +2281

    Dressing modestly will NEVER GO OUT OF FASHION!!!
    Totally agree with Candace Owens❤️.

    • @21ventura
      @21ventura 3 года назад +42

      Completely agree. I’ve never been one to follow what society wears and yet here I am happily married. I have noticed that from my Facebook friends, those girls that want to look like the Kardashian’s are the ones who are still single

    • @bengedalecia9393
      @bengedalecia9393 3 года назад +29

      I currently live in a country where women are (90%) VERY feminine yet with spines of steel, dress as if they truly respect themselves, are happy to be women, appear demure yet know their power. It's SO refreshing!!

    • @olafharoldsonnii4713
      @olafharoldsonnii4713 3 года назад +5

      @@bengedalecia9393 what country is that?

    • @bengedalecia9393
      @bengedalecia9393 3 года назад +9

      @@olafharoldsonnii4713 Viet Nam

    • @numbernine3436
      @numbernine3436 3 года назад +24

      If you carry yourself correctly a turtleneck is sexy as hell

  • @marinapatenaude6644
    @marinapatenaude6644 5 месяцев назад +12

    I adore Candice! 1000%
    Girls, listen to this woman.
    Men value high quality women. High quality women = feminine, strong but not masculine, values, integrity, learn to say no, know you’re strength and value. You don’t need to be the most beautiful woman to be powerful, you need to be mentally stable, confident but not arrogant, kind, but above all authentic

  • @Mberalf4829
    @Mberalf4829 Год назад +31

    Being considerate to someone you love is never a bad thing.
    Extremely well said Candance. I appreciate that the interviewer allows the entire idea be explained - more of a discussion. Not a debate or trying to shut down the thoughts. Thank You!

  • @thejuiceisloose8703
    @thejuiceisloose8703 3 года назад +2198

    Keep in mind Candice keeps saying "what men want in a woman". She is not talking about all these boys, douchebags, bros and bruhs. She's talking about respectable men with goals. Men who treat women and themselves with respect.

    • @robertf2691
      @robertf2691 3 года назад +56

      Exactly!!!

    • @jlogan2228
      @jlogan2228 3 года назад +82

      The problem is women chase the bros and the dudes bc the good men of value are "too boring" bc theyd rather come home from work eat dinner and watch a little tv then go to bed bc they have to work tomorrow vs lets go out to the club and have drink service and you can dance on this pole and well put on Instagram what a fun party it was

    • @KelleyBroussardMackaig
      @KelleyBroussardMackaig 3 года назад +117

      @@jlogan2228 - What kind of women are you talking about? Sounds to me like you're grouping all the wanna be Cardi B type women in with respectable women. Maybe you should up your standards??

    • @Starskream9999
      @Starskream9999 3 года назад +21

      Weirdly enough today these men are called "fascists".

    • @kyraclarke6614
      @kyraclarke6614 3 года назад +25

      @@KelleyBroussardMackaig just out of curiosity what does cardi b have to do with anything. Don’t forget she’s a married woman and stayed after he cheated. Maybe her perception of her man is off but you don’t know her to be judging her. Neither do I.

  • @younesazzouzi7007
    @younesazzouzi7007 3 года назад +3540

    I hate it when I remember that we live in an age when we gotta explain the obvious.

    • @gnarwhal7562
      @gnarwhal7562 3 года назад +51

      Underrated comment

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ 3 года назад +77

      Deadass. Common sense isn't very "common" anymore, is it? Lol

    • @Ikthus
      @Ikthus 3 года назад +38

      It ain’t obvious coz we’re being pressured(almost brainwashed) by society to believe that it’s how things should be; the norm. We need reminders like this from time to time.

    • @dinhos2000
      @dinhos2000 2 года назад +10

      Perfect description of the world today 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @matthewneudorf1834
      @matthewneudorf1834 2 года назад +4

      @@Ikthus nah it's brain washing

  • @lunaloveless2837
    @lunaloveless2837 6 месяцев назад +14

    Personally, I enjoy making food for a man because I feel empowered when something I made brings someone else happiness and nourishment. Why do people never question or demonize women making food for their children, when it's fundamentally the same goal?
    Women, please don't hate providing joy and nutrition for the ones you love. It's one of the most powerful gestures and efforts you can provide.

  • @dianaalvarado1451
    @dianaalvarado1451 8 месяцев назад +12

    Candace, I have been very liberal in my past but I started watching your videos and absolutely adore how you speak about values and integrity. It has really helped me come into my own as a woman and start to choose more traditional choices for my future. If we saw more women and men like you (conservative that truly uphold their values) I think more people would listen and make changes because it brings so much peace, purpose and clarity into our lives. I think the problem (for me, at least) has been seeing many conservatives say these things but not truly live them or uphold their values. But seeing you actually speak about it so powerfully and confidently and carry yourself in such a refined way has been so incredibly refreshing and insightful - thank you!

  • @bigfacts5490
    @bigfacts5490 3 года назад +1179

    I’m 31 my wife and I have been married going on 7 years we cut social media out right before we engaged and, it helps so much..... She’s not lying

    • @mi3helle707
      @mi3helle707 3 года назад +63

      24 and my only social media accounts are LinkedIn, Pinterest and RUclips. Not too shabby 😅

    • @ashleycrystal9719
      @ashleycrystal9719 3 года назад +6

      @@mi3helle707 I just made an ig. I’m going to start posting singing covers and maybe the occasional thirst trap picture when I get to my ideal weight 😅😅. I agree with Candace though.

    • @jlogan2228
      @jlogan2228 3 года назад +27

      The girl im dating used to post the usual "look at me" stuff on instagram and fb and im like if you want to stay in this relationship you will NOT post crap like this.

    • @David-fj1sq
      @David-fj1sq 3 года назад +9

      @@jlogan2228 did you work out a more positive outlet or did you just say "no more serotonin because social media bad"?

    • @ESlove2
      @ESlove2 3 года назад +14

      @@jlogan2228 so when u met her you liked all her pics ?

  • @user-ne4nz6hx2t
    @user-ne4nz6hx2t 3 года назад +3092

    I try to speak up like Candace in my sociology classes and I get attacked for it, but I’m 42 and went back to school late, and I learned these lessons the hard way.

    • @Simplelivingslowliving
      @Simplelivingslowliving 3 года назад +196

      Continue to speak up sis. 👏🏼👏🏼🙏

    • @maggiemarchant4204
      @maggiemarchant4204 3 года назад +115

      Hopefully there are some students who respect and totally look up to you. Giving them more confidence to talk about these issues too. Awesome!!

    • @dannybhoy2739
      @dannybhoy2739 3 года назад +89

      You look 27 😀

    • @charmedprince
      @charmedprince 3 года назад +82

      Totally unrelated but I'm 30 and going back to school this fall. It's nice to have a kindred spirit here 😊

    • @Rob.N.
      @Rob.N. 3 года назад +52

      Ah, don't worry about it. You have the experience they've yet to acquire. They're still kids at this point, keep it up.

  • @venus8115
    @venus8115 Год назад +26

    i love candace. this interview didn’t make me feel alone and realized a lot about myself. as for someone who always posted my body for wrong reasons, wanting to feel good by wearing revealing/tight clothing for insecure and negative reasons, made me feel like society really ruined me and i need to change the way i view about myself and other people . telling myself to never let society affect me the way it has. Candace is a savior for our society and people who are mature and opened minded will be able to understand her pov. yes, i don’t agree to everything she says, but she’s always on point. really love her mindset and i look up to her

  • @ModernPeopleAreEvil
    @ModernPeopleAreEvil Год назад +48

    As a black women Candace and the roommates channel saved me. Yes lord!!

    • @prettypoetic
      @prettypoetic 2 месяца назад

      Same Candance saved me for sure

  • @MissJJoan
    @MissJJoan Год назад +1740

    “First wave feminists wanted women to have the option. They wouldn’t agree with third wave feminists today.” As someone educated in the history of feminism, I 100% agree.

    • @emilyknowlton8602
      @emilyknowlton8602 Год назад +71

      Agreed. Being a feminist in the 70's and 80's is very different from now.

    • @the_famous_reply_guy
      @the_famous_reply_guy Год назад

      Mary Daly was a 70's second wave feminist and wanted to cull the male population down to 1%. "there must be a decontamination of the Earth. I think this will be accompanied by an evolutionary process that will result in a drastic reduction of the population of males.”

    • @ten_tego_teges
      @ten_tego_teges Год назад +47

      @@emilyknowlton8602 First wave feminism happenned over 100 years, not in the 70's.

    • @jonathansalazar289
      @jonathansalazar289 Год назад

      First wave feminism was part of the devils agenda. To distort God's order of a family structure from God, man, women, animals... to Animals, women, man, God.
      The bible ever says the antichrist will create a society that favors women and hates men.

    • @GaryHField
      @GaryHField Год назад +12

      @@ten_tego_teges true. That's second wave feminism.

  • @jesusislord8895
    @jesusislord8895 Год назад +1881

    I used to be a stripper in my past, I was so unhappy and depressed no matter how much money I made but I never let nobody know, I turned my back on that life, put all the clothes I used to have in the bin and started changing my life to live as a traditional woman and I’m so happy, and I’m no longer depressed, i wish I had someone when I was younger who would off learned me that was not the way but I thank Jesus Christ for changing my life

    • @godslittlegirl
      @godslittlegirl Год назад +111

      YES! Jesus can CHANGE YOU. Amen :) God bless sister.

    • @ninarenee9561
      @ninarenee9561 Год назад +35

      Awesome congrats your rare

    • @jesusislord8895
      @jesusislord8895 Год назад +45

      @@godslittlegirl amen 🙏🏼 it was all Jesus Christ he is truly amazing and a blessing to my life, I only speak about it to point others to Jesus Christ so they too can find peace and happiness in there lives, GOD is GOOD ✝️👑🕊

    • @jesusislord8895
      @jesusislord8895 Год назад +19

      @@ninarenee9561 thank you 🙏🏼 so much, Jesus Christ is amazing ✝️👑🕊

    • @saweetiegurl6024
      @saweetiegurl6024 Год назад +10

      Remember when you were saved

  • @victoriahsauceda
    @victoriahsauceda Год назад +6

    thank you for this roomates. this clip was my red pill moment... forever grateful for you sharing knowledge and truth.

  • @aureofiore09
    @aureofiore09 Год назад +53

    Amen Candace, as a working single mother and once career-oriented, nothing makes me happier and content where I feel like I have a purposeful life than having my child and raising him. No career goals have given me this level of satisfaction than having a child and becoming a mother.

  • @Blessed_Sound
    @Blessed_Sound 3 года назад +581

    Telling a lie has become such a norm that if you tell the truth, people get enraged.

    • @Tameeeeeem
      @Tameeeeeem 3 года назад +10

      Sadly...this is true....

    • @doubledoubleusmokymirror4d405
      @doubledoubleusmokymirror4d405 3 года назад +3

      Works for me because if they strike because I told some facts. Fast forward "your honor he hit me first so I whipped his ass" lol

    • @youngrios
      @youngrios 3 года назад +5

      I literally told my ex upfront that she has been lying and I need an honest person. ..hinting her to be straight forward to me. .she hasn't spoken to me for a month.....can't handle the truth

    • @docholiday7758
      @docholiday7758 3 года назад +2

      Lying is a disease worse than cancer.

    • @brendandwyer482
      @brendandwyer482 3 года назад +3

      Toon She, George Orwell had a quote similar to yours. "In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act."

  • @allergictohumansnotanimals5671
    @allergictohumansnotanimals5671 3 года назад +3327

    She’s speaking facts. I’m a feminine girl and ironically (or not so much anymore) I’ve only seen feminists degrade me for literally being a normal female, not men.

    • @samuelforesta
      @samuelforesta 2 года назад +169

      Those aren't real feminists then.

    • @TNDCBaby
      @TNDCBaby 2 года назад +16

      @@samuelforesta Right. Unless there is a weird power dynamic and abuse tied up in it, it's about being the type of woman that you want to be.

    • @arcane1282
      @arcane1282 2 года назад +86

      What is a “Normal female” ?

    • @a-snt9230
      @a-snt9230 2 года назад +18

      Please can someone read the definition of feminist in the dictionnary and understand what is feminism or not?

    • @BRlGADE_KINGPIN
      @BRlGADE_KINGPIN 2 года назад +1

      Exactly

  • @MissAyaRok
    @MissAyaRok Год назад +21

    i'm disappointed in myself for not knowing her sooner, she speaks the truth

  • @MrJeffrey316
    @MrJeffrey316 Год назад +19

    Wow! She is really smart. We need more like Candace. Extremely intelligent. Makes a lot of sense.

  • @stewslogisticsllc9460
    @stewslogisticsllc9460 3 года назад +1734

    My wife is a stay at home, I gave her the funds to start her own business. I’m not on the paperwork and I have nothing to do with her business. Now she works from home and her dreams are coming true because she stayed at home. When we got married, I told her that you can work if you want, but I’m the provider and that’s my job to take care of you and the kids.

    • @JoshylovesTrance
      @JoshylovesTrance 3 года назад +193

      Respect to you sir 💯 role model for young men out there today.

    • @stewslogisticsllc9460
      @stewslogisticsllc9460 3 года назад +65

      @Graciela Y Etcheverry yeah, I think that true. I’m 35 and I think I’m old enough to have that mentality but young enough to have a different one. As for me I grew up in a home where my Step-Father was like that and I got it from seeing him do the same thing

    • @Gbsn579
      @Gbsn579 3 года назад +66

      That’s inspirational man. I’m 23, single and just now starting my business I plan to do the same when I get a girl and business pops off. I always wanted a stay at home woman.

    • @stewslogisticsllc9460
      @stewslogisticsllc9460 3 года назад +37

      @@Gbsn579 you wanting a stay at home wife isn’t impossible, both of you will need the same mindset.

    • @stewslogisticsllc9460
      @stewslogisticsllc9460 3 года назад +45

      @@JoshylovesTrance thanks, I’m trying to be one for my son and daughter. I don’t want my daughter to accept anything less or my son to do anything less.

  • @mhd9688
    @mhd9688 3 года назад +569

    I deleted every social media account that I had in January and I have never lived so peacefully before.

    • @youhearditherefirst6602
      @youhearditherefirst6602 3 года назад +22

      You forgot RUclips.

    • @chrollodranx-hunter3389
      @chrollodranx-hunter3389 3 года назад +42

      @@youhearditherefirst6602 let them have some entertainment

    • @youhearditherefirst6602
      @youhearditherefirst6602 3 года назад +10

      @@chrollodranx-hunter3389, you're right. My bad.

    • @mhd9688
      @mhd9688 3 года назад +25

      @@youhearditherefirst6602 dont wanna be a monk bro

    • @Captain_Insano_nomercy
      @Captain_Insano_nomercy 3 года назад +24

      I deleted my Instagram two weeks ago and I feel so much better already man. I only keep facebook messenger to keep in touch with my international friends, and RUclips to keep up to date and educated

  • @peteg860
    @peteg860 Год назад +10

    Love hearing this Woman, she speaks truth and isn't afraid to stick up for men as well.
    👍🤙👌

  • @georginarausz9041
    @georginarausz9041 Год назад

    You keep it real and you are full of great knowledge!!! Love it . We need more speakers like you in 2023

  • @superfanatico199815
    @superfanatico199815 3 года назад +1283

    A girl i was dating criticized me because i did not acknowledge her as " powerful " because she was always looking for attention on social media....dodged that bullet

    • @DDRHeretiC
      @DDRHeretiC 3 года назад +26

      LOL!!!!!!

    • @jkash2614
      @jkash2614 3 года назад +93

      It seems to me, if a person has to constantly seek out attention, they lose their power.

    • @tbrownflee3124
      @tbrownflee3124 3 года назад +55

      What the hell? How am I a woman? They all seem nuts to me, I can't relate to my own gender. I would never act this way, but then its mens fault too because they will still hook up with these kinds of girls and use them just as much as these girls are using the men to boost their princess hungry egos. God, girls shouldn't even have egos, its so anti-nurturing. Like, what kind of mom would they be some day?

    • @lucylu2927
      @lucylu2927 3 года назад

      I'm guessing she feels the same way

    • @moodsofkiwi9285
      @moodsofkiwi9285 3 года назад +9

      @Olive Green I’m surprised you haven’t received a “pick me” comment yet 😂. On a serious note I agree with you. Many women are taught to be non-nurturing, as though nurturing is weakness. Women are taught that men will take advantage of any shown kindness, which is not true for the majority of men. Women should surround themselves with good men and they’ll feel safe enough to be a humble and content woman.

  • @reylime2991
    @reylime2991 3 года назад +4665

    To sum up: Don’t be afraid of making a sandwich for a man, be afraid of the type of man you might be making a sandwich for.

    • @Renaki141
      @Renaki141 3 года назад +99

      Big true

    • @nenugwu
      @nenugwu 3 года назад +190

      And him make me a sandwich as well!

    • @ShinySilverBunny
      @ShinySilverBunny 3 года назад +298

      That right there... and don't give wife benefits to a boyfriend... he's not the husband if he's a boyfriend.

    • @kojinmaster
      @kojinmaster 3 года назад +87

      @@ShinySilverBunny don't give wife benefits to girlfriends?

    • @ShinySilverBunny
      @ShinySilverBunny 3 года назад +34

      @@kojinmaster you misread my comment. I said boyfriends.. its right there

  • @truth5454
    @truth5454 Год назад +13

    Candace is very on point I’m so happy someone is actually talking about it 🙌

  • @anrose4095
    @anrose4095 Месяц назад +2

    I love this! This should be spoken about more🙏 I am a white woman who loves being at home, taking care of the home and lovingly serve my man who is the most beautiful and respectful gentleman I've ever met. This brings me so much joy. And what is wrong with that? Embracing womanhood and hoping ....praying...to one day be blessed to raise babies to be a better generation than we are. Without racial/sexual warfare!
    It doesn't mean I'm less than my man. It simply means I have a different role to fulfill. So that he can be the protector and provider that he is!

  • @mehdirahan6943
    @mehdirahan6943 3 года назад +428

    "You have to take off your clothes to get attention and freedom? That's not freedom, that's bondage and slavery."

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +5

      We already experience that even if women have clothes on. Where is the freedom of breastfeeding?

    • @A.K.33
      @A.K.33 2 года назад +3

      You could easily turn that around.
      "You have to be modest and never show any skin to get attention and freedom? That's not freedom, that's bondage and slavery."

    • @A.K.33
      @A.K.33 2 года назад

      @Victor Maze I mean don't get me wrong I do kinda agree with what she said. I just wanted to point out that that can go both ways.

    • @GodSoLoved.Yeshua
      @GodSoLoved.Yeshua 2 года назад +4

      @@A.K.33 Well you aren't actually trying to draw attention to yourself when you dress modestly. You're actually covering up.

    • @MrAlepedroza
      @MrAlepedroza 2 года назад +3

      @@GodSoLoved.Yeshua Still, it works both ways. It depends om the reason on why you're doing it: if you cover up because you think your body is sinful or inherently filthy, or because you think all men are potential rapists or because you think your god will send you to hell if you don't...then that's slavery too (arguably worse than uncovering), based on degrading yourself and demonizing men. It's a toxic worldview and should be called out.
      If you cover up (or just don't show much) just because you like it and it fits your personality, then its perfectly fine.
      Same for showing a lot of skin. If you do it just because you are an attention freak and believe yourself to have no other quality...you have a problem too.

  • @themagicjuand
    @themagicjuand 3 года назад +558

    I deleted Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook well over 5 years ago and let me tell you that it was the single best desition for my mental health. Unfortunately, youtube is heading in the same direction. It might just come down to biting the bullet and getting the hell off of here too.

    • @hockeymomavalon2499
      @hockeymomavalon2499 3 года назад +13

      Same!

    • @fezekaMiya
      @fezekaMiya 3 года назад +37

      I actually thought about deleting youtube but i Feel like i can actually control it...

    • @norahelaine6041
      @norahelaine6041 3 года назад +7

      True! Never had Instagram etc but I’m about to delete RUclips.

    • @SilverStarFour
      @SilverStarFour 3 года назад +5

      I'm happy that Project Veritas decided they are going to try and sue Twitter. They could use a good suing.

    • @suntan4538
      @suntan4538 3 года назад

      But Facebook, IG, TikTok is your memory. And an awesome memorial for yourself. Get back on it!

  • @rethamoore4282
    @rethamoore4282 7 месяцев назад +6

    I say it all the time but I gotta say it again, I LOVE CANDICE!! She hits it on the nail head every time !! I 100% agree with her!❤😊

  • @LubomirFotev
    @LubomirFotev Год назад +13

    Once in awhile you find people who say exactly the same thing you are thinking and it makes you feel less crazy about your ideals and ideas.

  • @matcharlesmed
    @matcharlesmed 2 года назад +1374

    I was raised by a single father never had a mother’s love, my wife today is a loving mother to my son and I, I adore her so much and never knew I needed a woman’s touch until she came into my life, she is the reason why my work boots stay dirty and I don’t mind. I wouldn’t be able to lead my family with out my wife’s support.

    • @norandmurr1432
      @norandmurr1432 2 года назад +106

      Your wife is equally blessed.

    • @KP-hi1om
      @KP-hi1om 2 года назад +64

      Perfectly said my brother. Been married 29 years and would do it again. It takes two to raise kids. I get crap all the time for being a proponent for marriage and family.

    • @kathystoneburner4947
      @kathystoneburner4947 2 года назад +36

      What a beautiful tribute.

    • @Natalie-hg9vt
      @Natalie-hg9vt 2 года назад +27

      This is so sweet!

    • @user-pt1ye7vd7m
      @user-pt1ye7vd7m 2 года назад +4

      You wouldn't do the same if your wife just wanted your money while she fcks other dudes behind your back. Or keeps nagging you to make more money but at the same time, spend more time with her or do any chores on top of your job.
      Women think a man doing what he's written for them is a default.
      Get atta your fantasy and realize it should go both ways.

  • @Libtardo123
    @Libtardo123 3 года назад +3325

    If she gave this talk on a college campus we would reach peak levels of triggered.

    • @Toji-KO
      @Toji-KO 3 года назад +29

      Ultra instinct Donald ??

    • @RedRoseSeptember22
      @RedRoseSeptember22 3 года назад +93

      Lol right? They'd have her escorted from the campus just like the gun girl.

    • @kirillzakharov7336
      @kirillzakharov7336 3 года назад +14

      @@RedRoseSeptember22 and rightly so.

    • @zenz.1363
      @zenz.1363 3 года назад +86

      @@kirillzakharov7336 why because you don't agree with her

    • @Li8eralsarescum69
      @Li8eralsarescum69 3 года назад +36

      @@zenz.1363 he’s a racist democrat who doesn’t realize there is more to life than playing victim just ignore the thing lmao

  • @wildnwetkitty64
    @wildnwetkitty64 Год назад +7

    Beautiful brilliant extremely well spoken straight forward truthful honest person who makes me proud to be a real American. I love your straight forward truthful opinions and I agree with 99.9 percent of them and would have been honored to have a child so dam brave and dedicated to getting the truth about our really screwed up woke society. Love you Candice and keep up the great work.

  • @samanthaward4627
    @samanthaward4627 Год назад +2

    The most amazing 12:21 minutes!!!! Thank you! Everyone needs to hear this.

  • @nicklowe_
    @nicklowe_ 2 года назад +535

    When she said women are desirable sexually but not personality-wise, that is very true

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +12

      Because this is all men want or care about. Especially when you are skinny and make less and submit. Cheating is cheating.

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 2 года назад

      Bull crap

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 2 года назад +29

      @@mstwelvedeadlycyns You've got issues.

    • @nv230
      @nv230 2 года назад +8

      @@JaysonT1 Do you think they’re wrong though?

    • @Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer
      @Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer 2 года назад +31

      @@mstwelvedeadlycyns TBH many woman i know just have there body to offer. But if you find a girl who offers more, you gotta be quick...

  • @angelinafoster8747
    @angelinafoster8747 3 года назад +878

    What an amazing sight to see in the end! She has her time to speak, then when the host speaks she quietly listens. Unfortunately, something as simple as not interrupting someone while they speak is becoming increasingly rare.

  • @sunnytimoglobal
    @sunnytimoglobal 3 месяца назад +3

    She is speaking like a true woman with dignity, Africans are proud of you.

  • @tomcox5063
    @tomcox5063 Месяц назад +1

    Great thoughts guys, thanks for putting this out for people to hear.

  • @callalilly4743
    @callalilly4743 3 года назад +2399

    Packing my husband's lunch for work gives me a lot of pleasure. The right man will make you enjoy the most mundane tasks.

    • @bridgettejohnson9085
      @bridgettejohnson9085 3 года назад +36

      💯💯💯

    • @unrulytoast1189
      @unrulytoast1189 3 года назад +193

      I think that's lovely. It's not so much the task itself, but the meaning behind it.

    • @PainxSorrow
      @PainxSorrow 3 года назад +71

      Ong got a chance 2 throw that poison in if he tweakin

    • @Sergio-sz5yw
      @Sergio-sz5yw 3 года назад +10

      @@PainxSorrow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @trinitig1115
      @trinitig1115 3 года назад +21

      There should be NO traditional roles in society. We live in a patriarchy men already have power and being a stay at home wife who cooks and cleans for him you are just contributing to the patriarchy. Get some power and stop trying to serve a man.

  • @kdeezo326
    @kdeezo326 3 года назад +811

    I know she gets a bad rap in the Black community but she always tells the straight up honest truth. I think a lot of times people just don’t like to hear that type of brutal honesty.

    • @Yonverpage
      @Yonverpage 3 года назад +17

      Facts my guy

    • @niamtxiv
      @niamtxiv 3 года назад +24

      Sweet lies vs harsh truth. People like to live a lie

    • @tonihines9613
      @tonihines9613 3 года назад +3

      I agree with you 100%.

    • @kasdcomoa5567
      @kasdcomoa5567 3 года назад +1

      Why does she have a bad rap in the black community?

    • @JoshJourney1
      @JoshJourney1 3 года назад +32

      @@kasdcomoa5567 she's tells the truth, she gets bullied by black people telling her she's acting "white", she married a white man, she's the women that men actually wants.

  • @brendanieuwstad8850
    @brendanieuwstad8850 Год назад

    Thanks for the beautiful message ❤️ 🙏

  • @lenalove8138
    @lenalove8138 Год назад +9

    When I was in my 20's (now 50's), I used to wear tight clothes because I wanted attention, and I got it. But once you get a man's attention what do you do, you honor, respect, obey and treasure him and only wear those clothes you use to get him, at home, for his eyes only. Moral of the story once you get his attention, capture his heart. (Happily married to him for 29 years).

  • @samanthaporter6662
    @samanthaporter6662 3 года назад +685

    I'm a stay at home mom and feel like other women look down on me for not working.... it's not fun... but I don't care....my family is happy and the stress level in our home is very low!!!

    • @cutiepiebb
      @cutiepiebb 3 года назад +96

      they're jealous ;)

    • @phinolaaruna49
      @phinolaaruna49 3 года назад +7

      @@cutiepiebb let me tell you something, except your husband is the best thing in the world there ain’t nothing to be jealous of.

    • @randomyoutubeuser9465
      @randomyoutubeuser9465 3 года назад +121

      @Yulia 456 they are jealous that they have to slave away at work and she doesn’t🤷🏽‍♀️. If they weren’t jealous they wouldn’t look down on her, they’d just say “I’m happy for you but that lifestyle is not for me”.

    • @Beavereaver
      @Beavereaver 3 года назад +119

      @Yulia 456 she’s not a breeder she’s the literal glue that holds the family together. Without her the husband couldn’t function and the kids would be a mess and failing left and right. It ultimately comes down to Choice, if you want to peruse a high powered career you can more power to you but accept the consequences. Same with the stay at home Mom, she chose her life and she has to face the consequences.

    • @Beavereaver
      @Beavereaver 3 года назад +64

      @Yulia 456 must be all the feminist juice you’ve been drinking.

  • @wilkeeggink1869
    @wilkeeggink1869 3 года назад +2870

    What people dont realize is how strong of a woman it takes to stay home and nurture a family and create a home.

    • @marcusmoore5526
      @marcusmoore5526 3 года назад +163

      True. It's not as easy as people think.

    • @jplusosec977
      @jplusosec977 3 года назад +104

      Tell that to the guy that gets up early to go work construction all day and pay the bills. I'm fine with a women staying home taking care of the children. But don't kid yourself. You're not special.

    • @michellenaicori2920
      @michellenaicori2920 3 года назад +18

      I appreciate this comment so much!

    • @arod077
      @arod077 3 года назад +64

      You are right it does take a strong woman. It always has. The issue is that having just the man work and woman stay home is harder now than ever before. Prices for things are crazy out of control. Back in the 60s the man can have one job. With that job have a home, a car, and be able to support his family. Now unless you make 100k a year that is almost impossible. I mean even kids that graduate from college making 50k to 60k a year is hard enough for them as well.

    • @thundercat1081
      @thundercat1081 3 года назад +227

      @@jplusosec977 .... aren’t both jobs important? Obviously working construction is a labor intensive job and hard on the body, so of course that should be appreciated. Bills getting paid is essential and I believe a women should think her man is special and amazing if he can provide financial stability single handily, and is willing to take on that burden alone.
      That being said staying home with kids who need things from you all day, while trying to keep on top of all the household chores, can be mentally taxing. Kids do better when they are little if mom (or dad) is home, as opposed to a day care. When a women is willing to put her career and Financial independence on hold for her children’s well-being , I believe that’s a good thing. Juggling kids and house work at the very least, takes a great deal of patience and time management. Why wouldn’t a husband find a women who can do those tasks well, special?
      A family tends to run smoothest with a provider and a nurturer. Both should be valued. This “you’re not special” attitude seems counter productive to me. A man and women should think what their partner does is special and be appreciative. Definitely makes for a more rewarding relationship when both people feel valued. It shouldn’t be a competition. It’s a team effort.

  • @nataliad.9464
    @nataliad.9464 Год назад +1

    AMAZING LIKE ALWAYS!! ❤️

  • @amargalco
    @amargalco Год назад +1

    Love this interview! 👍🏼

  • @SolarLingua
    @SolarLingua 2 года назад +2120

    The Russians have a wonderful saying regarding families: "The man is the head of the family, but the woman is the neck that steers towards the right direction."

    • @madaranesbitt3698
      @madaranesbitt3698 2 года назад +54

      I like that lol

    • @keae8202
      @keae8202 2 года назад +126

      Without that neck the head won’t survive . I love the Russian quote

    • @SolarLingua
      @SolarLingua 2 года назад +22

      @@trubnikov Мне не надо жить в России, чтобы у меня было право использовать русские выражения. И русский я уже выучил, именно чтобы дуракам как тебе отвечать. Как это шовинизм, если оба партнёра принимают участие в направлении отношения?

    • @keae8202
      @keae8202 2 года назад

      @Shubham 💯 %

    • @fatimasimahina6779
      @fatimasimahina6779 2 года назад +1

      @@SolarLingua Наверное потому что в России все еще есть шовинизм. И все еще очень много.

  • @So_Oneal
    @So_Oneal 3 года назад +2006

    Man she's a breath of fresh air; I like when she talks about these sort of topics because she has her own mind and isn't influenced by the hive

    • @flourishomotola5306
      @flourishomotola5306 3 года назад +58

      I agree. She is very intelligent.

    • @teebagur
      @teebagur 3 года назад +33

      @@flourishomotola5306 Nah she's a bottom feeder. Not sure why she is on here

    • @medic6yaeta254
      @medic6yaeta254 3 года назад +15

      I've been on the Owens train now since 2012.

    • @medic6yaeta254
      @medic6yaeta254 3 года назад +46

      @@teebagur I encourage you to checkout Candace's book "Blackout" & see if calling her a bottom feeder is applicable.

    • @AA-xl4vk
      @AA-xl4vk 3 года назад +41

      @@medic6yaeta254 Any black person supporting Candace Owens needs help. This woman has serious self-hate issues

  • @bindubayung6162
    @bindubayung6162 5 месяцев назад +1

    All the comments are so satisfying and so true! 🔥

  • @michaelthomas6053
    @michaelthomas6053 2 месяца назад

    Right on, so much truth in this video, I have been enjoying this type of content for a while.

  • @DrStephenT
    @DrStephenT 3 года назад +1047

    “Until you realize how easy it is for your mind to be manipulated, you remain the puppet of someone else's game.”

    • @loveothers5072
      @loveothers5072 3 года назад +4

      ✊🏽

    • @joelmasuku7714
      @joelmasuku7714 3 года назад +6

      Why has this not got 100K likes

    • @mikhael.j7
      @mikhael.j7 3 года назад +2

      Doing business they say, it's just chess board for them. And these unbridled women don't even have any idea

    • @homer9269
      @homer9269 3 года назад +7

      Mainstream media knows this. Turn them off.

    • @THOMASCOLTON1
      @THOMASCOLTON1 3 года назад

      She says in low cut top

  • @fortituderap2047
    @fortituderap2047 2 года назад +487

    “…No shot to Kylie Jenner, but what did society do to make her think that she had to go get lip injections….” Sheesh!!

    • @gummy5862
      @gummy5862 2 года назад +25

      Well the lip injections earned her millions and heavily contributed to her being the “youngest self-made billionaire” so maybe that’s why she decided to get all Duckfaced McTransraced.

    • @alexandriamclain4978
      @alexandriamclain4978 2 года назад +29

      She did an interview on that and she explained that her first kiss she had with a boy she liked; he told her she was a great kisser, but her lips were small.🥺

    • @angefabricenda560
      @angefabricenda560 2 года назад +4

      @@gummy5862 😂

    • @rhyspalmer58
      @rhyspalmer58 2 года назад +17

      @@gummy5862 she ain't a self made billionaire

    • @Fang-dr3bk
      @Fang-dr3bk 2 года назад +19

      Yeah when did white women start to want to look like black women?

  • @user-we4wk3nm7f
    @user-we4wk3nm7f 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yes. Absolutely very well delivered and spoken Candace Owens has spoken a mouth full of information. Yes!!!!!!. God bless 🙏

  • @jensta2257
    @jensta2257 Год назад +579

    As a 33 year old Latina woman I have been bullied for not sleeping around, for not being a thirst trap by older feminist women who are in their 50s and dress like they’re 21… they’ve called me names and stuff. I simply laugh, I know who I am and I respect myself. Present feminist are angry rebellious women.
    A woman shouldn’t aim to be a queen, queens command and demand, but a goddess is revered and respected.
    Go Candace!

    • @bubullibooooo9928
      @bubullibooooo9928 Год назад +1

      Don't confuse promiscuity with feminism. Ya'll are all ignorant women who are Soo opposed to feminism but u don't even know what it is.

    • @LoveLightSalsa
      @LoveLightSalsa Год назад +9

      ❤ Goddess yes!

    • @RPKD88
      @RPKD88 Год назад +1

      Imagine generalizing feminists. Yoi sound like a pick me lmao.

    • @shadowclonejutsu8500
      @shadowclonejutsu8500 Год назад +2

      Queen

    • @cristy0716
      @cristy0716 11 месяцев назад +34

      I don’t like the goddess, queen or princess bs. I think we all need a little humility. No one is better than anyone else. We are all equals.

  • @arneilmarquez
    @arneilmarquez 3 года назад +359

    I have a gal pal who recently just quit her job because she wanted to spend more time with her kids and family. Her husband makes enough to support the family. I thought it was great she did that. She was saying how she felt she was wasting her time at work doing a job she hated. She wanted to spend more time raising her kids and making her family stronger.

    • @lb2683
      @lb2683 3 года назад +24

      Better kids for the planet that way

    • @FineAndHappySight
      @FineAndHappySight 3 года назад +9

      Well said

    • @m.shevonmason4232
      @m.shevonmason4232 3 года назад +12

      Very smart and blessed woman!

    • @sambailie4773
      @sambailie4773 3 года назад +8

      Sounds like a good woman x

    • @racheljay454
      @racheljay454 3 года назад +12

      The next generation deserves mothers like your friend! Every single one of them.

  • @Melana35
    @Melana35 4 месяца назад +3

    Candace Owns great influence on modern women.Time to stop blaming and become best version of yourself.We here to thrive.

  • @rodjjt7742
    @rodjjt7742 10 месяцев назад +1

    I never really listened to Candace Owens but had heard about her in passing. Usually seeing a negative article headline online or something. Actually listening to her, she makes a lot of sense.

  • @ph1265
    @ph1265 3 года назад +668

    regardless of opinion on Candace Owens, most would agree that she is incredibly skilled at expressing a point of view

    • @aquasonic3677
      @aquasonic3677 3 года назад +22

      And she’s beautiful, she is a rare gem based on what I see on social media.

    • @Pursuepeace0715
      @Pursuepeace0715 3 года назад +27

      yes I dont agree with everything she says but I do like how she carries herself but after the Grammy's fiasco and the Satan shoes I am leaning towards her more because society is going down the drain

    • @craigezell4261
      @craigezell4261 3 года назад +5

      @@Pursuepeace0715 So very true.Someone has to sound the alarm & don't expect much out of these confused individuals we vote into office.

    • @acthegreat
      @acthegreat 3 года назад

      yeah i disagree.

    • @imintheghettoratatata6593
      @imintheghettoratatata6593 3 года назад

      @@acthegreat feminist triggered*

  • @Papa_Owl
    @Papa_Owl 3 года назад +215

    I'm happy my wife gets to stay home with our kids and more so that she enjoys being a mom.

  • @Allyourbase1990
    @Allyourbase1990 Год назад +22

    Wish more women had self respect and values like Candace

    • @chocoMyCoco
      @chocoMyCoco Год назад +3

      Me! I'm a 26 age lady and still virgin!

  • @olgabaker6525
    @olgabaker6525 Месяц назад +2

    Great talk! Thank you both!
    Love you Candace! 🙏❤️

  • @aiihairyou1336
    @aiihairyou1336 3 года назад +403

    "The society is ill, it's not normal" FACTS

    • @chosen1one67
      @chosen1one67 3 года назад +1

      💯

    • @ntmn8444
      @ntmn8444 3 года назад

      Yes 🙌🏻

    • @farshimelt
      @farshimelt 3 года назад

      Society, as a group, has always been "ill." It's only individuals who are healthy.

  • @gessiemesamours1791
    @gessiemesamours1791 2 года назад +755

    "you don't have to take off your clothes to be heard in society" please say it again!

    • @Melly16yr10
      @Melly16yr10 2 года назад +12

      Statement I completely agree on.

    • @gessiemesamours1791
      @gessiemesamours1791 2 года назад +10

      There a lot of us who believe “that’s beauty” but little did we know that we are worth mites than that. I was a victim of it.

    • @russiankodiak6849
      @russiankodiak6849 2 года назад +8

      That was aimed towards the Tik Tok and Instagram girls. It’s so annoying af

    • @beastinbarbie
      @beastinbarbie 2 года назад +1

      I love this ❤️

    • @iki12737
      @iki12737 2 года назад +3

      they have to for gaining attention from men

  • @mv_n6203
    @mv_n6203 Год назад +8

    I’m both feminine & masculine depending on what needs accomplished. A son witnessing his mother get her degree, make her own $ & can take care of herself is just as important. I’ve been married for 23 years, my independence is one of the reasons my husband was able to go to war & be rest assured that I can hold OUR fort down. Me crying b/c I want him home is a distraction while he his getting shot at.

  • @alessandraberausnomadeofth2527
    @alessandraberausnomadeofth2527 Год назад +3

    Thank You Candace
    Such an important topic and very true, i see it the same way!

  • @MI-je2wu
    @MI-je2wu 3 года назад +758

    The way the world is right now we could use more discussions like this.

    • @blackfilmmakerguide5720
      @blackfilmmakerguide5720 3 года назад +9

      Listen to "Kevin Samuel". The man is a G

    • @anthonytravis1852
      @anthonytravis1852 3 года назад

      On Gawd 🙌🏾 generally I struggle to agree with Candace but she has all my votes on this one ☑☑☑☑

    • @craigezell4261
      @craigezell4261 3 года назад

      M1:A lot more.

    • @craigezell4261
      @craigezell4261 3 года назад +1

      @@anthonytravis1852 Truth is truth.

    • @thespadestable
      @thespadestable 3 года назад +1

      @@blackfilmmakerguide5720 -
      The man is an unemployable 50some year old who's never walked the talk he talks.
      He's long publicly admitted he's was never a "Henry", and he prides himself in being an effective salesman. So dude has pretty much put his card on the table and showed his hand.
      And people diss Steve Harvey book, why?

  • @NA-sf1lh
    @NA-sf1lh 3 года назад +407

    These are the words women need to hear after being brainwashed that only fans is something inspiring. I worry for these future generations with what society glorifies

    • @adex_smith
      @adex_smith 2 года назад +11

      I’m afraid Future parents and wife’s wouldn’t be a good parent

    • @kingoffire9373
      @kingoffire9373 2 года назад +39

      Yes and a lot of women also need to realize that they are average at best. I'm not saying that in a derogatory way, I'm saying that most people, men and women are average. We're not models, we're not billionaires or celebrities, we're regular people. Average women need to understand that they can easily get an average guy who will be good to them if they do the same thing back, no cheating, poly, hyper all of that bullshit.
      If the next generation of women realized this and kept themselves more reserved for longer, they would actually be flooded out by genuinely good men, maybe not the richest men, or best looking, but good men who will love them. We're all sitting here alone.
      The society of hookup culture and social media have created a group of women who have overly inflated ego's, they all think they are perfect 10's and so they are all going for the perfect 10 guy, while in reality they are all average people with problems just like us average guys. There's nothing wrong with being average. It's called having humility and staying humble. 8 billion people in this world and only 10% of them are in the 10%.
      EDIT: Thought I was replying to a different comment there.
      Please understand this comment is not necessarily directed at you, I'm just making general statements.

    • @bryant475
      @bryant475 2 года назад +7

      Exactly, It's sad that so many women think that their self worth is tied to their attractiveness, a very shallow characteristic. The truth is, the type of women that men naturally find attractive and valuable for long term/marriage, are traditional, feminine women who are more submissive and let their man lead, and are happy rearing children, cooking, etc. And the type of men that women naturally find attractive and valuable for long term/marriage, are men who are assertive, leaders, have ambition, financial stability, are loyal and honest, etc. In fact, the psychological research shows that married women in these traditional roles are the happiest, and women in their 40s who are single/divorced, with a career working 50-60 hour weeks are miserable. it's just the way it is biologically, psychologically, etc. It's the way God intended! Btw, do you happen to be a Christian?

    • @NA-sf1lh
      @NA-sf1lh 2 года назад +5

      @@bryant475 I totally agree. Women can be successful and in a proper marriage without showing everything. Modesty Is looked at as if it was oppression towards women which is so sad!
      No! I am muslim but I do love and respect my Christian brothers and sisters :)

    • @bryant475
      @bryant475 2 года назад +2

      @@NA-sf1lh Yeah, completely agreed! Do you also agree with the traditional roles that men and women naturally have and are happier in? Aka men being more assertive, leaders, financially stable, etc., while women are more submissive and nurturing, child rearing, etc.? And yeah Amen, there are similar values between Christianity and Islam. I'd highly recommend checking out the amazing testimony of Nabeel Qureshi!

  • @cynthiaburris630
    @cynthiaburris630 8 месяцев назад +2

    I absolutely love and respect this young woman so much. Extremely intelligent!

  • @beccalove8791
    @beccalove8791 Месяц назад +1

    When I was six years old I was at a girlfriend’s birthday party with only girls that were invited. The mother asked each of us what we wanted to be when we grew up. I was the only one who said I wanted to be a mother. The mother that asked me frowned at me. I have to say that staying at home and raising my kids was to happiest time in my life!

  • @justvibin1087
    @justvibin1087 3 года назад +611

    It boggles my mind why girls ask "Where are all the good men" meanwhile they don't act like good women smh

    • @VoiceOvaGuy
      @VoiceOvaGuy 3 года назад +35

      Plus there's still plenty of good men out there, women just tend to look right past us like we're made of glass. If all you look for is garbage, the world will seem like a landfill.

    • @claystar6600
      @claystar6600 3 года назад +1

      Totally agree

    • @anothercat1300
      @anothercat1300 3 года назад +15

      Modesty has this stigma surrounding it. Like it's some kind of archaic rule that was enforced by a "tyrannical patriarchy" haha.
      But if you approach modesty with Love in mind everything changes. Modest women understand men value their body and the intimacy she is able to create with it.
      When you tell women to show more of themselves for all to see and to seek attention above all else two things happen: first, women become unsure of their true value, they become insecure and petty until they're consumed in self hatred without the added likes on social media. Second, you inevitably create a world where there's no more intimacy. When that happens the value of privacy goes down and when that happens the threat of totalitarianism nears.
      Women play a massive part in the world that determines whether or not people feel connected and valued, they're the guardians of the private space and are Traditionally seen as the beating heart of the family unit.
      So women, be beautiful and show off your abilities to creatively express yourself. But please do it in Love, be modest and become the solution to the loneliness, depression and suicide pandemic. Desire to challenge men to greater heights, to become virtuous and strong in order to show they're worthy to treasure the body mind and heart you possess.
      There's a few great joys in life. One of the greatest is to be with someone who's heart beats with yours in one rhythm; in a beautiful dance only experienced behind closed doors.
      You can either have that or 100k likes for the bikini photo you posted on social media. Your choice.

    • @cherryblossom7442
      @cherryblossom7442 3 года назад +15

      There are good men and woman everywhere, don’t act like a victim please

    • @anothercat1300
      @anothercat1300 3 года назад +6

      @@cherryblossom7442 he's not acting like a victim.

  • @briansteen8853
    @briansteen8853 3 года назад +194

    My wife’s been chasing her tail taking care of our newborn and I’ve need working 50hrs a week. I can say without a doubt, she’s working harder than me and no way could I do this parenting thing without her strength.

    • @misslalarainbow
      @misslalarainbow 3 года назад +15

      That's so sweet and considerate to recognize her work too!

    • @nicolleleivam6938
      @nicolleleivam6938 3 года назад +4

      Awesome. Wishing you both all the best and enjoy you newborn ❤️❤️

    • @Mindyobusiness89
      @Mindyobusiness89 3 года назад

      That's beautiful brain

    • @Thekingdom912
      @Thekingdom912 3 года назад +2

      Try working 80 hours a week, people do that

  • @Jus_me_Sween
    @Jus_me_Sween 9 месяцев назад +1

    Seriously not a joke! Everyday I clock in for work I shed a tear! Wondering why the fudge did we fight for this!

  • @billybutcher4951
    @billybutcher4951 Год назад +7

    She’s beautiful strong and intelligent that’s what real men want Candace ❤

  • @bwilly912
    @bwilly912 3 года назад +243

    She gets a bad wrap but if you just listen to the message, she really drops some gems

    • @Raxcblue
      @Raxcblue 3 года назад +22

      What bad wrap, it’s the truth she’s speaking, and the truth hurts

    • @kaylanaomi-sd9dn
      @kaylanaomi-sd9dn 3 года назад +3

      see how she’s mainly appealing to men here

    • @justbreathe6564
      @justbreathe6564 3 года назад +23

      @@kaylanaomi-sd9dn no she’s appealing to ACCOUNTABILITY

    • @trinidivasd2829
      @trinidivasd2829 3 года назад +18

      @James Lee she ain't throwing shade on own people. BTW what does her "own people" mean? Last time i checked loads of black and colored ppl love candace coz she speaks the facts. The truth is harsh sometimes, bit you gotta swallow it

    • @dribz5515
      @dribz5515 3 года назад +15

      @James Lee Hey brother, I believe you're projecting your own narrative about her. I don't agree with what she says but she sure does speak logic the majority of the time. What you said about Trump seems personal and not really based in fact. Trump can be labeled whatever but he did in fact give minorities the highest employment rate they've ever had in the history of the US, I don't believe someone racist would do that. Also what she said about George Floyd being a bad citizen was factual, she didn't support the cop though and actually said he deserved all the ridicule.

  • @Dannniellleee
    @Dannniellleee 3 года назад +462

    I’ve learned to view being a woman, carrying children, and bearing healthy femininity as a gift to myself and the world. It’s not about stereotypes or filling any role- it’s about loving and accepting every part of who you are and interacting in the world as your full self each and every day.
    I choose to live my life as the female role model I always hoped for- become your own example ❤️🧡

    • @1Shao_
      @1Shao_ 3 года назад +8

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @lovelytea5764
      @lovelytea5764 3 года назад +9

      Very Well said

    • @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee
      @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee 3 года назад +7

      Hope you find a good brotha and have a positive lasting marriage.

    • @channelcoconut6830
      @channelcoconut6830 3 года назад +3

      ❤️ love this

    • @tiberio1352
      @tiberio1352 3 года назад +1

      Good for you. Sorry to tell you that Black men...are looking at Brazilian women as the ''perfect partners'' in life...oh, so they think. Brazilian women just think....they have $$$.

  • @DanielPerez-rz3du
    @DanielPerez-rz3du Год назад +8

    Dam tell it like it is ...she speaks the truth of what is wrong with alot of women today in modern society..

  • @vleak76
    @vleak76 Год назад

    Excellent perspective Candace!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @bc7319
    @bc7319 3 года назад +968

    I have been married 31 years. She makes me a sandwich one day, I make her a sandwich another day. It is not about obsession over who takes what role, it is about working out together privately what works best for the family overall. There is reality and then there is the fantasy world many people think exists today. If your life revolves around the social media screen, that is not a relationship, that is a fantasy land where you will most likely end up alone, middle aged and hurt....

    • @rockosmith9874
      @rockosmith9874 3 года назад +14

      Preacccccccccch ⚖️🙏🎖️

    • @alissonangarita6809
      @alissonangarita6809 3 года назад +30

      I agree it's not necessarily about a role but compatibility and working as a team to fulfill both partner's dreams.

    • @SardELYA1988
      @SardELYA1988 3 года назад +2

      It's a great comment!

    • @turokk3352
      @turokk3352 3 года назад +1

      Yhhhhh!!!

    • @Dahmer_Jeff
      @Dahmer_Jeff 3 года назад +1

      So when you met your wife you both must have had pagers and called each other from pay phones to coordinate dates?

  • @Lilliana99
    @Lilliana99 2 года назад +1682

    I used to have social media, and I used to crave this attention so badly…. I’m so glad I’m going into a better path. I want to be respected for being educated, well spoken, opinionated, and finding values in life that don’t stem from materialistic possessions and unrealistic beauty standards.. you’re awesome Candace.

    • @Lilliana99
      @Lilliana99 2 года назад +56

      @Fnnelm mine did too.. I will admit I still go on it from time to time, but every time I do I always end up crying and comparing myself. It’s toxic. I just need to stray away from it completely.

    • @HM-xi5zi
      @HM-xi5zi 2 года назад +18

      @@Lilliana99 this comparison is something I struggle with a lot. And I mean A LOT! I want to delete it but I just want to look at the things that make me happy like interior design and architecture and I’ll have to unfollow so many accounts :(

    • @Lilliana99
      @Lilliana99 2 года назад +7

      @@HM-xi5zi I do too:( it’s bad. I will cry for hours just comparing myself to people that I know. It always makes me feel so worthless

    • @dbmae1532
      @dbmae1532 2 года назад +7

      If you not attractive just say that

    • @HM-xi5zi
      @HM-xi5zi 2 года назад +22

      @@dbmae1532 that has nothing to do with it dude. You can be the most attractive person in the world but comparing is something many people do. It’s a natural human reaction to compare. If something is bad you, just don’t do it. Simple. There will always be someone smarter, hotter, richer.

  • @lesleymoven4776
    @lesleymoven4776 Год назад

    Totally love and agree with Candace here👏…. Rejection begins in the self,thus you will face it aroundevery corner… You and your thought patterns decide how you show up in the world ,and who shows up to reflect and show you your INSIDES…..

  • @user-zz3nu2xr8w
    @user-zz3nu2xr8w 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love you Candace! Thank you for helping our young ladies 🙏🏻🤍🕊️🪽