INFP Defined - What it Means to be the Mediator MBTI Type
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- Опубликовано: 23 сен 2024
- If you are an INFP, it means that you are an introvert who is passionate, idealistic, sensitive, curious, adaptable and imaginative. For you, what you feel is what’s real and important. You tend to let your heart be your guide in your decisions. You seek to be authentic and true to what you feel is “right”. Moral considerations hold more significance to you than pure logic. The logic of sacrificing one person to save a hundred people is probably something you would resist strongly. Here is alook at what it means to be the #INFP #MBTI #personality type. #16personalities.
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"As an INFP you are NOT highly organised in nature." 😂😂😂Well that was a slap in the face. True though...
Lmao they said that soon as I saw this comment 😂😂😭💯
and I'm always late too, like time always surprise me 😅
Kind of intelligence .👍🙂
Ikr lol
As I look over to my cluttered and chaotic desk and room. Looking like a mad scientist laboratory, I couldn’t help but feel attacked hahahah
I'm an INFP and watching this made me feel like someone really knows me, where my fam at 😭❤
Me too, I almost cryed 😭 this was emotional 😪
Bish I’m your fam (INFP-T)
mee too 😭
Here!
Yes fam I was crying 😭
I often think of retreating to live in the woods, i feel like i dont fit in this society sometimes and when i do try i just feel so unauthentic. Its always a battle between staying true to my own values but also fitting into society mold
So true.
I often dream about travelling back in time, before media, before societal expectations and customs. When people were immersed in the environment and the world around than rather than themselves. It seems like a wonderful life. An incredibly hard, but rewarding, and wonderful life
Me too...I keep saying I want to run away to the amazon forest.
This 💕 I’ve been thinking about buying a bit of land and building my own getaway in the wood that I could possibly retreat to for peace of mind when things get too much
My Millennial Journey that would be perfect! That’s also a goal of mine to have somewhere to retreat to
When you are angry and feeling frustrated with your friend but understand why they acted like that- damn this healer trait.
Edit: Hello fellow healers! I guess YT algorithm bring us together again. I hope you guys learn to be more selfish and care more about your own feelings. Put yourself first, because you can. Hope you guys have a lovely days (don't procrastinate!)
can relate😭
I felt that
Very true, I relate to that all too well.
Dude so relatable
Yep i relate to that
I’m kinda feel special being in the rare 4% idk why
You are really special 💜🦄💗💓💞💕💛🌺❤️💙🧡🌸💙💚💜🤗
Lonely is the right word
Lmao.. Same..
same bro
Because you are. It can be a curse sometimes, the loneliness this brings, but our scars are our crowns. If you are really confident about yourself you don't need to constantly tell that to the world, you just are. So know that everyone feels special on their own way, and it's fine. ♡
Let's us work together INFPs! We can change the world!
-ENFJ
Yes!!!!!!
We sure can❤
Thanks sweet stranger :)
-INFP
I love you
wooo! Lez do it
I'm an INFP-T and all of these are accurate
When I too the test they showed I am both infp-t and infp-a
T for turbulent A for assertive
I'm an INFP-T AND YES THIS IS COMPLETELY ACCURATE..
INFP-T Here. I must be honest in my faith in the accuracy of the MBTI. I've been struggling with differing mental health diagnosis' from so many doctors and professionals for many years and it's deeply painful not being capable to understand yourself and your behaviours. The MBTI has consistently produced an INFPT result every single time, sometimes with upwards of 12 months between tests.
Alex Yodson same
Before i figured it out that im an Infp, i thought there's something wrong about me, (basically my mind) bcz i cant focus on things, always over thinking, dragging myself down with my thoughts, dont want to face people when im down and always face the problems with my own without the help of others.
So, now, this video made me realized that i dont want to be an INFP, it sucks.
Just remember you are not alone. 4% of the world may not seem like much, but thats still hundreds of millions of people.. we gotchu
Jade Tamplin 🥺🥺 we stan you jade.
Same ugh 😔
@@lailakk4182 ❤
I think people like us tend to lack logic and practicality. Sometimes you just have to override the BS and force some of your rational reasoning through
the "infp's can be treated like emotional dumping ground by other people" part make me realise so many things
True
It's meh.
When I found out I was an INFP I did the most INFP thing ever. I wrote a poem about how depressed I was about being an INFP and published it. It wound up getting into my college magazine and was pretty popular 😅 I love being an INFP now 😂
bwhahhahhhahha
care to share your poem with the rest of us? it must be pretty good
@@lf2052 yes i want to read it too
Cool 🤙🏼💗
Well damn, you reacted better than I did lmao. I just got frustrated because ugh, what a lame-ass personality. Took the test like 3 more times waiting several weeks/months between each try, ended up with INFP, no matter what, and finally had to get over it. 😂
It was a couple years ago, though, and I've made peace with myself since then. Actually, being classified as an INFP helped me put words on things and why I always felt like I was an UFO, desperately being there, unable to fit in, while people angrily tried to make me do so. And it's much easier being an alien now, feels great to be myself and breathe and live how I see fit, without minding whatever can be said by some rando. 🙏
"Always avoid conflicts"
-often end up putting up a front just to make others happy at all cost
-too empathetic to try and not make other people disappointed or sad (genuinely want other people's happiness)
-not a good trait for negotiating
-personal experience
@@tsuyu1181 If that aint the truth :/
I tried to help my entire class to stand up against a bad teacher, ended up with me getting kicked out of class and no one cared or spoke for me.
Legit
ENFP here. I used to think I was an INFP because I got mistyped by a test, but now I'm certain I'm an ENFP. I just want to tell you that you INFPs are AWESOME. You have rich, I mean REALLY RICH inner world and I would want to meet someone like you someday. I think exploring your rich inner world will be exciting. Don't let anyone, not even yourself, let you down. You all are amazing people. Keep dreaming and pursue your passion ❤❤
thx, enfps are so kind ^_^ (2nd time I saw an enfp motivating infp in yt comments)
thankyou sm!!!🥺💞
This is so sweet 🥺
Thank u sm. I love y'all Enfp's 😭💕
You ENFPs are so sweet, thank you so much 💖💖
I am INFP, and i love music
Me too
Same , i love music and singing .
Same
Same here, tryna get my career off, but will probably end up as cashier or some shit. The bad thing is, that I could never just throw away that dream. I feel like this personality type is the easiest to fall into depression with sometimes. It seems so Grey
What kind of music do u like? ^^ Share your best spotify list :D
infp male here. It;s a lonely world. Solace is found in philosophy and questioning my preconceived notions of things. Yet I fully understand that my values drive my outlook on life. I think the more you are aware of why you are the way you are, the freer you are.
INFP males are awesome ❤ They are kind, empathetic, and have a unique way of putting ppl around them at ease. I have a hard time being around men, but for some reason INFPs always sneak past my wall :p I think it's the patience and compassion...it's heartwarming and safe. Thank you for being you ❤
@@meganpitt aww thank you for sharing and for posting the kind comment Megan! That truly made my day. Thank you for being you too : )
I find this to be very very true... the more videos I watch that she’d light on my behavioral patterns and long term effects of past trauma the more I find myself at ease with it all... the most difficult part for me has been emotional numbness, I find that if I’m overly stressed I tend to shut my emotions off in a sense and it can sometimes be difficult to turn everything back on
Excellent comment
Agreed
Fellow INFP, after finding this out I feel so understood. Yep, I’m the “shy” girl. It’s kinda crazy how my whole life has been basically explained in one video. Im gifted in English, HATE math with a passion, and I’m an Aspiring Artist. I often tell people how I’d rather be in my own world then be stuck in our society. Whether that be Drawing, or simply listening to an audiobook in the dark. I feel so so so misunderstood all of the time, and that causes me to often question who I am. When your talking about individuality, surprise surprise I can relate again. I’m now being homeschooled with my brother, I have a very close bond with my family due to that. I’m very thankful for things like this to exist, hopefully I’m on my journey to self acceptance.
About the misunderstanding part...I feel you girl :'). I have unfortunately these thoughts when I'm about to talk to a group of friends for example or the teachers. Because,maybe I'm afraid of people misunderstanding me about the way I will talk? Or that maybe a teacher have noticed something from me that is actually false but I might look suspicious about it without my willingness. I have these kind of thoughts and it looks kinda difficult to start a conversation or keeping on with the conversation ,and something that actually happened to me is that some Teachers said to me "you have to talk more,why don't you participate in our discussion" etc etc..well ITS SO HARD FOR ME IDKK. And the sad thing,is that we are labelled as the "shy" people but in fact I, personally,hide some confidence inside me and many people too of course and I really really want to show it ,eventhough it can be so hard
You've just summed up my life....EVERY statement you made was true for me. I'm glad I've found such lovely folks in the comments who relate 😭✨
We’re literally the same! I’m also an INFP btw.
@@sophiaisabelle01 while reading that I also thought « I am the same » I’m so happy 😭
Damn this is so accurate with me. Wow
I'm definitely an INFP but I don't label anyone as "my friend" I rarely use that term. The reason why I barely call anyone as my friend is bc I don't like how some people automatically expects you to be a certain way. A very recent example is politics, I accept people and I listen to them in their political views but once they find out that my view is not like theirs they target me and put words into my mouth that I never said. The problem why that happens is bc I never show my true authentic self to other people, the only word that people use to describe me is "nice" which I am but the amount of times I hear it use to describe me makes me hate it. Everyone has depths,including me, I only show the rest of me when I'm alone in my room. I reimagine stuff and pretend where I am openly being my authentic self. I honestly feel like I'm wasting my life, bc I do see and feel like I have potential but feel like it's too late when I know it's not. I want to do a lot of things but never end up doing it or showing it bc of what others would think and bc of my own negative mindset. There's so much that I want to do that I even think that once I am able to pay the money to learn to do it would be too late bc of how many years I feel I wasted. This is the negative mindset of an INFP. The feeling of never being able to show and be yourself and not what others think you are just bc it takes you a bit of time to actually come out of your shell. What INFP's need to understand is that a lot of those negative things is all in our head. And that is something that I am working on as well.
Wow reading your comment is like reading my self. I relateable to this af. Every night, I always thingking about how my days going and how I waiting my time so bad. U know what? We need to talk more :")
Dude did you read my diary coz that the story of my life like for reals
I feel you! But you can do this!! I'm constantly working on this myself and trust me it's so worth it! Be brave enough to be your true authentic self. It feels so good. And people will like you for the person you are ❤
I almost cried. This is so true, every single sentence and it's hard to read and accept. I try to improve myself, too and sometimes I feel it's better than before but there are hard times when the old thoughts and feelings come back and I have re-start the whole process again. And now I'm almost dead inside, and I'm thinking about self-destruction but I'm too curious about the future (and too afraid about feeling pain)... I don't know, I feel like a crazy idiot.
yes yes yes
And one thing about me,as an INFP is that when I finally try to show my true feelings to people I "should" trust,I over think and consider myself as an attention seeker cuz other people has it more worse than me and it's natural to feel pain thus,I keep my problems to myself :)
This! I almost cried...its good to know there are people who think like me. It just feels so lonely even when i'm with my friends but here in the comment section it kinda feels like...i'm not alone
This is exactly what I think. I used to share about my feelings with my friend but now I feel I'm asking them sympathy or attention so I don't share anything with anyone now.
hello guys, being INFP we feel the same way, sometimes we want to share our feelings, problems, heartaches, to our friends, but we always keeping it on ourselves, because we are scared to judge by the other people...that's only based on my experiences, sometimes I'm having a conversation with myself, and it makes me feel better...
Omg that's same with me . Mee too . When my mom says I did well I feel even worse because I think some people who have even less than me did better and I feel guilty for taking that praise . So I always ask my mom to say to me"You should do even better next time "
Omg 100%!
1:10
That hits me hard. Reason being, I have friends who usually open up to me about their problems and their feelings. There are times I feel like opening up to them so they don't feel like I don't have problems, I do, but I have trouble opening up. It's like I'm trying to open a glass bottle of Coca-cola or Jarritos with my hands and not a bottle opener.
On times I do actually open up, I end up crying and apologizing for it. It's just difficult, man.
(Sorry if it doesn't make sense. :()
It does makes sense dear 😊.
That's exactly me!! It feels comforting that I'm not alone. I've been having troubles with opening up to my boyfriend about my thoughts and problems. Oftentimes, I don't want to do so to avoid conflict. I'm also frightened that he would be disappointed in me for having such negative thoughts, or get tired of me for always being like this. He loves, understands, and cares for me dearly, but sometimes, I can't help but think that I'm not deserving of him, even though I really love him too. All this time, I thought that I was the perfect recipe for disaster. But now that I have found out that I'm an INFP, it oddly feels comforting, in a way. 😊
Good luck to us, INFPs! I sure hope we'll have the courage to overcome our inner demons and be the better versions of ourselves. (๑˃ᴗ˂)ﻭ
intp here and when i open up rarely i end up crying too and apologizing and blaming myself for the rest of my life for opening up and crying. its fine, hang in there!
Me too. I feel like I always be the one who listen to every friend problem. But when it come to my problem I just feel like I am gonna burden them if I go to them. Like they already have stuffs on their hands. I rarely cry to my friends about my very emotional problem. And I have a very few friend.
i cry too whenever im expressing my emotions, i dont rlly know why tho but i do know its so hard for me to open up
I love that I'm an INFP. I would love to have an INFP friend ugh
I have an INFP friend, tho he's an online friend. But it's AWESOME! It's literally like give, give and just give from both sides. It's a really sweet friendship 🥺🥺❤️❤️
I'll be your friend! 😆❤️
Omg that's so awesome to have that kind of friendship! But I would love for you to be my friend
Let's all just be friends I'm in, nice knowing I'm not alone ❤️
I wonder if I ever came across an INFP, also every time I make new internet friends I end up not keeping up with them after a while & then I feel guilty 🥺
Well, this feels like a 6 minute roasting
Lmfao
it's true tho.. and it's the saddest part
IKR
😂 😂
😂😂😂
How incredible would it be to create a conversation group with all of the people that identifie themselves as INFP! I would for sure love that, anyways have a beautiful day :)
The best
It's on Facebook
💖💖
Discord INFP? Lmao
You can watch mbti all personality in one room
To all my infps : I LOVE YOU WOOH
i used to be INFJ , now im entering INFP clan :))) luv you too ；）
LOVE U TOO
I watched so many videos about INFP today cos i do not understand why am i the way i am 🤣
Sameee!! Hahahahahaha
I watch them so I can read the comments of my fellow INFP’s so I don’t feel super alone
Omg same!
Same here. Hahaha
Same!!! When I just found out that I’m an infp in a test,I’ve watched lots of video here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it’s just so amazing to know that geez I’m not alone in what I’ve felt.
Hi, I'm going to regret commenting this being the INFP I am, but I just wanted to ask my fellow INFPs...
was it just me who used this video to understand myself better and when something was slightly incorrect I became defensive?
great I regret this already
it somewhat happened to me too, it’s okay, you’re not alone
You can think, "there's many type of infps, ok good"
We are all different but we can have similarities
Ememmememememmemememmem ok adios xd
I did that a bit too lol
You're not alone ..
Yeah me too haha
The thing is, as an infp im quite and i love being quite and not talking about anything and wasting my energy, but at the same time i keep questioning myself on why am i so quite and trying to be more talkative, then when i try to be more talkative and confident i just mess everything up and becomes super awkward and then end up remembering that situation everytime before sleeping.
Why am i like this 😔 like why cant i just switch to an extrovert and smooth talker when i need it
I think it stems from us being concerned about social rejection.
The less you care about what they think of you, the easier it is.
That’s what I’ve noticed anyway.
Try that next time and see if it helps.
Being more comfortable with yourself is important too.
I’d say generally, people really aren’t as judgemental as you’d assume.
Though I can understand why people would doubt others ability to accept them.
I mean, look at cancel culture, Instagram and gossip columns.
These three things definitely don’t showcase the kindest aspects of humanity.
@@linachan4912 absolutely agree with you, it makes my life better when i try not to think too much about how people will perceive me.
@@amaiwatashi6253 Yup, it also helps knowing that most people weren’t always smooth talkers. Even the ones that talk a lot can mess up.
I’m kind of an ambivert. Some weeks I get energy from socialising, other times I just want my own space, which is difficult to get if you have a demanding or clingy friend.
I’ve been trying to set boundaries with them but it’s not easy since I don’t want them to be angry.
“Infps may look calm on the outside but on the inside feel very strongly.” Oh my gosh, this is so true. My family complains a lot about being unable to read my emotions (especially when opening gifts, going somewhere, etc.) and it’s not that I don’t feel the way they expect, but I show it differently. The same is true when I feel loss or anything else. I need time to process my feelings before they really show through, even if I feel them strongly.
Im a INFP and when I started reading the meaning of this I felt like someone reads me like a book the whole life.
yess, I am so amazed, how could it know me so well?
Same here
as an enfp, i find you infps so interesting.
you all have such beautiful minds and I love that about you
Thank you! ENFPs are one of the most understanding and reliable people I've met♡
“Infps can be somewhat naive and susceptible to manipulation by people prey on their sympathy”
This has happened to me a ton of times, I’m too nice to people and they take advantage of it
The lesson is learning to be nice to those who deserve it.
Though I understand that it’s not easy cutting off people who take advantage of you.
Especially if you have a lot of good memories with that person.
You sometimes end up weighing their good and bad traits against each other, wondering whether 60% of nice days with them is worth the 40% of bad days with them.
@irenic rose do you have any tips for an Infp career?
I used to be like that but i learnt from my mistakes, I am more wise now
I agree. May I add, INFPs are gifted with intuition. Use that to your advantage. Dont feel sorry for manipulators. Others wouldnt neither.@@linachan4912
you can set boundaries while still being kind and compassionate at the end of the day.
I'm just feeling very happy to know that I'm not alone. All my life I've always thought that I'm the odd one out, the weird one, the loner. But now I've never felt so belonged. Thanks for making this video and a big HELLO to all my fellow INFPs here!
Helooooo
Hello
🤗❤
Don't be so hard on yourself. If you're hurt, it's ok to be hurt. Embrace your emotions, it's a gift. Also, you don't have to change yourself for the people around you. It's okay to let go of such people because i'm sure the right ones will come. Those who will accept you for who you are. Yes, even if you're emotionally sensitive.
your infp friend 😊
Man your words are making me cry cause I am going through some really tough time rn
@@xbliss_x Hey. I dont even remember posting this comment. But your comment reminded me to pause and appreciate the little things in life. You might not find peace during these emotional times, but know that whatever it is you are feeling is accepted in this space.
Still from your infp friend! 😊
thank you so much 🥺❤
I am infp i spend 15 years dreaming that I am multi millionaire but right now I am broke and I am happy that I learned who I am from now I will try to be realistic.
Same😂
🤣🤣🤣 same
I just want to share something here, I am an ISTP guy and I have feelings for an INFP girl inside our circle. This right here seems very accurate as she also loses herself while doing her hobby, art. She opens up to me a lot about her hobby (which is very rare because I'm not really among her "close ones") and helps her to promote her commissions. HER PERSONALITY IS SO ATTRACTIVE, I hope I have a chance. Thanks for reading this long comment.
I hope u got her :)
@@ericanair4835 sadly I didn't, she doesn't want to lose our friendship
This video is so calming. My INFP self loves this so much 🥺
Aww .. same here .
Hi INFP friends,
Going through all the comments had made me realize that I am not alone. I often had trust issues and deeply felt manipulated by my friends all the time. The emotional dump is what got me, being with friends is sometimes power draining, but being called as their safe zone or making them happy also made me feel special. I just hope one day we can finally be happy by self-love not just from anyone else. Love you
let's go infp nation
My only wish for my type is that when I failed on something, I wish I could still walk proudly and confidently in front of people without minding there disappointment for me being lower than they expected me to be...
INFP-T here. I always wanted to become a music producer and still want to. But getting there requires so much effort and the chances of being so sucessful that I could make a living out of it are so low. I am currently studying in college and I have fun doing what I'm doing. Still, sometimes I wish I could just stick to my plans and not abandon them after a short time. Probably my worst trait as an INFP... to all the fellow INFPs: DO IT, MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE! :)
INFP-T here also who loves to produce music. I’m not counting to make a living on music but it is nice to have as a hobby and just a way to express my creative side. I hope you keep going! ☺️
I find it strange how sad this video makes me feel 🤔
i started tearing up for some reason
Same!
Probably the music and monotone voice...
@@domanater480 i feel like its bc we were never understood irl so this is kind of a solace
Ikrr!
I am an INTJ but have a INFP friend that I can appreciate very much. He is like an interesting, innocent flower that I try to protect from getting stepped on everyday.
Good job, you sound like a true friend
It's so true that organizing and structures don't work with me 80% of the time, but at the same time my life feels so chaotic without it. Still can't find the middle line there.
Sometimes I feel like us infp should build a whole village in a forest and build out own community The vibes would be immaculate
An INFP: got distracted at 3:06 and went to Instagram to create an inspired reel only to spend an hour doing so then coming back here to remember what I was watching. 😭
@Lavender oh my! That is so me😭🤣 wanting to do assignment end up spending hours on social media 😭
I admit my skepticism of the Myers Briggs but this was actually quite accurate. I suffer from a feeling of being an outcast and never have fit in anywhere. I want to be around people but also want to be alone. It's a difficult existence. 😅
I’VE NEVER FELT SO INCLUDED IN SOMETHING. I LOVE BEING AN INFP.
I’m an INFP & I just learned about this whole Personality trait study, During my research learning about us (INFP’s) I just felt violated as if someone is in my mind with a camera & mic listening to my every thought & feeling this is honestly brilliant I can’t believe someone understand me & knows what I’m thinking & exactly what I’m feeling…. Like wow
I’m also an INFP. I figured this out a while back. I tend to overthink A LOT and sometimes help people out by giving some advices here and there. I feel like INFPs are indeed rare. It’s just so difficult to find somebody else who’s also an INFP.
It's rare in the real world, but there are a lot of them online
It feels like I'm talking to myself.. It's so accurate
As an Infp myself I've been observing other personally types and I can safely say that mediators have the worst psychological patterns with regards to dealing with their own perception of things and idealisms and conciliate that with the way things are in society. we're hyper sensitive and that leads to stress and anxiety.
I feel that we all should all become friends :) and help each other out. Especially since we’re so rare
What if I'm an INFP with depression, anxiety, and destructive family. I'm doomed right. Maybe I don't deserve to live. I have no way I can be normal I guess...its hard
Well no. I know this seems hard to you right now, but there are so many people out there who will accept the way you are. This world is very cruel, hope you are bold enough to change it or at least run away from it. Don't let others define who you are. ♥
No. No you are not doomed. What is the first step in problem solving? This you have already done by identifying the problems. Step back, breath and go from there! It will not be easy, however it will be worth it!
Remember things will always get better , you may have a bad morning but come the afternoon you can be full of happiness and passion again
I don't know what's ahead of me...but I'll try my best to keep going. Actually I feel like I can be happy for a moment and then again the reality hits me! But thanks for encouraging me.
@@Lakshmi63849 Not knowing what is ahead can be worth it. Look at it as a gift, it can be a tacky sweater or what you always wanted, you just do not know. What is considered normal in today's world is frightening, be yourself and go boldly into tomorrow.
Wow...just wow. I just got read by an AI psychology genius. In all seriousness, hearing that we are vulnerable to the ploys of narcissists, etc is validating. I have given myself such a hard time for repeatedly falling for these types and delaying coming to my senses. Felt healing to hear in the context of our positive/overall traits
Imagine if there is a community fully filled by infps only. We can talk about our problems and figure out solution together, assuring each other and sometimes we talk about the daydream
...It is amazing how accurate this. A lot of people come to me when they want to talk someone but, it also lay pressure unto me. The fact that she said that "INFP can be stubborn when it comes to their values(or beliefs)" is VERY true, and I get in trouble for that(physically).
This makes so much sense now. I'm an INFP and Aquarius and have been struggling so much with work recently, I don't want to be a cog in a capitalist machine. I want to grow my own food and write books and live on a mountain but financially its not viable. And I just want someone to listen but I don't want anyone to have to deal with my crap...so I'll just keep reading fantasy instead
I wish I could be paid the hrs I spend pondering the history of, and current world around me. It is only there in deep thought I find any peace. God bless you
I'm an infp and I'm really surprised how you have described my true being making my heart warm and cooling it with tears..thank you so much...
100% agree with everything said in this video. Many people said that i am weird person and i felt like an alien. Thanks to 16 personalities theory, now i know i am not weird and not an alien, just typical INFP.
Most of it was accurate.
Except I’m very open about myself, I don’t avoid conflict, and I don’t wallow in the past.
From what I’ve seen from the comments, each INFP tends to be different in some way.
But that’s the thing about personality tests, they can only predict the basics of a person, not the full picture.
yeah, thats what i dont like about these kinds of things, because while it gives u a sense of identity and maybe belonging in a group, it also feels a bit restrictive, and i genuinely think we're more malleable than we think.
@@Joyboy0101 Yup, it’s the same with astrology, kind of.
People don’t come in solid archetypes like cartoon characters. There’s many sides to us, even some that contradict some parts of us.
Personalities don’t always stay the same either.
The point is, the MBTI is not a personality type per se, but it rather describes how you are taking in and processing information. What you are making out of this is highly dependent on your surroundings, past experiences, and other factors.
Try being an INFP-t who's born under the pisces sign.
I pick up on so many emotions of others that sometimes it drives me nuts.
Half the time I'm even doubting myself, because the other half of the time I'm wrong about someone and they just took so much advantage of me that it changed their lives for the better and ruined mine.
And the initial reaction is to always look for the problem within myself, rather than in the people who just purposely destroyed my life. Because I can't wrap my head around the fact that someone could take so much to better their own life, guiltfree, and then take even more advantage of the situation to ruin the life of the person you took advantage of.
I just can not wrap my head around the fact that there are such evil people irl, so I never see it coming. Even though I can always feel it in the back of my mind, that something's wrong. But I ignore it, because someone finally acknowledged that I'm alive
Thàt's an infp-t pisces. The most used and underappreciated kind of person there is.
yep. sadly I became ESTJ
and lost my inner child and died Spiritually.
it sucks.
Im also an INFP-T that's pisces and what you said it totally what i think about myself
T and a doesn't exist in mbti. The tests online are not accurate and you should study cognitive functions to find out your real mbti or how your brain really work
I'm an infp, I have 2 honest friends and when I'm not working I'm usually alone. I enjoy being alone but I'm 29 now and haven't dated in nearly 10 years. I don't know, maybe I'm meant to be single.
Girl, it sounds like something what I can say about me 💪
I'm an INFP but unlike other Mediators I hate when plans are canceled or when I can't be with my friends. Being with them is the best part of my life, and I'm really talkative with them, and them only. I could say I'm an introvert for the rest of the world but an extrovert to them. Does that make sense?
Yess, cuz I’m the sameee
Yes that makes sense, I’m also talkative ONLY with my closest friends. Meanwhile with other people I’m super duper introverted
Makes sense. I'm not going to see my friends again because school ended, and I'm very sad about that... I dont like to talk on social media that much too
I've never felt more understood in my life. I was crying while watching this, thnx for the video
Being an INFP, I can say that through some life experiences I've kind of grown certain confidence, and I share myself and my thoughts cause it feels right, it's a necessity for me. But, often times, I don't feel that the others get what I'm trying to say, and simply return to my inner self.
Okay, I am definitely an INFP because I was in tears by the end of the video lol. In 2023, I am practicing detachment and advocating my boundaries. Giving all my fellow INFP's a big hug🤗
*I'm an INFP myself and i totally agree with this.*
*First, feeling alone, trust issues-* I sometimes would feel like i'm all alone and can't really trust just anyone out there even if i've known them for years. Through out my junior school years i only have one true best friend and the other's are still my friends but only until friends, i can't seem to see myself being around them.
*Second, healing-* when my friends acted so angrily but whenever i talk with them they would stop getting angry like i'm healing them but obviously it isn't really the case for myself, no one ever healed me. I tried to heal myself but i always ending up hurting myself more.
*Third, imagining things-* I would always imagine being in a fantasy or something kind of world, A world where i can be myself, doesn't really care of somebody else and would feel like i'm the most prettiest human in that world. Well it was just an *imaginary world* that i created after another.
There's so many things that INFP feel, no one could know what is happening to us, it is like we are a *blank book* or a fake book.
Having a imagination personality, i've started writing some stories which are fanfictions but still very far far far of being a good writer.
Edit : btw, I only just want to share my experience of being an INFP 😊
Heyy, as your fellow INFP and Moa, I totally get why you have Gyu as your dp 🤭💓
Omg randomly finding INFPs who are moas and one who likes webtoons here 😂
This is so me to the T. I finally feel validated omg. I was like why GOD am I not normal 😂 but yes, I love being an INDIVIDUAL 😌
I am INFP-T. My both bestfriends are extroverted and being in the middle of both of them can sometimes be draining but they are my support system. I like long messages but not may people understand that. Tho I don't think I have an artistic mind I have a pretty active imagination. As expected time managememt is not my forte. I do what I feel like at that moment. I am more of a last minute person. And I tend to believe whatever I hear like I believe every person has something good in them and noone can be completely bad. When I hear some things about a person although at first I may not be able to accept or agree with it I will work my way to accepting it eventually and try putting great consideration to accomodate that aspect of that person. I can be active only if someone reaches out to me first. I have many scenarios playing in my head that I certainly won't mind being alone for sometime. I am content to be with a book and an earphone all day. Games of any sort makes me nervous tho at times I really like to be surrounded by the crowd.
I feel it peculiar like at the same time I feel everything and nothing. Sometimes my thoughts can be self depreciating but sometimes it can be my biggest motivator. I am a mixture of everything. I am like the calm in the chaos. I like looking into the chaos but I don't want to be a part of it. Taking part in a discussion is someting I can do but not for a long time. I find it exhausting after sometime.
So that's me summed in a lomg paragraph.
Don't know why but felt like leaving it here.
The description is so perfect that i feel like home!! 🖤🙂
I'm an infp-t>>and I can totally relate with this..its crazy how so many people here have similarities with each other when you always thought you were different or stood out. I can't show my true self to everyone, its like either I just don't engage with people I can't connect with at a deeper level or I just be subtle and serious kinda in front of them. Its difficult to explain that actually:/. I am always trying to help out people emotionally if they confine in me, but more often I'm myself mentally exhausted too. As for career goals, I love writing,esp poetry, and I love traveling. But as of now I'm preparing to go to engineering clg. Idk..if thats what I really want, but rn thats what I'm gonna do I guess. Also, I ghost people a lot too,I feel guilty about that a lil but when the vibes don't match or I'm overly mentally exhausted bc of them then I just kinda escape the situation. I really feel like just going away to some faraway forest or mountains where I could just be in that serene ambience of nature. I have extremes too, its all in or nothing for me, in everything. I dont want to but deep down I find myself seeking other's validation or praise sometimes, I like my solitude but don't like being too lonely too,i prefer just some close frnds rather than big groups of people. These r just some ways I feel most often :)
It's amazing how this video describe my mindset, emotions, and habits so accurately.
This couldn't be any more accurate
So, Who's ARMY here and her bias is Jungkook or Suga? Well, if you are then I hope you know they are INFP💜😅
update: as of now, none of them are infps. even myself is not an infp anymore, i became infj. but who knows, maybe one of them will become infp one day.
my bias is jimin but it's no shocking because i feel like my personalities match with them
I don’t think it’s that bad, it’s just people sharing their interests, it also relates to the vid’s topic this time so let them be ^o^
yoongi is my bias wrecker 😭🤚🏻 my bias is actually hobi
hiiiii😊 Yoongi biased here
Sometimes, I don't want to accept all these emotions inside of me. It's too idealistic and ambitious but nevertheless, I instantly get pulled in everytime. I often feel guilty not being like others who are practical and rather follow a conventional life. I end up dreaming about a life outside society🤣 but realistically, can't do that. Not to mention, the expectations of people around me are greatly influencing my life decisions right now. And I hate it how I understand them so much that they could easily influence me to follow the path that they take.
I want us INFPS to gather and be friends with each other🥺❤ that would be nice
I feel you , I'm currently going through hard times due to me failing to meet my family's expectations and it's truly draining me, i hope I'll be able one day to find my place in this really judgemental society.
I think there must be more videos explaining the difference between Assertive and Turbulant sub-types of the different personallities, even though two people can be the same persoanllity base, if one is A and the other T, they could be quite diferent.
Wowwwwww
I am crying...
I had no idea who i am. This video opened my eyes. It spoke to me in a different level. It was like someone jusy wrote the history of my life.
I just know I am INFP-T, I thought I was weird 'cause I'm so different among others but this makes me feel that my fellings are normal. This video is so wholesome and the comments as well, it made me realize that I'm not alone and someone can understand me...
I'm an infp plus a Taurus,the ultimate introvert
me too
Im infp plus a cancer :D wow both really hurting my self lolll🤣
Watching this made me feel like someone understands me, like finally
I couldnt help but tear up to this
Ngl Id love to meet another mediator type in person, just to be friends who I can share my thoughts with without feeling judged and misunderstood
Count me in! I am a Nurse with INFP personality! 😊❤️
Damn she read me like a book. How exciting. The areas that she called caution to, I already have covered tho. I do choose to believe everyone has the capacity for good, I do believe in the benefit of the doubt still. Doesn’t mean I think everyone is worthy of my time. I can identify a narcissist from a mile away and know when I’m being manipulated or being used as an emotional dumping ground. So these things aren’t an issue for me.
Time management is kicking my ass tho lol
I'm an INFP and this is so ACCURATE!! I always trust people before they have shown me any loyalty. It's my biggest issue. And everybody dumps their emotional garbage all over me, but when I need to vent, it's effing CRICKETS. I strive constantly for balance and it's freakin HARD.
being am INFP I always felt no one understand me... but this video just get me.. 😭
As an INFP-T, I’m with you 😊
Many say that they dont feel like they dont fit in... I can say that you are absolutley right... And that is the strenght for our personality..
To be like everybody else would be killing our creativ souls.. So embrace that you can se things diffrently, that you can see and knowlegd both sides in an argument.. Its a big gift..
And as long that your search goes outside of you, like religion, new age, drugs, and what not, you will never find the real depth of you...
And I can tell you, its a beauty you never have experienced before and no other human being can take you.. Live life well and if they dont want to bee with you or hear what you have to say then fuck em!
What you dont want to to do is sit down and complain... Every negative word you say have an inpact on your mental health and on your soul.. And much more than others... So stand up for yourself, even when it hurts, and never lie to at least yourself... It will make you formidabel 😊
Now getting famous and hiding makes sense and the whole individual thing is real and walking away from paths when pushed really makes sense. Thanks and re-taking myers brigg every month for a long time i'm an INFP-A so the whole extreme all in or nothing with stubborn ways makes sense. Great video, thanks and i've read a lot into it but this video makes sense and even helped me make some videos on my own page after deleting fame and things in the past. Thanks x
How to describe myself
-I'm very "loud" person when surfing on internet, but extremely quiet in real life and only can having a quick chat with other people. Don't like talk too much when face to face. Can easily feel frustrated and overwhelmed when someone talk to me too much.
-Rarely make friends during in school and work time, prefer to be alone most of the time.
-Can be get misunderstood by other people.
-Like rock music in general.
-Good at readings, especially if reading at the topic that I'm interested.
-Letting go my personal dream as an artist, despite I'm good at drawing since as a child, this is due to not having enough money and not enough motivation to do it. Getting into a large competition (work for a company) as a professional artist is not my preference.
-Always daydreaming all the time, always talk to myself, even during at night, very difficult to get into sleep due to keep over thinking about my future and/or having a guilt that I had from the past.
-Always not good at making decisions, prefer to delay them at last minute.
-Always thinking about other people's feeling, especially my coworkers if they having a rough time.
I took the 16 personalities test 4 times and got the same answer 4 times, I'm an actual INFP-t. I guess it feels good to be understood and all but confining ourselves to the MBTI is what limits us because there maybe stages where people can go through such personality change that the Myers Briggs theory of personality won't be able to explain. Human evolution is forever prospering so remember that we can all change and we can all stay the same but it is in our DNA to evolve and adapt rather than confining ourselves to these sorts of things
I took 4 times too and got mediator, architect, mediator, mediator
Totally agree
I'm also an INFP-t. I would note that as I've grown older I have worked on the negative aspects listed for our personality type and find that we can use them in positive ways. They do state INFP's are very adaptable and do change. So, I don't quite see us being limited. I suppose someone could go through something extremely dramatic that could completely alter their personality. But I suspect that we generally follow one personality type, with some fluctuation, for most of our lives. (At 57 I look back and find that true for me. But others may have different experiences.)
I'm sure even the founders would admit that MBTI only addresses our cognitive preferences, which are only the foundations of our personality. It is not who you are, neither is it what defines you.
00:10 I smiled at the cat too
I'm surprised how this video is perfectly accurate, especially the part were I wanna break free from the path made for me. I want to pursue a career in art, not in education. I'm also very energetic but once I've gone outside like party with friends, eat meals with family in a restaurant, or go island hopping every holiday, it just makes me tired that after and I'm done being energetic, I just don't want to leave the house for like MONTHS. I like listening to people's concern but at the same time I don't want to check my messages sometimes and just want to be left alone. Sadly, becuase of the pandemic, the introverted side of me is much more stronger than my other traits.
I hope I can make a career out of Art.
We all are gifted in our own way and I think every single one of you reading this are special and I am glad to be able to be a part of this community
I feel so heard and seen as an INFP 🥺 thank you ! Also so true about the being prone to manipulative people BDJSJDJD
Infp army?:) I think my fellow infps can truly appreciate the lyrical content of their songs. Like Magic shop, or Paradise. What’s your favourite song?
@@Anny-me9ny YES I AGREE. Also 2!3!, Sea and RM's Moonchild and Uhgood have helped me through so much! Also Taehyung is an INFP I believe
Proud INFP gang !!
After watching the video, I truly understand that such type of personality really exists bcs before watching I was worried why I am not sociable like others or is it only me who feels lonely even in the parties. So excited to see that there are a lot of INFPs here 😊
like this is actually me fr, i hate when people get mistyped and want to be an infp. i’m an actual infp, the mediator. Every bit of the description of this type matches me for the most part. it really makes me believe in this personality thing, it’s insane how accurate this is.
I am working really hard on the "pulling the plug" thing and NOT feeling like a failure for having to do so. Sucks bawls.
i’m an infp and this was like scary accurate. i really do relate to everything this video said and it’s a bit freaky to hear it from somewhere that has no knowledge of me as a person. great information though!! i’m glad to know what being an infp really means ☺️
Before mbti: I am a weird girl who is bad at socializing and no one understands me and I do random things
just to fulfill my curiosity and never remembers the little errands my family gives me and am too over the top and cherish
friendships to the point anyone who realizes will freak out and probably nobody in this world would be like me and no one understands me and I am too much in la la land. Everyone probably hates me :'(
after mbti: I am infp-t and I'm proud oh yes
Its kinda comforting all the comments also thought something was wrong with them lol. Its so hard for me to make friends, and be involved with groups of people even tho i have so much to share. It just feels when i let people in my own little world, theyll judge or just wont understand.
Me as INFP T, I'm tired of listen people's problem, aka problem solving,
Wth am I need these people lol
I can relate.
My advice would be to take a step back and make time for yourself.
The last thing you want is to become a human crutch.
Make sure they respect your boundaries. Make it clear that while you’re happy to help, sometimes you won’t be able to due to certain circumstances.
If they really care about you, they’ll respect that.
It took me years to learn this.
One of the best ones yet. I'm stunned at how many videos of INFPs get the basics technically right, but really twist those facts to paint it in a very bad light.