Interesting to hear your perspective. My experience has been quite different as a 36-year-old guy dating Thai women in their 20s in Bangkok using dating apps (mostly Bumble, recently). From what I can tell, the 20-something Thai women who use Bumble in Bangkok don't struggle to meet farang men. They may still struggle to find serious commitment with a guy who checks all their boxes, but at least going on dates with moderately attractive farang guys is not hard for them, they definitely have some options.
I think of myself as a high value guy when it comes to looks but that doesn't mean anything to Thai ladies. They could care less. I ran into my ex girlfriend by chance with a farang and by contrast he looked older, 4 inches shorter and puffy around the edges. He's the reason she's my ex. 555 My theory is this guy has deep pockets. Money #1 in Thailand. Then family and after that Soi dog. As the saying goes, "you didn't lose the girl, you just lost your turn".
Possibly a scammer or at least a gold digger, yes? I’m only guessing of course. I’ll say, with Fawn I REALLY don’t think she’d leave me for a guy who looked and spoke poorly but was rich.
@@resetwithrobb This gal was 49 and owns a massage shop which I helped her purchase. Silly me. I think she has been doing this for a long time. I might add she is very pretty lady. It's just engrained into her soul. Isaan gal by the way. I thought she was different. He He
It is true that any halfway normal farang can get lots of attention from Thai women on these sites. But it’s not because we are hard to get, it’s because these women are giving that attention to lots of farang. Finding a loyal Thai woman is like finding something really interesting on daytime cable. You have tons of options but most won’t be worthwhile.
Both a true. Online they’ll flirt with many many guys- same as we do- everyone is trying to find someone. Some for good purposes and some not. In person, and away from the tourist/ foreigner areas we are very rare. Something like 0.1% of the population or less of if I recall correctly for resident foreign retirees.
Some days it feels that way. And - sorry, my wireless buds seem to amplify background sounds, and we have a lot of birds here. Very pretty unless you’re trying to make a video- LOL.
I think Philipines is a mix. There are many genuine ladies there who really do become attached and love a man. Many are loyal and take religion and their actions seriously. At least that is the sense I get, even with women in the poorest areas. and life there is much more hellish than Thailand, generally
@@douglaswilliams4274 I don't know much about the province women but I have seen films about the slums there. There were 12 yr olds propositioning very old foreigners. This tells me life must be absolute hell there. Incest is supposed to be a big problem there as well.
@@ginanovo6285 Agreed. The life of a poor Filipino (or Thai) can be a nightmare. Life can be difficult for many people. But the game of life isn't the same for females and males. Anyone who thinks differently is out of touch with reality. "Toxic masculinity" in all of its manifestations (sexism, patriarchy, misogyny, incest, rape, infidelity, ...) is not a myth. My "First come, first served" comment above was certainly flippant. But I do not deny the genuine sincerity of many Pinays. As @Phil Stevens said, many men chat online with Filipinas, but never travel to the Philippines to meet them. For that reason, "First come, first served" is the default position of many Filipinas.
@@JamesBondEsq. yes, i could understand that. I am actually surprised we don't hear more stories of older foreigners having problems with their much younger filipinas in terms of psychological issues. So many of them must have had terrible backgrounds. But I am basing my observations only on what I see on RUclips lol.
The Thai women into farang have no problem dating (read sleeping with ) a farang. They go to BKK and the gullible or more shady ones go to Pattaya. They use the dating sites and send messages to several farang at once. This is for the ones who really want farang or have had lots of farang experience. Maybe it doesn’t hold true for the villages.
Most Thai women do not understand that foreigners that decide to retire in Thailand are on a monthly budget. Thai women think most foreigners are rich people which is not true for most foreigners. I suggest staying on your monthly budget and do not exceed your monthly budget.
Yes, I still struggle with audio equipment here. All my newer videos have a proper quality microphone which is helped a lot. And I actually have a new we’ve been better microphone on order, but should be arriving any day.
Yeah, I think everyone in our social group was shocked. I was very disappointed. My GF said that particular lady was “not an adult” in a broader sense anyways.
Love in Thailand is not the same as love in the rest of the world that’s why you’ll always hear a Thai woman say when you meet her for the first or second time , she always says I’m looking for a man to take care of me….. Hint Hint She means Financially money moola dinero that’s how you show love in Thailand. Every time I met a Thai woman I asked her what was she seeking or looking for She always always answered I’m looking for a man to take care of me no matter what her job was or society status.
@@resetwithrobb Oh yeah big time !!! To be honest in my opinion they are like Mercenaries not much loyalty will work for the highest bidder, there are a few exceptions but you must get very very lucky to find those.
@@lifeasithappens But why is it like that there? There are other poor places that are not like this. Sri Lanka for example, and that is mostly Buddhist too. Phillipines is different too, at least somewhat. India is totally different. ??
Interesting to hear your perspective. My experience has been quite different as a 36-year-old guy dating Thai women in their 20s in Bangkok using dating apps (mostly Bumble, recently). From what I can tell, the 20-something Thai women who use Bumble in Bangkok don't struggle to meet farang men. They may still struggle to find serious commitment with a guy who checks all their boxes, but at least going on dates with moderately attractive farang guys is not hard for them, they definitely have some options.
This is consistent with what they tell me. You’re in a different stratosphere than I am- 555
I met my Thai gf on Bumble , a really nice woman , financially independent , pleasure to be with.
I think of myself as a high value guy when it comes to looks but that doesn't mean anything to Thai ladies. They could care less. I ran into my ex girlfriend by chance with a farang and by contrast he looked older, 4 inches shorter and puffy around the edges. He's the reason she's my ex. 555 My theory is this guy has deep pockets. Money #1 in Thailand. Then family and after that Soi dog. As the saying goes, "you didn't lose the girl, you just lost your turn".
Possibly a scammer or at least a gold digger, yes? I’m only guessing of course. I’ll say, with Fawn I REALLY don’t think she’d leave me for a guy who looked and spoke poorly but was rich.
@@resetwithrobb This gal was 49 and owns a massage shop which I helped her purchase. Silly me. I think she has been doing this for a long time. I might add she is very pretty lady. It's just engrained into her soul. Isaan gal by the way. I thought she was different. He He
It is true that any halfway normal farang can get lots of attention from Thai women on these sites. But it’s not because we are hard to get, it’s because these women are giving that attention to lots of farang. Finding a loyal Thai woman is like finding something really interesting on daytime cable. You have tons of options but most won’t be worthwhile.
Both a true. Online they’ll flirt with many many guys- same as we do- everyone is trying to find someone. Some for good purposes and some not. In person, and away from the tourist/ foreigner areas we are very rare. Something like 0.1% of the population or less of if I recall correctly for resident foreign retirees.
Are you making this video in a Zoo ? 😂
Some days it feels that way. And - sorry, my wireless buds seem to amplify background sounds, and we have a lot of birds here. Very pretty unless you’re trying to make a video- LOL.
@@resetwithrobb No worries, I just thought I would let you know it was difficult to hear you. Understood 👍
😂
The women in the Philippines use the exact same system. "First come, first served." 😆
100%!!
I think Philipines is a mix. There are many genuine ladies there who really do become attached and love a man. Many are loyal and take religion and their actions seriously. At least that is the sense I get, even with women in the poorest areas. and life there is much more hellish than Thailand, generally
@@douglaswilliams4274 I don't know much about the province women but I have seen films about the slums there. There were 12 yr olds propositioning very old foreigners. This tells me life must be absolute hell there. Incest is supposed to be a big problem there as well.
@@ginanovo6285 Agreed. The life of a poor Filipino (or Thai) can be a nightmare. Life can be difficult for many people. But the game of life isn't the same for females and males. Anyone who thinks differently is out of touch with reality. "Toxic masculinity" in all of its manifestations (sexism, patriarchy, misogyny, incest, rape, infidelity, ...) is not a myth.
My "First come, first served" comment above was certainly flippant. But I do not deny the genuine sincerity of many Pinays. As @Phil Stevens said, many men chat online with Filipinas, but never travel to the Philippines to meet them. For that reason, "First come, first served" is the default position of many Filipinas.
@@JamesBondEsq. yes, i could understand that. I am actually surprised we don't hear more stories of older foreigners having problems with their much younger filipinas in terms of psychological issues. So many of them must have had terrible backgrounds. But I am basing my observations only on what I see on RUclips lol.
The Thai women into farang have no problem dating (read sleeping with ) a farang. They go to BKK and the gullible or more shady ones go to Pattaya. They use the dating sites and send messages to several farang at once. This is for the ones who really want farang or have had lots of farang experience. Maybe it doesn’t hold true for the villages.
did u listen to the soundtrack?
Most Thai women do not understand that foreigners that decide to retire in Thailand are on a monthly budget. Thai women think most foreigners are rich people which is not true for most foreigners. I suggest staying on your monthly budget and do not exceed your monthly budget.
I couldn't hear a thing other than the animals in the background 😞
Lol
But your "wife" is different 😂
The rooster is bearable but the tweeting birds are drowning you out
Yes, I still struggle with audio equipment here. All my newer videos have a proper quality microphone which is helped a lot. And I actually have a new we’ve been better microphone on order, but should be arriving any day.
A newly married woman wanted a farang too? Does anyone actually LOVE anyone there!?? I know life is hard but wtf!
Yeah, I think everyone in our social group was shocked. I was very disappointed. My GF said that particular lady was “not an adult” in a broader sense anyways.
Love in Thailand is not the same as love in the rest of the world that’s why you’ll always hear a Thai woman say when you meet her for the first or second time , she always says I’m looking for a man to take care of me….. Hint Hint She means Financially money moola dinero that’s how you show love in Thailand.
Every time I met a Thai woman I asked her what was she seeking or looking for She always always answered I’m looking for a man to take care of me no matter what her job was or society status.
True. There (IMO) is a more-overt monetization of affection here.
@@resetwithrobb Oh yeah big time !!! To be honest in my opinion they are like Mercenaries not much loyalty will work for the highest bidder, there are a few exceptions but you must get very very lucky to find those.
@@lifeasithappens But why is it like that there? There are other poor places that are not like this. Sri Lanka for example, and that is mostly Buddhist too. Phillipines is different too, at least somewhat. India is totally different. ??
Find out her body count, that's a good way to measure how special we are to her.....
Seems like a good simple vetting system would be to date the (vetted (fwiw))GFs of Thai women already dating a farang.