A man in his 50s or 60s that goes after a thai girl that is in her 20s, she is not there for your looks. They come from 3rd world country and will.do.anything to support their family. What do you expect??? She wants money and that's it. Try and pick u a girl in Australia in her 20s. Very hard. What, these men think they are studs because they are 20 to 30 years older than a thai girl. Wake up!!!!!
I brought my Thai wife to Australia some 10 years ago and she has recently left me, totally out of the blue. I would never look for a relationship with a Thai woman again. Her sons came at 1 and 2, her parents at 3 and 4, her brothers and sisters 5,6,7,8,9 and 10, and then me (then again the dogs may have been before me). That was the order of priority (and yes as one poster pointed out below they are good at playing the "long game" which lures you into a false sense of security). So if you do want a relationship with a Thai woman please remember that her family will ALWAYS come before you and don't kid yourself into believing anything else, good luck!
Sorry to hear that . But in desperate n harsh poverty condition , what would anyone do . You were desperate n so was she , N both got what u n she wanted .
True with the majority but my wife doesn't put her parents first, only our children naturally. I do agree a massively large majority but there are exceptions.
Be very careful with Thai women, when I was in Thailand, the hotel owner I was staying told me to be very careful if you had a Thai girlfriend because they have so many foreign boyfriends to trick you and get your money.
@@adventuressurvivalinthailand Well there are plenty of middle aged and older foreigners indulging in the Thai bars.Probably best just to have a few drinks ,chat, and laugh. When holiday is over,go back to home country.
I'm sorry but I totally disagree. The fact that you're adding Thai in front of woman is what bothers me. So your point is that only Thai women are bad because you got burned. Look in the mirror friend. Anything that happened is your own fault. Either you allowed it to happen or are you allowed it to continue. Hey I'm not coming down on you for something that I would never do because I've done the same. All women as a group are like this. It's a biological not topographical , not geological. Maybe it is enhanced in certain groups of women in Thailand because they are from poor areas, and foreigners coming in with lots of money, what would you do? Yeah probably the same. So rather than shitting on Thai's, maybe just realize that in the game of Love, the man will always lose. Unless you're talking about your mother.
Im a Thai guy with an older Thai women (3 year's older). I live in Australia and she in Thailand and yes, you will always come last and her family will come first along with money. What she makes is hers and what you earn she expects a big cut. They don't know what love is because they love money so much.
Omg bro..I been few years with Thai adducted lady.i meet her family I engaged with her after 2 years of relationship..and of course I take care her and she show me the same ,,and actually during this time she changing a lot n be away and come back it’s happen often,, after 5 years relationship she still the same .one time we argue and she said she throw my engagement ring to the river .i was so mad .and after that we talk normal ..and ask me to give her promises to married her .again and again she hide no pickup the phone or message.it was very often .And come back to me with love words n sending me my dogs pic n how she miss us .and talk sweet words.then she hide her self again and come with different mood.I don’t know how to go out of this messy life 😓 Hope u advice me.
@@ld6529 a lot of thai girls use love as a tool. Not all, but a lot. Once they know your in love then the true person comes out, regardless on how nice you have taken care of her she always had an agenda and usually it's always money. If there is someone who is more rich then you and is willing to take her then your bet is that your old news. For now she needs an ATM and someone to do as she says. A rich man will tell her what to do but an average man will be underneath her. But your in luck, we all have more then one soul mate so be optimistic. The truth is that love hurts. I'm heart broken after 9 years, she still acts like she loves me but in fact she wants someone who is rich and old but she still wants me on the side. I'm still hurting but I've decided to not talk to her and let her go. I know it's hard but she is cancer. You have to do the same bro.
in thailand when it comes to relationships between alot of the foreigners and thai women there are the three gaps , the age gap , the language gap and the cultural gap , so the likelyhood she is with you for your charms is slim to none .
What the hell are you talking about.. I been here for years without much money, girls are chasing me because Im charming, good-looking and fun.. open your eyes old man
Woman are objectified for their physical body and looks. Men are objectified for their money and status. And thus it has always been. Loyalty from women only go as far as you maintain that relative high status. If you are looking for a soul mate that doesn't care about such things, consider getting a cat or dog. Pets love unconditionally. Humans do not.
What a shallow Thinking man. There are 100s of other qualities which you need to consider before marrying. have seen many couples in which This is opposite.My mother who is a professor earns 2X more than my Father . For many people family values, education and culture is more important more material.
Yep and I laugh when I hear all these western men talk about how the western women or horrible and they’re going to find a wife from one of the Asian countries and how it’s going to be so much better. The Asian women are submissive and loyal and all that stuff. I was like good luck! I’m Asian but from the USA. But I hear a lot of stories in the community regarding other Asian American men marrying from Asia and getting burned and vice versus. My husbands uncle married a women from China. She had a whole other husband back in China. She got caught because she was careless and didn’t realize her MIL understood Chinese.
@@tippytoe1250 Well Asia isnt a monolith. Both of my exes are of Chinese descent (Taiwan and Hong Kong). They are both super educated and have great careers. They like paying for everything. Thai and Filipino women are garbage (most of them).
I plan to retire in Thailand when i reach 60 in about 10y, i have been single for 10y and for me any type of relationship is a waste of time. I dated so much in my life and gave so much to the women i been with. Being single is total freedom. I plan to live a peaceful life in thailand not throw away my money to feed a women her family and the rest.
I've dated a Thai woman for a decade or so, she was wonderful. Came here, went to school, worked hard and through many jobs, landed a job with the FBI due to knowing how to speak and write Hmong language. She treated me like a king. She moved back east for a better job but I love her to this day. Now, my buddy married a Phillipina and took to to live in Sweden, a year in he had suspicions and set up a camera. caught her in the act with some British guy that was there working construction. he threw her and all her stuff out that night. People are people. Ive had American women try to pull scams on me. got to be careful
I had an ex Thai girlfriend that became my friend. We would share everything and she got comfortable enough to share her love life with me. She had 6 boyfriends while she was engaged. Another Thai girlfriend would share stories with me about different Thai women marrying European men in her village out in the country side. While the man is back in Europe working, she's in the custom built home staying behind in Thailand. She would have a Thai boyfriend living in the custom home with her while hubby is in Europe without his knowledge. If you're currently married to a Thai woman, my suggestion is to put some spy camera's around your home, perhaps even in her car. If you're having doubts about your wife or girlfriend, you're probably 99% right. They're good at hiding things from you.
And go figure, Thai women have this jealousy stigma about getting really angry if their man cheats. Yet many of these women do it too but then gaslight the guy (even the foreign guys get it) but Thai men don’t care. They’ll leave a gf or wife on the spot thst has his kids, for a younger model.
I dated a good thai woman in London. She never asked me for money, but her family used her for bank transfers all the time, her culture programmed her to be the support of the family. As time went on, she made herself distant in our relationship and kept getting used by her family who ostracized me gradually. She was a good person but I had to leave her, I felt sorry for her. Thai families can be very opportunistic, even with their children.
@@RobFomenko I'm relaxed and very factual. People should get some facts about the implications of dating / marrying Thai women. Thank God I left, it would cost my sanity.
My grandpa's brother was fooled by a Thai woman. All of these horror stories we hear about exist. Thailand can be paradise, or it could be hell. It depends on how carefully men thread. I saw sweaty old men with pacemakers barely surviving the heat hand in hand with a thai girl. She had to carry his credit card.
The thing to keep in mind about Thailand is that it's preferable and prudent to rent EVERYTHING. Property ownership and/or believing you're in a committed/loving/trusting relationship are simply temporary illusions. If you understand that, and can afford the rental cost, life in Thailand can be quite enjoyable and reasonably safe. And when it goes south, which it most certainly will at some point, be fully prepared to walk away. This applies to most of the rest of the world, as well!
Exactly. I had a relationship with two girls in Thailand, for a few days only bar girls. I like both of them and gave them gifts and took them to eat. Everything was fine until the last minute when I was about to leave the bar and head out to the hotel for the flight back the next morning. And then arguing and fighting started over the money that was in the pot. I saw a different side of these girls. One in which I wasn't really proud to see or happy. Yet I walked away to my hotel I had to remember that these girls have a totally different environment and living conditions that I had growing up. I thought that I could not judge them based on what I thought based on right and wrong. So I let it go. They weren't fighting with me anyway they were fighting amongst themselves. I still talk to them on line every couple days. When I go back to Thailand I will still hang out with them, because I like them and I enjoy their company. Yet I will never lose sight of what the actual Dynamics are. I know that if I I'm not careful I could lose a lot of money. I don't think they'll come at me with yeah let's scam this guy as much as just someone seeing an opportunity and taking it. So don't give them an opportunity, and if you feel pressured leave. There are literally hundreds of thousands of choices, why choose one that doesn't taste good?
Someone very close to me married a Thai woman. He traveled to the US and caught Covid. When she heard about this, she traveled there. During consultation with the doctor she was given the choice of keeping him alive and needing to give him dialysis or simply choosing the latter. It took her about one minute to make her choice: the latter. No consultation (with real family members), nothing. Thankfully her daughter provided a covert recording to us, which I thought was incredibly brave. On top of that, the US associates set up a gofundme for her which raised a further $50000 for her. So far as a family, we have received NO inheritance...
everything you said is spot on, I should have watched your video before marrying to a Thail woman, now I'm looking to file a divorce, I'm a 37yo Asian-Canadian, the only way you can please a Thail woman is with money or anything that involves lots on money.
There one of my Malaysian Malay friend which married a Thailand Muslim girl from Krabi,Thailand, She can't speak Malay, she can only speak Thai and English language to communicate with others, about 4 years this girl already attracted to an American man and never take care of the husband and their family in Malaysia, later they always quarrel because this Thai girl do work from home duty of $ US 100/- an hour. Now she already go back to Thailand.
Monetary caste systems go hand in hand with social caste in all countries? You will learn quite a bit from Korean dramas on You Tube. ruclips.net/video/eFbH3Edk3Lg/видео.html
As a woman from California I do not trust any man except my husband who passed away last year from cancer. If I ever did start a friendship with a man I would get a background search criminal and financial.He would have to have his own home because I would not want someone who lives in a box or lives with his children. A man who can pay his own bills and not ask for money. Why? Their is no way I would feed another man with the life we had built together. We both worked in the trade as journeyman pipefitters, welding etc. I watched my sweetie work his arse off and no way would I allow someone to leech off of my husbands sweat. There will never be another a Brent in the universe he was once in a lifetime.
It's funny. I came across your comments after watching the same video about the Thai women and their relationship to western men. I liked what you wrote and it show great respect for your deceased hubby, Brent. I feel for you and understand exactly where you're coming from. Totally incidentally, I am sure, if the situation was right and all the stars lined up, I would be able to be checked out according to your parameters, 100%. However, there are many others that would be highly dubious and these are the ones you have to weed out. I hope you find someone compatible with your lifestyle and honesty.
You honor your husband and that's good but your attitude is what keeps men away from women in the west now. The idea that you would feed another man, yeah you do you hope you have cats and dogs or horses. I'm sure your husband was a great man to you. You should never get with another man again and honor his memory. And at your age why would you?
There are many foreign men who come to Thailand in search of love. Unfortunately, they often get scammed out of all their money. This is because many Thai women are only interested in the money that these men have, and not in them as people. Additionally, many of these women are very good at manipulating these men into giving them what they want. As a result, the farang men often end up empty-handed and heartbroken.
Agree 100%. Have lived worked in Rural ChiangRai as Teacher, pre Covid, Money is KING, when any woman finds an ATM.. MY Philosophy now is,,, "Pay as you go"! RENT IT Do Not Buy it, Di Not make long term Financial/ emotional investments, You will lose Eventually, and they will find a new SPONSER .. 🙏😏
You are so correct.... "rent it, never buy it"..... By the end of the day the cheapest sex is the one you pay for.... Don't agree to any relationship in Thailand as you will be kicked the sec u stop sending money to her family
What you say is so true but its the same the world over to some extent. I got fleeced by a Jamaican woman 2 years my senior in a 12y marriage in the UK. No woman wants a skint man. Just put in what your prepared to lose. Never tell a woman about all your wealth. Always keep something for yourself emotionally. If the inevitable happens you'll get over it quicker and with some money left in your pocket.
You are definitely right and this applies everywhere in the WORLD....Relationships with foreigners around the world is about MONEY especially when you can sight the misfit....I am from Africa and the same western men go around Africa and try to get young girls to marry them and it does not work out. Old women travel to the Gambia to find love with young African men. Unfortunately people feel lonely and they like to satisfy their evil needs around the world using money.
These sad tales stories mostly seems to boil down to one of three scenarios. Relationship with prostitutes, Relationships with none prostitutes that would be well out of their league age wise and look wise back home. Relationships with predators and scammers preying on the the naive, online or offline These people are all attracted to and expect more than "true love", believing otherwise is delusional and a recipe for disaster.
100% agree. I also think is just in our DNA. Guys look for the pretty girls and girls for the financially stable guys regardless of culture. Let me play devil's advocate: what if these older, sickly, physically unattractive guys know the reason why such a beautiful woman half his junior know he is seen as an ATM to her, but because she provides companionship and treats him well, shows affection, he rolls with it because in his mind having someone is better than being alone? Any man fitting the description you give that truly thinks a beautiful girl half his age is it in for the love is not mentally healthy. Long story short: at the end of the day it's little more than a business transaction.
I have been in a relationship with a Thai lady now for five years, and to this day she have not asked about one baht. I understand that there is a big difference between Thai ladies, and that many western men don’t understand the Thai culture. My recommendation is that a farang should educate himself about Thai culture to avoid the most obvious traps. And remember that it’s always your choice to open your wallet I understand that it’s easy to fall in love with a beautiful Thai lady, but for god sake, don’t lose your common sense.
Bruh your soo on point with this because I’ve travel to Thailand back in 2018. I asked this girl out at her job we exchanged numbers and now she’s asking me for money. She even suggested we should get married. She clams that she wants to see New York City.
I think as many people have learned,Thailand and Thai women looks great at first but when you scratch the surface,all the dirt come and without playing the blame game,too much cultural differences makes it very hard to have a successful relationship. At first i was very pro Thai women to build something...now after all my experiences,it's a big no...i know it won't work...i know her parents are number one whatever i can do...if things get hard she will move out for the sake of her parents. So well that setting is not for me. And to add another thing,it's a Thai thing probably to run away and not face any problem, so nothing surprising when your girlfriend just disappear suddenly and you thought all were right. For me it's impossible in this condition to build any kind of trust.
Met a wonderful woman in the states. She lived in a house in a alley, I lived in a 1 bedroom apartment. She stuck by me through thick and thin. We are filthy rich now.
You are absolutely right. Most Thai women and specially Esaan and northern will look at men and if you are a foreigner you will be ask for money. I am half Thai, and USA I see those all the time. If your taking a Thai girl out for dinner look at how many time she will offer to pay for dinner,"0". They wont pay for dinner and what else will they pay. Hahaha NOt all Thai women are like that but i would say more then 70% are like that.. Sad but true
Whenever an American man shows up in a foreign country, women view him as the 'bag'.. the way out for her and her family... just go to these places and have fun, but do not get involve long-term,, you will lose..
I have been traveling to Thailand since 2003.....around 30 trips....met various women either through friends or at bars....a classic example....one I met online...educated nurse.....matron to be exact......wanted a 2 Million Baht dowry....I nearly choked on my dinner......needless to say our relationship ended that night.....since then I have found a lovely lady......this time a Pharmacist......been in a relationship 13 years.....we're not married but as they say in the classics.....don't try and mend something which ain't broke....
Mate you are hanging around the wrong thai women. I was married to one for 7 years - never cared about money, I’m not rich. Current thai gf the same, treats me so well and we have a great relationship and we communicate well.
This is why marriage among Thais is usually within their same socio-economic levels. The man or woman and respective families do NOT want a leech dragging them down. There are tons of gold-diggers after Thai men also but foreigners are soft targets. Speaking the language and even better also reading it fends off gold-diggers like a cross disperses vampires. Living in LOS my experience is mixed. Usually it is the middle class and above that you get non gold digging mentality although some struggling middle class have tried to borrow money(a bad idea). The segment of women actively seeking foreign boyfriends has a high % of golddiggers. Many actually define boyfriend as someone that pays them a salary and money as needed LOL. I have dated gals that actually took me out for the night, picked the tab. One even covered a 3 day trip to Hua Hin, nice hotel and all. If you don't live in Thailand it is not easy to meet normal nice people. Through an upscale Thai friend I know of a well known female tv journalist with high salary, nice life but saw her at a high end massage place on the vip floor available for the right price. It would seem for some, sex can become a mere commodity.
Being a farang guy in Thailand make you a target to get your money off. Don't delude yourself in thinking yours is not the same. Most middle or high class woman if having the choice will take any day a Thai man vs a farang. Believing because you're the king in the bars that your luck goes beyond this make you deluded. I mean at first it is all great time just get rough when you want to build something with a thai woman..too much cultural difference,too much communication problems and the family behind her expecting you to take care. All what i said is the general reality..the exception is just an exception as obvious as it is. Make Thailand for what it is...if you fall in love...good luck...you re into a hard road.
@@RGP419 not really. Wealthy women have the luxury to pick boy toys, poor women don't. And toy boy is pretty much what you are in a foreign land, not knowing the language, requiring a visa, having no real estate, no car or networking, being gifted with white physiology. Poor women date Caucasians only because in the land of whores, excuse me I mean smiles, people are so culturally (and maybe genetically?) unable to think rationally and logically, that mistakenly assume that if you are white you are a multimillionaire playboy that somehow fall in love with the great Thai culture and cousine 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It isn’t just about being Thai it’s about you as person, we see bad and good people everywhere! You can’t just blame thai women either, many here have the assumption that foreigners are rich and by Marrying “a rich foreigner” it is an easy way of getting money Which is not always the case. But there are foreigners who come to Thailand to specifically date a Thai women! In opinion some aren’t thinking about the possibility that things may not work out, it’s also you’re Job to make proper decisions before jumping on the bandwagon . 😕
I remember when I was in Thailand I've met this man who was on his 70s and has a Thai gf just 23 years old. but basically, she was just by her own with his brother. You could see both they were using each other, she is was quite pretty to be honest Be aware in London I've been surrounded by all type of ethnicities, and I still I will consider her to stand up among the crowd, but c'mon 40-50 years difference
That's common to see a young girl dragging some old man around by the hand. I would say "there's another example of" true love"" LOL But it amazing how smug the girl/woman looks. In her high heels all sexied up, dragging an old western fart around looking so smug like she's too of the world
@@adventuressurvivalinthailand Not sure why your suprised they would act in such a way though. When men get a windfall such as a promotion/better paying job/business deal comes off it's pretty common to see the same look as they step out of their newly bought car or flash their new Rolex down the pub. Nothing controversial or indeed that negative in it- ditto the woman need to look after their own financial security (and their family as its their responsibility in these cultures) so an old fart on the arm serves that purpose quite well and meet their main objectives as set out my their own culture.
I totally agree with you! I have live it and I have experience it! Thai women in general are beautiful but a big percent just want the money. I truly believe that it will be very difficult to find a beautiful women that will stay with you because they love you and not for the money and like you say you can easily see it in Thailand when you walk down the streets...lost of sugar daddies with young beautiful Thai women that only are thinking about the money and the worst is that a lot of them have more than one foreigner at the same time and believe me its not only freelancers or bar women, it can also be a women that is working on a different setting.
Well, he's telling the truth. Thai (Asian) women care about cash more than anything else. I'm not trying to insult Asian women (my GF is a Thai), just stating facts.
Yes Thankyou so much. If you can handle some honest opinions based on plenty of experience, then welcome. So many people get Triggered when negative options are expressed about Thailand lol
Hi SteveK Thailand- I agree with all the points that you have made about young Thai women and old Western men. Have you had any experiences or know of anyone who has dated Thai women in their 40's and 50's as I'm considering going on a Romance Tour to Thailand this year ?
I don't think every thai woman is a scammer but how to find a decent woman if you don't speak the language, have thai friends, understand the culture????? I say go to Thailand and have fun, but don't fall into love,,,,, beautiful country, very affordable, thais are easy to deal with, friendly but think twice about getting married! Thai men also struggle when it comes to dating let alone a total stranger like you
Yes. Once they crack 40 they are far more pragmatic and scared that their "catch" will go for a younger women (having seen it thousands of times) - you are their last chance and as such a better bet... but don't think its necessarily love...
It’s funny how the people in these comments think that men in their 60’s and 70’s don’t realize that these very young beautiful Thai women in their 20’s or 30’s are just after the money,of course they know that’s the case and as far as I’m concerned they are both adults getting what they want out of the deal so what’s the problem,people need to mind their own business but we all know that’s not going to happen don’t we 🤷
I taught English in Korea and China, and I've been considering teaching in Thailand. I just came across your channel, and I'm glad to get a slap in the face with reality. I shouldn't bother going there in the near future, especially since my goal is to save money. Sure, there are some great Thai women, but marriage is risky as it is. Even if things are great, you're still just an ATM to her family. I should have remembered an ex-friend of mine who married a Filipina. (The guy paid for her sister-in-law's college education, and within a month after graduating, she got knocked up.)
You have the right idea I really really loved Thailand but I don’t think I can handle all the greed there anymore it really brings you down that people are so bad ….. I helped a woman through corona the moeny is nothing much to me but the fact there is zero apprection has enraged me I may never fly there again but I might do it when im an old man snd take revenge with my disgusting old man boom 🤣🤣 I’ve learned thai bar girls girlfriends are for the old ugly snd fat there the only guys that would put with the crap
Don’t get down mate.. those men have been on RUclips complaining that their women cheat on them. You are right; it is about money… but even with money, there is no real deep loyalty it seems. Intuitively, I believe you are also right- every suicide definitely has 100s of bad stories (related to relationships) where there was no suicide.
90% of us older guys dating much younger Thai women already know these things! But good advice for those who are newbies though it's all fairly obvious really.
The free one costs the most. Let’s look at how it compares with Australia. If the male earns under 100k a year they WONT get a girlfriend younger than them or under 80kg. I think most women ‘scale up’ financial demands as a relationship progresses. It starts with free dinners, then vacations, then credit cards or loans, then houses or cars, finally a divorce payout. The women in Thailand target older gents to receive a will payout within ten years. Those guys are pretty easy to play, often the girl has a Thai boyfriend (her age) in her village who is aware. That is certainly a clear cut example of financial manipulation. Of course, very common in the big tourist areas. Whether that is indicative of all Thai-western relationships is a bit of an over-statement I’d say. When I lived in Thailand I dated some really exceptional women who were very accomplished in their careers and didn’t really need any of my basic income. We split the bills 50/50, no hassles at all! You’ll be glad to know we were the same age too. I guess there’s always exceptions.
@@user-fq7ii3ub4m seems to be the case in Australia where I've lived virtually my whole life. Any thin women become instant celebrities by default. In Asia there isnt enough obesity to create this dynamic. If you have anything worthwhile to share please do so. We should all be able to make comments based on the evidence that surrounds us.
See Thailand for what it is...I met a couple of Thai girls in Thailand (not the bar scene though), and I said this to them:" Look I know that you have many boyfriends who support you, this is the deal, I am pretty good in the sack, I am fun and I can be your emotional relief. Of course if we go to dinner I can pay and the next time you can pay for cinema or alike. I think that's a fair deal, right?" This actually works, you put the cards on the table to start off with and strip things off telling her that you know what's up and that you're not a fool, they respect you for that.
Just try meeting a asian girl in sydney, we live in the most multicultural city ever. I have a beautiful thai girlfriend and she has been here for over 3 years and is a genuine good girl and has never once hit me up for money. We have a good relationship and she hates the stigma of thai women with money. She is gentle, caring and most the time she wants to pay everytime
I've been with a few Thai's and I've lived in Thailand for a year. From my observations and experiences. The majority of thai women who seek foreigners, They are mostly driven by money or visas in their relationships. Most thai women who aren't actively seeking foreigners and are happy dating thai men aren't really driven by money in their relationships. The ones to beware of are the thai women who are really good at English. If you want to increase your chances of a genuine Thai woman. Its a requirement to learn Thai because you will meet alot of down to earth Thai's that way. Knowing just English in Thailand, is massively limiting your options to potential gold diggers.
I am Thai and would like to tell everyone here that your culture is very different from Thai people. We have been taught since our ancestors to be grateful to our parents and benefactors who raised us. But I see most farangs don't take care of their parents. Must live in loneliness, lack of caretakers, some in shelters Some husbands are sick, while the wife goes to the party with friends. But foreigners have advantages like respecting the rules and being punctual. This is what I like. End of the news.
Nong Sow, thank you for your words. You are correct. One of the biggest differences between Thai culture and most western cultures is how they treat family. Few westerners really understand the responsibility that all Thai have to their parents and family. The saying is 'when you marry a Thai girl you marry her family as well'. Its true. Every Thai/Western relationship that lasts, is when the Guy understands the woman's responsibility to her family. If he doesn't, then the relationship will not last.
@@chrishansen2100 you do not understand what's going on. Money is a factor for every person on the planet. If you don't take the time to understand their culture, don't date a Thai girl.
@@omegaman477It is the misfortune of that western man, but in fact it is not certain that a western man marry a Thai woman like marrying a whole family. I would argue that this is not true.
I always quote this when trying to explain the contrast between Western and Thai culture. In my culture (Australia) the most horrible crime that a person can commit is to kill your child. In Thailand the same horror is to kill a parent. Hungry Ghosts. It is sad that my culture discards its aged. We (the West) have a lot to learn from the Thai. A lot of what western culture does with their aged is truely horrible. Without a strong family, we are nothing.
Thanks for the advice based on your experience. It happens all over the world no matter where you go looking for love in all the wrong places. Unfortunately most women consider money as their security blanket and it all depends on what the man wants in that relationship regardless if they're geriatric farts as you say, lol 😆.
i agree all relationships in thailand ate predicated on money, the giving of your money to strangers and extended family is villan dressed as virture, but its all designed to part you with your money
I think you could generally remove the word “Thai”, when talking about this topic. But yeah, I agree that it is probably a small minority of women who are just louder than the majority.
The problem, in all of these, is renting versus buying. It's who is scaming who first. Why would you expect to be older and get a young woman to stay with you? Any time marriage or go to your country, you should run.
I guess this is a great place to be a sugar daddy...some men have the money and just need a hot young woman 😆 its only bad if you want true love but most relationships in the world are BS any way. Just don't date a woman who takes too much.
I’ve been in Thailand for 2 years and this is why I don’t date Thai girls anymore. I could tell you a thousand stories. Last girl I dated here was English and was great.
Interesting about the suicides of foreigners in Thailand, I read 2 jumpers a week in pattiya but would be interested to know because I don't think these stats would help tourism so probably underestimated.
I met a Thai girl online, most of the 2 years, she would talk to me about random things. Sometimes, I would go a week, or 2 without replying or talking to her. She did not further message me, until i went a long time without replying. But, she has not really been interested in money. It is not true that all women are interested in money or immigration status. They simply are interested in lighter skin. She showed me some pictures she went out to buy some clothes and showed me a model.. on the Thai clothes, actors, models.. most of them have a white complexity in their skin. To act like its all about money, you must have been in hooker town or something because Thai women are different, just like in the states.
@@adventuressurvivalinthailand i appreciate that! I would like to say that its likely more likely to run into those problems in the Philippines.. but i did date a filipino for 5 years, she was in the states and was not really like that either.
WAKE UP! It’s the same almost anywhere. I’m not rich but do okay, got all I need and then some but the only women in Hawaii that want a man, have daddy issues, need a place to live, need an ATM , are much older and are thinking of a caretaker, need a handyman, an activity partner………. And way down the list……… love, enjoy Thailand! They will use you so don’t feel bad when you use them!
I date a thai woman. In fact we live together. I invited her to get a house cleaner and I would be happy to pay for it. She actually came out and said it would be 500 baht one day a week. That was a flat out lie when at the time I was paying a guy 100 baht a day to do work around the house. Big difference between a cleaning lady and a skilled trade worker. I am 58 and she is 53 years old. They all try to take advantage of you
We have to remember women in the west are just the same! Money and status. At least in Thailand you get a good looking slim one. We can give thousands of stories too about western women.
The men are after youth and the women are after security/money. A tit for a tat. Solution: These man can go for a woman their own age and find true love with her.
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A man in his 50s or 60s that goes after a thai girl that is in her 20s, she is not there for your looks. They come from 3rd world country and will.do.anything to support their family. What do you expect??? She wants money and that's it. Try and pick u a girl in Australia in her 20s. Very hard. What, these men think they are studs because they are 20 to 30 years older than a thai girl. Wake up!!!!!
it is called early dementia. not their fault
100% Fact/Truth 👍
Thailand is not a third world country.. I’ve dated many Thai women all my age… no money no honey 🍯 women are all related that goes for any ethnicity…
don't be a hater...
Tell then no money I'm not ATM see how long these women hang around
I brought my Thai wife to Australia some 10 years ago and she has recently left me, totally out of the blue. I would never look for a relationship with a Thai woman again. Her sons came at 1 and 2, her parents at 3 and 4, her brothers and sisters 5,6,7,8,9 and 10, and then me (then again the dogs may have been before me). That was the order of priority (and yes as one poster pointed out below they are good at playing the "long game" which lures you into a false sense of security). So if you do want a relationship with a Thai woman please remember that her family will ALWAYS come before you and don't kid yourself into believing anything else, good luck!
Great comment, but sorry about your story
Alfred, Sorry to hear that!
Sorry to hear that .
But in desperate n harsh poverty condition , what would anyone do .
You were desperate n so was she ,
N both got what u n she wanted .
True with the majority but my wife doesn't put her parents first, only our children naturally.
I do agree a massively large majority but there are exceptions.
Just seeing , and staying with her ! Indians are smart to tackle this !
Be very careful with Thai women, when I was in Thailand, the hotel owner I was staying told me to be very careful if you had a Thai girlfriend because they have so many foreign boyfriends to trick you and get your money.
Absolutely. My conclusion now is that you have to be desperate for a Thai woman. Unless you are some young traveler after a crazy time in bars
@@adventuressurvivalinthailand Well there are plenty of middle aged and older foreigners indulging in the Thai bars.Probably best just to have a few drinks ,chat, and laugh. When holiday is over,go back to home country.
100% True/Fact.
All of these old dudes that i sit with are miserable with their thai wives. Their Thai wives dont give a fuck about them unless he has money. lmao
I'm sorry but I totally disagree. The fact that you're adding Thai in front of woman is what bothers me. So your point is that only Thai women are bad because you got burned. Look in the mirror friend. Anything that happened is your own fault. Either you allowed it to happen or are you allowed it to continue.
Hey I'm not coming down on you for something that I would never do because I've done the same. All women as a group are like this. It's a biological not topographical , not geological. Maybe it is enhanced in certain groups of women in Thailand because they are from poor areas, and foreigners coming in with lots of money, what would you do? Yeah probably the same.
So rather than shitting on Thai's, maybe just realize that in the game of Love, the man will always lose. Unless you're talking about your mother.
Im a Thai guy with an older Thai women (3 year's older). I live in Australia and she in Thailand and yes, you will always come last and her family will come first along with money. What she makes is hers and what you earn she expects a big cut. They don't know what love is because they love money so much.
Omg bro..I been few years with Thai adducted lady.i meet her family I engaged with her after 2 years of relationship..and of course I take care her and she show me the same
,,and actually during this time she changing a lot n be away and come back it’s happen often,,
after 5 years relationship she still the same .one time we argue and she said she throw my engagement ring to the river .i was so mad .and after that we talk normal ..and ask me to give her promises to married her .again and again she hide no pickup the phone or message.it was very often .And come back to me with love words n sending me my dogs pic n how she miss us .and talk sweet words.then she hide her self again and come with different mood.I don’t know how to go out of this messy life 😓
Hope u advice me.
@@ld6529 a lot of thai girls use love as a tool. Not all, but a lot. Once they know your in love then the true person comes out, regardless on how nice you have taken care of her she always had an agenda and usually it's always money. If there is someone who is more rich then you and is willing to take her then your bet is that your old news. For now she needs an ATM and someone to do as she says. A rich man will tell her what to do but an average man will be underneath her. But your in luck, we all have more then one soul mate so be optimistic. The truth is that love hurts. I'm heart broken after 9 years, she still acts like she loves me but in fact she wants someone who is rich and old but she still wants me on the side. I'm still hurting but I've decided to not talk to her and let her go. I know it's hard but she is cancer. You have to do the same bro.
@@bacsolo3719 it’s hurt,,and I want say sorry for you too..
hope you doing well bro.
And thanks a lot for the nice advice ,,it’s so kind of you,,
🙏🏻🙏🏻
3 years is no big deal,,,,, if she doesn't care about you then divorce her!
I'm sure u can find a better thai woman
@@sjffhfjcntgj9411 We have just broken up officially in march after 9 years. It's a very complicated relationship. I will be divorcing her.
in thailand when it comes to relationships between alot of the foreigners and thai women there are the three gaps , the age gap , the language gap and the cultural gap , so the likelyhood she is with you for your charms is slim to none .
What the hell are you talking about.. I been here for years without much money, girls are chasing me because Im charming, good-looking and fun.. open your eyes old man
@@Lukrafiveman then you probably a young white boy right ?
this. my girl is the same age as me. i dont have any issues like this... if your 50 and shes 20... come on..
@@FreeSudani i guess he is Russian in his early 30 with blond hair and blue eyes
@@sjffhfjcntgj9411 thats explains it 🙂
Woman are objectified for their physical body and looks.
Men are objectified for their money and status.
And thus it has always been. Loyalty from women only go as far as you maintain that relative high status.
If you are looking for a soul mate that doesn't care about such things, consider getting a cat or dog. Pets love unconditionally. Humans do not.
Red Pill!!!!
What a shallow Thinking man. There are 100s of other qualities which you need to consider before marrying. have seen many couples in which This is opposite.My mother who is a professor earns 2X more than my Father . For many people family values, education and culture is more important more material.
@@K21-r4i of course there are other factors, but some factors are more significant than others. Exceptions do not disprove the general rule
Bloody pets are high maintenance too.. self love is best love :)
best reply totally true this is not base on thai women but all women. No matter what you do they will never be happy in the end
Most people have learn it the hard way, I'm from Thailand so I was born knowing this 🤣
Yep and I laugh when I hear all these western men talk about how the western women or horrible and they’re going to find a wife from one of the Asian countries and how it’s going to be so much better. The Asian women are submissive and loyal and all that stuff. I was like good luck! I’m Asian but from the USA. But I hear a lot of stories in the community regarding other Asian American men marrying from Asia and getting burned and vice versus. My husbands uncle married a women from China. She had a whole other husband back in China. She got caught because she was careless and didn’t realize her MIL understood Chinese.
Tell us more🤣🤣🤣 may be you can open a school: No Money No Honey Thai school
@@tippytoe1250 these buffoons think "young Asian girls love old men" LMAO this is early dementia.
@@tippytoe1250 Well Asia isnt a monolith. Both of my exes are of Chinese descent (Taiwan and Hong Kong). They are both super educated and have great careers. They like paying for everything. Thai and Filipino women are garbage (most of them).
I plan to retire in Thailand when i reach 60 in about 10y, i have been single for 10y and for me any type of relationship is a waste of time. I dated so much in my life and gave so much to the women i been with. Being single is total freedom. I plan to live a peaceful life in thailand not throw away my money to feed a women her family and the rest.
You should go into the rabbit hole of foreigners and their experience there and other south east Asia
Words of wisdom. " I plan to live a peaceful life in thailand not throw away my money to feed a women her family and the rest. "
Same in Cambodia, you're expected to support her entire family tree as well.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Niggga no!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 you forgot their neighbors and dogs
@@sjffhfjcntgj9411 oh yes they need free money to so they can chill in there hammocks !!! 🤣
then find a woman of your own status and your own age in your own country and quit complaining. you want young, you pay. duh
I've dated a Thai woman for a decade or so, she was wonderful. Came here, went to school, worked hard and through many jobs, landed a job with the FBI due to knowing how to speak and write Hmong language. She treated me like a king. She moved back east for a better job but I love her to this day. Now, my buddy married a Phillipina and took to to live in Sweden, a year in he had suspicions and set up a camera. caught her in the act with some British guy that was there working construction. he threw her and all her stuff out that night. People are people. Ive had American women try to pull scams on me. got to be careful
she left her husband for a better job??
@@ginanovo6285 She left him for a better job and his simp a## still loves her to this day.
I had an ex Thai girlfriend that became my friend. We would share everything and she got comfortable enough to share her love life with me. She had 6 boyfriends while she was engaged.
Another Thai girlfriend would share stories with me about different Thai women marrying European men in her village out in the country side. While the man is back in Europe working, she's in the custom built home staying behind in Thailand. She would have a Thai boyfriend living in the custom home with her while hubby is in Europe without his knowledge.
If you're currently married to a Thai woman, my suggestion is to put some spy camera's around your home, perhaps even in her car. If you're having doubts about your wife or girlfriend, you're probably 99% right. They're good at hiding things from you.
And go figure, Thai women have this jealousy stigma about getting really angry if their man cheats. Yet many of these women do it too but then gaslight the guy (even the foreign guys get it) but Thai men don’t care. They’ll leave a gf or wife on the spot thst has his kids, for a younger model.
I dated a good thai woman in London.
She never asked me for money, but her family used her for bank transfers all the time, her culture programmed her to be the support of the family.
As time went on, she made herself distant in our relationship and kept getting used by her family who ostracized me gradually. She was a good person but I had to leave her, I felt sorry for her. Thai families can be very opportunistic, even with their children.
Yea, that seems to be. Thanks for warning.
Different culture dude. Relax.
@@RobFomenko I'm relaxed and very factual. People should get some facts about the implications of dating / marrying Thai women. Thank God I left, it would cost my sanity.
My grandpa's brother was fooled by a Thai woman. All of these horror stories we hear about exist. Thailand can be paradise, or it could be hell. It depends on how carefully men thread. I saw sweaty old men with pacemakers barely surviving the heat hand in hand with a thai girl. She had to carry his credit card.
Jealousy can also get a man killed too! That is a quick and easy divorce.
The thing to keep in mind about Thailand is that it's preferable and prudent to rent EVERYTHING. Property ownership and/or believing you're in a committed/loving/trusting relationship are simply temporary illusions. If you understand that, and can afford the rental cost, life in Thailand can be quite enjoyable and reasonably safe. And when it goes south, which it most certainly will at some point, be fully prepared to walk away. This applies to most of the rest of the world, as well!
Exactly. I had a relationship with two girls in Thailand, for a few days only bar girls. I like both of them and gave them gifts and took them to eat. Everything was fine until the last minute when I was about to leave the bar and head out to the hotel for the flight back the next morning. And then arguing and fighting started over the money that was in the pot. I saw a different side of these girls. One in which I wasn't really proud to see or happy. Yet I walked away to my hotel I had to remember that these girls have a totally different environment and living conditions that I had growing up. I thought that I could not judge them based on what I thought based on right and wrong. So I let it go. They weren't fighting with me anyway they were fighting amongst themselves. I still talk to them on line every couple days. When I go back to Thailand I will still hang out with them, because I like them and I enjoy their company. Yet I will never lose sight of what the actual Dynamics are. I know that if I I'm not careful I could lose a lot of money. I don't think they'll come at me with yeah let's scam this guy as much as just someone seeing an opportunity and taking it. So don't give them an opportunity, and if you feel pressured leave. There are literally hundreds of thousands of choices, why choose one that doesn't taste good?
Rent EVERYTHING including the relationship.
Someone very close to me married a Thai woman. He traveled to the US and caught Covid. When she heard about this, she traveled there. During consultation with the doctor she was given the choice of keeping him alive and needing to give him dialysis or simply choosing the latter. It took her about one minute to make her choice: the latter. No consultation (with real family members), nothing.
Thankfully her daughter provided a covert recording to us, which I thought was incredibly brave.
On top of that, the US associates set up a gofundme for her which raised a further $50000 for her.
So far as a family, we have received NO inheritance...
everything you said is spot on, I should have watched your video before marrying to a Thail woman, now I'm looking to file a divorce, I'm a 37yo Asian-Canadian, the only way you can please a Thail woman is with money or anything that involves lots on money.
Wrong!
There one of my Malaysian Malay friend which married a Thailand Muslim girl from Krabi,Thailand, She can't speak Malay, she can only speak Thai and English language to communicate with others, about 4 years this girl already attracted to an American man and never take care of the husband and their family in Malaysia, later they always quarrel because this Thai girl do work from home duty of $ US 100/- an hour. Now she already go back to Thailand.
lol every female in a country cant be the same
Monetary caste systems go hand in hand with social caste in all countries?
You will learn quite a bit from Korean dramas on You Tube.
ruclips.net/video/eFbH3Edk3Lg/видео.html
As a woman from California I do not trust any man except my husband who passed away last year from cancer.
If I ever did start a friendship with a man I would get a background search criminal and financial.He would have to have his own home because I would not want someone who lives in a box or lives with his children. A man who can pay his own bills and not ask for money.
Why? Their is no way I would feed another man with the life we had built together. We both worked in the trade as journeyman pipefitters, welding etc. I watched my sweetie work his arse off and no way would I allow someone to leech off of my husbands sweat.
There will never be another a Brent in the universe he was once in a lifetime.
It's funny. I came across your comments after watching the same video about the Thai women and their relationship to western men. I liked what you wrote and it show great respect for your deceased hubby, Brent. I feel for you and understand exactly where you're coming from. Totally incidentally, I am sure, if the situation was right and all the stars lined up, I would be able to be checked out according to your parameters, 100%. However, there are many others that would be highly dubious and these are the ones you have to weed out. I hope you find someone compatible with your lifestyle and honesty.
You honor your husband and that's good but your attitude is what keeps men away from women in the west now. The idea that you would feed another man, yeah you do you hope you have cats and dogs or horses.
I'm sure your husband was a great man to you. You should never get with another man again and honor his memory.
And at your age why would you?
100% True simple don't give them money or cut off the money and see how fast she will disappear
Lmao fuck you
Bahahahahahhaha she drained you?
of course ... if she deems you as a provider , and you lose your job or for some reason you are unable to provide , you have no value to that women .
200% agreed
Money is a factor all over the world. Some women just hide it better. Security always wins over love, no matter where you are.
not true but probably in Thailand
True. Most ladies are looking for their best meal ticket.
Of course, there are exceptions.
@@Windmill2024where do these exceptions exist? I have not found any females of these exceptions
@dumamay283 True, the exceptions are very rare.
Japan, I would say there are more exceptions than there would be in Thailand as an example.
There are many foreign men who come to Thailand in search of love. Unfortunately, they often get scammed out of all their money. This is because many Thai women are only interested in the money that these men have, and not in them as people. Additionally, many of these women are very good at manipulating these men into giving them what they want. As a result, the farang men often end up empty-handed and heartbroken.
Agree 100%. Have lived worked in Rural ChiangRai as Teacher, pre Covid, Money is KING, when any woman finds an ATM..
MY Philosophy now is,,, "Pay as you go"! RENT IT Do Not Buy it, Di Not make long term Financial/ emotional investments, You will lose Eventually, and they will find a new SPONSER .. 🙏😏
You are so correct.... "rent it, never buy it"..... By the end of the day the cheapest sex is the one you pay for.... Don't agree to any relationship in Thailand as you will be kicked the sec u stop sending money to her family
What you say is so true but its the same the world over to some extent. I got fleeced by a Jamaican woman 2 years my senior in a 12y marriage in the UK. No woman wants a skint man. Just put in what your prepared to lose. Never tell a woman about all your wealth. Always keep something for yourself emotionally. If the inevitable happens you'll get over it quicker and with some money left in your pocket.
i find it very unusual that this happens even when a man is smart enough not to choose a woman too young. thats cold.
You are definitely right and this applies everywhere in the WORLD....Relationships with foreigners around the world is about MONEY especially when you can sight the misfit....I am from Africa and the same western men go around Africa and try to get young girls to marry them and it does not work out. Old women travel to the Gambia to find love with young African men. Unfortunately people feel lonely and they like to satisfy their evil needs around the world using money.
These sad tales stories mostly seems to boil down to one of three scenarios. Relationship with prostitutes, Relationships with none prostitutes that would be well out of their league age wise and look wise back home. Relationships with predators and scammers preying on the the naive, online or offline These people are all attracted to and expect more than "true love", believing otherwise is delusional and a recipe for disaster.
Evil needs??
White people are sexpats and exploiters
What evil needs?
He is 100% right.
And this is REAL BAD in LATIN AMERICA
Just came from several months in Latin America.
I lived in Costa Rica, i thought it was way better there when it comes to dating.
100% agree. I also think is just in our DNA. Guys look for the pretty girls and girls for the financially stable guys regardless of culture. Let me play devil's advocate: what if these older, sickly, physically unattractive guys know the reason why such a beautiful woman half his junior know he is seen as an ATM to her, but because she provides companionship and treats him well, shows affection, he rolls with it because in his mind having someone is better than being alone? Any man fitting the description you give that truly thinks a beautiful girl half his age is it in for the love is not mentally healthy. Long story short: at the end of the day it's little more than a business transaction.
I have been in a relationship with a Thai lady now for five years, and to this day she have not asked about one baht.
I understand that there is a big difference between Thai ladies, and that many western men don’t understand the Thai culture.
My recommendation is that a farang should educate himself about Thai culture to avoid the most obvious traps.
And remember that it’s always
your choice to open your wallet
I understand that it’s easy to fall in love with a beautiful Thai lady, but for god sake, don’t lose your common sense.
Well said and I agree.
Bruh your soo on point with this because I’ve travel to Thailand back in 2018. I asked this
girl out at her job we exchanged numbers and now she’s asking me for money. She even suggested we should get married. She clams that she wants to see New York City.
Yeah bring her to new york, so she could dump you for another guys.
I think as many people have learned,Thailand and Thai women looks great at first but when you scratch the surface,all the dirt come and without playing the blame game,too much cultural differences makes it very hard to have a successful relationship.
At first i was very pro Thai women to build something...now after all my experiences,it's a big no...i know it won't work...i know her parents are number one whatever i can do...if things get hard she will move out for the sake of her parents.
So well that setting is not for me.
And to add another thing,it's a Thai thing probably to run away and not face any problem, so nothing surprising when your girlfriend just disappear suddenly and you thought all were right.
For me it's impossible in this condition to build any kind of trust.
Met a wonderful woman in the states. She lived in a house in a alley, I lived in a 1 bedroom apartment. She stuck by me through thick and thin. We are filthy rich now.
You are absolutely right. Most Thai women and specially Esaan and northern will look at men and if you are a foreigner you will be ask for money. I am half Thai, and USA I see those all the time. If your taking a Thai girl out for dinner look at how many time she will offer to pay for dinner,"0". They wont pay for dinner and what else will they pay. Hahaha NOt all Thai women are like that but i would say more then 70% are like that..
Sad but true
I'd dare say it's more than 70% & everything else I agree with you on.
As you say, it's sad.
90% thai girl very sure like this
it's the same in the US but not as obvious. Truth is women want money, men want beauty.
"Look at my ATM machine".....🤣🤣🤣 Absolutely nailed it.
In general think he is spot on...but there are good ones to be found
Whenever an American man shows up in a foreign country, women view him as the 'bag'.. the way out for her and her family... just go to these places and have fun, but do not get involve long-term,, you will lose..
My Favorite are the guys with the Oxygen tanks with the 18 year old hottie..🤣🤣🤣
If they were same race you would think it's their grandpa. But you know what that relationship is all about 😂
With”Love Is Like Oxygen”playing in the background by the Sweet 😂😂
I have been traveling to Thailand since 2003.....around 30 trips....met various women either through friends or at bars....a classic example....one I met online...educated nurse.....matron to be exact......wanted a 2 Million Baht dowry....I nearly choked on my dinner......needless to say our relationship ended that night.....since then I have found a lovely lady......this time a Pharmacist......been in a relationship 13 years.....we're not married but as they say in the classics.....don't try and mend something which ain't broke....
Mate you are hanging around the wrong thai women. I was married to one for 7 years - never cared about money, I’m not rich. Current thai gf the same, treats me so well and we have a great relationship and we communicate well.
What happened to the first one lmao
Consider yourself very very very lucky 😂
Funny 😂
Good to hear
Update, still with new gf, 2.5 years now and getting married soon
This is why marriage among Thais is usually within their same socio-economic levels. The man or woman and respective families do NOT want a leech dragging them down. There are tons of gold-diggers after Thai men also but foreigners are soft targets. Speaking the language and even better also reading it fends off gold-diggers like a cross disperses vampires. Living in LOS my experience is mixed. Usually it is the middle class and above that you get non gold digging mentality although some struggling middle class have tried to borrow money(a bad idea). The segment of women actively seeking foreign boyfriends has a high % of golddiggers. Many actually define boyfriend as someone that pays them a salary and money as needed LOL. I have dated gals that actually took me out for the night, picked the tab. One even covered a 3 day trip to Hua Hin, nice hotel and all. If you don't live in Thailand it is not easy to meet normal nice people. Through an upscale Thai friend I know of a well known female tv journalist with high salary, nice life but saw her at a high end massage place on the vip floor available for the right price. It would seem for some, sex can become a mere commodity.
Was It NATTY????
Being a farang guy in Thailand make you a target to get your money off.
Don't delude yourself in thinking yours is not the same.
Most middle or high class woman if having the choice will take any day a Thai man vs a farang.
Believing because you're the king in the bars that your luck goes beyond this make you deluded.
I mean at first it is all great time just get rough when you want to build something with a thai woman..too much cultural difference,too much communication problems and the family behind her expecting you to take care.
All what i said is the general reality..the exception is just an exception as obvious as it is.
Make Thailand for what it is...if you fall in love...good luck...you re into a hard road.
This is wrong. Farangs are considered sexual elite as well. Had many women attracted by my BWC, but infidelity exists regardless.
@giorgospapadopoulos7709 it's a fact that wealthy people prefer to date people of their own culture
@@RGP419 not really. Wealthy women have the luxury to pick boy toys, poor women don't. And toy boy is pretty much what you are in a foreign land, not knowing the language, requiring a visa, having no real estate, no car or networking, being gifted with white physiology.
Poor women date Caucasians only because in the land of whores, excuse me I mean smiles, people are so culturally (and maybe genetically?) unable to think rationally and logically, that mistakenly assume that if you are white you are a multimillionaire playboy that somehow fall in love with the great Thai culture and cousine 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m quarter Thai and this is very true, but I would NEVER steal a man’s money.
hahahahahahaa..,really² true
You fibber .
Rubbish!
You deserve a quarter
Quarter Thai… behave yourself 😂
It isn’t just about being Thai it’s about you as person, we see bad and good people everywhere!
You can’t just blame thai women either, many here have the assumption that foreigners are rich and by Marrying “a rich foreigner” it is an easy way of getting money Which is not always the case. But there are foreigners who come to Thailand to specifically date a Thai women!
In opinion some aren’t thinking about the possibility that things may not work out, it’s also you’re Job to make proper decisions before jumping on the bandwagon . 😕
In Thailand No Money no honey
No money no love
exactly. its like these old men will go and marry a 25 yr old and then complain. Like buddy wtf did you think was gonna happen? lol
I remember when I was in Thailand I've met this man who was on his 70s and has a Thai gf just 23 years old.
but basically, she was just by her own with his brother. You could see both they were using each other, she is was quite pretty to be honest
Be aware in London I've been surrounded by all type of ethnicities, and I still I will consider her to stand up among the crowd, but c'mon 40-50 years difference
That's common to see a young girl dragging some old man around by the hand. I would say "there's another example of" true love"" LOL
But it amazing how smug the girl/woman looks. In her high heels all sexied up, dragging an old western fart around looking so smug like she's too of the world
Hugh Hefner was with 19 year olds in his late 80’s! And these girls weren’t Thai... hmmmm
@@Zenoandturtle exactly they made a deal that was good for both just make sure u understand the deal and NEVER marry.
@@adventuressurvivalinthailand Not sure why your suprised they would act in such a way though. When men get a windfall such as a promotion/better paying job/business deal comes off it's pretty common to see the same look as they step out of their newly bought car or flash their new Rolex down the pub. Nothing controversial or indeed that negative in it- ditto the woman need to look after their own financial security (and their family as its their responsibility in these cultures) so an old fart on the arm serves that purpose quite well and meet their main objectives as set out my their own culture.
No problem if both know their value.
I totally agree with you! I have live it and I have experience it! Thai women in general are beautiful but a big percent just want the money. I truly believe that it will be very difficult to find a beautiful women that will stay with you because they love you and not for the money and like you say you can easily see it in Thailand when you walk down the streets...lost of sugar daddies with young beautiful Thai women that only are thinking about the money and the worst is that a lot of them have more than one foreigner at the same time and believe me its not only freelancers or bar women, it can also be a women that is working on a different setting.
Well, he's telling the truth. Thai (Asian) women care about cash more than anything else. I'm not trying to insult Asian women (my GF is a Thai), just stating facts.
Pattaya Flying Club... Very sad story.. I love your analysis.. I just subscribed.. Thank you..
Yes Thankyou so much. If you can handle some honest opinions based on plenty of experience, then welcome. So many people get Triggered when negative options are expressed about Thailand lol
100% true in every word!
Hi SteveK Thailand- I agree with all the points that you have made about young Thai women and old Western men. Have you had any experiences or know of anyone who has dated Thai women in their 40's and 50's as I'm considering going on a Romance Tour to Thailand this year ?
I don't think every thai woman is a scammer but how to find a decent woman if you don't speak the language, have thai friends, understand the culture?????
I say go to Thailand and have fun, but don't fall into love,,,,, beautiful country, very affordable, thais are easy to deal with, friendly but think twice about getting married!
Thai men also struggle when it comes to dating let alone a total stranger like you
@@sjffhfjcntgj9411 Yes FFFF :
Yes. Once they crack 40 they are far more pragmatic and scared that their "catch" will go for a younger women (having seen it thousands of times) - you are their last chance and as such a better bet... but don't think its necessarily love...
@@michaelschmidt1101 Thanks Michael for that info and advice. I will keep that in mind.
It’s funny how the people in these comments think that men in their 60’s and 70’s don’t realize that these very young beautiful Thai women in their 20’s or 30’s are just after the money,of course they know that’s the case and as far as I’m concerned they are both adults getting what they want out of the deal so what’s the problem,people need to mind their own business but we all know that’s not going to happen don’t we 🤷
just curious, why don’t you guys go for Australian women your own age?
Because most are feminist shits !!! and want to grow balls and cut yours off.
Have you ever been attracted to an 60 year old lady?
Why when you can trade in for a younger model..😂
Aside from money what do you really bring to the table ? Really?!
I taught English in Korea and China, and I've been considering teaching in Thailand. I just came across your channel, and I'm glad to get a slap in the face with reality. I shouldn't bother going there in the near future, especially since my goal is to save money.
Sure, there are some great Thai women, but marriage is risky as it is. Even if things are great, you're still just an ATM to her family. I should have remembered an ex-friend of mine who married a Filipina. (The guy paid for her sister-in-law's college education, and within a month after graduating, she got knocked up.)
I wouldn’t want you’re stupid money anyways 😂
You have the right idea I really really loved Thailand but I don’t think I can handle all the greed there anymore it really brings you down that people are so bad ….. I helped a woman through corona the moeny is nothing much to me but the fact there is zero apprection has enraged me I may never fly there again but I might do it when im an old man snd take revenge with my disgusting old man boom 🤣🤣 I’ve learned thai bar girls girlfriends are for the old ugly snd fat there the only guys that would put with the crap
Teaching Thailand? lmao LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSER
Don’t get down mate.. those men have been on RUclips complaining that their women cheat on them. You are right; it is about money… but even with money, there is no real deep loyalty it seems.
Intuitively, I believe you are also right- every suicide definitely has 100s of bad stories (related to relationships) where there was no suicide.
90% of us older guys dating much younger Thai women already know these things!
But good advice for those who are newbies though it's all fairly obvious really.
You Will Sooner Drink
The Ocean With A Teaspoon
Than Convince A Foolish Man In-Love
The free one costs the most. Let’s look at how it compares with Australia. If the male earns under 100k a year they WONT get a girlfriend younger than them or under 80kg. I think most women ‘scale up’ financial demands as a relationship progresses. It starts with free dinners, then vacations, then credit cards or loans, then houses or cars, finally a divorce payout. The women in Thailand target older gents to receive a will payout within ten years. Those guys are pretty easy to play, often the girl has a Thai boyfriend (her age) in her village who is aware. That is certainly a clear cut example of financial manipulation. Of course, very common in the big tourist areas. Whether that is indicative of all Thai-western relationships is a bit of an over-statement I’d say. When I lived in Thailand I dated some really exceptional women who were very accomplished in their careers and didn’t really need any of my basic income. We split the bills 50/50, no hassles at all! You’ll be glad to know we were the same age too. I guess there’s always exceptions.
@@user-fq7ii3ub4m seems to be the case in Australia where I've lived virtually my whole life. Any thin women become instant celebrities by default. In Asia there isnt enough obesity to create this dynamic. If you have anything worthwhile to share please do so. We should all be able to make comments based on the evidence that surrounds us.
You should read some evolutionary psychology. It's well documented that all over the world women "love" men who can provide them with resources.
See Thailand for what it is...I met a couple of Thai girls in Thailand (not the bar scene though), and I said this to them:" Look I know that you have many boyfriends who support you, this is the deal, I am pretty good in the sack, I am fun and I can be your emotional relief. Of course if we go to dinner I can pay and the next time you can pay for cinema or alike. I think that's a fair deal, right?"
This actually works, you put the cards on the table to start off with and strip things off telling her that you know what's up and that you're not a fool, they respect you for that.
Same thing happened to a friend of mine. She left her kid with her husband and ran away with another guy
Just try meeting a asian girl in sydney, we live in the most multicultural city ever. I have a beautiful thai girlfriend and she has been here for over 3 years and is a genuine good girl and has never once hit me up for money. We have a good relationship and she hates the stigma of thai women with money. She is gentle, caring and most the time she wants to pay everytime
Then she wants residential permit
Thanks for your honesty bro.
Money is a major driving force for millions...all over the world...male and female. Tell us something we don't know.
Same as Filipinas
My mate took his own life, he was with a woman from the philipines, she took him for every cent he had!
Sorry to hear this. How old was he and the woman?
100% true
I've been with a few Thai's and I've lived in Thailand for a year.
From my observations and experiences. The majority of thai women who seek foreigners, They are mostly driven by money or visas in their relationships.
Most thai women who aren't actively seeking foreigners and are happy dating thai men aren't really driven by money in their relationships.
The ones to beware of are the thai women who are really good at English.
If you want to increase your chances of a genuine Thai woman. Its a requirement to learn Thai because you will meet alot of down to earth Thai's that way.
Knowing just English in Thailand, is massively limiting your options to potential gold diggers.
I am Thai and would like to tell everyone here that your culture is very different from Thai people. We have been taught since our ancestors to be grateful to our parents and benefactors who raised us. But I see most farangs don't take care of their parents. Must live in loneliness, lack of caretakers, some in shelters Some husbands are sick, while the wife goes to the party with friends. But foreigners have advantages like respecting the rules and being punctual. This is what I like. End of the news.
What does that have to do with women being gold diggers and scamming people? Not related
Nong Sow, thank you for your words. You are correct. One of the biggest differences between Thai culture and most western cultures is how they treat family. Few westerners really understand the responsibility that all Thai have to their parents and family. The saying is 'when you marry a Thai girl you marry her family as well'. Its true. Every Thai/Western relationship that lasts, is when the Guy understands the woman's responsibility to her family. If he doesn't, then the relationship will not last.
@@chrishansen2100 you do not understand what's going on. Money is a factor for every person on the planet. If you don't take the time to understand their culture, don't date a Thai girl.
@@omegaman477It is the misfortune of that western man, but in fact it is not certain that a western man marry a Thai woman like marrying a whole family. I would argue that this is not true.
I always quote this when trying to explain the contrast between Western and Thai culture. In my culture (Australia) the most horrible crime that a person can commit is to kill your child. In Thailand the same horror is to kill a parent. Hungry Ghosts. It is sad that my culture discards its aged. We (the West) have a lot to learn from the Thai. A lot of what western culture does with their aged is truely horrible. Without a strong family, we are nothing.
You hit the nail on the head 100 percent true.
Lol, "Look at the ATM l got". You make a lot of sense to me. Some of them are seriously disappointed.
Thanks for the advice based on your experience. It happens all over the world no matter where you go looking for love in all the wrong places. Unfortunately most women consider money as their security blanket and it all depends on what the man wants in that relationship regardless if they're geriatric farts as you say, lol 😆.
1000% correct. Great Vid. Seen a lot of men lose their common sense and get fleeced
Exploit a poor person and expect a lesson .
I feel sorry for them girls and guys our there .
i agree all relationships in thailand ate predicated on money, the giving of your money to strangers and extended family is villan dressed as virture, but its all designed to part you with your money
Don't listen to someone who thinks he knows Thai woman.....this is complete BS
Disgusted how someone can be so wrongly opinionated.
I think you could generally remove the word “Thai”, when talking about this topic.
But yeah, I agree that it is probably a small minority of women who are just louder than the majority.
When I was deployed there in 1973 I have seen that too many times and made a vow that I will not get involved with anyone there
The problem, in all of these, is renting versus buying.
It's who is scaming who first. Why would you expect to be older and get a young woman to stay with you?
Any time marriage or go to your country, you should run.
It's hypergamy and it's everywhere.
Exactly! Name one place where money is not important. I sold my self to my job, and did horrific things for money.
It’s the same way in America. Where have you been?
I guess this is a great place to be a sugar daddy...some men have the money and just need a hot young woman 😆 its only bad if you want true love but most relationships in the world are BS any way. Just don't date a woman who takes too much.
Gotta weigh the pros and cons, do I want a 40+ year old using me or a 21 year old lol
I’ve been in Thailand for 2 years and this is why I don’t date Thai girls anymore. I could tell you a thousand stories. Last girl I dated here was English and was great.
What nationality is your gf now?
@@DoubtingThomas333 Thai. Finally met one I like 😆
@@LogicalSigma you're not living unless you're living like RICKY DRAMA LIVE YT channel
@@LogicalSigma 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ok ok,,,, thai girls are like an addiction
Thank you for your honesty
Interesting about the suicides of foreigners in Thailand, I read 2 jumpers a week in pattiya but would be interested to know because I don't think these stats would help tourism so probably underestimated.
True opinion that i had experience the exact
A fool and his money are easily parted, it’s easy to know if someone is after your money, when they ask for money is the first hint 😂
I met a Thai girl online, most of the 2 years, she would talk to me about random things. Sometimes, I would go a week, or 2 without replying or talking to her. She did not further message me, until i went a long time without replying. But, she has not really been interested in money. It is not true that all women are interested in money or immigration status. They simply are interested in lighter skin. She showed me some pictures she went out to buy some clothes and showed me a model.. on the Thai clothes, actors, models.. most of them have a white complexity in their skin. To act like its all about money, you must have been in hooker town or something because Thai women are different, just like in the states.
Good luck with your find
@@adventuressurvivalinthailand i appreciate that! I would like to say that its likely more likely to run into those problems in the Philippines.. but i did date a filipino for 5 years, she was in the states and was not really like that either.
Great true video us men be careful imo..
Yes i have experienced similar and the bottom line is, trust n honesty! Money speaks louder than love 😂
If you're looking for a good, Christian self-sacrificing, long suffering woman, a materialistic society isn't the place to look.
WAKE UP! It’s the same almost anywhere. I’m not rich but do okay, got all I need and then some but the only women in Hawaii that want a man, have daddy issues, need a place to live, need an ATM , are much older and are thinking of a caretaker, need a handyman, an activity partner………. And way down the list……… love, enjoy Thailand! They will use you so don’t feel bad when you use them!
I date a thai woman. In fact we live together. I invited her to get a house cleaner and I would be happy to pay for it. She actually came out and said it would be 500 baht one day a week. That was a flat out lie when at the time I was paying a guy 100 baht a day to do work around the house. Big difference between a cleaning lady and a skilled trade worker. I am 58 and she is 53 years old. They all try to take advantage of you
More than 50% is a majority, not most.
True, I am in Thailand and that's what is happening.
Very great most video is Asia most women are like even in china and yes l've there more than once
We have to remember women in the west are just the same! Money and status. At least in Thailand you get a good looking slim one.
We can give thousands of stories too about western women.
Great video thanks for the info
I like the honesty mate. It's true. Even if they don't ask for it that is all they talk about....which makes them quite boring.
Thanks for a clear opinion and observation, I concur.
How common is dowry scam in LAOS?
How much she asked?
@@sjffhfjcntgj9411 7k usd and money before we even meet
The men are after youth and the women are after security/money. A tit for a tat.
Solution: These man can go for a woman their own age and find true love with her.
Ah, at last, someone with the balls to tell the truth .Good on ya mate.