Been coming to Pattaya since 2018 and I have never expected anything more than short visits with the local ladies. I have my favorites/regulars but I never see them more than 2-3 days in a row. I understood the game since day 1 in this town. So many foreigners come here and try to create a long term relationship with a Thai including the ones who work in bars/FL. Maybe a genuine relationship with a Thai was possible 10-20 years ago before smartphones were used, but now it's nearly impossible. I'd argue the same thing also applies to relatively attractive ladies in the Philippines. I know a 22yo in the Philippines who just told me some foreigner she met is building her a house and she wants to know when I'll come visit her to have some fun haha. This is Southeast Asia!
Money is survival for her family, as their is no social security in Thailand, what would you do mr everything in Pattaya 😂. Your trying to make some money 🤑 💰 talking shit😂.
The words "This is Thailand" are like drops of acid on the soul. Not a reflection of Thailand but rather on the human condition in a place of gross inequities.
HaHa so true but i do not blame the girls its their job,i do smile though when guys on here say my gf this and my gf that...its not your gf guys wake up.
Great advice. I have been to Thailand many times and heard all these tales. I was going around with a bar girl during my 4 week stay once, she lead me to a gold shop, she chose a £300 ring, i refused to buy it. We got back to the bar, and she never spoke to me for a few hours. I got up out of my seat. said to myself i am not taking this shit, and just walked out the bar. Never seen her again.
Great stories as always! We tend to ignore that fact that western men and Thai women are just wired differently and have NOTHING in common. 99% of all these "Relationships" end it a train wreck. Have your fun for 2 weeks, delete your Line ID contacts on the way to the airport, and then repeat next trip... Saves the headaches!
Only been here for a few months. Been to Costa Rica, Panama, Dominican Republic etc. 54 years old. The thing that I find odd is this. The men here are about the same age. With , I assume , the same experience with women of all kinds back home and perhaps abroad . But a lot seem to completely lose that experience here. And I understand why. It’s paradise. And it’s a younger beautiful woman selling you a dream. But you have to know. It’s just that. A dream. Not sure why some guys just don’t get that. Nothing here is as it seems. Nothing is black and white. The whole thing is grey Have fun. Enjoy what Thailand has to offer. Don’t over complicate your life. If your hand goes into your pocket here you have to open your eyes and pull your head out of your ass and know why and for what. Every single time. We are pretty much just a walking ATM to these people. And that’s not a slight towards Thais. It’s just the economics of the situation we are both in.
Exactly right. I had a buddy tell me a short story once. He said "ask a Thai girl where a foreigner's money comes from. They will say "ATM"". That little pearl of wisdom is profound and true. Puts your value into a brutal perspective.
SW Costa Rica here. That's the thing: once you realize that, The Kingdom's Pleasure Princesses have no Power over you. But, until then hahahaha Buena suerte
Exactly the same long game in Latin America. The only difference is that latínas want to move out of their countries while Thai want you to stay. Also I find Thai women pamper you more than latinas
@@titi7776 Right. Latinas can't carry a Thai (not sure about rest of SE Asia) woman's bags when it come to taking care of a man. Although the Thai's are much better at the game.
It's possible but you'd need to have more Thai language ability and cultural awareness than a typical visitor to suss out the good ones and most of those are not going to be found near Pattaya or be interested in a random middle age farang.
I’ve just returned from Thailand three months ago and I’m still feeling the blues. Besides working, I don’t feel like going out (Toronto, Canada). It’s cold, grey, lifeless and expensive here. I’m just saving money for my next trip. I’ll return to Thailand just for the food alone!
I moved here from Toronto a few years. Not a single regret of having left the lifestyle and weather and cost of living there behind. People here are just more relaxed and overall nicer.
One solution a lot of guys have for the back home blues is to book your next trip before leaving. It's a positive psychological boost to get through until the next visit.
Funny thing about the weather, my Thai wife has been living with me in Melbourne since 2007 and she has become acclimatised to the cold weather whereas I hate it. I want to live in Thailand when I retire but she wants to stay in Melbourne.
Moved from Melbourne last year and much happier here. Cost of living, warm weather and chilled out people. Don't miss those dreary Melbourne days and stressed out people struggling to pay their mortgages.
Beautifully delivered priceless advice, that couldn’t happen to me..? Gents, the “Good girl” remark is the biggest and most dangerous red flag of all. Many Thai women, may even have bona fide business’s but still freelance on the side. If there is the slightest hint of dishonesty, or enquiries regarding property or investments at home, get rid. I have learned to be ruthless, one way or another you are paying. Accept that if you don’t show out she’s moving on. My old fella once said to me… “Son, Women are like second hand motors… There’s always another just around the corner.! In Pattaya, she’s likely to be no more than 25m away. Enjoy ..
i had a mate. married a thai lady. They were the same age. met in their 20's. she worked as a counter assistant in his local pharmacy. lived in phuket. after eight years and two sons. she ran off with a german fella because she thought he had lots of money. turns out he didn't, he was a 2 week millionaire bullshitter. My mate ended up buying his sons off his ex wife and moved to the UK. he did have them paternity tested to be sure, fortunately they were both his. I hear this story over and over and over again. Same game, just different players.
I appreciate the tour / visuals / etc. whilst narrating the video. I’ve watched other videos by others, and they just sit in front of the camera. Kudos to you for creating content that is more aesthetically appealing.
Don't exchange phone numbers Don't share social media links Don't take photos of/with them Don't send money Don't give extra money Don't say love stuff Don't show her pictures of your life Don't take her shopping Don't buy gold necklace Don't do anything until you've hardened up emotionally Do learn to say NO! Believe you me I made these mistakes.
Great video these are my favorite now that I live in Jomtien. I see the very thing you are talking about (the Long game) going on all around me. It is interesting to watch. Also helps to keep from falling into their traps.
@@stevekostakis2983 yeah ‘turn the screw’ slowly by saying things with money being the subject lol 😜. I told my gf from the outset , however deep we would maybe get , I’m not buying any house , land , buffalo or cow. I did help her by contributing to a shelter for said animals though 😅.. 🐄 🐃
Thanks for the stories, very educative, the more I go to thailand and listen to stories from expats the more I get to the conclusion that GIK is the way to go
Another great video! I am sooo glad that someone explained to me how Thai girls are and had me read Private Dancer for some more insight before my first trip. I live in Costa Rica and have quite a bit of experience with the p4p scene, so I am not shy or ignorant when dealing with the girls. All I can say is: It is better to be the Hustler than the Hustled. But, I can also see how so many guys with no real experience are totally washed away. Many never had a beautiful woman dote on them and obviously find it pleasurable. I know I do and none do it better that the Thai Pleasure Princesses. The Kingdom has forever ruined me... 5555 Phuck! Love your walks through the markets. Amazing how many pretty women are out during the day! Can you maybe show more prices as you wander? Keep up the great work!
Ask yourself how often do they take selfie photos of the two of you together and do they appear on their Facebook page and other social media, Line etc? Or is their Facebook page mystifyingly totally void of any photos showing her with Any other males?!
@Davidsplace19 Yes exactly! I’ve been that dumb faring too! For a time there just about every photo she put on Facebook was of her and the food from different restaurants I had taken her to - but I was never anywhere to be seen! Anyway glad you’ve found a genuine one who obviously doesn’t have anything to hide!
Yep, juggling multiple boyfriends can be problematic - I've even heard stories of girls seeing off one boyfriend at the airport on his way out, and then, while still at the airport, meeting up with the next boyfriend in the arrivals hall on his way in!
Around 9.04 mark who spotted the farang trying to give away money to the woman at the vegetable stand, thus perfectly illustrating how easy it is to trick these guys into playing the long game?
I met a super nice bar girl there and when I was saying good bye on the second visit, she started saying, "I miss you" in this special voice and I was like, "does this usually work on guys" she was like :(( you too smart. hahaha yep I am. She was very good at making me feel special though and I will see her again.... 🤣
Great Post as always Daz, good job the second lady didn't go down the holiday route before deciding on the Auzzie guy, she would have had stamps in her passport to show she had been to Italy...unless she was as smart as some i know and "lost" the said passport 555
Good stories and advice I like the "Thai Tales from a Hairdresser,,," Just because she works in a coffee shop, Pharmacy, 7-11...etc. does NOT necessarily mean NICE GIRL/. You are right - she could have as many as 4 or more guys in her long Game scams. Or she could be a Free Lancer by night...
Not a Thai girl, but a Filipina - I'd arranged an intimate few days away with her on the island of Boracay, but she cancelled at the last minute saying that her father had just died; I ended up going on my own. More recently she told me she's looking after her sick father - it's a miracle! Funny thing is she's neither a freelancer nor a bar girl; in all the years I've known her, I've never given her any money.
If you go with a "non bar girl" and think you are getting free sex, think again. Likely to be the most expensive option. Remember, Nothing is Free, especially in Thailand. Cynical maybe, but if you meet a girl outside the bar environment, fine- can be great, but in the back of your mind ask yourself what will this really cost me, and can I afford it.
I never keep contact with any girl after the next morning. I just have my fun for a night and thats it. If you keep in touch you will be in a sponsorship zone simple is that. We dont know their backgrounds we dont live there we are tourists. Have fun and say bye till next visit!
Haha 555 Being poor, still married legally, non-generous, and enjoying women 30+ years younger keeps me sane and untouchable for these scams....almost. During Covid "wasted " 100k baht more than I should have on a lovely Thai lady over a year or so.... Oh well, have many photos and videos to remember her by.... Have lived here 5 years so not the same as guys on holiday. Peace and Love everyone
Papa hab hemloid.....can come 2 welek?....😢😊.....btw, Gold Coast of Australia is about 70 km south of Brisbane.....not up north......😂 (unless you mean north of Sydney.....).
I dont understand why guys put themselves in situation like finding a partner in a gigantic brothel. A place all ods are against you. You can be Lucky im not saying its impossible. You can fall out of a 10 store Building and survive but why take the risk?
Everything Pattaya, you just described most women in the western world as well. No, it's not "that's Thailand guys", it more like "that's women in today's world guys", Lol. Most western women, especially if they're attractive, have high body counts but play the good girl if they set their sights on a wealthy guy. I know women who say they have to check out a guys finances and assets before they they waste time on them, I live in Canada. In todays world, you'll be hard pressed to find genuine so-called good girls, and all women seek out rich guys. Welcome to planet earth.
I tell the girls "i know the score" and after that they always relax and everything becomes alot more fun :) I allow them to talk to their sponsors at night, it`s super fun to listen to and they usually don´t try to over charge either! One girl had to punch me one night because i could not hold my laugh back. Shut up she whispered. After the phone call we laughed together and did the dance :D
To be fair, i understand girls in Thailand who play the long game and have a few guys on the hoook. Their target is to secure income and to support their families. But ofcourse once it is getting serious with one guy, the others have to be and i believe normally will be dropped. Same like guys who "try out" a few girlfriends until they commit. I think not only a Thai topic, but a topic for everywhere on the world.
Thanks for this. Currently approaching 3rd month of being long gamed. A few warning signs. Video really highlighted some dangers. Wish me luck because I am going to need it.
It is a mistake to make a girl from Pattaya your friend. Or nearby areas. The best and safest thing is to go north to one of the small towns or villages and search until you find what you want, and to be a very ordinary person who does not show wealth or money. If she continues like this and she accepts you, this is evidence that she is a good girl, and you should continue with her in any city you want. There must be a lot. Of time and seriousness..
Brilliant video Daz as I mentioned I’m in Pattaya on holiday and seeing this game or better yet scam, play out all around me here.I just shake my head and say nothing but I know what’s coming their way. It’s a shame really.
Now I've never been to Thailand or any where else for that matter, but one thing i must recommend is for the lads is get the the snip, it doesn't affect your Manhood , it makes you more confidant that you don't get anyone up the stick
Some good advice there, I'm just back from Pattaya and keeping in touch with a freelancer whom i spent 5 days with, let's see if she's playing the 'Long game'.
The real question is whether the game and the freelancing both end when becoming a couple (married or not) begins. Finding the answer could be risky and expensive. Not finding the answer is advisable but might be a missed opportunity if you actually want to remove her from Pattaya and change both of your lives a lot.
I’ve been living in Pattaya for over a year now, and I’ve never been stupid enough to let any of these women get inside my head….though many have tried. In fact I’m sick of the girlfriends of my acquaintances constantly trying to act as matchmakers, no doubt for the very reasons you describe. In their eyes, that is your only purpose here…..money. If you need a root that badly, pay for play and walk away. There are many other pursuits to keep one occupied in Pattaya beyond pussy.
So very true. You're just an ATM and if you're not spitting out money then you're "broken" to them. I feel bad for the men who get love-scammed but at some point we need to wise up and realize we're all being played. Have fun and move on to the next one.
We need to look at this differently and harness this amazing skill these ladies have in keeping so many balls in the air at the same time. They would make great Project Managers!! From what I’ve seen, some of these really cold-hearted calculating girls have enormous focus and drive to get the job done. Imagine harassing this for good instead of evil? 😅
What about a girl you have never met (Phillipines) that you talk to on whatsapp video over a long period who says she loves you even though you've never met? I've had this happen to me
Very interesting videoclip - Reality and Truth 100% - Thau Girls especially in Pattaya are far better actors than those you see in Hollywood Movies .... Everything you said is everyday stories of relationships and friendships in Pattaya ... its All about the Money. And no matter how much stories you hear their first priorities are Money and their Family ... You`d be lucky to come Third in her priorities - Dont fall for these traps guys - Just visit Pattaya yearly or twice yearly and have lots of fun and thats it - Obey the 3 day rule and if it was in my opinion Id say 3 days is already a lot - 1 day and change girl ... thats how you should enjoy and stay away from annoying drama and hassle in Thailand - Keep these videos coming they do teach a lot especially to first time visitors to Pattaya - Easy naive prey for Pattaya Girls
Been there... completely hooked from the love-bombing, visits to Udon & all that. The money pitch came six months in, about the car she had bought for her parents while married living in Netherlands being repo'd after she returned to Thailand, and she was taken to court for the balance of the debt, 40k baht. I went into shock over this unbelievable RFM, never thought of asking for documentation, and ditched her immediately. First girl I met in Nana Plaza that night could have been her twin.
My Thai wife from Bangkok has been here in Massachusetts with me since 2003. She has plenty of Thai friends and the Wat Nawamintararachutis temple near by that she visits regularly. She also has plenty of traditional Thai food ingredients available from local Asian Markets to cook her spicy meals with😊. What ingredients she can't find here she has shipped here, or her and her Thai friends arrange to be transported when visiting Thailand. Today it's -7c, she and her many close friends are doing just fine. Although in the winter months, proper clothing, gloves, winter boots, etc, and a remote to per-warm vehicle is an absolute necessity for her😅 She does enjoy seeing the snow and watching snow storms from inside. The South Shore area of Massachusetts has a great Thai community. Her and I's long game has lasted 23 years now, with having 2 children together❤ She parties with all her Thai girls friends regularly, and they all seem very happy here in this cold weather state of Massachusetts USA.
Exactly, you can get anything here in the States ... and a pair of long silk underwear makes going outside almost pleasurable, aside from the fact that I've talked to a number of Thai who DON'T like the excessive heat of Thailand.
used to have a buriram female friend (hot 24 year old gogo dancer pre-obesity era) that had multiple sponsors and used to come to my place to hang out and at the time i assumed she simply liked me as no money involved. there were times she got a long distance phone call and i went to another room and closed the door. never forget the time she asked me which one of two guys she should marry. she showed me photos of their houses and cars and i asked her which one does she have the deepest feeling for but back to cars and houses as if it were a pure business decision. she went to USA but time flies and a couple of years later she left the US and was back at a bar in bangkok.
PS; after living in thailand many years (girl stuff gets old and boring) the best thing about visiting pattaya is all the indian restaurants and food variety, western as well.
All my friends told me "just find a regular girl who works as a nurse or in a bank or at the mall etc." In my experience, if they're remotely beautiful enough to have justified you moving half way around the planet to pursue, they have worked the sex industry in the past, currently work in the sex industry, or will at some point in the near future begin working in the sex industry. If she's beautiful there's no getting around it.
Great advice you can never give enough of Daz!👍. Wherever I may travel I always recite this mantra just before arrival. "Men fall in love. Women are in business"🤑. If I end up on the Thai lady's list, what happens if I lose my turn?🤔🤣🤣🤣
I had a similar story in Poland (I am Polish living in the UK) she had 2 other "boyfriends", luckily she didn't choose me :) and she wasn't a freelancer (it's just how women do it) ;)
Been coming to Pattaya since 2018 and I have never expected anything more than short visits with the local ladies. I have my favorites/regulars but I never see them more than 2-3 days in a row. I understood the game since day 1 in this town. So many foreigners come here and try to create a long term relationship with a Thai including the ones who work in bars/FL. Maybe a genuine relationship with a Thai was possible 10-20 years ago before smartphones were used, but now it's nearly impossible. I'd argue the same thing also applies to relatively attractive ladies in the Philippines. I know a 22yo in the Philippines who just told me some foreigner she met is building her a house and she wants to know when I'll come visit her to have some fun haha. This is Southeast Asia!
I think it is, but with an older girl, well woman, and not from places like pattaya or pukhet...
Possible with over 30s/ past sell by date
Money is survival for her family, as their is no social security in Thailand, what would you do mr everything in Pattaya 😂. Your trying to make some money 🤑 💰 talking shit😂.
@@julianshalders6047
The can join the High Mile Flying Club!!!
How the F is that anybody's problem???
Let them lay in their bed!!!
I love it when you say "This is Thailand" at the end of your stories! 😂 Keep up the great work!
The words "This is Thailand" are like drops of acid on the soul. Not a reflection of Thailand but rather on the human condition in a place of gross inequities.
You probably mean "inequalities".@@roberthuff3122
This dude is great. Always love his educational input.
Not only do they play the long game they can play the several long games simultaneously along with the medium and short game.
HaHa so true but i do not blame the girls its their job,i do smile though when guys on here say my gf this and my gf that...its not your gf guys wake up.
@@Shaun7638 We don't blame the girls because we've been raised to put women on pedestals, even promiscuous con artists.
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@@Shaun7638🤣The Land of Simps
@@pitmasterc5324 100%.....
Great advice. I have been to Thailand many times and heard all these tales. I was going around with a bar girl during my 4 week stay once, she lead me to a gold shop, she chose a £300 ring, i refused to buy it. We got back to the bar, and she never spoke to me for a few hours. I got up out of my seat. said to myself i am not taking this shit, and just walked out the bar. Never seen her again.
£300 is insane but anything bought in that shop is going to be returned later so it's just another surcharge for fake affection.
@CAHSR2020 That's right. Immediately exchanged for cash to buy whiskey for a Tom or Thai guys who all the Thai girls "dislike".
smart man, not to buy the ring for 300Pounds .
Dodging bullets in Pattaya is a game to play or walk into sucker punches trying to find love.
Well done. Buy yourself something and tell her, you have to earn this after 6 months
Great stories as always!
We tend to ignore that fact that western men and Thai women are just wired differently and have NOTHING in common. 99% of all these "Relationships" end it a train wreck. Have your fun for 2 weeks, delete your Line ID contacts on the way to the airport, and then repeat next trip... Saves the headaches!
Can you imagine the conversation between these so called couples.
Like i Did before,delete all Line contacts.best way...
@@DarkoFitCoach I agree!
Yes thats what i always do. No contact once i am on cab back to the airport.
Does my being married to my Thai wife 10 years and living in Australia for 7 years count?
Only been here for a few months. Been to Costa Rica, Panama, Dominican Republic etc. 54 years old. The thing that I find odd is this. The men here are about the same age. With , I assume , the same experience with women of all kinds back home and perhaps abroad . But a lot seem to completely lose that experience here. And I understand why. It’s paradise. And it’s a younger beautiful woman selling you a dream. But you have to know. It’s just that. A dream. Not sure why some guys just don’t get that. Nothing here is as it seems. Nothing is black and white. The whole thing is grey
Have fun. Enjoy what Thailand has to offer. Don’t over complicate your life. If your hand goes into your pocket here you have to open your eyes and pull your head out of your ass and know why and for what. Every single time. We are pretty much just a walking ATM to these people. And that’s not a slight towards Thais. It’s just the economics of the situation we are both in.
Exactly right. I had a buddy tell me a short story once. He said "ask a Thai girl where a foreigner's money comes from. They will say "ATM"". That little pearl of wisdom is profound and true. Puts your value into a brutal perspective.
SW Costa Rica here. That's the thing: once you realize that, The Kingdom's Pleasure Princesses have no Power over you. But, until then hahahaha Buena suerte
Exactly the same long game in Latin America. The only difference is that latínas want to move out of their countries while Thai want you to stay. Also I find Thai women pamper you more than latinas
@@titi7776 Right. Latinas can't carry a Thai (not sure about rest of SE Asia) woman's bags when it come to taking care of a man. Although the Thai's are much better at the game.
Finally … the voice of reason 👍
Old German saying: "If you just want a schnitzel, you don't have to buy the whole pig."
i love these videos playing the long game. it seems finding a good thai woman is near on impossible. keep up the good work.
It's possible but you'd need to have more Thai language ability and cultural awareness than a typical visitor to suss out the good ones and most of those are not going to be found near Pattaya or be interested in a random middle age farang.
I’ve just returned from Thailand three months ago and I’m still feeling the blues. Besides working, I don’t feel like going out (Toronto, Canada). It’s cold, grey, lifeless and expensive here. I’m just saving money for my next trip. I’ll return to Thailand just for the food alone!
I moved here from Toronto a few years. Not a single regret of having left the lifestyle and weather and cost of living there behind. People here are just more relaxed and overall nicer.
Thai food, (real) Thai massage, and day life pricing are the big draws for me. The women and nightlife are a distant 4th at best.
@steveholmshaw8702 😂 I’m not on suicide watch but depression, yes.
One solution a lot of guys have for the back home blues is to book your next trip before leaving. It's a positive psychological boost to get through until the next visit.
i feel you all guys.. back in switzerland, cold, grey, empty people, no love no heat.... and its winter... damn
Funny thing about the weather, my Thai wife has been living with me in Melbourne since 2007 and she has become acclimatised to the cold weather whereas I hate it. I want to live in Thailand when I retire but she wants to stay in Melbourne.
Moved from Melbourne last year and much happier here. Cost of living, warm weather and chilled out people. Don't miss those dreary Melbourne days and stressed out people struggling to pay their mortgages.
Beautifully delivered priceless advice, that couldn’t happen to me..? Gents, the “Good girl” remark is the biggest and most dangerous red flag of all. Many Thai women, may even have bona fide business’s but still freelance on the side. If there is the slightest hint of dishonesty, or enquiries regarding property or investments at home, get rid. I have learned to be ruthless, one way or another you are paying. Accept that if you don’t show out she’s moving on. My old fella once said to me… “Son, Women are like second hand motors… There’s always another just around the corner.!
In Pattaya, she’s likely to be no more than 25m away. Enjoy ..
i had a mate. married a thai lady. They were the same age. met in their 20's. she worked as a counter assistant in his local pharmacy. lived in phuket. after eight years and two sons. she ran off with a german fella because she thought he had lots of money. turns out he didn't, he was a 2 week millionaire bullshitter. My mate ended up buying his sons off his ex wife and moved to the UK. he did have them paternity tested to be sure, fortunately they were both his. I hear this story over and over and over again. Same game, just different players.
How is it different from a western women who cheats ? The only difference is that western lady doesn't cheat for money and even that is not guaranteed
Who wants to buy sons, thats a scam in itself!
I appreciate the tour / visuals / etc. whilst narrating the video. I’ve watched other videos by others, and they just sit in front of the camera. Kudos to you for creating content that is more aesthetically appealing.
Even though most of us have heard this many times before, it is always great with a harsch reminder narrated by your gently voice 👍
This is 14k GOLD. Awesome video saving to the archives. I only wish I could give this video more than 1 thumb up
Wow, thanks!
Short game = wallet empty that week. Long game = bank account empty that year
I always love these stories! Wisdom and entertainment ar the same time. Thank you, Daz, for all you do!
Don't exchange phone numbers
Don't share social media links
Don't take photos of/with them
Don't send money
Don't give extra money
Don't say love stuff
Don't show her pictures of your life
Don't take her shopping
Don't buy gold necklace
Don't do anything until you've hardened up emotionally
Do learn to say NO!
Believe you me I made these mistakes.
@@Dutchy695 , What about buying a burner phone to use in Thailand?
@@sobaze Throw away Sim cards but yeah a cheap phone to take out so if lost etc no private info lost or stolen.
Daz you’re a legend. Best Pattaya channel on RUclips
Thank you so much
I think the "long game" would apply to pretty much every woman, regardless of the country, wouldn't you think? 😉
There is an easy workaround: get a rich girl, then you are the one playing the long game
I’m not 25 and jacked unfortunately
If you look at K-pop stars and the men in host clubs, you will see that Asian girls don't really go for muscular guys. Slim + abs, and they are happy.
I was thinking exactly that especially in big cities ie mine being London
Guys seek love and women seek lifestyle
"What? Not speak English in Italy?" 😂
That's a good one 👍🏻
The Italian got “lucky” and dodged a bullet. 😂
Yeah made me laugh too
you have one of the most amazing voices love listening to your videos , ps and l am learning a lot before l head over to Thailand
Thank you so much
Daz,
You should write a book with your stories in, it would be a best seller.
Great vlog as usual 👍👍👍👍
Great video these are my favorite now that I live in Jomtien. I see the very thing you are talking about (the Long game) going on all around me. It is interesting to watch. Also helps to keep from falling into their traps.
these little stories are the best of your work. i hate the boring ones about condo or bar openings. lol
Great video and great comments. I love your channel, Daz!
Thank you so much
Another informative video about the long game....Great entertainment about the land of smiles and the beautiful girls there
Your comments are 100% correct,well written and to the point.Guys are deluded ,the girls are working its a job nothing more.
Easier to blame the victims than admit women can be manipulative con artists. With views like this why leave home?
@@CAHSR2020 The men are not victims,a lot of comments are from people who have never been to Thailand or anywhere near.
Thank you! Great vid! Now i understand... little sad...
‘Normal ‘ non working girls can play the long game too with subtlety 😅😊
Very true. Well said, but I have experienced this first hand.
@@stevekostakis2983 yeah ‘turn the screw’ slowly by saying things with money being the subject lol 😜. I told my gf from the outset , however deep we would maybe get , I’m not buying any house , land , buffalo or cow. I did help her by contributing to a shelter for said animals though 😅.. 🐄 🐃
Thanks for the stories, very educative, the more I go to thailand and listen to stories from expats the more I get to the conclusion that GIK is the way to go
Another great video!
I am sooo glad that someone explained to me how Thai girls are and had me read Private Dancer for some more insight before my first trip. I live in Costa Rica and have quite a bit of experience with the p4p scene, so I am not shy or ignorant when dealing with the girls. All I can say is: It is better to be the Hustler than the Hustled. But, I can also see how so many guys with no real experience are totally washed away. Many never had a beautiful woman dote on them and obviously find it pleasurable. I know I do and none do it better that the Thai Pleasure Princesses. The Kingdom has forever ruined me... 5555 Phuck!
Love your walks through the markets. Amazing how many pretty women are out during the day! Can you maybe show more prices as you wander? Keep up the great work!
Your stories are always very entertaining😊
😂 Another great story sharing time!! Love it!
Ask yourself how often do they take selfie photos of the two of you together and do they appear on their Facebook page and other social media, Line etc? Or is their Facebook page mystifyingly totally void of any photos showing her with Any other males?!
@Davidsplace19 Yes exactly! I’ve been that dumb faring too! For a time there just about every photo she put on Facebook was of her and the food from different restaurants I had taken her to - but I was never anywhere to be seen! Anyway glad you’ve found a genuine one who obviously doesn’t have anything to hide!
I'm on all my girls photos I say just you looks better. Maybe she needs glasses.😂
Stop paying them see what happens
Yep, juggling multiple boyfriends can be problematic - I've even heard stories of girls seeing off one boyfriend at the airport on his way out, and then, while still at the airport, meeting up with the next boyfriend in the arrivals hall on his way in!
please keep making more videos like this! i love it
Great stories and all very well narrated Daz....thank you so much!
Exactly, stories🤷🏼♂️
Thank you so much
A voice made for story telling ....always enjoy your channel
Thank you kindly
Around 9.04 mark who spotted the farang trying to give away money to the woman at the vegetable stand, thus perfectly illustrating how easy it is to trick these guys into playing the long game?
I met a super nice bar girl there and when I was saying good bye on the second visit, she started saying, "I miss you" in this special voice and I was like, "does this usually work on guys" she was like :(( you too smart. hahaha yep I am. She was very good at making me feel special though and I will see her again.... 🤣
Some good inside imformation there Daz.Thanks.
Keep up the good work sir. Love from Greece
Thank you very much!
Oh yes. "Where you stay" 1st or second question. Lol
Great Post as always Daz, good job the second lady didn't go down the holiday route before deciding on the Auzzie guy, she would have had stamps in her passport to show she had been to Italy...unless she was as smart as some i know and "lost" the said passport 555
These are the facts of life in Thailand. Great stories
UK Simps tend to fall for these scams 😲
Correct.have u seen our woman in UK .u should understand
Good stories and advice I like the "Thai Tales from a Hairdresser,,,"
Just because she works in a coffee shop, Pharmacy, 7-11...etc. does NOT necessarily mean NICE GIRL/. You are right - she could have as many as 4 or more guys in her long Game scams. Or she could be a Free Lancer by night...
100% and who can blame the girls for what they have to do.
@@Shaun7638 Why are you so adamant that nobody blame con artists for scamming people?
@@CAHSR2020 I am not at all,only when guys say all the girls are scamming them..
As usual you always give helpful advices.
What street is this market on?
The bottom of Soi Buakhao
Best to stick to the 3 day rule lol. Great stories thanks for sharing 👍
Gracias señor Daz!
Not a Thai girl, but a Filipina - I'd arranged an intimate few days away with her on the island of Boracay, but she cancelled at the last minute saying that her father had just died; I ended up going on my own. More recently she told me she's looking after her sick father - it's a miracle! Funny thing is she's neither a freelancer nor a bar girl; in all the years I've known her, I've never given her any money.
Thank god her father is ok!
That's normal love is lot enough if you don't support her
@@titi7776 I disagree - lying shouldn't be part of the mix whether I'm supporting her or not.
Love theses stories Daz really make my day 😅👍
Glad you enjoyed
If you go with a "non bar girl" and think you are getting free sex, think again. Likely to be the most expensive option. Remember, Nothing is Free, especially in Thailand.
Cynical maybe, but if you meet a girl outside the bar environment, fine- can be great, but in the back of your mind ask yourself what will this really cost me, and can I afford it.
I never keep contact with any girl after the next morning. I just have my fun for a night and thats it. If you keep in touch you will be in a sponsorship zone simple is that. We dont know their backgrounds we dont live there we are tourists. Have fun and say bye till next visit!
"They don't speak English in Italy?" Before you think that sort of naivete is unusual, I had a girl ask me if the USA had a king. No joke.
I've had Americans (US) ask me what language do they speak in Australia!
That's a normal question- many of these girls are not very well educated.
@@georgeg2702 I've had an American ask me how long did it take to drive from Australia to England. (I'm not joking).🙂
Most americans would not even be able to find thailand on a globe of the world either
Tanks for sharing
Haha 555 Being poor, still married legally, non-generous, and enjoying women 30+ years younger keeps me sane and untouchable for these scams....almost. During Covid "wasted " 100k baht more than I should have on a lovely Thai lady over a year or so.... Oh well, have many photos and videos to remember her by.... Have lived here 5 years so not the same as guys on holiday. Peace and Love everyone
Do you do request videos on patreon?
No, once you join, you just watch whatever you want like on RUclips
Papa hab hemloid.....can come 2 welek?....😢😊.....btw, Gold Coast of Australia is about 70 km south of Brisbane.....not up north......😂 (unless you mean north of Sydney.....).
Great insight and analysis.🙏👌
High degree of strategic thinking. Thanks.
what is the closest street off of Soi Buakhao from that market? I'd like to try it out while in the area
South Pattaya Road
Ah! Thanks, I never walked all the way down but will do so today. @@everythingPattaya
I dont understand why guys put themselves in situation like finding a partner in a gigantic brothel. A place all ods are against you. You can be Lucky im not saying its impossible. You can fall out of a 10 store Building and survive but why take the risk?
If you mean Pattaya I agree. Men who learn the language, live outside tourist areas, and date similar age women have better odds.
Everything Pattaya, you just described most women in the western world as well. No, it's not "that's Thailand guys", it more like "that's women in today's world guys", Lol. Most western women, especially if they're attractive, have high body counts but play the good girl if they set their sights on a wealthy guy. I know women who say they have to check out a guys finances and assets before they they waste time on them, I live in Canada. In todays world, you'll be hard pressed to find genuine so-called good girls, and all women seek out rich guys. Welcome to planet earth.
Is this market near central pattaya rd or south pattya rd?
South Pattaya end of Soi Buakhao
You described it perfectly !!!!!
I tell the girls "i know the score" and after that they always relax and everything becomes alot more fun :) I allow them to talk to their sponsors at night, it`s super fun to listen to and they usually don´t try to over charge either! One girl had to punch me one night because i could not hold my laugh back. Shut up she whispered. After the phone call we laughed together and did the dance :D
To be fair, i understand girls in Thailand who play the long game and have a few guys on the hoook. Their target is to secure income and to support their families. But ofcourse once it is getting serious with one guy, the others have to be and i believe normally will be dropped. Same like guys who "try out" a few girlfriends until they commit. I think not only a Thai topic, but a topic for everywhere on the world.
I do not blame the girls having many customers is good for a healthy bank balance.
@@Shaun7638 We know you never blame the girls. You repeat it endlessly like you're auditioning for white knight status.
@@CAHSR2020 Far from it believe me..but we only hear the guys complaining they have been swindled and never hear the girls side of the story .
Thanks for this. Currently approaching 3rd month of being long gamed. A few warning signs. Video really highlighted some dangers. Wish me luck because I am going to need it.
You have a few red flags already 😂 are you stupid? 😂 Leave and move on 😂
Thanks Daz!
Haha…I play the game of never showing my hand in $ issues. But I always keep them guessing by dressing well and talking sweet.
It is a mistake to make a girl from Pattaya your friend. Or nearby areas. The best and safest thing is to go north to one of the small towns or villages and search until you find what you want, and to be a very ordinary person who does not show wealth or money. If she continues like this and she accepts you, this is evidence that she is a good girl, and you should continue with her in any city you want. There must be a lot. Of time and seriousness..
Mate I'd love to send you a story but I cant access your email address details. Keeps freezing
everything pattaya at gmail
Brilliant video Daz as I mentioned I’m in Pattaya on holiday and seeing this game or better yet scam, play out all around me here.I just shake my head and say nothing but I know what’s coming their way. It’s a shame really.
... nice stories.
The last story about Italy is so funny! 😂
Now I've never been to Thailand or any where else for that matter, but one thing i must recommend is for the lads is get the the snip, it doesn't affect your Manhood , it makes you more confidant that you don't get anyone up the stick
Great advice, have unprotected sex with a pattaya bar girl 😂 that girl's privates see more traffic than Heathrow
Name of the market?
Soi Buakhao lower Mkt
Some good advice there, I'm just back from Pattaya and keeping in touch with a freelancer whom i spent 5 days with, let's see if she's playing the 'Long game'.
The real question is whether the game and the freelancing both end when becoming a couple (married or not) begins. Finding the answer could be risky and expensive. Not finding the answer is advisable but might be a missed opportunity if you actually want to remove her from Pattaya and change both of your lives a lot.
I’ve been living in Pattaya for over a year now, and I’ve never been stupid enough to let any of these women get inside my head….though many have tried. In fact I’m sick of the girlfriends of my acquaintances constantly trying to act as matchmakers, no doubt for the very reasons you describe. In their eyes, that is your only purpose here…..money. If you need a root that badly, pay for play and walk away. There are many other pursuits to keep one occupied in Pattaya beyond pussy.
So very true. You're just an ATM and if you're not spitting out money then you're "broken" to them. I feel bad for the men who get love-scammed but at some point we need to wise up and realize we're all being played. Have fun and move on to the next one.
We need to look at this differently and harness this amazing skill these ladies have in keeping so many balls in the air at the same time. They would make great Project Managers!! From what I’ve seen, some of these really cold-hearted calculating girls have enormous focus and drive to get the job done. Imagine harassing this for good instead of evil? 😅
Do you mean harnessing rather than harrassing?
@@RichardBates-wd3if ?? Mate, kinda confused here. Where did I use the word “harassing”??
@@dmann7004 last sentence
@@dmann7004 in your last sentence
What about a girl you have never met (Phillipines) that you talk to on whatsapp video over a long period who says she loves you even though you've never met? I've had this happen to me
Playing the Long Game
Recommended reading.......'Private dancer'..by Stephen Leather....should be standard for any male wanting a relationship in Asia...You've been warned.
Very interesting videoclip - Reality and Truth 100% - Thau Girls especially in Pattaya are far better actors than those you see in Hollywood Movies .... Everything you said is everyday stories of relationships and friendships in Pattaya ... its All about the Money. And no matter how much stories you hear their first priorities are Money and their Family ... You`d be lucky to come Third in her priorities - Dont fall for these traps guys - Just visit Pattaya yearly or twice yearly and have lots of fun and thats it - Obey the 3 day rule and if it was in my opinion Id say 3 days is already a lot - 1 day and change girl ... thats how you should enjoy and stay away from annoying drama and hassle in Thailand - Keep these videos coming they do teach a lot especially to first time visitors to Pattaya - Easy naive prey for Pattaya Girls
Been there... completely hooked from the love-bombing, visits to Udon & all that. The money pitch came six months in, about the car she had bought for her parents while married living in Netherlands being repo'd after she returned to Thailand, and she was taken to court for the balance of the debt, 40k baht. I went into shock over this unbelievable RFM, never thought of asking for documentation, and ditched her immediately. First girl I met in Nana Plaza that night could have been her twin.
I love the part of the relationship where the Thai girl rains love on you.
Fun.
nice format walk and talk with a story , like a stroll with a mate , take iit easy
Glad you enjoyed it
Live on the Gold Coast, currently we are having daytime temps @ 30 - 35 degrees. Thai girls would love it here.
My Thai wife from Bangkok has been here in Massachusetts with me since 2003. She has plenty of Thai friends and the Wat Nawamintararachutis temple near by that she visits regularly. She also has plenty of traditional Thai food ingredients available from local Asian Markets to cook her spicy meals with😊. What ingredients she can't find here she has shipped here, or her and her Thai friends arrange to be transported when visiting Thailand. Today it's -7c, she and her many close friends are doing just fine. Although in the winter months, proper clothing, gloves, winter boots, etc, and a remote to per-warm vehicle is an absolute necessity for her😅 She does enjoy seeing the snow and watching snow storms from inside. The South Shore area of Massachusetts has a great Thai community. Her and I's long game has lasted 23 years now, with having 2 children together❤ She parties with all her Thai girls friends regularly, and they all seem very happy here in this cold weather state of Massachusetts USA.
Exactly, you can get anything here in the States ... and a pair of long silk underwear makes going outside almost pleasurable, aside from the fact that I've talked to a number of Thai who DON'T like the excessive heat of Thailand.
used to have a buriram female friend (hot 24 year old gogo dancer pre-obesity era) that had multiple sponsors and used to come to my place to hang out and at the time i assumed she simply liked me as no money involved. there were times she got a long distance phone call and i went to another room and closed the door. never forget the time she asked me which one of two guys she should marry. she showed me photos of their houses and cars and i asked her which one does she have the deepest feeling for but back to cars and houses as if it were a pure business decision. she went to USA but time flies and a couple of years later she left the US and was back at a bar in bangkok.
PS; after living in thailand many years (girl stuff gets old and boring) the best thing about visiting pattaya is all the indian restaurants and food variety, western as well.
All my friends told me "just find a regular girl who works as a nurse or in a bank or at the mall etc." In my experience, if they're remotely beautiful enough to have justified you moving half way around the planet to pursue, they have worked the sex industry in the past, currently work in the sex industry, or will at some point in the near future begin working in the sex industry. If she's beautiful there's no getting around it.
Absolutly truth....
Great advice you can never give enough of Daz!👍. Wherever I may travel I always recite this mantra just before arrival. "Men fall in love. Women are in business"🤑. If I end up on the Thai lady's list, what happens if I lose my turn?🤔🤣🤣🤣
Goal of women worldwide
Many times when i hear your stories Daz , I have to cringe ! Pretty much all you say is true , sadly as you know "Love is blind "
It definately is not love.
Daz, you on your way to 100k Subs, before the end of 2024
Hope so
First story is a great story. "Forewarned is forearmed."
Yr the best Daz thais must laugh at farang sometimes😂😂😂😂❤🎉
I had a similar story in Poland (I am Polish living in the UK) she had 2 other "boyfriends", luckily she didn't choose me :) and she wasn't a freelancer (it's just how women do it) ;)