How does a Thai Girl play the Long Game ? + a STORY

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @upperlowerclass
    @upperlowerclass 11 месяцев назад +67

    Been coming to Pattaya since 2018 and I have never expected anything more than short visits with the local ladies. I have my favorites/regulars but I never see them more than 2-3 days in a row. I understood the game since day 1 in this town. So many foreigners come here and try to create a long term relationship with a Thai including the ones who work in bars/FL. Maybe a genuine relationship with a Thai was possible 10-20 years ago before smartphones were used, but now it's nearly impossible. I'd argue the same thing also applies to relatively attractive ladies in the Philippines. I know a 22yo in the Philippines who just told me some foreigner she met is building her a house and she wants to know when I'll come visit her to have some fun haha. This is Southeast Asia!

    • @koolklem7889
      @koolklem7889 11 месяцев назад +4

      I think it is, but with an older girl, well woman, and not from places like pattaya or pukhet...

    • @mcb00m
      @mcb00m 11 месяцев назад +2

      Possible with over 30s/ past sell by date

    • @julianshalders6047
      @julianshalders6047 11 месяцев назад +1

      Money is survival for her family, as their is no social security in Thailand, what would you do mr everything in Pattaya 😂. Your trying to make some money 🤑 💰 talking shit😂.

    • @VENEMPASTOR
      @VENEMPASTOR 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@julianshalders6047
      The can join the High Mile Flying Club!!!
      How the F is that anybody's problem???
      Let them lay in their bed!!!

  • @Pattaya-TheDreamCity
    @Pattaya-TheDreamCity 11 месяцев назад +46

    I love it when you say "This is Thailand" at the end of your stories! 😂 Keep up the great work!

    • @roberthuff3122
      @roberthuff3122 11 месяцев назад +2

      The words "This is Thailand" are like drops of acid on the soul. Not a reflection of Thailand but rather on the human condition in a place of gross inequities.

    • @eliotargy1
      @eliotargy1 10 месяцев назад

      You probably mean "inequalities".@@roberthuff3122

    • @eliotargy1
      @eliotargy1 10 месяцев назад +2

      This dude is great. Always love his educational input.

  • @markadler8968
    @markadler8968 11 месяцев назад +91

    Not only do they play the long game they can play the several long games simultaneously along with the medium and short game.

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +23

      HaHa so true but i do not blame the girls its their job,i do smile though when guys on here say my gf this and my gf that...its not your gf guys wake up.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад

      @@Shaun7638 We don't blame the girls because we've been raised to put women on pedestals, even promiscuous con artists.

    • @mcb00m
      @mcb00m 11 месяцев назад

      ☝🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @pitmasterc5324
      @pitmasterc5324 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Shaun7638🤣The Land of Simps

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад

      @@pitmasterc5324 100%.....

  • @stevemcdougal9220
    @stevemcdougal9220 11 месяцев назад +56

    Great advice. I have been to Thailand many times and heard all these tales. I was going around with a bar girl during my 4 week stay once, she lead me to a gold shop, she chose a £300 ring, i refused to buy it. We got back to the bar, and she never spoke to me for a few hours. I got up out of my seat. said to myself i am not taking this shit, and just walked out the bar. Never seen her again.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +13

      £300 is insane but anything bought in that shop is going to be returned later so it's just another surcharge for fake affection.

    • @phonetica
      @phonetica 11 месяцев назад +5

      ​@CAHSR2020 That's right. Immediately exchanged for cash to buy whiskey for a Tom or Thai guys who all the Thai girls "dislike".

    • @ralfm2342
      @ralfm2342 11 месяцев назад +4

      smart man, not to buy the ring for 300Pounds .

    • @Dutchy695
      @Dutchy695 11 месяцев назад +4

      Dodging bullets in Pattaya is a game to play or walk into sucker punches trying to find love.

    • @mrmo4059
      @mrmo4059 11 месяцев назад

      Well done. Buy yourself something and tell her, you have to earn this after 6 months

  • @The303panthers
    @The303panthers 11 месяцев назад +66

    Great stories as always!
    We tend to ignore that fact that western men and Thai women are just wired differently and have NOTHING in common. 99% of all these "Relationships" end it a train wreck. Have your fun for 2 weeks, delete your Line ID contacts on the way to the airport, and then repeat next trip... Saves the headaches!

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +8

      Can you imagine the conversation between these so called couples.

    • @ferdaaydin7405
      @ferdaaydin7405 11 месяцев назад +5

      Like i Did before,delete all Line contacts.best way...

    • @The303panthers
      @The303panthers 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@DarkoFitCoach I agree!

    • @biodiversity9808
      @biodiversity9808 11 месяцев назад +6

      Yes thats what i always do. No contact once i am on cab back to the airport.

    • @wilsong68
      @wilsong68 11 месяцев назад +4

      Does my being married to my Thai wife 10 years and living in Australia for 7 years count?

  • @quinnrivera5075
    @quinnrivera5075 11 месяцев назад +39

    Only been here for a few months. Been to Costa Rica, Panama, Dominican Republic etc. 54 years old. The thing that I find odd is this. The men here are about the same age. With , I assume , the same experience with women of all kinds back home and perhaps abroad . But a lot seem to completely lose that experience here. And I understand why. It’s paradise. And it’s a younger beautiful woman selling you a dream. But you have to know. It’s just that. A dream. Not sure why some guys just don’t get that. Nothing here is as it seems. Nothing is black and white. The whole thing is grey
    Have fun. Enjoy what Thailand has to offer. Don’t over complicate your life. If your hand goes into your pocket here you have to open your eyes and pull your head out of your ass and know why and for what. Every single time. We are pretty much just a walking ATM to these people. And that’s not a slight towards Thais. It’s just the economics of the situation we are both in.

    • @phonetica
      @phonetica 11 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly right. I had a buddy tell me a short story once. He said "ask a Thai girl where a foreigner's money comes from. They will say "ATM"". That little pearl of wisdom is profound and true. Puts your value into a brutal perspective.

    • @elkarlos814
      @elkarlos814 11 месяцев назад

      SW Costa Rica here. That's the thing: once you realize that, The Kingdom's Pleasure Princesses have no Power over you. But, until then hahahaha Buena suerte

    • @titi7776
      @titi7776 11 месяцев назад

      Exactly the same long game in Latin America. The only difference is that latínas want to move out of their countries while Thai want you to stay. Also I find Thai women pamper you more than latinas

    • @elkarlos814
      @elkarlos814 11 месяцев назад

      @@titi7776 Right. Latinas can't carry a Thai (not sure about rest of SE Asia) woman's bags when it come to taking care of a man. Although the Thai's are much better at the game.

    • @groundcontrol2majorTom
      @groundcontrol2majorTom 11 месяцев назад +1

      Finally … the voice of reason 👍

  • @ingwisingwis8336
    @ingwisingwis8336 11 месяцев назад +24

    Old German saying: "If you just want a schnitzel, you don't have to buy the whole pig."

  • @chriswhiting-j1q
    @chriswhiting-j1q 11 месяцев назад +26

    i love these videos playing the long game. it seems finding a good thai woman is near on impossible. keep up the good work.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +4

      It's possible but you'd need to have more Thai language ability and cultural awareness than a typical visitor to suss out the good ones and most of those are not going to be found near Pattaya or be interested in a random middle age farang.

  • @zprodigalson
    @zprodigalson 11 месяцев назад +48

    I’ve just returned from Thailand three months ago and I’m still feeling the blues. Besides working, I don’t feel like going out (Toronto, Canada). It’s cold, grey, lifeless and expensive here. I’m just saving money for my next trip. I’ll return to Thailand just for the food alone!

    • @kevinthailand2567
      @kevinthailand2567 11 месяцев назад +6

      I moved here from Toronto a few years. Not a single regret of having left the lifestyle and weather and cost of living there behind. People here are just more relaxed and overall nicer.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thai food, (real) Thai massage, and day life pricing are the big draws for me. The women and nightlife are a distant 4th at best.

    • @zprodigalson
      @zprodigalson 11 месяцев назад +6

      @steveholmshaw8702 😂 I’m not on suicide watch but depression, yes.

    • @phonetica
      @phonetica 11 месяцев назад +4

      One solution a lot of guys have for the back home blues is to book your next trip before leaving. It's a positive psychological boost to get through until the next visit.

    • @djbasicjohnson
      @djbasicjohnson 11 месяцев назад +2

      i feel you all guys.. back in switzerland, cold, grey, empty people, no love no heat.... and its winter... damn

  • @paulannamaher9065
    @paulannamaher9065 11 месяцев назад +26

    Funny thing about the weather, my Thai wife has been living with me in Melbourne since 2007 and she has become acclimatised to the cold weather whereas I hate it. I want to live in Thailand when I retire but she wants to stay in Melbourne.

    • @mcb00m
      @mcb00m 11 месяцев назад +1

      Moved from Melbourne last year and much happier here. Cost of living, warm weather and chilled out people. Don't miss those dreary Melbourne days and stressed out people struggling to pay their mortgages.

  • @dirkdiggler164
    @dirkdiggler164 11 месяцев назад +13

    Beautifully delivered priceless advice, that couldn’t happen to me..? Gents, the “Good girl” remark is the biggest and most dangerous red flag of all. Many Thai women, may even have bona fide business’s but still freelance on the side. If there is the slightest hint of dishonesty, or enquiries regarding property or investments at home, get rid. I have learned to be ruthless, one way or another you are paying. Accept that if you don’t show out she’s moving on. My old fella once said to me… “Son, Women are like second hand motors… There’s always another just around the corner.!
    In Pattaya, she’s likely to be no more than 25m away. Enjoy ..

  • @farangliam8203
    @farangliam8203 11 месяцев назад +23

    i had a mate. married a thai lady. They were the same age. met in their 20's. she worked as a counter assistant in his local pharmacy. lived in phuket. after eight years and two sons. she ran off with a german fella because she thought he had lots of money. turns out he didn't, he was a 2 week millionaire bullshitter. My mate ended up buying his sons off his ex wife and moved to the UK. he did have them paternity tested to be sure, fortunately they were both his. I hear this story over and over and over again. Same game, just different players.

    • @titi7776
      @titi7776 11 месяцев назад

      How is it different from a western women who cheats ? The only difference is that western lady doesn't cheat for money and even that is not guaranteed

    • @voice.of.reason
      @voice.of.reason 10 месяцев назад

      Who wants to buy sons, thats a scam in itself!

  • @MW-jm8qb
    @MW-jm8qb 7 месяцев назад +1

    I appreciate the tour / visuals / etc. whilst narrating the video. I’ve watched other videos by others, and they just sit in front of the camera. Kudos to you for creating content that is more aesthetically appealing.

  • @Powermass
    @Powermass 11 месяцев назад +10

    Even though most of us have heard this many times before, it is always great with a harsch reminder narrated by your gently voice 👍

  • @responding8185
    @responding8185 11 месяцев назад +12

    This is 14k GOLD. Awesome video saving to the archives. I only wish I could give this video more than 1 thumb up

  • @bfyrth
    @bfyrth 11 месяцев назад +21

    Short game = wallet empty that week. Long game = bank account empty that year

  • @ricepaddyreasons
    @ricepaddyreasons 11 месяцев назад +5

    I always love these stories! Wisdom and entertainment ar the same time. Thank you, Daz, for all you do!

  • @Dutchy695
    @Dutchy695 11 месяцев назад +14

    Don't exchange phone numbers
    Don't share social media links
    Don't take photos of/with them
    Don't send money
    Don't give extra money
    Don't say love stuff
    Don't show her pictures of your life
    Don't take her shopping
    Don't buy gold necklace
    Don't do anything until you've hardened up emotionally
    Do learn to say NO!
    Believe you me I made these mistakes.

    • @sobaze
      @sobaze 4 месяца назад

      @@Dutchy695 , What about buying a burner phone to use in Thailand?

    • @Dutchy695
      @Dutchy695 4 месяца назад

      @@sobaze Throw away Sim cards but yeah a cheap phone to take out so if lost etc no private info lost or stolen.

  • @austin_11513
    @austin_11513 11 месяцев назад +4

    Daz you’re a legend. Best Pattaya channel on RUclips

  • @Regi869
    @Regi869 11 месяцев назад +58

    I think the "long game" would apply to pretty much every woman, regardless of the country, wouldn't you think? 😉

    • @WW-to5rc
      @WW-to5rc 11 месяцев назад +8

      There is an easy workaround: get a rich girl, then you are the one playing the long game

    • @Regi869
      @Regi869 11 месяцев назад +6

      I’m not 25 and jacked unfortunately

    • @WW-to5rc
      @WW-to5rc 11 месяцев назад +2

      If you look at K-pop stars and the men in host clubs, you will see that Asian girls don't really go for muscular guys. Slim + abs, and they are happy.

    • @christies123
      @christies123 11 месяцев назад

      I was thinking exactly that especially in big cities ie mine being London

    • @Dutchy695
      @Dutchy695 11 месяцев назад +2

      Guys seek love and women seek lifestyle

  • @RomanVarl
    @RomanVarl 11 месяцев назад +14

    "What? Not speak English in Italy?" 😂
    That's a good one 👍🏻

    • @zprodigalson
      @zprodigalson 11 месяцев назад +6

      The Italian got “lucky” and dodged a bullet. 😂

    • @snoopy13946
      @snoopy13946 11 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah made me laugh too

  • @stephenday5762
    @stephenday5762 11 месяцев назад +4

    you have one of the most amazing voices love listening to your videos , ps and l am learning a lot before l head over to Thailand

  • @garysumnall722
    @garysumnall722 11 месяцев назад +3

    Daz,
    You should write a book with your stories in, it would be a best seller.
    Great vlog as usual 👍👍👍👍

  • @jeffreywilliams2240
    @jeffreywilliams2240 11 месяцев назад +2

    Great video these are my favorite now that I live in Jomtien. I see the very thing you are talking about (the Long game) going on all around me. It is interesting to watch. Also helps to keep from falling into their traps.

  • @roywilliamson88
    @roywilliamson88 11 месяцев назад +6

    these little stories are the best of your work. i hate the boring ones about condo or bar openings. lol

  • @trickolas78
    @trickolas78 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great video and great comments. I love your channel, Daz!

  • @sailwinds69
    @sailwinds69 9 месяцев назад +2

    Another informative video about the long game....Great entertainment about the land of smiles and the beautiful girls there

  • @Shaun7638
    @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +8

    Your comments are 100% correct,well written and to the point.Guys are deluded ,the girls are working its a job nothing more.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +1

      Easier to blame the victims than admit women can be manipulative con artists. With views like this why leave home?

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@CAHSR2020 The men are not victims,a lot of comments are from people who have never been to Thailand or anywhere near.

  • @severe79
    @severe79 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you! Great vid! Now i understand... little sad...

  • @jonhobson3592
    @jonhobson3592 11 месяцев назад +21

    ‘Normal ‘ non working girls can play the long game too with subtlety 😅😊

    • @stevekostakis2983
      @stevekostakis2983 11 месяцев назад +2

      Very true. Well said, but I have experienced this first hand.

    • @jonhobson3592
      @jonhobson3592 11 месяцев назад +5

      @@stevekostakis2983 yeah ‘turn the screw’ slowly by saying things with money being the subject lol 😜. I told my gf from the outset , however deep we would maybe get , I’m not buying any house , land , buffalo or cow. I did help her by contributing to a shelter for said animals though 😅.. 🐄 🐃

  • @hazaayt
    @hazaayt 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks for the stories, very educative, the more I go to thailand and listen to stories from expats the more I get to the conclusion that GIK is the way to go

  • @elkarlos814
    @elkarlos814 11 месяцев назад +1

    Another great video!
    I am sooo glad that someone explained to me how Thai girls are and had me read Private Dancer for some more insight before my first trip. I live in Costa Rica and have quite a bit of experience with the p4p scene, so I am not shy or ignorant when dealing with the girls. All I can say is: It is better to be the Hustler than the Hustled. But, I can also see how so many guys with no real experience are totally washed away. Many never had a beautiful woman dote on them and obviously find it pleasurable. I know I do and none do it better that the Thai Pleasure Princesses. The Kingdom has forever ruined me... 5555 Phuck!
    Love your walks through the markets. Amazing how many pretty women are out during the day! Can you maybe show more prices as you wander? Keep up the great work!

  • @andalan321
    @andalan321 11 месяцев назад +2

    Your stories are always very entertaining😊

  • @caine23
    @caine23 11 месяцев назад +4

    😂 Another great story sharing time!! Love it!

  • @woodyfromtas8866
    @woodyfromtas8866 11 месяцев назад +13

    Ask yourself how often do they take selfie photos of the two of you together and do they appear on their Facebook page and other social media, Line etc? Or is their Facebook page mystifyingly totally void of any photos showing her with Any other males?!

    • @woodyfromtas8866
      @woodyfromtas8866 11 месяцев назад +2

      @Davidsplace19 Yes exactly! I’ve been that dumb faring too! For a time there just about every photo she put on Facebook was of her and the food from different restaurants I had taken her to - but I was never anywhere to be seen! Anyway glad you’ve found a genuine one who obviously doesn’t have anything to hide!

    • @111isok
      @111isok 11 месяцев назад

      I'm on all my girls photos I say just you looks better. Maybe she needs glasses.😂

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +1

      Stop paying them see what happens

  • @dougmurphy1777
    @dougmurphy1777 11 месяцев назад +6

    Yep, juggling multiple boyfriends can be problematic - I've even heard stories of girls seeing off one boyfriend at the airport on his way out, and then, while still at the airport, meeting up with the next boyfriend in the arrivals hall on his way in!

  • @davidvalens3337
    @davidvalens3337 11 месяцев назад +1

    please keep making more videos like this! i love it

  • @swayp5715
    @swayp5715 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great stories and all very well narrated Daz....thank you so much!

  • @nik2719-c2v
    @nik2719-c2v 11 месяцев назад +1

    A voice made for story telling ....always enjoy your channel

  • @geekfreaklover
    @geekfreaklover 7 месяцев назад +3

    Around 9.04 mark who spotted the farang trying to give away money to the woman at the vegetable stand, thus perfectly illustrating how easy it is to trick these guys into playing the long game?

  • @tomatobrush3283
    @tomatobrush3283 11 месяцев назад +3

    I met a super nice bar girl there and when I was saying good bye on the second visit, she started saying, "I miss you" in this special voice and I was like, "does this usually work on guys" she was like :(( you too smart. hahaha yep I am. She was very good at making me feel special though and I will see her again.... 🤣

  • @Steven-t9s
    @Steven-t9s 11 месяцев назад +1

    Some good inside imformation there Daz.Thanks.

  • @georgekokkinos8181
    @georgekokkinos8181 11 месяцев назад +1

    Keep up the good work sir. Love from Greece

  • @thestoic5381
    @thestoic5381 11 месяцев назад +7

    Oh yes. "Where you stay" 1st or second question. Lol

  • @tonymatthews2344
    @tonymatthews2344 11 месяцев назад +3

    Great Post as always Daz, good job the second lady didn't go down the holiday route before deciding on the Auzzie guy, she would have had stamps in her passport to show she had been to Italy...unless she was as smart as some i know and "lost" the said passport 555

  • @danfreisting2874
    @danfreisting2874 11 месяцев назад +2

    These are the facts of life in Thailand. Great stories

  • @cheaperCharlieOG
    @cheaperCharlieOG 11 месяцев назад +15

    UK Simps tend to fall for these scams 😲

    • @phillray9082
      @phillray9082 11 месяцев назад +17

      Correct.have u seen our woman in UK .u should understand

  • @PREPFORIT
    @PREPFORIT 11 месяцев назад +9

    Good stories and advice I like the "Thai Tales from a Hairdresser,,,"
    Just because she works in a coffee shop, Pharmacy, 7-11...etc. does NOT necessarily mean NICE GIRL/. You are right - she could have as many as 4 or more guys in her long Game scams. Or she could be a Free Lancer by night...

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +2

      100% and who can blame the girls for what they have to do.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@Shaun7638 Why are you so adamant that nobody blame con artists for scamming people?

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад

      @@CAHSR2020 I am not at all,only when guys say all the girls are scamming them..

  • @moshehezkiya6328
    @moshehezkiya6328 11 месяцев назад +1

    As usual you always give helpful advices.
    What street is this market on?

  • @harold6863
    @harold6863 11 месяцев назад +1

    Best to stick to the 3 day rule lol. Great stories thanks for sharing 👍

  • @MiguelGonzalez-py5ud
    @MiguelGonzalez-py5ud 11 месяцев назад +2

    Gracias señor Daz!

  • @dougmurphy1777
    @dougmurphy1777 11 месяцев назад +5

    Not a Thai girl, but a Filipina - I'd arranged an intimate few days away with her on the island of Boracay, but she cancelled at the last minute saying that her father had just died; I ended up going on my own. More recently she told me she's looking after her sick father - it's a miracle! Funny thing is she's neither a freelancer nor a bar girl; in all the years I've known her, I've never given her any money.

    • @brentonl
      @brentonl 11 месяцев назад

      Thank god her father is ok!

    • @titi7776
      @titi7776 11 месяцев назад

      That's normal love is lot enough if you don't support her

    • @dougmurphy1777
      @dougmurphy1777 11 месяцев назад

      @@titi7776 I disagree - lying shouldn't be part of the mix whether I'm supporting her or not.

  • @andyburton8346
    @andyburton8346 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love theses stories Daz really make my day 😅👍

  • @blackwell7601
    @blackwell7601 11 месяцев назад +5

    If you go with a "non bar girl" and think you are getting free sex, think again. Likely to be the most expensive option. Remember, Nothing is Free, especially in Thailand.
    Cynical maybe, but if you meet a girl outside the bar environment, fine- can be great, but in the back of your mind ask yourself what will this really cost me, and can I afford it.

  • @biodiversity9808
    @biodiversity9808 11 месяцев назад +5

    I never keep contact with any girl after the next morning. I just have my fun for a night and thats it. If you keep in touch you will be in a sponsorship zone simple is that. We dont know their backgrounds we dont live there we are tourists. Have fun and say bye till next visit!

  • @Nordic_Sky
    @Nordic_Sky 11 месяцев назад +6

    "They don't speak English in Italy?" Before you think that sort of naivete is unusual, I had a girl ask me if the USA had a king. No joke.

    • @georgeg2702
      @georgeg2702 11 месяцев назад +5

      I've had Americans (US) ask me what language do they speak in Australia!

    • @ninettemurk7492
      @ninettemurk7492 11 месяцев назад

      That's a normal question- many of these girls are not very well educated.

    • @googleuser2609
      @googleuser2609 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@georgeg2702 I've had an American ask me how long did it take to drive from Australia to England. (I'm not joking).🙂

    • @davidridland
      @davidridland 11 месяцев назад +3

      Most americans would not even be able to find thailand on a globe of the world either

  • @garyreimer6791
    @garyreimer6791 11 месяцев назад +1

    Tanks for sharing

  • @WalkingmanPattaya
    @WalkingmanPattaya 11 месяцев назад +6

    Haha 555 Being poor, still married legally, non-generous, and enjoying women 30+ years younger keeps me sane and untouchable for these scams....almost. During Covid "wasted " 100k baht more than I should have on a lovely Thai lady over a year or so.... Oh well, have many photos and videos to remember her by.... Have lived here 5 years so not the same as guys on holiday. Peace and Love everyone

  • @csmith917
    @csmith917 11 месяцев назад +1

    Do you do request videos on patreon?

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  11 месяцев назад

      No, once you join, you just watch whatever you want like on RUclips

  • @JohnstonPettigrew
    @JohnstonPettigrew 11 месяцев назад +3

    Papa hab hemloid.....can come 2 welek?....😢😊.....btw, Gold Coast of Australia is about 70 km south of Brisbane.....not up north......😂 (unless you mean north of Sydney.....).

  • @bijanguitar
    @bijanguitar 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great insight and analysis.🙏👌

  • @leslypompy1357
    @leslypompy1357 11 месяцев назад +1

    High degree of strategic thinking. Thanks.

  • @clrodrick
    @clrodrick 11 месяцев назад +1

    what is the closest street off of Soi Buakhao from that market? I'd like to try it out while in the area

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  11 месяцев назад +1

      South Pattaya Road

    • @clrodrick
      @clrodrick 11 месяцев назад

      Ah! Thanks, I never walked all the way down but will do so today. @@everythingPattaya

  • @lazzzZaruZ
    @lazzzZaruZ 11 месяцев назад +10

    I dont understand why guys put themselves in situation like finding a partner in a gigantic brothel. A place all ods are against you. You can be Lucky im not saying its impossible. You can fall out of a 10 store Building and survive but why take the risk?

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +1

      If you mean Pattaya I agree. Men who learn the language, live outside tourist areas, and date similar age women have better odds.

  • @bohrerbros7555
    @bohrerbros7555 10 месяцев назад +2

    Everything Pattaya, you just described most women in the western world as well. No, it's not "that's Thailand guys", it more like "that's women in today's world guys", Lol. Most western women, especially if they're attractive, have high body counts but play the good girl if they set their sights on a wealthy guy. I know women who say they have to check out a guys finances and assets before they they waste time on them, I live in Canada. In todays world, you'll be hard pressed to find genuine so-called good girls, and all women seek out rich guys. Welcome to planet earth.

  • @overlogins
    @overlogins 11 месяцев назад +1

    Is this market near central pattaya rd or south pattya rd?

  • @dougtexas9075
    @dougtexas9075 11 месяцев назад +1

    You described it perfectly !!!!!

  • @rookiedudestor5405
    @rookiedudestor5405 11 месяцев назад +1

    I tell the girls "i know the score" and after that they always relax and everything becomes alot more fun :) I allow them to talk to their sponsors at night, it`s super fun to listen to and they usually don´t try to over charge either! One girl had to punch me one night because i could not hold my laugh back. Shut up she whispered. After the phone call we laughed together and did the dance :D

  • @t-o2947
    @t-o2947 11 месяцев назад +13

    To be fair, i understand girls in Thailand who play the long game and have a few guys on the hoook. Their target is to secure income and to support their families. But ofcourse once it is getting serious with one guy, the others have to be and i believe normally will be dropped. Same like guys who "try out" a few girlfriends until they commit. I think not only a Thai topic, but a topic for everywhere on the world.

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +1

      I do not blame the girls having many customers is good for a healthy bank balance.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Shaun7638 We know you never blame the girls. You repeat it endlessly like you're auditioning for white knight status.

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад

      @@CAHSR2020 Far from it believe me..but we only hear the guys complaining they have been swindled and never hear the girls side of the story .

  • @trippypixel3830
    @trippypixel3830 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for this. Currently approaching 3rd month of being long gamed. A few warning signs. Video really highlighted some dangers. Wish me luck because I am going to need it.

    • @KippaxInThailand
      @KippaxInThailand 11 месяцев назад

      You have a few red flags already 😂 are you stupid? 😂 Leave and move on 😂

  • @ssrattus
    @ssrattus 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Daz!

  • @stevekostakis2983
    @stevekostakis2983 11 месяцев назад +6

    Haha…I play the game of never showing my hand in $ issues. But I always keep them guessing by dressing well and talking sweet.

  • @k7ailn1
    @k7ailn1 11 месяцев назад +4

    It is a mistake to make a girl from Pattaya your friend. Or nearby areas. The best and safest thing is to go north to one of the small towns or villages and search until you find what you want, and to be a very ordinary person who does not show wealth or money. If she continues like this and she accepts you, this is evidence that she is a good girl, and you should continue with her in any city you want. There must be a lot. Of time and seriousness..

  • @Shawry69
    @Shawry69 11 месяцев назад +1

    Mate I'd love to send you a story but I cant access your email address details. Keeps freezing

  • @travelnutlivelife5797
    @travelnutlivelife5797 11 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant video Daz as I mentioned I’m in Pattaya on holiday and seeing this game or better yet scam, play out all around me here.I just shake my head and say nothing but I know what’s coming their way. It’s a shame really.

  • @ralfm2342
    @ralfm2342 11 месяцев назад +1

    ... nice stories.

  • @googleuser2609
    @googleuser2609 11 месяцев назад +1

    The last story about Italy is so funny! 😂

  • @antonyedge2098
    @antonyedge2098 11 месяцев назад +5

    Now I've never been to Thailand or any where else for that matter, but one thing i must recommend is for the lads is get the the snip, it doesn't affect your Manhood , it makes you more confidant that you don't get anyone up the stick

    • @maytanemusic
      @maytanemusic 11 месяцев назад

      Great advice, have unprotected sex with a pattaya bar girl 😂 that girl's privates see more traffic than Heathrow

  • @pepeee548
    @pepeee548 11 месяцев назад +1

    Name of the market?

  • @seanmc94seanmc94
    @seanmc94seanmc94 11 месяцев назад +1

    Some good advice there, I'm just back from Pattaya and keeping in touch with a freelancer whom i spent 5 days with, let's see if she's playing the 'Long game'.

    • @EfficientRVer
      @EfficientRVer 11 месяцев назад

      The real question is whether the game and the freelancing both end when becoming a couple (married or not) begins. Finding the answer could be risky and expensive. Not finding the answer is advisable but might be a missed opportunity if you actually want to remove her from Pattaya and change both of your lives a lot.

  • @divotor147
    @divotor147 11 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve been living in Pattaya for over a year now, and I’ve never been stupid enough to let any of these women get inside my head….though many have tried. In fact I’m sick of the girlfriends of my acquaintances constantly trying to act as matchmakers, no doubt for the very reasons you describe. In their eyes, that is your only purpose here…..money. If you need a root that badly, pay for play and walk away. There are many other pursuits to keep one occupied in Pattaya beyond pussy.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 11 месяцев назад +1

      So very true. You're just an ATM and if you're not spitting out money then you're "broken" to them. I feel bad for the men who get love-scammed but at some point we need to wise up and realize we're all being played. Have fun and move on to the next one.

  • @dmann7004
    @dmann7004 11 месяцев назад +2

    We need to look at this differently and harness this amazing skill these ladies have in keeping so many balls in the air at the same time. They would make great Project Managers!! From what I’ve seen, some of these really cold-hearted calculating girls have enormous focus and drive to get the job done. Imagine harassing this for good instead of evil? 😅

    • @RichardBates-wd3if
      @RichardBates-wd3if 11 месяцев назад +1

      Do you mean harnessing rather than harrassing?

    • @dmann7004
      @dmann7004 11 месяцев назад

      @@RichardBates-wd3if ?? Mate, kinda confused here. Where did I use the word “harassing”??

    • @Mrembo2024
      @Mrembo2024 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@dmann7004 last sentence

    • @DrEagerBeaver69
      @DrEagerBeaver69 3 месяца назад

      @@dmann7004 in your last sentence

  • @voice.of.reason
    @voice.of.reason 10 месяцев назад +1

    What about a girl you have never met (Phillipines) that you talk to on whatsapp video over a long period who says she loves you even though you've never met? I've had this happen to me

  • @dmystify1381
    @dmystify1381 11 месяцев назад +2

    Recommended reading.......'Private dancer'..by Stephen Leather....should be standard for any male wanting a relationship in Asia...You've been warned.

  • @lifelovenaturehobbies
    @lifelovenaturehobbies 11 месяцев назад +1

    Very interesting videoclip - Reality and Truth 100% - Thau Girls especially in Pattaya are far better actors than those you see in Hollywood Movies .... Everything you said is everyday stories of relationships and friendships in Pattaya ... its All about the Money. And no matter how much stories you hear their first priorities are Money and their Family ... You`d be lucky to come Third in her priorities - Dont fall for these traps guys - Just visit Pattaya yearly or twice yearly and have lots of fun and thats it - Obey the 3 day rule and if it was in my opinion Id say 3 days is already a lot - 1 day and change girl ... thats how you should enjoy and stay away from annoying drama and hassle in Thailand - Keep these videos coming they do teach a lot especially to first time visitors to Pattaya - Easy naive prey for Pattaya Girls

  • @Diego-fb5fq
    @Diego-fb5fq 11 месяцев назад +1

    Been there... completely hooked from the love-bombing, visits to Udon & all that. The money pitch came six months in, about the car she had bought for her parents while married living in Netherlands being repo'd after she returned to Thailand, and she was taken to court for the balance of the debt, 40k baht. I went into shock over this unbelievable RFM, never thought of asking for documentation, and ditched her immediately. First girl I met in Nana Plaza that night could have been her twin.

  • @sails3538
    @sails3538 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love the part of the relationship where the Thai girl rains love on you.
    Fun.

  • @paulb5907
    @paulb5907 11 месяцев назад +2

    nice format walk and talk with a story , like a stroll with a mate , take iit easy

  • @robertmallac8398
    @robertmallac8398 11 месяцев назад

    Live on the Gold Coast, currently we are having daytime temps @ 30 - 35 degrees. Thai girls would love it here.

  • @zzzzBadBoyzzzz
    @zzzzBadBoyzzzz 11 месяцев назад +4

    My Thai wife from Bangkok has been here in Massachusetts with me since 2003. She has plenty of Thai friends and the Wat Nawamintararachutis temple near by that she visits regularly. She also has plenty of traditional Thai food ingredients available from local Asian Markets to cook her spicy meals with😊. What ingredients she can't find here she has shipped here, or her and her Thai friends arrange to be transported when visiting Thailand. Today it's -7c, she and her many close friends are doing just fine. Although in the winter months, proper clothing, gloves, winter boots, etc, and a remote to per-warm vehicle is an absolute necessity for her😅 She does enjoy seeing the snow and watching snow storms from inside. The South Shore area of Massachusetts has a great Thai community. Her and I's long game has lasted 23 years now, with having 2 children together❤ She parties with all her Thai girls friends regularly, and they all seem very happy here in this cold weather state of Massachusetts USA.

    • @Whippets
      @Whippets 11 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly, you can get anything here in the States ... and a pair of long silk underwear makes going outside almost pleasurable, aside from the fact that I've talked to a number of Thai who DON'T like the excessive heat of Thailand.

  • @silasketgaskets8709
    @silasketgaskets8709 11 месяцев назад +1

    used to have a buriram female friend (hot 24 year old gogo dancer pre-obesity era) that had multiple sponsors and used to come to my place to hang out and at the time i assumed she simply liked me as no money involved. there were times she got a long distance phone call and i went to another room and closed the door. never forget the time she asked me which one of two guys she should marry. she showed me photos of their houses and cars and i asked her which one does she have the deepest feeling for but back to cars and houses as if it were a pure business decision. she went to USA but time flies and a couple of years later she left the US and was back at a bar in bangkok.

    • @silasketgaskets8709
      @silasketgaskets8709 11 месяцев назад

      PS; after living in thailand many years (girl stuff gets old and boring) the best thing about visiting pattaya is all the indian restaurants and food variety, western as well.

  • @phonetica
    @phonetica 11 месяцев назад +1

    All my friends told me "just find a regular girl who works as a nurse or in a bank or at the mall etc." In my experience, if they're remotely beautiful enough to have justified you moving half way around the planet to pursue, they have worked the sex industry in the past, currently work in the sex industry, or will at some point in the near future begin working in the sex industry. If she's beautiful there's no getting around it.

  • @SuperHfhgfh
    @SuperHfhgfh 11 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutly truth....

  • @thepassman
    @thepassman 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice you can never give enough of Daz!👍. Wherever I may travel I always recite this mantra just before arrival. "Men fall in love. Women are in business"🤑. If I end up on the Thai lady's list, what happens if I lose my turn?🤔🤣🤣🤣

  • @香料國境
    @香料國境 11 месяцев назад +5

    Goal of women worldwide

  • @simonclark8176
    @simonclark8176 11 месяцев назад +11

    Many times when i hear your stories Daz , I have to cringe ! Pretty much all you say is true , sadly as you know "Love is blind "

    • @Shaun7638
      @Shaun7638 11 месяцев назад +3

      It definately is not love.

  • @maathejayandyjohns1343
    @maathejayandyjohns1343 11 месяцев назад +1

    Daz, you on your way to 100k Subs, before the end of 2024

  • @ScooterOnHisWay2024
    @ScooterOnHisWay2024 11 месяцев назад +1

    First story is a great story. "Forewarned is forearmed."

  • @martinpalliser5599
    @martinpalliser5599 10 месяцев назад

    Yr the best Daz thais must laugh at farang sometimes😂😂😂😂❤🎉

  • @MarcniMenel
    @MarcniMenel 7 месяцев назад +1

    I had a similar story in Poland (I am Polish living in the UK) she had 2 other "boyfriends", luckily she didn't choose me :) and she wasn't a freelancer (it's just how women do it) ;)