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Reset With Robb
Добавлен 17 июл 2022
REALITIES OF RETIREMENT
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The real culture of Thailand and retiring overseas; dating, retiring, staying busy, managing your money, and transforming your new life. My journey in realizing I needed some serious changes if I was going to have the best opportunities for making myself happy. Living in the USA, I was married, yet extremely lonely.
Over 1 Million Views
The real culture of Thailand and retiring overseas; dating, retiring, staying busy, managing your money, and transforming your new life. My journey in realizing I needed some serious changes if I was going to have the best opportunities for making myself happy. Living in the USA, I was married, yet extremely lonely.
EXPAT HOLIDAYS: THAI HALLOWEEN
My recent holiday celebration’s retired overseas in Thailand. I talk about peripheral subjects as well, including cost of living, making g friends to celebrate with, and I give my usual brief personal update as well. Also with special guest Davo from @onthegowithdavo
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PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your RUclips account on Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to “Reset With Robb”, click on “View Channel” at top, see list:
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WHAT IS A THAI LOVE BOMB & IS IT GOOD?
Просмотров 5 тыс.9 часов назад
I talk about the frequent practice of Thai women of “Love Bombing” their romantic prospects and how Thai can be either a good tho g or a bad sign depending on the situation. PLEASE JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your RUclips account on an Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to the “Reset With Robb” channel, click on “Vie...
THAI vs. WESTERN MARRIAGE- CONTROLLING YOUR LIFE
Просмотров 3,4 тыс.День назад
I attempt to walk you through what I see here (again, where I live) as a typical Thai marriage and how various aspects, and therefore your lady’s expectations, may vary from what you might be thinking is fair or normal. JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your RUclips account on an Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device- apologies.) Go to the “...
CHANNEL, PERSONAL & RELATIONSHIP UPDATE
Просмотров 3,3 тыс.14 дней назад
So many changes in the channel audience size lately it was time for an update. I also provide personal and some relationship updates for me and Fawn. E-BOOK ONLY @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 EMAIL ROBB to ask a free question or to arrange a ROBB & FAWN live cultural or relationship consultation ($75/ hr.) E-mail...
ROBB REVIEWS PAK CHONG THAILAND
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.Месяц назад
I rarely make tourism videos but we had to make an exception for Pak Chong, Thailand. It is a beautiful, mountainous region which also features incredible amenities of fine dining and extreme wealth. The famous RUclipsr “Davo” from “ On the Go With Davo” joins Fawn and I, along with his wife, Noi. We had an incredible time, as you will see. Near the end Davo and I collaboratively discuss the ar...
RETIREMENT: BIG 3 GOALS & BEYOND
Просмотров 3 тыс.Месяц назад
What am I doing in my retirement and what am I doing with my channel. The parallels and contrasts between both things. I specifically compare retirement and life goals with that of my channel- showing my attempts to help some others. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 EMAIL ROBB to ask a free questi...
DIVORCE & RETIREMENT- STICK TO THE PLAN
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.Месяц назад
NOTE: POOR AUDIO (sorry) My experience, successes and failures in planning and executing my retirement in Thailand. How and why I’ve learned to stick to my various plans. Four years after my initial thought that my retirement needed a total overhaul and after having retired in Thailand 2 1/2 years ago, I look back on my planning and lessons learned. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon...
IN THAILAND YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY
Просмотров 4,4 тыс.2 месяца назад
I talk about my specific circumstances retired in Thailand, and what differences you may want to not to compare against what kind of retirement you might wish to have. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai Locations in Bangkok and Korat email Kruu Usanee directly at: email: usanee3@...
THAI RETIREMENT- WHAT MIGHT WORK FOR YOU
Просмотров 3,3 тыс.3 месяца назад
I talk about what underlying structures and realities give me the most underlying joy in my retirement, and how that might apply to your situation. I talk about some of the related social and cultural factors here as well. I give a few ideas as to something’s you might choose to focus on as well. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON (USA): www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASI...
THE THREE WIVES YOU CAN HAVE IN THAILAND
Просмотров 13 тыс.4 месяца назад
A deep dive into the three “wives” (Pan-Lay-Ah, Gik, Mia-Noi) in Thai culture, the various terms used to describe them, the relevance of that and how these women function in Thai society, and how that varies for foreign husbands and boyfriends. JOIN/ BECOME a MEMBER: Login to your RUclips account on an Android or PC device (Apple users are not supported by YT and will have to borrow a PC device...
HOW I LOST 50 LBS. AND RETIRED IN THAILAND
Просмотров 4,2 тыс.4 месяца назад
My experience, methodologies and tactics for how I rearranged my thinking and ultimately controlled my prior bad habits and lost 50 pounds over one year and kept it off. PAPERBACK & E-BOOK @ AMAZON: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PRINT PAPERBACK THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai www.thailearningschool.com #divorce #marriage #dating #korat #retire #thailand #i...
CHANGING YOUR LUCK IN THAILAND
Просмотров 4 тыс.4 месяца назад
Despite my beliefs that people’s problems follow them wherever they go, I talk about some aspects of how my “luck” so to speak does seem to have further improved by retiring in Thailand. USA PAPERBACK & E-BOOK/ AMAZON: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PAPERBACK IN THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai www.thailearningschool.com #divorce #marriage #dating #korat #re...
WHAT IS SOCIALLY FAIR IN THAILAND FOR RETIREES
Просмотров 4,7 тыс.5 месяцев назад
My thoughts on how I manage and where I focus my energy in terms of what is fair or not on how I treat and interact with locals in my overseas retirement in Thailand. There’s also a personal update at the end of the video. USA PAPERBACK & E-BOOK/ AMAZON: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PAPERBACK IN THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai www.thailearningschool.com #...
3 WAYS YOU CAN ENGAGE SOCIALLY IN THE VILLAGE
Просмотров 4,6 тыс.5 месяцев назад
I see three major different ways for a foreigner to engage socially in a Thai retirement. I apply this to myself and give several real world examples detailing my experiences. USA PAPERBACK & E-BOOK/ AMAZON: www.amazon.com/dp/B0CQ4QR3KB PAPERBACK IN THAILAND & S.E. ASIA: www.ebay.com/itm/225944441602 Learn to speak Thai www.thailearningschool.com #divorce #marriage #dating #korat #retire #thail...
YES YOU CAN RETIRE IN THAILAND & HAVE A BETTER LIFE
Просмотров 11 тыс.6 месяцев назад
YES YOU CAN RETIRE IN THAILAND & HAVE A BETTER LIFE
IS A THAI VILLAGE RETIREMENT FOR YOU?
Просмотров 4,5 тыс.6 месяцев назад
IS A THAI VILLAGE RETIREMENT FOR YOU?
HORMONE PRODUCTION & TRAINING FOR OLDER MEN
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.7 месяцев назад
HORMONE PRODUCTION & TRAINING FOR OLDER MEN
A USEFUL RESOURCE FOR YOUR THAI RETIREMENT
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.8 месяцев назад
A USEFUL RESOURCE FOR YOUR THAI RETIREMENT
IN THAILAND WHAT IS POLITE AND WHAT IS NOT
Просмотров 6 тыс.8 месяцев назад
IN THAILAND WHAT IS POLITE AND WHAT IS NOT
I BROKE THE RULE OF LENDING MONEY
Просмотров 3,3 тыс.9 месяцев назад
I BROKE THE RULE OF LENDING MONEY
THE LOWER STRESS OF EVERYTHING RETIRED IN THAILAND
Просмотров 2,5 тыс.9 месяцев назад
THE LOWER STRESS OF EVERYTHING RETIRED IN THAILAND
THAI CULTURAL PERIMETER WALL CONSTRUCTION
Просмотров 1,6 тыс.9 месяцев назад
THAI CULTURAL PERIMETER WALL CONSTRUCTION
RECOGNIZING AN INAPPROPRIATE FLIRT
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.9 месяцев назад
RECOGNIZING AN INAPPROPRIATE FLIRT
BUILDING MY HOUSE, PHASE 1 & The Legal, Practical & Cultural Issues
Просмотров 2 тыс.9 месяцев назад
BUILDING MY HOUSE, PHASE 1 & The Legal, Practical & Cultural Issues
THE UPS & DOWNS OF RETURNING HOME (from Thailand)
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.9 месяцев назад
THE UPS & DOWNS OF RETURNING HOME (from Thailand)
THE 3 LIES YOU’LL HEAR DATING IN THAILAND
Просмотров 21 тыс.10 месяцев назад
THE 3 LIES YOU’LL HEAR DATING IN THAILAND
IS RETIRING IN THAILAND A MIDLIFE CRISIS?
Просмотров 2 тыс.10 месяцев назад
IS RETIRING IN THAILAND A MIDLIFE CRISIS?
THE COST OF MY PATH (retirement) IN THAILAND
Просмотров 3,5 тыс.10 месяцев назад
THE COST OF MY PATH (retirement) IN THAILAND
I CHOSE A HARD PATH RETIRED IN THAILAND
Просмотров 2 тыс.10 месяцев назад
I CHOSE A HARD PATH RETIRED IN THAILAND
Good to see your great recovery from the back surgery, Robb. If I were your age, I might consider some "beauty" treatments, too. (facial) As it is, I really dont gas. I hear rumors that, after 70, a bad attitude is common. 555 If I could, I would send you some photos of my gf from last Halloween. She, without any costume, nailed one of the scariest faces I have ever seen. Eeeek!
Cambodia is also cheap. I lived in Phnom Penh for a year on $700usd/month. Food is good also, lots of BBQ.
Thx, yeah, I’m always forgetting about Cambodia. No idea why. Must be mental block- 555.
A really nice vlog. You look good considering recent major surgery. We will do Christmas this year on Cottesloe beach in Perth (ask Davo about this ☺️) a swimwear and BBQ Christmas dinner and 40°! It’s pretty easy to get used to hot Decembers I reckon!
With each year here I find myself more and more saying, “Oh yeah, it WAS Thanksgiving (Halloween, Christmas, etc.) on Wednesday”. I don’t miss any of the holidays in the U.S. and all that they entail.
Yes. It takes very little (or nothing) to replace them. My Christmas dinner at the monkey bar is waaay more enjoyable than it should be. Shame on some other people.
Happy Halloween Robb 🎃 อย่าคิดมากเกินไป 😂
Thank you.
I see I’m late. Is this live or is it memorex?
55555
Thais in the village do not want you showing off your money. They want you to live as they do.
Yes. (Mostly) thank you!
Make sense, face to face meeting and check her out for a while, no guarantees but, you will find out, good or bad eventually. As Rob said, if she´s interested in you, she wanna see you every day instantly. Not so sure they prefer a thai guy, many have more bad experiance from that since before. It many times result in she get pregnant when she´s very young and he dump her due to he not wanna take any costs or responebilities for the baby and she ends up in a Bar looking for farrang due to no thai man wanna have another mans baby to pay for regardless if she´s young and drop dead beautiful. Us western men are not so strict in that point of view. Like when i met my wife, if she´s a doll with a heart of gold left alone with a kid, just take her of the market.😎
Sorry brother, been dealing with cancer. Hope your ok bud. Getting cold in Bad Axe. Love ya brother. Stay focused. 😊
Oh, Damn it. I hope you’ll be okay, Biff. PM me. resetwithrobb@gmail.com
Weird, Fawn actually looks content. Being in America, all I see here are angry women.
Yea. So common, now that you mention it. Keen observation.
If my woman and her family were guarding me I'm not sure if I'd be flattered or offended. Is it because they care, or worried to lose their cash cow.
Exactly on point comment. Thank you. It can be difficult to tell the difference between the two. Generally guarding behavior that’s a huge red flag will block you from making most friendships. They will be visible afraid of you knowing anyone Thai or who can speak Thai. It will feel isolating.
Enjoyed the video & was very candid in describing some of the pitfalls in life experiences
YOU ARE OLD MISTER …..
Yes. That’s how being 60 years old works.
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Finance guy here, spectrum-ish--totally oblivious to love bombing, too. lol
Interesting point that these women are often controlled. Time i guess is the only way to determine if somebody has bad intentions as i guess there is only so long somebody can invest in you before revealing the scam although if contact is minimal and mostly online then i guess with automated and scheduled messages it can go on longer but not in person.
Hope you are doing well Rob after your surgery. Looking forward to see you back on RUclips soon ♥
Thank you!
Skin colour is bigger than i appreciated before meeting my gf. She spends her whole time covering up to the point it affects what she can do like swimming always wearing hats. She was told by thai husband that her colour was unattractive but is stunning looking so he tolerated her skin then left her anyway. But any attractive girl in Thailand whatever age may have sponsors so tread carefully and let them show you how available they are for you.
What I've found out about relationships is that it's more important that she really enjoys being with you. If not, it's just like having a job only you're not getting paid. Also, if she's real, you won't be just texting and talking on the phone. You will be dating in person.
Any thoughts of dating services (not thai cupid style) or matchmaking services to avoid scammers.
None. Sorry. Obviously a good-hearted Thai woman would be capable of vetting but who could trust her, etc. Abd they have the exact same percentage of bad-acting g foreign men that THEY are unable to vet. It’s a mess. Hate to say it but strongly recommend you read my book - the new 3rd edition covers a lot of this, which is too much to try and say here.
First time posting. Your surgery is over, hope the best for you in your recovery and a positive outcome. I live in Thailand now for a year with a nice Thai woman that owns her house and car. I pay for the expenses which I would anyway if alone. Enjoy your videos as I am always learning. Things have been going well for the last two years but I always have my antenna up. 😂 You are so right, about her dating options with Thais being limited. Which works out for the both of us. Smiles.
I'm recommending your channel to expat friends. Thanks for being a movie star!
Hope you have planned out your surgery Rob and that the surgeons are highly competent and focused…I really hope you come out of this pain free and healthy.
I am from the younger generation and I should add a lot of us use AI to do a lot of messaging now through dating apps and text, etc. Good quality people never ask for money under any circumstances
Hey good luck mate
( F) all the Scammers Here and in the World . Fe and Male .
You use the term ‘tawdry’ twice in this blog, once about potential interest from women in your vlogs and later about yourself… that caught my attention. It’s a term that aligns with ‘fake’ the subject of your commentary. In this day and age everyone is struggling with the fake/real question in some way. So this leads me to consider why ANY women myself included might follow your vlogs? Here’s my reasons 1. You shine a spotlight on daily relationships and living in the Isan region. 2. I’m always interested to try and understand how men think about women and how different this is to how women think about men, so an anthropological study if you will. 3. Rob you are an appealing character, like a beaten hero in a drama series I hope you’ll do well in the end.
Thank you. For a second there, I wasn’t sure where this was going…….(I didn’t look to see that it was you commenting).
@@resetwithrobb ah yes sorry my mind can overanalyse stuff at times! There’s a great book written about Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman that has relevance here I think regarding scamming and is the love bomb fake or real?
There are these moments in life we can grow if we choose. A moment was during divorce we initially talked to a consellor individually then together. Regarding relationship I realized neither of us were true or fake, more ab understanding of what a word meant to each of us, how we each viewed an event with truth yet completely different, something like watching a movie through anothers eyes and the movie has two versions. I can see consistency in some male and female traits yet if you choose to remove some shackles imposed your start to view life. It was like when i was with the Japanese Zen thinkkng for years and my conclusion was we arr all a value of 1, cannot be a .99 or a 1.1 only our choice how we use our 1 given by the universe. So now probably alone as I have become the odd duck with my way of viewing it drew me deeper into my natural INFJ personality ? I like videos like this, I listen think and act with Kharma and Dharma always my filters, I see so much enabling and labelling and judgment by the best of hearts I dont know a way to comment on most as my articulation is not great because I dont meet many like me. Anyway, watch your well written interesting comments, perhaps I added something to your day 🌸🙏
@@smileoften-ft3hq and of course culture and conditioning brings forth or creates certain male/female traits, which is why cultural mixing and understanding a different perspective is so important to resolving any relationship jarring and juddering….it’s often about time and place. If I consider the Georgian era in England it wasn’t much different to rural traditional Thailand for women I feel in terms of roles. I would think that the Jane Austen Novels would be well understood there!
@@BoninBrighton I see it more as ancient Roman or Egyptian where the woman is more viewed as equal yet a natural flow of mothering and physical strength. My time in Japan with families the wife was the financial and education planner and the husband had a allowance. My youth was in rural about 4 people per square mile and the roles of family members were based on logic. The aboriginal community as I was often labeled with, did have similarities with Thailand in regards to non ambitious men and substances however thai have more pride in their culture and aboriginal mostly a word to get government money. My time married to Chinese did see this as the woman bit lower perhaps, yet very strong family unit. I do in general find Chinese rude however they are rude to each other too. ... and now Thailand. In more rural than Rob, Laos based, the women tend to be very Theravada and a lot of men are good with an average sprinkling of jerks. I think the women are equal however did not get immersed enough in the language and Dharma and Buddhist teachings they really do not talk. Drifting more towards where Rob lives and more westernized areas maybe this new emergence is happening. I see 99% of foreigners in their way applying and talking as a foreigner living amongst thai as opposed to living thai, if that sentence makes sense. I suppose that's what its all about, foreigner telling another foreigner through foreigner lens. Just me, this man trying autonomy, after telling my parents when I was 4 my past life, in a way disowned and up north in a remote school with grey nuns, run away street life, saved for engineering, interested in social studies, was in performing arts, had manufacturing retail, blessed with global work cultures, now maybe my mind is reached a place I do not know where to go next. I transfered a lot to my children and they are successful. A Buddhist said to me the other day I am the epitome of Buddha. The Dalai Lama monks said my double pulse is identical to the Dalai Lama and I will live long past 100. I have a sense of feeling burdened. Point is, I can open up somewhat on here and few write with your insights so using you in a way to bounce and force my mind to put some of this to words. Take care 🌸🙏
All the best Robb!
Definitely bikes give you freedom... keep positive Robb remember its a journey with fitness etc Good luck and hope it goes well .
Good luck with your surgery Robb! I hope that it finally fixes everything for you. I think your focus on physical fitness will definitely help with the recovery process.
I dream of a long term love bomb relationship
I used to as well. It is awesome. Well worth the effort.
I had cervical spine surgeries about 16 years ago, and it was a great decision. A year ago I had my wrist fused in Bangkok, and that has also worked out wonderfully.
Good luck on your procedure. I am getting by on spinal nerve blocks for now. You sharing your struggles and triumphs, is helpful and appreciated.
Good luck with the surgery. Valuable information and insight.
Classic Rob
Really hope you got the result you were after with your op? You'd fit in well in Pattaya with the muscle shirt but you're missing the gut, 3 day growth, uncleansiness & loud, bad language & behaviour🤣
55555. Yes. Actually Davo and I go there in 2 weeks to hit the beach with our ladies. Probably the only guys there bringing our wives-55. And so far so good. Thx!
Significant Negative Feedback, I must remember that one,
I found your video to just be sort of rambling and rambling and the presumed 'topic' of 'love bomb' ummm...could you GET to that? So I just stopped watching. Just my feedback...
Probably a newer viewer and that fair criticism. In upcoming videos I start to put onscreen time stamps for summary of points for those that want it.
@@resetwithrobb thanks--I find that very helpful. No disrespect meant-- I'm a content creator myself but they're just 3-panel cartoons which people like or don't. cheers
I think Rob has a very distinct style which is quite different to other vloggers and once you get used to it is rather appealing. When I first watched I used to laugh as I wasn’t sure if he was being serious or ironic. He has a great sense of humour though mostly directed at himself. I think Rob is a slow burn for viewers… but once you get him you’re all in which is why it’s such a nice community in the comments.
OMG! thanks for sharing this. Really, I would be the opposite of flattered. (I wonder if I'm broken by divorce?) I just can't imagine these actions of affection as anything but a scam or, at best, a short term female thing. Assuming surgery goes well, I'll just share this gem. Coach says that the data and experience shows magic for humans that put in 300 minutes of cardio weekly. I do it on the indoor bike so I can get a lot of slow steady (HR ~120) spin time. It will change your metabolism unlike anything weights can do (which I love, also, just saying)