Borderline Personality Disorder Explained (Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder)
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- Borderline Personality Disorder (also known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder), is characterised by strong emotional responses, unstable relationships and a disturbed sense of self. In this video we cover the symptoms (including DSM 5 diagnostic criteria) as well as potential causes, and treatment.
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What is Borderline Personality Disorder? 0:20
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Borderline Personality Disorder Causes / Risk Factors 2:06
Complications 3:12
Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment 3:59
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What is a personality disorder? 0:00
What is Borderline Personality Disorder? 0:20
Borderline Personality Disorder Symptoms 0:45
Borderline Personality Disorder Diagnosis / DSM 5 Criteria 1:49
Borderline Personality Disorder Causes / Risk Factors 2:06
Complications 3:12
Borderline Personality Disorder Treatment 3:59
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Keep your societal conditioning indoctrination
Still we tell the truth ... And are strong people . Takes a long time to get correct support . Fact 🎉
Excuse me, may i have this in written pdf ? i need it for my studing .Iam medical student studying psychology
.+ 16 All Scripture is inspired of God+ and beneficial for teaching,+ for reproving, for setting things straight,+ for disciplining in righteousness,+ 17 I am not a narcissist never been
@bambamfit62
i have ‘Quiet’ BPD, but I’m an introvert. So I am super empathic around people and don’t want to be mean. I usually internalize stuff and it’s pretty emotionally painful
No such thing as quiet bpd, they are very loud and angry people
@@nealkelly9757very untrue lol
@@nealkelly9757educate yourself before commenting.
@nealkelly9757 very ignorant..educate yourself before making such disgusting comments
@@nealkelly9757No buddy, a lot of those people are emotional unstable narcissists that slip through the cracks of psychiatry. If everyone's intentions and inner feelings were made obvious at once, you'd be surprised as to how many people just absolutely do not resemble the more apparent symptoms of BPD but behind closed doors and alone cry and torment themselves for hours. A lot of the people we call spineless people pleasers and overly agreeable conformists with no personality are most definitely within the realm of borderline personality disorder. A ton of them are diagnosed as well and just keep it to themselves all day because opening up about it just makes the whole thing worse as people think that it's some sort of sociopathy or something.
Your personal experiences don't hold a flame to the relentless effort the psychiatric community is making to understand the entirety of the Cluster B spectrum. If a psychiatrist is pretty damn sure that someone has 'quiet' BPD after a career of dealing with liars and finger pointers, they're probably 100% right.
This explains why I sometimes feel extremely empathetic and other times I feel like someone might be dying infront of me and I wouldn't do a thing.
Same!
You just described me . Although I am always empathetic for cats😇
I have such trouble with empathy sometimes I don’t feel empathetic at all. Like you said you could watch someone die in front of you not feel or do a thing about it. I don’t understand why I feel this way more than my empathetic guilty side
YES@@Allinthefamilee
this is so true
I hope people don’t automatically relate having BPD to being abusive/manipulative. Many of us want the people around us to be happy. I spend a lot of time thinking about how to make another person’s life easier, and I don’t think I am the only one. It’s bad enough that we have to deal with our thoughts and feelings, the last thing we want to do is put them onto someone else.
Exactly many do but not all bpd are like that.
Same, I do everything I can so my family can relax when they get home. And have everything ready for them in the morning, so it will go smoothly. Why? bc I feel bad all the time that they put up with my crazy arse emotions.
Same here. 💕
Thanks right, my girl-friend has BPD & she also has a very beautiful heart, she always thinks about how she can make things better for another, she cares about others' happiness all while ignoring her own the majority of the time.
BPDs can be abusive and manipulative tho
a lot of people in the comments who have had negative experiences with ppl with bpd seem to think everyone with bpd is the same. when i got diagnosed my therapist told me that there are over 200 different ways to have BPD. please don't generalize and assume every individual with bpd is abusive. this is extremely harmful. my heart goes out to everyone who has had to deal with a abusive friend/or partner. but please don't think people with bpd can't be trusted due to this one in 200+ individuals.
THIS.
Thank you.
PwBPD have a number (at least five) of the (nine) symptoms as general behavioral patterns, but humans are so incredibly diverse, and our lives look so different, that making such lazy, generalized judgments on so many people based off so very little isn't just logically fallacious: it's dangerous and harmful. Adding to people's complicated burdens, anguish, and unseen life stories with casual, black-and-white comments in the RUclips comments sections doesn't help cure BPD or the pain it causes: it actually just makes things unnecessarily worse.
When one has been hurt by a pwBPD, I urge them to SEEK A THERAPIST. They help with pain more than prowling RUclips for mentally ill strangers to....uh...I'm not sure what to do exactly. Seek an apology from? Or just bully into feeling their pain. Idk. It's unhealthy for all parties involved.
I don’t really care what harms you. We generalize to keep ourselves safe because many of us have had the same encounters with you freaks of society.
People with BPD are always the victim. That’s how you lure us in. Lots of us who went through therapy to recover from abuse those with BPD caused us learn how you psychotic animals work. You won’t fool us with your “it hurts my heart” BS
@@kzbernabeu3674 i think that this part is very overlooked which causes people with and without bpd to have a very negative image of the disorder. for us with bpd this is extremely harmful and "proves" our negative and dangerous thoughts about ourselves. which ultimately can lead to self harm/self destructive behavior and even death. i also wholeheartedly agree that people who have been harmed by individuals with bpd should seek therapy instead of commenting on these types of videos for "reassurance"., which cause both harm to themselves, but especially to individuals with bpd who read these comments and get their suicidal thoughts reaffirmed.
also excuse my grammar im pretty tired rn haha
@archiveschannel8818 As someone who has been told they most likely have bpd, this comment and replies is something I hope everyone reads. Just because some people with bpd are abusive doesn't mean that everyone with bpd is like that. I struggle reading replies of people who have dealt with abusive people who have bpd, because it makes me worry extra hard that I may be abusive or manipulative without knowing (even though nothing indicates that in my relationships), and when I split on people I tend to isolate myself and let them know that I'm having what I call a "bpd moment" or a "bpd situation" and that if I'm not talking, it's because I am doing self care and will talk more when I am in a better state to do so.
I understand though, especially if a person grew up with a parent with BPD and for them it was emotionally traumatizing. That's trauma from a very young age and it's hard to see it as anything but a situation they want to avoid later in life due to how that made them feel as a child.
I agree with you though, no two people with BPD are the same. My ex showed alot of signs of BPD, bipolar disorder and was a malignant narcissist (I'm not a therapist, just waa desperate to look into and understand what things he struggled with. All of it, I could accept ...except the NPD).
I've had several friends and close people to me that struggled with their own battles with BPD and they were some of the most deeply caring, empathic, most beautiful souls I've ever known.
Everyone with kindness in their hearts deserves a chance
I got diagnosed with BPD at the age of 22. I spent my whole life fighting BPD. Also suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.
Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
YES very sure of Dr.benfungi. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
I have been clinically diagnosed with BPD since I was 20. And I'd like to say my personal experiences dealing with this disorder that didn't seem to get touched.
One, after having your diagnosis and trying to talk to your family about it. Be prepared to now always feel like people look at you like you're psychotic.
Two, no matter how much you can mask your emotional unstability people will find it unfair to eventually have to change their words to not hurt your feelings or trigger you.
Three, your life will be constantly trying to explain to people that BPD in the movies is not what it's like to have BPD in real life. People with BPD are not psychotic monsters.
Someone with bpd is likely to constantly put their partner through little "tests" to show that their partner still cares about them while they're at their lowest.
I'm not saying all of us, but most of us constantly beat ourselves up for making mistakes. Constantly reminding someone with BPD about their mess up will eventually just make them fall apart even more.
Most people with BPD don't even know who were are anymore because we've spent so long mirroring everyone's behaviours to keep ourselves love and safe.
I have two relatives with confirmed BPD and they have both killed themselves before I was even born. Please check in on your loved ones with bpd try to be empathetic even if they're upset about ridiculous things.
Emotional validation is key for loving someone with BPD. And I reiterate again, we are not monsters
Thank you for this comment. My partner is undiagnosed but we are almost certain he has BPD and everything you touched on resonated. I felt that a couple of things were missing from the video (even though the video was well done) so it is super validating to see someone with lived experiences give such a well-articulated and honest take on the disorder. It’s people like you that help people like me support and properly understand the ones we love most.
@@probablyaly thank you for your response
I have clinical bpd on top of bipolar and ptsd . It's a special sort of hell having 3 separate mental conditions thank you for the validation
THANK YOU FOR THIS COMMENT ❤️❤️
yeah i try my best but i just want to die ig not telling anyone isn't really trying my best but i'm not gonna do it because i don't wanna cause trouble so i just stuck in a loop of unhappiness getting told by everyone around me that i'm doing amazing or doing shit, either way i cry most nights and hate my life nothing ever changes.
i just got diagnosed 2 days ago, after years of feeling like i was just insane. i feel better knowing what’s wrong with me, but i feel scared for myself
My therapist is looking into this with this for me.
If you don't give up, and put in the work, it WILL get better. It's hard. And often lonely. It's a process that a lot of people don't see....
But you deserve a life worth living. To feel safe, stable, valuable, and loved. I wish you the very best on this journey: you've come so far already.
i feel so vulnverable in this world.
Don't be scared there is nothing wrong with you.
nothings wrong with you
The DSM's list is so unhelpful in conveying the hell that is BPD. "Fear of abandonment" - more like absolute primal terror, like you are dying, just from saying goodbye after a normal day out with friends. "Feelings of emptiness" - more like you are an infinite black hole, totally untethered, ungrounded, you don't exist. I had BPD, unknowingly, most of my life and suffered terribly, begging psychologists for help since my teens, who all missed it. It's hard to put into words the pain of BPD. Diagnosed at 39, never heard of it before that. I'm now 45, 3yrs in remission. Fought very hard for my recovery, but it is possible.
WHat steps did you take ? What helped you recover ?
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
I’m so sorry you went through so much pain. Having BPD and overcoming it is feeling like your skin is being burned off and learning how to not “feel it” anymore. So incredibly painful. I’m glad you’re still here. Your comment gives me hope to keep trying
Living with this disorder is complete hell. I lost track of the amount of times I attempted suicide or ended up in psych hospitals.
Omg! Me too and i can’t believe im still here! Mental hospital s traumatized me even more. I’m afraid to attempt because its not working for me 10 attempts somehow i get saved its weird!
@JesusisLordSEEK No thanks! I have a lot of trauma associated with religion.
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@@Elegance263mental hospitals are a strange place. The staff and the setup of the places are what make them weird. Not the patients. Even the food, showers and toilets are bizarre. That kind of environment will make you twice as crazy so fast. I went once and made it my mission to never return.
I know and usually the trigger is a breakup from a narcissist
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Does anyone know any good source to get them? I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels, would love to give shrooms a try.
Yes, dr.sporesss
Dr.sporesss is the best, he's been my go to for anything psychedelics.
Yes he is. dr.sporesss
DMT was definitely the best trip I ever had. It was amazing!
This isn’t victim mentality, or anything. This is the truth. People with BPD are treated horribly nowadays and toyed with by their partners, they know what hurts you and play games with your mind because it entertains them, there are some sick people out here… you will have your heart broken and ripped apart many many times.
Yeah BPD ppl tend to have harder times recognizing abusive partners or leaving them when the partner does start to act abusive or more abusive
We bear the brunt of abusive relationships, we get stuck in them the most… it’s god awful…
taken advantaged of by support worker.. they've turned my sister's adult child against her mother.
Not always I have it and been with my husband 15 years. My psychiatrist told me it was caused by my mum. She is a narcissistic
The woman I love who has quiet BPD told me that her people are what narcissists attract because quiet BPD people are so easy to abuse by them.
I will probably never feel how deep she feels without developing quiet BPD myself first, but it broke my heart hearing the things he did.
And yet, eventhough he's out of her life, she still defends him. I think that will take a long time.
@@Leto85it’s a struggle man, my girl had bpd and various other disorders. It’s just a matter of supporting them in every way possible/being as knowledgeable as you can be. I wish you/you guys the best.
I’ve never been properly diagnosed with anything but I’m more than certain I have BPD. My whole life I’ve struggled with anger issues. They’re brought out by you’d never guess it… kindness from those around me. When a loved one is there for me and sympathizes with me I go on full guard mode and push them away with my anger. But my true desire inside is just to trust and to love others and be loved. All I want is love! Once I have a anger outburst I feel guilt and shame. But I know it’ll happen again. So I resort to isolation and limited talking with others. I feel so alone but I’m surrounded by loved ones. I truly feel like a monster… and idk if I’ll ever be the person I want to be. Sometimes I really think not being here would be a blessing for everyone, then I can’t hurt anyone anymore or disappoint them again. But I’m too much of a coward to do anything. So I’ll continue to be alone.
I hope you can fight and pull through it all. I have no advice or anything to say just stay safe and hopefully you'll find happiness and love in your life.
With the right people around you,I’m sure you can very much live a life of happiness and purpose, I dated someone who happens to tick 6/9 of the symptoms, sad that I had to discover this when the relationship had ended, I always wondered why she acted some certain ways and now I only wish she had opened up to me, probably I would have supported her better. For anyone out there who may be going through this please there are people who would love and support you regardless, do not keep it all to yourself, the right people will never use it against you.
I have that almost exact same inner experience i think omg.. from the guilt after anger to the being coward to do anything abt *those* feelings
🥲it is what it is, i guess. Hang in there bae
me exactly
This is so me…
I have a parent with this disorder. As an adult, I have difficulty dealing with employees who report to me, because I grew up with a parent who was constantly upset. When my employees are upset I just can’t take it because I grew up with this and I find it so traumatizing.
Tho understandable, you need to get that in check and if you can't, maybe don't have people working for you. Life happens and people have emotions .. and having a boss who can be understanding is almost crucial.
What advice would you give to a parent who's children are young ? Keep strong,i just wish you all the best ❤
I feel the same way❤
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
my god, what totally incompetent person placed you in that position?
My mom had *all* the symptoms listed in this video. It's sad that 25 years ago, BPD was not a thing. It would have helped us put a name on her behavior. She bounced from doctors to doctors while making everyone around her miserable. Therapy made things worse.
I'm sorry to hear this.. I have bpd and I'm a single mom of a 12 yo daughter and I worry so much about her 😭
I need to know HOW therapy made things worse?
@@artyompopov7741 Because BPD was not "a thing" back then, and when you don't have, or get the right diagnosis, you don't get the right treatment. My mom was def not better when she finished her group therapy. From my perspective, all they did was digging through their trauma and putting blame on other people for their own behavior. When my mother died, I got her therapy folder and they had her wrote letters to my sister and I (we were still kids!) that were not very pleasant, to say the least. Therapy made my mom believe that the whole world was against her, not that her borderline hurtful behavior was pushing people away. I didn't want to hang around my mom because I never knew what to expect, when she would explode, blame me for stuff I had nothing to do with. But I was the mean one for keeping a distance. Therapy just reinforced that for her.
@@Irulanne you have to know that ONLY FEW specific types of therapy will make an impact; some after a long time, some will be needed for lifetime to make better in a moment. You also have to know that BPD is the most complex and unexplored personality disorder among all. You SHOULD know that group therapy IS NOT for borderliners. And you really have to know that BPD is a result of abuse and neglect just before the birth and for short period right after.
I know what it's like cuz I have (pay attention) BPD along with ADHD, narcissistic trauma and anxiousgdepressive disorder. I'm 35 and I live in hell, my mother is a covert narcissist with some BPD traits too (though she never ever hurt herself, but she had so much hysterical and self-neglecting periods in my childhood when she stated she will commit suicide and she wants to die, bit then she got brainwashed and turned to a full-on narc). I know what you're talking about.
Believe me, BPD persons aren't as half as dangerous as other cluster B pals. We hate ourselves due to abuse and abandonment so much thar we HAVE to redirect it to someone that hurts us, but we don't hurt them directly, purposely and willfully. We're just like other cluster B, but we fight it within ourselves daily and all we do is to try all day to hold this hell inside us and to protect others from things other cluster B dudes release into them freely and willingly.
So don't be mad at your mom for those letters. She didn't tell you this in yo face in the colders or wost manner possibly. And keep in mind group therapy is not working hood to such people anyway.
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
My mum was only diagnosed a few yrs ago in her late 50s. Her 3 children had already fully grown by then. I've always been more understanding towards my mum (she's currently not talking to me again , second time , usually goes on for roughly 6-10yrs) once she's ready it would be nice if she reached out. She never has before, it was always me. Ive decided to stop reaching out after one last lovely letter I wrote to her. I now wait & leave it in her hands. As I know THIS time it would be HER decision to come back. She has her first & only Grandchild she's never met who is now 8. My mum would make a wonderful Grandma. She's 63 now. But not spoken to me again in yrs. I see how she must struggle in her mind, I know it's not her fault. I accept her even though I carry anger at her - I have still , truthfully forgiven her. She didn't WANT this, to do any of this. Her mind just doesn't think the same. She's a good women deep down, would never hurt someone outside the home or even punish an unruly dog lol. She's very respectful, polite and good hearted really. She just has some very sad traits too. I know in a way, when she dies she we FINALLY be at peace. And I believe THEN when my mum learns how much I understand her, she will love me so much more from heaven. I will take comfort in her finally 'resting' and talk to her always. I'm proud of her, I told her that in the letter. 🙏
Thank you for seeing us with BPD as not all bad.
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
I grew up with a parent with this. While i feel for those that have it, i run like hell the other way from them. I have ptsd from dealing with my Mom.
Yeah they ca EXTREMELY abusive & outta pocket all of a sudden & really traumatize you.
So y’all are like racists but with mental illnesses. Interesting.
I have severe PTSD and CPTSD from someone that was part of a specific group of people yet I would never flat out say that I would run far away from one of them if one of them were to come up to me to say hi or something. Everyone’s an individual. Treat them as such.
@@ninagamboa3606 don't classify everyone who has bpd as abusive.
Both me and my mom have BPD...Yea it was interesting being with her, we're sometimes so happy together, other times I wish I were never born
@@themelon_1785 same!
I’m struggling to live everyday it gets harder nobody wants to be around me I keep hurting those I love I can’t express my feelings I just get quiet and shut down or frustrated & angry I’m trying my hardest to be a good person but the longer I fight the more tired I become
I’m getting to that point as well
Feel the same💔😥
Me too
I had complex PTSD, I lived with a covert narcissist. Long ago I was dealing with a different narcissist and they said I had BPD. My ex beat me with this diagnosis and I showed some of the symptoms. I even had disassociative Identy disorder. 4 years after I left her all of that is gone, sometimes being treated like shit will make you look insane.
I went through the divorce and I have to pay the person who stole my life 800 per month.
It is worth every dollar to be free of her. Now if I can just stop going into a freeze response everytime she bumps into my life.
I relate. I got diagnosed with bpd cause my ex kept manipulating me to go. He was narcissistic, but the psychologist never diagnosed him cause he never asked to be. It's so toxic to diagnose someone unless they have a serious problem. I'll tell you one thing; the meds those 'psychologist' put me on drove me to a suicide attempt.
“Being treated like shit makes you look insane”. I experienced this as I was emotionally abused and it was torturous and I lost friends cos they only saw him as “ the nice guy” and saw being me being “crazy” as he stonewalled me and treated me with contempt, and when I reacted and tried to connect, he was ignoring me. I was “unreasonable” and” needy” because it upset me and wanted my partner to show affection and make me feel like he liked me . 3 years later I’m still healing . They didn’t see him screaming in my face and calling me a monster… now I have one friend just and rebuilding my life from zero.
Diagnosed with c-ptsd
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
My Ex displayed 8 of the 9 criteria. With a lot of narcissistic traits. Our relationship didn't last long. Esp. when She refused to get professional help. She vehemently denied that she had any personality disorder in the first place. When I presented evidence to her, she flew in a rage accusing me of manipulating her through gaslighting. I cared deeply for her, and I just wanted her to live a healthy life considering that she isolated herself out of paranoia, and had burned her bridges with her friends & family before I entered into her life.
They say nothing wrong with me ,I not done anything wrong .
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
The most difficult part of loving someone with this condition is their refusal to address their behavior and get help for it. Eventually they just wear you out emotionally and leave you no choice but to let go of them
I have BPD I believe I developed it through past trauma growing up. My parents both have different mental disorders. My brother has ADHD and my sister has anxiety/depression. I'm the youngest in my family and have had a really dysfunctional relationship between my brother and my mom growing up. I always felt I shouldn't of been born. My brother even told me himself I was a mistake baby. That stayed with me as a kid, teen and young adult. All my past relationships I was with men that also had disorders. I've been emotionally and physically abused by them. Raped. I was sexually assaulted by my own Uncle. I started to put myself in risky situations like unsafe sex. I tried to end myself a few times. I have had many friendships and family members who have abandoned me throughout my life. I do therapy and am married now but I still don't trust many people at all. I'm working on not having a "favorite person " as the people I pick are randoms that don't have my best interest. It's been hell and I don't wish this shit on anyone.
BPD is intense, and its horrible. I'm so glad to report that through medication, support, therapy, and spirituality I've made a drastic recovery over the course of this year. My life is blessed even where other people might see difficulty. If anyone is out there struggling with BPD or any mental health issue I just want you to know that recovery is possible and that you should stay healthy and alive no matter what
"If I can do it, so can you"
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I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for Your herbs on RUclips. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement.
This has to be more than just a mere coincidence that i came across this video. I watch mental health wellness videos sometimes, but i didn't expect to come across a BPD video. As it turns out, there was someone who i was considering dating. Later on (after realizing my feelings weren't being reciprocated) she told me that she had BPD, and had been off the meds for a while. With what i currently know about her, she checks 6/9 symptoms that were listed here. She does some questionable things sometimes and often resorts to 420 and alcohol to calm her nerves down. I can tell she's a good person, but definitely has a complicated past. I thought that itself was the sole reason for her behavior, but now i realize it isn't.
This video was very informative for me to get to know her better and not be so quick to get angry or upset over some for her decisions.
As someone with this disorder it made me cry reading your comment. What a good soul you are. I wish more people were as understanding as you. Your lady friend is very lucky to have you xx
I suspect this man I was dating on/off to have the same issues. He checks like 7 of the 9 boxes. Once he told me he had multiple personalities disorder and had trust/abandonment issues from childhood. He told me he didn’t love me “like that” twice. But both times, acted like he didn’t say those things later. We don’t talk now, but maaan my mental health took a beating from dealing with this person. I had been so confused., but I think I understand him better now. When things R good, there is such a high., till it switches to the other end 😢
I think I might have it as well. We just want connection but it's an internal thing of not wanting to get hurt. We are very kind just dealt with so much shit in the past.
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I’m so thankful to be able to ignore my emotions. It’s been good for my career and family life.
Keeping a job is difficult man.. I tend to cycle jobs. Couple months here then there. Lowest paying trash jobs and then just keel to myself. But sooner or later I start seeing ghosts everywhere and make a fool out of myself and leave after calling in sick more and more and then one day I stop showing up. Honestly being homeless has been a more calm experience dor me then normal life.
Its hard and painful. What now?
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I suffered severe depression several years ago. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd.
Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episodeenough to start working on my mental health
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
Yes, dr.porass. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
The shroom experience stands as my most remarkable journey, an awe-inspiring encounter that left an indelible mark of amazement.
Is he on instagram?
The substance abuse will kill me eventually. I like playing jump rope with psychosis symptoms and the numbing feeling is what I’m addicted too.
Sexual / intimate relationships feel meaningless and the family that kept me grounded in reality is now non-existent in my mind even when I’m surrounded by them. All I want is to be left completely alone not to be seen. I get angry and frustrated like a child whenever these needs of mine aren’t met and that keeps me from forming an intimate relationship with someone, which is what I know I deeply desire. How could someone show me unconditional love, affections and reassurance when all I will do in return is push them away ? I’m 24.
There exists much more deeply disturbing mental deficits in this world but this one in particular looks like it kills softly. If not the drug abuse I know the intense loneliness in my mind will kill me. I’m surrounded by love and understanding but none of it feels real. Professional help did nothing for me. Keep me in your prayers / considerations please. I still want to be here but some days I’m fighting for my life as a passenger in my mind.
Drinking is my form of self harm.
I have something wrong with my kidney from the constant use over the years, which makes my thyroid inflame when I drink.
Eventually I'm sure it'll kill me, but at least I won't hurt the people I love anymore with all my mistakes.
So I definitely feel you...
You got this! Stay strong friend, you're not alone even when you tell yourself you are and you believe it.
I am so sorry please stay strong. I think a psychiatrist may help but then we can also lie to them and say we are fine when really inside I am loosing it . I feel for you. I feel lost and like when i have plans with anyone I dread it bc I just want to be alone like we can only trust ourselves no matter what it's hard for me to let down my guard no matter who you are you may never know how I actually feel bc I can hide it and repress it too well. Also I must be in control I like to know what will happen and i hate change more than anything even if it's for the better it hurts me inside. ❤ just know you are not alone and you are worth so much more than any mental illness. Day by day minute by minute take it slow and stay strong!!!!
Professionals did not help me either. Overpaid frauds is what they are. I will never pay money again to go sit with some red in the face alcoholic therapist that just sits there and says "it will be okay" ever again.
Praying for you my friend.
Have you tried being more active?
I got diagnosed yesterday and it’s still sinking in
I just got diagnosed yesterday. I feel the sense of relieved knowing that there are reason that I feel that way. but then the people around us does sometimes think that we are just "overacting things" and does not know that we internalize every judgement that they say or done to us. I have been self-harming by overdosing medication and stabbing myself bunch of times and my family thinks that im just overacting things. im greatful that i had friends and boyfriend that support me.
To people that have been diagnosed and reading this remember that there are people that are there waiting for you to voice out whats on your mind and makes you feel that you are not alone. there is nothing wrong in asking for help. it might be a scary big step but take your time. one step at a time. you can do it. we believed in you.
to other people, please be mindful of what you say or action show empathy.
R u fine now?
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I have BPD and my fiancé left me. I wanted to kill myself. I always knew she was gonna leave and would repeat it every day before I met her “everyone leaves” now I’m “better” but my better is just accepting I’ll never meet anyone in life and coming to terms with that I’ll always be alone. I fill my time with friends now and just spending money to buy all the material things I want (I have a good job). My friends ask “when are you gonna start dating again” but they don’t know I’ll never date again.
I understand your pain. I will stay alone also. I can’t bear the pain of losing someone I love ever again. Unfortunately, we have been through things that cause the symptoms of BPD and I don’t think it will ever change,we just get better at coping with the symptoms with time and experience. People who were supposed to provide us with a sense of safety in this world have deeply broken our ability to trust ourselves and others. So sad but true. Best wishes.
I'm right along with you. It's safe this way. No one will ever understand how I feel, or accept me but me.
❤🧸
Agree - self preservation is the ultimate self love. ❤ I am happy we are all in this together. Reading these comments validate my perspective on never dating again. And bonus! Being emotionally mature means we are not supposed to wrap up our identity in others ANYWAY so we're doing ourselves a favor. People think dating and family life is the end goal, but I think knowing how to be alone and thriving is.
Don’t give up on yourself or love. You have to change your mindset, we manifest what we think and speak. Best of luck to you ❤
Got diagnosed with this. Finally feels good to know that the way I am is normal and acceptable.
No it's not acceptable it's only an explanation
Lol
That's the right attitude. Everyone have a burden in life, that they need to do something about. That's where you find your meaning in life. The brilliant part of getting a correct diagnose is, your weaknesses becomes crystal clear to you... and you can start honing in those weaknesses as much as you can, and really get to know yourself... which you'd realize is probably the most meaningful thing you can do in life. I heartily recommend cultivating good habits into your life, like getting a solid sleep schedule, meditate, read, work out, writing, keep your surroundings clean and tidy and so on. If you do some already, keep adding, and do it one at a time or else you won't integrate them. You life will be infinitely better just a year from now on, if you focusing on taking care of yourself... make yourself pristine first, and you'd realize that, you taking care of yourself to the best of your ability is noting different than taking care of someone else you hold dear.
@@Christian_Bagger I really appreciate your words. I tried healing but I cannot do this anymore. I cannot forgive myself, I cannot love myself, cannot motivate myself do anything. my existence feels like a waste of time and I feeel like the biggest loser on earth. All I want to do is die. I cannot live this pretentious petty thing called life anymore. Things are getting worse and getting out of my control. I am just,........ LOST!
It’s not normal lol.
The abusive behavior that people with BPD display will NEVER be acceptable or normal.
Thank you. I've had leaflets made about me. This video makes more sense than thinking all EUPD patients are bad, time wasters.
I have borderlone personality disorder but dont relate to the anger and manipulation. Its definitely harmful when people generalise
Some Psychologists have tried to put forward the idea of BPD subtypes, and i relate a lot to 'Quiet BPD'
While i dont abuse or have intense anger externally, i've been incredibly angry and abusive towards myself and directed it inwards.
Im doing much better now thanks to therapy, but wanted to share this for the people who like to paint everyone with the same brush.
I'm the same. The violence and anger is directed towards myself. I'm in therapy now but it's difficult to change the perception I have of myself after being abused and bullied.
@@msanna4we learn and copy behaviour from our family. Anger is something we got served from someone. Then we serve it to ourselves. Find a way to release anger and give yourself better life. You deserve it.
Thank you. No one ever explained my own disorder in this comprehensive way.
I have bpd and struggle to find short yet very informal videos to show people and this is definitely my go to now thank you so much and good luck to all who struggle I promise your not alone ♥️
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I was hospitalized for six days at a psych ward.
I now am being diagnosed BPD, very happy to be aware and get help. I check off all the boxes in the video I see lol guess the doctors aren’t wrong …
Out of curiosity, what's it like in a psych ward?
@@mannysilver211 depends what you are there for.
I was on lock down, held on a formal 30, which means i could be kept for at least two weeks, if needed. I had 20 minutes outside time, either than that, I was in my cell. Bed. toilet, and that’s it.
People are held there for murder, rape, violent crimes. Others, just there too volunteer them selves so they can get better.
It all depends
@@tysheppard3979 Sounds relatively tame compared to what my mother told me when I was younger, but I highly doubt she's ever actually been to one.I think you can guess what she said about it, the stereotypical injections and strap jackets.It's good to know that none of that is actually true, not that I'd want to end up there myself mind you but still I find this to be insightful.(sorry I tend to ramble sometimes.)Thanks for sharing.
@@mannysilver211 no worries man.
There still is straight jackets, restraints, and injections. I barely remember my stay because I was SO medicated, hallucinating at some points.
So it’s still pretty rough, I wouldn’t really consider it tame, murders happen, assaults, it can be tough.
@@mannysilver211 been hospitalized multiple times in different hospitals. There were special rooms set up for patients that became violent or hysterical. In one of the hospitals the other patients could see into the room, in it was nothing but a gurney with restraints. Saw a guy get tackled after throwing a fit, they dragged him off to that room, strapped him to the bed and shot him up with some kind of tranquilizer.
Patient rooms were like motel rooms with hospital beds, cordless window blinds, no tvs, special shower curtains that hung from the ceiling so a person can't hang themselves.
I'm 20 and got diagnosed with BPD sometime within the last few months. I never knew anything about it before the diagnosis, and videos like these help a lot to see what exactly is the science behind it and whatnot. My sense of self is almost non existent, I often don't really know who I am and don't recognize my face in the mirror sometimes, which is scary honestly. I currently see a psychologist and psychiatrist and currently in an okay spot in my life but this disorder has been physically damaging to my health. In a "manic episode" I physically cannot fall asleep for up to, and sometimes a full week at a time. Being awake until I quite literally pass out. It would happen at least once a month for several months straight and it made work and school difficult. I am afraid telling people I have bpd due to the stereotypes surrounding the disorder
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I am being assessed next month as i strongly suspect i have BPD too. I realised the other day, like a light switch turned ON in my head. It was both a relief but scary. Scary at the thought its been ME causing everyone so much pain yet for years ive thought i was the victim and my outbursts were justified. They were not. I am with a beautiful man now who understands i show all 9 traits and is standing by me. This is both such a safe feeling, but so much pressure as im scared im going to switch by being triggered, so im watching what i say, do, its exhausting. Did you get your diagnosis? and if so, how did you feel before and after please anyone? xx
I can share my experience :) I was evaluated twice for it. The first time was when I was at relatively stable point in my life and they said I had some traits but not enough to be diagnosed with it. I felt disappointed and relieved at the same time because I felt like that wasn’t accurate but also I could continue to ignore it. Then things got really bad and I ended up in psych inpatient and when I was there they reevaluated me for it and I showed pretty much all the traits that time so I have been officially diagnosed for about 4 months now. I was kind of overwhelmed at first because I didn’t want anymore disorders to add to the list lol but mostly I found a lot of comfort in knowing there’s an explanation for why I am the way I am and it helps others in my life understand me better and learn how to best support me. If you have a feeling trust your gut! I’m in DBT now which has helped tremendously I highly recommend it to anyone who has access to therapy! For me group DBT is especially helpful in addition to my 1:1 DBT therapist. Also getting the DBT workbook to do by yourself on your own time works better for some people! Some of my bpd besties (lol) don’t have health care so they just bought the book on Amazon and that’s been helping them! Hope this is helpful ❤ I’m glad you have such a supportive partner and I wish the best for you!!!
Hi I just recently starting thinking I have bpd, I haven’t got diagnosed but I’m trying will you let me know how you feel after you get diagnosed? Thank you.
@@melodeeznutss Thank you so much for your response. I did infact get diagnosed with BPD and can say it's been a rollercoaster for me. At first i had a slight breakdown and felt so angry, because of the abuse i endured as a child by my mother, angry i went to the doctor at 17 with every trait yet he put me on very strong anti-depresants, and sad, sad becaues i put myself in rehab for alcholism 4 years ago and have been sober ever since and thought i would live a happy life yet no, i find out i have this. All i can say is, when you know, you know lol. I have had to split from my partner too as although he said he would stand by me, in reality i realised that i am not the only one who has mental health issues. He has shown every trait of NPD with his traits coming out more so when i needed him. He has lived in my home for free for 2 years and i have paid for everything yet the moment i can't fund him anymore as i need to pay for DBT as am i correct they dont do it with the NHS?? he turned nasty. I feel quite alone and isolated but something deep inside me tells me i am going to be ok xxx
@@FeelingLuckySlots Hi there, Ive just replied to the other person about how i felt. Can i just say, please don't wait too long to get diagnosed if you do have it. I'm 45 and have deep down known all my life something was differant about me but i just couldnt pin point it until a few months ago.
Hey, I know you posted 4 months ago but I'd still like to share my experience. I was diagnosed 5 months ago (so around the time you were realizing what you may have too). But I was suspected to have it since last October.
It is scary hearing the words "personality disorder". My world did not fall apart in that moment, but it definitely shook it because I would have never guessed I would be diagnosed with something along the lines of a personality disorder.
I did a lot of reflecting over the past 5 months. I began to overanalyze everything and I realized many things. Some good. like me realizing that my failed relationships weren't ENTIRELY my fault. And some bad like I don't know who I am. I don't think I actually built anything of myself for myself. I don't even feel real.
My world began falling apart when I realized that everything I went through wasn't supposed to happen. If I just didn't have BPD I would have had a relatively peaceful life. But I lived in chaos and having close friends was the worst I could do but I'm deeply afraid of being alone. But when I don't have close relationships I am the most stable. There is no way out. Realizing this shouldn't have happened hurts. And realizing It'll take a while until I can have 100% stable close relationships with people. It feels pointless atp because of how many ppl I wish were still here that I had lost. It's traumatizing.
It's both relieving to have a diagnosis, to have an explanation, and it's also awful because you grieve a lot. Atleast I did. We're all different. I have quiet BPD. And (correct me if I'm wrong) there's 100 ways to experience bpd so I bet there's MANY other ways you can react to a diagnosis.
But if you get diagnosed. Try to be happy about it because you'll finally have a word for it and a reason for your behavior.
I also recommend doing hella research because you'll realize some things you didn't have an explanation for or didn't know you experienced because of BPD. Like I learned about having no emotional permanence. That was a shocker.
Anyways I hope this was a cool read. I am really bad at sticking to a topic so I hope I did an okay job and you were able to relate to it somewhat. But yeah, I just wanted an excuse to talk about this. I'm still processing months later. I'm trying not to because I want to live normally as much as possible.
I have been diagnosed and treated for BPD. It’s one of many diagnoses I have been given. No idea if it was necessarily the “right” one, but the DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy) treatment I was able to get was very helpful. If you get a chance to try DBT, take it. (BPD or not) It’s basic behavioral skills that ought to be taught in schools.
My bottom line issue is evidently “treatment resistant clinical depression with anxiety disorder”- which sucks but is not hopeless. I have tried many different therapies, all targeted at different symptoms, and sometimes something helps. Yeah, maybe only for a little while but that’s damn well better than nothing. Keep trying. Don’t let yourself isolate- aside from that being a bad thing if you need help, you need to remember that as humans, we are obligatorily social animals- it’s an evolutionary fact that we need to interact with other humans in some way to function properly. (This is also why solitary confinement in prisons qualifies as cruel and unusual punishment).
If I had managed to isolate myself from everyone I would not be here now. Keep going. They are coming out with new treatments constantly and fine-tuning older treatments. Please keep trying.
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I was diagnosed at 16 because of a long term facility I was placed in. They did very extensive testing bc I was a minor. I’m 18 now, I hate living with bpd. But it gets easier to manage as time goes on
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Go for a reevaluation, they’re not supposed to diagnose minors since teens emotions are all over the place too
I’m currently experiencing a lot of this with a girl I got REALLY close to within a matter of 2 weeks. It went of idolizing to devaluation in a matter of 15 minutes one night….now she won’t speak to me, look at me, and it honestly feels like she hates me. It’s really difficult not to internalize the behavior or try to rationalize it. I honestly have no idea what to do. I don’t avoid her or treat her any differently, even if she now sees me as inherently all evil.
She was in relationship before you, right?
You have to understand that her feelings are not real. That none of her thoughts or feelings about you or anyone are based in objective reality. I know that it's seductive (especially if you've had parents who weren't there for you like they should have been) to come across someone who you think sees you and loves you for nothing. But it wasn't real. Anyone who instantly loves you for no reason, will hate you for no reason, too. Don't try to understand it, you'll make yourself depressed and crazy trying. It will never make rational sense, ever. There's a really good channel called how I survived my borderline girlfriend. This channel is super helpful for victims of bpd abuse. I went through all of this, too, with a male partner, though. Be glad you got out early. Stay out of it and get some info and some help if you need it ❤ I don't know you, but I know that you are worth having love and happiness and health in your life. Just because you exist, you are worthy. Good luck!
@@jenniferklopman2557what's wrong with you?
@@syphilisgaming not sure I follow...
My advice to you will be: RUN! Run from her as fast as you can unless you want to waste your precious life time on studying the condition, learning, how to navigate it, babying your partner and their outbursts, constantly walking on the eggshells, neglecting your own feelings, constantly making sacrifices or to be short, living on an active volcano. Let me tell you, living on an actual volcano would be more stable. Run and never date another BPD person. You only have one short life.
Very informative and useful video. Thank you creator!❤
You're welcome, thanks for watching 😊
Thank you for sharing awareness ❤
I have BPD and this illness completely ruined my life, I tried to take my own life 4 times and even though I am going through treatment, I still believe that this monster will kill me someday.
I am so much better after proper medication (antidepressants and antipsychotics) and DBT, but I know that I will never recover. There is no permanent cure.
I agree that the personal background plays a huge part in it and I agree that we can also be very hard to be with.
Again thank you for this video.
It certainly can be a living nightmare
i hate having being told i have bpd but i cant be diagnosed because of my age. i hate being seen as a psycho because i cant control the way my brain works. i hate having a personality disorder untreated and pushed to the side because of my age.
Can we talk? :)
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My brother died from suicide. I believe he had BPD, because the symptoms described in the video are similar to his.
He had unstable relationships, he used to view people as extremely good or bad. He had uncontrollable anger, emotional dysregulation and maybe fear of abandonment. He was also too violent towards my mother and seemed like he really hated her, while he used to admire and love my father. He also found it really hard to keep a job and changed his mood too easily. He sometimes took some kind of pills, but never wanted to go to a psychotherapist. I think that's what made the matters even worse....
😢I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing…your story really helped me understand some aspects about a family member of mine who has previously attempted suicide & I do believe he suffers from BPD as well❤
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Thankyou great universe for guiding me through this video ❤
I have identified with this behaviour. Shocking.
I've been diagnosed with this alongside Autism.
I do have feelings, for my beloved deceased pets.
And my son of course.
My husband is amazing at supporting me.
@Debbie Dye dude shut up
Was diagnosed with bpd in my late teens. I'm 45 now. In the last few years I've suspected I'm also on the spectrum. Really a hot mess most of the time, it is tiring and lonely.
i can’t tell whether it’s anxiety, bpd, autism, or adhd. i have some pretty wild behaviors but i think i’m pretty okay with ppl. mostly just stuff i think to myself and what others think about be. i’ll convince myself i’m amazing then run away and ghost everyone for like one day and then i’m like omg the world is over. i want to see a therapist but i’m a teen and i feel like it’s not tearing me apart so badly rn so i don’t neeeeeed it. it’s so difficult.
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I got diagnosed when I turned 18 due to my parents and trauma. It can be tough and it’s definitely so deadly. All of a sudden everyone thinks they have mental health issues and want therapy for EVERYTHING when we need it the most. My psychiatrist forgets I exist and I’ve been on the therapy waiting list since 2011. It can be tough, but it can have good sides too! When you really love a song or movie, you realllllyyyyy love it and get to experience positive things more intensely.
Thanks for posting. I feel less alone with the comments there as well
CLEAR EXPLANATION, THANK 💥
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I have been told I was borderline...often want a good explination. Now I know that I am not. Changing my mind or leaving folks I love when they behave badly is what I do. I see nothing bad about this. I just dont stick around folks that are not nice or do terrible things. I do not see why anyone would.
Seriously why would someone stay around toxicity
Careful there, "behave badly" can be an objective thing or a subjective view. A lot of people with BPD will split and demonise someone and leave them and perfectly rationalise it for themselves. It doesn't mean the people are objectively behaving that bad.
You have self respect
you are splitting - all or nothing thinking. someone makes a mistake and you throw them out with the garbage. remember you're not perfect and others may view YOU as the toxic problem.
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My wife has BPD and has become increasingly wanting to un-alive herself. I am trying to learn as much as I can because she doesnt have anyone else in her own life to turn to except for me and her Mom. Thank you for sharing your videos and insights, I hope anyone out there struggling knows that things might be hard now but they will get better.
I've been diagnosed with EUPD recently after 7 years of my GP saying it was depression and an anxiety disorder. They put me on so many weird medication that did not suit me at all, and the medication actually made Me worse. My new doctor weened me off the medication, reassessed me and explained to me I have EUPD and CPTSD m- she has put me in new medication, and offered some local community theroy sessions and NHS theroy sessions (and yes I do go to all of them) amd this has helped me so much and I feel I can manage my EUPD and CPTSD much better :)
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Other than extremely rare Steven's Johnson syndrome. I have good luck with Lamictal and they just upped the dose. I will let you know. I have been on the drug along time . The real work is in the therapy and I still have much to do . All the best to all of you.
Sh*t this feels like eyes getting opened. I need help. But I struggle with money so much I cannot even afford to help myself.
If you are single you might qualify for state provided healthcare. Check with the department of health and human services.
I have bpd traits...my daughter is borderline and her mom was too.I judge no one.
To mám taky :D
Líbí se mi, jak mi Mulač sedm let cpe do života tu bezcennou slapku bez důstojnosti a myslí, že ji konečně udá...
Sám má jednu doma a tak si myslí, že je to skvělej nápad :D
Je nápaditej pán...
Thanks for posting this😮
I grew out of my BPD around 35 years old. and I never thought it would of happened. Bpd is the worse. It was the worse thing ever. Im so happy i grew out it.
How old are you now? BPD cannot be outgrown, it occurs when your brain matures differently than with other people. It gets much better with age, but you cannot "outgrow it", naivity always leads to harder relapses. Then again, I do wish that it never shows symptoms again for you.
@@simonkendra3079 well, I dont feel anything or have any symptoms I did all the years I had bpd. I'm 41 now and I can't even imagine let alone believe I will ever again. Actually I didn't even notice when the bpd left as I just realised one-day I'm not suffering anymore or anything that I used to do when I had pbd few years ago..
I never seeked treatment for it either though I was requested to always.. never seeked help for it because I hated that stuff..
I think what helped me was changing my lifestyle and how I viewed life..and I was the worse of the worse bpd but hid it well mostly.
how to know if you have BPD or just reacting to a cruel world
Mindfulness and meditation can help one discern “truth”.
It's a cruel world yes, but also being shifty in moods doesn't help.
Wow! I just heard a psychiatrist mention that he thought I may have this, and from everything that you just said, it sounded to me like you were reading straight out of my history!! I’m known for the past 30 years, to have bipolar disorder, seasonal affective disorder, PTSD from childhood abuse of every type, a huge fear of abandonment, overwhelming sense of loss (because we did lose 80% of our home to Hurricane Ida, jobs, 3 immediate family members, our income stability, etc), and I have been the victim of 2 very long-term abuse situations, especially, because I stayed due to my overwhelming need to feel needed, and I stayed in horrible relationships within 3 lifelong narcissists’ as an abuse victim, and I have GAD & PTSD, a low feeling of my self worth, agoraphobia, and body dysmorphic disorder, and wow!! Need I say more ?! I’m only excited, because I’m hoping that since I know what my problem is, then perhaps I can find a free/very low cost cure, because I’ve always been turned down for Medicaid based upon my disability income alone!! So how does recovery begin? What medication fixes it? I do know that I have always felt very deeply concerned about the people around me, and I’ve always been told that I’m overly polite and/or apologetic. Could my bipolar medicines help with this, if they are tweaked a bit? I spent the past 10 years caring for a younger brother in my home who was a paramedic who fell in his home, hit his head, and became a quadriplegic. He is 6’4”/300 lbs, and he had to be turned over in bed every 2 hours and gotten up and placed in his wheelchair and driven to Dr appointments by me constantly, because after my neck and back pain became so severe that I couldn’t bear physically moving any longer after knowing in my mind that both of them were seriously injured and being unable to function hardly, I have spent the past 2.5 years having spine repair surgeries, such as an L4/5 fusion and an L5/S1 laminectomy and then, a C 4/5,5/6,&6/7 fusion, and on November 29, 2023, I’m having that triple fusion removed and having a quadruple fusion done on C 3/4,4/5,5/6,& 6/7 all fused!! They say that it’s all my fault, because I had a previous gastric bypass and hysterectomy, which is causing my crumbling bones and joints, but all of that sounded like me!! Can anyone tell me how to fix this? Thanks in advance! ❤️ I really want to heal from this!
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Thank you for explaining this :) Merry Christmas
A little late, but you too!
Spot on ty
Thanks!
Thank you very much! 😁
I got diagnosed in the mental hospital after years of not knowing was up.
Then find at as a kid was diagnosed with DAMP.
As someone that has had mental health i can no longer deal with this. People target you to use you
Dang, not gonna lie, this does not look like a fun condition to have. Heart goes out to anyone who is going through this, hope they get the help they need to manage life
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It’s the most deadly of all mental disorders (not including ED’s)
DBT is good for everyone!
BPD diagnosed. I wish I was diagnosed earlier and treated, but better late than never.
Wow, I have 8 of the 9 traits for BPD. I've never been suicidal at all. I'm an introvert and severe empath also.
Pshhh 5 out of the 9 features lol Gotta love having all 9 🙄🥹 we aren’t alone though. We all got this ❤
Ahaha I have all the symptoms feel bad for me feel and for me
Enjoy ruining lives
The problem is - society is unreal, uncaring and inhumane. So a personality disorder makes you a decent person.
No, it does not. A personality disorder is also being narcissistic. Personality disorder doesn't make you anything more than who you would be without it, just on steroids. It does feel like one is unable to keep up with society when it is this hard to just survive, but it doesn't mean you're still not an a-hole.
@@simonkendra3079 you poor dear. My statement meant that in a world WITHOUT caring - having any feelings at all makes you human.
@@deboraboylen7132 I know what you meant and there is a huge difference between "having feelings makes you human" and "having a personality disorder makes you a decent person."
@@simonkendra3079 half grasped - still dont get it. Society is really bereft of concept.
@@deboraboylen7132 blah blah, humans are bad, civilisation should cease to exist, nobody is a good person.
Ive heard of quiet BPD and histrionic BPD.
Histrionic is the one that can be very aggressive, gaslighting, and guilt-tripping if the one they've placed on a pedestal made a mistake in their eyes.
Quiet BPD on the other hand internalizes. They don't lash out to other people.
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I sure wish I could get diagnosed. I show all 9 symptoms on a regular basis in a wide variety of scenarios. I wish I could get a diagnosis already to help get better.
Thx to your parents
I have no thoughts of suicide or self harm.
me neither but i still struggle with a lot of these issues. mostly the sense of self stuff. i just feel empty and like i don’t wanna die i just wanna be a ghost. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I'm sure exercise and diet and sleep would help which always fails to be mentioned which is extremely important for mental health. I'm sure mediation, breathing techniques, nootropics, creating a calm home environment, and also being aware of emotional triggers. A little surprise this stuff is never mentioned and just come up with basic therapy techniques. I'm sure laughter probably helps ease the stress for them also.
DBT saved me and the last half of my life ❤😂
I can't find a source anywhere for any good psychedelics in my area, I suffer some pretty bad depression and i got a chance to try K and man it was a miracle substance, I felt free,the only high or euphoria was from the relief of my vices being released, that's exactly what it did
The psychedelic experience is temporary but many people have permanent results
Mushroom completely turned my life around and my anxiety and panic attack disappeared and my personality changed into a much more generous loving person
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Got psychedelics
I had 3.5 grams dried lemon tek most beautiful experience ever!!
All the problems that these compounds can help solve, and the potential for peace they have.
That's me
No it’s not
I feel like I should do something if this was in my recommended and related too strong to the conditions
This explains me perfectly, whilst I was never abused as a kid it was only much much laterin life that I git a diagnosis of BPD, the very violent extreme rage is bang on the button, the slightest thing can tip me over the edge, the hell of it is there is no cure, drugs don't work and the only cure I see is my own destruction
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I learned to see my bad moments coming, I retreat then before I cause irreparable damage.
Those moments don't last forever. They feel like eternity, but they're not
fuck… i feel all 9 of them
Is it really fair or ethical to label survinors of abuse who have responded to the abuse in such a way with a "disorder?" Aren't these behaviors really cPTSD?
No, it is not even though the 2 disorders can be co-occurring. The driving force/core content of BPD is different to CPTSD, which is fear of abandonment and severe rejection sensitivity. However, a lot of other symptoms overlap. You are also incorrectly assuming all people with BPD have a chronic abusive or traumatic childhood background but that is incorrect, as research shows it can occur in those without abuse/trauma. The genetic factor is considered to be between 50% and 60%. I, personally, don't relate to a lot of C-PTSD but most definitely to BPD after extensive reading over many years.
I randomly clicked on this video because it was on my recommend but seeing this made me question if I have bpd myself. I hope not but there were alot of things that I related to which is really concerning.
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Good explained
Thank you 🙂
At least im not a fake evil scammer
10% are likely to commit suicide?????? Jeez... Im worried for my girlfriend
I get frustrated with other people and I can hurt their feelings when my mental health is bad sometimes though I wouldn't say I suddenly dislike them.
Anti psychotics and anti depressants have saved my life and my soul. I no longer hate myself for all this non trustable behaviors i pop out with before i can help it. Now im similar dsy in and day out. Still havecepisodes of dissassosiation when my earlier meds suddenly quit working. I mad the necessary changes. I have also completed two terms of dialectic behavior therapy.
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Guess I have BPD.
Go see a therapist
Get a proper diagnosis before labelling yourself. Many of these symptoms also fit CPTSD but without the fear of abandonment and rejection sensitivity
My ex had this cutting her out of my life was the best thing I ever did.
well you sound like a nice person 💀
@@tobiasengstrm5118 😂😂😂
@@tobiasengstrm5118 nicer than she was. Should I have stayed in an abusive relationship because she had a mental illness?
@@askinperson2839 as someone with bpd I don't blame you. I avoid most people because of my ability to be a b!tch. It sucks but it is what it is.
@@KatiTheButcherget help b!tch
I overdoses on psychedelics and BPD made it's appearance in my life plus I nv felt so paranoid in my life as all this was happening. I may have had the most biggest panic attack in my life. After I had an episode I just went bed slept all day. Had no idea what was happening at the time. This was in 2017. But I was OK the next day. I also had pyschosis. I didn't find out what was wrong with me until I went to therapy the next yr. I found out. I had bipolar 2 and BPD.😢 but I doing good nowadays.
This breaks my heart. I was recently diagnosed with eupd and people around me did not make me comfortable about it. I just am in hiding, breaking contact with everyone. This feels like shit. I hope i get well soon.
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There a lot of fun but be prepared for the crazy side and let me tell you they are crazy 🤪
Fml
I feel you man.
Me too 😢
I was diagnosed with bpd and bipolar along with a few things like ptsd. I have been married 21 years and I have 2 children who became emotionally stable well rounded adults. I have quiet bpd maybe that helps not destroy those around me. My husband helps me manage my symptoms. There is a light in the darkness you can do it.
Definitely think my last girlfriend had a version BPD. I loved her a lot but she cut me off and “split” pretty quickly. Became obsessed with another. Exhibited many of these traits.