How To See Past What Drives You Nuts | Janine Marie Driver | TEDxWilmington

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

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  • @angelieavenie5741
    @angelieavenie5741 4 года назад +112

    I love watching & listening to her. she's effective, knowledgeable and entertaining.

  • @EnnyGK
    @EnnyGK 11 месяцев назад +3

    Janine is the only speaker i open my notes app for when i'm listening to. She drops gems everytime!

    • @user-tb5xs9qk9n
      @user-tb5xs9qk9n 8 месяцев назад

      Mayawill pllpppppp0ppp😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @user-tb5xs9qk9n
      @user-tb5xs9qk9n 8 месяцев назад

      😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @ItsaShortLyfe
    @ItsaShortLyfe 2 года назад +14

    Jeanne Driver is a powerhouse. She provides people with the tools needed to navigate tough situations. Though I cannot promise you that you will WIN every time. I CAN PROMISE that you will be a better version of yourself. More aware, stronger, faster version of whoever you were before Jeanne blessed you!

  • @johnmariano47
    @johnmariano47 3 года назад +23

    Everybody has their own style and merit in their own presentation, superfluous yet here we are listening to this woman. The learning curve is all that we go through and boy, Janine has gone through a lot of evolution. One of the best aspects of her presentations I see is the ability to get the audience's attention to whatever the heck she might be trying to say. Truly she is one of the speakers who increases one's attention span unless we may have inattentional blindness or just about a bit judgmental as I sometimes am. Thanks, Janine.

  • @heartworkbykitty7933
    @heartworkbykitty7933 5 лет назад +91

    OH MY GAWD
    I LOVE this lady
    Saving to favorites

  • @j.b.9581
    @j.b.9581 7 месяцев назад +1

    At 12:29 Janine Driver says to face people straight on when shaking hands, 'We face our belly button toward people we like, admire, and trust." (I call this Navel Intelligence). As a cat owner, I know that when a cat has complete trust in the environment, the cat will sleep with its belly exposed upward. Complete trust.

  • @law8509
    @law8509 3 года назад +12

    Surprised to say I love this lady. Humor and intellect goes a long way. Job well done.

  • @ManiKais
    @ManiKais 2 года назад +5

    She's one of the best, if not "the" best speakers I've heard in a long time. How to hold an audience.

  • @layasaul28
    @layasaul28 4 года назад +13

    Wonderful, inspiring talk that could change lives. That wiggle could also be called "pattern interrupt". What a fun way to do it. Thank you, Janine Marie Driver!!!

  • @IfSheWants
    @IfSheWants 4 года назад +3

    Her outro brought me to tears. Powerful words. Her talks are amazing.

  • @ndwilson7323
    @ndwilson7323 4 года назад +6

    I love this woman, she is so wise!

  • @JamesDonatelli
    @JamesDonatelli 4 года назад +19

    When you are willing to help yourself, the world will pound down your door to cheer you on...

  • @mariemcdonald6572
    @mariemcdonald6572 4 года назад +8

    I like the way to give your word across to help people.
    You are BEAUTIFUL women of God.
    God bless you.
    I trust our HEAVENLY FATHER to watch over you and protect and guide you in all your ways, i pray the LORD protection over your children's as you take your time to educate the public about wicked people.

  • @AragonaAlessandro
    @AragonaAlessandro 2 года назад +1

    I live this woman!!😘 She made me cry, laugh and Google new topic ls in 15 minutes!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @TubeNutriDoc
    @TubeNutriDoc 5 лет назад +5

    Janine, you are my current guru. I share your videos, this one and the 5 words to get what you want, video as thank you gifts when potential clients and patients share their valuable time and vulnerability with me. Your NH accent along with your attitude make it fun to share this stuff! Thank you.

  • @MissErinChase
    @MissErinChase Год назад +1

    Yay! Janine! Thank you so much! On a Zoom I'll tell you how much this 'resonates' with me today. Talking with my mom whose ghosted me for 3 years. Heavy and happy time : ) Thank you so much!!!!

  • @violet12327
    @violet12327 2 года назад +1

    Janine, I love your speech so much. You remind me of my boss who is always entertaining and teaching at the same time. 😅

  • @Gratitudejoy21
    @Gratitudejoy21 4 года назад +3

    FANTASTIC TALKS THIS LADY HAS ONLINE!!!! DEEEEEP GRATITUDE from Belgium, Europe 🙏🙏🙏

  • @renegademade3519
    @renegademade3519 4 года назад +5

    she's gives the best Ted Talks

  • @ornellarose6378
    @ornellarose6378 Год назад +1

    Janine I love you!!!! Thankyou 💗

  • @MissErinChase
    @MissErinChase Год назад +2

    Janine, your voice when talking about your mom and the embezzeler. : ( If it's any consolation, Scott Rouse has a blindsided story that he's shared as well. Thank you so much for sharing then and also for your teaching today with Lena Sisco. Thank you!! : )

  • @ThePipster2
    @ThePipster2 3 года назад +3

    Wow! That was awesome! This lady is amazing. how mesmerising!!

  • @samanthastevens6923
    @samanthastevens6923 4 года назад +4

    You are amazing, your talks are so powerful. I love your delivery.

  • @agnesbwise9534
    @agnesbwise9534 3 года назад +2

    Love this lady/ teaching with stories, humor and really important things to say..,..helpful god bless her

  • @wds1981
    @wds1981 5 лет назад +7

    What a great talk! Definitely want to dig deeper into this topic

  • @judylux2051
    @judylux2051 8 лет назад +16

    Janine, you are awesome!! Your "wiggle" came at the right time in my life. Thanks for a whole new way of looking at things!!

  • @ulrikabjorks
    @ulrikabjorks 3 года назад +2

    Omg Janine.. my mom wiggled too! and she lived with cancer for 15 years.

  • @passenger7532
    @passenger7532 3 года назад +4

    She has a lot of ted talks I always love when she talks

  • @TheCelouche
    @TheCelouche 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you Janine. I had a great time watching you.

  • @hollybischoff7490
    @hollybischoff7490 5 лет назад +4

    You are wonderful. Who would have ever thought, I will do this from now on because not only is it funny but it makes people wonder.

  • @Bzlucky
    @Bzlucky 4 года назад +6

    Your amazing and I can see that you have gotten so healthy since this ❤️ thank you for your wisdom beautiful soul

  • @zantecarroll4448
    @zantecarroll4448 4 года назад +3

    Love this woman!

  • @tammymccarthy1204
    @tammymccarthy1204 5 лет назад +17

    Thank you so much!!! I feel like my children have decided to make me “Crazy” yet it’s their way of not having to see what they are doing . I have examined, re-examined also being a parent I have accepted all blame . This has brought a lot of shame as well as being Stuck!!! I am there for them at all times rain or shine . Yet, I do have anxiety so maybe what they are picking up on something I’m not seeing ? Yet I am losing my children to something I wish I knew what it was that I am doing ? I’ve decided to put facts above emotions . Still I am wrong ? “I would love to know better to do better”

    • @sweetmissypetuniawilson9206
      @sweetmissypetuniawilson9206 4 года назад +10

      My guess would be that they are teens. If so, the loss is temporary. Don't worry, they'll be back.

    • @buzoff4642
      @buzoff4642 3 года назад +5

      Respect is a two way street, and kids know when they're not respected. (Do you explain, or do you dictate? Are they 15 and still have the responsibilities and privileges of a 5 year old? Habituate yourself: "Happy Birthday! You're new privileges are ..., your new responsibilities are ..."
      Respect is a two way street, and kids know when you don't demand respect for yourself. (Ignore me unless/until I'm yelling, because there are zero consequences to ignoring me, unless/until I'm yelling.)

    • @rubylimey7614
      @rubylimey7614 3 года назад +4

      Listen to them....my sis had 5 an each birthday they had a one one time to get her full attention an discuss anything... Dont beat yourself up an dont stop communicating with them. Prayer also works. GOD BLESS YOU ❤

    • @rainbomg
      @rainbomg Год назад

      Kids aren’t that complex. I guarantee it’s not about you. It sounds like they are teens and you need to get some hobbies (edited for typos)

    • @andreahunter2471
      @andreahunter2471 Год назад

      You wrote this four years ago. What is the current status of your relationships with your children? Did you learn something better, and did things get better because you did better? Still a work in progress, perhaps? The variables that our children are exposed to, whether it be the way mom or a teacher or the world at large chose to interact, makes it hard to guarantee a positive outcome. But I hope you found a good way to wiggle out of your fears and crazy emotions to find that you were not losing them afterall. But either way, if you see this comment, I feel you and would benefit to know what four years of life has brought.

  • @jameslipke354
    @jameslipke354 Год назад +2

    What an eye opening gift you just shared with those willing to watch and to listen. By the end of this presentation, I instinctively knew what my "wiggle" has always been. I thought I had somehow lost it, but it's still right where I left it. I needed this in more ways at this stage of my life than I can put into words. Perspective is everything. That's justna stone cold fact. Thanks so much Janine for sharing this! The more you know... You're a gem! ❤
    ~ APRIL LIPKE

  • @goldbars5317
    @goldbars5317 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Janine so much for all you entertaining and helpful tips.

  • @selahamos1698
    @selahamos1698 6 лет назад +8

    So glad I found this! You really need to listen!

  • @annemwangi2086
    @annemwangi2086 5 лет назад +1

    This woman is Awesome.

  • @studiosandi
    @studiosandi 4 года назад +4

    This is wonderful. Thank you so much for putting it into words.

  • @multirichardb
    @multirichardb 3 года назад +2

    Now I know I'll wiggle my way into solutions and happiness. And effectively change my world, our world, is the same world.

  • @cariefuller910
    @cariefuller910 5 лет назад +6

    more more more more!!! Janine you're amazing! I want more info on movement pattern analysis !!!

  • @bird123425
    @bird123425 5 лет назад +10

    Very uplifting and focused ideas to implement today!

  • @Michelina22
    @Michelina22 Год назад

    I absolutely love her , funny and smart as well being a good hearted woman, God based , knowing God’s so important, God Bless you @Janine 🦋✝️🦋

  • @MyClarissa21
    @MyClarissa21 6 месяцев назад

    I love your mom!!!❤❤❤

  • @marinahenn753
    @marinahenn753 8 лет назад +24

    Bravo Janine...I loved this...so insightful,and enjoyable...and I learned some new things...and I might just incorporate that wiggle in my life...thank you!!!

  • @tjtampa214
    @tjtampa214 10 месяцев назад

    So funny - at 11:32 she said ... one of these people who get so mad at you, they come at you at a "diagonal." LOL

  • @j.d9857
    @j.d9857 4 года назад +4

    Wow! very powerful, insightful, and motivational speaker! love her and her wiggle;)

  • @silviagiuliano3250
    @silviagiuliano3250 4 года назад +4

    Loved this talk very informative and insightful.

  • @Everestgirl
    @Everestgirl 4 года назад +3

    Wow!
    Wiggling away all anger ❤️😘
    Thank you
    Much ❤️

  • @susan3200
    @susan3200 5 лет назад +3

    I like this! Never thought about a lot of these things. You are amazing!

  • @bbblackwell
    @bbblackwell 7 лет назад +4

    Love you, Janine!

  • @wondafaith8621
    @wondafaith8621 4 года назад +3

    Great, great, great! Love the wiggle thought. Going to implement. Thank you.

  • @marliokono6292
    @marliokono6292 5 лет назад +7

    You are Awesome Janine!!!
    I love your wiggling miracle!!!

  • @nan6862
    @nan6862 4 года назад +3

    Love her!!

  • @happinesss2
    @happinesss2 5 лет назад +4

    This was great! Loved her energy

  • @GodiscomingBhappy
    @GodiscomingBhappy 5 лет назад +2

    touche! excellent talk. thanks

  • @rebekahpuma9667
    @rebekahpuma9667 5 лет назад +4

    Loved this

  • @livea3596
    @livea3596 2 года назад

    I'm quickly becoming a fan

  • @madonnaschmid7707
    @madonnaschmid7707 Год назад

    Wonderful and I love you and your mommas wiggle♡♡

  • @mijuajua4820
    @mijuajua4820 5 лет назад +6

    Great TT Janine thank you!!

    • @mijuajua4820
      @mijuajua4820 5 лет назад +2

      Also, watch listen to the video of the song by 2 in a room singing “Wiggle It”😁 This should be the theme song for the Wiggle it movement! My ex use to say a little humor adds some levity when things get too serious and getting angry could ruin things. 😄

  • @exposingunconditionalselfl8731
    @exposingunconditionalselfl8731 5 лет назад +2

    Or knowing what produces love to release the area and the impact of the message to the death of feeling angry to the pain only one impact on the addicted theory is that Spirit of the love of God is so good to hear from the time we get together inside and know how believing God in faith and trust in the inner strength in doing the things never did before

  • @CrystalNibarger
    @CrystalNibarger 3 года назад +1

    Love it.....I'm down for a little wiggling. I may look silly but my 6 year old will get a laugh.

  • @sugarraysstudio9024
    @sugarraysstudio9024 4 года назад +2

    You are so amazing!🙏

  • @melgon25
    @melgon25 5 лет назад +7

    Fun lady! Great perspective. And, yes, I will try the wiggle.

  • @theblackroe8832
    @theblackroe8832 4 года назад +3

    That's a beautiful soul

  • @Debster8554
    @Debster8554 4 года назад +3

    Fantastic! I really needed this today! I hope you feel the love and the hope too : )

  • @neka_8023
    @neka_8023 4 года назад +2

    Amazing!

  • @johnlynch575
    @johnlynch575 3 года назад +1

    4:29 YAH me too. I lost my' dignity' in front of oakdale elementary. That's a regret I live with.

  • @marcelatalmazan4271
    @marcelatalmazan4271 5 лет назад +4

    This is awesome

  • @toniqh
    @toniqh 2 года назад +2

    Janine is so inspiring!

  • @christineh4782
    @christineh4782 4 года назад +2

    The remote control. 🤣 Hey guys just wiggle.

  • @laynn104
    @laynn104 6 лет назад +8

    Thank you Janine! Love this wiggle idea! ;)

  • @traceyminx2504
    @traceyminx2504 4 года назад +3

    The amazing janine 👑

  • @aribella6913
    @aribella6913 3 года назад +1

    Love this gal!

  • @cryingbroken8824
    @cryingbroken8824 3 года назад +1

    YOU GO GIRL!!🥳💖💖👏👏👏😘

  • @eponymoususer8923
    @eponymoususer8923 4 года назад

    Thank you.
    Your mother's wiggle is beautiful.

  • @patriciaguimarddeval7124
    @patriciaguimarddeval7124 2 месяца назад

    You are great 🎉

  • @johnlynch575
    @johnlynch575 3 года назад

    :45 dude! I knew when from another video she said "wicked" I KNEW!

  • @debrakallen845
    @debrakallen845 2 года назад

    OMG! You are knowledgeable and hilarious.

  • @thinkoutsidetherock
    @thinkoutsidetherock 4 года назад +3

    brilliant

  • @johnlynch575
    @johnlynch575 3 года назад +2

    14:19 I am going to try wriggling when I'm pissed off.

    • @madsubhash
      @madsubhash 3 года назад +1

      You can't wiggle all the time

    • @johnlynch575
      @johnlynch575 3 года назад +1

      @@madsubhash that is why I game (video gamer) better than drug addiction, helps with anger, and nobody dies...except for that one guy...smoking

  • @aracelicarlos9697
    @aracelicarlos9697 5 лет назад +2

    I just got up and wiggled a little bit! Janine, you're awesome!

  • @LC-pk4zz
    @LC-pk4zz 3 года назад +1

    She's a hoot. Wish I knew about the wiggle when my dad was alive...

  • @writerinfact1768
    @writerinfact1768 6 лет назад +2

    What a concept ...

  • @tfb6504
    @tfb6504 4 года назад +5

    She’s right about us making judgements all the time, but being judgmental has more of a connotative implication of being condemning.

  • @hrlascrucestoday8744
    @hrlascrucestoday8744 4 года назад +14

    So Janine, when someone says they have "decided" to.... it's no definitive; when someone uses an "ly" word push them to get what you want; "because" it the right action to take to improve your life and the life of other.

    • @Mary200692
      @Mary200692 4 года назад +3

      Checkmate, my friend 😂

  • @wammo12345
    @wammo12345 3 года назад +1

    I wonder if perhaps we ‘assess’ more than ‘judge’? Im seeing assessment as due diligence, perhaps the word judgement has recently come to mean something like absolute righteous declaration?

  • @aprilatkinson5177
    @aprilatkinson5177 2 года назад

    Amazing

  • @emmacharlton4913
    @emmacharlton4913 2 года назад

    😊 Lovely - this made me think of my dear mum who had a similar journey. 'Wiggle on'

  • @kodarayne7877
    @kodarayne7877 5 лет назад +4

    Wiggle 😍 I sooo dearly needed to hear that

  • @chaolan77
    @chaolan77 5 лет назад +83

    Isn’t this the FBI body language how to spot a liar TEDtalk lady ?

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 5 лет назад +27

    Yup. I need to wiggle more.

  • @sirricwebb8287
    @sirricwebb8287 5 лет назад +2

    I love her

  • @crism3lo
    @crism3lo 5 лет назад +2

    LOVE! I so so get this.

  • @bonjo8165
    @bonjo8165 2 года назад

    wow! Am I the only one that cried?!

  • @maniamalowania8151
    @maniamalowania8151 4 года назад +1

    why doesn't the camera show her slides and photos the moment she is referring to them...?!

  • @qamarstarmuhammad5624
    @qamarstarmuhammad5624 4 года назад +1

    Absolutely love it! Let me wiggle!!!

  • @adesiree196
    @adesiree196 5 лет назад +4

    My body is 80 and my man likes it like that.

  • @redwingsfan3621
    @redwingsfan3621 4 года назад +2

    36 billion moving pattern behaviors? No way. Impossible to count them in a lifetime, much less examine them all. Luv the wiggle, tho!

  • @Melluv..
    @Melluv.. 4 года назад

    Unfortunately? So still apply pressure?

  • @brendashenda4249
    @brendashenda4249 5 лет назад +1

    My girls do the wiggle!!