Vanessa, you are so precious, watching you go out there and succeed. I know this is older, but I hope you go forward and keep this transparency. Watching you work with your hubby is also good shining a positive light in marriage.
This book will help anyone who has to be in an office environment or doing web x with a group of people... I never want to work in an office environment ever again.. it sucks the life out of you. I get severe anxiety thinking about it... I'm not sure how I'm going go forward with my life but office work is not my future.. Thank you for writing this book.. your such an expert in this area.. I am drawn to people of such intelligence who help humanity by delivering something so powerful! I can't wait to pick up a copy! Join the master class.. Sending Love & Light always 🙏❤
Wow! Thank you so much I’ve been watching your videos for a week now I’m learning a lot. I’m introvert person with lower self esteem. Your videos helping me to understand and inspired me to invest time for self growth. ❤
Hearing that your book is doing so well made me tear up right there with you. It’s a beautiful thing to be recognized for your important work. Thank you for all that you do. 🙏🏻💛
"Happy to teach this lesson even if no one bought" My heart melted a bit when you said that! And I cant explain it.. Warm and a good heart. *cant fint the right word* Vanessa You are the coolest!!!
I would love to see you make a video on how to interact with customers in the workplace! I believe people in the workforce would appreciate you making a video about customer interactions!
Noted! We also have lots of great articles on this =) www.scienceofpeople.com/build-rapport-with-clients/ www.scienceofpeople.com/customer-service-email/ www.scienceofpeople.com/people-skills/
Vanessa you helped me more than you could even imagine from the interview you did with Tom I’d say YOU Are my Hero/Model Thank you so much for putting your life into your work helping others achieve higher self/world understanding it goes so much deeper than just people you can apply everything you learn to every aspect of your life! For so many years I felt like understanding myself was one of the hardest thing on earth your work literally unlocked me whole!
Vanessa ! You are amazing and I watch every video of yours! I learn from watching you the most. I know that this is probably weird but believe that your book must be recorded VISUAL and not only audio. Thank you for everything!
Too funny that you discussed slowing down speech rate near the end of this video. When I started listening to this You Tube video, I had to purposely reduce the playback speed down to .75 so I could better digest all the details of this info packed video! Thank you for gifting the world your life changing work! 🥰
*"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago and the next best time is now"* I consider this to be best motivational quote I've heard in a very long time. But motivational quotes are useless if you don't practice what you preach*
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or crypto and stocks.
Crypto is bringing a different revolution in the world economy. People who are optimistic investors earn consistently.... Others will just sit and watch!.
@@commerceusa I trade with Mr David Bryant, and I must say he makes money making seem a whole lot easier right now I'm a single parent and i pay the bills comfortably since i met David Bryant, he's absolutely amazing and I'd recommend him for any novice in crypto.
I had a bad experience investing on my own until I met Mr David Bryant, I have made over $200,000 Trading cryptocurrency, I even made a whooping $28000 on my last trade with a capital of $6000. Retiring next year with no fears!!
I bought the book for this in Amazon I'm super excited to join Vanessa's Master class so I can learn how to not ever go into a office environment ever again. .. I would like to learn how to use my skills and ideas to work smarter not harder. Yippie thank you Vanessa for offering this!
I misinterpret social cues because I constantly think that people are double meaning, two-faced (smile in your face, talk about you behind your back), and liars. This is due to my upbringing-seeing a parent do it to people.
I literally overheard my step Mom speaking to my step sister after I walked out of the room an she was contradicting what she said to me and how she was acting to my face. It crushed me and although I forgive her because I understand how hard it is raising step children, I have never forgotten it.
Watching this recorded live session! Very informative and entertaining learnings. Got your Captivate and Cues books. Thanks Vanessa for sharing your knowledge in this matter. ❤❤❤
i speak an write n think things an they come into the world. Once I seen this it made me think it works better if I build the world that way rather than me hunting a social following to sell books to.
I can see I misinterpreted cues all my life until lately. I was a very extreme introvert and an awkward person too. I wish I had learned this in my younger years . I’ve spent over 60 years relearning how to socialize correctly. With me being awkward and dyslexic I tend to shut down and instead of being outgoing. I was always looked down upon as well as used.
Five low hanging fruit cues one a day 🤔🏃✌🏽 So we use them and create muscle memory o my word this is huge 🔥 Who do you want in your life 🤔what do you want in your life 🤔 what do you want more Of in your life💯
Launguage is dynamic. What if these cues become associated with disingenuous projections. 96 is a finite number. Will there be addendums released in perpetuity? Will they be guaranteed in perpetuity as well?
This is an entire class... I can't work and listen 👂 at the same time... This needs full attention... People see me as confident but not warm... I was wondering how I can practice the cues to become naturally friendly... But I have to study on weekends because of the volume of information
Speaking of hiding in plain sight". LAST SUPPER, notice how they seat at the table in 4 groups of 3? With Virgo the virgin at the right hand of Jesus? Represents the 4 seasons
Thank you so much, hopefully this will continue to shape my social experience. I'd love to see some of the research in action. Let me know if I can help in any way. Have an awesome day!
@@ShawnJonesHellion good question. I just wanna create more distance from my past. Im not a criminal anymore. I did fed gov prison time. I only want honest labor jobs now. No more bullshit. Over 40 a man just wants peace
Dude this lady is talking about FreeMason, with her book title Master the Secret language of charismatic communication. Hint secret language as in the hand gesture she is making is a well known demonic Mason hand symbol in her book cover. Learn these signs as these evil doers do it religiously in movies, media and just about anything they appear in. She is correct in there being secret languages and oaths they make.
Is it still possible to join your masterclass? Found your channel yesterday and bought the book. I know I'm late... maybe there is a recording to watch?
Great question! Here is some info on all 3: 1) Captivate focuses on connecting more deeply with people in the first 5 seconds, minutes, and days. It is about making a good first impression and working a room. I also dive into the science of personality and how to appeal to people’s values. This helps build rapport with anyone and everyone. The link overview to Captivate is here: [www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/] 2) Cues is a breakdown of all the social signals humans send to each other. I dive into how readers can be more charismatic using their body language, voice, words, and profile pictures. Cues guides readers through how to be likable and powerful with the cues they use in professional, social, and even romantic situations. The link overview to Cues is here: [www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/] 3) As for the the Human Lie Detection and Body Language 101 book, that one is no longer in print. It is available from some sellers reselling it, but it is several years old. If you're interested in lie detection, I recommend you check out my course on lie detection!
Hi Vanessa! I've been a listener of yours for several years and I'm excited to read Cues. Is there a benefit to getting the physical copy of your book vs the audiobook?
Do I operate from an internal locus of control? Do i have any effect? If I am alone does my self esteem double or does it collapse? Is the rate exponential over time?
If we are all sitting around in a room that starts filling with smoke, should i wait for others to get up before I do? If a man in a white jacket with his hands behind his back tells ke tat I am required to continue, should I listen to him? Should I be afraid? Should I defer responsibility to someone who is not present. Should I blame a nebulous, abstract concept?
Understand that I use "many "different body languages to communicate with the deaf and hearing. I am very much physical with my gestures and I get misunderstood. I used to feel that deaf/hard-of-hearing people were mean-natured. We need to try to use these in the hearing WORLD. Just learn sign language and you'll see these different facial movements.
U r so cute. But my English is not good enough to fully understand. So I try to find orginial book in english to read but not able to find in VietNam.....crying .....
Learn more about the powerful cues you are sending to others: www.scienceofpeople.com/cues
Vanessa, you are so precious, watching you go out there and succeed. I know this is older, but I hope you go forward and keep this transparency. Watching you work with your hubby is also good shining a positive light in marriage.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind words 😊
Awww you deserve being #1. You are truly helping all of us. Your a beautiful soul 💕❤️❤️💕
Thank you so much ❤️
smart, likeable, confident, funny, charming, well put together, cool, nice, friendly, loving.
This book will help anyone who has to be in an office environment or doing web x with a group of people... I never want to work in an office environment ever again.. it sucks the life out of you. I get severe anxiety thinking about it... I'm not sure how I'm going go forward with my life but office work is not my future.. Thank you for writing this book.. your such an expert in this area.. I am drawn to people of such intelligence who help humanity by delivering something so powerful! I can't wait to pick up a copy! Join the master class.. Sending Love & Light always 🙏❤
Wow! Thank you so much I’ve been watching your videos for a week now I’m learning a lot. I’m introvert person with lower self esteem. Your videos helping me to understand and inspired me to invest time for self growth. ❤
You are SO welcome! I'm thrilled to hear this ❤
Ive been following Vanessa for 5 years all high quality information. I love this. ❤️ i pre ordered my Cues via Audibles
Thank you so much! I appreciate your support, I can't wait for you to listen to Cues! ❤️
Idk why i cried when Vanessa cried. Congratulations on your amazing Cues! ❤️
Hearing that your book is doing so well made me tear up right there with you. It’s a beautiful thing to be recognized for your important work. Thank you for all that you do. 🙏🏻💛
"Happy to teach this lesson even if no one bought" My heart melted a bit when you said that! And I cant explain it.. Warm and a good heart. *cant fint the right word* Vanessa You are the coolest!!!
Aw thank you so much ❤ that means a lot!
I would love to see you make a video on how to interact with customers in the workplace! I believe people in the workforce would appreciate you making a video about customer interactions!
Noted! We also have lots of great articles on this =)
www.scienceofpeople.com/build-rapport-with-clients/
www.scienceofpeople.com/customer-service-email/
www.scienceofpeople.com/people-skills/
@@ScienceOfPeople Thank you Vanessa!
Vanessa you helped me more than you could even imagine from the interview you did with Tom I’d say YOU Are my Hero/Model Thank you so much for putting your life into your work helping others achieve higher self/world understanding it goes so much deeper than just people you can apply everything you learn to every aspect of your life! For so many years I felt like understanding myself was one of the hardest thing on earth your work literally unlocked me whole!
Vanessa ! You are amazing and I watch every video of yours! I learn from watching you the most.
I know that this is probably weird but believe that your book must be recorded VISUAL and not only audio.
Thank you for everything!
Too funny that you discussed slowing down speech rate near the end of this video. When I started listening to this You Tube video, I had to purposely reduce the playback speed down to .75 so I could better digest all the details of this info packed video!
Thank you for gifting the world your life changing work! 🥰
Good Morning thank you thank you thank you for your book! Your fabulous! Great inspiration 👏 🙌 👌this book is very important for life learning
You are a light a blessing. An inspiration. Thank you for sharing this video 😊
*"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago and the next best time is now"* I consider this to be best motivational quote I've heard in a very long time. But motivational quotes are useless if you don't practice what you preach*
I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or crypto and stocks.
Crypto is bringing a different revolution in the world economy. People who are optimistic investors earn consistently.... Others will just sit and watch!.
@@Charlotte13265 I've always wanted to trade crypto but got confused with the fluctuations in price
@@commerceusa I trade with Mr David Bryant, and I must say he makes money making seem a whole lot easier right now I'm a single parent and i pay the bills comfortably since i met David Bryant, he's absolutely amazing and I'd recommend him for any novice in crypto.
I had a bad experience investing on my own until I met Mr David Bryant, I have made over $200,000 Trading cryptocurrency, I even made a whooping $28000 on my last trade with a capital of $6000. Retiring next year with no fears!!
I bought the book for this in Amazon I'm super excited to join Vanessa's Master class so I can learn how to not ever go into a office environment ever again. .. I would like to learn how to use my skills and ideas to work smarter not harder. Yippie thank you Vanessa for offering this!
I might’ve bawled at 1:35:10 😭🥹
Thank you for sharing the joy with me ❤
I misinterpret social cues because I constantly think that people are double meaning, two-faced (smile in your face, talk about you behind your back), and liars. This is due to my upbringing-seeing a parent do it to people.
It's true for me as a child abuse victim
I literally overheard my step Mom speaking to my step sister after I walked out of the room an she was contradicting what she said to me and how she was acting to my face.
It crushed me and although I forgive her because I understand how hard it is raising step children, I have never forgotten it.
First step is letting go of this. Read the book “letting go” by David Hawkins.
I got really narcissistic parents, so same with me
I am sorry you went through that. Find Vanessa's decode class on microexpressions - you will get so empowered perfectin that skill.
U are so amazing. I have already learned so much from ur videos. U have helped me changed my outlook on life, Thank You So Much.,..
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Just came across this - what a Gem ! truly authentic with her purpose and gifts. What a wonderful Beautiful teacher !
Thank you so much! =)
Cues ordered !
@@rashmi809 Thank you so much for the support! I hope you love Cues and learn lots from it! 😊
Power pause creates anticipation and excitement😊🤙🏼 Anticipation of what you’re gonna say
Thank you teacher. You will be compensated.
Watching this recorded live session! Very informative and entertaining learnings. Got your Captivate and Cues books. Thanks Vanessa for sharing your knowledge in this matter. ❤❤❤
I already ordered the book ,it will arrive tomorrow, thank you kindly 🙏
Thank you! I hope you love it!
vanessa thank u mentorship keep it up and keep growing in your career
Thank you for your support! ❤
I really love your energy!!❤
Thank you so much!!
Your book is amazing I love your work
Thank you so much! So happy to hear this =)
Very cool. Thanks for sharing this with us!
i speak an write n think things an they come into the world. Once I seen this it made me think it works better if I build the world that way rather than me hunting a social following to sell books to.
Hello Vanessa, from New York State from new super fan, Diane! :)
Hello!! Glad you are here Diane!
I just got my kindle copy of Cue, so excited to start reading.
Thank you!! ❤️ I'm excited for all that you will learn!
Wow I didn't know you drop another book
I can see I misinterpreted cues all my life until lately. I was a very extreme introvert and an awkward person too. I wish I had learned this in my younger years . I’ve spent over 60 years relearning how to socialize correctly. With me being awkward and dyslexic I tend to shut down and instead of being outgoing. I was always looked down upon as well as used.
I hear you - I wish I had this information when I was younger too! I hope it brings you new knowledge and growth at this time in your life ❤
Five low hanging fruit cues one a day 🤔🏃✌🏽 So we use them and create muscle memory o my word this is huge 🔥
Who do you want in your life 🤔what do you want in your life 🤔
what do you want more Of in your life💯
Good morning from Plainfield Illinois blessings
appreciate those around you
great .I learned a lot . Very helpful in practical life and relationship.
Thank you for watching! Glad you found the video valuable =)
Launguage is dynamic. What if these cues become associated with disingenuous projections. 96 is a finite number. Will there be addendums released in perpetuity? Will they be guaranteed in perpetuity as well?
This is an entire class... I can't work and listen 👂 at the same time... This needs full attention... People see me as confident but not warm... I was wondering how I can practice the cues to become naturally friendly... But I have to study on weekends because of the volume of information
I'm seen as warm but not confident, wanna trade?
@@amandaforrester7636 I don't think you want to trade 👍 based on her book; we need both to succeed
Speaking of hiding in plain sight". LAST SUPPER, notice how they seat at the table in 4 groups of 3? With Virgo the virgin at the right hand of Jesus? Represents the 4 seasons
Thank you so much, hopefully this will continue to shape my social experience. I'd love to see some of the research in action. Let me know if I can help in any way. Have an awesome day!
Thank you again.
Hi from Brisbane Australia 🇦🇺
I want to reinvent myself. One decision away from a whole new life
What will you do after you reinvent yourself
whats wrong with the current life you lead yourself to?
@@ShawnJonesHellion good question. I just wanna create more distance from my past. Im not a criminal anymore. I did fed gov prison time. I only want honest labor jobs now. No more bullshit. Over 40 a man just wants peace
@@JasonPatrick-tj4xj Have you played Night Game though? #howtoplaynightgamearg
Dude this lady is talking about FreeMason, with her book title Master the Secret language of charismatic communication.
Hint secret language as in the hand gesture she is making is a well known demonic Mason hand symbol in her book cover.
Learn these signs as these evil doers do it religiously in movies, media and just about anything they appear in.
She is correct in there being secret languages and oaths they make.
Can we get the link for the door experiment? It didn't show when you played it. Thanks a bunch.
I love your wisdom
Is it still possible to join your masterclass? Found your channel yesterday and bought the book. I know I'm late... maybe there is a recording to watch?
This is your third book, correct? What is the difference between all through the books? They all seem to have a lot of crossover.
Great question! Here is some info on all 3:
1) Captivate focuses on connecting more deeply with people in the first 5 seconds, minutes, and days. It is about making a good first impression and working a room. I also dive into the science of personality and how to appeal to people’s values. This helps build rapport with anyone and everyone. The link overview to Captivate is here: [www.scienceofpeople.com/captivate/]
2) Cues is a breakdown of all the social signals humans send to each other. I dive into how readers can be more charismatic using their body language, voice, words, and profile pictures. Cues guides readers through how to be likable and powerful with the cues they use in professional, social, and even romantic situations. The link overview to Cues is here: [www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/]
3) As for the the Human Lie Detection and Body Language 101 book, that one is no longer in print. It is available from some sellers reselling it, but it is several years old. If you're interested in lie detection, I recommend you check out my course on lie detection!
Vanessa - I've been working on this book for 17 years
Me - about the same time that George RR Martin has been working on Winds of Winter 😆
Hi Vanessa! I've been a listener of yours for several years and I'm excited to read Cues. Is there a benefit to getting the physical copy of your book vs the audiobook?
Yeah, I am affected by both, very good point!:)
Do I operate from an internal locus of control? Do i have any effect? If I am alone does my self esteem double or does it collapse? Is the rate exponential over time?
Already ordered and received the book 📕🙏🏻✨
Me too read half of it and all marked up
From Streamwood Illinois!
Thank you kindly 🙏
Great clip 🔥💯
Well missed the opening week, can I still get the masterclass at this late date?
If we are all sitting around in a room that starts filling with smoke, should i wait for others to get up before I do? If a man in a white jacket with his hands behind his back tells ke tat I am required to continue, should I listen to him? Should I be afraid? Should I defer responsibility to someone who is not present. Should I blame a nebulous, abstract concept?
your awesome i do a lot of this
1:03:20 I hold my arms sometimes because my hands\fingers get sooooo cold!!
Is the other Cues Q&A still up anywhere?
When you put youre hand to your chin, does that mean you are concentrating?
Some tech issues but great content! Thanks!
Present, pitch, or propose- just know what you're doing and what you're saying and what you want.
the upside down mouth U is very much used in Urban Texas areas
Thanks
My pleasure!
Hey there again😉
I’m looking up the “conversation HQ” App on apple… i’m not seeing it. Any suggestions?
Understand that I use "many "different body languages to communicate with the deaf and hearing. I am very much physical with my gestures and I get misunderstood. I used to feel that deaf/hard-of-hearing people were mean-natured. We need to try to use these in the hearing WORLD. Just learn sign language and you'll see these different facial movements.
Just got your book
Have you been discovering personal freedom without harm to others or excesses of self-interest?
Wild and crazy
Trying to gain back self-esteem
What about people with neurological disorders?
What if we are assigned position or working solo. What if my boss sees this and he secretly hates me?
Hi from Sweden🌷
I would want people to say that I am loyal and dependable
What's the difference between Captivate and Cues?
Hi, Vanessa thank you for all you do! I am ordering the book on amazon tonight.:)
Yay!! thank you ❤️
Half smiles…and half laughs 2:17:25
Givingg and forgiving
U r so cute. But my English is not good enough to fully understand. So I try to find orginial book in english to read but not able to find in VietNam.....crying .....
Yes
Are you familiar with Spiral Dynamics?
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VANESSA --- BEGINNER TODAY ... I Notice your LEFT UPPER LIP ... RISES HIGHER than your Right UPPER LIP ... WHEN you are ... STRIFING !!! ...
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Ok gratitude
Confident
Your books on Amazon?
Its on Audibles. I hope this is not the book for free online.
Yes! It is on Amazon, here is the link to order: www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/
How do i get live?
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Hello from Uganda
I've got a manager who can't accept me for being for the being the person I am he dose not know or understand how to work with introverts
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