How To Handle Emotional Pain

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2018
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Комментарии • 598

  • @ShyamsMotivationalVideoTamil
    @ShyamsMotivationalVideoTamil 2 года назад +315

    How to move away from Emotional pain:-
    Avoid dwelling in the past and be present in the moment
    Know your worth and live your life happily
    Love yourself and be confident that things will get better on its own

  • @omtoolika
    @omtoolika 5 лет назад +231

    The best take away from this-
    " After A breakup- you can either become wounded or u can become wise"

  • @anup.mittal
    @anup.mittal 5 лет назад +926

    Question: why do we fall? Answer: to rise again as a better person. 😊

    • @krishnasandeep8985
      @krishnasandeep8985 5 лет назад +21

      So that we can learn to pick ourselves up

    • @Harsha-ef2ee
      @Harsha-ef2ee 5 лет назад +11

      As a stronger person with thicker skin.

    • @krishnasandeep8985
      @krishnasandeep8985 5 лет назад +8

      Watched Batman begins? You will get it

    • @neethanaik5840
      @neethanaik5840 5 лет назад +1

      ANUP MITTAL has

    • @evakashyap3876
      @evakashyap3876 5 лет назад +2

      Exactly - While going through your comment one quote popped up in my head of D. Washington which says "Fall down Seven get up eighth"

  • @devasri_das
    @devasri_das Год назад +13

    "When the world is against you, isn't it your intelligence that stands for you "

  • @tusharmehandiratta2761
    @tusharmehandiratta2761 5 лет назад +127

    Koi bikhar jaata h, koi nikhar jaata h ✌

    • @sapnasura
      @sapnasura 5 лет назад +6

      OMG!! You just gave me the most precious line at the right time. Thank you. ✌

    • @yadvendrasingh7810
      @yadvendrasingh7810 5 лет назад +1

      This is beautiful brother

  • @saumyasuyal8086
    @saumyasuyal8086 3 года назад +415

    I searched for this video coz I was feeling totally devastated.....by the end I feel so much stable...... Namashkaram 🙏

  • @sharmi9891
    @sharmi9891 5 лет назад +179

    *"Is it not very very important that your intelligence stands up for you?"* *Amazing*

    • @samikshakhanvilkarpatil1730
      @samikshakhanvilkarpatil1730 2 года назад

      👍

    • @sitadumre5942
      @sitadumre5942 2 года назад

      You are great satguru I am facing breaku now and your speech helping me to overcome through out it

    • @dr.sunflower6336
      @dr.sunflower6336 3 месяца назад

      What does this mean? Can I know about it little more? I didn't understand it earlier in the video.

  • @eddohan
    @eddohan 5 лет назад +47

    All Dark was once Light. The Light is still in there. The Dark is only what you allow it to be!

  • @jayvlogs944
    @jayvlogs944 Год назад +45

    Dear person whoever reading this, we may not know each others but I wish you all the best in life!✨ Stop blaming yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious 🥰 all the keys of happiness is in your hands, so open it up 🔓

  • @tommyls4357
    @tommyls4357 5 лет назад +123

    This is so true. I went through my first break up at the age of 34. It completely shattered me, but eventually I came out of it a stronger, wiser person. I wish I would've gone through a few break-ups and failures earlier in my life.

  • @clarity956
    @clarity956 5 лет назад +44

    When you are fully shattered ...you should think about your best moment in life and make yourself smile because that's why God has given us memory

  • @rims1104
    @rims1104 2 года назад +20

    What sadguru says is definitely good but in practical aspect, we feel drowned in depression when somebody breaks the heart and move on with somebody leaving us crying and sad. It takes a long time to get healed and come out of this mess until somebody takes their place to give a good level of companionship.
    I had also gone through a very severe depression due to cheating by my loved one and it took years to get healed until I got someone who became the most precious part of my life. I feel blessed and thankful to God.Whenever I look back, I feel far more better today than my past.I learnt to forgive and move on and my life is in peace now.

  • @dsacp7570
    @dsacp7570 5 лет назад +222

    It can't be expressed in words how much thankful i am being alive with such a wonderful and wise man. You have totally changed my life.Without you,it could not have been possible.

  • @Alexandra-wf2bg
    @Alexandra-wf2bg 2 года назад +40

    "You can be wounded or you can be wise" ❤

  • @stephmwp
    @stephmwp 2 года назад +36

    “Greatness is best measured by how well an individual responds to the happenings in life that appear to be totally unfair, unreasonable, and undeserved.”
    Marvin J. Ashton

  • @ethanmarshall7822
    @ethanmarshall7822 2 года назад +13

    Thank you Sadhguru. I am at the lowest point of my life so far and this video gave me some comfort.

  • @TheAshutosh58
    @TheAshutosh58 5 лет назад +23

    World has enough problems the best you can do is be a solution for yourself 😇

  • @Freefire-zm2gt
    @Freefire-zm2gt Год назад +6

    "you can either become wounded or you can become wise"
    That's the choice 🙌😌

  • @pathikchakraborty2192
    @pathikchakraborty2192 5 лет назад +116

    But it's very tough not to be wounded when you lost your most precious persons

    • @KaushalShah
      @KaushalShah 5 лет назад +5

      I agree!

    • @ayushbohra7733
      @ayushbohra7733 5 лет назад +16

      I agree but you should think of all the memories and good times you spend together and be glad that the person was in your life which could not even be possible and move on.

    • @KaushalShah
      @KaushalShah 5 лет назад +25

      @Ayush its very difficult to move on esp when there is no one to take their place and give us the same level of companionship. Time does heal all. But it takes a lot of time..

    • @sheshikumar2522
      @sheshikumar2522 4 года назад +3

      True 😔

    • @jadavchirag435
      @jadavchirag435 3 года назад +6

      In same situation bro. I hope time will heal everything 🙏🏻

  • @bolive88
    @bolive88 Год назад +14

    Two things I learned and I am grateful to hear:
    👉Speak in such a way that you will never regret.
    👉Choose to be wise than wounded.
    Thank you for these words... I am trying my best to be wiser.

  • @Succeshero-yw1rl
    @Succeshero-yw1rl 5 лет назад +16

    Deeply impressed by that holocaust story....those people went through hell and how they came out of it blows my mind

  • @siddhantpandey4903
    @siddhantpandey4903 5 лет назад +195

    It takes half your life before you discover life is a do-it-yourself project.

    • @highpriestess2193
      @highpriestess2193 2 года назад +3

      Nahh, knew it at the age of 20 and realized at 22.

    • @rashmeetkaur_
      @rashmeetkaur_ Год назад +1

      Gone through so much emo pain all the life now hitting the realisation at 24 that it’s gonna become worse unless i become wiser.

    • @siddhantpandey4903
      @siddhantpandey4903 Год назад

      @@rashmeetkaur_ its on you , n never forget what you gone through.

    • @_spirit_study
      @_spirit_study 2 месяца назад

      No. Life is not meant to be explored alone.

  • @saffron1996
    @saffron1996 5 лет назад +154

    This came up after im fired today... lol thanks guru :)

    • @ebineakalavyan5575
      @ebineakalavyan5575 5 лет назад +8

      Everything Will be alright

    • @xxxPaulineMvF
      @xxxPaulineMvF 5 лет назад +12

      Sending you love and peace. The universe will always take care and provide for you. Keep trusting❤️

    • @es8559
      @es8559 5 лет назад

      💚

    • @Pokeuni05
      @Pokeuni05 5 лет назад +9

      That’s google hacking your personal data and recommending you videos to make you feel better

    • @backgroundcharacter4099
      @backgroundcharacter4099 5 лет назад +1

      7 months later how is life?

  • @bobcharly8641
    @bobcharly8641 5 лет назад +80

    Love you Sadhguru! I'm going through a broken heart and suffer from bad depression, but when I watch your videos, I feel better. Thank you.

    • @MsGlamourish
      @MsGlamourish 2 года назад +4

      i hope after two years you’re doing well! keep pushing beautiful human

    • @bobcharly8641
      @bobcharly8641 2 года назад +5

      @@MsGlamourish that was so sweet thank you! You are an amazing person and I hope all your dreams and wishes come true 🙏🏼 happy new year!

    • @user-bk6vq3xm1t
      @user-bk6vq3xm1t 2 года назад +1

      @@bobcharly8641 i also hope u are doing well bob, go BOB! =D

    • @bobcharly8641
      @bobcharly8641 2 года назад +1

      @@user-bk6vq3xm1t that’s super sweet! Thank you 🙏🏼 ! I’m okay I have my good days and bad days, but I’m grateful to be alive!

    • @mr781mass9
      @mr781mass9 2 года назад

      @@bobcharly8641 i suffer as well bud from bad depression, so I know what it’s like to have good days & bad days. Hope your doing well man!
      And same here, I’m grateful to be alive!
      I was so focused on dwelling on what I lost in my life, instead of appreciating what I have in front me & never mind that this channel, is just as good or better than CBT based therapy lol.

  • @johnnyveganite9141
    @johnnyveganite9141 5 лет назад +43

    Don't be a victim, be a champion.

  • @makeitmohit3272
    @makeitmohit3272 5 лет назад +124

    Sadhguruji is doing fantastic work in answering repositories of questions we have in our mind, which sometimes become nightmares for us.Atleast somebody is thinking about the solutions for these country and not scratching the age old problems.I have never met him but he is like what Dronacharya was for Eklavya(except he didn't ask me for such gurudaksina👍😂)

  • @anthonyemebo6316
    @anthonyemebo6316 5 лет назад +38

    So much wisdom from one Man. Thanks for giving answers to the most pressing issues people face. You're a blessing to the world.
    ❤ From Nigeria

  • @DJ-up6uj
    @DJ-up6uj 2 года назад +7

    Either you can become wounded
    Or
    You can become wise.
    Really really thankyou Sadhguru.

  • @kavindraseebhujun3485
    @kavindraseebhujun3485 5 лет назад +16

    His laugh is enough❤️

  • @rameshperumal6441
    @rameshperumal6441 5 лет назад +22

    As of now, my life seemed strucking but after watching this i won't to be wounded at any rate ... And i want to be remember this in my life... Pranams

  • @user-er3nj4xm7p
    @user-er3nj4xm7p 5 лет назад +35

    Thank you Sadhguru for your wise words. It is true I just needed a reson to feel guilt and pain, to turn against myself. But actually all the "bad" things that happened to me are opportunities or life lessons. And I am thankfull for every kick I received from this life. I am on my way to becoming wise and not hurt. Being hurt is of no use to be honest. It is like japanese kintsugi - repairing the broken pottery by filling cracks with gold - the philosophical meaning of it is next: your scars are your beauty. You can never become anything in life without getting hit and cracked a few times. And by the way - remember that other people are not bad, they are just hurt, so accept their scars.

    • @alexandremartin7362
      @alexandremartin7362 Год назад

      Thank you for this comment .Life is rough and it makes me see it different

  • @drawingsadda7085
    @drawingsadda7085 3 года назад +12

    Must say these 5 minutes can really change your mindset👍👍

  • @zuzu2716
    @zuzu2716 5 лет назад +9

    First view of this man changed my life.thank you

  • @eshwarcs1370
    @eshwarcs1370 3 года назад +4

    Had a fight at my place people abused me and cornered me mentally by screaming and throwing things around this has been happening from my childhood iam 21 now and today it hurt me bad I practice isha meditations and somehow they pushed me to an extent where I broke down but sadhguru always and always stays in me and even in any kind of moment I feel this endurance for these external things which happen words can't describe how much you mean to me sadhguru as a Savior as a guru as everything to me 🙏🏽

    • @aakankshaagarwal7619
      @aakankshaagarwal7619 2 года назад

      God bless you with the best of all good things the world has :)
      Be stronger with each day. Universe will show you your path. Focus on yourself :)

  • @fourthreetwo_8378
    @fourthreetwo_8378 3 года назад +6

    This guy was actually a reason I’m depressed because he says you can only find happiness in yourself. Why can’t you find happiness in another person? I’m sure it’s 100x easier finding happiness in a good lasting relationship than all by your lonesome depressed self. Either climb Mount Everest everyday or find the one then climb a 1 foot ladder with just the same or even more happiness.

  • @noonespecial09
    @noonespecial09 2 года назад +8

    These 5 minutes have been of so great impact!! He is THE ULTIMATE GURU of the age and his commitment to adiyogi is going phenomenal.... Has he not been here, there would be a great phenomenal missing the world would thirst out for...🙏🏻 Unable to find any expression to his contribution in the world being role model to many...HATS OFFFF!!!

  • @akshitagoyal8756
    @akshitagoyal8756 2 года назад +1

    I'm so jealous of this man's laugh .. 😂 it is such a beautiful and whole hearted one.. ✨

  • @tanujshekhar
    @tanujshekhar 5 лет назад +7

    Sadhguru's laugh fills the world with Joy !

  • @krishnamsdhoni
    @krishnamsdhoni 5 лет назад +59

    Why do people see everything that bothers them as a problem? True strength is knowing your limits and accepting your current state then learning to live with it

    • @Harsha-ef2ee
      @Harsha-ef2ee 5 лет назад +8

      You can't categorize problems, sir. There are too many and each problem is distinct and affects each kind of person with different intensity.

    • @dbsk06
      @dbsk06 5 лет назад

      Krishna Mathur if only society views it that way :/

  • @onelife-celebrateit
    @onelife-celebrateit 5 лет назад +1

    Since 2012..... One person who always brings some sense into my head....... Namaskaram....

  • @ritushrivastava4534
    @ritushrivastava4534 2 года назад +4

    One of the wisest discourse I have ever heard. what a beautiful conclusion

  • @irislove369
    @irislove369 2 года назад +7

    Whenever something terrible happened to you, use the experience to become wiser.

  • @NarendraSingh-jp9xo
    @NarendraSingh-jp9xo 2 года назад +1

    "Even you put through a horrible situation either you come out by experiencing it or you can become a horrible mess".. awesome line's.🌸🌸

  • @lokeshkumar7812
    @lokeshkumar7812 2 года назад +10

    The more things hurt you earlier on in your life the wiser you should have become 👌🏻👏 it’s an ultimate truth

  • @dhopeyinyang4103
    @dhopeyinyang4103 Год назад +1

    "Is it not important that your intelligence stands up for you." - Sadhguru thank you!

  • @deepasinghshrestha3963
    @deepasinghshrestha3963 2 года назад +2

    You opened my eyes.....Thank you Sadhguru......I will always speak to anyone as the the last word.....and learn from my hurts...

  • @nishitpanchal9536
    @nishitpanchal9536 5 лет назад +7

    Sadhguru 🙏 This has changed my view of looking at life. I feel myself fortunate that I born in this era when we have mystic like you !

  • @Prinks010
    @Prinks010 5 лет назад +6

    Such a Great Intelligent Guruji We have got in this 21st century!! We are really blessed !! 🙏 Pranamam🙏

  • @GauravVerma-lc7hz
    @GauravVerma-lc7hz 2 года назад +3

    In last few years i have lost my mother and father both. My fiancee left me after 7 years of relationship. But sadguru words are calming, life is really tough i will try to keep going forward.

    • @aakankshaagarwal7619
      @aakankshaagarwal7619 2 года назад

      I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know that the pain and void you feel inside yourself may be unbearable at times. Never give up on yourself. Universe will guide you forward for sure. Focus on yourself and do small things that bring joy to you.. happiness is within you. God will bless you with a wonderful life partner :)

  • @manjunathgangadharg7392
    @manjunathgangadharg7392 5 лет назад +11

    Life in such a way, that it's your last few hours.... Just keeping this one thing in mind, and will never think of hurting self or others...

  • @Priya-tk9nq
    @Priya-tk9nq 2 года назад

    We do not wanna become wounded, and that's why we watch your videos Sadhguruji! Becoming wounded hurts ourselves more than anyone else, so it's wise to become wise! Thank you for the amazing story!
    Thank you! 🙏

  • @dr.sunflower6336
    @dr.sunflower6336 3 месяца назад

    "I'm saying even if you're put through the most horrible situations, either you can come out using that experience as a better human being or you can use the experience to become a horrrible mess."
    What Sadhguru said was truly satisfying to hear to my soul and on the point. But it's not really that easy to forgive ourselves for any of our wrong doings. Even when we choose to become a better human, I don't think we can come out of it that easily.

  • @anjanamanikunnel8546
    @anjanamanikunnel8546 2 года назад +1

    I know this completely but after hearing this....it has made me feel much better knowing that what I'm thinking is also the same as what sadhguru sir is speaking ,❤️

  • @vipuldudam1824
    @vipuldudam1824 3 года назад +1

    As Sadhguru explains it vanishes completely
    thank you so much

  • @anonymousanonymously5941
    @anonymousanonymously5941 2 года назад +1

    I am crying but when he laughs I can’t help but smile.
    🌟 Lesedi - Let There Be Light 🌟

  • @faithkhashmere246
    @faithkhashmere246 5 лет назад +8

    I swear to God...-some of the most awe-inspiringly great lines by Sadhguru out there in his this video, MUST watch to get over the »self-helpless« cycle!

  • @mowmitabarua6550
    @mowmitabarua6550 5 лет назад +2

    I have so much respect for this man ♥️

  • @lochanr9086
    @lochanr9086 2 года назад +1

    His laugh was more than enough for my sad feelings to vanish.
    Sadhguru I will meet you in 4 years and come to isha ashrama for a year. I want to feel happy.

  • @sakshijain2543
    @sakshijain2543 5 лет назад +6

    What a beautiful message!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @stephissteph1359
    @stephissteph1359 3 года назад +5

    Someone told me the same when my mother passed away, it saved me.

  • @lyxuong458
    @lyxuong458 3 года назад +2

    Thank you very much!!! I’m blessed for the challenges and hard times!!!

  • @AndrewHibberd
    @AndrewHibberd 5 лет назад

    wow in the wagon you never understand how much love

  • @MaxivanJoy
    @MaxivanJoy 5 лет назад +47

    thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. you are a big inspiration🙏❤🙏thank you,sadghuru.

  • @maryjaneharris9529
    @maryjaneharris9529 2 года назад +1

    I’ve learned to become wiser ! You are exactly right !

  • @blivntaekook
    @blivntaekook 2 года назад +4

    Thank you Sadhguru. I've been crying and you made me smile. 💜✨

  • @nicolasrivero4722
    @nicolasrivero4722 4 года назад +2

    As always so wise. Awesome kind of help in challenging times

  • @ibrahimchaudhry9024
    @ibrahimchaudhry9024 5 лет назад +1

    So beautiful.
    Tears.

  • @Taracroi
    @Taracroi 5 лет назад +1

    Pranams to You, Sadhguru ! 💕💕💕💕💕

  • @yoelfarkas442
    @yoelfarkas442 2 года назад +1

    Beauiful and so true. What a wise man.

  • @shashwatagame
    @shashwatagame 2 года назад

    This made me back from the corner of terrace . Thank You 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @gayatrithapa3589
    @gayatrithapa3589 Год назад

    So beautifully expressed!❤

  • @cb7762
    @cb7762 2 года назад +1

    "Many things that don't work out in early life later on it seems to be GREAT BLESSING" - so true

    • @cb7762
      @cb7762 2 года назад

      @@ishakanyavee240 yes Isha

  • @Eroblue11
    @Eroblue11 5 лет назад +2

    Wow what an exquisite story. ❤️

  • @vikasarsid1299
    @vikasarsid1299 5 лет назад +1

    This story is very heart touching

  • @c.p_yatri
    @c.p_yatri 5 лет назад +7

    Very nice reply guru ji

  • @desertgirlwarrior1921
    @desertgirlwarrior1921 2 года назад +1

    Simply BRILLIANT!!! 🙌🙏❤️

  • @johnwhelan1193
    @johnwhelan1193 5 лет назад +5

    Well truly a wise man ,thank you sadguru.

  • @kabeerclips9506
    @kabeerclips9506 2 года назад

    He is laughing not because he does not take peoples Problem seriously but he is in the touch with the inner dimension which is dimeonsion of unlimited joy and bliss

  • @shashikanth7484
    @shashikanth7484 5 лет назад +4

    A clear cut answer sadhguru ji, i love the way u reply the solutions..

  • @vishnuviv2824
    @vishnuviv2824 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @onlineenglishlessons918
    @onlineenglishlessons918 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for your kind advice 🙏

  • @mayurakshidas6513
    @mayurakshidas6513 5 лет назад +1

    When you are fully shattered......just listen to Sadhguru ,s videos 🙏. You would be refreshed again......

  • @stevefitzherbert
    @stevefitzherbert 5 лет назад +2

    the moment right when ur heart is shattered that moment is very imp how you take care of those pieces.

  • @digambersingh555
    @digambersingh555 5 лет назад +2

    Respected Sadhguru your answer is really motivating as usual.

  • @prashantkumar-ux1rw
    @prashantkumar-ux1rw 5 лет назад +8

    This content is also in inner enginnering book.thanx sadhguru

  • @miahtaylor5271
    @miahtaylor5271 Год назад

    This man is the literally a spiritual hermit🫶🏾

  • @trinaroni
    @trinaroni 5 лет назад +1

    Great reminder of our two choices

  • @daisysano7863
    @daisysano7863 2 года назад

    I just love when he laughes, makes me smile and feel happy.

  • @janelovethesky7485
    @janelovethesky7485 Год назад

    Hope this video will come to many people, it's really help me even after many years

  • @shwethashankar1
    @shwethashankar1 2 года назад

    Amazing!!! Sadhguruji.Needed this

  • @athulkurienoommen208
    @athulkurienoommen208 5 лет назад +1

    INCREDIBLE ANSWERING

  • @prasoonkumar97
    @prasoonkumar97 5 лет назад +2

    story from his book Inner Engineering.........Audiobook is amazing ........ Thanks Sadhguru

  • @krishnakumarsingh3972
    @krishnakumarsingh3972 5 лет назад +31

    thank u sadhguru g lots of love❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brindasingh6309
    @brindasingh6309 3 года назад +1

    Yes, its better to learn and grow, thank you Sadhguruji

  • @deveshyadav3099
    @deveshyadav3099 5 лет назад +1

    Needed an reminder.... thank you 😊

  • @markjeffreyederango9725
    @markjeffreyederango9725 5 лет назад +1

    Touching., this is very real.

  • @myversionoftruth
    @myversionoftruth Год назад

    Great. Thank you.

  • @maths740
    @maths740 5 лет назад +30

    You are such a blessing guruji

  • @aditichaudhry2651
    @aditichaudhry2651 7 месяцев назад

    I don't have words about how grateful I am that this wisdom and guidance of Sadhguru is available for free and at anytime. His wisdom is the only help at the peak moment of chaos in my mind.

  • @alashome1014
    @alashome1014 5 лет назад +2

    TOP TOP MOST IMP. For me.VERY NICELY Said by Sadnhguru on meeting with other people and If you get hearted then think wisely and understand it fully by yourself.