How Not to Let Ugly Situations Mess You Up | Sadhguru

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  • Опубликовано: 23 май 2021
  • Responding to a question on the negative influence of growing up with quarreling parents and in an atmosphere that is bereft of love, Sadhguru says that we cannot determine what life throws at us, but what we make out of it is entirely our choice. He also adds that especially if your parents have lived badly, you must ensure that you never ever commit the mistakes that your parents committed.
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  • @sonidoesstuff2318
    @sonidoesstuff2318 3 года назад +1205

    "You cannot fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow".. something so simple, yet so powerful. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

  • @theyogisguide2685
    @theyogisguide2685 3 года назад +677

    “When pain, misery, or anger happen, it is time to look within you, not around you.”
    - Sadhguru

    • @terrytan4330
      @terrytan4330 2 года назад +15

      This is so true. You have a choice in whether to continue becoming ugly or use it as an experience to become wise.

    • @mehdisalehani
      @mehdisalehani Год назад +2

      I believe so based on experience

    • @Niqua10023
      @Niqua10023 Год назад +2

      Wow! That's deep. I needed this. Thank you.

    • @Mickeyrocks2000
      @Mickeyrocks2000 Год назад

      Truee

    • @shubhamrohit7287
      @shubhamrohit7287 Год назад

      How

  • @juliestorrie4492
    @juliestorrie4492 3 года назад +915

    Sending love from Scotland. Love your sari. I grew up in violence and I was always very shy. At 16 I got pregnant with a 40 year old and took on a step son and 3 step daughters. I have been loyal and committed for 29 years, but since turning 40 I have been coming out my shell realising that shame I’ve carried all my life wasn’t mine, through yoga and self love I have been healing myself and a year ago today.. I walked away from 29 years. I have spent the last year re parenting myself and forgiving abusers. I have constantly been working and living wage to wage but I know that I will be okay and I am grateful I have this chance to change my life 🙏

    • @kumarashura6621
      @kumarashura6621 3 года назад +48

      Well you have got it hard from quite tender age..hope now u can be at peace 🙏

    • @kayhalsey
      @kayhalsey 3 года назад +22

      Much love to you and your work that you are accomplishing!!!

    • @nainau6204
      @nainau6204 3 года назад +14

      god bless you

    • @WhiteMetal_
      @WhiteMetal_ 2 года назад +23

      Wish if i could hug you

    • @Indianvideoguy007
      @Indianvideoguy007 2 года назад +9

      Kindly share the path and journey of healing through yoga meditation. it would immensely benefits many in need of it
      Jai Guru dev
      Aum Sairam

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul 3 года назад +532

    Life is 10% what happens to us, and 90% how we react to it ✌🏽

    • @mrkhan3504
      @mrkhan3504 3 года назад +4

      If you did not react, you are same as a dead person. Its depends on good things happens to you or bad.

    • @lover9568
      @lover9568 3 года назад +5

      Mr. Kan
      Response exists* keep your unpopular opinion into your pocket.

    • @mrkhan3504
      @mrkhan3504 3 года назад +3

      @@lover9568 do I care my opinion popular or not ?? Dont mock yourself here. I'm saying things will happens, sometimes you really have to react.

    • @user-zu6ts5fb6g
      @user-zu6ts5fb6g 3 года назад +3

      exactly the opposite, but those 10% makes a key difference

    • @rayleensmith8314
      @rayleensmith8314 3 года назад

      So true !!

  • @TarunGoyal4ever
    @TarunGoyal4ever 2 года назад +216

    I recently realized that if you don't react to negative situations for 10 minutes, your perspective of looking at it will automatically change and you will react in a much better way... Thank you!

    • @jyotidalmia8055
      @jyotidalmia8055 Год назад +3

      But how do I stop reacting?

    • @luanaricks7366
      @luanaricks7366 Год назад +2

      so very true, here in America, everyone has an opinion and for some reason feel the need to express it, even when not asked. i feel ppl do this out of loneliness and desire for connection. often times it can lead to conflict because they don't realize its ok to have a difference of opinion, this doesn't mean they can be friends or just quietly accept what the other person is saying as simply a different perspective.

    • @AuthorpreneurIITian
      @AuthorpreneurIITian Год назад +1

      @Tarun Goyal how you control your reactions? Some tips?

    • @abhishekghosh4384
      @abhishekghosh4384 Год назад +3

      @@AuthorpreneurIITian express them through your breath instead of your actions..

    • @fatalexcerpts
      @fatalexcerpts Год назад +2

      @@abhishekghosh4384 that riles some people up when you sigh though. but i agree this is a great way to let it pass through you.

  • @escapism6529
    @escapism6529 3 года назад +346

    I'm so happy I found this man at 20 years old. Changing my life

  • @Mickeyrocks2000
    @Mickeyrocks2000 Год назад +47

    I needed this. Been hurt all my life. No support. Toxic family toxic people toxic life. I have no one to hold my hand. I have me. Watching sadhguru has really opened my mind. This is life. Not heaven.

    • @dj-ux1jr
      @dj-ux1jr 8 месяцев назад +2

      Life is actually heaven, you have good food good music to groove and even beautiful girls all the qualities in which heavens are described ...taking you dont belong to a country which is constantly at war then its a different story ...love

  • @vajratara1505
    @vajratara1505 3 года назад +91

    “ Don’t keep on looking at the rear-view mirror for ever “. 🙏

    • @issadiawara38
      @issadiawara38 3 года назад

      Lol 😆😆😆😆😆😆mate

  • @yogaveera
    @yogaveera 3 года назад +370

    "There is no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create tomorrow" I'M BLESSED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO

  • @One-ct3xe
    @One-ct3xe 3 года назад +1233

    It's almost frightening how often one of his talks is released at just the right moment in my life. Probably everyone's lives, the whole world is a volatile situation lately I suppose. Much love to you Sadhguru!

    • @Manes-Ancestrales
      @Manes-Ancestrales 3 года назад +9

      ❣️♥️❤️❣️♥️❤️❣️♥️❤️

    • @SombR3ro
      @SombR3ro 3 года назад +11

      same here!

    • @ArshpreetKaur-mm5qd
      @ArshpreetKaur-mm5qd 3 года назад +6

      I agree.

    • @meldais1
      @meldais1 3 года назад +7

      Feel you man on this. I hope things improve for you!!

    • @parasagarwal1046
      @parasagarwal1046 3 года назад +7

      Same here.. going through my worst phase

  • @nayanahirwar4194
    @nayanahirwar4194 3 года назад +91

    " what the world throws at us is not necessarily your choice, but what you make out of it is entirely your choice. "

  • @moeedraja2462
    @moeedraja2462 3 года назад +75

    This guy is the man .....

  • @yogaveera
    @yogaveera 3 года назад +125

    Today is brother's day... Or Anna's day.... Happy Anna's day to all the Annas🔥

  • @chazmoel369
    @chazmoel369 3 года назад +87

    My brother told me anxiety is from the future depression is from the past present is a 🎁. Stay present 💞

    • @sketchwithsagarg
      @sketchwithsagarg 3 года назад +5

      That's a zen saying. It's quite famous.

    • @beenachand5763
      @beenachand5763 3 года назад +7

      Past is memory future is imagination and present is experience-. Sadhguru

    • @manastalksessions1053
      @manastalksessions1053 3 года назад

      Some things are more complex than this.

  • @SabeeraHausa
    @SabeeraHausa 3 года назад +27

    “What the world throws at us is not our choice but what we choose to do with it is our choice”.

  • @mysticdimension8848
    @mysticdimension8848 3 года назад +22

    Love from NEPAL sudhguru..🙏🙏

  • @rishbahkohli849
    @rishbahkohli849 3 года назад +211

    This is exactly the wisdom I wanted to know

    • @kabirsingh2459
      @kabirsingh2459 3 года назад +1

      👍🏻

    • @anishaadhikari6789
      @anishaadhikari6789 3 года назад +1

      Me tooo

    • @anishaadhikari6789
      @anishaadhikari6789 3 года назад +3

      Sadhguru knows what his followers want.

    • @kabirsingh2459
      @kabirsingh2459 3 года назад +3

      @@anishaadhikari6789 nahi yr, he knows what is right to live this life to our utmost brilliant experience

    • @kabirsingh2459
      @kabirsingh2459 3 года назад +1

      @Abdullah Ali Khan I’m glad to hear that brother

  • @rupapreetha
    @rupapreetha 3 года назад +58

    That’s true we cannot blame the situation ... best thing possible for us ... is to find the good things from the bad that happens to us ... if u sense a problem give your fair share of try and if nothing is working 1. Sit and analyze.. 2. Learn from mistake 3. Then make a plan b... this will keep u diverted for some time 4.divert from ur low energy cos no problem is worth spoiling our life ...5.move on for the better

  • @rockingcreation8896
    @rockingcreation8896 3 года назад +50

    His words sometimes make me cry..Thank you and love you Sadhguru

  • @askefantenthefool8050
    @askefantenthefool8050 3 года назад +45

    It reminds me of Gandalf explaining to Frodo, while they are deep inside a dark cave.
    Frodo:
    I wish the ring never came to me, i wish none of this would happen.
    Gandalf:
    So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide.
    All we have to do, is to decide what we will do with the time that is given us❤️🙏

  • @SwayingWithTheSoul
    @SwayingWithTheSoul 3 года назад +68

    Make this one belief, that life happens for you..Universe is always working out for your ultimate good..🙏❣️

    • @keithc1
      @keithc1 3 месяца назад

      Not true

  • @YogiMystics
    @YogiMystics 3 года назад +53

    " Life is a process, not a problem. The question is only, have you prepared yourself for the process or not." - Sadhguru 🙏

  • @amit_patel654
    @amit_patel654 2 года назад +17

    I've realized that there's only 3 things I can control in my life:
    1) what I focus on (what I'm looking at)
    2) what actions I take
    3) how much effort I put in
    Everything else is out of my hands.

  • @firstprinciples994
    @firstprinciples994 3 года назад +15

    I and i alone am responsible for everything i feel.😇

  • @harshitjain4006
    @harshitjain4006 3 года назад +9

    If u face ugly situation u will also become ugly or choose this as a manure to blossom into a wonderful flower. Choice is ur. There is no ideal situation.
    Sadhguru❤️🙏🏻

  • @shubhamprakashgupta7205
    @shubhamprakashgupta7205 3 года назад +7

    Muje lgta he...... unlike krne wale log guru ji se jyada smart he ya english smj ni aTi....

  • @meg369
    @meg369 3 года назад +68

    Pretty amazed at how the right video finds you at the right time. This is just what I needed to hear at this moment

  • @christianinfinity8206
    @christianinfinity8206 3 года назад +25

    This is really really really important especially in the US, so many kids just blame everything in the past and don’t change. And then they lose faith and belief based on past experiences!!

  • @ajithbharathvaajlr8364
    @ajithbharathvaajlr8364 3 года назад +33

    Sadhguru .... this is apt for my day thank u so much

  • @rushikeshhindusthani4086
    @rushikeshhindusthani4086 3 года назад +6

    Shiv Shiv Mahadev Shambho..😌🙏

  • @natalieedwards919
    @natalieedwards919 3 года назад +50

    “There is no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow” I pray for strength to hold onto this wisdom 🙏🏽

  • @Jana-zp4to
    @Jana-zp4to 3 года назад +37

    I had to hear this this morning.
    Thank you ⭐🌻

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul 3 года назад +191

    Maybe you’ve been assigned this mountain to show others it can be moved 🏔

  • @gopalsolanke8703
    @gopalsolanke8703 3 года назад +11

    Sadguru gives absolute clarity.

  • @81179venky
    @81179venky 3 года назад +12

    Where there r 2 people there is an issue..What a line...🙏

  • @avygeorge4426
    @avygeorge4426 3 года назад +12

    I choose happiness ❤️

  • @Anna-sx1gs
    @Anna-sx1gs 3 года назад +33

    Wonderful words of inspiration for a monday❤️🥰

  • @Katice634
    @Katice634 Год назад +5

    Less than 2 minutes in and I see what he’s saying. It’s up to us how we feel and what we do. The choice is ours. Simple but true.

  • @akshaybalod7842
    @akshaybalod7842 3 года назад +32

    I was going through harsh situation then sadhguru 👣🛐 come with this video 💛

  • @user-nq2sw6sg8q
    @user-nq2sw6sg8q 3 года назад +16

    This explanation come at the right time.

  • @gbubemia
    @gbubemia 3 года назад +8

    "The privilege of being a human being is the fact that we have the intelligence to determine what our experience in life should be. Other creatures are in a natural instinctive state of compulsive reaction. ... most humans are also in a compulsive state of reaction."
    -Sadhguru.
    That's powerful!!!

  • @rdahlinger4509
    @rdahlinger4509 Год назад +10

    That’s such a good point. Recognizing when someone else isn’t living well but I didn’t realize the irony of not being mindful in my own life. Thanks for your video

  • @sushan1051
    @sushan1051 3 года назад +9

    Sadhguru Shambho 🙏❤️

  • @SydMountaineer
    @SydMountaineer 2 года назад +4

    Sadhguru said something that would be a PERFECT response to someone who is arguing with you in bad faith, or is blaming you (playing the blame game which is not effective communication, a waste of time), where they bring up past things YOU did to deflect what they did, when the discussion is about something in the present, they do this to avoid admitting a mistake or taking responsibility for their own actions - A great reply to make them stop and think would be: *"There's no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow."*

  • @DivineSignals
    @DivineSignals 3 года назад +18

    You can't control what people do to you but you can control your response and your action to the situation 💖
    Very brilliant, Sadhguru 🙏

    • @thefounders
      @thefounders 3 года назад +1

      thank you Sadhguruji 🙏🙏🙏

  • @stevenr6874
    @stevenr6874 3 года назад +9

    Pain is a great teacher.

  • @traciehall1975
    @traciehall1975 3 года назад +21

    Thank you, you always put perspective life, I wish I found you as a teenager, but I am over the moon that I found your wisdom now. Love to everyone all over our beautiful world.

  • @Ujjayanroy
    @Ujjayanroy Год назад +8

    totally agreed, though it is really hard in certain circumstances...still

  • @ripombanerjee1835
    @ripombanerjee1835 3 года назад +3

    Thank you ...❤🙏

  • @rohitbhat326
    @rohitbhat326 3 года назад +13

    Tune in the beginning.... Uffff... It's in the end of an another video of Sadhguru (titled- learn to be alone)
    It's just .... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 3 года назад +1

    Tq sadhguru...

  • @atibshaikh9546
    @atibshaikh9546 17 дней назад

    Just at the weekend... feeling alone... Sadhguru is the best company.

  • @DeepakRathoreProject
    @DeepakRathoreProject 3 года назад +171

    Thank you Sadhguru 😇🙏

    • @achaladka7225
      @achaladka7225 3 года назад +1

      Shimla hai ghar mera 😅

    • @JonKonik11
      @JonKonik11 2 года назад +1

      Yes or no? Hello?

    • @judithrusso6613
      @judithrusso6613 2 года назад

      I am so happy I came a cross you Sadhguru thank you so much 🙏🏻😇

  • @cmcgrew28
    @cmcgrew28 3 года назад +3

    Much love ❤️

  • @neeragandharva1160
    @neeragandharva1160 3 года назад +2

    Absolutely in agreement👍

  • @flo_ridaa7074
    @flo_ridaa7074 3 года назад +2

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @shikhar1543
    @shikhar1543 3 года назад +4

    Sadhguru🙏🙏

  • @boozy638
    @boozy638 3 года назад +3

    Bliss your heart❤❤

  • @elijahraj5767
    @elijahraj5767 3 года назад +1

    Thank you sir.

  • @k.kavisyog6078
    @k.kavisyog6078 3 года назад

    Thankyou mere pyare Sadhguru ji......ashirvad dijiye.....

  • @shubhamprakashgupta7205
    @shubhamprakashgupta7205 3 года назад +3

    Great sir

  • @debasishghoshsays
    @debasishghoshsays 3 года назад +3

    Just what I needed today...thank u sir

  • @akshaybalod7842
    @akshaybalod7842 3 года назад +2

    Thank you 🙏 sadhguru 👣🛐

  • @carloscastanheiro2933
    @carloscastanheiro2933 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Sadhguru.

  • @SombR3ro
    @SombR3ro 3 года назад +5

    thank you for your wise words and wisdom 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ogdripxy657
    @ogdripxy657 3 года назад +3

    Great!

  • @simplelivingjjb6909
    @simplelivingjjb6909 3 года назад

    Thank you so much Sadhguru ji🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sachinkulkarni1945
    @sachinkulkarni1945 3 года назад +2

    Shastang Pranam Sadguru ji. 🙏💐🙏

  • @jmarieflowers
    @jmarieflowers 3 года назад +16

    Oh Thank you so much !! All this love for free.. Much appreciated 🙏

  • @Manes-Ancestrales
    @Manes-Ancestrales 3 года назад +3

    Sadhguru Forever ❤️❣️♥️❣️♥️❤️

  • @familyman1110
    @familyman1110 3 года назад +1

    Thank you, you are absolutely fantastic and Beautiful ty ty ty, Bless you

  • @rosered8231
    @rosered8231 3 года назад +1

    Thankyou I needed this🙏

  • @tanyadebarrosviana5285
    @tanyadebarrosviana5285 2 года назад +5

    I love listening to your wise words and guidance 🙏

  • @lifeisagift2020
    @lifeisagift2020 3 года назад +16

    Soo profound... External input is not always equal to internal output under conscious state of mind, trying my best to maintain this balance... Thank you Sadhguru

  • @bingeable3
    @bingeable3 2 года назад

    Thank you! Sadhguru, you are absolutely right.

  • @sookshmasarode3325
    @sookshmasarode3325 3 года назад +1

    love your message sadhguru. Thank you so much.❤😊

  • @leoug7706
    @leoug7706 3 года назад +6

    Perfect

  • @BiologyNEET
    @BiologyNEET 3 года назад +60

    Thankyou Sadhguru ji🙏

  • @anniedivins8173
    @anniedivins8173 3 года назад +2

    I would love to listen to this later thank you

  • @sureshchandrakeshrikeshri7697
    @sureshchandrakeshrikeshri7697 2 года назад +1

    wow! what a wonderfully he explained.

  • @jeannethisdale2399
    @jeannethisdale2399 3 года назад +7

    You cant fix a yesterday but u can create a tomorrow
    Very powerful thought. Thank you.

  • @jayshreekrishna.8280
    @jayshreekrishna.8280 3 года назад +7

    This is one of best sessions.

  • @jozetrselic
    @jozetrselic 3 года назад +1

    Namaskaram dear Sadhguru🙏

  • @rakhidhiman9968
    @rakhidhiman9968 3 года назад +2

    I am blessed with this video🌻🌻🌻

  • @daniellev5264
    @daniellev5264 3 года назад +17

    That is so true!!🙏You have the choice, how to react..☯️

    • @rahulchoudhury3957
      @rahulchoudhury3957 2 года назад

      You have a choice to act, you don't have a choice when you react.

  • @VishVibezREACTS
    @VishVibezREACTS 3 года назад +17

    “Challenging times are not necessarily a calamity. These are times when human beings have to rise beyond their limitations and ride these challenges to become a glorious generation.” -SADHGURU🧡🙏🏽🧡🙏🏽🧡

  • @anjanathapa4704
    @anjanathapa4704 3 года назад +1

    You are amazing Sadhguru

  • @bontlekhobokoane5912
    @bontlekhobokoane5912 3 года назад +1

    Thank you very much Sandhguru, May God bless you

  • @kabirsingh2459
    @kabirsingh2459 3 года назад +4

    You are my true Bhagwan , Sadhguru ji

  • @aditiverma5280
    @aditiverma5280 3 года назад +11

    What a video this was Sadhguru 🙏🏼 .... SO INSPIRED

  • @mhrthkr
    @mhrthkr 3 года назад

    Thank You Sadhguru..

  • @sharanutravels315
    @sharanutravels315 3 года назад

    Beautiful Explanation by Sadhguru

  • @aashish616
    @aashish616 3 года назад +14

    Although this applies universally idk how but this was exactly what I needed to be reminded about and sadhguru team posted on the same. Amazing how life finds expression and things just make sense at the right time with the right context to it.🙏🙏

  • @formlessavatar5220
    @formlessavatar5220 3 года назад +4

    Wow... I needed this, and the world answered. Thank you. Love from Sydney

  • @jeanniecampbell1374
    @jeanniecampbell1374 Год назад

    Love his straight honest answers .thanks for posting .

  • @sbs_modernmeeralaxmisharma465
    @sbs_modernmeeralaxmisharma465 3 года назад

    Awesome . You are such a healer n guide .many thanks

  • @energy0271
    @energy0271 3 года назад +6

    My Guru... My-master🙏❤️
    Thanks so much for everything 🙏🙏🙏.

  • @dianac2596
    @dianac2596 3 года назад +3

    This video opened my eyes and mind so much! My perspective has change unbelievably. Thank you, Thank you! 🙏❤️

  • @sailajarama7031
    @sailajarama7031 3 года назад +2

    Love you Sadhguru I will remember this words always

  • @korrieanneparnaby151
    @korrieanneparnaby151 3 года назад +2

    🙏 Thank you