I Got REJECTED By 100 BADDIES IN MIAMI! | Here's What I Learned (INFIELD)

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  • @FITXFEARLESS
    @FITXFEARLESS  3 месяца назад +127

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    • @davidallahgod3217
      @davidallahgod3217 3 месяца назад

      If you look good and approach her, she automatically thinks your already banging woman, so it's a NO from her instantly

    • @carrymedz5792
      @carrymedz5792 3 месяца назад

      He think they rejecting him because pre qualifications (nope) she want a THUG, A MAN WITH HIS PANTS SAGGING, A MAN WITH STREET....Bro you had on tight pants with earrings with no conversation AT ALL ...Forget asking them what they DO, whats her NAME... Man that conversationwas basic (no disrespect but you LOOKED FEMININE in her eyes (dress like a THUG you'll see the difference on chick's like those that rejected you. I pull them types of chick's all the time in my basic work clothes looking dirty with my pants sagging

    • @Kingnews256
      @Kingnews256 3 месяца назад +6

      Your rizz is bland bro mostly interview questions you rely too much on your looks

    • @0820XXX
      @0820XXX 3 месяца назад +1

      You said some good points in this video above.

    • @Justtheperfectday
      @Justtheperfectday 3 месяца назад +1

      Who would want help from the guy who gets rejected 100 times??? I know I'm just a woman so what do I know, ... and I didn't watch the whole vid...

  • @Patricksele750
    @Patricksele750 3 месяца назад +4493

    u know what worse than a girl rejecting you? jobs rejecting you😭😭😭

    • @thealternativefactor6694
      @thealternativefactor6694 3 месяца назад +177

      For Real...💯

    • @bigcockedman714
      @bigcockedman714 3 месяца назад +91

      start your business and have b2b's reject you :)

    • @br4nd0nx_x
      @br4nd0nx_x 3 месяца назад +60

      Real talk

    • @nba1killer
      @nba1killer 3 месяца назад +40

      The layers in this comment is hilarious! lol tough outchea!! #KeepShooting

    • @etzjunior_
      @etzjunior_ 3 месяца назад +116

      Literally got a rejection email this evening mehn. I’m drained

  • @Kingwithoutathrone
    @Kingwithoutathrone 3 месяца назад +2171

    I respect this dude for showing the losses. Not too many other content creators have the guts to do this.

    • @Ronin-kk4bt
      @Ronin-kk4bt 3 месяца назад +57

      Agree they only show the good parts it’s nice to see the losses too

    • @AjOfficiial
      @AjOfficiial 3 месяца назад +68

      In a way he did , in a way he didn’t . He Knows what Drives women away & He did that Purposely ; only to prove , you can never like a woman more than she likes you . Ding Ding 🛎️

    • @chrisc.6551
      @chrisc.6551 3 месяца назад +20

      I respect Fitx 100%. And thanks for demonstrating rejections on purpose to prove a valid point. Either way, no man obtains a 100% approval rating. In most interactions with women, subsequent rejections occur because the woman doesn’t know enough about the man to gauge her interest.

    • @SkylerDouglas
      @SkylerDouglas 3 месяца назад +8

      How To Beast started the record yourself cold approach videos. With acceptances and rejections.

    • @MrDiMES123
      @MrDiMES123 3 месяца назад +11

      I could tell he got rejected on purpose tho

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx 3 месяца назад +660

    Asking a girl out 10 seconds after you've met her is like you're trying to fail.
    🤦‍♂️

    • @trevoringram6063
      @trevoringram6063 3 месяца назад +32

      Not unless your him 🤣

    • @jonathanm9986
      @jonathanm9986 3 месяца назад +50

      @@trevoringram6063as good as he looks, even if they say yes, they likely not long term material

    • @trevoringram6063
      @trevoringram6063 3 месяца назад

      @@jonathanm9986 I mean him as in
      The type of guy most women would dream to be with

    • @godspeedredeicieli4384
      @godspeedredeicieli4384 2 месяца назад +14

      You should still be quick but you shouldn’t have that be the first thing you ask

    • @trevoringram6063
      @trevoringram6063 2 месяца назад +5

      @@godspeedredeicieli4384 why not 🤷🏾‍♂️ girls don’t like a free meal ? Who just declines somebody asking to take them if you like what you see and want to see more to it

  • @slimm7848
    @slimm7848 2 месяца назад +311

    A women's rejection is Gods protection.

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff Месяц назад +9

      Women want to know who you are. There's a reason I would always get rejected by beautiful women whenever I approached them, yet working at my job for 17 yrs, I would literally have every beautiful woman that came to work there show interest in me after talking to me for a week.

    • @frontlife900
      @frontlife900 Месяц назад +5

      @@JuliusTurner-hm6ff So then why don't they want to know the guy approaching them?

    • @BrooklynRival7718
      @BrooklynRival7718 Месяц назад

      @@JuliusTurner-hm6ffbullshit

    • @Rico_Suvae
      @Rico_Suvae Месяц назад

      AMEN 🙏💙

    • @makaveli5824
      @makaveli5824 29 дней назад

      @@frontlife900 imagine you are just a young girl, and there cool guy approaching you, and u dont know whats exactly on his mind. If u are man u dont have to afraid to when girls approaching

  • @RENEIND
    @RENEIND 3 месяца назад +2275

    The side OTHER influencers don't SHOW you, good job FIT 💪

    • @jackiechun5817
      @jackiechun5817 3 месяца назад +48

      THOSE SAME EXACT 🐦 would throw themselves at Fitx if he just pulled up his IG and handed any of them his phone. Disgusting 😒💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

    • @RJ__________
      @RJ__________ 3 месяца назад

      @@jackiechun5817facts

    • @MiguelLosRudos20
      @MiguelLosRudos20 3 месяца назад +12

      Real shit

    • @TheLionInTheNorth
      @TheLionInTheNorth 3 месяца назад +7

      That part ‼️

    • @nateblanton2713
      @nateblanton2713 3 месяца назад +23

      He has no game that’s all he proved lol

  • @Humble_Legend
    @Humble_Legend 3 месяца назад +323

    Much respect for being the only RUclipsr I've ever seen showing the rejections. Most pretend they never get rejected.

    • @Who-cu9eu
      @Who-cu9eu 2 месяца назад

      I have no social validation because I have never had social status so girls always put me in the red flag category without even getting to know me it’s so annoying. Women are just walking bots man. Why can’t they be openminded and give someone like me a chance.

    • @levanceland
      @levanceland 2 месяца назад +5

      Justin Wayne showed his rejection but the channel got taken down

    • @Wealthy_Mystic
      @Wealthy_Mystic Месяц назад +2

      Gerald Huston does

  • @Kingsmoke333
    @Kingsmoke333 3 месяца назад +36

    I respect a man who can show his failures and successes

    • @_simplelad_1809
      @_simplelad_1809 10 дней назад

      Not that big of a deal when it comes to strangers anyway it hurts the most from women you know personally

  • @mastachi888
    @mastachi888 2 месяца назад +74

    “ you look good i want to take you out sometime” was asking for failure lmao

    • @jameswalton3930
      @jameswalton3930 26 дней назад +2

      Lame

    • @TheSamthaman24
      @TheSamthaman24 19 дней назад +2

      zero introduction rizz straight to the date ask

    • @ronewajunior7858
      @ronewajunior7858 14 дней назад +3

      No game. Mouth piece was too average.🤣🤣🤣

    • @dw3134
      @dw3134 4 дня назад

      No such thing as game.​@@ronewajunior7858

  • @JBeBoxin
    @JBeBoxin 3 месяца назад +811

    This type of content is what separates fitx from the others💪🏽

    • @jamesharris6368
      @jamesharris6368 3 месяца назад +26

      He's confident, their rejections don't mean anything to him.

    • @thatpersiandude7386
      @thatpersiandude7386 3 месяца назад +11

      been following fitx for years, Bro only do quality content

    • @whiteswordwarrior9995
      @whiteswordwarrior9995 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@jamesharris6368Hes not confident at all, hes experienced. U can tell he still keeps smiling too much, apologizing, lifting his voice. Signs of lack of confidence. Women smell it.

    • @CrownedOne89
      @CrownedOne89 3 месяца назад

      @@whiteswordwarrior9995lol facts I commented and said dude not even telling them his name he going straight into taking them out 😂

    • @user-hl3qv8qg2s
      @user-hl3qv8qg2s Месяц назад +2

      i used to think "oh people will see that i was being rejected" so i never approached women anywhere.... but thats a fear every man must defeat!
      the sooner the better.
      i wasted literally all my early 20s being shy...
      and when i had the balls to face women directly, my surprise was probably 8 of 10 women found me handsome.
      if you are not brad pitt level of looks... no women in 2024 is going to make the move first. you must do it

  • @jarellstewart6237
    @jarellstewart6237 3 месяца назад +620

    1:40 this chick said she moved here cause of a break up and when you made a move she said she has a bf with unsureness. Nasty work lol

    • @user-ze4cx5sn5c
      @user-ze4cx5sn5c 3 месяца назад +153

      I caught that too. He also asked her what she did for fun and she listed 3 jobs she works.

    • @UncleSwell707
      @UncleSwell707 3 месяца назад +92

      That beech is a scam artist 😂. Thats Miami for ya.

    • @dimitrivalli465
      @dimitrivalli465 3 месяца назад

      😂 It was possibly a shit test to see his reaction!
      Who cares? Many of these women are so embarrassed they have not been chosen by any man yet for something serious.
      They LIE 🤥 about having worthy credentials that can't realistically be demonstrated. 😂
      Proceed anyway like you don't believe her. You will destroy her ego big time. 😂

    • @seanyshepfit
      @seanyshepfit 3 месяца назад +107

      She does OF for sure 😂

    • @lakecityransom
      @lakecityransom 3 месяца назад +38

      Just a bit airheaded I think. lol

  • @likewise4Gaming
    @likewise4Gaming 3 месяца назад +40

    Much respect to this guy for keeping it real. Looking good and being fit is going to work in your benefit of course, but he’s 100% right about the pre qualification. Pre selection is another factor.

    • @dyshawnshine3644
      @dyshawnshine3644 Месяц назад +4

      yea its a different game now. looks and good talk arent enough especially in Miami. when I'm in vegas with my friend who lives there, he goes all out to get women with status and overall image. Its the only way to pull those type of women, and those women are only good for some hookups and nothing more.

    • @adgepeterb
      @adgepeterb 23 дня назад +2

      Nah this guy got no game and he thinks he's better looking then he is! Put another player in the exact same experiment and he would clean up!

    • @Mcgee833
      @Mcgee833 3 дня назад

      @@adgepeterb in this video he purposely approached them with no game. “Put another player in the same experiment” is just such an no brainer statement. Maybe you should do it, player.

  • @luisgalvez4303
    @luisgalvez4303 3 месяца назад +8

    Mad props FitX 👏
    Show the failures and show you don't give a F and keep it pushing

  • @samuelisaac6271
    @samuelisaac6271 3 месяца назад +434

    This is so humble of fitx , honestly it makes me more comfortable .

    • @tojusote4896
      @tojusote4896 3 месяца назад +3

      🤣

    • @hsplash8243
      @hsplash8243 3 месяца назад +3

      He look regular. Dress like a mobster

    • @dimegi1558
      @dimegi1558 3 месяца назад

      @@hsplash8243his dressing sense is scaring sometimes and it’s definitely chasing these girls away

    • @raregrimebeats1352
      @raregrimebeats1352 3 месяца назад +3

      He said he made them reject him by purpose

    • @MoneyManeTV3
      @MoneyManeTV3 3 месяца назад

      I agree

  • @caleb1548
    @caleb1548 3 месяца назад +368

    Earned my respect fr, not many big youtubers have the courage to make such videos.

    • @shreddedguy679
      @shreddedguy679 3 месяца назад +25

      Yeah most just sit in car saying the same old stuff but this bro out here shooting shots and showing us rejections too

    • @nozone4109
      @nozone4109 3 месяца назад +2

      After that much bragging this is a wonder

    • @elijahpiere5324
      @elijahpiere5324 3 месяца назад +5

      @@nozone4109I mean, he has bragging rights. You think MJ became MJ without losing a couple of times?

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe 3 месяца назад

      @@elijahpiere5324 UU bragging means uu desperate for attention.

    • @elijahpiere5324
      @elijahpiere5324 3 месяца назад +6

      @@YuhhFeelMe everyone is low key desperate for attention. Attention is part of why makes the world move. You think a flower would grow if it wasn’t desperate for the suns attention? Y’all be tryna make basic human needs seem like a bad thing. Get off your high horse.

  • @patrick22014
    @patrick22014 3 месяца назад +30

    This is why I like FitX. He's never bullshitting.

  • @denzellcoleman925
    @denzellcoleman925 3 месяца назад +25

    Thank you for sharing because showing these types of videos are essential. Everyone is not making every shot in the game and if we leave it to highlight reels people will think that’s how it should go.

    • @Who-cu9eu
      @Who-cu9eu 2 месяца назад

      I have no social validation because I have never had social status so girls always put me in the red flag category without even getting to know me it’s so annoying. Women are just walking bots man. Why can’t they be openminded and give someone like me a chance.

  • @morm2173
    @morm2173 3 месяца назад +485

    The rejection in daygame is painful during the dry spell especially if you dress well and it still happens on a consistent basis . As a man , I learned you have to have unbreakable self esteem

    • @thereallazygirl
      @thereallazygirl 3 месяца назад

      eww dry spell ? yall are so degenerate

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 3 месяца назад +16

      That an the drive to give it up its over 😅

    • @morm2173
      @morm2173 3 месяца назад

      @@mikeprice8307 haha or thr gold digger sugar baby " Nevada girl " lifestyle hahaa

    • @morm2173
      @morm2173 3 месяца назад +1

      @mikeprice8307 but what I'm doing is now just optimizing my tinder daygame gets on my nerves sometimes

    • @kaboosetge6610
      @kaboosetge6610 3 месяца назад +1

      Facts

  • @omarelsherif4125
    @omarelsherif4125 3 месяца назад +150

    Man deserves all the respect in the world for showing this

  • @phenomenalfx7134
    @phenomenalfx7134 2 месяца назад +3

    Your integrity just earned you a sub. Never leaving.

  • @martelprayer416
    @martelprayer416 3 месяца назад +10

    Hey my man much respect to you for showing the bad. Keep doing your thing Bro

  • @coreyl.w4580
    @coreyl.w4580 3 месяца назад +128

    Took them L’s like a man. Nuthin but respect. I’d like to take alotta advice from you bro honestly

    • @3for4PA
      @3for4PA 3 месяца назад +2

      HE did take those BODY SHOTS like a AAU boxer though....🤔

  • @twocents4912
    @twocents4912 3 месяца назад +46

    Don't be offended or embarrassed by rejection. You are not meant for every girl. Just keep asking and the right one fits like a glove.

    • @Marks2Chill
      @Marks2Chill 2 месяца назад +3

      This comment right here..... Absolute gold 🥇

    • @Moesie
      @Moesie 5 дней назад

      Only be emberassed if multiple once are rejecting u ​@@Marks2Chill

  • @jabba0975
    @jabba0975 2 месяца назад +2

    Someone who actually put in the work, and learned from it. Thank you.

  • @Chevaux804
    @Chevaux804 3 месяца назад +1

    Very important and real video. These are all Good points to take away from rejection.

  • @rammck8799
    @rammck8799 3 месяца назад +417

    I’ll respectfully add one critique. Try not to overdue asking questions and try to insert comments more in cold approaches with women. That way they feel like they’re having a conversation rather than feeling like they’re being interrogated.
    Much respect to you Fit X for uploading 💪🏾

    • @kchuen
      @kchuen 3 месяца назад +37

      I agree. Honestly speaking for has a lot of good theories but essentially he is running hot guy game and he can get away with a lot more mistakes than a guy at 4-7 points.

    • @shakenblake4533
      @shakenblake4533 3 месяца назад +5

      Do you mind giving an example of what you mean? Please and thank you

    • @YTguySmithy-lk6go
      @YTguySmithy-lk6go 3 месяца назад +14

      Some women will reject Fitx because he's relatively short. James Tusk (pua RUclipsr grifter) is over six foot. Also gets lot of rejection. His RUclips channel was deleted by RUclips.
      Pua/cold approach has a massive failure rate. 98 percent? Probably.

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov 3 месяца назад +8

      Tell me you didn’t watch the full video without telling me

    • @kompa35
      @kompa35 3 месяца назад +16

      @@YTguySmithy-lk6go I was about to say. Fitx says he validated on purpose to prove a point. I think they rejected him because they don’t like him enough. Does not mean he’s not a good option just simply means they didn’t like him or it wasn’t the right timing for her. I also don’t think he overdid the compliments. I agree you should over compliment but, compliments work well if you know how when and where.

  • @user-wd4vi8jb9h
    @user-wd4vi8jb9h 3 месяца назад +597

    Brother said “black woman” 💀😭😭

    • @GovernedChair93
      @GovernedChair93 3 месяца назад +56

      and?

    • @MpumeleloSejam
      @MpumeleloSejam 3 месяца назад

      ​@@GovernedChair93like bro fr

    • @daver1161
      @daver1161 3 месяца назад +158

      He said what he said.

    • @deanogordon2819
      @deanogordon2819 3 месяца назад +291

      The least desired for a reason

    • @RashadAhmad1
      @RashadAhmad1 3 месяца назад

      I see why I never approach black chicks anymore smh….come to think about I don’t remember the last time I approached a black chick

  • @rocket1az
    @rocket1az 3 месяца назад +16

    Thanks for the honesty and integrity.

  • @tmac2368
    @tmac2368 3 месяца назад +8

    My brother keeping his confidence intact after rejections it's impressive. Great vid

    • @Nohandlethankyou1
      @Nohandlethankyou1 2 месяца назад

      Cold calls are always 50/50. Nobody should lose confidence after approaching miami girls and failing.

    • @lluispoloisern677
      @lluispoloisern677 Месяц назад

      Yeah ok, but why spending so much time and efforts trynna get dates with nowaday girls when you can go to the gym, attend workshops, work on your stocks, read a great book, watch a great movie...I mean why xD

  • @sebjacobo9655
    @sebjacobo9655 3 месяца назад +132

    That‘s why FitX is the best in the whole „red pill community“. He beats everybody because of his integrity and seriousness.

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe 3 месяца назад +10

      The meat riding is crazyy 🤣

    • @flacoboi
      @flacoboi 3 месяца назад +1

      yu swallowing him

    • @aking4974
      @aking4974 3 месяца назад +13

      @@YuhhFeelMeyall gone be 40 saying somebody meat riding, time to grow up…

    • @maryamadedeji24
      @maryamadedeji24 3 месяца назад

      Red pill community? OK😅

    • @PurePassion-gm8od
      @PurePassion-gm8od 3 месяца назад +1

      Bru u MYRON is the face of Red Pill ,, whatsuu talkin bout😂😂😂😂

  • @ShaddyRaddy
    @ShaddyRaddy 3 месяца назад +134

    The best game is no game💯
    Expressing yourself is more important than impressing the person. The man has to qualify the woman to see if she’s cooperative to be part of his world.
    Never open with a compliment on her looks. That’s common. Compliment her on internal traits she worked had for. That makes a man stand out.
    Talk slower move slower. It’s not what you say…it’s how you say it
    Talk with your hands…Shows enthusiasm in your words
    Tease her…become a challenge. Be playful. Not becoming easy makes her chase you
    The most important is listening. Women love to talk. Repeat what she said to continue the conversation.
    Salute to FitX for having the courage to put himself out there✊🏿🔥

    • @jpair205
      @jpair205 3 месяца назад +7

      All facts

    • @jiggaman000
      @jiggaman000 3 месяца назад +25

      How do you compliment internal traits when you just met her?

    • @Swiminator_08
      @Swiminator_08 3 месяца назад +1

      Example ?

    • @sonnyhuynh007
      @sonnyhuynh007 3 месяца назад +2

      No game is bad game. You are always using some kind of strategy, like what you list below, and that is game.

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 3 месяца назад

      ​@@jiggaman000Exactly lol you can only comment on the way how she looks you have no clue how she is

  • @cavalierfinancialgroup6987
    @cavalierfinancialgroup6987 3 месяца назад +1

    This is game one on one. Glad he is showing it done the right way!!

  • @XPXhumble
    @XPXhumble 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Fit for having the guts to show us the loses

  • @martyhelfrich8239
    @martyhelfrich8239 3 месяца назад +524

    I'm 53 years old, married to my wife whom I knew as a colleague at work. Both previously divorced, but were friends before being romantic. I NEVER complimented ANY woman based on how she looks when first meeting them. My job isn't to build their ego, it's to get to know them. If I'm attracted to their looks, that's what I keep to myself, until I feel that she is worthy of a complement, meaning, she's nice, kind, smart, independent and has integrity, and there's a connection. I've always been considered "intimidating, mysterious" and have been told that I have "movie star looks". Maybe so, but I don't want a woman who only lusts for me, they need to connect with me, and if there's that connection, the romance and lust will come. With my wife, we had that connection, and yes, I found her gorgeous, but I never gave her that clue until I knew it was the right time, she earned it.

    • @strictlydolo6915
      @strictlydolo6915 3 месяца назад +29

      That makes plenty of sense to do it that way and the feelings feel more natural that way rather than being forced

    • @kulentarian55
      @kulentarian55 3 месяца назад +11

      How tall are u

    • @lukehood5546
      @lukehood5546 3 месяца назад

      Why is that important ​@@kulentarian55

    • @renegade2853
      @renegade2853 3 месяца назад

      @@kulentarian555”6

    • @user-nn5qw5mu4m
      @user-nn5qw5mu4m 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Matt-mc2sn That's BS as a woman I can tell you all men, of all ethnicities give compliments. If he doesn't you aren't sure he's attracted and you move on. Typically if a woman turns you down she's. Oy attracted. In the case of this particular guy he's not amazing looking and his musscles/style is very tacky.

  • @dayloz9683
    @dayloz9683 3 месяца назад +16

    Fit is real af, thank u bro💯

  • @thisiswillsway
    @thisiswillsway Месяц назад

    Best words about value. Thank you for reassuring my thoughts about what you said.

  • @gmotivation8286
    @gmotivation8286 3 месяца назад +86

    Damn fit you are getting wiser and wiser day by day

  • @nahulseyon997
    @nahulseyon997 3 месяца назад +140

    Man, you're a G.
    You're the most Transparent influencer I've ever seen 🤝👑💪

    • @MpumeleloSejam
      @MpumeleloSejam 3 месяца назад +3

      Fr when Fitx be making videos like this the haters be quiet

  • @HT_Ray
    @HT_Ray 2 месяца назад +2

    Cold approach can work but choosing signals are wayyyyyy better!

  • @Lovlee33161
    @Lovlee33161 2 месяца назад +1

    Bro the best video on this subject. PROPS BROTHA!!!

  • @joaquinbellon9641
    @joaquinbellon9641 3 месяца назад +53

    this man is a KING!!!!💯

  • @dubis9919
    @dubis9919 3 месяца назад +19

    This might be the single most important video that Fit has put out this year

  • @Nepal8448
    @Nepal8448 2 месяца назад +1

    Not the Windows Error Sound 😅
    Much respect for showing rejections

  • @djsway4041
    @djsway4041 2 месяца назад

    Just found your page last month bro, youve been giving legit down to earth and realistic advice man. Much appreciated. Ima get my ass in shape and start using some of these techniques.

  • @Bigmoney333
    @Bigmoney333 3 месяца назад +129

    Can’t believe I’m 36 watching these videos still learning this shit lol damn bro

    • @jpair205
      @jpair205 3 месяца назад +41

      Don't feel bad I'm 38 I don't really have a lot of problem with the women for real but it never hurts to learn more from The Young Gs🏁💯

    • @AllmightyContent
      @AllmightyContent 3 месяца назад +19

      Never too late bro

    • @dnd21
      @dnd21 3 месяца назад +12

      Damn respect!!! Keep it up bro

    • @MpumeleloSejam
      @MpumeleloSejam 3 месяца назад +22

      Respect a wise man is always eager to learn

    • @richierichalley
      @richierichalley 3 месяца назад +32

      In this life we never stop learning …

  • @KurtKobangz
    @KurtKobangz 3 месяца назад +24

    My man Fitx does it again. I appreciate you showing this side of you cause it helps me

  • @dnice8054
    @dnice8054 26 дней назад

    Facts at pressing me/being too eager and validating. Comes off turst 💯

  • @youssefhamidi8152
    @youssefhamidi8152 2 месяца назад

    First time checking your content out and you got some really solid advice. Subscribed. Keep up the great work. Integrity and honesty is the most valuable currency out here.

  • @thetchthegreat
    @thetchthegreat 3 месяца назад +76

    I don't know what it is but FitX definitely creates great Genuine content. He has taken his content to the next level this year. He actually be out in the field.

    • @sage_e_sage
      @sage_e_sage 3 месяца назад +3

      Because ams saw potential in him & realized this too so he put him on basically & I can tell FitX has been the same person he was when he started humble & all and outta respect for the community FIT continues genuine content

    • @AyoG00
      @AyoG00 3 месяца назад

      @@sage_e_sagebruh earned what he has on hard work and work ethic not sure how ams put him on.

  • @leratosword6594
    @leratosword6594 3 месяца назад +13

    This was dope. I like when you said “most women are going to reject you” because I’ve always believed that. Thanks for the motivation Fit

  • @TheSwagkid9046
    @TheSwagkid9046 22 дня назад

    I respect you showing the Ws, and the Ls. Keeping it real 💯💯

  • @samstats6496
    @samstats6496 3 месяца назад +1

    Great vid. Need more content on rejection in general from coaches.

  • @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee
    @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee 3 месяца назад +16

    Man FitX truly cares about the truth of his content. Respect

  • @tailback07
    @tailback07 3 месяца назад +1

    I subbed because ny boy keeps it real. Social circle game is the only game!

  • @kag7798
    @kag7798 3 месяца назад +10

    ur real asf for this, this is why i’m subscribed

  • @handsome_Xpress
    @handsome_Xpress 3 месяца назад +25

    The Epitome of Fearless 🔥💪🏽

  • @gello2517
    @gello2517 3 месяца назад +1

    Props for fitx for keeping it real

  • @justmusic3441
    @justmusic3441 3 месяца назад +2

    This what sets out real influencers from fakes who never show reality and just preach all the time sugar coating stuff.
    Good job bro 🙏🏽

  • @megaman2016
    @megaman2016 3 месяца назад +31

    Real honest content bro

  • @yemidifineboy
    @yemidifineboy 3 месяца назад +4

    You’re going to be a legend in this field man. You’re really consistent and have put the time in to go study and learn. I can tell by the knowledge you drop.

  • @veryfinepeopleonbothsidesb62
    @veryfinepeopleonbothsidesb62 27 дней назад

    Thanks for being transparent. big Ups for that.

  • @nitroneonicman
    @nitroneonicman Месяц назад

    So much respect for posting this

  • @shreddedguy679
    @shreddedguy679 3 месяца назад +7

    FITX I hope you read this, amazing to see you stepping up, the reality is many American blk guys hopping on this yt female advice...
    There are hundreds of guys sitting in their living room or car talking the same stuff. But now you are leaving them behind with this raw truth content, keep it going bro, shows that even gains doesnt secure every gal, but you will get success if you improve your technique

  • @lesto_
    @lesto_ 3 месяца назад +312

    If he got rejected 100 times, i wonder how many times i'd get rejected

    • @user-uq5zj4nq4h
      @user-uq5zj4nq4h 3 месяца назад +54

      1000 minimum 😢jk

    • @BlankMan912
      @BlankMan912 3 месяца назад +57

      go find out. and who knows…you might just have some success along the way too

    • @Just2facts2
      @Just2facts2 3 месяца назад +29

      1mil at least

    • @jacomacho3357
      @jacomacho3357 3 месяца назад +17

      That would be 400 for me.

    • @jeromego2672
      @jeromego2672 3 месяца назад +17

      He’s aesthetically top tier and has decent game but could improve still. Master PUAS have like a 25% success rate which is still high AF

  • @robwinter3183
    @robwinter3183 3 дня назад

    Good advice. .... I've subscribed for more... Approaching is key - I do it with no expectations - feel free to use that mind set.

  • @briancompton-ut9sc
    @briancompton-ut9sc 3 месяца назад

    Hey - great channel... great advice !!
    I'm a couple generations before you and used to be out there getting it in...
    Keep up the good work ✨

  • @Silence8766
    @Silence8766 3 месяца назад +29

    Very rarely you see youtubers in the dating world… show their failures as well. Solid video. 👍

  • @joseelmarijuano8794
    @joseelmarijuano8794 3 месяца назад +82

    This builds my confidence bro , thank you for showing us this . 🙏

    • @Synonymgod
      @Synonymgod 3 месяца назад

      You are goddamn lame. That’s why. 😂😂

    • @malhunt7
      @malhunt7 2 месяца назад +1

      The only way to authentically build confidence is to set goals and reach them. Watching a stranger on RUclips is escaping into a fantasy.

    • @dark_nightwing_xl2797
      @dark_nightwing_xl2797 21 день назад

      @@malhunt7best comment I’ve seen here

  • @bigcee5702
    @bigcee5702 3 месяца назад +14

    Rejection is going to happen guys no matter how tight your “game” is.

  • @DocMc-zz9ms
    @DocMc-zz9ms 3 месяца назад +3

    Ngl some of the pickup lines could’ve been better but I like the transparency in your videos

  • @ohWAFE
    @ohWAFE 3 месяца назад +17

    im surprised you posted this man! Im married but i love the fact you post the rejected side of things so these guys can see how to handle it.

    • @Jerry_TheFitnessMessiah
      @Jerry_TheFitnessMessiah 3 месяца назад

      Be prepared anytime for the future

    • @ohWAFE
      @ohWAFE 2 месяца назад

      @@Jerry_TheFitnessMessiah RP through and through... even if im 70 and i find out im cheated on. I had a good time and a long time but my turn would be over.

  • @shadrackkiban4716
    @shadrackkiban4716 3 месяца назад +17

    For a second, I was wondering why bro was leading with validation,
    Video full of value 🔥🔥🔥

  • @dayloz9683
    @dayloz9683 3 месяца назад

    Faxxxx about the prequalifies part bro💯

  • @zayporche1
    @zayporche1 3 месяца назад +5

    Good job a lot of influencers act like they’re perfect .you got a lot going for yourself and they still rejected. Great info brudda!

  • @jey524
    @jey524 3 месяца назад +10

    Fit a real one for this, most authentic dude man

  • @danielnelson6903
    @danielnelson6903 3 месяца назад +129

    Respect gangsta just gotta charge it to the game💯 If you gon play, there’s gonna be wins and losses, be proud of the wins and learn from the losses real

    • @maskedman5657
      @maskedman5657 3 месяца назад +8

      I think cold approaching breeds too much rejection. Better if dudes only warm approach

    • @danielnelson6903
      @danielnelson6903 3 месяца назад +12

      @@maskedman5657 I only approach if I know for a fact she’s feeling me too

    • @razzdiamond6447
      @razzdiamond6447 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@maskedman5657 small minded thinking sir. Cold approach skills make EVERYTHING easier.

    • @commonsense3921
      @commonsense3921 3 месяца назад +1

      @razzdiamond6447 Woman not even worth cold approaching.

    • @maleekpate6770
      @maleekpate6770 3 месяца назад +2

      @@maskedman5657what’s a warm approach

  • @lordgorotubbydipsy8610
    @lordgorotubbydipsy8610 Месяц назад

    Salute to you sir. Not many men show this. You're a man of honour.

  • @julianwarren__
    @julianwarren__ 2 месяца назад +13

    You're a real one for posting this. Much respect

    • @JuliusTurner-hm6ff
      @JuliusTurner-hm6ff Месяц назад

      Yall are way off. That's why the divorce rate is so high. You don't chase women at all, no matter if you take this guy's advice or not, you're only going to find temporary situations. Now of you want continuous one night stands or half relationships then take his advice. It's a reason he's still single. Chase your dreams, your purpose, what you really want in life and your woman will find you.

  • @DemetriusOnTheMove
    @DemetriusOnTheMove 3 месяца назад +9

    A lot of guys would not make this video I congratulate you on being transparent

  • @BrianChristian-up7tk
    @BrianChristian-up7tk 3 месяца назад +150

    One thing i notice is that women of your own race will disqualify you IMMEDIATELY without hesitation, even be straight up rude, especially black women to black men
    White women to white men
    Asian to asian etc
    As a latino, latinas usually give me the biggest attitude, but since im light skinned, i can pass as maybe an italian, Portuguese... Ive noticed black girls are super nice and will let me down gently if they not interested, as do asian girls.
    Basically the women of your own race tend to disrespect you the most here in the united states.

    • @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak
      @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak 3 месяца назад +5

      Any reason why ?

    • @chief8079
      @chief8079 3 месяца назад

      I bet if you looked like a stereotypical Edgar, Latinas wouldn't give you an attitude. Latinas seem to hate light skinned dudes lol

    • @user-go2xi7zq5q
      @user-go2xi7zq5q 3 месяца назад +58

      @@Jos-Czesin-CieplakThey feel more comfortable with you I guess. They prolly feel like talking to someone of a different race, that they got to make a good impression, as they’re basically like a “guest”.

    • @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak
      @Jos-Czesin-Cieplak 3 месяца назад +1

      @@user-go2xi7zq5q true. But my case seems to be quiet diffrent since i have never been directly rejected by a woman who I share a lot in common with like for instance having almost the same type of genomes and phenotypes. Although i know that women from certain races do most fund me attractive.

    • @spidavenom4
      @spidavenom4 3 месяца назад +18

      lol it's mainly black women to black men tbh. It's why the rise of black men dating non-black women rose so quickly in the last few years. Also a lot of big women feel entitled which leaves the same few ones in shape for the entire field to fight over.

  • @Darknezz1723
    @Darknezz1723 3 месяца назад +1

    You the realest bro! Real man 💩!!!! Appreciate this!

  • @boydmking1
    @boydmking1 2 месяца назад

    My dating days are long over. Don't have much to offer now except experience and wisdom.
    But my eyes still work . . . never get tired of looking? Great video!

  • @PaullHutchh
    @PaullHutchh 3 месяца назад +16

    Love the rawness and realness of these videos... Big W learning experience !!! 👏👏

  • @ronniemiller349
    @ronniemiller349 3 месяца назад +4

    This video made me love what you do fit!! You keep it 💯 and honest, transparent. This makes like your content even more brother keep doing what you do.

  • @dancehallkuffkaffagain9896
    @dancehallkuffkaffagain9896 3 месяца назад

    I feel wha u go tru bro, its part of the game. Most people are affraid for this, they got the most 2 say online but in real life affraid. Keep up the good work 😎😎😎

  • @kentridgehosia3585
    @kentridgehosia3585 3 месяца назад +1

    Big ups dope video, The truth shall set u free👌

  • @user-qc8rm6yr7p
    @user-qc8rm6yr7p 3 месяца назад +65

    C'mon hat's off to this guy,he went in the field to
    Purposely get rejected and to tell us the don'ts when approaching.
    Keep it up Fit.

  • @bobbanks6217
    @bobbanks6217 3 месяца назад +6

    Sir mad respect for posting this!😅

  • @Justafayze
    @Justafayze 2 месяца назад

    The outcome Independent is the major key in this video, hands down the best way I’ve found with online dating, in person dating & sales! Good stuff

  • @gregducati999
    @gregducati999 Месяц назад

    this is good you show this because a lot of guys take it personal and think its just them when they dont realize and top tier guys get rejected to

  • @onrecord79
    @onrecord79 3 месяца назад +96

    I respect the honesty showing you're L's. However, approaching is also giving validation. Whether you compliment or not. Good vid

    • @crispin_21
      @crispin_21 3 месяца назад

      It is but that's what you have to do to get laid because they sure aren't going to approach you. Also women respect men who know what they want, that's how fuck boys get laid. So even if you're giving her validation by approaching, it's not the same as complimenting her

    • @coolestafrican1444
      @coolestafrican1444 3 месяца назад +10

      So let approaching be the only validation given.. No need for unnecessary compliments.

    • @porgyjr.7737
      @porgyjr.7737 2 месяца назад +1

      You're exactly right, I respect Fit. This was a great video! However, I'm pre-qualified in my arena. I live in the DMV, I'm a 3 division Boss so women know me when I walk in the room. Cold approaching eliminates women saying, who is that guy In that nice suit? Then when they ask what do you do, you're pre-qualified. There's no way around it. If I come in approaching women it's automatically developing the mindset that I need or want her more than she wants me. It's automatic, this is why in most cases I would say do not cold approach. How you start is generally how you end. Cold approach and she's in control from that moment on, you never get that leverage back.

    • @onrecord79
      @onrecord79 2 месяца назад +1

      @@porgyjr.7737 You are spot on. I lived in the DMV (Downtown Silver Spring) for 9 years. Everything you mentioned is correct.

    • @crispin_21
      @crispin_21 2 месяца назад

      @@porgyjr.7737 You absolutely get the revarage back!! Because most women expect men to approach them, so it's either you do it or you don't get laid, but I can tell you've never approached girls. The issue is that most guys don't have enough confidence and flame to turn that shit back which is not hard to do as long as you are who you say you are. I get that most guys use what you just said as an excuse because they are afraid of getting rejected and shit, but when you point a flow, you gotta propose a better solution... Because that hot chick you clause once a year, she won't see you and think "who's that guy" and then approach you! hell nuh. Let's say In every 20 girls you meat today and thought you well attractive... If you got lucky only 1 came and approached you. So you can't just sit there and wait to get laid Dude. Women like to be approached, of course by men they are attracted to. And when you do it properly, they will speed the whole day giggling about it.

  • @CloutMoney
    @CloutMoney 3 месяца назад +9

    This is actually the realest game you've ever spit like this is really ur best video bcuz ur telling the real truth about women's psyche and the way they truly are💯

  • @charlesyoung9422
    @charlesyoung9422 3 месяца назад

    Truth in what you have stated !!

  • @juanjuniorpro1110
    @juanjuniorpro1110 3 месяца назад +21

    You the best brooooo lets gooooo

  • @ill_sovrano
    @ill_sovrano 3 месяца назад +22

    Cool content 🤘😎

  • @user-kh1bi8qo7f
    @user-kh1bi8qo7f 3 месяца назад +1

    🔥🔥 ReaL SHit Bro! No Matter What Believe in Yourself!💪

  • @fernie988
    @fernie988 2 месяца назад

    I respect the hustle and the Effort

  • @Jomgg
    @Jomgg 3 месяца назад +10

    I gotta respect fit for this , not many influencers will show this side .

    • @JayTheAdviceGuy
      @JayTheAdviceGuy 2 месяца назад

      This is true. Though technically, he said he failed here on purpose. He validated them early on knowing it would get him rejected. Would he still be showing it if he was actually TRYING to get the girl and still got rejected? I don't know, because this is my first time seeing him.

  • @danielwanzelius552
    @danielwanzelius552 3 месяца назад +16

    Lots of respect for putting this content out. At the same time my advice would be to take it down. Not because you are getting rejected, that can happen to everyone but because your conversation game is just weak.
    Seems like you put all of your game into your looks when there is a lot more to it...
    Tip of day is you NEVER try to pick up girls with a backpack on! That's like saying you don't own a car. 😂 Only kids and people taking the bus wears a backpack. Ain't nobody getting in a fly ride throwing their backpack in trunk. 💯

    • @user-go2xi7zq5q
      @user-go2xi7zq5q 3 месяца назад +6

      Loool, I don’t own a car, and I always wear a backpack lool. You got me.

    • @jiggaman000
      @jiggaman000 3 месяца назад +5

      yup. His conversation game is weak.

  • @dunbosko7604
    @dunbosko7604 2 месяца назад

    Thank you fitxfearless sir, u gave me motivation 🇵🇭