You are looking at it from a bad angle I think. It's not that men are predators, it's that many predators are male. You have to understand that this is a very important part, and it is true. Predators are repeat offenders. They are not receiving proper punishment IMO. Trust me, you would find that the majority of men would never act predatory. And we have the most insanely dangerous drug legal which causes so many problems in our society, but we've been brainwashed into thinking that alcohol is this innocent thing. Look around, it's mostly drunk people who do bad things. Meaning that the predatory behaviour would be even more concentrated to fewer individuals, if we had other options for people to ease their stress. Alcohol makes people do things that they would otherwise never do. It's same for any gender/sex as well.
@@christopherreichle6670 no , i disagree , even feminine people dess practicall , you can be feminie in anything if you know how or are feminine enough
and that was the comment that i was looking for. thank u! after this video it just popped in my head who sexual education is so important! I learned those concepts in school!!
gender is the same as sex but now when you get into gender/sex roles those can be switched around and changed because those were set up by society but biology wasn't
I love these!! But I wish youtube didn't require so much self-censoring because I would've liked to see them get a little deeper. You could tell they were ready to as well.
I feel like both sides had kind of weak arguments and were afraid of being judged or shot down by the other. Like both sides just kind of went with what the other said
Well duh. No one wants to be the person that everyone hates. In almost every video there are thousands of comments of people complaining about at least one person who has a different stance on something. These people know that this will go online and they censor their true thoughts because of it.
@@damianlord9340 The thing is that most of these persons who have different stances, are usually on the "wrong" side of thinking that it's just not acceptable. Like in the Men's Rights video, most people were mad at the incel because his views were simply misogynistic, while in the feminist vs non-feminist, many people were complaining about the rad fem that said women are the only victims and men don't know what is to suffer
@@piggybank2906 Well yes it existed, but it was never any where NEAR as big a thing as it is today, which is why I lose faith in this generation that we have normalised it.
@@eldangster1616 lmao you've never met some predatory men in your life and your guy? Shocking lol Also Logic is knowing anecdotes aren't evidence also, she didn't say that men were predators. She said that the fear that people are expressing is that men are predators
To be fair, the words gender and sex have been used over the years synonymously so there isn't really a vast difference between the two because they are very interrelated, you can't have one without the other, so gender expression roots from sex anatomy that's why it's hard to seperate the two.
@@kgabomolele3346 that’s not true, gender is a made up social construct which sits in once brain and identity. Sex is biological and determines certain things as medical care.
@@synnearonsen9963 everything single thing is a social construct, my point is that gender expression roots from sex, its what has inspired many societies worldwide to normalize certain gender roles for example toddler girls do less dangerous activities then toddler boys it's a fact you can do an experiment with nursery school babies and analyze their behavior, there is a nature (sex) that inspires gender expression that's why the two cannot be separated. So I'm not sure what you're confused about, there are two sexes only and this can be objectivsly verifiable
that's exactly why they should be had so we can realize that it's possible to have these conversationss without being hateful or unsympathetic to one another.
That’s how I feel as a dude. I actually love wearing feminine clothes like skirts and cute underwear and doing makeup and hair. But I know I’m a dude, I have a strong and passionate personality, love to take charge, be physically active and I’m still sexually attracted to women and have absolutely no desire to be in a woman’s bathroom. Unfortunately for me though, femboys are much more taboo than tomboys and there’s almost no way I can embrace these interests without being labeled trans or gay. People seem to think the two are inseparable but they’re really not. Gender norms and standards are really the problem.
You are just being you. In my opinion we are all in spectrum; even we are physically male or female, we all possess in a degree qualities, personalities and characteristics of both genders. I am a female, but growing up i was a tomboy, now that I am older I realized that I have a lot of male characters like being firm, frank, independent, practical and passionate. Physically I am naturally muscular, even though I exercise very little. I could have been confused, but I know I am a girl and only been attracted to men
The Christian woman who comforted the trans woman when speaking about her father made me smile. This is how it’s supposed to be and especially for Christians. Regardless of what you think of someone else’s life choices, you are still meant to give love.
Most definitely as a Christian we suppose to do everything out of love just like Jesus did himself. Love the person not the sin, css we all sin and fall short of the glory of God we should not judge
@@misharobinson1679 in my christian belief God created us in the gender you were born with and full stop it's what it is. He still loves us and everyone but if you do want to be a christian the bible specifically says things that we were called to live and yeah. But maybe someone can share more scriptures if you'd like? For biblical reasons? 😊 but yeah in the end of the day we use the bible and try to be like jesus in our belief because he is the only way to heaven. 😊
@@beee8720 I was a tomboy when I was a child. I hated skirts, never liked them. Felt itchy and unstylish on me. I wore shorts and long pants all the time, nothing pink. But I never wanted to be a boy. I just think boy clothing suits me better.
Tessa Comfort I never said I disagreed with any of that so why r u going at me, I was making it clear because ppl in the comments were saying there’s only 2 genders and trans isn’t real
@@bellarodriguez3601 tessa wasn't going at u, Tessa was replying to someone who commented under ur comment so thats why it seems Tessa is replying to u
Splitting the two is just creating some alternate reality. Someone could identify as the 9th planet, a green bean, or a horse by the rational of some of these people. It doesnt make it true regardless.
Reinier Roon Let me say in advance, facts don’t care about ur feelings. Now, if u r born with XY chromosomes u r a male. That’s the only way to say it; ur sex/gender is male if ur born with those chromosomes. Same concept if ur born female with XX chromosomes. Gender and sex have always been the same thing and they’ve been defined/ determined by which chromosomes u r born with
Such a respectful conversation. Even though some of the terms weren't quite accurate, still it was nice to see people on opposite sides still agreeing on most things.
there’s a difference between being cisgender and being transphobic (edit: many people are taking this as me defending the cis people; i’m not, i’m saying the title is misleading since all the cis people in the video were transphobic, when in reality a large amount of cis people are trans allies)
Also there a different between educated and trump supporters. (By trump supporters I mean people who do not care about being educated, having a conversation, anything they think they are right and that’s what it will be forever)
@@noahd.4551 I think its that a guy would ask the uncomfortable questions we came here for. And not "transphobic" just less likely to accept the messy stuff without sufficient explanation.
@i wonder if you're reading this I'm sorry that that's your experience, I've actually found men to often be a lot more open-minded and kind than how you're describing them to be.
@@jrlisbltch6378 how? she voiced her opinion with no hate or malice against the other side? she gave her honest opinion and you can't get mad someone for having a different opinion than you.
@@maxmcdonald4227 she was always cutting in to other peoples talk and it felt like she didnt take into consideration the subjects veiws at all. Tbh it felt as if she was diggin at the other side personally
Cause that would be too much of a controversy here, it's likely they believe that traditionally straight males would be less open to true conversation.
The children's feelings on the matter will range from neutral to positive if they are raised in a safe environment to feel comfortable with having other people around in public bathrooms, and their safety is not compromised by trans people being allowed into the bathrooms that conform to their gender identity: Trans people being banned from bathrooms has never prevented men from either raping women or sexually assaulting children.
@@GrahamChapman Kick Rocks Groomer. Only 2 genders-- Male and Female. Your imagination, and subjective sense of self doesn't invalidate objective reality. If it did, everyone would be rich, happy and healthy too. Objective biological realities are not up for debate. If the validity of your identity is predicated on the notion that all of society must ignore objective biological realities, then your identity is not valid. Straight up... It's as simple as that. Intersex is a disorder, not another sex invalidating the dichotomy of the binary of all mammalian species, and they only EVER present with male and female genitalia. Gender refers to the sex assigned at birth, and the social aspects of being male or female, respectively. Male and female are biological categories, which are fixed and permanent. TOO Many people are inappropriately conflating the variability of personality traits and temperament (Neither of which is gender exclusive-- hence effeminate males, butch females and tomboys) with gender as though they're synonymous, and they are not
@ Intentionally deriding someone is a pretty shitty thing to do and I think you ought to reconsider how much calling someone 'he' really means to you before making snide remarks next time. It's not your life, don't live it for them, bud.
Your personality is how you act and how you feel about different things or actions. Your gender is associated with reproduction. There are four genders. The two main genders (male and female) are normal. But there can be a mutation that can give you both male and female parts, or no male or female parts at all. No offence to anybody but “genders” like trans, fluid, gay and spirited are not real genders and are associated with how you feel about yourself and other people.
Gay is not a gender. It's an orientation. Gay man identify as man but they are attracted to men. But I can agree gender it's not an entire personality on its own, because you're way more than your part of the spectrum or your expression... Just like, (maybe a bad example) if you're vegan that's ok, that's part of who you are/want to be, but being the "stereotypical vegan" all the time is not your whole personality, you're a unique human being not only based on one characteristic. Edit: grammar mistakes
another thing with gender-neutral bathrooms; society seems to always label the mother as the primary caregiver of the child and forget about the single parent fathers who have to take their little girl into the men's because they don't have a baby station as its apart of the woman's section. I remember this as a child as my parents were split and I spent half of the week with him. We don't live in the 50s! It's 2020. Not all men are the 'breadwinners' and not all women are housewives.
@@jadestone-production08 yeah I wish family bathrooms were a more common thing. I know they don't have them in many places here too. Off the top of my head I can only name target.
@pAtRiCk StAr Let me just ask you, how can you be so sure of something that you can't relate to, or have researched? I'm non-binary myself and while I might not know the specific science (even though I could easily turn to a psychiatrist or a study to know more) I know that I'm non-binary because I'm not a guy, and I'm not a girl. I get euphoria when someone calls me they and I get anxiety when someone misgenders me a lot. I can understand how you think since people have for ages thought that your biological sex in every case is connected to the gender in your brain but gender dysphoria is real. It's a diagnosis and the only thing that can relieve the symptoms is to transition. You see being transgender isn't just about "today I feel like a girl" or "Today I feel like a boy" because to be transgender and not just someone who likes to dress as the opposite sex, you have to experience gender dysphoria.
@@kujikawathemeekmage3640 I can tell that because you didn't answer patrick star with any evidence that you CLEARLY aren't educated on the subject what so ever, your just as clueless as any trans person.
@@Mercuryluvsu no.. the entire point of being non binary is not falling into gender roles/rules or perception. it’s literally just not identifying with anything which doesn’t make it a gender.
@@fawnxx.9231 the whole point is that gender is a spectrum. if you don't see non binary as a gender then male and female aren't genders either. if you see non binary as a gender then there are multiple genders. non binary is not a BINARY gender and it most certainly IS NOT the third gender, as many people call it, but if you tell an enby what their gender is, they won't tell you "i don't have one" they'll tell you '"i am nonbinary"
I would love to see a bi sexual vs pan sexual discussion and seeing where people see the difference and the similarities people see in there sister sexualities
that's what i was gonna say. the cis were definitely talking about sex while gender in a whole different world. you can definitely be born a female, embrace it but still act androginous.
Same, im a very girly femboy, and it doesnt pressure me into transition MTF, i dont want to change a single bit about my body, i just have interests that are rather typically feminine and crossdressing. I know my gender from my pants 💀💀
yeah but at the same time... is it really a healthy and stable way to live than having your entire sense of self depending on thoughts and words of others...? One's existence should not dependent on how other perceive them. Although i can understand it hurts for her, but i think it gives rise to an important and interesting subject in the transgender community.
@@gumi_days4384 Yes, I often say the trans community has a recipe for low self worth on their hands because they seek the validation of others which is something in life we should never do. Self love teaches you to seek validation from within. But trans people live for “you are so valid 🥰” comments, and constant affirmation through other means. It’s a very unstable situation when your whole identity relies on the validation you receive from the general public. I don’t mean this in a hateful way, it’s just something I’ve noticed.
Mercedes Broadway labels 🏷 identifies what your are. The only people who don’t want labels are people who don’t like what they are. I am a Christian. If someone comes and calls me a Christian I am not going to get mad.
Am I the only one that believes gender and the way you present yourself physically and your interests aren't tied to together? I think this is what confuses a lot of people. Like the trans man in the video said - he was a little girl who wanted to shop only in the boys section. Okay, but does that mean you aren't a girl at all. Does that mean that women who dress traditionally masculine are actually men by that logic? Instead of, "I'm a boy who likes to wear pink and have long hair." It's suddenly, "I'm a boy who like girly things, so I must actually be a girl and need to become one so I can acceptably interact with these things." I think it's evident that these labels are dangerous for mental health.
“A male is the provider” tell that to my mother who was the primary income for my family because my father is disabled and could no longer work. My mother is also disabled but is still able to work and drive unlike my father.
In nowdays families the man and the woman are equal but mainly is still based on the traditional family. I know that is frustrating for a lot of feminist and some girls but boys arent all bad and violent we just can handle a little more emotionally and phisically. I know that a lot of women are doing hard things like even born a kid is a hard thing like i ve heard that there is a lot of pain and i respect that and single women that are raising kids that is a respectable thing and i am not saying that i dont belive in equality i am just saying that man are a lot simple and can handle more things day by day and this is why the traditional family is built like that.
literallyyyyy. personally i do think that there are only 2 genders and you can be a male trans into a female or the other way around but it’s either a male or a female
@@loturzelrestaurant No one is saying you can't express yourself as you wish. You can identify as a Klingon if you choose-- BUT, that doesn't mean that others will perceive you as you perceive yourself. They're the same sex/gender prior to altering their appearance as they are after they do.
I mean are transgender men lesbian and transgender women gay ? I do not mean to judge or offend anybody if I did I apologize just I m not educated on these stuff
"When a girl is raised and she feels like a tomboy, acts like a tomboy, she is now encouraged to think, 'maybe I should've been born a boy.'" sis i would never wear skirts when i was little for the sake of being tomboyish and i can tell you with 100% certainty that i am definitely a cisgender woman
I get what she's saying though. I've definitely met a lot of women who act like a tomboy and think they're a boy because they don't act, "feminine." But then they quickly change their mind about being trans soon after.
@@rawbubbles7738 The fact that a lot of people confuse the two, when there's a clear difference. (Sex is biological, Gender is a social construct, so it's psychological.)
@@flastyy_ technically they're both biological, but sex is external which involves reproductive system, anatomical differences, chromosomes, etc. But gender is biologically internal and it's innate in the brain.
This was surprisingly respectful and at the end of the day shows both sides are more similar than we think and it's mostly only misinformation about the other side's desires that drives us back
Shae Mango so he thinks losing his dad is painful... wait for the hereafter. If stays like this may god judge him and throw him in the hell fire. He is a transgressor.
I wish they would have touched on gender dysphoria. It seemed like the cis people thought gender was always just something you felt and not an actual diagnosis for many. Also I'd love to see the whole uncut version. These short episodes always seem to cut at the parts where I want to hear the other side's response.
TheVeganWolf I also wish they talked more about chromosomes because even then there’s no binary you may have extra Xs or Ys or you May be born with a binary that doesn’t match you physically :(
what is probably the majority of trans people say there's no need for dysphoria to be trans, that you don't even need to transition. Just say you are a man/woman and you are.
I love how every time people meet to discuss on their opinions that completely clash, they are respectful about each others opinion and they genuinely try to listen to each other and understand where the opposing team is coming from. It honestly sets a good example on how people out hear should approach things. I LOVE JUBILEE.
girl i could not imagine how awful the woman felt when she got told she was "100% male" that would be so triggering for dysphoria edit: hey if yall come across peiple who are blatantly transphobic; saying stuff like hes a man jn regards to the trans woman, its better to just ignore it. if you're gonna debate do it with those who aren't bigots, its not worth it to interact. ive been doing lgbt discourse for three years, and its just my advice.
@Anastasia Popa oh yeah i completely agree, theres no way to change biology, but the woman couldve definitely worded it better. i was just trying to point out that its a rude thing to say
Exactly, transgender people experience so much dysphoria every day and have to still live with the gender they were born with every time they use the toilet, visit the doctor etc. It’s so sad that even in public where there is no need to bring up biology, they have to be told that. I understand that the woman just expressed her opinion and didn’t want to be rude or offensive and I actually kinda agree with what she said there but it really must have hurt
@@potatoskins6001 How is making people call you whatever you want and say it is pronouns not affecting someone. Chances are he has or will come across someone who says they are "Transgender" and if he does not talk to them with their pronouns they will target him publicly and on the internet.
@Jaycee if you don't mind, can you give me an example of where it's "written into policy and law"? Furthermore, can you give me an example of a situation that would require said law to back someone and not the other in whatever situation you're describing?
That would be hard to find, because most people who are called climate change deniers, don’t deny climate change but do think that the recent push towards “stopping climate change/ stopping emissions” which we cant because its always been happening and co2 is good for the environment, is a complete scam. When al gores predictions (who said similar things like all ice caps will melt in a few years etc) haven’t come true and then these plans like green new deal are filled with insane ideas than people start to get skeptical
Michelle Appiah I agree that it’s real I just wish that people would stop exaggerating it like people saying the world will end in 8 years and that people are dying because of it
I think that this is the most heart warming, and non-toxic episode of Middle Ground I have ever seen- And I am all for it- Like- For once I was actually pretty happy with the side I don't really agree with.
When that lady said she perceived the other lady as 100% male my heart broke, I could almost feel her pain through the screen edit: guys I found the transphobes
The question is simple and it can be prove by science. 100% accurate he is a male literally disect him get his DNA.. and he is a man.. It is based on fact not to offend..
meanwhile biologist, people who actually study chromosomes, psychologist, sociologist, and anthropologist are sitting there like: who's gonna tell them sex is a spectrum and gender literally depends on the society. we just happen to live in one that primarily relies on two binary genders. 😬 like a lot of this stuff isn't set in stone so its weird that she tries to be scientific then proceeds to spew something that scientist would disagree with.
@@fahrenheit2101 I mean you can disagree, but it's a fact. Look it up. If sex wasn't a spectrum we would only have XX and XY and people would always have the secondary sex characteristics of those chromosome patterns. A simple google search and a look though a scientific/academic database will show you.
@@jae3004 I did look it up. The sex spectrum is not so much a spectrum and completely unrelated. I even acknowledged the minority that do have gene disorders. This is entirely unrelated to the topic of the video and is not a spectrum in the same way, more like a set of categories. And 99% of people fall into 2: XX and XY. Edit: Nevermind I acknowledged that in a separate comment.
Im late but i wished they included an indigenous person who held onto indigenous values pre colonization, such as "two-spirit". That would have been the most interesting part of the video in my opinion.
yes. there’s a certain point in your life when you realize your gender and from then one you DEVELOP an understanding of how you want to express that. For example, a bit with long hair wants to ‘look more like a boy’ so he cuts his hair, expressing his gender.
@@thatoneclown4723 Yes, you did. Gender refers to the sex assigned at birth and the social aspects of being male or female, respectively. Male and female are biological categories which are fixed and permanent. You got it totally wrong on gender. Then, you conflate gender with personality. Then, you conflate gender and gender roles. Then you conflate men with women, males with females, science with science-fiction and fact with fiction. A woman isn't a personality, costume, social construct, nor a feeling. She's an adult, human female.
yes! as one develops overtime, so does their gender. they are given opportunities by their parents and by their peers to go on with such elements to their being.
coco réglisse AHAHAHAHA what’re you gonna do? Peek under the stall to take a look at someone’s genitalia? Guaranteed you’ve been in a public bathroom with a trans person before and you didn’t know it.
coco réglisse do you really think that a trans woman is just gonna peek on every girl and show everyone they she used to be a man. Trans women are just going to mind their business and get out of their as soon as possible because they don’t want people like you to judge her and tell her that she is still a man. Grow up
Nathan Hunter there are quite a few articles you can read about that. Athletes who are trans have to go through rigorous testing due to this and even have less testosterone than biological women sometimes. Go research more
@Ashton A her sex is male but her gender is female. sex and gender are two different things and people confuse them a lot. there are 2 sexes but more than 2 genders. sex just means how you were born biologically which is what I think you were trying to say.
She’s biologically male. People, you can’t choose your gender. You’re born with it. Sooner you realize that, the sooner you’ll actually get to enjoy life normally.
ZK Zainvu_HH and also, gender is not biological. Your sex is biological, not gender. Sex is what you have in your pants and your chromosomes (sometimes chromosomes) gender is pronouns, identity, personality, and being
@@chey3179 because its the best excuse to do it. Its a an valid argument to say that allowing biological males to change their gender so easy to be dangerous. Not only for bathrooms but for sports as well.
@@un3xxy343 And as for the transgender women and men don't belong in the opposite bathroom, saying that transwomen are all predators is just sexist. Worry about the boys who are actually doing the harm over harmless women just wanting to pee. I find it more creepy that people care so much about what's in someone's pants when the go pee. And you act as if cisgender women cannot rape other women in bathrooms, or attack them.
I think it's rude to act like because you have an opinion that others need to perceive you as you perceive yourself, it creates an obligation for others to deny objective reality in favor of your fantasy, and ex. indulge use of your preferred pronouns-- because that's the height of narcissism.
@@zachman5150 Trying to be understood with compassion and empathy from others who are not on the same page is not the embodiment of narcissism. It's a direct reflection of trauma from being ostracized by society or family for being perceived as unconventional or untraditional. Culture is inherently dogmatic with an agenda of what's considered normal and what's not.
@@CareBlair222 Insisting that other perceive you as you perceive yourself, and affirm your claims of being something other than what you are, in defiance of objective reality-- is totally narcissistic
Also, Trans women are still men. They're not trans anything. They're still the same sex and gender prior to transition, after transition. All they're doing is drastically altering their appearance, and screwing up their natural body chemistry. Still men
I was a tomboy as a kid, I hated looking feminine, hated the color pink , hated all the girly things. Now that I’m older I love pink, I love wearing dresses, and doing all the feminine or girly things. The difference is that I never felt like a boy or male. I think it’s hard for some of these people to realize that you can feel masculine or feminine and not have that effect how you feel about your gender. Saying that you grew out of being a tomboy is not really compatible with a trans person’s experience
Yeah, I hated playing with dolls, hated playing “family”, preferred cars and legos, but never ever did I feel like I was a boy. I’ve always felt like a girl. I don’t understand how people can’t grasp that there’s something different going on in someone that is transgender...
Before the comments get too heated, I just want to applaud Jubilee and the participants of this video for never shying away from the conversations that need to happen in our society!
I don’t believe a man should be the leader of the household. I believe a woman and man are a team and should be perfectly capable of sharing the leading role.
I would venture to say that every household's family dynamics vary. In some families, the man is head of household, others it's the woman, and likewise some operate like your aforementioned team. Really depends on the personality of the two spouses/partners and what works for them and makes them a successful family unit. Of course when tax season rolls around, who ever makes more money gets to check the box, but dont tell uncle Sam that.
I disagree, men generally work more hours and are generally spend more time doing hard work aka get paid more so I think a man should be the head of the house
ᗷiaNcά_ bεŇN if where going off traditional roles, yes men pay the bills and work hard, but don't ignore the work women do, they work just as hard in different ways. Any way nowadays a lot of women work, and a lot of them also have to do all the traditional tasks as well. Men being head of the house comes from a sexist place, in my opinion roles should be shared and both men and women should have equal say in everything and come to an agreement together. Marriage is a partnership, it shouldn't be one partner dominating the other. Both should have equal say in everything.
They should’ve included men on the traditional side, missing the male perspective on this leaves this unbalanced for me.
Totally agree
Tori Collins yes because honesty men will speak their mind more
Tori Collins thanks for telling me, now I'm definitely not going to watch
@@coreyrush8894 and we are not?
Reham _ I’m assuming that we means women?
Doesn’t it frustrate you when you can’t interfeen into a conversation
Ana Escobar so fuckin much
Literally!!!! when homegirl was associating gender with DNA and chromosomes and being either “male or a woman” I just…. sigh.
Intervene*
not being an asshole just making sure its there because that sounds like something I would type.
@@karenruiz1799 she was right tho
@@Smyle001 nah.
I get really pissed off when they change from their original seats.
Or when they sit together rather than on their respective side
Thank god someone said it.
But that's the beauty.. they get mixed up by the end... Signifies them opening up
Hello Fellow Refugees it still don’t feel right
Facts 💯
Nailed it. Men being predators is the common thread on the bathroom debate
You are looking at it from a bad angle I think. It's not that men are predators, it's that many predators are male. You have to understand that this is a very important part, and it is true.
Predators are repeat offenders. They are not receiving proper punishment IMO.
Trust me, you would find that the majority of men would never act predatory. And we have the most insanely dangerous drug legal which causes so many problems in our society, but we've been brainwashed into thinking that alcohol is this innocent thing.
Look around, it's mostly drunk people who do bad things. Meaning that the predatory behaviour would be even more concentrated to fewer individuals, if we had other options for people to ease their stress. Alcohol makes people do things that they would otherwise never do. It's same for any gender/sex as well.
People are actually mixing up having a masculine/feminine sense of style and gender-
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There is no masculine or feminine sense of style
Exactly.
@@persona7506 yes there is. Masculine people dress practical, feminine people dress flamboyantly/impractically
@@christopherreichle6670 no , i disagree , even feminine people dess practicall , you can be feminie in anything if you know how or are feminine enough
before this video they should’ve went over the difference between gender expression, biological sex, and clothing preference :/
and that was the comment that i was looking for. thank u! after this video it just popped in my head who sexual education is so important! I learned those concepts in school!!
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is your profile picture george with no brim i-
this makes your comment even better
@@endcities yesss george with no brim B)
gender is the same as sex but now when you get into gender/sex roles those can be switched around and changed because those were set up by society but biology wasn't
Where tf is that one guy from incel episode that would’ve made this episode crazy lmao
actually there aren't even 2 genders, since women are just the same as children - him propably
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He did say that huh 😂. I forgot about that.
@@ulledienulle8211 omg i remember that AHAHA
Exactly why isn’t Derrick here
I love these!! But I wish youtube didn't require so much self-censoring because I would've liked to see them get a little deeper. You could tell they were ready to as well.
what do you mean self censoring? who self censored?
I feel like both sides had kind of weak arguments and were afraid of being judged or shot down by the other. Like both sides just kind of went with what the other said
It's also bc Jubilee closely monitors what is said and tells them what they can't say and what ways they can't steer the convo.
@marsjacobvolta mEn LOvE oBjEcTiVe TrUtH
@@pnut3844able how do you even know that?
Well duh. No one wants to be the person that everyone hates. In almost every video there are thousands of comments of people complaining about at least one person who has a different stance on something. These people know that this will go online and they censor their true thoughts because of it.
@@damianlord9340 The thing is that most of these persons who have different stances, are usually on the "wrong" side of thinking that it's just not acceptable. Like in the Men's Rights video, most people were mad at the incel because his views were simply misogynistic, while in the feminist vs non-feminist, many people were complaining about the rad fem that said women are the only victims and men don't know what is to suffer
Kinda sad that we only see "traditional" women perspectives. Men wouldve been interesting as well.
Anie To I think they get volunteers
They dont want our opinions trust me that's what these freaks call manplaining.
I agreed
@@getoffmygrass4857 mansplaining*
King Jinzo freaks? i think you’re the freak. also, do you live in 1925 by chance?
the worst thing is listening to a conversation you cannot talk in..
Right
Ikr 😞
Omg this! Like i would love to work on set, the amount of soundbytes i would give..unprofessional 😂
Exactly
Hahaha true!
If I say "I am a trans tomboy" (Which is true), the entire argument falls apart. Gender does not equal gender expression.
Im a trans boy, but I like wearing dresses sometimes. What now??
gender is only sex stereotypes that u internalized.
Gender identity is a 2000's thing, it was never a thing in the past
That’s confusing like you identify as female but ur a tomboy
@@piggybank2906 Well yes it existed, but it was never any where NEAR as big a thing as it is today, which is why I lose faith in this generation that we have normalised it.
Why only women representing "traditional"
Leo Phillips cuz when a guy does it he’s labeled as sexist
@@xnet_cascade6257 Nah the women are sexist too
FORREST GUMP she called men predators. I’ve never met one predator guy in my life and I’m a guy and I’m not a predator! WTF Logic
@@eldangster1616 lmao you've never met some predatory men in your life and your guy?
Shocking lol
Also Logic is knowing anecdotes aren't evidence
also, she didn't say that men were predators. She said that the fear that people are expressing is that men are predators
@FORREST GUMP Pst they are. Reducing women and men to reproductive function is gross.
do they not know the difference between biological sex, gender expression, and clothing preference?
To be fair, the words gender and sex have been used over the years synonymously so there isn't really a vast difference between the two because they are very interrelated, you can't have one without the other, so gender expression roots from sex anatomy that's why it's hard to seperate the two.
I feel like they need to bring back the gender-bread man it’s an easy way to break it down for the ppl who don’t understand
@@kgabomolele3346 that’s not true, gender is a made up social construct which sits in once brain and identity. Sex is biological and determines certain things as medical care.
@@synnearonsen9963 everything single thing is a social construct, my point is that gender expression roots from sex, its what has inspired many societies worldwide to normalize certain gender roles for example toddler girls do less dangerous activities then toddler boys it's a fact you can do an experiment with nursery school babies and analyze their behavior, there is a nature (sex) that inspires gender expression that's why the two cannot be separated. So I'm not sure what you're confused about, there are two sexes only and this can be objectivsly verifiable
@roxie thank you
Man these topics are really risky and every time I click to watch a video I get really scared.
Jess Legati I've been waiting to see someone swing.
Oswaldo Bejarano I’m surprised nobody has
My heartbeat died
Jess Legati that’s because you’re weak and pathetic
that's exactly why they should be had so we can realize that it's possible to have these conversationss without being hateful or unsympathetic to one another.
That’s how I feel as a dude. I actually love wearing feminine clothes like skirts and cute underwear and doing makeup and hair. But I know I’m a dude, I have a strong and passionate personality, love to take charge, be physically active and I’m still sexually attracted to women and have absolutely no desire to be in a woman’s bathroom. Unfortunately for me though, femboys are much more taboo than tomboys and there’s almost no way I can embrace these interests without being labeled trans or gay. People seem to think the two are inseparable but they’re really not. Gender norms and standards are really the problem.
Genders not a social norm
@@kinggkongg9694 gender is a social construct. You are confusing gender with sex. Sex is biological.
@@Baccheinn No it’s not Your confusing fantasy land with reality. You can’t change your gender anymore than you can change your age
You are just being you. In my opinion we are all in spectrum; even we are physically male or female, we all possess in a degree qualities, personalities and characteristics of both genders. I am a female, but growing up i was a tomboy, now that I am older I realized that I have a lot of male characters like being firm, frank, independent, practical and passionate. Physically I am naturally muscular, even though I exercise very little. I could have been confused, but I know I am a girl and only been attracted to men
Stop that and go to the gym mf
The Christian woman who comforted the trans woman when speaking about her father made me smile. This is how it’s supposed to be and especially for Christians. Regardless of what you think of someone else’s life choices, you are still meant to give love.
Facts
Most definitely as a Christian we suppose to do everything out of love just like Jesus did himself. Love the person not the sin, css we all sin and fall short of the glory of God we should not judge
I don't understand why Christians think that being trans is against the bible
@@misharobinson1679 in my christian belief God created us in the gender you were born with and full stop it's what it is. He still loves us and everyone but if you do want to be a christian the bible specifically says things that we were called to live and yeah. But maybe someone can share more scriptures if you'd like? For biblical reasons? 😊 but yeah in the end of the day we use the bible and try to be like jesus in our belief because he is the only way to heaven. 😊
@@misharobinson1679 but it is in the bible. 👍👍
Playin it reeeal safe with no straight guys...
Couldn't agree with you anymore
@taЊa N. That how you feel about something doesnt matter because science. Facts over feelings.
Until I see "attack helicopter" as a gender anyway.
@taЊa N. he means that there are no straight males in the conversation. Therefore there is no balance to thoss arguments
@Big Hero B we mean biological males
true dude like wtf bring some guys on
Being a tomboy is way different than gender Identity
Girl thank you being a tomboy does not mean “ omg maybe I should’ve been a boy” no ok it just means you like things boys like
gullippa9 ah yes because i’m a tomboy that means that i’m a man
@@beee8720 I was a tomboy when I was a child. I hated skirts, never liked them. Felt itchy and unstylish on me. I wore shorts and long pants all the time, nothing pink. But I never wanted to be a boy. I just think boy clothing suits me better.
facts
Periodt
It’s wild seeing people get guilted/peer pressured into stepping forward when you can tell they didn’t initially intend to.
It might be better if they had to make the decision anonymously and then they just showed up with the others to discuss
By the way. If y’all didn’t know, transgender is not a 3rd gender
PERIODT👏👏👏👏👏
Tessa Comfort I never said I disagreed with any of that so why r u going at me, I was making it clear because ppl in the comments were saying there’s only 2 genders and trans isn’t real
@@bellarodriguez3601 tessa wasn't going at u, Tessa was replying to someone who commented under ur comment so thats why it seems Tessa is replying to u
There’s only 2 genders trans is just hopping from one to another
Excuse me I am heavily offended and you have offended my fellow tower brothers (Yes we identify as towers)
Parents of LGBT+ kids vs traditional parents
Caitlin B or supportive parents of trans kids vs unsupportive parents of trans kids (or lgbt kids in general)
I was just going to write this...geesh. Lol
Or Supportive Parents vs Traditional Parents, cause traditional parents may have lgbt kids
Yeeees
Jesss!
Damn, I feel like gender and sex both needed to be defined here. Also the lack of a traditional male I think hurt the conversation.
It's the same thing
There isn’t a difference
Splitting the two is just creating some alternate reality. Someone could identify as the 9th planet, a green bean, or a horse by the rational of some of these people. It doesnt make it true regardless.
Reinier Roon
Let me say in advance, facts don’t care about ur feelings. Now, if u r born with XY chromosomes u r a male. That’s the only way to say it; ur sex/gender is male if ur born with those chromosomes. Same concept if ur born female with XX chromosomes. Gender and sex have always been the same thing and they’ve been defined/ determined by which chromosomes u r born with
@@drewsaluk6860 i swear when did we get this confused tho wtf forreal.
This some joke?
Such a respectful conversation. Even though some of the terms weren't quite accurate, still it was nice to see people on opposite sides still agreeing on most things.
Sorry people can't keep up with the nonsense you people make up every single day
Accurate according to who exactly?
Goon
there's a difference between being tolerated and accepted.
Joyce Cruz Exactly! 👏🏾
Or being accepted or being embraced.....
it is not obligatory to accept, toleration is though.
@@Billy-gr1rx That's what I was saying.
@Jamal BBCLife What I mean.
there’s a difference between being cisgender and being transphobic
(edit: many people are taking this as me defending the cis people; i’m not, i’m saying the title is misleading since all the cis people in the video were transphobic, when in reality a large amount of cis people are trans allies)
Yes
This needs more likes
💅💅💅♥️
yes
the cis people were just ignorant
Also there a different between educated and trump supporters. (By trump supporters I mean people who do not care about being educated, having a conversation, anything they think they are right and that’s what it will be forever)
If there was at least one straight man , this would be entirely different
Salim Sadoune I cant tell if your trying to say straight men are more transphobic or something or if your comment is accidentally sarcastic.
@@noahd.4551 I think its that a guy would ask the uncomfortable questions we came here for. And not "transphobic" just less likely to accept the messy stuff without sufficient explanation.
@i wonder if you're reading this I'm sorry that that's your experience, I've actually found men to often be a lot more open-minded and kind than how you're describing them to be.
There is a different because strait and “traditional”
straight, heterosexual, that's different from being"traditional" or "cis"...
Transgender vs Transracial now that's a topic I'd love to see
Transformers v transgenders would be fun too
@@zachman5150 haha
yo this discussion was so respectful! Shoutout to all of them, the world needs more dialogue like this !
The student was really disrespectful
mum if youre reading this im doing my homework how?
@@jrlisbltch6378 how? she voiced her opinion with no hate or malice against the other side? she gave her honest opinion and you can't get mad someone for having a different opinion than you.
mum if youre reading this im doing my homework yeah that’s what i thought. she was completely devaluing the other side’s identities
@@maxmcdonald4227 she was always cutting in to other peoples talk and it felt like she didnt take into consideration the subjects veiws at all. Tbh it felt as if she was diggin at the other side personally
8:35 “The underlying fear is that men are predators.”
*creepy camera man in the background looming*
I believe he was shooting this documentary
*camera stalking intestifies*
🤣
Blaq Majesty this def not a documentary. Lol
The red light is from his sniper
Why aren’t there any traditional males.?
Cause that would be too much of a controversy here, it's likely they believe that traditionally straight males would be less open to true conversation.
They do, just a very confused male
Raven Baxter b
69, you're welcome
Because this channel is biased. They probably think men would be too straight forward and hurt someone's feelings.
I don’t care how the adult feels in this, the bathroom situation. The childs feelings and safety comes first
The children's feelings on the matter will range from neutral to positive if they are raised in a safe environment to feel comfortable with having other people around in public bathrooms, and their safety is not compromised by trans people being allowed into the bathrooms that conform to their gender identity: Trans people being banned from bathrooms has never prevented men from either raping women or sexually assaulting children.
@@GrahamChapman Kick Rocks Groomer. Only 2 genders-- Male and Female. Your imagination, and subjective sense of self doesn't invalidate objective reality. If it did, everyone would be rich, happy and healthy too.
Objective biological realities are not up for debate.
If the validity of your identity is predicated on the notion that all of society must ignore objective biological realities, then your identity is not valid. Straight up... It's as simple as that.
Intersex is a disorder, not another sex invalidating the dichotomy of the binary of all mammalian species, and they only EVER present with male and female genitalia.
Gender refers to the sex assigned at birth, and the social aspects of being male or female, respectively. Male and female are biological categories, which are fixed and permanent.
TOO Many people are inappropriately conflating the variability of personality traits and temperament (Neither of which is gender exclusive-- hence effeminate males, butch females and tomboys) with gender as though they're synonymous, and they are not
Upset they didn’t talk about gender dysphoria
yeah but thats a tuff one lmao
And also no one cares
@@guynotincognito6918 um, I'm sorry, what??????
Yeah I really wish they would've done that
mercc they didn’t specifically talk about it
But being trans is gender dysphoria and they had 2 trans ppl there
When the trans-woman said “I didn’t start transitioning until I was 32”, I got extremely confused bc I thought she was like 25😂
Same she looks so young
Yorrie Minks he*
Thanos forgot about s there bud. It’s she
@ Intentionally deriding someone is a pretty shitty thing to do and I think you ought to reconsider how much calling someone 'he' really means to you before making snide remarks next time. It's not your life, don't live it for them, bud.
Yay my wig went AWAY!
My brain hurts from binging on middle ground episodes
Alexis P. i feel u
Same
Me too!!
Alexis same
sameeeee
happy= joyful
calm= serenity
Back in my day
How you dress wasn’t your gender identity
People often confuse genders with personalities.
Could you please explain me the difference?
Your personality is how you act and how you feel about different things or actions. Your gender is associated with reproduction. There are four genders. The two main genders (male and female) are normal. But there can be a mutation that can give you both male and female parts, or no male or female parts at all. No offence to anybody but “genders” like trans, fluid, gay and spirited are not real genders and are associated with how you feel about yourself and other people.
Gay is not a gender. It's an orientation. Gay man identify as man but they are attracted to men.
But I can agree gender it's not an entire personality on its own, because you're way more than your part of the spectrum or your expression... Just like, (maybe a bad example) if you're vegan that's ok, that's part of who you are/want to be, but being the "stereotypical vegan" all the time is not your whole personality, you're a unique human being not only based on one characteristic.
Edit: grammar mistakes
you’re confusing gender and sex
exaactly because we all know gender is umm what you sortaa... you know feel somehow, that's right.
another thing with gender-neutral bathrooms; society seems to always label the mother as the primary caregiver of the child and forget about the single parent fathers who have to take their little girl into the men's because they don't have a baby station as its apart of the woman's section. I remember this as a child as my parents were split and I spent half of the week with him.
We don't live in the 50s! It's 2020.
Not all men are the 'breadwinners' and not all women are housewives.
I knoww I always think this, that's why they have restrooms now labelled as "family restrooms" for specific situations like these
Natalie Rodriguez not every place has a family bathroom, I know personally my local mall doesn’t have one.
@@jadestone-production08 yeah I wish family bathrooms were a more common thing. I know they don't have them in many places here too. Off the top of my head I can only name target.
This was a problem I had with my daughter when she was young.
yeah i agree, and when a man takes a little girl in the shop or holds her hand they automatically assume hes a pedo instead of assuming hes a dad
The fact that nobody brought up how sex and gender is different confused me
ikr like the fact that they couldn’t distinguish that difference essentially invalidates the majority of their opinions.
Even the trans people didn't bring it up, like wut?
literally and the difference between clothing preference
IKR
Bc they aren’t
love how supportive people were to all the perspectives and views shared : )
I feel like the traditional side held back a bit and was worried about being pc.
Aiesha Mumford - because they weren’t educated on the situation at all
pAtRiCk StAr - I can tell by your comment you don’t know much about it either
Bruh At least they weren't males or else I would sexist
@pAtRiCk StAr Let me just ask you, how can you be so sure of something that you can't relate to, or have researched? I'm non-binary myself and while I might not know the specific science (even though I could easily turn to a psychiatrist or a study to know more) I know that I'm non-binary because I'm not a guy, and I'm not a girl. I get euphoria when someone calls me they and I get anxiety when someone misgenders me a lot. I can understand how you think since people have for ages thought that your biological sex in every case is connected to the gender in your brain but gender dysphoria is real. It's a diagnosis and the only thing that can relieve the symptoms is to transition. You see being transgender isn't just about "today I feel like a girl" or "Today I feel like a boy" because to be transgender and not just someone who likes to dress as the opposite sex, you have to experience gender dysphoria.
@@kujikawathemeekmage3640 I can tell that because you didn't answer patrick star with any evidence that you CLEARLY aren't educated on the subject what so ever, your just as clueless as any trans person.
"there are only two genders"
cis girls: *sit down*
rory: baby i'm not even here
IM A HALLUCINATION
they’re non binary tho? it’s not a gender...
@@fawnxx.9231 It is a gender tho
@@Mercuryluvsu no.. the entire point of being non binary is not falling into gender roles/rules or perception. it’s literally just not identifying with anything which doesn’t make it a gender.
@@fawnxx.9231 the whole point is that gender is a spectrum. if you don't see non binary as a gender then male and female aren't genders either. if you see non binary as a gender then there are multiple genders. non binary is not a BINARY gender and it most certainly IS NOT the third gender, as many people call it, but if you tell an enby what their gender is, they won't tell you "i don't have one" they'll tell you '"i am nonbinary"
What a comforting moment. The woman comforting the trans woman when she started talking about her father
That made me tear up, you could hear how torn the trans woman was when talking about her father
Exactly! That made me cry a little bit
scorpiogoddess we all need to be there for each other when able.
He*
*his fathe
I would love to see a bi sexual vs pan sexual discussion and seeing where people see the difference and the similarities people see in there sister sexualities
There's not any discussion to do tho. Its very clear that Bi and Pan people validate each other's labels
One is real, one is made up idiocy. Discussion over.
@@catisreckless4647 pan means you would fancy male, female or trans.
@@DarkAngel2512 Pan means you desperately seek attention and feel the need to "stand out". Nothing more.
@@DarkAngel2512 Bi means that as well, there is no difference except the words
This video got messed up because no one actually made the distinction between sex and gender.
that's what i was gonna say. the cis were definitely talking about sex while gender in a whole different world. you can definitely be born a female, embrace it but still act androginous.
YES!
Jurnee Jurn it's the same thing, like man and male
Lol. Same thing
Mason Officially gender and sex are actually not the same thing. if they were, transgender people wouldn’t exist, yknow?
They needed to have a football-watching, beer-belching frat boy here.
SWLinPHX i feel like we need one of them in all of these
flashback mary Hunter🇺🇸🍺🦅🎣 is typing...
Rodger🇺🇸🦅🎣🍻🍺🥩🦌🐕🏈🔫🎆 is typing...
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@flashback mary HAHA literally the first person I thought of
do private school students vs public school students :)
hannah dunn or maybe traditional school students vs home schooled students ;)
Yesss
why what is the difference nit 5hat interesting topic
hannah dunn there won’t be many differences to be honest ...
i think home schooling vs regular school ( private or public ) would be more interesting
I’ve been in both they are pretty much the same
Girl no, I am pretty tomboy and feel no pressure at all to transition FTM lol
Same, im a very girly femboy, and it doesnt pressure me into transition MTF, i dont want to change a single bit about my body, i just have interests that are rather typically feminine and crossdressing. I know my gender from my pants 💀💀
I wish they would've talked about gender dysphoria and gone more in depth about it
Dylan you are absolutely right. The traditionalist needed to understand how much of a choice it really isn’t to hate your own body.
Preach
Madison Stites that wasn’t their point. Their point is that there is only two genders biologically speaking.
I'm on the traditional side and I agree with you 100%. It's the core of the issue and they didn't even discuss it.
DannyDaDuffyDucking Daffer ok but dysphoria is literally what makes someone trans. it’s important to discuss and talk about it
"I didn't start transitioning until I was 32." Girl, you have a youthful glow I didn't think you were over 25
@@sushmoyislam2858 no*
honestly thought she was in her REALLY early 20's
Sushmoy Islam it’s a girl
Ahhaahahahahahahajajahajaajjaajajahajajajahahajajahahahahahahahaha😂😂😂😂
@@ringthebell5221 ??
omg the trans woman looked so sad when they said she was a 100% male :(
yeah but at the same time... is it really a healthy and stable way to live than having your entire sense of self depending on thoughts and words of others...? One's existence should not dependent on how other perceive them. Although i can understand it hurts for her, but i think it gives rise to an important and interesting subject in the transgender community.
@A M. i can't like this more because the like button does not allow me
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@A M. Absolutely agree with everything you said!!!
@@gumi_days4384 Yes, I often say the trans community has a recipe for low self worth on their hands because they seek the validation of others which is something in life we should never do. Self love teaches you to seek validation from within. But trans people live for “you are so valid 🥰” comments, and constant affirmation through other means. It’s a very unstable situation when your whole identity relies on the validation you receive from the general public. I don’t mean this in a hateful way, it’s just something I’ve noticed.
Who cares if you’re scared of being judged. Everyone in life is judged. It’s part of growing up! Get over it!
True
Labels can be dangerous, but they can also be helpful. I do not think we should get rid of labels altogether.
Your race, your religion, your ethinicity are all labels, of course we need them at some level, I didn't understand that woman's argument.
@@randomuserwitharandomname6183 She has no clue what she is talking about.
Mercedes Broadway labels 🏷 identifies what your are. The only people who don’t want labels are people who don’t like what they are. I am a Christian. If someone comes and calls me a Christian I am not going to get mad.
Yea
Am I the only one that believes gender and the way you present yourself physically and your interests aren't tied to together? I think this is what confuses a lot of people. Like the trans man in the video said - he was a little girl who wanted to shop only in the boys section. Okay, but does that mean you aren't a girl at all. Does that mean that women who dress traditionally masculine are actually men by that logic? Instead of, "I'm a boy who likes to wear pink and have long hair." It's suddenly, "I'm a boy who like girly things, so I must actually be a girl and need to become one so I can acceptably interact with these things." I think it's evident that these labels are dangerous for mental health.
girl... Cetin said she started transitioning at 32.... I THIUGHT SHE WAS LIKE 20 SOMETHING??? aging??? what is that? Cetin don’t know that
Girl same
Trans don't crack.
Botox and makeup
That's because she hasn't had the stress of an actual woman
Chelsea meaning what?
“A male is the provider” tell that to my mother who was the primary income for my family because my father is disabled and could no longer work. My mother is also disabled but is still able to work and drive unlike my father.
that has almost nothing to do with what she said...
I get what you're trying to say but she said "usually", so she doesn't mean men are always the provider.
In a traditional sense, males are typically the providers while females are the caregivers. Of course, these roles are societal so they differ
@weed soup Lots of families have single parent or not parents
In nowdays families the man and the woman are equal but mainly is still based on the traditional family. I know that is frustrating for a lot of feminist and some girls but boys arent all bad and violent we just can handle a little more emotionally and phisically. I know that a lot of women are doing hard things like even born a kid is a hard thing like i ve heard that there is a lot of pain and i respect that and single women that are raising kids that is a respectable thing and i am not saying that i dont belive in equality i am just saying that man are a lot simple and can handle more things day by day and this is why the traditional family is built like that.
There's a distinct difference between biological sex and the social construct of gender.
*Speaker* : There are only 2 genders?
*Me* : This Gonna be GoOoood
FritOnDuo GMC 😂
Omg, this was just an anxiety trip. Haha
here we go again
literallyyyyy. personally i do think that there are only 2 genders and you can be a male trans into a female or the other way around but it’s either a male or a female
There are only two genders imo
Love this series so much. Would love to see teacher and students.
fax that would be a good video
I would love that
I think school should be fun there comes a train wreck
Indigo My moms a teacher and unfortunately it doesn’t work like that.
Samee (also I was 1000th like😁)
please do a flat earthers episode that would be so amazing
its not that popular anymore
@YourCommonLoser a few too many !
also they should put logan paul in it
it would never end.
Oh my god yeah
"Before I transitioned when I was still"
Me: "Normal"!
Cool. So an 'unscietnfici and quite exlusionary Idea'.
@@loturzelrestaurant No one is saying you can't express yourself as you wish. You can identify as a Klingon if you choose-- BUT, that doesn't mean that others will perceive you as you perceive yourself.
They're the same sex/gender prior to altering their appearance as they are after they do.
Your sex is your anatomy, your gender is who you really are, your personality is how you act, think about that
Yep exactly
You said it perfectly sis 💅
Well what about sexuality , I confuse gender with sexuality .
I mean are transgender men lesbian and transgender women gay ? I do not mean to judge or offend anybody if I did I apologize just I m not educated on these stuff
@@Clementine3107 Lol no They do not consider themselves gay/lesbian. Or at least most of them dont.
"When a girl is raised and she feels like a tomboy, acts like a tomboy, she is now encouraged to think, 'maybe I should've been born a boy.'" sis i would never wear skirts when i was little for the sake of being tomboyish and i can tell you with 100% certainty that i am definitely a cisgender woman
I love how you correctly did the nested quotation (just put the end in the wrong spot), but didn't capitalize or punctuate your response. lol
me too!
Could not even understand what are you trying to say
Same! When she said that I was just like nahhhh
I get what she's saying though. I've definitely met a lot of women who act like a tomboy and think they're a boy because they don't act, "feminine." But then they quickly change their mind about being trans soon after.
i’m so upset they didn’t touch the “sex and gender” topic.
Yanuel Garcia what are they going to talk about born a man you die a man. Born a female die one
@@Bryan-xu9qn Not always.
@@rawbubbles7738 The fact that a lot of people confuse the two, when there's a clear difference. (Sex is biological, Gender is a social construct, so it's psychological.)
Benbil oh ok I never understood that ty , now I understand
@@flastyy_ technically they're both biological, but sex is external which involves reproductive system, anatomical differences, chromosomes, etc. But gender is biologically internal and it's innate in the brain.
This was surprisingly respectful and at the end of the day shows both sides are more similar than we think and it's mostly only misinformation about the other side's desires that drives us back
“But I didn’t wanna lose my dad” that’s so heartbreaking.
Shae Mango so he thinks losing his dad is painful... wait for the hereafter. If stays like this may god judge him and throw him in the hell fire. He is a transgressor.
SNKRhead Games are you trolling ?
Chris Rudolph Jr trolling? You think it’s a lie? Read the Quran
SNKRhead Games it doesn’t matter if it’s a lie , anything that spreads hate and needless conformity is a detriment to society
@@youtubeaccount0x073 The quran? That was the best fictional story I've ever read.
Flat earthers vs scientist PLEASE
Mercedes Mendoza oh god 😂
No need to feed the trolls
HAH YES
That would be hilarious XD
YES 😂
I wish they would have touched on gender dysphoria. It seemed like the cis people thought gender was always just something you felt and not an actual diagnosis for many.
Also I'd love to see the whole uncut version. These short episodes always seem to cut at the parts where I want to hear the other side's response.
TheVeganWolf I also wish they talked more about chromosomes because even then there’s no binary you may have extra Xs or Ys or you May be born with a binary that doesn’t match you physically :(
Ayyy vegang
Exactly, if they wanna talk science but they dont even know what gender dysphoria is then they're clearly uneducated on the topic
what is probably the majority of trans people say there's no need for dysphoria to be trans, that you don't even need to transition. Just say you are a man/woman and you are.
***normal people
I love how mature this conversation was.
I love how every time people meet to discuss on their opinions that completely clash, they are respectful about each others opinion and they genuinely try to listen to each other and understand where the opposing team is coming from. It honestly sets a good example on how people out hear should approach things. I LOVE JUBILEE.
Fireworks _ we love respectful people
Same it’s great to see that they never really fight-everyone is very open minded, yet still share their opinions
Yep. Only when people are on the internet and hiding behind a screen do they act completely disrespectful/hateful about others opinions.
girl i could not imagine how awful the woman felt when she got told she was "100% male" that would be so triggering for dysphoria
edit: hey if yall come across peiple who are blatantly transphobic; saying stuff like hes a man jn regards to the trans woman, its better to just ignore it. if you're gonna debate do it with those who aren't bigots, its not worth it to interact. ive been doing lgbt discourse for three years, and its just my advice.
@Anastasia Popa oh yeah i completely agree, theres no way to change biology, but the woman couldve definitely worded it better. i was just trying to point out that its a rude thing to say
Exactly, transgender people experience so much dysphoria every day and have to still live with the gender they were born with every time they use the toilet, visit the doctor etc. It’s so sad that even in public where there is no need to bring up biology, they have to be told that. I understand that the woman just expressed her opinion and didn’t want to be rude or offensive and I actually kinda agree with what she said there but it really must have hurt
Facts don't care about your feelings. If you are male but you don't want to be, the truth is that you are still male.
@@jeffreychou3918 They're literally not affecting you at all. Just living their best life. Leave them alone
@@potatoskins6001 How is making people call you whatever you want and say it is pronouns not affecting someone. Chances are he has or will come across someone who says they are "Transgender" and if he does not talk to them with their pronouns they will target him publicly and on the internet.
"I didn't transition until I was 32"
YOU LOOK 28 WHAT IS THIS WITCHCRAFT HOW OLD ARE YOU REALLY ???
Omg i had the same thought
Kougz it’s because trans women are flawless uwu
She looks 67, I don’t understand why people are saying she looks like an unborn fetus.
Łunnelfa - Have you ever seen a 67 year old?? The hell are you on
@@deletedbecauseofhate-9971 she looks 30
I will never understand why people give a fuck about what someone else defines themselves by. Who honestly gives a fuck. You do you.
@Jaycee if you don't mind, can you give me an example of where it's "written into policy and law"? Furthermore, can you give me an example of a situation that would require said law to back someone and not the other in whatever situation you're describing?
She started transitioning until 32 I thought she was 22 damn
yesss she looks so young
Yeah I was so surprised she looks 20
You mean *He
@@coffyemmanuel she
@@kacie2570 He
Climate scientists or people who believe climate change vs. people who believe climate change is a hoax
That would be hard to find, because most people who are called climate change deniers, don’t deny climate change but do think that the recent push towards “stopping climate change/ stopping emissions” which we cant because its always been happening and co2 is good for the environment, is a complete scam. When al gores predictions (who said similar things like all ice caps will melt in a few years etc) haven’t come true and then these plans like green new deal are filled with insane ideas than people start to get skeptical
Rockstarburner Read any Fox News comments. Unfortunately, there are still too many.
It’s pretty hard to argue with science (especially when the “climate change is a hoax” people have probably never graduated high school).
Michelle Appiah I agree that it’s real I just wish that people would stop exaggerating it like people saying the world will end in 8 years and that people are dying because of it
@@rockstarburne al gores predictions did come true...
Out of all of these types of videos, I think this one had the most respectful individuals.
Agree. I enjoyed the conversation.
Hell no. The traditional girl with the dark straight hair was really disrespectful and acted like her opinion were facts. But she was really wrong.
Samantha Salazar except the fitness enthusiast vs body positive people
Samantha Salazar that’s a fact
The interview with cosmetic surgery was pretty respectful
I think that this is the most heart warming, and non-toxic episode of Middle Ground I have ever seen- And I am all for it- Like- For once I was actually pretty happy with the side I don't really agree with.
...Okay...@@PwandaWanda
@@Ebie_ sorry lmao I was trying to see if my comment would send before because it didn’t let me comment on any video
When that lady said she perceived the other lady as 100% male my heart broke, I could almost feel her pain through the screen
edit: guys I found the transphobes
YES
MA HEART BROKE
Biologically, she is 100% male. I think that's what she meant, though she should have clarified it, otherwise it's pretty mean.
The question is simple and it can be prove by science. 100% accurate he is a male literally disect him get his DNA.. and he is a man.. It is based on fact not to offend..
They are both 100 percent human thats all that matters!
I hate it when people say unscientific things by starting with "scientifically"
EXACTLY IT PISSES ME OFF SO BAD LIKE I JUST WANNA 🤜👩💼
meanwhile biologist, people who actually study chromosomes, psychologist, sociologist, and anthropologist are sitting there like:
who's gonna tell them sex is a spectrum and gender literally depends on the society. we just happen to live in one that primarily relies on two binary genders. 😬
like a lot of this stuff isn't set in stone so its weird that she tries to be scientific then proceeds to spew something that scientist would disagree with.
@@jae3004 Sex is not a spectrum. Gender is.
And NO, the words are not interchangeable.
@@fahrenheit2101 I mean you can disagree, but it's a fact. Look it up. If sex wasn't a spectrum we would only have XX and XY and people would always have the secondary sex characteristics of those chromosome patterns. A simple google search and a look though a scientific/academic database will show you.
@@jae3004 I did look it up. The sex spectrum is not so much a spectrum and completely unrelated. I even acknowledged the minority that do have gene disorders. This is entirely unrelated to the topic of the video and is not a spectrum in the same way, more like a set of categories. And 99% of people fall into 2: XX and XY.
Edit: Nevermind I acknowledged that in a separate comment.
Video idea:
Working mums vs stay at home mums
Your British
Mr Holland I’m pretty sure that’s Australian 😂
@@jada1174 and british
Tea Oh lmao
@@jakeddot9154 nope
Im late but i wished they included an indigenous person who held onto indigenous values pre colonization, such as "two-spirit". That would have been the most interesting part of the video in my opinion.
"Two-spirit" meant those who were gay not non-binary. This has already been disproven long ago
That was more civil than I thought it would be 😂
Thats what happens when you have one gender discuss genders.
@@chiu8892 Which "one gender"?
@@Arun-MM There were only "females" participating.
Lol, way more civil than when they tried to find that Beyoncé hater.
Bored becouse women.
Put some sugar on that panel with a motorcicle rider and a trailer driver... And see Rome on flames!
"you're gonna be a boy or a girl"
intersex people:👁👄👁
YES THEY'RE STILL VALID TOO!!
SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT 👏👏
Periodt.
Nonbinanry people:👁👄👁
@@presidentpoverty2640 intersex is biological, they are born that way
they should get trans people vs detransitioners
Orca id love to see how that goes
Yes yes yes!!!
Oooo good one!!!
I feel like they’d have the exact ssme feelings
YES
“Your gender develops over time “????
yes. there’s a certain point in your life when you realize your gender and from then one you DEVELOP an understanding of how you want to express that. For example, a bit with long hair wants to ‘look more like a boy’ so he cuts his hair, expressing his gender.
@@thatoneclown4723 Quit conflating gender and personality
@@zachman5150 i didn’t conflate them LOL
@@thatoneclown4723 Yes, you did. Gender refers to the sex assigned at birth and the social aspects of being male or female, respectively. Male and female are biological categories which are fixed and permanent.
You got it totally wrong on gender. Then, you conflate gender with personality. Then, you conflate gender and gender roles. Then you conflate men with women, males with females, science with science-fiction and fact with fiction.
A woman isn't a personality, costume, social construct, nor a feeling. She's an adult, human female.
yes! as one develops overtime, so does their gender. they are given opportunities by their parents and by their peers to go on with such elements to their being.
As a cis gender female, I don’t understand why people are so obsessed with other peoples genders/sexuality’s. Like, can you just let people live?
I do care when it's a man who enters the women's bathroom.
And plus, I do have the right to tell people they are wrong.
coco réglisse AHAHAHAHA what’re you gonna do? Peek under the stall to take a look at someone’s genitalia? Guaranteed you’ve been in a public bathroom with a trans person before and you didn’t know it.
coco réglisse do you really think that a trans woman is just gonna peek on every girl and show everyone they she used to be a man. Trans women are just going to mind their business and get out of their as soon as possible because they don’t want people like you to judge her and tell her that she is still a man. Grow up
I don't think it is fair to women in sports to have to compete against people who have a biologically based unfair advantage.
Nathan Hunter there are quite a few articles you can read about that. Athletes who are trans have to go through rigorous testing due to this and even have less testosterone than biological women sometimes. Go research more
You can see the pain in her eyes when that cis girl said “I think you are 100% male” 😞
ami it’s a trans girl not a boy actually, so u didn’t know but now you do
@Ashton A her sex is male but her gender is female. sex and gender are two different things and people confuse them a lot. there are 2 sexes but more than 2 genders. sex just means how you were born biologically which is what I think you were trying to say.
She’s biologically male. People, you can’t choose your gender. You’re born with it. Sooner you realize that, the sooner you’ll actually get to enjoy life normally.
ZK Zainvu_HH and also, gender is not biological. Your sex is biological, not gender. Sex is what you have in your pants and your chromosomes (sometimes chromosomes) gender is pronouns, identity, personality, and being
@@dyingrat2439 gender isnt personality. You're either a male and a female. Others have the right to call you by your sex, not by what you identify as.
I LOVE when they say that the bathroom issue sounds like less of a concern about trans folk and more of a concern about predatory men… YES!!!
I hate when replies are cancer
Well trans people are human too are you saying that trans people arent gonna commit crimes?
@@un3xxy343 yea, but peoppe only blame trans people for bathroom incidents instead of the actual predators
@@chey3179 because its the best excuse to do it. Its a an valid argument to say that allowing biological males to change their gender so easy to be dangerous. Not only for bathrooms but for sports as well.
@@un3xxy343 And as for the transgender women and men don't belong in the opposite bathroom, saying that transwomen are all predators is just sexist. Worry about the boys who are actually doing the harm over harmless women just wanting to pee. I find it more creepy that people care so much about what's in someone's pants when the go pee. And you act as if cisgender women cannot rape other women in bathrooms, or attack them.
I think its rude to have an opinion of someone's lifestyle when its not hurting anyone. Just let people be.
I think it's rude to act like because you have an opinion that others need to perceive you as you perceive yourself, it creates an obligation for others to deny objective reality in favor of your fantasy, and ex. indulge use of your preferred pronouns-- because that's the height of narcissism.
@@zachman5150 Trying to be understood with compassion and empathy from others who are not on the same page is not the embodiment of narcissism. It's a direct reflection of trauma from being ostracized by society or family for being perceived as unconventional or untraditional. Culture is inherently dogmatic with an agenda of what's considered normal and what's not.
@@CareBlair222 Insisting that other perceive you as you perceive yourself, and affirm your claims of being something other than what you are, in defiance of objective reality-- is totally narcissistic
Also, Trans women are still men. They're not trans anything.
They're still the same sex and gender prior to transition, after transition. All they're doing is drastically altering their appearance, and screwing up their natural body chemistry. Still men
@@zachman5150 your responses are very basic and linear. Ignorance is always the easier route to take. Sadly. Merry Christmas.
I was a tomboy as a kid, I hated looking feminine, hated the color pink , hated all the girly things. Now that I’m older I love pink, I love wearing dresses, and doing all the feminine or girly things. The difference is that I never felt like a boy or male.
I think it’s hard for some of these people to realize that you can feel masculine or feminine and not have that effect how you feel about your gender. Saying that you grew out of being a tomboy is not really compatible with a trans person’s experience
Couldn’t have said it better ✨❤️
Yeah, I hated playing with dolls, hated playing “family”, preferred cars and legos, but never ever did I feel like I was a boy. I’ve always felt like a girl. I don’t understand how people can’t grasp that there’s something different going on in someone that is transgender...
@@mirawenya no cuz it’s society’s fault a color or the type of toy u play with shouldn’t dictate ur gender.
But how do you feel like a boy or a male anyways?
TexasJoeHotdog the same way I as a girl feel like a girl. It’s just a feeling deep down.
"I didn't want to lose my dad."
That hit so hard...
Forrealll. Poor thing.
Now think about the reverse. A son or daughter who’s mom or dad is going to transition. Imagine how hard that would be.
@@senorpoole3988 OK BOOMER
@@hira2357 That kid's like 16..
For many of the trans people I know losing connection to their parents is the hardest part of the process. It's heartbreaking
Can we get a talk between the Jedi and the sith
I agree
I see through the lies of the Jedi
@@rorywhelan_ Then you are lost
Both sides are wrong about the force, the best alignment is grey Jedi, as they actually follow the force and use emotions and control
Platypus Music “You turned her against me!”
Men are men, women are women.
I don’t think anyone disagrees with that lol
trans men are men and trans women are women!
(not really though) @@nataliekhanyola5669
@@mackenziet550yes really though
@@eeng17so what is a woman than? Like one that actually has a V that's capable of pushing out a child
4:14 jokes on you, I identify with the gender I was assigned at birth and I still hate myself 😎🤠
Lmao mood
XD hope you're ok friendo
@@edenp2465 Yes I'm swell :) how u do?
i spit out my water,,, in other news, how we holding up babe? are we safe and well rested? getting love that you deserve?
@@ohnomo6588 Yup :) just staying hopeful slowly learning to live myself 👌 hbu dude
Before the comments get too heated, I just want to applaud Jubilee and the participants of this video for never shying away from the conversations that need to happen in our society!
I love how while their ideas are so different, they all melt together in this conversation so gently
Not the liberal protest style rant.
Well said :)
So glad my parents let my sister be a tomboy instead of pushing this stuff on her
I don’t believe a man should be the leader of the household. I believe a woman and man are a team and should be perfectly capable of sharing the leading role.
I would venture to say that every household's family dynamics vary. In some families, the man is head of household, others it's the woman, and likewise some operate like your aforementioned team. Really depends on the personality of the two spouses/partners and what works for them and makes them a successful family unit. Of course when tax season rolls around, who ever makes more money gets to check the box, but dont tell uncle Sam that.
Adrienne Lopez I one hundred percent agree with you
I disagree, men generally work more hours and are generally spend more time doing hard work aka get paid more so I think a man should be the head of the house
ᗷiaNcά_ bεŇN I am a woman and work almost 50 hours every work. I do mostly physical labor so I have to disagree with you, not all women do less work
ᗷiaNcά_ bεŇN if where going off traditional roles, yes men pay the bills and work hard, but don't ignore the work women do, they work just as hard in different ways.
Any way nowadays a lot of women work, and a lot of them also have to do all the traditional tasks as well.
Men being head of the house comes from a sexist place, in my opinion roles should be shared and both men and women should have equal say in everything and come to an agreement together.
Marriage is a partnership, it shouldn't be one partner dominating the other. Both should have equal say in everything.
I think the cisgender was talking about sex and trans folks were talking about gender. They should have gotten their definitions right before talking.
Ashley yea exactly
Facts
Exactly
You can’t have a discussion if people don’t even know what they’re talking about.
"Scientifically" there are 3 sexs that is a fact, so either way traditional is wrong😂
when the trans female said “i didn’t start transitioning till i was 32” i was shook cuz she looks 25
She must be a 🔥makeup artist
N koyuncu stop it. It looks 45
pffftt, my ass he looked 25... i'd say like 40-42. He looks like a regular white mom that has an office job.
@@tuukutuuku she*
Meningen med livet I think you mean HE*
Tell a lie if you want to anger a conservative
Tell the truth if you want to anger a liberal
Every claim and accusation said by a conservative is a projection.
@@zachman5150 I can summarize your perspectives and arguments for you: You are opposed to human rights. That's all there is to it, really.