The defendant was surprised by the jail sentence. I think in Tx you can get parole after doing 25% of sentence. Might not apply to cases with violence.
@@Scout686 I'm not sure because I've heard Judge Boyd say a cpl of times in different videos that is she sentences to prison that it is day by day. I really hope that's true for that b!tch. I can't stand anyone that abuses helpless children. They're a disgrace to the role of mother or father. I hope they terminate her rights & allow this man & his family to adopt this child. He seems like he is finally settled & happy.
I just gained custody of my stepchildren due to their mother abusing them. I am in absolute tears bc until you witness what abuse can do to a child, it doesn't really hit the same.
The mom should be thankful she only got 4 years, the family that has the lil boy will never know when and if things from his past will surface and set him back.
I wish she was the judge for my child's case. The judge is still willing to place her on supervised visitation with a counselor. Even though my daughter had told everyone that her father has SA her several times. It's sickening to see judges that don't put the child first.
i used to say my mother was 'in charge of mean.' she beat us. she engaged in things i called 'catholic torture,' like being forced to kneel on dry rice for a long time. she even made me eat vomit once. people like that shouldnt have kids.
Judge Boyd is the absolute last judge you want to stand before for a child abuse case. She is a champion for those whose voices are never heard. Judge Boyd you are a God send
But because of comments she made on live stream you tube she was recused of 3 felony cases, because people watching made nasty comments about defense and offender. Boo Hoo. That was a shame.
Honestly given the case what else can you argue for your client? If there was enough evidence that she had a chance of getting off she wouldve gone to trial
You have no idea who this guy is. His whole statement sounded more like a pat on his own back. Also, I don't agree w 2 men raising children together, which is exactly what would be happening w this guy.
@stephenstill1890 yes, the other prisoners absolutely will be out for blood if they find out what she's in for. Many of them are mothers who miss their own children.
yeah that's probably why the Judge was tempting her with a trial when she didn't want to agree that she had done damage to the child, because at a trial the jury would have easily maxed out the punishment.
Judge Boyd’s voice and body language changes when she hears child abuse cases. She is angry, but maintains her professional demeanor. This lady should have gotten 15 years for this horrific abuse.
@@arjanpetersensad you don't sympathize with the poor lil ones who are children smh instead a monster who was supposed to be a mother who loves and protect her lil ones' Judge??? No!!! But the ultimate one who is Jesus Christ states " you'll know them by their fruits "!!!
@@Brandy-z9j ach shut up man. I didn't write anything like that. And off course I sympathize with the children. Are you some sort of psychopath? Off course I do.
Me too and him taking extra stuff to share on trips is probably incase he comes across a child living similar to how he previously was, it's a blessing he wants and even prepares to help others when without blame he could easily have gone another darker route. Seems he's thriving and growing up loved & nurtured with his new family 👪 💕 💖
@lamarw7757 yeah that was odd... A very close friend of my husband and I was murdered... The pos that did it took a plea deal, and even though we already knew what his sentence was going to be, we did victim impact statements before the sentencing... I've never seen it done this way before...
@@mrs_maverick1121.. from what I've seen here on zoom, it varies. Maybe it's from state but it might be from county to county or possibly it's even it's down to individual judges discretion
@@susanengel-ix8bl I pray that doesn't happen, but if you've ever watched other channels like, " The Misery Machine", you'll see that the CPS and Judicial systems are often either overwhelmed, negligent, indifferent or all of the above! It's a sad fact that known vulnerable children are often handed right back to the very MONSTERS who eventually take their lives! Sad but true. I'm not trying to initiate an argument but I'm just stating facts. 💜
@@susanengel-ix8blohhh idk. I live in housing and I have a lot of neighbors. Several of them are meth and/or heroin addicts. Abuse, even the KIDS testing positive for those substances... they were given back to their parents....
It brings tears to your eyes when you hear how this little boy's life has changed for the better. A mother is supposed to love, care for and protect their children. What a sick and terrible woman!
I just hope that in four years, she doesn’t get out and try and take that poor kid and siblings back and out of the wonderful environment he’s been able to flourish in. Happens a lot
This one made me cry because of the abuse this child suffered and the wonderful turnaround he’s making because of the kindness of the man who helped him through it. God Bless this little boy!
I did the same 22 years ago with a 8 month old toddler. Today he has a master degree in computer science and he is the most caring and loving person I could have. All I did was give him the opportunity and the counseling he needed.
Bless you! So glad it worked out so very well for you both. I’ve heard some can have almost insurmountable problems but you surely made a tremendous impact oh him. 🤍
Oh my dear, you gave him so much more than that. Your humbleness brings tears to my eyes. YOU are the person every child deserves. Blessing to you always.
@@purselmer5931 We have 2 adult children (boy 44 girl 42) have an adopted daughter and and the boy I spoke about. We have 6 grandchildren. All we gave them all was Loads of love rules and boundaries and many hours of chatting explaining what will happen if they make a wrong choice.
I hope the foster dad is allowed to adopt Ethan. Ethan's happy, and good nature has been allowed to flourish under his care. The story about the dollar was so beautiful.
It means he is obviously a single father. He will have to fill both rolls to nurture the child. Im sure he will be great. He seems like a gentle soul, and has love for the child.What did you want it to mean?
This is a great example of why terminating parenting rights and give the children a chance for adoption. I've personally seen many children go through this process, and the transformation is extraordinary
@@JohnSmith-fq7hj more than we could ever imagine. However, there are phenomenal adoptive, foster and temporary care providers/normal people for these children. Being a CPS Foster Case Manager broke my heart yet there were some beautiful endings/beginnings for these kiddos
@@AmyMassey-l1y yeah I know a family a white couple who fostered adopted probably 10-20 kids of all ethnicities they were real heros, took in multiple sets of siblings keeping them together but you hear alot of horror stories as well.
I was the victim of an abuser mother, out of all 7 of us she appeared to despise me and I was severely beaten by her, neglected, I had to wear boys underwear as she wouldn’t buy me any girl clothes … I often had physical injuries from her & no one stopped her! May this little boy continue find real love and happiness after this traumatic experience with a very loving foster dad xx
My mother was also abusive to me out of my siblings and made only me wear clothes of the opposite sex for years. I never understood that, still don’t. I’m sorry you suffered but thanks for sharing your story because I feel less alone.
@@readtheroom831 The clothing switch was to humiliate you. I had a similar childhood as yourself. Some people are just mentally ill or evil. Should lose the privilege of being able to reproduce.
So heartbreaking 😢 I never understood how a parent could love one child but despise another child?!?! I love my children equally, and I'd never hurt them. People are truly evil!!
Exactly. She should have gotten at least 10 years in prison. These lawyers sometimes go overboard with these plea bargaining agreements. However, if her fellow inmates find out what she’s done, she’s going to be in big trouble.
Judge Boyd looks closer to tears than I've ever seen her before, during the victim impact statement. She is such a great advocate for children who are abused. I just love her!
I love the fact that Judge Boyd offered her a Jury Trial that very day since she claimed she didn't abuse that poor child. Her face said it all...even before she said No to the offer.
@@amber13000 not in this one. I had to stop watching Judge Boyde after she accepted a plea deal giving probation to a man who murdered his own baby. Couldn’t abide by her judgement anymore.
@NikkiLovesYouLotsx oh wow. I didn't see that one. That's crazy, probation for murder! That's not right. This one, I think, after the mother started denying everything, she wasn't even going to attempt to question her. She knew she wouldn't get any answers out of her.
@@NikkiLovesYouLotsx omg, I can understand a lighter sentence in prison under certain circumstances that they need to bargain with a criminal but why on earth would probation ever be a plea deal for something that heinous? Do you remember which case it was? I just started watching these.
Im a single dad of two boys. One is epileptic and autistic. While his mom was still around (allowed to be with the kids) and babysitting while I was working years ago, he was having autistic related behavior issues such as not understanding what was being said to him, so his mother slapped him so hard his head bounced off the heating radiator next to the window and left a hand welt mark on his face that did not go away for nearly 5 days. My son, snuck a phone call to me and told me “mommy hit me really bad”, so I had my step mom go and get the kids. My step mom said when she got there to get the kids she had to fight every urge to “knock the crap outta her” once my step mom saw the welt and their mother tried to male an excuse that he “fell into her hand”. I called ACS, and began a custody case I eventually won full custody. It was maddening how much ACS still wanted the kids to stay with their mom, and I learned through my lawyer how NY no matter what always tries to have kids with their mothers. I eventually won, when their mother decided to cuss out the judge, and finally an ACS case worker, and the boys own attorney told the court the boys need to be with me. Women do this shit, because they think they can get away with it. Sadly many of them do, and the Dad’s get screwed. In my case I was lucky I won.
I pray this sadistic, cruel monster never gets her children back and they are placed with loving, caring families. It was marvellous to hear Ethan's carer and family have given him a loving and wonderful family who I hope will adopt him. God bless these sadisticaly abused children. Xxx❤❤❤❤
It does. I don't get it. The only thing that makes sense is that the daughter wasn't saying that the mother did it - that she's saying it was an accident she caused it. So the prosecutor seems to know (but no verbal proof), but I think she's going to jail more based on what she did to the boy. Maybe the daughter will recant at some point & tell the truth. I hope so.
Prison is not fun for anyone that hurts kids. Her life is going to be a living hell for the whole time. Also, abuse isn't treated as seriously as it should be in this country. It doesn't matter the type. The abuser gets a slap on the wrist and the victim gets lifelong trauma. Even when the victim dies that might not be enough to take them out of society permanently. Our leaders are so concerned with children being born, but not that children are loved or even wanted. They are easy targets and will continue to be so unless things start to change in a big and meaningful way and I just don't see that happening anytime soon.
the prosecutor didnt even push back on the motion for deferred- the prosecutor didnt even put on a show of caring- Dont give them credit for something they didnt do. Its pro crime TX, where no one cares about the kids, but everyone should have more, doesnt matter if they want them or will take care of them.
Notice that judge Boyd stopped everything she was doing to focus on listening to the victim impact statement. She gave the foster caregiver her complete attention. That is a model for ALL judges to follow.
Wrong… she was annoyed with the judges questions. You can look at her attitude and how her body language changes when the PSI was being read. She knew what was happening next.
I agree,her lawyer was like...How dare Judge Boyd speak to my client about the abuse she inflicted on her child,can't she see we are going to court to get her children back?@user-gs3wt2zm1o
No matter how annoying or disobedient a child is they still need nurturing, love and kindness, tenderness..these things work better than physical/mental abuse disguised as punishment for disappointing the parents.
I used to get children similar to this in my class . It is amazing once you show them you care how much they change. I loved being a daycare teacher because you’re allowed to give a hug and really care. My class , every year, was run like a family. Even the young children would say “ we don’t do that here” when one misbehaved. I feel so sorry for this boy, keep him with that man. He learning to thrive.
I grew up with an abusive mother. I’m 40 and haven’t talked to or seen her in years and I couldn’t be happier. She caused so much emotional and physical pain that I’m still healing from. I wish someone would have saved me from her when I was a child. I’ve always craved her praise even though I know I’ll never get it. I haven’t seen or talked to my siblings in over 10 years and rarely talk to my father. It hurts that I lost my entire family but I’m not going to subject my children to the same abuse I endured. I’m so thankful this little boy was saved. I hope he’s adopted by his loving foster family and he is able to know what unconditional love from a parent feels like.
I understand. I was subjected to horrible daily beatings and other abuse as a young man. You do the best you can but you can never completely overcome the damage. One overwhelming thing you can do is do your best not to be like them. I believe you have done that. and that is no small thing. Only those of us who have been there can understand. Thanks for breaking the cycle.
@@georgehollingsworth2428 I’m sorry you had to endure that. The hardest part is not having an extended family when things are hard or during the holidays but I’ll take that any day to live without abuse. Breaking the cycle is hard. I’m not a perfect parent but I do my best to ensure my children know they’re loved, respected and are treated equally (i was the punching bag but my siblings were and still are perfect in her eyes) Stay strong!!!! I wish there were more resources out there where people like us could come together. This would allow us to heal together and form meaningful, healthy bonds with people who truly understand the trauma. Just know that you aren’t alone and if you ever need to talk, I’m happy to give my you socials so we can connect. Sending you big hugs!!!! 💜
@dpofahl Thanks for everything. I have been asked by several people to write a book about my experiences in order to help others. Perhaps I will do so I am an old man and have no family left whatsoever as a consequence of what happened. If I might give you some advice make excellent and true friends. An old man once told me that You cannot choose your relatives but you can choose your friends" Truer words were never spoken
@@georgehollingsworth2428 I appreciate the advice, sir! I struggle with friendships because I still struggle to trust people. I have a couple close friends but they live 15 hours away (my husband retired from active duty a couple years ago). Please write that book!!!! I enjoy hearing how others have overcome the pain and emotions associated with childhood abuse. I think you could help a lot of people by sharing what you’re comfortable with and how you have overcame it.
I definitely understand and exactly why I have not spoken to either "parent" for decades. I do not have any siblings. While my "mother" never inflicted any abuse she knew what was going on and did nothing to stop it.
She won’t in female prison. 97% of prisoners are mothers. Almost all of them have neglected or abused their kids as well. Also prisoners do not know others charges
I glad this foster dad stepped up and became a positive force in this child's life. This child's life was saved and not just physically. I hope he is also receiving therapy.
This is the Texas judiciary, not the federal. There is a committee of Texas judges who write guidelines for all the judges in the state. In cases like this, proof beyond a reasonable doubt may not be possible; therefore, a trial probably won't accomplish anything. A plea bargain is better than nothing, sadly.
I just saw a guy get sentenced to 75 years for killing a police dog. It's unacceptable to kill and animal, of course, but honestly, 75 years for killing an animal but 4 years for torturing a child seems out of whack to me.
The judicial system does not run on feelings. If it did then THAT would be injustice. Remove feelings and look at facts. Without concrete proof, there stands a chance that she could get off with zero time served. Plea bargains are offered when the prosecution feels they don’t have a super strong case against the defendant.
The foster dad is awesome! I hope they adopt him. To hear the trauma he's gone through is heartbreaking. I hope he gets the healing he needs. I'm glad he wrote and read about so many of the wonderful things the boy has done since being away from that monster.
😭😭thank goodness there’s people like the lovely man who took this poor child in and has given him more love and kindness than his own mum, which is so sad and infuriating. I really hope CPS goes thru with their plans to cut her out of Ethans life, coz the last thing he needs is instability and the fear that he’ll be forced to keep seeing her. I hope Ethan has a long and happy life ahead of him🤞🤞thanks for posting these hearings for us🙏🏻🙏🏻much appreciation sent from Australia💜💜🇦🇺🇦🇺
Where was his family while his mother tortured him for 4 years? Nobody saw or heard anything? Why would CPS allow her visitation after it was discovered. This child was neglected by the system and extended family also.
@@jaykush1819 God bless you also Jay Kush... God created people with free will. As you see in today's world, Satan wants robots (A.I./neural links) to worship him (no free will). God protects children, like this boy. You have no idea what a horrible childhood does to people... some grow up to continue the horrors and others are incredibly grateful to God for His protection and blessings - like I was. Free will means you CHOOSE to love someone.
@@AServant-y2t you're in a cult. Seek help. God isn't real. Satan isn't real. There are good people who do good and bad people who will do bad. There's no fairy godfather omnipotent all know entity in the Skyland.
@@jaykush1819 I guess you don't believe in free will. God gave us free will to be able to choose goodness and life affirming actions, freely. If we weren't created with the ability to choose, and meant to be mere puppets, then there is literally no point to life.
The look on her face when the application for deffered adjudication was denied and she was sentenced to prison... she didn't see that coming and it friggin serves her right, just a shame it wasnt longer.
She’ll probably get them back. My ex best friend did 4 years in prison for severe abuse to her kids and lied about which kid when the police came but she still got them all back once she got out
@@sagthenaturalsiren5997- I doubt it. Too much publicity and DCFS wants a permanent home for the children so they will be adopted if the foster parents want it.
The dads speech has me tearing up at my desk. You can tell he loves this boy and is so patient with him. I pray nothing but the best for Ethan and his siblings.
Ms Boyd, as a woman, not Judge Boyd, how you managed not to shed a tear at the end i don't know. As rhe most passionate and caring judgment know that must have been hard. I agree, that man is a hero for reaching the boy. I wish them both an amazing life.
I work for CPS as an attorney - it’s horrible what we see and deal with on a daily basis…we keep it professional as much as possible in the court room but outside many tears are shed.
You can see the moment Judge Boyd is moved by the man's statement....she feels so much but must maintain her composure. I wish that little boy all the happiness and success.
Really can't understand why the Victim Impact Statement is read out after sentence is passed. In England it is read before sentence so the judge is fully aware of the full impact of the crime on the victims.
@@gigib8849 it seems totally irrelevant to do so afterwards, actually more of an insult to the victim than a positive thing, a chance to be heard. It's like them saying "We don't really care how you were affected so we're not going to take it into account but we'll let you say how it did to make it seem we do"
I think it's because she took the plea agreement.. if it was a jury trial, that's when the impact statement is read before the sentence is handed.... I think. I'm just going by cases I've seen where impact statement is read first it's usually when it's a jury trial. But I do agree.kinda pointless and hurtful to the victims and caregivers... With a plea agreement the agreement is just that.. they still allow the victims impact statement I guess out of "courtesy" though.
@@mariemarie3140 the judge does not have to follow any plea agreement so that would be more of a reason to hear the statement before. The agreement is made between the defence and prosecution without any input from the victim so allowing the victim to have their say before any decision is made seems more important in that case. At least in a trial they can convey a little of their feelings through testimony, although that is still limited as they only speak to fact during that process, the victim impact statement is still read after sentencing after trial. The whole thing is backwards.
This brought tears to my eyes because I am actually witnessing a good foster parent. You can tell this man is actually a truly good human being. God Bless Him!!!!!🙏🙏🧡🧡
I agree with your statement about under the jail. I'm glad she isn't going home but the poor boy will be hurt longer then 4 years. She can't be allowed to ever get them back. The impact statement has me in tears. Thank God for this family coming into his life
Did I miss something?? She IS in prison. Judge gave her 4 years no? Not long enough but she didn’t get to walk out let alone get the kids she tormented back. Judge Boyd looked disgusted with her too!
This is horrible so heartbreaking, poor little boy I wonder where his sister ended up, I hope it's a good place with nice people. The woman (can't call her the mom ) should be in prison for 30 years, long enough for them to make their own lives without any interference from her.
I can't bear to watch cases involving the abuse of children. This 'mother' should never be free. She doesn’t look the least bit repentant. That poor, beautiful boy. I hope he can stay with his new family and receives the help and nurture he deserves.
When Judge Boyd says “alright” in that tone, it’s not alright. Her poor lawyer could only look down. She knew her client was screwed. This woman actually had the nerve to be shocked she was going to jail. I hope she never gets those poor children back. A mother’s love🤨
She had a plea bargain (she made certain agreements for lighter sentence)so her sentence was already agreed on, of course if she didn’t take that then he would read it before sentencing to try to impact the sentence. (The prosecution would have him speak at that time) He would still be able to give a victim impact statement either way though.
This makes me cry, 💔poor kid! His foster father touch my heart with his testimony. I hope he get adopted by him and his family, the child has show that he has a big heart. Love is the only answer to humanity like the foster father shows to the child. The American Judge Boyd, is always right. Love from Sweden 💛💙
She thought she was going home. Evil woman.
The defendant was surprised by the jail sentence.
I think in Tx you can get parole after doing 25% of sentence. Might not apply to cases with violence.
Ikr.. lol. She looked so surprised. Down playing her abuse. So disgusting.
The look on her face as she was getting cuffed....but I have a hair appointment at 3pm,will I still be able to go?
🙌💯🙌💯 @@MoustacheRob
@@Scout686 I'm not sure because I've heard Judge Boyd say a cpl of times in different videos that is she sentences to prison that it is day by day. I really hope that's true for that b!tch. I can't stand anyone that abuses helpless children. They're a disgrace to the role of mother or father. I hope they terminate her rights & allow this man & his family to adopt this child. He seems like he is finally settled & happy.
This judge is beautiful inside and out.
I just gained custody of my stepchildren due to their mother abusing them. I am in absolute tears bc until you witness what abuse can do to a child, it doesn't really hit the same.
You're a stand up kind of person.
I wish the minimum was 10 years w/o parole.
This is absolutely heartbreaking. Thank God for people like this foster Dad. I have so much respect for Judge Boyd.
The mom should be thankful she only got 4 years, the family that has the lil boy will never know when and if things from his past will surface and set him back.
I wish she was the judge for my child's case. The judge is still willing to place her on supervised visitation with a counselor. Even though my daughter had told everyone that her father has SA her several times. It's sickening to see judges that don't put the child first.
This is so sad the little boy just wanted someone to show him love.She should have been put in prison for longer than what she got it's disgusting
She needs more than 4 years with no parole
She shouldn't be allowed to keep her kids.
I Love Judge Boyd!! Justice prevails!!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕God bless these people taking care of that little boy!!!
Serious question: do you all think that parenting/ anger management classes really work?
i used to say my mother was 'in charge of mean.' she beat us. she engaged in things i called 'catholic torture,' like being forced to kneel on dry rice for a long time. she even made me eat vomit once. people like that shouldnt have kids.
Sad tears turned to happy tears ❤
It's so weird seeing judges without their robes!
Mothers are the biggest threat to children
I love when Judge says "You want a jury trial❓️You CAN HAVE a jury trial. We HAVE a jury outside" 😂
Yes but... Shouldn't the attorneys have time to prepare?
Judge Boyd is the absolute last judge you want to stand before for a child abuse case. She is a champion for those whose voices are never heard. Judge Boyd you are a God send
Amen!
What’s that old thing that we used to say….”Word” Judge Boyd is awesome!
But because of comments she made on live stream you tube she was recused of 3 felony cases, because people watching made nasty comments about defense and offender. Boo Hoo. That was a shame.
@@maryanneausland4299 I agree 💯% with you. I believe Judge Boyd to be Tough but Fair! She's one of my favorites!! 💜
I stand with you and every word you said-Perfection! 🙏🏽😘
The lawyer mentioning the children not being hospitalized as a positive is disgraceful
I think the lawyer mentioned the hospital visit in order to make sure that the judge saw that it had occurred.
@@AC-SJoh… OHHHHHHHHHH
VOMIT MAKING
Honestly given the case what else can you argue for your client? If there was enough evidence that she had a chance of getting off she wouldve gone to trial
it’s disgusting
Bless that foster dad
loving for real.
I was full blown crying by the end of his statement. What a wonderful man and I’m so happy Ethan is healing. ❤️🩹 🙏 😢
Me too 😢 @@Citkatty186
@@Citkatty186 Little guy has defo found a lovin' & understanding family, Blessings to the child & his new family!
should be 40 years and never ever be able to be around children care babysit ect and or see her own children
Please don’t ever take him away from this man
I know, that is not the way it works sadly especially if a blood relative has a change of heart.
There is something strange with this foster father.
You have no idea who this guy is. His whole statement sounded more like a pat on his own back. Also, I don't agree w 2 men raising children together, which is exactly what would be happening w this guy.
@@VanillasteaGorlI know this is a leap but sort of predatorish
@@katiebeark If you get that from this I hope you're never around kids.
You can tell judge wanted to give her MUCH MUCH longer. The plea was disgusting. She should be under the jail
Those poor babies 😢
Do female prisoners punish child abusers,will she need protective custody?
@stephenstill1890 yes, the other prisoners absolutely will be out for blood if they find out what she's in for. Many of them are mothers who miss their own children.
yeah that's probably why the Judge was tempting her with a trial when she didn't want to agree that she had done damage to the child, because at a trial the jury would have easily maxed out the punishment.
why didnt she deny the plea then?
Judge Boyd’s voice and body language changes when she hears child abuse cases. She is angry, but maintains her professional demeanor. This lady should have gotten 15 years for this horrific abuse.
Four years is not enough time for child abuse
are you a judge?
@@arjanpetersen Are U ?
I agree. She made a plea deal
@@arjanpetersensad you don't sympathize with the poor lil ones who are children smh instead a monster who was supposed to be a mother who loves and protect her lil ones' Judge??? No!!! But the ultimate one who is Jesus Christ states " you'll know them by their fruits "!!!
@@Brandy-z9j ach shut up man. I didn't write anything like that. And off course I sympathize with the children. Are you some sort of psychopath? Off course I do.
She didn’t want a jury trial because she knew Judge Boyd was going to MAX her out indefinitely👏🏾
His foster Dad, or whoever he is, is a saint. That boy deserves a Dad like this.
The statement made me cry.
Me too and him taking extra stuff to share on trips is probably incase he comes across a child living similar to how he previously was, it's a blessing he wants and even prepares to help others when without blame he could easily have gone another darker route.
Seems he's thriving and growing up loved & nurtured with his new family 👪 💕 💖
Kind of stupid to do that after she was sentenced.
@lamarw7757 yeah that was odd... A very close friend of my husband and I was murdered... The pos that did it took a plea deal, and even though we already knew what his sentence was going to be, we did victim impact statements before the sentencing... I've never seen it done this way before...
@@mrs_maverick1121.. from what I've seen here on zoom, it varies. Maybe it's from state but it might be from county to county or possibly it's even it's down to individual judges discretion
Can this foster(?) dad get some MAJOR props? He is absolutely amazing
I don't get why she was sentenced then the impact report was read? That alone should have doubled whatever sentence
IF they put that boy back with his mother he will freak out and will be lost!! 🤬🤬
Or worse. He COULD die under her " care"!!!!!! This is so sad!!
I don't think that will happen.
@@susanengel-ix8bl you would be surprised if her parental rights haven't been terminated
@@susanengel-ix8bl I pray that doesn't happen, but if you've ever watched other channels like, " The Misery Machine", you'll see that the CPS and Judicial systems are often either overwhelmed, negligent, indifferent or all of the above! It's a sad fact that known vulnerable children are often handed right back to the very MONSTERS who eventually take their lives! Sad but true. I'm not trying to initiate an argument but I'm just stating facts. 💜
@@susanengel-ix8blohhh idk. I live in housing and I have a lot of neighbors. Several of them are meth and/or heroin addicts. Abuse, even the KIDS testing positive for those substances... they were given back to their parents....
It brings tears to your eyes when you hear how this little boy's life has changed for the better. A mother is supposed to love, care for and protect their children. What a sick and terrible woman!
I just hope that in four years, she doesn’t get out and try and take that poor kid and siblings back and out of the wonderful environment he’s been able to flourish in. Happens a lot
@@sarahsno215 or meet up with somebody else get pregnant and have more children
People who abuse their children are criminals they will never earn a title as a parent in our world
Brought tears to my eyes !
Well read ! I couldn’t have got through that . Struggled just listening to it .
This one made me cry because of the abuse this child suffered and the wonderful turnaround he’s making because of the kindness of the man who helped him through it. God Bless this little boy!
I did the same 22 years ago with a 8 month old toddler. Today he has a master degree in computer science and he is the most caring and loving person I could have. All I did was give him the opportunity and the counseling he needed.
Thank you for giving that boy the life he deserves. You have a very kind heart ❤️ 😊
Thank you for giving the young child the love, stability and core values he needed to grow and blossom into the young man he has become
Bless you! So glad it worked out so very well for you both. I’ve heard some can have almost insurmountable problems but you surely made a tremendous impact oh him. 🤍
Oh my dear, you gave him so much more than that. Your humbleness brings tears to my eyes. YOU are the person every child deserves. Blessing to you always.
@@purselmer5931 We have 2 adult children (boy 44 girl 42) have an adopted daughter and and the boy I spoke about. We have 6 grandchildren. All we gave them all was Loads of love rules and boundaries and many hours of chatting explaining what will happen if they make a wrong choice.
I hope the foster dad is allowed to adopt Ethan. Ethan's happy, and good nature has been allowed to flourish under his care. The story about the dollar was so beautiful.
Me too. He would make a good foster dad/mom!
@@cujopersico1120What the hell does that mean?
It means he is obviously a single father. He will have to fill both rolls to nurture the child. Im sure he will be great. He seems like a gentle soul, and has love for the child.What did you want it to mean?
@@Jimmy_WattGet help.
@@Jimmy_Watt ??
And she wants her kids back??? Good Lord! Thank you, Judge, for being that little boys advocate!
She only wants them back for the income from the state.
This is a great example of why terminating parenting rights and give the children a chance for adoption. I've personally seen many children go through this process, and the transformation is extraordinary
Yeeeessssssss!!!!!!
Yeah but how many end up being lost In the system and don't get lucky like this?
@@AngieS-j6i Every person I've ever known who was adopted out has serious mental issues.
@@JohnSmith-fq7hj more than we could ever imagine. However, there are phenomenal adoptive, foster and temporary care providers/normal people for these children. Being a CPS Foster Case Manager broke my heart yet there were some beautiful endings/beginnings for these kiddos
@@AmyMassey-l1y yeah I know a family a white couple who fostered adopted probably 10-20 kids of all ethnicities they were real heros, took in multiple sets of siblings keeping them together but you hear alot of horror stories as well.
That woman should be ashamed. She is definitely a monster. Children are a treasure. Thank you Judge Boyd for protecting him
She took zero accountability! This is the wrong Judge to play ring a round the Rosie with… especially when it comes to cases involving kids.
Honestly, if the judge's hands weren't tied because of laws, she'd definitely hand out more severe sentences to those that harm children..
🎯
I was the victim of an abuser mother, out of all 7 of us she appeared to despise me and I was severely beaten by her, neglected, I had to wear boys underwear as she wouldn’t buy me any girl clothes … I often had physical injuries from her & no one stopped her! May this little boy continue find real love and happiness after this traumatic experience with a very loving foster dad xx
My mother was also abusive to me out of my siblings and made only me wear clothes of the opposite sex for years. I never understood that, still don’t. I’m sorry you suffered but thanks for sharing your story because I feel less alone.
@@readtheroom831 The clothing switch was to humiliate you. I had a similar childhood as yourself. Some people are just mentally ill or evil. Should lose the privilege of being able to reproduce.
So heartbreaking 😢 I never understood how a parent could love one child but despise another child?!?! I love my children equally, and I'd never hurt them. People are truly evil!!
4 yrs for torturing children!? This is infuriating and wrong!
Exactly. She should have gotten at least 10 years in prison. These lawyers sometimes go overboard with these plea bargaining agreements. However, if her fellow inmates find out what she’s done, she’s going to be in big trouble.
@@nenblom Exactly, and the chances of this monster living to see another day are VERY slim!
@@nenblomshe will be moved to pc……sometimes they don’t find out until the newspaper gets in
@@michaelomalley592not true. Chris Watts and many other actual child murderers do fine in prison.
You do know she will be held in segregation while in prison. She will be held with other women who did the same thing and out of general population
Judge Boyd looks closer to tears than I've ever seen her before, during the victim impact statement. She is such a great advocate for children who are abused. I just love her!
Judge Boyd's face while the guardian (man) was reading about the changes in the child...
Yes she cares ❤❤❤
I love the fact that Judge Boyd offered her a Jury Trial that very day since she claimed she didn't abuse that poor child.
Her face said it all...even before she said No to the offer.
Stephanie Boyd is my Nextdoor neighbor
I don’t think they should let people who haven’t accepted responsibility for their actions, take a plea deal. They should have to go to trial.
Most courts make you stand there and explain the crime before pleading . I can’t believe she doesn’t
@Heavyisthecrown almost every single plea I have watch she makes them explain themselves.
@@amber13000 not in this one. I had to stop watching Judge Boyde after she accepted a plea deal giving probation to a man who murdered his own baby. Couldn’t abide by her judgement anymore.
@NikkiLovesYouLotsx oh wow. I didn't see that one. That's crazy, probation for murder! That's not right.
This one, I think, after the mother started denying everything, she wasn't even going to attempt to question her. She knew she wouldn't get any answers out of her.
@@NikkiLovesYouLotsx omg, I can understand a lighter sentence in prison under certain circumstances that they need to bargain with a criminal but why on earth would probation ever be a plea deal for something that heinous? Do you remember which case it was? I just started watching these.
Im a single dad of two boys. One is epileptic and autistic. While his mom was still around (allowed to be with the kids) and babysitting while I was working years ago, he was having autistic related behavior issues such as not understanding what was being said to him, so his mother slapped him so hard his head bounced off the heating radiator next to the window and left a hand welt mark on his face that did not go away for nearly 5 days. My son, snuck a phone call to me and told me “mommy hit me really bad”, so I had my step mom go and get the kids. My step mom said when she got there to get the kids she had to fight every urge to “knock the crap outta her” once my step mom saw the welt and their mother tried to male an excuse that he “fell into her hand”.
I called ACS, and began a custody case I eventually won full custody. It was maddening how much ACS still wanted the kids to stay with their mom, and I learned through my lawyer how NY no matter what always tries to have kids with their mothers. I eventually won, when their mother decided to cuss out the judge, and finally an ACS case worker, and the boys own attorney told the court the boys need to be with me.
Women do this shit, because they think they can get away with it. Sadly many of them do, and the Dad’s get screwed. In my case I was lucky I won.
Your boys were lucky you won.
That "impact statement " was truly heart breaking, no child should have to go thru that, she's evil at the core.
I pray this sadistic, cruel monster never gets her children back and they are placed with loving, caring families. It was marvellous to hear Ethan's carer and family have given him a loving and wonderful family who I hope will adopt him. God bless these sadisticaly abused children. Xxx❤❤❤❤
Four years for child abuse which includes burning her child with an iron? That seems awfully generous by the prosecutor.
It does. I don't get it. The only thing that makes sense is that the daughter wasn't saying that the mother did it - that she's saying it was an accident she caused it. So the prosecutor seems to know (but no verbal proof), but I think she's going to jail more based on what she did to the boy. Maybe the daughter will recant at some point & tell the truth. I hope so.
If you didn’t pay your taxes you’d get more time 😢
@@Heavyisthecrown priorities 🙂↕️
Prison is not fun for anyone that hurts kids. Her life is going to be a living hell for the whole time. Also, abuse isn't treated as seriously as it should be in this country. It doesn't matter the type. The abuser gets a slap on the wrist and the victim gets lifelong trauma. Even when the victim dies that might not be enough to take them out of society permanently. Our leaders are so concerned with children being born, but not that children are loved or even wanted. They are easy targets and will continue to be so unless things start to change in a big and meaningful way and I just don't see that happening anytime soon.
the prosecutor didnt even push back on the motion for deferred- the prosecutor didnt even put on a show of caring- Dont give them credit for something they didnt do. Its pro crime TX, where no one cares about the kids, but everyone should have more, doesnt matter if they want them or will take care of them.
Ok, that man has broken my heart. Crying at my desk. God bless this man for taking in this child.
Me too!!
Notice that judge Boyd stopped everything she was doing to focus on listening to the victim impact statement. She gave the foster caregiver her complete attention. That is a model for ALL judges to follow.
Her lawyer looks more disgusted at her than the judge listening to the abuse
This judge has one of the best poker faces in the business! She’s an emotionally intelligent woman.
Wrong… she was annoyed with the judges questions. You can look at her attitude and how her body language changes when the PSI was being read. She knew what was happening next.
Well she couldn’t stand any farther away from her client without stepping out of camera😂
She may look disgusted but it’s her asking for deferred adjudication.
I agree,her lawyer was like...How dare Judge Boyd speak to my client about the abuse she inflicted on her child,can't she see we are going to court to get her children back?@user-gs3wt2zm1o
No child should be treated like she treated her children. She deserved prison time. Those children deserve a safe good home.
There is no better judge in the country !
Judge Simpson
When it comes to our most vulnerable, Judge Boyd don't play.
While the mom is awful, that was a beautiful foster care story.
It put a lump in my throat..
Oh my heart. That foster dads speech was everything. Crying over here.
No matter how annoying or disobedient a child is they still need nurturing, love and kindness, tenderness..these things work better than physical/mental abuse disguised as punishment for disappointing the parents.
This!!!
I used to get children similar to this in my class . It is amazing once you show them you care how much they change. I loved being a daycare teacher because you’re allowed to give a hug and really care. My class , every year, was run like a family. Even the young children would say “ we don’t do that here” when one misbehaved. I feel so sorry for this boy, keep him with that man. He learning to thrive.
They need more nurturing when they’re acting like that!
I grew up with an abusive mother. I’m 40 and haven’t talked to or seen her in years and I couldn’t be happier. She caused so much emotional and physical pain that I’m still healing from. I wish someone would have saved me from her when I was a child. I’ve always craved her praise even though I know I’ll never get it. I haven’t seen or talked to my siblings in over 10 years and rarely talk to my father. It hurts that I lost my entire family but I’m not going to subject my children to the same abuse I endured. I’m so thankful this little boy was saved. I hope he’s adopted by his loving foster family and he is able to know what unconditional love from a parent feels like.
I understand. I was subjected to horrible daily beatings and other abuse as a young man. You do the best you can but you can never completely overcome the damage. One overwhelming thing you can do is do your best not to be like them. I believe you have done that. and that is no small thing.
Only those of us who have been there can understand. Thanks for breaking the cycle.
@@georgehollingsworth2428 I’m sorry you had to endure that. The hardest part is not having an extended family when things are hard or during the holidays but I’ll take that any day to live without abuse. Breaking the cycle is hard. I’m not a perfect parent but I do my best to ensure my children know they’re loved, respected and are treated equally (i was the punching bag but my siblings were and still are perfect in her eyes)
Stay strong!!!! I wish there were more resources out there where people like us could come together. This would allow us to heal together and form meaningful, healthy bonds with people who truly understand the trauma.
Just know that you aren’t alone and if you ever need to talk, I’m happy to give my you socials so we can connect. Sending you big hugs!!!! 💜
@dpofahl Thanks for everything. I have been asked by several people to write a book about my experiences in order to help others. Perhaps I will do so
I am an old man and have no family left whatsoever as a consequence of what happened. If I might give you some advice make excellent and true friends. An old man once told me that You cannot choose your relatives but you can choose your friends" Truer words were never spoken
@@georgehollingsworth2428 I appreciate the advice, sir! I struggle with friendships because I still struggle to trust people. I have a couple close friends but they live 15 hours away (my husband retired from active duty a couple years ago).
Please write that book!!!! I enjoy hearing how others have overcome the pain and emotions associated with childhood abuse. I think you could help a lot of people by sharing what you’re comfortable with and how you have overcame it.
I definitely understand and exactly why I have not spoken to either "parent" for decades. I do not have any siblings. While my "mother" never inflicted any abuse she knew what was going on and did nothing to stop it.
Dear God! I hope she gets "proper treatment " in prison.
She will she’s about to find out. There’s a special place in prison for people like this especially a mother
She won’t in female prison. 97% of prisoners are mothers. Almost all of them have neglected or abused their kids as well. Also prisoners do not know others charges
@@Heavyisthecrownoh she will! Prisoners will take care of her.
I’m CRYING 😭
I hope this little guy gets to continue to experience this love and happiness forever!
God bless this man that has helped this little boy have a better life.
I glad this foster dad stepped up and became a positive force in this child's life. This child's life was saved and not just physically. I hope he is also receiving therapy.
Children's services will rip that child from him and hand him back to that female that refers to herself as a mother..
That's what they do..
Plea bargain in this case is outrageous considering her crime is against children.
What is wrong with the US judiciary system???
This is the Texas judiciary, not the federal. There is a committee of Texas judges who write guidelines for all the judges in the state. In cases like this, proof beyond a reasonable doubt may not be possible; therefore, a trial probably won't accomplish anything. A plea bargain is better than nothing, sadly.
I just saw a guy get sentenced to 75 years for killing a police dog. It's unacceptable to kill and animal, of course, but honestly, 75 years for killing an animal but 4 years for torturing a child seems out of whack to me.
A tremendous amount is wrong with our judicial systems!
The judicial system does not run on feelings. If it did then THAT would be injustice. Remove feelings and look at facts. Without concrete proof, there stands a chance that she could get off with zero time served. Plea bargains are offered when the prosecution feels they don’t have a super strong case against the defendant.
@@Lokisdottir1964It is out of whack.
The foster dad is awesome! I hope they adopt him. To hear the trauma he's gone through is heartbreaking. I hope he gets the healing he needs. I'm glad he wrote and read about so many of the wonderful things the boy has done since being away from that monster.
They foster dad seems to be doing a wonderful job . Is he married though I never heard him mention anyone ealse except his parents.
😭😭thank goodness there’s people like the lovely man who took this poor child in and has given him more love and kindness than his own mum, which is so sad and infuriating. I really hope CPS goes thru with their plans to cut her out of Ethans life, coz the last thing he needs is instability and the fear that he’ll be forced to keep seeing her. I hope Ethan has a long and happy life ahead of him🤞🤞thanks for posting these hearings for us🙏🏻🙏🏻much appreciation sent from Australia💜💜🇦🇺🇦🇺
Where was his family while his mother tortured him for 4 years? Nobody saw or heard anything? Why would CPS allow her visitation after it was discovered. This child was neglected by the system and extended family also.
Reading about the boy made me cry. Thank you Judge Boyd for taking child abuse seriously. God bless you.
If there was a god to bless her, I would like to think he would have stepped in and stopped the child abuse before it ever got to where it is.
@@jaykush1819 God bless you also Jay Kush... God created people with free will. As you see in today's world, Satan wants robots (A.I./neural links) to worship him (no free will). God protects children, like this boy. You have no idea what a horrible childhood does to people... some grow up to continue the horrors and others are incredibly grateful to God for His protection and blessings - like I was. Free will means you CHOOSE to love someone.
@@AServant-y2t you're in a cult. Seek help.
God isn't real. Satan isn't real. There are good people who do good and bad people who will do bad. There's no fairy godfather omnipotent all know entity in the Skyland.
@@jaykush1819 I guess you don't believe in free will. God gave us free will to be able to choose goodness and life affirming actions, freely. If we weren't created with the ability to choose, and meant to be mere puppets, then there is literally no point to life.
Then again God can change hearts and minds. I wonder why he didn't change hers?
The look on her face when the application for deffered adjudication was denied and she was sentenced to prison... she didn't see that coming and it friggin serves her right, just a shame it wasnt longer.
I HOPE THAT ALL THE CHILDREN FIND GOOD HOMES AND ARE ADOPTED
Amen!!
I was wondering what is going to happen to the other children.
@@sandypenny- More than likely the same.....foster care until a permanent home is found.
She’ll probably get them back. My ex best friend did 4 years in prison for severe abuse to her kids and lied about which kid when the police came but she still got them all back once she got out
@@sagthenaturalsiren5997- I doubt it. Too much publicity and DCFS wants a permanent home for the children so they will be adopted if the foster parents want it.
The dads speech has me tearing up at my desk. You can tell he loves this boy and is so patient with him. I pray nothing but the best for Ethan and his siblings.
Thank goodness for the foster family!!!
When Judge Boyd took that last sip I knew her fate was sealed. 😂
Ms Boyd, as a woman, not Judge Boyd, how you managed not to shed a tear at the end i don't know. As rhe most passionate and caring judgment know that must have been hard. I agree, that man is a hero for reaching the boy. I wish them both an amazing life.
She looked like she was struggling to not cry. So was i
I gave up, my lip was wobbling at him giving the homeles man his dollar. That little lad will pay back every kindness hes been shown.@krisbarton646
I work for CPS as an attorney - it’s horrible what we see and deal with on a daily basis…we keep it professional as much as possible in the court room but outside many tears are shed.
his statement was loooong and drawn out, there’s something strange with foster father! I don’t like him at all…
You can see the moment Judge Boyd is moved by the man's statement....she feels so much but must maintain her composure. I wish that little boy all the happiness and success.
Poor kid. I find kids frustrating sometimes, but I cannot imagine thinking of doing anything like that.
Really can't understand why the Victim Impact Statement is read out after sentence is passed. In England it is read before sentence so the judge is fully aware of the full impact of the crime on the victims.
I was just thinking the same thing.
@@gigib8849 it seems totally irrelevant to do so afterwards, actually more of an insult to the victim than a positive thing, a chance to be heard. It's like them saying "We don't really care how you were affected so we're not going to take it into account but we'll let you say how it did to make it seem we do"
I think it's because she took the plea agreement.. if it was a jury trial, that's when the impact statement is read before the sentence is handed.... I think. I'm just going by cases I've seen where impact statement is read first it's usually when it's a jury trial. But I do agree.kinda pointless and hurtful to the victims and caregivers... With a plea agreement the agreement is just that.. they still allow the victims impact statement I guess out of "courtesy" though.
@@mariemarie3140 the judge does not have to follow any plea agreement so that would be more of a reason to hear the statement before. The agreement is made between the defence and prosecution without any input from the victim so allowing the victim to have their say before any decision is made seems more important in that case. At least in a trial they can convey a little of their feelings through testimony, although that is still limited as they only speak to fact during that process, the victim impact statement is still read after sentencing after trial. The whole thing is backwards.
In many states, the judge has already read it ahead of time. Reading it in court puts it into the official record.
I’m hoping that the moms in prison/jail will take care of this woman.
Thank goodness for decent foster parents. I hope this child goes on and thrives. Bless the Children!
Hot iron? WTF?
This brought tears to my eyes because I am actually witnessing a good foster parent. You can tell this man is actually a truly good human being. God Bless Him!!!!!🙏🙏🧡🧡
That victim impact statement is truly amazing! 🎉🎉 I really hope that wonderful family adopts Ethan. What happened to his siblings?
She came dressed like she was going home!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Her lawyer looks disgusted with her
I agree with your statement about under the jail. I'm glad she isn't going home but the poor boy will be hurt longer then 4 years. She can't be allowed to ever get them back. The impact statement has me in tears. Thank God for this family coming into his life
Judge looks adorable today!! Love the shirt.. I’ve never seen her without her robe! ❤
How despicable is this woman😡.Why isn't she in prison? I wouldn't let her near ANY children- let alone her own- EVER!😡😡
Did I miss something?? She IS in prison. Judge gave her 4 years no? Not long enough but she didn’t get to walk out let alone get the kids she tormented back. Judge Boyd looked disgusted with her too!
She is going to prison. Nobody goes to prison until they are convicted by a court which is what just happened
She speaks really good English. Judge Boyd is the perfect Judge for this case. Thank you Judge Boyd, you saw right through this person!!
This is horrible so heartbreaking, poor little boy I wonder where his sister ended up, I hope it's a good place with nice people. The woman (can't call her the mom ) should be in prison for 30 years, long enough for them to make their own lives without any interference from her.
Bless those children.
I love judge Boyd’s hair color and style.
It's a wig, right
@@rickarra1833no it’s her hair
@@Utriedit215 you sure
I can't bear to watch cases involving the abuse of children. This 'mother' should never be free. She doesn’t look the least bit repentant. That poor, beautiful boy. I hope he can stay with his new family and receives the help and nurture he deserves.
When Judge Boyd says “alright” in that tone, it’s not alright. Her poor lawyer could only look down. She knew her client was screwed. This woman actually had the nerve to be shocked she was going to jail. I hope she never gets those poor children back. A mother’s love🤨
8:14 the look she gives her attorney says, "you told me I was going home."
Judge Boyd holding strong. I can tell she’s trying not to break down crying.
The fact the state is not opposing deferred adjudication is disgraceful. Absolutely sickening
Why are victim impact statements read after the defendant is already sentenced?
She had a plea bargain (she made certain agreements for lighter sentence)so her sentence was already agreed on, of course if she didn’t take that then he would read it before sentencing to try to impact the sentence. (The prosecution would have him speak at that time) He would still be able to give a victim impact statement either way though.
People need to do better...children need to be protected.
She thought she was going to skate. Not with Judge Boyd.
Here comes the Bailiff!
This makes me cry, 💔poor kid! His foster father touch my heart with his testimony. I hope he get adopted by him and his family, the child has show that he has a big heart. Love is the only answer to humanity like the foster father shows to the child. The American Judge Boyd, is always right. Love from Sweden 💛💙
First time I have seen Judge Boyd without her robe.
Oh my gosh . S he should never have her kids back. She was shocked about going to jail too.