5 Decluttering Mistakes To Avoid | How Not To Declutter [Minimalism Series]

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  • Опубликовано: 6 фев 2019
  • In this video I am share 5 decluttering mistakes you should avoid.
    So far on my journey I’ve decluttered A LOT in all aspects of my life and throughout this process, I've figured out the best decluttering techniques that work for me. However, I've also made some mistakes along the way and I want to make sure you don't follow in my footsteps and make the same ones!
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Комментарии • 236

  • @RonaldLBanks
    @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +33

    Looking back, what decluttering mistakes have you made on your journey?

    • @randomyoutubeperson6954
      @randomyoutubeperson6954 5 лет назад +11

      Ronald L. Banks I definitely tried the doing everything at once and tackling the whole house at once instead of focusing on a room at a time. I’m a very driven person so with that comes impatience and I had to take a step back and realise trying to get it all done in a month was for me unrealistic.

    • @kandacenoire
      @kandacenoire 5 лет назад +10

      Def everything at once. Too much decision fatigue. It helps me to remove those things not just section them into sell/give etc off and leave them. I also think it’s important to come up with a theme/goal. I def have a uniform so clothes are easy. But books and cosmetics and “I’ll read or use this one day” things are really hard. Like I have a pot with a v dead plant in it. I’m the type who will need a deadline to get a new plant or I’ll have to force myself to get rid of my very beautiful, albeit ikea, pot. I also tell myself with sentimental things that the people who gave me them would want me happy more than they’d want me stuck with it. Like photos. I threw out out all of my moms photos of people I didn’t recognize or care about lol I took pictures of yearbooks and threw them away. Sent pictures of friends to them. Took pictures of cards.

    • @patriciamuszynski1328
      @patriciamuszynski1328 5 лет назад +11

      Not de-cluttering before moving :( I've moved 4 times in the last 3 years and I really wished I saved myself a lot of hassle and time de-cluttering before moving the 1st time.

    • @ourtravelingzoo3740
      @ourtravelingzoo3740 5 лет назад +7

      Trying to declutter someone else’s belongings. It doesn’t work. Stuck to your own items and let your spouse whatever do theirs in their own timing. If you don’t it will bite you in the hiney

    • @ShiningStar-vx6jw
      @ShiningStar-vx6jw 5 лет назад +1

      Mine were all that you mentioned! 😄😒😒😣

  • @myvideosforihg3406
    @myvideosforihg3406 5 лет назад +404

    I love how “uncluttered” your videos are!! No intro or background music, no distracting graphics. You just jump right in and get to the point. Love it!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +38

      You’re welcome I’m glad you’re enjoying my videos. I always want to make sure I give you the value you expect when you click on the video

    • @LynnVids1
      @LynnVids1 5 лет назад +9

      I love the "unclutter" too! So many youtubers have annoying music competing with their message so that often you can't catch all the words, and/or long intros that become more tedious to listen through with every additional video you watch.

    • @mariachristine1659
      @mariachristine1659 5 лет назад +1

      Me too!

    • @renupunjabi9482
      @renupunjabi9482 3 года назад +1

      👍👍

  • @Earthslittlesecrets
    @Earthslittlesecrets 5 лет назад +103

    As I get older, I love throwing away stuff. 😂 I love helping people declutter.

    • @Earthslittlesecrets
      @Earthslittlesecrets 5 лет назад +1

      Emma Watson Thank you!

    • @barbaramurphy1337
      @barbaramurphy1337 4 года назад +2

      Me too! I love to see the final product when done!

    • @__4lara833
      @__4lara833 4 года назад +1

      you can also help people in need at the same time if you donate your stuff ❤

    • @Garebear85
      @Garebear85 3 года назад +1

      It might be my favorite activity 🤣 - If I could get paid to help people declutter and organize, it'd be a dream life.

    • @dgh5223
      @dgh5223 3 года назад

      Its easy to get rid of other peoples stuff than your own stuff though.

  • @chelsearuiz9239
    @chelsearuiz9239 5 лет назад +119

    A decluttering mistake I’ve made that I wish I didn’t was buying organizational items such as dividers for the drawers and boxes. When in the long run I decluttered so much that all that organizational stuff just became useless and donated that anyways! Great video Ron!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +5

      Hey I’m really happy you enjoyed it Chelsea! I use to have a lot of storage containers also so I can definitely relate!

    • @IndigoAwakener
      @IndigoAwakener 5 лет назад +5

      Agree, I have returned all this stuff to store. What little I have left all came from the dollar store. :)

    • @nanny8675309
      @nanny8675309 4 года назад

      Along with a minimalist lifestyle I’ve also tried to adopt a lower waist lifestyle and if you do need or desire organizational items what I’ve learned from Marie Kondo is, shoeboxes or jewelry boxes and things like that work just as well especially after you declutter because you need so little. 

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 2 года назад

      I hate all those decluttering videos where they have huge spaces (huge kitchen with plenty of cabinets) and store bought containers from the expensive Containers Store.

  • @belssage
    @belssage 5 лет назад +21

    My lack of honesty with myself tripped me up and prolonged the process.

  • @Nickholast
    @Nickholast 4 года назад +7

    1.- Try to organize before you declutter
    2.- Try to organize declutter everything at once
    3.- Striving to perfection
    4.- Create emotional attachment on an item
    5.- Not having a creal vision and an understanding of why you decided to declutter

  • @georgiannmaloney6594
    @georgiannmaloney6594 5 лет назад +47

    Hi there. A big mistake is offering stuff to others who want the item, but don't want to pick it up...or just don't come and pick it up. Well, I call and give them a date and if I get rid of the item they get mad at me. Another thing is to talk about something that I have gotten rid of and they say, well I wanted that. Well now I just donate to places that I like and do good things and just don't offer it to an individual anymore. Oh well, works for me. Have a great weekend.

    • @annaignatochkina3438
      @annaignatochkina3438 4 года назад +2

      Georgiann Maloney Yes, the same happens with me all time

    • @SUNROSE7878
      @SUNROSE7878 4 года назад +4

      Yes, that failing to pick up the item is so annoying. Rarely when I do give an item to someone, I place it by my front door so I have to pass it to go in and out. I call the person, offer it with a time frame: 1 week, 10 days (even that is too long) I put the exit date on a piece of paper, on the item, if I don't hear from them, out it goes. But I am moving more towards your idea of just donating it and don't bother to mention it.

  • @treaver17
    @treaver17 4 года назад +2

    You are wise beyond your years. The length of your videos are a great length. This white 52 years woman thinks your tips are great and easy to adopt. Thank you so much you are awesome!

  • @amyroberts
    @amyroberts 5 лет назад +47

    One of the most underrated minimalism youtubers out there! I just found your videos and have been binge watching them all. The quality and content is consistently superb! Excited to see what's to come for you in the future!

  • @MsSassyMT
    @MsSassyMT 5 лет назад +40

    I agree that trying to declutter everything at once is a mistake. I tried that with my clothes and I was completely overwhelmed. Now I declutter as I go. I put a bin in my closet and when I come across something that I haven't worn and know that I won't be wearing it, it goes in the bin.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      That's smart MsSassyMT! My girlfriend and I do something very similar to this but with an extra large garage bag. Every time we fill it up and take it to Goodwill, it looks like we're moving out our apartment haha! Keep growing, I'm happy to see that you're making progress!

    • @sunrae7680
      @sunrae7680 5 лет назад

      Hi. The bin is a great idea. I'm gonna steal it. Thank you 😊

    • @christinemason2938
      @christinemason2938 5 лет назад +1

      MsSassyMT that’s the same problem I have in my closet as well and the same solution. Taking that first step to declutter was essential to get me thinking about ridding myself of unused and unneeded clothes.

    • @keksliebe5832
      @keksliebe5832 4 года назад

      niceee

  • @mphil66
    @mphil66 3 года назад +4

    I personally found easier to declutter by category; took ALL the clothes in the entire house, then books, then cups etc. I needed to see everything at once, it was easier to make decisions and more efficient for me. Like you said, we all have our own method that works best for us, and that’s perfect! 😊

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  3 года назад +1

      I like how you decided to break your space down into those categories! Keep growing and learning!

    • @danildasoto1364
      @danildasoto1364 Год назад

      This is a great idea 💡

  • @OlufsWaterview
    @OlufsWaterview 5 лет назад +34

    Man idk why your vids popped up in my suggested but I've watched a few and now subscribed. Great work I like what you're doing here. Keep it up.

  • @christineo8510
    @christineo8510 5 лет назад +23

    I have the problem with storage containers...I just kept buying and storing stuff...I'm still de-cluttering but its a really slow process because I accumulated a lot of stuff!!!

  • @IndigoAwakener
    @IndigoAwakener 5 лет назад +21

    I have the Why, I have the Vision, what I don't have is enough time and energy to get it all done as quickly as I want to. My mind is Light years ahead of my actuality in decluttering, so when you say don't try and do everything at once- it is TRUE. I am slowly learning to take one project at a time, and not get too upset when things take longer than I think they should. I am learning celebrate every victory. The other thing I am learning is that once an area is initially decluttered, one must really be vigilant against clutter "creep". I cannot WAIT for the entire house to be DONE- 18 years of clutter, collection, kids and life. My living room and foyer echo now- I am making good progress. :)

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +2

      I love seeing you excited about your progress.. that makes me excited! You’re absolutely right about celebrating every victory. It keeps you motivated and encouraged to keep going. Thanks for sharing your journey.. I’m happy and excited for you!

    • @SUNROSE7878
      @SUNROSE7878 4 года назад +2

      Ahh, the ECHO sound, the sweetest ringing you will ever hear!! I love it.

    • @samsexyish
      @samsexyish 3 года назад

      you are the first person to really explain how i feel! thank you for the tips!

  • @marydaniels
    @marydaniels 5 лет назад +9

    My mother taught me.. In her 80's she..meaning WE.. moved 86 UN-opened boxes from old to new house.. She was very sentimental, but it caused serious clutter..

  • @Lena-mj3kr
    @Lena-mj3kr 3 года назад +2

    I learn to regularly declutter since every year I'm moving out to new place and having less stuff makes the whole process easier 👍

  • @kellypatterson9456
    @kellypatterson9456 5 лет назад +15

    I couldn't wait to have a fully stocked house. You need tape? What kind? I had it! A nail! No problem! I had all kinds. All kinds of 'just in case stuff' was ready for use! But therein lied the problem. When I moved into an apartment the 'stuff' had to find a new home.

  • @LadyTracyOfTheDisk
    @LadyTracyOfTheDisk 5 лет назад +27

    I think it's possible to arrive at a place of perfection FOR YOU, for your needs and tastes, where you have no excess, something only you can define. It will of course be temporary, because your needs will change over time, but I think it can be done.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +3

      I can agree with that Tracy! We all have very unique tastes and lifestyles so of course we can reach of place of perfection for us individually. I think the issue comes in when we’re trying to look and/or live like someone else. We look at what they have as “perfect” and we lose sight of our own journey because of that. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Keep growing on your journey!!

  • @HeronCoyote1234
    @HeronCoyote1234 5 лет назад +10

    Great tips, but the last one is my favorite. My “why” is “clutter stresses me out”. My widowed dad was a packrat/hoarder/Depression era child. Every day caring for him in his home (13 yrs) was very stressful for me; one reason was the clutter and his refusal to let me get rid of anything. I don’t know how my mom handled it for 50 yrs.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      Having that “why” will help you stay on track Curlieq55. Keep growing and come back to that why if you have to when you feel stuck.

  • @ijohnson81
    @ijohnson81 5 лет назад +7

    Having a lot of stuff is expensive! I am paying every month to store stuff because my current living space is too small to accommodate all of my furniture and belongings. I am looking for a larger home but don’t want to drag along 60% of what’s in storage. So, I need to lighten the load. I’m working hard to keep a positive frame of mind and not let depression or too much stress creep in because that’s when I shop impulsively, adding a lot of new stuff to the mix. Depression is my trigger. Maybe others who have suffered from chronic pain can attest to dealing with the same issue and offer something that will help.

  • @thebarky1988
    @thebarky1988 5 лет назад +18

    Organized stuff is still stuff. And I noticed when I organize the process isn’t complete. It has to be reorganized. I also find that pulling everything out it so overwhelming that I get exhausted and just put it back..... I really enjoy your channel and I watch several different ones. I appreciate the fact you don’t have a set of rules to follow but you focus on the journey of minimalism. Thank you.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      Yes that’s why I’m always encouraging those watching to “stay true to you.” Minimalism doesn’t have a rule book and it looks different for all of us. We all have unique journeys with the same goal! To reach an intentional life with less that we’re happy with.

  • @jent.6622
    @jent.6622 5 лет назад +5

    I held on to notes and school work from my daughter who is now 27 years old. I am finally decluttering those items and asking her if she wants any of them.

  • @KatieCottingham
    @KatieCottingham 3 года назад +1

    Yours is the first video of this kind that didn't make me feel horrible. It's always been one of two types of videos: 1) person with enough wealth to replace things so they joyously talk about donating things in huge quantities, while acknowledging they can just go buy another if needed in two weeks, or 2) the people who think a messy, cluttered life makes you a bad person or just stupid, the people that just seem interested in the organizing/decluttering category to judge others and make themselves feel superior.
    Coming from a non clinical perspective, this was probably the best advice I've heard outside of therapy because it supports what clinicians try to teach and guide you towards. Ultimately, excess things will always be hard for me because I don't think I'll ever get beyond the fear of the numerous "what if" scenarios I've actually been forced to survive. But getting life to a manageable place is the goal. Being ready for my next move is the next goal. The details of what those two goals entail will probably take the whole of the year, but I'm ready for that.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  3 года назад

      I’m excited for you and your journey ahead Katie! I’m glad my content is resonating with you and helping you. I hope you continue to find value in it! Keep growing and learning!!

  • @sunrae7680
    @sunrae7680 5 лет назад +7

    Still in the process of decluttering. Sending these notes actually helps me with it. Mine will not look like others. I love color, plants (clean air) and my cooking equipment that I do use, for healthy eating. Understanding that this is lifelong work. 😊

  • @RealStAndrews
    @RealStAndrews 4 года назад

    Pure gold in the statement declutter first before organising!

  • @LibbyRoseEmbroidery
    @LibbyRoseEmbroidery 3 года назад +1

    Very sensible. I sometimes wonder if a number of those who strive for the 'perfect' asthetic actually like and want it, or are just thinking they 'should, 'cos it's minimalist'.

  • @saranox7319
    @saranox7319 5 лет назад +7

    I've been encouraging my father to declutter the house and helping him to do so gradually.
    Yesterday he said how good it feels to put a decicion on what he wants do deal with and spend his time on and what not, getting that clarity. x)
    I LOVE that your videos are always to the point. :)

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      That’s awesome that you’re helping your dad Sara! I hope that you both continue to grow and learn more on your journeys!

  • @vegancookie151
    @vegancookie151 5 лет назад +5

    My space is pretty minimal. I just have a little much personal decoration like pictures. But it makes my space feel like home and comfy and i love that. I have fairylights and plants to cover my big walls and pictures of my family and pets

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +3

      I love how you're still managing to keep your space feeling like you. That's super important and you should never give that up! Keep growing vegan cookie!

  • @SUNROSE7878
    @SUNROSE7878 4 года назад +3

    Thank you, Ron, as always, most clarifying and straight to the point.
    Part of my 'why' to declutter is, looking at all this stuff in my apartment makes my mind too busy, my attention too scattered. Much of what I have are gifts, free items, impulse purchases from long ago. You know it is bad when you go along in a thrift store and you linger around items that you either already have at home or you donated someplace else. Whoa!
    Another reason I want to declutter, then organize is I have to go through too many things when I want to do a project or activity. I want things at 'arm length away'. I get tired mentally just thinking about gathering the parts. No, it doesn't have to look museum installation empty but the effort put forth to start is tiring to say the least.
    I will go over my whys first. I will review my work table, and why I like it. How I can make it more convenient for set up and clean up of a project. How I can enjoy my living space more.
    I once had an apartment that was so small it wasn't a studio, it was a box. But I learned to think ergonomically, purposefully and conveniently. There was no unnecessary items, yet it was pleasing and decorative to my liking. I am going back to that energy, mindset and focus so I too can enjoy my space, life, and mind.
    As always, thank you for posting.

  • @user-sq1gk3fr4i
    @user-sq1gk3fr4i 5 лет назад +14

    Relate clearly to what you
    mentioned Ron. Great input.
    Best to declutter bit by bit as
    it creates less stress also gives us time to reflect on something.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      Exactly!! This journey is also about eliminating stress so why do we want be stressed out while decluttering! Keep growing H FS!

  • @sandybeach368
    @sandybeach368 5 лет назад +36

    nice to hear from a man's perspective

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      Hey I’m really glad you enjoyed it!!

  • @staceyanderson8916
    @staceyanderson8916 4 года назад +1

    Your upbeat voice soothes me.

  • @michaelconnolly7681
    @michaelconnolly7681 3 года назад +1

    Excellent video. For me personally I had crystal clear reasons why I wanted to declutter. I had too much stuff and I didn't need most of it. Things then did take care of itself. I still have sentimental items that I find difficult to declutter.

  • @TheLadynecromancer
    @TheLadynecromancer 5 лет назад +3

    I'm decluttering the whole apartment. As I pack to move if i don't like it or use it anymore it goes in another box. If by the end of this week long move I don't get it out I'll pack to go to my grandmothers to sell in the large family garage sale my family does every spring anything left I will donate. Hopefully the sell will offset moving costs. I'm watching all your videos on minimalism so I can start a new path when we get to our new home. Hopefully I can have more time with my toddler vs cleaning or tripping over messes.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      This is great! I’m really excited for you and this new journey you’re starting. You’ll learn so much about yourself along the way. Good luck with the move as well, I hope it all goes as smoothly as possible!

  • @noahlondon8005
    @noahlondon8005 5 лет назад +5

    Just found your channel. From one minimalist to another...good tips, Bruh ;-)

  • @angelfernandez6804
    @angelfernandez6804 5 лет назад +8

    I really liked your 3 point. It was honest and deep. Keep up the good work a d good luck on your journey through life.
    Peace.

  • @megor7866
    @megor7866 3 года назад

    Omg I've done all these mistakes im here laughing at the ironic fellung im having. Im so grateful for you and your videos. You are making a difference, thank you

  • @randomyoutubeperson6954
    @randomyoutubeperson6954 5 лет назад +6

    Fantastic Video! My ‘why’ was because I wanted control of my possessions and not the other way around: however (a year later on this journey) I discovered so many more reasons why I am doing this! So therapeutic for the mind body and soul!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +2

      It is very therapeutic Kas, you’re absolutely right about that. You learn so much about yourself and your core values in life!

    • @iamsadeashley
      @iamsadeashley 5 лет назад

      Kas lol I looked at the pillow too! but yes there is a case!

  • @keneilwejanerikhotso6940
    @keneilwejanerikhotso6940 4 года назад +1

    I’m from South Africa and I genuinely genuinely love your videos.
    I’ve been bingeing for a while now.
    I really like how you are straight to the point without too much overwhelming cinematic and “nonsense” talk.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  4 года назад

      Thank you NeyNey! I’m really happy that you’re enjoying my channel. I hope it continues to help you. Keep growing!

  • @krithika1810
    @krithika1810 3 года назад

    3rd point is so apt. The magazine level minimalism !! Great videos !!

  • @darcy4522
    @darcy4522 5 лет назад +3

    Found it hard at first letting things go but now I feel loads better. My house feels like a home again. Enjoyed watching. Xx

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      I’m happy to see that you’re enjoying your journey Darcy. That’s so important! Keep growing! I’m also glad that you enjoyed it, thank you!

  • @bisiilki
    @bisiilki 5 лет назад +1

    Im binging your videos. Your voice is so nice and calming! Thanks!

  • @byDsign
    @byDsign 5 лет назад +3

    Whew Lawd! I subscribed to your channel in 'da nick o' time!
    Found your channel after taking a 2-part webinar on Decluttering.
    After 35 years in my home, I'm overwhelmed with its upkeep. I need to downsize.
    I'm not sure if I even want to stay here anymore but I surely couldn't move with all this "stuff!"

  • @mandybocek2221
    @mandybocek2221 4 года назад +1

    Ty for the inspiration, it is much appreciated. Having 3 kids, a dog and 2 kittens makes it more of a challenge but I want this to go into the next generation more than for the present. Not striving for perfection and how we are all unique is just what I needed to hear.

  • @rebeccahale322
    @rebeccahale322 5 лет назад +7

    I really enjoy watching you.. Great practical, useful advice.. Very nice personality..

  • @fariqyosman
    @fariqyosman 4 года назад

    This is in fact a very helpful video. I love how you compared expectations with realities when it comes to minimalism. Awesome videos!

  • @sandraozio2872
    @sandraozio2872 5 лет назад +17

    I have a clutter-free home right now but I still struggle with mistake #3: the perfect state of minimalism, mainly in terms of design. I wish I had less furniture (even having sold a lot of it over the past 3 years lol). I have many empty spaces in my cabinets right now but getting rid of them is not the case, I just can't sell them just to spend money on new and smaller ones. Therefore, getting used to empty spaces is another challenge for me.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +2

      Yes getting use to empty space is definitely a challenge for me also Sandra! Adjusting to it though! Keep growing.. I can tell you’ve made a ton of progress!

    • @trinam2503
      @trinam2503 5 лет назад +2

      I have been taking down the upper cabinets in my kitchen as they become empty. I love how much bigger the kitchen looks! And if the cabinets arent there, they cant refill. I will be putting up an open shelf for my plates, cups, bowls, and placing a few plants on it as well to discourage clutter. That wall is very long, so if it looks to empty, I will put up a few framed pieces of my daughters art or a couple placemat size mini quilts.

  • @normabarros3124
    @normabarros3124 5 лет назад +2

    I never thought about this ...wow makes sense , I was going to buy some new curtains and everything
    I'm going to wait and declutter first

  • @fullmoon5971
    @fullmoon5971 3 года назад +1

    Ron, very good & practical ideas. Thank you for sharing & expressing the ideas clearly. Love the videos.

  • @lilred7943
    @lilred7943 4 года назад +2

    I wished I saw this video first. Now I have a mess inside my room and it’s overwhelming. Lesson learned.

  • @MIGSBookshelf
    @MIGSBookshelf 5 лет назад +2

    I really enjoy your videos. Can't wait for more. Just subscribed ❤

  • @9latinumStudioz
    @9latinumStudioz Год назад

    1$t tip is priceless 👌✨ I was going to get rid of stuff but then realized I have it if I decluttered 🤙 to make way for my collections (gaming & movies)

  • @keyboardrunner
    @keyboardrunner 4 года назад +2

    Ronald for president

  • @martininflorida8940
    @martininflorida8940 5 лет назад

    Really enjoy your videos. Thank you for these.

  • @cleotighe4532
    @cleotighe4532 4 года назад

    So helpful! Love your videos

  • @pamelap.123
    @pamelap.123 5 лет назад

    New sub- Enjoy your content and especially your articulate style of delivery! I won't ever be a minimalist but hope to achieve more "neat and clean and can find everything".

  • @sherryespiritu1364
    @sherryespiritu1364 3 года назад +1

    What a blessing to find your channel. I had no idea others felt the way I do about minimalism... I didn’t really know it was a “thing”! Now to digest all these amazing videos!! #subscribed

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  3 года назад

      Welcome to the community Sherry! I’m happy you found me and are enjoying my content.

  • @willowstream
    @willowstream 3 года назад

    First of all, you're a good soul. That really comes across in your videos.
    Iv'e been decluttering on and off. I let the process have it's own life. No rush, no vision, no particular goal. I went through my clothing and gave away what I didn't really need. I went through my books and only kept the most essential to me. I have a few collections of things that still have my interest and attention. I'm comfortable with that, for now. I have some framed art that I love, that has meaning to me.
    I'm not interested in emulating what minimalism is "supposed" to look like. I'll be fine with my version of minimalism if and when I arrive there. In the meantime I'm allowing things to go away as they will, when the feeling is right.

  • @CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife
    @CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife 5 лет назад +2

    Absolutely agree with trying your make your space mimic others.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      This is exactly why I say "stay true to you" at the end of all of my videos. We should always do so on our individual journeys.

    • @CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife
      @CPR4THEBODYlivingaenrichedlife 5 лет назад

      @@RonaldLBanks I appreciate ur journey and all that u share!!

  • @prayerworks61
    @prayerworks61 5 лет назад +1

    You are so right. Thank you so much for this video.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      You’re welcome Kathleen, I’m glad you liked it!

  • @darkwolf9253
    @darkwolf9253 4 года назад +1

    Your's is one of the better channels on Minimalism.

  • @NickStAmant-xm3su
    @NickStAmant-xm3su 5 лет назад

    Excellent advice for beginning de-clutterers. But if you're serious than just this video, as excellent as it is.

  • @catsforever3999
    @catsforever3999 4 года назад

    Love it thanks for the information

  • @thebarky1988
    @thebarky1988 5 лет назад +3

    My biggest decluttering mistake was becoming overly attached to items that have some kind of sentimental value. This includes clothes , items from my kids., gifts people bought me. Once I determined how to deal with them I was able to finally declutter.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      That’s a big one! You have to detach yourself emotionally from items you know you don’t really need. It makes letting go so much easier!

    • @trinam2503
      @trinam2503 5 лет назад

      I have a whole tote of blankets I would to bless someone else with. But they were gifts, mostly handmade, from family members. Who are still alive and very sentimental. And who's feelings would be beyond hurt if they knew I got rid of something they made me. A few months ago, we moved 10hrs away. But they will be visiting and expect to see these blankets. They dont understand our mimimalism journey at all. They think we are crazy. We have convinced them to buy less things for our daughter. And to at least loosly stick to a list for bdays and holidays. But things they gave us before we started are an emotional problem. Right now my solution is to place them our storage room except for visits. But I dont want the storage room full of emotional clutter for the next 10-20yrs either.

  • @pearl9831
    @pearl9831 5 лет назад +10

    Wow this sweaters suits u sooo much! : )

  • @lynncrum
    @lynncrum 5 лет назад +6

    I love your channel. You have helped so much on my journey to minimalism. Do you have a home/apt tour? I would love to see how you live. Thank you for all you do and please continue to inspire us.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      I have not film an apartment tour yet, but it’s on my list! I’m really happy that I inspire you and have helped you on your journey! That’s my goal! Keep growing Lynn!!

  • @skinfitnesswarrior7025
    @skinfitnesswarrior7025 5 лет назад

    Awesome advice!!

  • @docsanti8971
    @docsanti8971 5 лет назад

    Great advice, thank you

  • @denisekiser9925
    @denisekiser9925 5 лет назад +1

    I like your minimalism approach because some videos blow my mind and I think I will never get to that, but yours made me feel better.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      I know what you mean, but I think it’s important that we remember that our individual journeys are going to look different when compared to someone else’s. Which is why we should never compare them. I’m sure you’re making a ton of progress on your journey Denise, especially when you look back at where you personally started. Keep that in mind. Keep growing!

  • @courtney5194
    @courtney5194 4 года назад +1

    I’m so happy I stumbled across your videos. I have literally made all of these mistakes lol Ronald, please keep doing what you’re doing!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  4 года назад

      CNK3617 I’m really happy that you’re enjoying my content. I believe there was a reason you found me at the time you did. Keep growing and learning on your journey!

  • @eka-eteololade710
    @eka-eteololade710 3 года назад

    I renovated my kitchen and decided all that came out wasn't going back in. Kids are gone, no need for them plastic cups. Thanks. ❤❤❤

  • @TheeeVLife
    @TheeeVLife 4 года назад +1

    Really enjoyed this! Thank you.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  4 года назад

      I’m glad! Keep growing on your journey!

  • @tammieparrishmiller3669
    @tammieparrishmiller3669 5 лет назад +3

    My husband and I took the bedroom apart today and cleaned thoroughly and gave our clutter gathering dresser and nightstand to the neighbor. These were items that were given to us and we honestly had no use for them. The room looks great and we feel great about the progress we made. It's very motivating. Btw, the things that were in the dresser were items that were easily stored in bins and put under the bed, such as sheets and blankets. I now would like to take the bi-fold closet doors off. They are cheap and collect dust. I don't have room for the barndoor look that I wish I could use. If anyone has any ideas I'm open! Curtains, maybe. Possibly a full wall of them from ceiling to floor? I'll have to look through Pinterest at minimalistic ideas. I am really loving your videos!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      I’m happy that you’re loving the videos Tammie! Your ideas about your bedroom closet are cool. You can get really creative with different styles depending on what you like.
      I’m also really glad to hear you’re making so much progress on your journey. Keep growing!

    • @tammieparrishmiller3669
      @tammieparrishmiller3669 5 лет назад

      @@RonaldLBanks Thanks! I honestly don't know what my minimalistic style is yet! LOL! I used to decorate to the hilt with vintage finds and antiques that are family heirlooms. I'm trying to decide what's most important to me as far as the pieces I want to keep for usefullness and for decor. It's been a journey. I will continue and find my way with your help of course!

    • @trinam2503
      @trinam2503 5 лет назад

      @@tammieparrishmiller3669 try just taking the doors off for now. I did that bc my closet was so deep it was ridiculous trying to find anything. So I took the doors off, and redid the bars to make it a walk in. I ended up liking the clean look of no doors/covering. And the acountabilty to keep it clean bc it was all visible. Even if you really want a door or covering, it might make it easier to picture what you want, without the doors you dont like in the way.

  • @synnesimonsenhansen1984
    @synnesimonsenhansen1984 3 года назад

    I really enjoy your videos, learning alot! BTW, that color really suits you :)

  • @astroshahmaran
    @astroshahmaran 5 лет назад +4

    Hi🖐I saw you on Sarah‘s channel& subbed. You 2 add so many values to my life💕 thanks for being you at this time,greetings

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      Hey Elif! I’m so happy that you’re receiving so much value from both Sarah and I. Thank you for the love and support! Keep growing on your journey!

  • @lindabelardes5971
    @lindabelardes5971 5 лет назад

    I just love you!!! You make me laugh because you know me so well lol

  • @jakiracrite-burns5309
    @jakiracrite-burns5309 4 года назад +1

    You have changed my perception on Minimalism. I wanted to start this before 2020, so I could go into the new year with new but good habits
    and also feeling refreshed. Your videos are great!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  4 года назад +1

      I’m happy that I’m challenging you and help you to change your perspective Ja’Kira! Keep growing on your journey and if you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask!

  • @queenalicia711
    @queenalicia711 5 лет назад

    Love your channel 💕

  • @cheyloo
    @cheyloo 3 года назад

    Love that shirt! That's a good color on you!

  • @acajudi100
    @acajudi100 4 года назад +1

    Great advice.💯❤️💕😊🇺🇸

  • @Nickholast
    @Nickholast 4 года назад +1

    Love your videos, the most I like about them is they are less than 5 mins, so in 1.25x speed it doesn't take much time to learn something important. SUBSCRIBED!

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  4 года назад +1

      I'm happy you joined the community Nicolas and are enjoying my videos. Keep growing on your journey!

  • @auntpurl5325
    @auntpurl5325 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks so much for sharing. I'm just starting out.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      Hey I'm so happy for you Denelle! I'm sure you'll grow and learn a lot on your journey! Feel free to ask any questions you have!

  • @user-qy5tw7yx1b
    @user-qy5tw7yx1b 3 года назад +1

    I just subscribed to your channel and i like how direct you are and positive at the same time

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  3 года назад

      Welcome to the community my friend! I hope you continue to find value in my content!

  • @rubytuesday7225
    @rubytuesday7225 5 лет назад +5

    Hi Ron. I'm a new subscriber from Sarah. Love this video. I do find that I dont stick to one thing or place to declutter at a time. We have so much!! Thank you so much. Love Deb xx

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +1

      Hey thanks for coming over! I’m glad you enjoyed this video. Attacking your clutter in sections at a time will definitely work out better than trying to do it all at once! If you’re already overwhelmed with the clutter, pulling it all out at once to deal with it will only make it worst! Keep growing!!

    • @rubytuesday7225
      @rubytuesday7225 5 лет назад +1

      @@RonaldLBanks Thanks so much Ron. Will give it a go.

    • @angelasmith1394
      @angelasmith1394 5 лет назад

      @@rubytuesday7225 who is Sarah and what are her videos about

  • @b.maxwell5037
    @b.maxwell5037 4 года назад +1

    Just getting onboard with learning your experience & approach ❤️

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  4 года назад +1

      Hey B Maxwell! Well welcome to the community and I hope you’re enjoying my content so far. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to ask. Keep growing!

  • @kandacenoire
    @kandacenoire 5 лет назад +5

    You should do a house tour. Are you also on a debt free journey?

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад +3

      An apartment tour is definitely in the plans!
      And yes I am! Haven’t shared much about that yet as I want to increase my own knowledge during my journey first. So I can be as helpful as possible!

  • @georgiannmaloney6594
    @georgiannmaloney6594 5 лет назад +5

    I don't like lots of stuff on the wall, as I have more to dust. That is just me. Take care. Gm

    • @ladykdog1756
      @ladykdog1756 5 лет назад

      I like art on the wall, and nice linens. Little stuff all over tables, that bothers me

  • @inusuper7438
    @inusuper7438 5 лет назад

    Love your t-shirt

  • @melissastugis38
    @melissastugis38 4 года назад

    I decluttered my apartment a few times in the five years that I've been here and gave my daughter lots of the things for place when she first there three years ago. I also gave to others who ret needed food, clothes, shoes, cleaning supplies, and other things I wasn't using. It feels good to not have things not being used.

  • @Sabiha-30
    @Sabiha-30 4 года назад

    Great channel

  • @blahblah1438
    @blahblah1438 5 лет назад

    Glad I found you

  • @HaritDoshi
    @HaritDoshi 4 года назад

    When I started to declutter I was lucky that I didn't standardized my plan based on any particular minimalistic style. Bit one thing I made sure was that I will not buy anything from outside once I declutter for first time. I first disposed all the old things that I didn't use at all and than focused on my wardrobe. I removed excess bit I made sure that I am not short of any clothes. I kept all my inners but did gave away lots of clothes, bedsheets, backpacks, towels based on the use. After decluttering for first time I still have more than 16 shirts.. that's a lot but I will gradually declutter them with passage of time. Many other things also needs to be decluttered but will take some time. Now I am focusing on how I can dispose off my luggage bags and suitcases

    • @HaritDoshi
      @HaritDoshi 4 года назад

      My small apartment is looking more manageable and spacious

  • @jhgindia
    @jhgindia 4 года назад +1

    It helps man .

  • @corarose7529
    @corarose7529 4 года назад

    The second one is so true! I have done that many times, and then I end up with a floor covered of stuff and a feeling of panic lol.

  • @valerieh5400
    @valerieh5400 5 лет назад

    New subscriber here sir, I genuinely like you. Keep doing you. The reason why I want to follow minimalism is to create more simplicity and freedom in my life.

    • @riverdaletales8457
      @riverdaletales8457 5 лет назад

      Go for it but just know it's not for everyone and it doesn't work for everyone

    • @valerieh5400
      @valerieh5400 5 лет назад

      Riverdale tales Makes sense. Well I’ve already gone through most of the decluttering, I honestly don’t have that much stuff. I’ve moved by myself over the years so whatever will fully fit in my car goes and that will be for the future too. I may need a truck for a bed and maybe couch, but I like to keep things simple. You’re right though it definitely isn’t for everyone. I’m enjoying it thus far, being organized makes me feel good lol.

  • @nancyparker2199
    @nancyparker2199 2 года назад +1

    My mistake was taking everything out of my closet and throwing it all on the bed. I was instantly overwhelmed and felt like giving up.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  2 года назад

      That’ll do it for sure! I’m happy you took as step and and realized that this was overwhelming you Nancy! I’m sure you’ve ironed out a much better approach that works for you now. Keep growing and learning! I’m excited for your journey ahead!

  • @lizh7210
    @lizh7210 5 лет назад +3

    I came from Sarah's channel, as well, and watched some of your spoken word videos. Absolutely beautiful. I would love to see (or read) a collaboration between Joshua Fields Millburn and you.

    • @RonaldLBanks
      @RonaldLBanks  5 лет назад

      I really appreciate that compliment Liz! Thank you and that would be pretty cool!

    • @lizh7210
      @lizh7210 4 года назад

      @@RonaldLBanks I am jumping for joy that you are on their newest podcast! Great show; looking forward to the maximal episode to hear more. Congratulations on spreading your message to a broader audience. Keep up the great work!

  • @simplyjazz0666
    @simplyjazz0666 3 года назад

    Lol good advise cause as I’m watching your videos I wanna pull it all out and start now. But I’ll do it room by room and drawer by drawer. Cause I literally wanna through it All out today. I’m anxious and my space is cluttered and I can’t think 💭 straight lately. It has to go

  • @fatimanida_
    @fatimanida_ 5 лет назад +1

    I know why i want to declutter. All the things i have, never satisfied me as much as i think it would. I wanted more. I wasted money on a lot of useless things. A couple of days ago, i decluttered a lot of items that i held on to for a long time for the first time, and it feels like a shit tons of weight has been lifted across the shoulders. The things that i cherished so much, wasn't even of any use. I do not want all those stuffs that i obsessed over. I was just keeping it for the sake of it.

  • @franticxavierjaymes1609
    @franticxavierjaymes1609 5 лет назад

    Thank you