They are fully aware when they have been wronged. My ex used to regurgitate painful hurts over and over. He would hold on to them. Perhaps he couldnt forgive, idk. I didnt know about narcissism back then. I know he wasnt there for me in many aspects and i cannot recall a single apology. This video has made me realise many things. We split 20 years ago but i have to help our sons navigate their father's behavior.
They never ever truly apologize. At best you will hear, "Sorry that you are so sensitive, dense, can't take a joke, cannot understand, or started the fight anyway... blah blah blah".
Oh, Holy moly! You just hit the nail on the head with those (always deeply - hurtful and hard to comprehend) - thoroughly BULLlshit, blame-gaming, finger-pointing 'justifications.' @PaintingandExercise
Apologizing would make them wrong. Being wrong is a no-no to a narc. Which is why they will eventually twist things around so that THEY are the victim. See...never wrong. Instead, blame others, it's always the other person's fault. Quite insane.
Yup...if they apologize ( rarely) it would be followed by..Are you happy now, that I apologized....now let's get back to how things were ( status quo that as approved by the narc)
To be honest .. because of narcissistic abuse apologies (and compliments) have always made me very uncomfortable…anyone else? ✋🏼 I suppose I subconsciously don’t feel worthy , feel shame snd guilt . These people do serious damage
I knkw it can be hard and there's a physical aspect to reacting to negative projections. It's definitely worth understanding that even if what they say has some truth to it. Nothing narcissists say should be taken serious. They are just desperate to hurt you, if we get hurt by what they say we are doing half the effort. They don't even truky see the real you to be able to dish out things we should take personally
My favorite apology from a narcissist is "I'm sorry that you took something I may or may nor have said completely out of context." Always ride that fence!
Narcissists don't apologize because in their twisted minds they were justified in doing what they did, because somebody else made them do it. They never see themselves as the problem. The only way a narcissist will ever apologize is if they benefit from it in some way, but it will never be sincere. People who are truly sorry for their behavior will take responsibility for it, otherwise the only thing they are sorry for is getting caught.
I needed to hear this today, thanks Kevin. I haven't been around in awhile and so I needed some validation that I wasn't crazy. Got a situation at work. Toxic narcissist manager. Trouble is, I love my job my clientele, etc. It's hard to leave. May I also suggest another reason that narcs don't apologize? It's because they never think they do anything wrong. Their arrogance holds them back, their own high horse complex. The "I'm perfect and can do no wrong mentality". It gets so tiring and exhausting to deal with. Where oh where have the normal people gone to? It saddens me on an even deeper level as it seems to be a huge societal problem. I have even seen small kids and teens acting this way. 😢
“i apologise for the inconveniences” - that was the apology i got after letting him know that i was so stressed being around him that i had to ghost him to recover in a medical facility. and this happened while i was still recovering from clinical burnout, as well as managing my newly diagnosed neurodivergent condition. 😂 talk about brain and emotional damage. WILD!
Was raised by a narc mother, (both parents actually) and married another. They lie because they can! and most times, they started early in childhood being liars & manipulators, and it became their way to get what they wanted, so they perfected their craft and use it to their advantage when necessary. Some lie on occasion while others lie about everything, but they ALL lie, and some will lie about lying. It's just one of the many things you can expect from them no matter what.
Same, I also grew up that way. For me the cruelest thing was their projection of their own behaviour. Meaning I was not only blamed for everything but constantly called a liar, drama queen, egoistic, etc. The only way for me to survive this psycho stress hell was to make me invisible, unhearable, out in nature whenever possible. "If you want to survive in this world you have to become like me (don't say the truth - only stupid people do that, etc.)" she said to me when I was young and I refused her offer.
So after 22 years of experiencing the consequences of my ex alienating our daughter from me, and now to estrangement of her and her family.... No apologies yet.
@@carolhill8917 don’t hold your breath, the apologies will NEVER come. The goal of the narcissist is to destroy every relationship their victim has…family, friends,etc. I’ve been there, so I’m wishing you the best
Years ago, I used to expect an apology. Now? I know who I am as a person. I know my own sincerity and genuineness. I don’t need, or require, a shallow individual’s apology anymore. As soon as I know who/what it is that I am dealing with, I just scratch them out of my life as just another minor annoyance. I move on. They are just a waste of time. Life is too short to deal with such stupidity.
My husband has no problem apologizing yet has narcissistic characteristics. It’s very confusing at times. After 34 yrs of marriage I can see the apology means nothing bc there’s no change! In my opinion I believe he knows I just don’t care anymore. I’ve become numb. We’re like roommates
God gave me alot of wisdom lately, Id like to share. #1 people put a claim on another person, example: he is an honest man. And then when he lies you get angry. You hurt yourself & your plans in the anger. By renouncing that claim (or expectation) you gain the victory. Continue to renouce your claims & live free of the burden of a Narc. #2 Non-verbal boundaries are part of living free. #3 For women reading the Empowered Wife book by Laura Doyle & applying the 6 principles has made living with a Narc type husband very easy breezy & detached. Ive chosen to stay with my husband and The Royal We and being Clever & never seeking your worth from an unworthy Narc type enables me to serve God as He wants me to do.
The lack of empathy really got me thinking how it shows up in relarionship if someone cannot walk in anothers "shoes". Its a symptom of so much more than not being able to apologize. It not being able to see anothers needs. I am doing some serious reflecting on behaviors right now. Ones in the past so i can understand better. This video is gold. Thank you!
The *majority* (of narcissists) will not apologize because they do not g.a.f.... but here's a small proportion of Narcissists (who do not apologize) because causing you pain *is* the intention. They are the Malignant Narcissists. A little knowledge can save you a world of pain.
That's not a small % of them, it's probably closer to 50% as they're dark triad..so sadism is a side extra...disgusting..I hope you're healing if you encountered one
This video sure hits home. I finally got the guts to call out my best friend who for decades would criticize and demean me to the point I was always defending myselt. I kept silent and suffered for it for a long time. I finally had enough and told her so. She told me to take part of the blame. I said, for what? For defending myself? I told her no, I was not going to do that and mentioned some of the many times that she attacked me for no reason and how it affected me. If she would have apologized, I would have accepted that because I loved her and I would have tried to carry on the relationship, however she refused and refused to talk about it. I knew at that point our relationship was over. She knew I wasn't going to take her abuse any more and I don't think she COULD talk to me as she was so used to abusing me and I took that away from her. Strangely, I miss her but I don't miss the abuse and I sleep a lot better and focus on doing the things I enjoy. It makes me sad though because life is so short and I've loved her most of my life, even now, even though she's the way she is. I feel sorry for her as she can't see past her own anger which didn't come from me as I love her and I told her so. I just refuse to be her whipping post any more.
The difference between sympathy and empathy is the feeling of emotions , then 3:363:36 you have the super empath who’s feeling everyone emotions and pain , you see there is perceiving & feeling!
The title of this video is hillarious because the answer is obvious. And, that is don't you know? A NARC NEVER does anything wrong, no matter what it is. It is always you. I got "you are too intense". I said, (rebel that I am). You mean I am too REAL
I have gone through my life to understand my distortions and confusion. I am at the stage where I am being responsible for my part when I have harmed people. I am sure that nobody would ever hurt another if we were not confused. I was not in my Right Mind when I was acting as a mini narcissist growing up. NOW all I have is me and who I am meant to be today. Kind and helpful.
This really helped me a lot tonight. I feel like I really get it. Especially the part where you say how the narcissist can’t reveal their thought process to you so that’s part of why they can’t apologize. WOW.
I always wait for an apology but it never comes. Eventually I get to the point of asking for an apology, even begging for one. The most I’ve ever gotten is “if you think I’m not thinking about it you’re wrong. I’ve been thinking about it all day.” Then I’m left to try to find even the slightest hint of an apology I can cling to from that phrase. Even after so many times I’ve caught him lying he has no desire to rebuild my trust. He can’t even understand why he’s doing anything wrong when he’s lying. He thinks it’s ok! Honestly I’m at the point where I’d accept a fake apology even. Ugh I know I should leave 😞
I recently noticed looking back that in a lot of situations even if a person wronged me I was often the one to try to resolve the conflict and apologize or open the communication 😔
Thank you for your lecture. Very true. From my experience Narc people for instance ask me first to say IM SORRY even if no reason or POSTPONE talking on their misbehaviour. Take care greetings from Poland.😊
Thanks for putting all these in points! I understood the reasons but never knew how to discern them on these separate reasons.. Which also shows they are ALWAYS on narcissistic mode and ALWAYS looking out to be in control! Phew...must be exhausting to be a narc and it's their loss for knowing no better...
My cousin once apologized to me for calling me stupid(because of my decision to drop the university🥴) she said with a condesanding look ‘sorry for calling you stupid but clever people dont drop universities, do they?’😊
This is hard to hear, but true. I confronted my N Mom & family that all participated in making me the family scapegoat. (By letter). I never received not only an apology, but no reply. Instead, the smear campaign was enacted against me to the entire family; uncles, cousins, etc. that was over 20 years ago. My Mother passed away 5 years ago. She died “being right.” That’s how far a narcissist will avoid any apology-to take it to their grave.
"I put crosses On a necklace Before I come To see you Sharpen up my senses So I can see Right through you I wear a dress of white That's tight So you can see I'm breathing Show you that I'm still alive Out here Among the living I loved how you Held me here I loathed how you Kept me here I know how You always get Something I'm not Giving You get something I'm not giving I wandered down The hall one night When you thought I was sleeping. To the door That's always locked I thought I heard You screaming I pressed myself Against the wall So thin Yet it's between us I wish you would Have let me in That broken place You dwell in." I loved how you Held me here I loathed how You kept me here I know how You always get Something I'm not Giving You get something I'm not giving c2004TR 17 years later it all made sense. I'd say that I can't believe that it took so long, but I can believe it. 🤓😁 Not bc I'm dumb, but bc I had hope. I didn't know it was mental.
They don’t apologize because they think they can do no wrong. They everything they do is perfect, and it’s someone else’s fault if it isn’t. Most of the time it IT is of their doing though, as they have no expertise. It’s the ultimate form of “fake it til you make it”.
Hi I liked and subscribed. It helps me understand when I listen to many peoples opinions to understand this bizarre feeling I have. Narcs create EMPATHS and sensitives. It comes from knowing you are under constant scrutiny. so we are always checking ourselves.
Oh may I add, he never used to apologize. Nowadays he says a weak false apology & I dont care to confront him on his dishonest apology- I just dont care anymore. Mainly because he hasnt repented, he did throw the word repent at me, I laughed in his face. But he is a liar, only wants to look good by apologizing with no intent to stop his bad behavior. These Narc types are so shallow & if you look hard enough you see right through them.
I do not understand why a family member is very aware of many things spiritually and highly up dated many of my knowledge but seems to have narcissistic traits especially towards me. Once she came to my place and broke a window. Her first reaction was to say that my window has a problem. She never said’ sorry I think I broke your window’
He just acted like nothing happened and blamed me! wtf ! 🤬 He just raged and blamed it on me and then ghosted me ! Then after I told him goodbye, he showed up on my door at midnight four days later ! NO APOLOGY ! He just thinks he can do what he wants! HES HORRIBLE! 🤦♀️ NEVER AGAIN!
Both sides of the unconscious/conscious coin are sad...and terrifying. I prefered to believe it was lack of empathy rather than doing all that out of strategy..
Do you think an apology would get me anything? Do you think I should apologize for wanting to stay straight? I'm not saying you can't be gay. I'm just saying I don't have to be if I do want to.
Why can’t narcissistic people accept an apology? I have apologized to my cousin multiple times and she simply refuses to acknowledge it. She only spoke to me with an agenda of trying to get to my child.
Because of projecting her own way of thinking/behaving onto you. She would only apologize in order to get something and therefore thinks everybody else would do that too. The ultimate reason is fear of loosing control when she would trust you. So sorry that your child is with this person and wish you luck your child comes back to you.
Meanwhile if they were willing to say sorry and give that power over for a moment they would then obtain power by getting closure… forgiven or not. Not smart people I must say.
THIS IS TRUE, GOD SAID IT... BAD COMPANY WILL CORRUPT YOU" STAY AWAYYYYY..... DONT ARGUE WITH A FOOL, JUST REMOVE YOURSELF FROM WHERE THEY ARE IMMEDIATELY.. SIR ROYALEGOD BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING GODS WISDOM WITH SUCH CLASS AND EMPATHY
PLEASE DONT LET ME IN.... I DONT WANNA BE PART OF HELL... NO NARC NEEDED HERE!!!! UP AGAINS A WHOLE DEMON.... THANK YOU LORD FOR KEEPING MY HEART, MY MIND, MY EMOTIONS LOCKED IN THE PALM OF YOUR HANDS, NO DEVIL IN HELL GONNA SNATCH ME FROM YOUR HAND LORD" THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! WE LIFT YOU HIGH, YAHWEH YAHWEH-
Not only will they not apologize, they will expect an apology from you
They are fully aware when they have been wronged. My ex used to regurgitate painful hurts over and over. He would hold on to them. Perhaps he couldnt forgive, idk. I didnt know about narcissism back then. I know he wasnt there for me in many aspects and i cannot recall a single apology. This video has made me realise many things. We split 20 years ago but i have to help our sons navigate their father's behavior.
Ain't that the truth!!!!!😅
And they’ll wish they’d treated you worse.
Always!
😂
They never ever truly apologize. At best you will hear, "Sorry that you are so sensitive, dense, can't take a joke, cannot understand, or started the fight anyway... blah blah blah".
The classic FAUXPOLOGY (or my favorite from my Mom, "I'm sorry you feel that way." Just more insult to injury as was intended)
Oh, Holy moly! You just hit the nail on the head with those (always deeply - hurtful and hard to comprehend) - thoroughly BULLlshit, blame-gaming, finger-pointing 'justifications.'
@PaintingandExercise
Ooh yeah ❤️‼️❤️🤩 12:15
You are so right ✅️ 👏 🙌 😩 😌 💕 ✅️
You are so right ✅️ 👏 🙌 😩 😌 💕 ✅️
Apologizing would make them wrong. Being wrong is a no-no to a narc. Which is why they will eventually twist things around so that THEY are the victim. See...never wrong. Instead, blame others, it's always the other person's fault. Quite insane.
Very very simple. They are NOT sorry….
They may apologise but it will be soon followed by blame-shifting on you or a backhanded insult.
Yup...if they apologize ( rarely) it would be followed by..Are you happy now, that I apologized....now let's get back to how things were ( status quo that as approved by the narc)
In the twilight zone of a world in which the narcissist dwells.... They never, no not ever do anything wrong. Therefore no need for apologies.😮
“I’m sorry that you feel that way” is NOT an apology
EXACTLY
That’s what my narc says to me
I have seen that look. there's nothing there behind the eyes, and it's dark.
Chilling.
I haven’t been able to look at my dad in the eyes for years now. And I never understood until recently.
They think they never do anything wrong. Ever.
I apologize if I bumped into someone at the grocery store but I'm with a person who REFUSES to apologize for horrible behavior!
No CAPACITY for remorse. Thats it🎉😢😮
To be honest .. because of narcissistic abuse apologies (and compliments) have always made me very uncomfortable…anyone else? ✋🏼
I suppose I subconsciously don’t feel worthy , feel shame snd guilt .
These people do serious damage
I knkw it can be hard and there's a physical aspect to reacting to negative projections.
It's definitely worth understanding that even if what they say has some truth to it. Nothing narcissists say should be taken serious. They are just desperate to hurt you, if we get hurt by what they say we are doing half the effort. They don't even truky see the real you to be able to dish out things we should take personally
Soon as u realise a person is toxic get them out of your life. Iff you do not u will be left mentally scared for life.
I don't want an apology. I used to want it until I understood that it wouldn't make a real difference.
My favorite apology from a narcissist is "I'm sorry that you took something I may or may nor have said completely out of context."
Always ride that fence!
Narcissists don't apologize because in their twisted minds they were justified in doing what they did, because somebody else made them do it. They never see themselves as the problem. The only way a narcissist will ever apologize is if they benefit from it in some way, but it will never be sincere. People who are truly sorry for their behavior will take responsibility for it, otherwise the only thing they are sorry for is getting caught.
I needed to hear this today, thanks Kevin. I haven't been around in awhile and so I needed some validation that I wasn't crazy. Got a situation at work. Toxic narcissist manager. Trouble is, I love my job my clientele, etc. It's hard to leave. May I also suggest another reason that narcs don't apologize? It's because they never think they do anything wrong. Their arrogance holds them back, their own high horse complex. The "I'm perfect and can do no wrong mentality". It gets so tiring and exhausting to deal with. Where oh where have the normal people gone to? It saddens me on an even deeper level as it seems to be a huge societal problem. I have even seen small kids and teens acting this way. 😢
“i apologise for the inconveniences” - that was the apology i got after letting him know that i was so stressed being around him that i had to ghost him to recover in a medical facility. and this happened while i was still recovering from clinical burnout, as well as managing my newly diagnosed neurodivergent condition. 😂 talk about brain and emotional damage. WILD!
Was raised by a narc mother, (both parents actually) and married another. They lie because they can! and most times, they started early in childhood being liars & manipulators, and it became their way to get what they wanted, so they perfected their craft and use it to their advantage when necessary. Some lie on occasion while others lie about everything, but they ALL lie, and some will lie about lying. It's just one of the many things you can expect from them no matter what.
Same, I also grew up that way. For me the cruelest thing was their projection of their own behaviour. Meaning I was not only blamed for everything but constantly called a liar, drama queen, egoistic, etc. The only way for me to survive this psycho stress hell was to make me invisible, unhearable, out in nature whenever possible. "If you want to survive in this world you have to become like me (don't say the truth - only stupid people do that, etc.)" she said to me when I was young and I refused her offer.
So after 22 years of experiencing the consequences of my ex alienating our daughter from me, and now to estrangement of her and her family.... No apologies yet.
@@carolhill8917 don’t hold your breath, the apologies will NEVER come. The goal of the narcissist is to destroy every relationship their victim has…family, friends,etc. I’ve been there, so I’m wishing you the best
Oh they never will. Ive accepted that my family and past people will never apologize.
Years ago, I used to expect an apology. Now? I know who I am as a person. I know my own sincerity and genuineness. I don’t need, or require, a shallow individual’s apology anymore. As soon as I know who/what it is that I am dealing with, I just scratch them out of my life as just another minor annoyance. I move on. They are just a waste of time. Life is too short to deal with such stupidity.
THANK YOU KEVIN!!
NEEDED THIS WORD!!
✝️
My husband has no problem apologizing yet has narcissistic characteristics. It’s very confusing at times. After 34 yrs of marriage I can see the apology means nothing bc there’s no change! In my opinion I believe he knows I just don’t care anymore. I’ve become numb. We’re like roommates
I’m living that hell too. An apology without change is manipulation
God gave me alot of wisdom lately, Id like to share. #1 people put a claim on another person, example: he is an honest man. And then when he lies you get angry. You hurt yourself & your plans in the anger. By renouncing that claim (or expectation) you gain the victory. Continue to renouce your claims & live free of the burden of a Narc. #2 Non-verbal boundaries are part of living free. #3 For women reading the Empowered Wife book by Laura Doyle & applying the 6 principles has made living with a Narc type husband very easy breezy & detached. Ive chosen to stay with my husband and The Royal We and being Clever & never seeking your worth from an unworthy Narc type enables me to serve God as He wants me to do.
The lack of empathy really got me thinking how it shows up in relarionship if someone cannot walk in anothers "shoes". Its a symptom of so much more than not being able to apologize. It not being able to see anothers needs. I am doing some serious reflecting on behaviors right now. Ones in the past so i can understand better. This video is gold. Thank you!
They will never bring up the "wrong" ,u have to do it,cause they hope that the hurt will go away,and that will mean that they win by default.
The *majority* (of narcissists) will not apologize because they do not g.a.f.... but here's a small proportion of Narcissists (who do not apologize) because causing you pain *is* the intention. They are the Malignant Narcissists. A little knowledge can save you a world of pain.
That's not a small % of them, it's probably closer to 50% as they're dark triad..so sadism is a side extra...disgusting..I hope you're healing if you encountered one
Hopefully, my comment is clearer now.
This video sure hits home. I finally got the guts to call out my best friend who for decades would criticize and demean me to the point I was always defending myselt. I kept silent and suffered for it for a long time. I finally had enough and told her so. She told me to take part of the blame. I said, for what? For defending myself? I told her no, I was not going to do that and mentioned some of the many times that she attacked me for no reason and how it affected me. If she would have apologized, I would have accepted that because I loved her and I would have tried to carry on the relationship, however she refused and refused to talk about it. I knew at that point our relationship was over. She knew I wasn't going to take her abuse any more and I don't think she COULD talk to me as she was so used to abusing me and I took that away from her. Strangely, I miss her but I don't miss the abuse and I sleep a lot better and focus on doing the things I enjoy. It makes me sad though because life is so short and I've loved her most of my life, even now, even though she's the way she is. I feel sorry for her as she can't see past her own anger which didn't come from me as I love her and I told her so. I just refuse to be her whipping post any more.
The difference between sympathy and empathy is the feeling of emotions , then 3:36 3:36 you have the super empath who’s feeling everyone emotions and pain , you see there is perceiving & feeling!
Yes. Void in their is perfect for describing them.
The title of this video is hillarious because the answer is obvious. And, that is don't you know? A NARC NEVER does anything wrong, no matter what it is. It is always you. I got "you are too intense". I said, (rebel that I am). You mean I am too REAL
Because they are so full of themselves
I have gone through my life to understand my distortions and confusion. I am at the stage where I am being responsible for my part when I have harmed people. I am sure that nobody would ever hurt another if we were not confused. I was not in my Right Mind when I was acting as a mini narcissist growing up. NOW all I have is me and who I am meant to be today. Kind and helpful.
This really helped me a lot tonight. I feel like I really get it. Especially the part where you say how the narcissist can’t reveal their thought process to you so that’s part of why they can’t apologize. WOW.
I always wait for an apology but it never comes. Eventually I get to the point of asking for an apology, even begging for one. The most I’ve ever gotten is “if you think I’m not thinking about it you’re wrong. I’ve been thinking about it all day.” Then I’m left to try to find even the slightest hint of an apology I can cling to from that phrase. Even after so many times I’ve caught him lying he has no desire to rebuild my trust. He can’t even understand why he’s doing anything wrong when he’s lying. He thinks it’s ok! Honestly I’m at the point where I’d accept a fake apology even. Ugh I know I should leave 😞
This is soooo true and the best explanation of the apologetic topic heard so far
You are a sunshine in my understanding. You are a great teacher. THANK YOU❤
I was wondering why he never apologize. Not even for small things. Thank you for that information.
You broke this down perfectly ❤
They rarely ever do! They have no self worth
Yep.🎉
I recently noticed looking back that in a lot of situations even if a person wronged me I was often the one to try to resolve the conflict and apologize or open the communication 😔
Absolutely
Thank you for your lecture. Very true. From my experience Narc people for instance ask me first to say IM SORRY even if no reason or POSTPONE talking on their misbehaviour. Take care greetings from Poland.😊
Mine is clueless, I believe . He said “I don’t know what’s going on right now “ as he was packing his truck when I made him leave.
I have known mine for 12 years. He apologjzed once and i took a picture😢😮
I've also heard "I never say or do things to hurt other people".
I love God thank God Amen
Thanks for putting all these in points!
I understood the reasons but never knew how to discern them on these separate reasons..
Which also shows they are ALWAYS on narcissistic mode and ALWAYS looking out to be in control!
Phew...must be exhausting to be a narc and it's their loss for knowing no better...
They dont.He callede crazy and a lot more and gaslighted me but said he has done nothing wrong
My cousin once apologized to me for calling me stupid(because of my decision to drop the university🥴) she said with a condesanding look ‘sorry for calling you stupid but clever people dont drop universities, do they?’😊
Hi Kevin are you sitting comfortably, yes good ! 🤩❤️‼️ 1:14
This is hard to hear, but true. I confronted my N Mom & family that all participated in making me the family scapegoat. (By letter). I never received not only an apology, but no reply. Instead, the smear campaign was enacted against me to the entire family; uncles, cousins, etc. that was over 20 years ago. My Mother passed away 5 years ago. She died “being right.” That’s how far a narcissist will avoid any apology-to take it to their grave.
They can apologize, to entrap u again and punish this time for opposing 😅, run 🏃 as far as u can 😅😂
😅
"I put crosses
On a necklace
Before I come
To see you
Sharpen up my senses
So I can see
Right through you
I wear a dress of white
That's tight
So you can see
I'm breathing
Show you that
I'm still alive
Out here
Among the living
I loved how you
Held me here
I loathed how you
Kept me here
I know how
You always get
Something I'm not
Giving
You get something
I'm not giving
I wandered down
The hall one night
When you thought
I was sleeping.
To the door
That's always locked
I thought I heard
You screaming
I pressed myself
Against the wall
So thin
Yet it's between us
I wish you would
Have let me in
That broken place
You dwell in."
I loved how you
Held me here
I loathed how
You kept me here
I know how
You always get
Something I'm not
Giving
You get something
I'm not giving
c2004TR
17 years later it all made sense. I'd say that I can't believe that it took so long, but I can believe it. 🤓😁
Not bc I'm dumb, but bc I had hope. I didn't know it was mental.
They don’t apologize because they think they can do no wrong. They everything they do is perfect, and it’s someone else’s fault if it isn’t.
Most of the time it IT is of their doing though, as they have no expertise. It’s the ultimate form of “fake it til you make it”.
Hi I liked and subscribed. It helps me understand when I listen to many peoples opinions to understand this bizarre feeling I have. Narcs create EMPATHS and sensitives. It comes from knowing you are under constant scrutiny. so we are always checking ourselves.
Yeah.. this message is for me 😥
These people are so twisted. It's really unfathomable that there are humans like this walking around the earth
🙏🏻
Oh may I add, he never used to apologize. Nowadays he says a weak false apology & I dont care to confront him on his dishonest apology- I just dont care anymore. Mainly because he hasnt repented, he did throw the word repent at me, I laughed in his face. But he is a liar, only wants to look good by apologizing with no intent to stop his bad behavior. These Narc types are so shallow & if you look hard enough you see right through them.
We were bike riding
He ran over a small child
Didn’t even stop or look back
...but you still let him bone you.
Wow! Very scary 😢
Ride away from HIM - FAST
Yikes
I need your help
So they are not doing anything wrong, if this is how they were born
I do not understand why a family member is very aware of many things spiritually and highly up dated many of my knowledge but seems to have narcissistic traits especially towards me. Once she came to my place and broke a window. Her first reaction was to say that my window has a problem. She never said’ sorry I think I broke your window’
Mindset
My mother never apologizes or admits any mistakes or actions she has done. She has to make others see her as perfect. 😢
They never will do …
Do those without empathy know they lack it?
What happens when they do they apologize but keep doing it over and over ???
He just acted like nothing happened and blamed me! wtf ! 🤬
He just raged and blamed it on me and then ghosted me ! Then after I told him goodbye, he showed up on my door at midnight four days later ! NO APOLOGY !
He just thinks he can do what he wants!
HES HORRIBLE!
🤦♀️ NEVER AGAIN!
Both sides of the unconscious/conscious coin are sad...and terrifying.
I prefered to believe it was lack of empathy rather than doing all that out of strategy..
Thad is not my problem ‼️ 9:42
Are you ok Kevin ! ❤️‼️🤩 8:09
I would have no problem leaving him, however i own this house and he won't leave. So im kind of stuck idk how to get him to go
Their evil!!
Do you think an apology would get me anything? Do you think I should apologize for wanting to stay straight? I'm not saying you can't be gay. I'm just saying I don't have to be if I do want to.
Why can’t narcissistic people accept an apology? I have apologized to my cousin multiple times and she simply refuses to acknowledge it. She only spoke to me with an agenda of trying to get to my child.
Because of projecting her own way of thinking/behaving onto you. She would only apologize in order to get something and therefore thinks everybody else would do that too. The ultimate reason is fear of loosing control when she would trust you. So sorry that your child is with this person and wish you luck your child comes back to you.
Or "I'm sorry but'
No need apologize just leave
Well he regrets it now he lost everything lmao
Meanwhile if they were willing to say sorry and give that power over for a moment they would then obtain power by getting closure… forgiven or not. Not smart people I must say.
Neanderthals sounds about right!
THIS IS TRUE, GOD SAID IT... BAD COMPANY WILL CORRUPT YOU" STAY AWAYYYYY..... DONT ARGUE WITH A FOOL, JUST REMOVE YOURSELF FROM WHERE THEY ARE IMMEDIATELY..
SIR ROYALEGOD BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING GODS WISDOM WITH SUCH CLASS AND EMPATHY
The demon inside of them will not allow them to acknowledge anything is wrong with them.
PLEASE DONT LET ME IN.... I DONT WANNA BE PART OF HELL... NO NARC NEEDED HERE!!!! UP AGAINS A WHOLE DEMON.... THANK YOU LORD FOR KEEPING MY HEART, MY MIND, MY EMOTIONS LOCKED IN THE PALM OF YOUR HANDS, NO DEVIL IN HELL GONNA SNATCH ME FROM YOUR HAND LORD" THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!! WE LIFT YOU HIGH, YAHWEH YAHWEH-
Satan does not apologize
Don't believe them anyways They just miss their yoyo toy that they threw away
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