How resentment helps you end narcissistic abuse
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Narcissistic abuse looks like:
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.
Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:
Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.
Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.
Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.
Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse
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Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.
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Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
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Exactly. Over-giving, over extending, over-pleasing - now its over, I'm so done with it. And finally done with them. I've had it. I was left so very empty and exhausted.
The words of a healing soul on the path towards greatness!
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Yesss and when I would mention that there was no reciprocity on his end… and the ways I show him love, serve him, initiate sex, meal prep, do his laundry, etc he would tell me “oh, so you only do things to get things in return?” Don’t waste your time trying to explain to anyone how to love you… I will never do that again!
Oh good grief, that so sounds like me!
Yep , same experience , glad you’re wise to them now . NEVER AGAIN ! ❤️
and they don’t change, only get worse as they age. You were wise to walk out.
When nothing is coming back, you know you are of no value to that person or persons.
They lie, they humiliate, falsely accuse you of what they are doing, but you can't prove it because you are home taking care of reality that isn't good enough for their spoiled, selfish egos.
Ding ding ding 💯 correct
Omg Kevin it’s my fault for not walking away sooner. I did walk away and I’m finally at peace. 37 years later. 🙏
It was never your fault!! We were all conditioned to stay too long!!
Love ❤
I can relate to this. I was able to recently get out of the toxic narcissistic household of my dad and aunt. I feel so free, but I do feel so exhausted from all the stress that I endured while living in the environment. I still have resentment because I did everything possible for both of them and was Treated so crappy in return. I'm happy that I finally got out of there now I'm hoping that the healing can begin. ❤
It's normal for this to happen. Your bodyfinally get to relax and now you get to repair yourself from something you didn't deserve. You will slowly start getting better ❤
You are a God send. Just yesterday I was struggling w the bitterness I have w my children. Looking deep inside.. I prayed about it. Then your video popped up. Thank you..
Same situation here. It shatters your expectations because it's not reciprocal. I pruned the bush. No longer willing to think of my grown children in terms of "juvenile" court. No, this is "adult" court now and they are accountable.
I gave ALL to my kids, both as mom & dad, breadwinner..now adults, never expecting anything in return, but never ever did I expect the level of disrespect, neglect, abuse, lies, and emotional beat downs i have received from these now middle age women. I truly feel sorry for any man that hooks up with them. They will get the same treatment that I got. I have cut both out of my life, including legal papers for any future care POA as neither can be trusted, and they’re banned from my home. The culmination was due to me being accused of enabling SA that never happened. All made up and spread around by my own kids. Lies done for sympathy and attention, and to make me look like a monster.
@@susanjones8489 I hear you and I feel what you have gone through. I too gave my all as a single parent (divorce) and for years battled the vitriol and the lies and the brainwashing fed to my children by my ex and ex-mother-in-law. I have since learned that this abuse of the targeted parent is known as Parental Alienation. I've done a lot of research about it, but the bottom line is that I won't tolerate disrespect, neglect, or emotional beat downs. If that means they cut me off, and they have, so be it. They'll have to figure it out for themselves at this point, because I'm done trying to get through.
My resentment comes from the post relationship abuse. I was the one who ended it and he did some very abusive things for a long time to punish me. That played havoc on my mental health and my wallet. I’d given up on having a reciprocal relationship but the fallout for ending it was unbelievable! He did that purposefully ! That’s hard to let go of
Post separation abuse is the worst
They will set out to ruin you
Just when you think you've seen every video on NA, heard every lecture, considered every perspective, THIS video gets "suggested".
Thank you for this insight. It is very timely. Much appreciated.
Kevin, your truthful & compassionate guidance is very much appreciated & in the reality of bitter indignation, acknowledge that we have been over-giving. You are so relatable because you experienced this first hand. Appreciate all the brilliant wisdom you share❤
💯 Anger is a powerful fuel source when you need it. Like Popeye's spinach. 😂
Thank you. Unfair treatment for sure. Im scared of this ending, and yet so damned relieved. Not going backward.
It sucks having resentment for narc parent who did everything right on paper and to the outside world. Been suffering in silence for forty years until I found this community and found validation and healing!
Yep. It sucks. They are masters at projecting a nice image on the outside while keeping the abuse concealed and difficult to prove.
«To be treated unfairly you have to give and not receive.» Not the case for a child who was beaten by a parent, nor for a girl who was raped, nor for somebody who was robbed : they didn't give anything, it was forcefully taken from them.
I'm resentful because he flat out lied. Knowing he was never going to have a future makes me so angry.
I came to the conclusion that the frustration that caused the bitterness was because the life I was living in my mind was a lie. I had expectations from my ex to live up to the image of our marriage that I had built, and it was just not going to happen.
When I was finally able to accept the reality, a weight was lifted. And when the bitterness left, I had room for forgiveness (for my own benefit), and then that paved a way to healing and actually LIVING after years and years.
Being kind and thoughtful, only to be rewarded with contempt, abuse and scorn. This is how my so called family members have treated me, and I had enough.this excellent video explains the process of how resentment works very well
I think it is important tlto allow yourself to feel what you want and work through it without guilt trips and being told you are. Wrong. It is a natural stage in healing. The bible tells us there is a time for everything. Ecclesiastes 3
I'm in that situation! I've with my Alcholic Narcissistic husband for 43yrs.
So sorry you are in that situation. I'll pray for you and hope you can leave someday. 🙏
I left after 46, and 5 years later, life is better than it has ever been. It was a long, painful journey, but so worth it. Escape and No Contact can set you free.
💯 % GOOD FOR YOU ! Freedom ! YES ! ❤️
@@GloriaScottCrossland-jj5hi There is light at the end of the Tunnel of Hell!
Leave.
Highly relatable, and explained perfectly. Some toxic behaviors are so difficult to explain or put into words. That was much needed. I hope it helps many people understand why we stay in this death dance, that kills your “Joy”….followed by; a sense of humor, your confidence, self worth…”all” of your beautiful gifts are taken from you or maybe you just gave them away. It’s a hard, hard lesson to learn. Everything you need in Life is right there inside of you. The people and things that raise you up are a bonus. Live a flow of Love… Knowledge is Power…Thank you for sharing your powerful knowledge! 🙏🏼💟✌🏼
Video right when i needed this 🙏
We give love and show by loving actions as they give empty words a nd future faking promises ,,,keeping us manipulated and living in hope that they have integrity with their words as they bread crumbed us and are so selfcentered. Til we are exhausted and wake up to their tactics,lies and leave.
I just pinched my Basil and nasturtiums today. Will prune out dead raspberry canes this evening and top them. To enhance the fruiting. Thank you.
Yes, I feel like a chump.
Not anymore. Time to deserve yourself better. I was as well and after I found out my sad truth about my ex-wife has CNPD and in process of divorce, I no longer being codependent and working things for myself. Still working on it and it's great! You can too if you're willingly up for it. Wish to you best of luck, Diane. You know you're better than this.
While praying for healing it came to me that I was denying my need for human attention and affection...something I can't give myself so it makes me feel vulnerable...mainly because others with knowledge of my need had manipulated or neglected. I want to be loving of myself and my God given need for human love and attention...not denying it out of fear and resentment of misuse.
Teachers, be very, very careful. This could easily happen to you.
Such amazing content, Kevin! I’m so proud of you. These videos have gotten even better over the years.
Yes this video makes sense. I was so so so angry I had to just hold it in around my husband and daughter. I realized going back into a relationship with my sister after 18 months of no contact was a huge mistake. I was angry with myself
Your video really hit home for me today. I believe you were my nextdoor neighbor for several years - (SCS)not too long ago. You're very skilled, and I'm bitter. I cant stand me like this, and i dont see me as a narc, but merely a human abused for way too long.ive already gained much strength from your vids, so thanks much?
Having expectations.
This! Exactly where I'm at with my narcissistic mother-in-law.
Love this! Thank you Kevin! Makes total sense and a change in my mindset now ❤❤❤
Thank you Kevin…this is so right on. I’ve been pruning, renovating while resting at the feet of Jesus. I do battle with this (4 now adult step kids, sister-in-law & stepmom). Family but all by marriages. The kids bio mom is so toxic and I see her in the kids. It painful as I’ve poured my life, love, money & more into them raising them with their dad. I’ve had to release them all.
Thanks Kevin you have helped me and all of us. You are a role model for your children and they are lucky to have you.
Thank you Kevin I so needed this been struggling!!! God bless you 🙏❤️
Love the smoking of the Cigar 😂
Agreed! It might be supposedly unfashionable to say so, but so I! I always smoked at the bus stop. So whether it be a cigar or cigarette, "Smoke 'em if you got 'em" as the adage goes.
I'm 50 years old so I'm way too old to think that smoking makes me look cool or anything like that.
Yet so many anti-smokers got so big on their pedestal or pretended to be in the 1990s, ODDBALLS SCREAMING AT STRANGERS en route public transit while I was waiting for a train or a bus I frankly stopped caring about their petty little feelings (just like they stopped caring about us smokers.)
Common decency might have escaped quite a few folks in the last 30 years, but the backlash is here and I'm part of it. No more NARCS. (Hey, once they start showing to me signs of that nowadays, I just quietly walk away and I don't even give them the satisfaction of negative supply or reacting to them anymore!)
We have anger, hurt, spite, disgust, rage, pain, and a desire for the time back, justice or revenge
We are a angery we fell for it
Were hurt that we trusted blindly
Were spiteful because we gave so much
We are disgusted that we stayed so long
We rage at our "stupidity" for not asking for time for ourselves
We aare in pain because we worked too hard
We want the time we freely gave l
So what is the justice you are seeking
What is the revenge you deserve
The revenge is treating yourself better and looking inward to understand why
Rocking that stick while giving KNOWLEDGE. Thanks for giving us the Royal We content Kevin!
You are so right in what you say
Never looked at it that way before
Realising my whole life is now explained
Thankyou
There has to be an expectation of reciprocity or acknowledgment
Very Zen. Thank u for sharing this. I’m still dealing with a narc family and several people have brought up this issue. ❤
Absolutely loved this explanation. I feel better knowing this .
I’m just saying I don’t think I am bitter. I do however keep a tabulation. Ruminating. As daily new remarks are made. I say often that it’s been twenty five years of this arguing. Ok. I’m bitter. Just don’t like the word! Or the fact. Ok. Halfway in I realize I’m less bitter than I would have been if I kept giving. I have been separated for eight years. I have a principle. DON’T LOVE ANYONE MORE THAN THEY LOVE YOU. So I defend myself and don’t over give. At least no more. All that part of the unfairness absolutely resonates ‼️
Thank you 😊
I think there's a little too much toxic positivity in terms of some shaming people for being supposedly "negative." Thank God and thank Kevin for standing up to this nonsense!
Truer words were never spoken.
My (hopeful) final straw took place almost three months ago, when I suffered a stroke and ended up in the hospital for it. Both parents (narcs) made the event I had to go through about themselves.
My father even told my wife, “I don’t care if he lives or dies!”, while my mother kept recounting all the “fun times” (they weren’t fun at all). Despite my telling her to stop, she persisted, which resulted in my bannning her from not only my hospital room, but the hospital as well. I quit all the BS with the both of them as a result.
So yeah- resentment is the main driver for the end of narc abuse. Or at least it did for me.
Yes! You are right. Thanks for reframing this for me.
One of the lovelanguages is giving... and doing things for others... and you are right: overgiving is leading to bitterness...
Sending you lots of love. Thank you. My soul needed this.
The narc is wanting to take and abuse but it's our choice to choose if we except it or not,we can choose to protect ourselves and in the long run we wont feel bitterness and resentment.
My problem is im a giver,it's my love language,it feels unnatural for me to calculate,i think if we find a kind person and we try to not overgive we can succeed.
It’s not having and keeping boundaries too! Would you say people who had a narcissistic parent and trauma in childhood tend to gravitate towards a narcissistic, toxic adult relationships?
Sadly yes 😕
Yes for me 3x … I didn’t understand until I sought help and started to heal thru my journey
I would say the anger/bitterness comes from giving with an expectation of return. The disappointment of this expectation is what causes the anger, resentment, and eventual bitterness.
Give, or don't give, but never give with an expectation of return -- because you're only setting yourself up to be disappointed. If someone reciprocates, then, great but if they don't, then, great -- you weren't expecting them to.
This frees you to make wise decisions with yourself concerning others.
I walked away and allowed them back in my life, and I am now paying the price. I am angry and resentful as I have been discarded. I gave so much, got breadcrumbs in return, and convinced myself it was enough. It wasn't enough. It's my fault I'm in this situation and my fault alone. I just thought if I did more, gave more, etc.. It would have gotten better. It didn't.
Yeah because, from what I’ve seen and experienced, overgiving and allowing others to take from you, is a fool’s errand. In and outside of my family, I see people leaving oth for dead. One might say that’s me, because I went no contact with my mother. But, they were a folie au deux, banking on me giving enough, for me to either make it a folie au trios and/or end up very dead. Problem they had, was that I caught onto it and ditched.
My resentment is the fact I tolerated abuse and was naive to what was being done and my being a people pleaser. I don’t like confrontation and that’s my problem for not asserting myself when red flags presented in dealing with these creatures. I’m left ruminating with several in my head now that I clearly see I was manipulated. I now am very mistrustful of everybody and wonder what their ulterior motives are.
I need to hear this everyday.
They are over-taking even without asking.
This nails it! Thank You!
True. Thank you Kevin. 💖
Thank you Kevin.💖
Thank you Kevin ‼️ 13:12
Thank you very helpful may Hashem bless you! Love from Israel 🇮🇱
What about narcissistic parents?
As always interesting by your presentation . By a better understanding we can change our minds to walk on new paths. I love the comparisons and pictures as a help for remembrance. Thank you.🙏💛
EXCELLENT video Kevin!! Absolutely excellent! Thank you ... God bless you Kevin! 💞🕊️
Really needed to hear this. Have been struggling with this for a long time, as well as all the other symptoms of narcissistic abuse, and thinking it was me & my mental health issues. 😪
Very insightful.👍👍👍💞
You have been such a blessing
This is a tough topic to get across to people. You do a great job of explaining this.
Above all the lies, personal attacks, etc- I know ppl feel so much hatred for these narcs, but you can turn that around and pray for these people bc they have pain too. Even if they’re not in your life everyday they can still complicate it enough to cause so much trouble. Still yet, pray for them. Don’t be your narc, full of hatred, be full of Shalom!
Be full of what ..sh ?
Very helpful! Thank you!
Going through it now… it’s awful 😞
It is and it won't be easy. But you can overcome this. I have it for a time after I decided of walking away from my covert narc ex-wife for living a fake marriage for 20 years. So yeah, it's beyond unfair, but sooner or later the narc will get their karmic justice. Time to deserve yourself better. Best of luck, you got this.
@@Samaritan38 I feel used and yes unfair.
@@Samaritan38 it was all about the greencard. Pick that over destroying another person.
@@debdebcastillo6600 I was treated unfairly too. I did EVERYTHING that I could for being a good husband, but I was too overgiving and codependent which I'd thought that's part of being shared as husband and wife. Boy, I was dead wrong. I believe marriage might become an ancient dead institution.
@@debdebcastillo6600 You did everything that you could and being doing a 'good deed' is something valuable that God witnessed about you. Once again, that person wronged you, shall face justice soon and won't be pretty. You really deserve better and in time you will. Be strong, my friend. You're better off without that bad person.
You are so correct! It took me forever to figure that out 🫶Thank you Kevin.
Some situations may be different. What if you are a very small child and your mother had 2 other children by another man who were 20 and 22 years older than you. They hated that you were born, were always cold to you, planted negative seeds in people (including your mother) about you. Their father's family had totally different values than yours -- very materialistic. They perceived you as an object that was in competition with getting your father's ancestry objects after he passed, and succeeded in turning everyone against you to obtain their objective that was based on lies. As a small child, that person did not over-give anything to these half siblings -- except love to them that they were unable to give in return. But turning everyone against you by consistently planting small, negative seeds your whole life is not from that person giving too much.
Hey you look great royal wheee!
I am actually exhausted,
From living with another Narrsistic husband. It's making me sick. I want out. But I have no money.
My therapist said I should have someplace to live before I mention divorce to Frankie.
I'm trying to figure out how to get out
I was in that exact situation for a long time. After I repented and prayed is when everything began to fall into place and I finally got out of it.
Nope bitterness comes from livid vile abuse on the innocent .
Sounds like the pruning of the Times Variance Authority in Loki
I'm really struggling with resentment towards my narc parents right now. I'm trying not to but like they say once you see the narcissist's true self, you can't unsee it. I feel especially guilty as a Christian for feeling this way.
I'm also struggling with the guilt of someday leaving them and going no contact. I know its best for me to leave but both narc parents keep trying to guilt me into never leaving. I haven't told them my plans to go no contact but in the past when I used to say I wanted to live in a new state or country, they would say that if I ever left them I would regret it and that when they're on their death beds I'll be sorry that I ever left and would have to live with that guilt the rest of my life
Is this a manipulation tactic?
Also, I really need so feedback on this but would God be angry at me for leaving my narc parents and going no contact?
I'm Christian and so are my parents and I think thats why I feel guilty.
Kimberly, there is righteous anger like Jesus had! Do NOT feel guilty for having feelings, ever! No matter who abuses you, you have the right to feel anger, resentment, and desiring to be treated well! Yes, that is a very common trait of narc parents so they can continue abusing the children! That's awful not to show you love and respect like you deserve! They always say keep your exit quiet so the abuse doesn't escalate before leaving! Staying safe is the number one most important thing! 🙏 I'm so sorry you are going through this! Also, be careful who you put your trust into! I was betrayed by my sister when I left, and it did escalateand I also added anger and resentment for her betrayal! She never changed, and was nasty to me up till her death! I never got an apology and she even turned her daughters against me! I say trust no one, but I do pray you have at least one person to confide in, maybe a therapist! With compassion, Stacie 🙏♥️🌹
@@stacielivinthedream8510 🙏🙏💖💖 I'm so sorry your sister did that to you. You did not deserve any of it. I hope and pray you are healing and in a better happier place.
I think if you earnestly prayed and asked God, He would tell you to leave and never look back. Unfortunately, we normally don't ask these types of prayers because we feel that would be wrong because we were taught to love unconditionally and always turn the other cheek. The "church", in a lot of ways, has failed and perpetuated abuse, never teaching Scripture like 2 Tim 3:2-5. It describes a narc perfectly & tells us to "turn away" from such people.
For me, it was my narc spouse and God told me to trust Him after I learned of my spouses infidelity. When God told me to "trust" Him, I thought He meant for me to take my spouse back. Seventeen years later, I asked God if I had interpreted His meaning of "trust" wrong. He answered the next day, that instead the trust was that He would see me through a divorce. God does not want His children abused.
@@kimberlychristine9284 Thank you, Kimberly! I'm having a difficult life because of all the abuse throughout my life. I do my best! Bless you! ♥️
@@DSW-dq5bx Thank you for sharing that. I've really struggled with feeling guilty for leaving fearing God would be angry with me. But you're right when I think back I feel that God is quietly hinting/urging me to get out and I do feel there's something wonderful coming if I just trust in Him and leave. You're right about the church. I can't tell anyone at my former church cause they'd just say forgive them and love them. But it's true we are told to give narcissists unconditional love yet they only ever give conditional love. Thanks for sharing Scripture. I'm gonna highlight that one right now.
Your premise is not true - I am fighting my narcissistic family over a TRUST (money). Knew my mom was a covert narcissist but then I learned other family members were narcissists over this exchange. I am 40 and a generation of people are about to be screwed out of money as the boomers, and older die. I encourage you to look into this. "How Narcissists control the family system through money (even after death)" I am bitter and I admit it. It helps me remember I have value which sucks but right now dealing with legal stuff (the narcissistic family created) is all I have.
Tad is true ‼️ 9:02
🎯 wow wow wow
Never make a God...of people, places and stuff. Freedom. Amen
No I have been struggling with resentment and bitterness.
Watch this video. Then watch it again.
Truth
We attract what we are. Fact. I had to look at myself so l could heal. I will never attract them again. Why...cause l found my voice. Watch out for my ROAR.
I resent all the years they took from me because I didnt understand what was happening 😢
The church falsely teaches that giving without return is Christlike. But even Jesus got a ROI:"for the joy set before him" he endured
I love my son more than life. But I wish I NEVER met his father! Biggest nightmare of my life!
What a big disappointment for you, hope you will find a new way to start new again, and become free... with your son, who can visit both each one at his time .
Make yourself free ....❤
I am bitter. Is cutting off spindly branches like going no contact? It feels like the bitterness is part of the infrastructure.
Hey man I almost cut my finger off with my electric hedge clippers two weeks ago and my aunt across the street whom I've been no contact with for over a month now, knew about from my sister and didn't even call me. She's gotten to the point where she can no longer break the ice. She's as cold as ice. Stone hearted. I've literally been spared. I can now release it and never have to deal with her psychological abuse anymore. They don't have to tell you, their actions speak louder than words. She's always been notorious for falsely accusing me knowing I had a clinical depressed with schizophrenic effects. And she has a minor or major in psychology.....I say major red flag....analyze this....lol. It's people like them who teach people like me to use their tactics against them. I'm way too much of a challenge for alot of them. And I really hit them where it hurts, to the core. I have been given the gift of discernment and can see it coming before it even happens so I can avoid and be well prepared for the attack. What a ride is all I have to say.
Your smoke is not going up in a waft of nothingness .
…. loveless inhabitants walk among us. The name of their game is Take and Don’t Say. 💊 I believe in Miracles.
@joanntur. I didn’t mean to neglect your comment. So sorry about your finger. Things like that happen so fast. At least it sounds like a problem was resolved because of it. tc
I've healed with lightning speed. 8 stitches no biggie. I even removed them for show and tell when I went to my follow up appointment. Then my auntie poo aka witchie poo, call me from hee balcony to go get ice cream, how sweet. No problem. I usually accept any act of kindness.....too bad they can't.
“It’s this bitterness and this resentment that is staying inside”. I knew it was a healthy response. When people show you who they are, believe them. “All bitterness and resentment are are a retooling process”. When strangers don’t receive you, dust off you feet as you move along the Bible says. Why was extending an olive branch or trying to get to know a woman whose own community hates (Sue M. I should have known that they knew more than me. 😞Trying to make “peace” with someone “Mike R” who hated me on sight. Well, you live and learn). “It’s a pruning process”. It was to make you angry enough with these extended branches that are coming off of you that are only there to hurt you”. “Loving on who don’t deserve it or want it”. Even they know they are not worthy - especially her. OMG, I was seeking some sort of acceptance or approval from Satanists 😱😳😲Lesson learned
Cut to the chase here. Don't throw pearls before swine.
At least u got a smaller cigar this time.. thank god u are realizing how harmful smoking is for u..
😂😂😂
For some it is, and for others it is not, you can be 100 with a cigar, I think it releaves stress ❤
Oh please .
My mother-in-law smoked 2 packs a day and died aged 92 -- no cancer. Mind, that's not an endorsement for smoking, BUT each person is different 🤷♂️
I just booked a one-on-one with you but no one has called yet?
KEVIN DID YOU OPEND YOUR HART if I can read body language! 1:24
I think as Christians we give because we want to follow Jesus’ Golden Rule. You simply want to treat others as you would like to be treated. You might not have expected reciprocation, but you might have hoped for it, and that hope not being realised and your love not being returned, can lead to bitterness.
Not sure I agree with this one!
When you're pointing a finger, there's 3 pointing back at you.
BOOM 💥💥💥
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