that is a very liberating thought with one big caveat. What if the person you're having a problem with will not tell you why they are upset. As hard as you try, they will not be forthcoming on the reason for the disturbance in the relationship.
It is liberating up to a certain point! After that it can keep you stuck trying to fix something that should really be abandoned. One very valuable solution must always be kept in mind for this to work: I can walk away without feeling like a failure.
Kirk, if you'd prefer to think others are in charge of your relationships, that is up to you. I encourage people to reflect on their relationships and realize they hold the key--even if that key sometimes is distance. Not everyone will understand this. That's why I suggest you think about it before you angrily walk away :)
Wow! You can control it! So often, I get caught up with the muck, that I lose sight of my ability to flip the script ❤ Thank you
That's very very very liberating! Thank you for that perspective. I am the solution. 👍♥️
that is a very liberating thought with one big caveat. What if the person you're having a problem with will not tell you why they are upset. As hard as you try, they will not be forthcoming on the reason for the disturbance in the relationship.
You are still in charge. You can accept the silence, go to therapy, or leave the relationship. You are in charge of every relationship in your life.
It is liberating up to a certain point! After that it can keep you stuck trying to fix something that should really be abandoned. One very valuable solution must always be kept in mind for this to work: I can walk away without feeling like a failure.
Absolutely agree--totally, Miriam. Sometimes the only thing you can give a relationship is--DISTANCE.
Reallly aligned with this message today oddly 🎉 🎉Thx🎉
You have to go beyond the surface, imo, to see the truth of this message.
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Kirk, if you'd prefer to think others are in charge of your relationships, that is up to you. I encourage people to reflect on their relationships and realize they hold the key--even if that key sometimes is distance. Not everyone will understand this. That's why I suggest you think about it before you angrily walk away :)