Yes! We did care about them more and they had a way of manipulating us into thinking the opposite was true. Love doesn’t do that though, love is mutual and it doesn’t consist of one individual doing everything all of the time to make the relationship work.
They do not respect anyone. Even those who are higher than them, older people, educated people, noone. It is another sign how to recognize who is a narcissist. They are self- caring creatures on the planet :)
The death of my son was used against me he took me to court over my daughters he told them I had a son that died in my care and how he feared for the life of his children because I was mentally incapable to care for them and was hearing voices trying to get out of paying child support. it was like burying. My son all over again now I had to explain what happened to him he was murdered by the babysitter and I found him in a bucket of water he was 11 months old and I was 16 when it happened I didn't meet the narc till I was 29 and he used it against me
@@hide_and_go_sikh I disagree who want to live under constant surveillance I have a better idea stay away from people and keep to yourself and never fall in love with anyone it will save you much heartaches
I cared more about my narc than myself to the point DEATH. In 2018, I could no longer digest food due to my insides being twisted up like a pretzel after living in fight or flight mode for 25 years. I stopped eating and got ready to die. After a couple days I started feeling better. Turned out I can no longer tolerate 80% of the food supply due to my newly acquired autoimmune disease. My narc knew stress was killing me and never took her foot off the pedal. I got my life in order and when the discard came I was healthier and able to take the metaphorical knife out of my back and cut all ties with her. My smell, taste, hearing, memory, cognitive ability etc etc are returning and I feel better than I have in decades. So NEVER GIVE UP AND REMEMBER WITH GOD-EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT!!! Love you guys!!!
So very sorry about this horrific experience that you had ! I am real happy for you that you are so much better now May G-D lead you to a full recovery and a beautiful life ahead Blessings to you Tamar❤
I am sitting in the middle of a huge peace now, without them. Sometimes it is hard to know what to do, how to act, because I have been my family's scapegoat for 60 years. But I do believe that there's nothing I could have done to make them any different. I am enjoying existing.
@@shahadah1451 everything will find its right place and calm will come, but like a gardener we must look out for the return of weed growth in any form and act right there and then to rid our garden of what we don't want in it, and this can mean bad memory's. When bad memories come I try to instantly move onto something that makes me feel good. And let that good feeling grow and grow.🌱🌿🌼
'No good deed goes unpunished' the final kick in the teeth came, when my ex declared that not only had I never loved him, but that I never supported him and that I had eroded his confidence as well. I have never felt so misunderstood and unappreciated by anyone else in my life 🐼
Yup. I was somehow responsible for her low self-esteem. I tried explaining how that's impossible since the definition of self-esteem is literally how YOU feel about YOU. In one ear and out the other
That was them projecting their feelings on to you. This is what they do when they devalue you. Cruel people who can't look within themselves, rotten to the core.
Unfortunately true Andrew! Having good manners along with ignorance set me to fall prey to these monsters. I was never taught to put myself 1st, 2nd, or 3rd. Gaining the wisdom has been a blessing to understand & overcome. Fumbling forward....I regain all that is me & will NEVER allow their behavior to rip off any more of my life! Blessings everyone 🎀😘
Sometimes looking at my part in all of this is hard. To be honest, there were times I knew I should do something about what was happening. I did not want to change things because I was getting something, all be it to my distruction, a need to be accepted by my narc. Being able to look truthfully was the start of my growth.. Thanks for your comment.
I always thought my narcissist not saying goodbye was just plain rude and I tried to teach him basic common courtesies like that which now I see is one of the biggest red flags like he said
Yes! I was raised as a people pleaser - to always worry about what other people think. Plus, I'm an Empath. This made me a prime narcissist target. I also couldn't imagine someone being so abusive like that because that's not how I am wired. 🌻💕It is critical to "Build Yourself Up Healthy" and remember we always try to better ourselves until we die. Protect yourself! Work on yourself, grow and believe you are worthy! Caring about yourself is okay. 💜🐼🌻
I always saw it as the narcissist's self-fulfilling prophecy, that the marriage would end. Now I see it in an entirely new way. It wasn't because he came from a broken marriage home. It was him.
The first thing my totally destroyed narcissistic wife did when I left her was make sure that she went to her hair appointment and get her hair done LOL
My narcissist mother told me my whole life - you’re so selfish you only care about yourself. Finally in 2015 I cared more about myself and went no contact. I’m now 62 and happy.
A child learns what they live. A child lives what they learn. I was a neglected child that grew up having to sacrifice my own needs for others. I do not know how to love because I was not loved. So how can I care for myself. I must learn to. Life started at 43. I'm getting better as I'm healing by God's grace and knowledge of Truth.❤
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlonethank you for your counseling videos & contact which nudge me to REFLECT and do the labour of disambiguation to separate my thoughts to live by truth in this I CARE for my spirit as God cares for my soul ❤
Yes the narcissist needs a punching bag and they choose the people closes to them. You actually build up the narcissist at your own detriment. The narc drains you while they get stronger. They do need you more than you need them.
@@Willa4420 You speak the truth!! …because if they actually did they would’ve never done the things they did, they never would’ve said the things they said, and they never would’ve made you feel the way you felt while you were with them. It wasn’t love. You wanted it to be love, you loved. However, they did not.
🎉 wow its not untill ones out of the relationship you realise how warped the narc is . Yes the texes were so stressful i remember the panic feeling of hoping he wouldnt be unhappy about me or what i did trying to please him was impossible 🎉
Absolutely correct! I even remember times when she pulled into the driveway and said she wanted to talk to me. I was so traumatized I would just say “what did I do wrong now.”
After the education and the healing, another relationship my not seem important. If you do desire another relationship, make sure you are strong enough to say ‘no’ when the red flags appear.
When you said they don't even like you, that hit hard and true. He would constantly say and do things that made me feel like he disliked me and was jealous of me. So twisted to get that from the man that you loved.
Thank U So Very Much For Sharing this. You Are Absolutely Right. I Went Through Horrific Emotional and Verbal Abuse.The More Love I Showed Him The Worst He Treated Me. Narcisstic abuse is brutal
The love we gave them was thrown back in our faces every day. Same here, it is horrific.. It just wears you down until you hardly recognise yourself anymore! Although it hurts we are better off away from that toxic energy. God bless you and I wish you every blessing on your healing journey and a happy life.. 🩷🌷🌷🌷🙏
Yes, i put him on a pedestal for over three decades. I gave without a fault and was taken for granted. It's an unequal balance from day one. I didnt take care for myself and had so many things to do....they sat back with a smirk on their face and watched. I was broken down before the discard. The relationship impoloded when i put a boundary in place. He walked off after dividing our family and children. Out now a year and there's so much peace. It does get better but it takes time.
Puncture holes in the boat ! That is the truest statement ever said ! All I have been doing is repair the punctures. They have no fear, no guilt. No empathy . Existing is the only way you actually survive 💯
🎯FACTS 💯!my health has improved. Dramatically, my doctor couldn't believe my blood work. In 1 year, everything is back to normal. Never again will I neglect myself. Lesson learned. SELF ❤
That is exactly what I said to a'' friend'' of his, I care about him more than I care about myself. Silence , withdrawl ,and peace to all ! I have to disagree a little on the hang up thing tho, after many silent treatments, I did hang up the phone on my ex, I call it the empath rage. How dare someone gaslight , go silent, punish me, for no damm reason. If I do not get a mature conversation, or NO conversation, I hang up, well I did. I will never engage in that kind of thing again , that is what narcs want , a reaction, any reaction, because they did not work through their childhood issues. If someone will not talk to you , hang up, cut off and never look back. A mature conversation is not much to ask for.
Very very sorry that you went through that evil encounter Wish you a real great happy life In the future Am writing on my husband's cell phone mine is being charged at the moment Have a beautifull day Tamar
It's all good 👍, It would be wise to just leave me alone. I don't know if they are that bright. They drinking sniffing 👃 the crap 💩 and wiping their asks on anyone they can. I'm in a good spot right now out of the neighborhood. I'm Away from Hodgkins, and all the punks, and in a very nice peaceful neighborhood. A big-time Catholic community. Seems they are very nice around here.
💯 That is why you lose yourself during the time with these individuals . You will never be enough for them because they are empty holes..... and will get bored with you....
I was also never taught to put myself first being a Christian and a father and a husband I always put myself last and I understand the need for that but it can go to extreme
Not just narcissistic spouse/partner. Narcistic mother (or father) ... with them from the very beginning of your life. Everything you have said is 100% correct Andrew. They seek to steal, kill and destroy your life, creating a never ending series of shifting sand situations, with no stability to focus on your own life and future. The energy and focus of attention required for these creatures cannot be satiated. Thank you for your wisdom. Best wishes to you and those who appreciate you. All the best.
Yes we put them first and put so so much time and Energy into them, ,,we neglected ourselves,,our needs our wants,,,,fast forward we now have a clear path,without distractions, without being called upon,,The Freedom and inner peace is priceless,,,a fresh New Start,,for all of us to follow our dreams and pursue anything we want,,,👍💙🦋🌺✨❤️💛
Dear Andrew, you touched on so many things I went through in the past years ! Its all true because you lived it too! All survivors I wish you a wonderful weekend. All new ones, I wish you the same wonderful weekend! Plan, keep that plan safe to leave the narc! Protect yourself and your children. Keep a low profile from the narc if you are still in their space! Keep your phone close to you, keep your keys in your pocket. Leaving may be the only safe way out!
Unfortunately with a narcissist you are groomed from day one to expect less and less. So eventually you expect nothing, and are told it is your own fault.. How efficient
OMG! That is exactly what the do! And at the end we get nothing but more intense abuse and eventually a discard unless we gather the strength to walk out!! Namaste!💗
Understandable. Must practice "Emotional Detachment" from the narcissist behaviors and continue learning, and taking good care of yourself regardless of where you are with or without her. Do not let the circumstances change your beautiful heart and self. Good luck and blessings to you in your journey to healing. 💗
Hi Andrew and my beautiful family! We cared about them more than ourself but we also lost ourselves in a situationship!! It's crazy because during the relationship we didn't even realize how we were losing ourselves, because we was going through so much manipulation,gaslighting, devaluing, disrespect and some of the most hurtful things a human being should go through!! But what they fail to realize is once we found ourselves again... this is the version they wasn't ready for of us!! I hope everyone has a wonderful stay and stay strong never love someone more than you love yourself!!💜💜 namaste 🙏🏽
All true and he placed me in isolation. And slavery...when I realised and started to live on my own way hooverings were so agressive for days. Last one was fake call on my workplace. And last rage was threat to accusing me that I'm alcoholic but I'm not. I got real enemy in that person.
Protect yourself. I had some very scary hoovers done to me and I ended up having to get a restraining order in place. Once they know your are serious they run away like the cowards that they are. Blessing to you and good luck. You are not alone.
Great video Andrew. Yes very true in my narcissistic relationship i did love him more than anything else. I now see that he lied and manipulated me in every way possible. If i resisted he would always say i knew that you didn't love me. So many times he used that against me. Another way would be he would say, if you love me you will buy me this . Usually something expensive. Or it was me trying to prove that i actually did love him. I now see that i really did love him more than anything. And that he never loved or cared about me. I'm glad i was discarded a very painful lesson but it has made me stronger. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words.
I entered it, because I was raised in dysfunction. I chant your first, second, third now. Fortunately, I LOVE learning. Thank you Andrew and tribe. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️
I will always be a caring person now I put myself first in the past everyone came before me great video I no longer have to prove myself to anyone, 💯 new doors open 🙏💕
Hope you are having a lovely evening. I think you will soon be too busy studying to contribute to the channel. It's so great to feel energized about something!😊
@@emilywilson7308 awww so sweet of you and I’m just now seeing this 🤷♀️ 🤗 I’ll pop in daily of course🥰, but definitely gonna take some adjustments for me and it’s all good. I hope you’re good!
This is so true. In my experience the more i did for him the more he became needy. Just like a child asking for things as everything is normal. I kept asking myself why am i always the go to person. And i asked him why can't you do it, well he would have always a good answer that would make sense. For him anyway. Thanks for this video Andrew and have a great afternoon in your beautiful NC. 😊👐❤
Yes, they are stuck in a helpless child mode and you're the mommy! One time due to a ridiculous request, I said,"I'm not your mother!" He didn't speak to me for 3 days!
@@emilywilson7308 i can relate Emily i had a similar experience with my ex narc. Not being talked to for days. It is so childish. Now we are free thank God. Have a great evening and night my friend. 🤗🩷🙌🙏
@@mariefrancebourget1749 mine didn’t speak to me for 3 days because I interrupted him at the wrong time. (He used to leave big pauses when speaking…..I think now it was a trap! I didn’t interrupt him at all! 😃 Glad you are out of ‘it’.
@@freebird968-wg4ye Hi, i agree with you it was probably a trap just to provoke a reaction from you. That's a mind game. These narcs use the same tactics, they are all the same. Have a great day! 🤗🙌🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you again for your work and sharing all your wisdom. Please feel free to put an ad or two on your videos. You need to be getting paid for your efforts. I would be more than happy to watch your videos even with an ad or two!
The truly terrifying thing is all the people, including children, who are ensnared in narcissistic relationships and have no idea whats going on. They just assume mom is weird and annoying, or that this new boyfriend has an attitude problem, or that their boss is not nice person. I at least always new something was amiss, though I didn't understand it was narcissism. So I had some coping strategies and defenses. But I really feel bad for those who are completely blindsided by these bloodsucking and have no clue what they are in for.
I’m really hoping those new doors open for me. I’ve been so beat down. I finally see through this person, but they did succeed in making me feel worthless.
Absolutely correct Andrew. These words should haunt a soul if an about face in self care has not happened yet. This is one of several key self sacrifices the takers look for. Now out of it by years, it was and will always be the oddest interaction not walked away from immediately.
A few days before I discarded I actually heard his “ new friend” on the phone say,” your wife is not all what I expected.” That was the nail in his coffin. I gave so much and spent months being dismissed. Divorce signed 7 months no contact, therapy for me and I’m coming through with health and wisdom. Thank you for my daily dose of positivity. Keep moving forward, lost 25 lbs ,swim daily . I was so ill in the relationship. Not on a diet, weight just fell off😉🧘🏼😊
Too true, Idolatry! Without our realising we had put them on a pedestal. We are told that we cannot serve two Masters, meaning when our attention and energy is being spent elsewhere, it's not been spent where it is supposed to be. And like you, by the Grace of God and an answered prayer, I was rescued.
I recall being on a tight budget and buying some luxury chocolates and toiletries for them and realising that I had to go without something I needed for myself , and knowing they might not even appreciate the gesture . I stood at the paypoint wonder WHY I was doing what I was doing , it felt wrong , but I couldn't stop myself ,...THAT IS THE MADNESS ! 🤔😳🤨
I gave her chocolate and flowers on her desk when she was working on her degree. She told me to never do that again. I never understood why she didn’t want my attempt to let her know how proud I was of her to become an insult
@@emilywilson7308 Just to be totally open, She always told me about a me about a memory she had as a little girl and asked for new shoes with her parents while they were eating dinner at a Red Lobster restaurant. They told her no. I went to Macys and bought a pair of the best shoes they had for a little girl, placed them under her pillow and a card telling her I was sorry she had to go through the pain. I told her in the card that there was a little boy back then that would one day buy her the shoes and love her. She told me that night, I was being stupid. I
It's literally like you were a fly on the wall in my relationship with all these facts you're dropping. It's crazy that these narcs are all the same, and they think they're so unique and special.
I noticed the Narcissist never showed genuine gratitude. I think this is one of the methods they use to ensure you keep giving more of your energy and attention. The Narcissist told me "You always give 100, no 150%." That was about a month before he discarded me. Nothing is good enough for them. At the end of the day, deep down they don't see themselves as worth loving, so why would they respect anyone who loves them?
Yes you’re right. I bought mine a few items of clothing at the beginning. He couldn’t even fake a thank you. It was just a sort of indifference. He never wore them. So I didn’t do it again except birthdays etc.
Yes Andrew. It’s true. I always cared about them than myself but that’s changing and I take accountability for that mistake. I’m older and still learning. So thankful for your advice and wisdom.
It’s as if they get you into a pattern, a cycle where you learn to take care of them more than you do yourself. They have a good way of making you feel guilty if things don’t go according to how they’d like it. It’s frustrating. …or I should say, it was frustrating.
@@Donnahodgins I’m thankful we both know!! When these same patterns and cycles have been modeled to you before you just kind of think that’s the way things are supposed to be, but it’s not. Now it’s up to you to do the work in order to instill change. Continue to stay strong 🌻
“Center your self and be who you are” post discard that’s what I’m learning and working on. Being with a narcissist was an experience where I lost myself and became a doer for the narcissist, now it’s a journey of discovery of my true self. Now I can be who I am and not feel guilty about pursuing that. 😊
It's terrible when it's a sibling, and they turn all other family members against you...😢 It's impossible to stick up for yourself. So sad... I can't undo what she's done to our whole family...
Andrew, you speak for the hearts of every dedicated empath that finally found out the hard way ( like myself ). Message from an old Veteran- Money IS important, but it's secondary to morals, ethics and health. The ex-narc ended up successful financially, but with precarious health. The relentless drive meant carrying a corrosive stress in attaining that goal.The formula in dealing with people in a Narc-ish fashion ( how can I use that person?) won't work for most Narcs in the long run. A mutually supportive relationship could possibly have provided a re-charge and stress relief outlet. All afore mentioned, is an opinion, based on empirical knowledge ( I've seen it more than a few times). Thanks, Andrew!
That was great Information an spot on im recovering lifetime of being a doormat abuse including waking up 4 years ago to my wicked mother an family were al narcs an every relationship was co dependent so sadly my body gave in 6 years ago causing massive spiritual awakening long story but found myself threw lot of writing that took me al the way back to wen I 19 an I experienced so much panic from the family tgat set me up to appease them al and people in the world caused me to lose my true self threw complex Ptsd my body honestly is bein rebuilt energetically sounds mad long story to much to put down but al a lot of phsical pain had no idea these creatures exist , anyway got long road back hope this helps thank u for consistent reminders to keep vigilant an heal before getting entangled again 🙏
I’m currently 5 weeks being discarded for a new supply. In 3 weeks he moved in with her. Left me mentally stuffed. I knew she was cheating, I had the gut feeling. I done everything for her and gave everything. It’s amazing how they can just throw you out like you meant nothing but trash on the ground. I have a 5 yr old daughter who doesn’t want to go home. Talked with lawyers but not sure what to do. My eyes are wide awake. 10 yrs of off and on with constant mental abuse and brain fog. Your videos are excellent and seems like all coverts are the same like a template.
The narc was repeatedly hanging up on me as I was trying to talk about our problems;always on the defense! No to counseling, no to trying to work things out etc! But I always had to be the yes person just to keep peace! These narcs have such a sense of entitlement!! He told my mom years ago” I want it all”! I’m tired of paying the price! No more; still blocking! I’m so thankful I found these videos Andrew! 🙏
Dear, Andrew! Spot on! So very true! Thank you for the almost healing comfort your education brings me! May God bless you most richly every new day! 💯💖💖💖💯💝💝💝
Whoa! When you said "They don't even like YOU!" And the way he said it, wow 15:06. Facts. That's deep and so sad. Hits different when it's the person who gave birth to you. I'm still coming to terms with that part.
Thankyou for affirming the essential fact that we were placed in a manipulative bind we simply were unaware of. Your words are oxygen for mind and soul.
We did care about them more, and we thought that that was love. We were misinformed. Now that we know, life is very different in a good way.
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Well said 🤜🤛 !
Yes! We did care about them more and they had a way of manipulating us into thinking the opposite was true. Love doesn’t do that though, love is mutual and it doesn’t consist of one individual doing everything all of the time to make the relationship work.
Absolutely correct
Yes misinformation ,mislead up the garden path, and Deceived,,, ❤️💛🦋✨
Isn’t it a shame that we have to educate ourselves concerning the narc and what they can do to us. It is just downright pathetic
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It's a huge gift so we can learn, grow and enjoy life again.❤
We are survivors!!!
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No Shame on geting educated,we grow and evolve,,,,we will not let it Define us, it's the Narcissist that's Pathetic😂😂
Well said. So true.
A life on the hamster wheel
...until you lose consciousness.
I hope everyone is safe.
Thank you Andrew!💞
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Yeah, they're a bottomless pit that can never be satisfied even when you're giving more than your all.
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"You will never get the right peanut butter." FACTS!!!
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Besides learning to say "No" to people...make disrespect one of your boundaries. They never respect what you do for them.
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They do not respect anyone. Even those who are higher than them, older people, educated people, noone. It is another sign how to recognize who is a narcissist. They are self- caring creatures on the planet :)
@@rena523 yes - if someone is kind they think that means stupid.
Stop catering to them and start taking care of yourSeLf 😘
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I cared more about the family unit and doing what was best for my children. And that was taken for granted and used against me.
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The death of my son was used against me he took me to court over my daughters he told them I had a son that died in my care and how he feared for the life of his children because I was mentally incapable to care for them and was hearing voices trying to get out of paying child support. it was like burying. My son all over again now I had to explain what happened to him he was murdered by the babysitter and I found him in a bucket of water he was 11 months old and I was 16 when it happened I didn't meet the narc till I was 29 and he used it against me
@hannastrack4310 That's why everyone should be under constant video servailence.
@@hide_and_go_sikh I disagree who want to live under constant surveillance I have a better idea stay away from people and keep to yourself and never fall in love with anyone it will save you much heartaches
Always!!
I cared more about my narc than myself to the point DEATH. In 2018, I could no longer digest food due to my insides being twisted up like a pretzel after living in fight or flight mode for 25 years. I stopped eating and got ready to die. After a couple days I started feeling better. Turned out I can no longer tolerate 80% of the food supply due to my newly acquired autoimmune disease. My narc knew stress was killing me and never took her foot off the pedal. I got my life in order and when the discard came I was healthier and able to take the metaphorical knife out of my back and cut all ties with her. My smell, taste, hearing, memory, cognitive ability etc etc are returning and I feel better than I have in decades. So NEVER GIVE UP AND REMEMBER WITH GOD-EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT!!! Love you guys!!!
Thank you for sharing 😌🙌🙏💯
Love to you too! 👍
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L❤VE YOU TOO ❤✌🙏🕊✊🍀
So very sorry about this horrific experience that you had !
I am real happy for you that you are so much better now
May G-D lead you to a full recovery and a beautiful life ahead
Blessings to you
Tamar❤
So glad you're recovering from that horrific experience. Love and light 💗🕯️
I am sitting in the middle of a huge peace now, without them. Sometimes it is hard to know what to do, how to act, because I have been my family's scapegoat for 60 years. But I do believe that there's nothing I could have done to make them any different.
I am enjoying existing.
💙🎶🙏enjoy each sacred moment of peace and calm.
@@mariageaney2362 Thank you. Yes, it is strange and beautiful.
I love this remark!
"I am enjoying existing" How beautiful!❤
@@shahadah1451 everything will find its right place and calm will come, but like a gardener we must look out for the return of weed growth in any form and act right there and then to rid our garden of what we don't want in it, and this can mean bad memory's.
When bad memories come I try to instantly move onto something that makes me feel good. And let that good feeling grow and grow.🌱🌿🌼
'No good deed goes unpunished' the final kick in the teeth came, when my ex declared that not only had I never loved him, but that I never supported him and that I had eroded his confidence as well. I have never felt so misunderstood and unappreciated by anyone else in my life 🐼
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A Heartfelt hug to you my friend. ❤
They all say that script...
Yup. I was somehow responsible for her low self-esteem. I tried explaining how that's impossible since the definition of self-esteem is literally how YOU feel about YOU. In one ear and out the other
That was them projecting their feelings on to you. This is what they do when they devalue you. Cruel people who can't look within themselves, rotten to the core.
Unfortunately true Andrew! Having good manners along with ignorance set me to fall prey to these monsters. I was never taught to put myself 1st, 2nd, or 3rd. Gaining the wisdom has been a blessing to understand & overcome.
Fumbling forward....I regain all that is me & will NEVER allow their behavior to rip off any more of my life!
Blessings everyone 🎀😘
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yes I am needing to accept the role I played in this scam. I was needing a friend, only that person was NEVER my friend. Lets stay true to ourselves.
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Sometimes looking at my part in all of this is hard. To be honest, there were times I knew I should do something about what was happening. I did not want to change things because I was getting something, all be it to my distruction, a need to be accepted by my narc. Being able to look truthfully was the start of my growth.. Thanks for your comment.
That is just it. Introspection will determine what vulnerability was used and abused.
We learn a lot about ourselves through this experience. We learn what we will no longer tolerate!
Don't feel like the Lone Ranger.....I had to recognize this too!
Blessings 🎀😘
This is sooooo very true!!! So glad I got out!!!!!! 29 months post narc, no contact!!!! I now come 1st, 2nd, and 3rd.
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I always thought my narcissist not saying goodbye was just plain rude and I tried to teach him basic common courtesies like that which now I see is one of the biggest red flags like he said
Yes! I was raised as a people pleaser - to always worry about what other people think. Plus, I'm an Empath. This made me a prime narcissist target. I also couldn't imagine someone being so abusive like that because that's not how I am wired. 🌻💕It is critical to "Build Yourself Up Healthy" and remember we always try to better ourselves until we die. Protect yourself! Work on yourself, grow and believe you are worthy! Caring about yourself is okay. 💜🐼🌻
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I always saw it as the narcissist's self-fulfilling prophecy, that the marriage would end. Now I see it in an entirely new way. It wasn't because he came from a broken marriage home. It was him.
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Those days are O-V-E-R
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They want you off kilter in chaos and confusion 💔
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The first thing my totally destroyed narcissistic wife did when I left her was make sure that she went to her hair appointment and get her hair done LOL
Absolutely! That's very comforting to get your hair washed and be pampered.😊
My narcissist mother told me my whole life - you’re so selfish you only care about yourself. Finally in 2015 I cared more about myself and went no contact. I’m now 62 and happy.
Good for you!
Congrats! Best decision I ever made was to stop all interaction with my older sister who is a narc.
A child learns what they live. A child lives what they learn. I was a neglected child that grew up having to sacrifice my own needs for others. I do not know how to love because I was not loved. So how can I care for myself. I must learn to. Life started at 43. I'm getting better as I'm healing by God's grace and knowledge of Truth.❤
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlonethank you for your counseling videos & contact which nudge me to REFLECT and do the labour of disambiguation to separate my thoughts to live by truth in this I CARE for my spirit as God cares for my soul ❤
Blessings Sweetheart!!!
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"They have an ego the size of the planet"... yep 💯💯💯💯
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So disgustingly true!!!
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Yes the narcissist needs a punching bag and they choose the people closes to them. You actually build up the narcissist at your own detriment. The narc drains you while they get stronger. They do need you more than you need them.
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Yep!! Darn right they needed a punching bag.. in more than one way.
@@danielle1103 Yes!!! And the hardest blow comes when you realize this person NEVER loved you or had your best interest at heart.
@@Willa4420 You speak the truth!! …because if they actually did they would’ve never done the things they did, they never would’ve said the things they said, and they never would’ve made you feel the way you felt while you were with them. It wasn’t love. You wanted it to be love, you loved. However, they did not.
@@danielle1103 EXACTLY !! BIG TIMES.
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Absolutely correct! I even remember times when she pulled into the driveway and said she wanted to talk to me. I was so traumatized I would just say “what did I do wrong now.”
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Yes I recall that too it was always drama ,.❤️💛🦋✨🙏
I felt like that before with my narc ex gf.
After the education and the healing, another relationship my not seem important. If you do desire another relationship, make sure you are strong enough to say ‘no’ when the red flags appear.
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EXACTLY - Had realized I was far more important than I had believed myself to be, plus, I needed to survive and live.
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When you said they don't even like you, that hit hard and true. He would constantly say and do things that made me feel like he disliked me and was jealous of me. So twisted to get that from the man that you loved.
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That's how I was raised. We all had to be slaves to Mom. And she took all the credit.
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Thank U So Very Much For Sharing this. You Are Absolutely Right. I Went Through Horrific Emotional and Verbal Abuse.The More Love I Showed Him The Worst He Treated Me. Narcisstic abuse is brutal
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The love we gave them was thrown back in our faces every day. Same here, it is horrific.. It just wears you down until you hardly recognise yourself anymore! Although it hurts we are better off away from that toxic energy. God bless you and I wish you every blessing on your healing journey and a happy life.. 🩷🌷🌷🌷🙏
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Thank You So Very Much You Are Absolutely Right…
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Demi, everyone here knows exactly what you are speaking of. You are not alone. We are all healing together.❤
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Yes, i put him on a pedestal for over three decades. I gave without a fault and was taken for granted. It's an unequal balance from day one. I didnt take care for myself and had so many things to do....they sat back with a smirk on their face and watched. I was broken down before the discard. The relationship impoloded when i put a boundary in place. He walked off after dividing our family and children. Out now a year and there's so much peace. It does get better but it takes time.
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Glad you are free!
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Narcs and phone games… That was my no going back deal breaker. For all you newbies - get out of dodge - trust yourself 💕
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♡ to everyone for a better tomorrow
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Puncture holes in the boat ! That is the truest statement ever said ! All I have been doing is repair the punctures. They have no fear, no guilt. No empathy . Existing is the only way you actually survive 💯
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlonedifficult day today , thank you .
Andrew saved me and ALL of us. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
🎯FACTS 💯!my health has improved. Dramatically, my doctor couldn't believe my blood work. In 1 year, everything is back to normal. Never again will I neglect myself. Lesson learned. SELF ❤
That is great news!! Health is a gold standard 💛
Congratulations. I hope that I can say that too someday. ❤
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That is exactly what I said to a'' friend'' of his, I care about him more than I care about myself. Silence , withdrawl ,and peace to all ! I have to disagree a little on the hang up thing tho, after many silent treatments, I did hang up the phone on my ex, I call it the empath rage. How dare someone gaslight , go silent, punish me, for no damm reason. If I do not get a mature conversation, or NO conversation, I hang up, well I did. I will never engage in that kind of thing again , that is what narcs want , a reaction, any reaction, because they did not work through their childhood issues. If someone will not talk to you , hang up, cut off and never look back. A mature conversation is not much to ask for.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Facts and truth. Stand in truth and keep well ,Andrew.
Most people are not capable of a mature conversation!😅
@@emilywilson7308 Yeah rare these days, and the dating scene is a joke. The lack of respect is ridiculous.
Deconstruction are their tools. Step by step. From family, friends, work,money and status. Then you get kicked to the curb.
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Very very sorry that you went through that evil encounter
Wish you a real great happy life In the future
Am writing on my husband's cell phone mine is being charged at the moment
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It's all good 👍, It would be wise to just leave me alone. I don't know if they are that bright. They drinking sniffing 👃 the crap 💩 and wiping their asks on anyone they can. I'm in a good spot right now out of the neighborhood. I'm Away from Hodgkins, and all the punks, and in a very nice peaceful neighborhood. A big-time Catholic community. Seems they are very nice around here.
💯 That is why you lose yourself during the time with these individuals . You will never be enough for them because they are empty holes..... and will get bored with you....
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Please take care of yourself and I will take care of myself as well.
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Even knowing all these things, it still FLOORS me this situation with my husband
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It's so difficult to get your head around it😢
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And Andrew you’re so right about the online dating sights! What losers and moochers! They’re all looking for a free place to live!
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The narcissist has no care inside of them, so they steal yours from you. The more you give, the more they take.
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I'd hit that button five times if I could!
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You’re helping me so much to survive. Sincerely thank you!
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I was also never taught to put myself first being a Christian and a father and a husband I always put myself last and I understand the need for that but it can go to extreme
Yes we are taught to go the extra mile.
I'm so glad they're gone. It's such a blessing 😊😊😊😊😊
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Not just narcissistic spouse/partner. Narcistic mother (or father) ... with them from the very beginning of your life. Everything you have said is 100% correct Andrew. They seek to steal, kill and destroy your life, creating a never ending series of shifting sand situations, with no stability to focus on your own life and future. The energy and focus of attention required for these creatures cannot be satiated. Thank you for your wisdom. Best wishes to you and those who appreciate you. All the best.
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Yes we put them first and put so so much time and Energy into them, ,,we neglected ourselves,,our needs our wants,,,,fast forward we now have a clear path,without distractions, without being called upon,,The Freedom and inner peace is priceless,,,a fresh New Start,,for all of us to follow our dreams and pursue anything we want,,,👍💙🦋🌺✨❤️💛
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Beautiful truth....so grateful!!!
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@@marieeakin8534hope you are doing well,and take good care of yourself,lots love sent,🙋❤️💛🤍🦋✨🌹🌹🌹
The clear path with a fresh start. I like how that sounds. Well said. Thanks. 💓💯☺️
Abundant Blessings love and light and encouragement sent out,to All you Beautiful People,🌺✨❤️💛🤍🎉🎉✨🌙🌎🙋☘️🇨🇮
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Thank you, Flower! Hope you are having a relaxing weekend.🥰
@@emilywilson7308yes all's ok hope you are doing well lots love,and blessings sent ,❤️💛🤍✨🌹🌹🌹
Thank you flower and the same sent back to you.
Enjoy the rest of your day.
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Dear Andrew, you touched on so many things I went through in the past years ! Its all true because you lived it too!
All survivors I wish you a wonderful weekend. All new ones, I wish you the same wonderful weekend! Plan, keep that plan safe to leave the narc! Protect yourself and your children. Keep a low profile from the narc if you are still in their space! Keep your phone close to you, keep your keys in your pocket. Leaving may be the only safe way out!
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@janetroberts5140, all great advice. Thank you for posting!
Agree. Leaving is the best, or get ready for the final discard coming fast and furious as our resources and health get diminished with time. Namaste!
Unfortunately with a narcissist you are groomed from day one to expect less and less. So eventually you expect nothing, and are told it is your own fault.. How efficient
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OMG! That is exactly what the do! And at the end we get nothing but more intense abuse and eventually a discard unless we gather the strength to walk out!! Namaste!💗
I have been in the fog with my wife for years. I cannot extricate myself because she has a serious health condition and I’m trapped!
Godbless u Sir 🙏💔❤️
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Understandable. Must practice "Emotional Detachment" from the narcissist behaviors and continue learning, and taking good care of yourself regardless of where you are with or without her. Do not let the circumstances change your beautiful heart and self. Good luck and blessings to you in your journey to healing. 💗
OMGOSH 100 % correct.
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Hi Andrew and my beautiful family! We cared about them more than ourself but we also lost ourselves in a situationship!! It's crazy because during the relationship we didn't even realize how we were losing ourselves, because we was going through so much manipulation,gaslighting, devaluing, disrespect and some of the most hurtful things a human being should go through!! But what they fail to realize is once we found ourselves again... this is the version they wasn't ready for of us!! I hope everyone has a wonderful stay and stay strong never love someone more than you love yourself!!💜💜 namaste 🙏🏽
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Hope you had a nice relaxing weekend!🌷
All true and he placed me in isolation. And slavery...when I realised and started to live on my own way hooverings were so agressive for days. Last one was fake call on my workplace. And last rage was threat to accusing me that I'm alcoholic but I'm not. I got real enemy in that person.
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Hopefully there is karma for that nasty person!😢
@@emilywilson7308 Yes...I believe in that. Thank you dear Emily and have a nice Sunday. ❤️
@@Tatjana.B Hope you had a good weekend, Tatjana!🌹
Protect yourself. I had some very scary hoovers done to me and I ended up having to get a restraining order in place. Once they know your are serious they run away like the cowards that they are. Blessing to you and good luck. You are not alone.
Great video Andrew. Yes very true in my narcissistic relationship i did love him more than anything else. I now see that he lied and manipulated me in every way possible. If i resisted he would always say i knew that you didn't love me. So many times he used that against me. Another way would be he would say, if you love me you will buy me this . Usually something expensive. Or it was me trying to prove that i actually did love him. I now see that i really did love him more than anything. And that he never loved or cared about me. I'm glad i was discarded a very painful lesson but it has made me stronger. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words.
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It's a bitter pill to swallow!😢
Once you realize this you can turn it around and get back on track
You can re-align and re-design yourself and your life 💙
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Thank God!!! 👍
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Love it!!!❤
I entered it, because I was raised in dysfunction. I chant your first, second, third now. Fortunately, I LOVE learning. Thank you Andrew and tribe. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️
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I wonder if there has ever been a narcissist that has suffered death of the ego⁉️
I will always be a caring person now I put myself first in the past everyone came before me great video I no longer have to prove myself to anyone, 💯 new doors open 🙏💕
Felt so much strength in this delivery 💪 ❤ thank you 🙏 ✨
Hope you are having a lovely evening. I think you will soon be too busy studying to contribute to the channel. It's so great to feel energized about something!😊
@@emilywilson7308 awww so sweet of you and I’m just now seeing this 🤷♀️ 🤗
I’ll pop in daily of course🥰, but definitely gonna take some adjustments for me and it’s all good. I hope you’re good!
@@gratefultobehere I am doing well💕
I've been doing that all my life why I believe it is more blessed to give than to receive.
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This is so true. In my experience the more i did for him the more he became needy. Just like a child asking for things as everything is normal. I kept asking myself why am i always the go to person. And i asked him why can't you do it, well he would have always a good answer that would make sense. For him anyway. Thanks for this video Andrew and have a great afternoon in your beautiful NC. 😊👐❤
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Yes, they are stuck in a helpless child mode and you're the mommy! One time due to a ridiculous request, I said,"I'm not your mother!"
He didn't speak to me for 3 days!
@@emilywilson7308 i can relate Emily i had a similar experience with my ex narc. Not being talked to for days. It is so childish. Now we are free thank God. Have a great evening and night my friend. 🤗🩷🙌🙏
@@mariefrancebourget1749 mine didn’t speak to me for 3 days because I interrupted him at the wrong time. (He used to leave big pauses when speaking…..I think now it was a trap! I didn’t interrupt him at all! 😃 Glad you are out of ‘it’.
@@freebird968-wg4ye Hi, i agree with you it was probably a trap just to provoke a reaction from you. That's a mind game. These narcs use the same tactics, they are all the same. Have a great day! 🤗🙌🙏
Got hung up on a bunch of times followed by ghosting and silent treatment. And mini discards. Absolute insanity
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you again for your work and sharing all your wisdom. Please feel free to put an ad or two on your videos. You need to be getting paid for your efforts. I would be more than happy to watch your videos even with an ad or two!
Hung the phone up on them because I was tired of the NARCS psychological nonsense!
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I agree. I think he should monetize the channel.
That's why the word "hope" is a 4-letter word for me.❣️
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The truly terrifying thing is all the people, including children, who are ensnared in narcissistic relationships and have no idea whats going on. They just assume mom is weird and annoying, or that this new boyfriend has an attitude problem, or that their boss is not nice person. I at least always new something was amiss, though I didn't understand it was narcissism. So I had some coping strategies and defenses. But I really feel bad for those who are completely blindsided by these bloodsucking and have no clue what they are in for.
I’m really hoping those new doors open for me. I’ve been so beat down. I finally see through this person, but they did succeed in making me feel worthless.
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Absolutely correct Andrew. These words should haunt a soul if an about face in self care has not happened yet. This is one of several key self sacrifices the takers look for. Now out of it by years, it was and will always be the oddest interaction not walked away from immediately.
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A few days before I discarded I actually heard his “ new friend” on the phone say,” your wife is not all what I expected.” That was the nail in his coffin.
I gave so much and spent months being dismissed. Divorce signed 7 months no contact, therapy for me and I’m coming through with health and wisdom.
Thank you for my daily dose of positivity. Keep moving forward, lost 25 lbs ,swim daily . I was so ill in the relationship. Not on a diet, weight just fell off😉🧘🏼😊
That bad telephone connection.
If I had a Nickle ........I'd have a small fortune.
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Or there’re out of signal or battery - even when needing 999 for an ambulance ffs - nice one!
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But by the grace of GOD. He rescued me from this IDOLATRY of a relationship 😊
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Too true, Idolatry! Without our realising we had put them on a pedestal. We are told that we cannot serve two Masters, meaning when our attention and energy is being spent elsewhere, it's not been spent where it is supposed to be. And like you, by the Grace of God and an answered prayer, I was rescued.
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I don’t need a therapist Andrew because you have the best advice. Thank you so much. 😁❤
Yes, it sure has helped me 👍tremendously!
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I recall being on a tight budget and buying some luxury chocolates and toiletries for them and realising that I had to go without something I needed for myself , and knowing they might not even appreciate the gesture . I stood at the paypoint wonder WHY I was doing what I was doing , it felt wrong , but I couldn't stop myself ,...THAT IS THE MADNESS ! 🤔😳🤨
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I gave her chocolate and flowers on her desk when she was working on her degree. She told me to never do that again. I never understood why she didn’t want my attempt to let her know how proud I was of her to become an insult
That is so strange, darrell!
@@emilywilson7308 just trying to understand! . I did all I could and it was never enough! Just don’t understand
@@emilywilson7308 Just to be totally open, She always told me about a me about a memory she had as a little girl and asked for new shoes with her parents while they were eating dinner at a Red Lobster restaurant. They told her no. I went to Macys and bought a pair of the best shoes they had for a little girl, placed them under her pillow and a card telling her I was sorry she had to go through the pain. I told her in the card that there was a little boy back then that would one day buy her the shoes and love her. She told me that night, I was being stupid. I
It's literally like you were a fly on the wall in my relationship with all these facts you're dropping. It's crazy that these narcs are all the same, and they think they're so unique and special.
It can feel awkward when we start meeting people that are not soul snatching thieves.
😂 I'm suspicious of everyone!
@@emilywilson7308 tough combination to be naturally trusting but forced to accept how dishonest most people are.
@@franksimmons9242 I just assume they are dishonest, until they prove over time that they have the courage to be real.
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I noticed the Narcissist never showed genuine gratitude. I think this is one of the methods they use to ensure you keep giving more of your energy and attention. The Narcissist told me "You always give 100, no 150%." That was about a month before he discarded me. Nothing is good enough for them. At the end of the day, deep down they don't see themselves as worth loving, so why would they respect anyone who loves them?
Yes you’re right. I bought mine a few items of clothing at the beginning. He couldn’t even fake a thank you. It was just a sort of indifference. He never wore them. So I didn’t do it again except birthdays etc.
Thank you's and Sorry's require humility. The Royalty won't go near that.
Hit the nail on the head 3:26 Valuable learned lesson. Excellent video
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Very lovely man. You explain things well. Thank you for your time. Be proud of yourself for being such a support to many confused and upset people😉
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Yes Andrew. It’s true. I always cared about them than myself but that’s changing and I take accountability for that mistake. I’m older and still learning. So thankful for your advice and wisdom.
It’s as if they get you into a pattern, a cycle where you learn to take care of them more than you do yourself. They have a good way of making you feel guilty if things don’t go according to how they’d like it. It’s frustrating. …or I should say, it was frustrating.
@@danielle1103 I know what you mean.
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@@Donnahodgins I’m thankful we both know!! When these same patterns and cycles have been modeled to you before you just kind of think that’s the way things are supposed to be, but it’s not. Now it’s up to you to do the work in order to instill change. Continue to stay strong 🌻
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I am still here and I am so glad to see you Andrew....
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My wife gaslighted me to an extreme and once I knew what she was doing it was comical because I was like this is ridiculous utterly ridiculous
“Center your self and be who you are” post discard that’s what I’m learning and working on. Being with a narcissist was an experience where I lost myself and became a doer for the narcissist, now it’s a journey of discovery of my true self. Now I can be who I am and not feel guilty about pursuing that. 😊
So true! You are so right!
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Not just the relationship but the house that they live in as well, does not get treated right. To be reborn again once you send them packing!
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It's terrible when it's a sibling, and they turn all other family members against you...😢 It's impossible to stick up for yourself. So sad...
I can't undo what she's done to our whole family...
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Andrew, you speak for the hearts of every dedicated empath that finally found out the hard way ( like myself ).
Message from an old Veteran- Money IS important, but it's secondary to morals, ethics and health.
The ex-narc ended up successful financially, but with precarious health. The relentless drive meant
carrying a corrosive stress in attaining that goal.The formula in dealing with people in a Narc-ish fashion ( how can I use that person?) won't work for most Narcs in the long run. A mutually supportive relationship could possibly have provided a re-charge and stress relief outlet. All afore mentioned, is an opinion, based on empirical knowledge ( I've seen it more than a few times). Thanks, Andrew!
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That was great Information an spot on im recovering lifetime of being a doormat abuse including waking up 4 years ago to my wicked mother an family were al narcs an every relationship was co dependent so sadly my body gave in 6 years ago causing massive spiritual awakening long story but found myself threw lot of writing that took me al the way back to wen I 19 an I experienced so much panic from the family tgat set me up to appease them al and people in the world caused me to lose my true self threw complex Ptsd my body honestly is bein rebuilt energetically sounds mad long story to much to put down but al a lot of phsical pain had no idea these creatures exist , anyway got long road back hope this helps thank u for consistent reminders to keep vigilant an heal before getting entangled again 🙏
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The following goes out to anyone who needs or wants some angelic light waves.🕊️💙🎶
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" Night winds "
To hear the wind in the silence of the night
Is to feel the warm reassuring love of angelic embrace.
Feeling their ancient language of calm
That balance's through the silence within the silence.
This sound of feeling
Is the great connection to source spirit.
This feeling also becomes
The rising of the kundalini
That has been tempted to uncoil so you feel the intimate connection with
The nights magnetic moon code cycle.
All angels; earth and astral.....celestial
Engage themselves to your vibrant fibres of light
Weaving threads.
And feed you the essence of heavenly elegance.....magnified !
Magnified to imagine the vast inter-outer layered dimensions that only night wind can dress you in
And you undress into your spirit silver surging skin.
And bathe in the soothing winds of the night.
© Maria geaney 🦊🔥🙏
March 28th 2023
Wishing all empaths the power of forever sight light.
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Just beautiful, Maria!❤
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@@emilywilson7308 🎶💙😊thank you
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I’m currently 5 weeks being discarded for a new supply. In 3 weeks he moved in with her. Left me mentally stuffed. I knew she was cheating, I had the gut feeling. I done everything for her and gave everything. It’s amazing how they can just throw you out like you meant nothing but trash on the ground. I have a 5 yr old daughter who doesn’t want to go home. Talked with lawyers but not sure what to do. My eyes are wide awake. 10 yrs of off and on with constant mental abuse and brain fog.
Your videos are excellent and seems like all coverts are the same like a template.
This message is so important.
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The narc was repeatedly hanging up on me as I was trying to talk about our problems;always on the defense! No to counseling, no to trying to work things out etc! But I always had to be the yes person just to keep peace! These narcs have such a sense of entitlement!! He told my mom years ago” I want it all”! I’m tired of paying the price! No more; still blocking! I’m so thankful I found these videos Andrew! 🙏
You got this, Karen!😊
@@emilywilson7308 Appreciate you!😀
@@Karen-fx8ek We are all here healing together.🌷
@@emilywilson7308 THANKYOU Emily,it’s hard lately as I just started blocking! THANKYOU so much and appreciate you! I’m praying for you;all us!🙏
@@Karen-fx8ek Ohhhh, so kind of you! Prayer is powerful🥰
All I wanted was "the promise of a day that would never arrive". Love that!
So much truth here. (Newbie)
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You're Brilliant, Andrew! Your insight never ceases to amaze me. Thank you SO much!
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Dear, Andrew! Spot on! So very true! Thank you for the almost healing comfort your education brings me! May God bless you most richly every new day! 💯💖💖💖💯💝💝💝
Welcome 💯🙌😌
Whoa! When you said "They don't even like YOU!" And the way he said it, wow 15:06. Facts. That's deep and so sad. Hits different when it's the person who gave birth to you. I'm still coming to terms with that part.
Thankyou for affirming the essential fact that we were placed in a manipulative bind we simply were unaware of. Your words are oxygen for mind and soul.