Narcissists use ANY system… religion, spirituality, finances, business, social structures WHATEVER to fuel their behavior and to legitimize their actions
I believe you're correct. Narcissists will use anything at all they believe will get them narcissistic supply, and they will change as needed to keep getting supply when the old ways stop working.
Truth. New age religions are just witchcraft & satanism in disguise. So is paganism! Its evil and is completely self centered instead of caring fir others like Christianity. If you dont believe me research it all
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
A spiritual person seeks connection with something greater than themselves, displaying empathy, humility, and a desire to help others. In contrast, a narcissist is driven by self-importance, lacks empathy, and craves admiration. While spiritual individuals might sometimes use language like "I am God" or "I am the creator," this is typically meant to express a sense of unity with the divine or the universe, not self-aggrandizement. It reflects an understanding of interconnectedness and shared divinity, rather than a belief in their personal superiority. Though both may exhibit confidence and influence, their core motivations and behaviors are fundamentally different. Their intentions and impacts on others are worlds apart.
EXACTLY!!!!!! Because the thing is we have the power on what we want to manifest but we not dumb and know God/angels/universe/ancestors are guiding us. Having a spiritual awakening is on going layer like an onion but we all are going through this and learning. But that’s not narcissistic trait. 🤣🙄 that’s a way of living in your truth and growing up spiritually. A lot of ppl haven’t felt a spiritual awakening and you gain different gifts within. It means learning to accept you are okay with dark and light. The balance of life. Duality. But also understand polarity in the world.😅 it’s a on going learning experience. But that sounds like level 3 he’s in the layer of opening your soul up during the ego death. I don’t know him personally but it’s layers to it.
Ima empath I have CPTSD hyper vigilance TBI am I a narcissist abuse survivor . They have empathy, just not a lot because their brains lack the gray matter and certain areas. Most narcissist are made narcissist by trauma either in childhood or prolonged trauma and adulthood. They made that way by delusions and abuse of society and the judgment and prejudice.. the fact that there is effort getting put in and they are exposing themselves, which is something they don’t do apparently is a huge deal. it’s a huge deal that they expose since everyone is afraid of them or hates them because there’s a type of abuse named after them when the truth is not all narcissist are abusive it’s a mental illness abusive people are abusive.
The opposite of narcissism is Accurate Self Appraisal and Accurate Appraisal of Others. It's when you neither downplay nor overexaggerate your genuine strengths or accomplishments and weaknesses or failures. You see yourself and others in a realistic way.
That's a trick too. All this relative stuff of strengths and weaknesses is just part of the web of socially constructed narcissistic illusions. You just are and you'll do what you do. The more you try to think you're accurate or realistic, it'll just turn into covert narcissism eventually thats kinda just the mainstream norm so we think its okay. Eventually, gotta let go. The truly humble aren't downplaying or exaggerating at all, they just aren't thinking about it - throwing out this relative measure of who they are. They just stopped playing that game.
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
By what standard do you measure your accuracy of appraisal? By what standard are you good? Better than the next guy? Better than average? The average of wherever society it is that you live compared to other societies which may have higher or lower standards? Wouldn't the only objective standard be perfection? I say this to tell you that God is the ruler of this universe and He gets first dibs on setting what is right. We know morality in our conscience that lying is wrong, adultery is wrong etc, humility is good, love is good, but have you ever held to the laws or your conscience perfectly for a single day in your life? No one has. To say you believe in something accurate or objective but don't believe in God's law is unreasonable. You won't ever see yourself accurately until you see that you're a sinner who's offended the God of this universe and that there's nothing you can do to redeem yourself by trusting in yourself. Only Jesus is worthy of trust because He lived sinless than died for sin. I'm not saying this to "push religion" or whatever but to spread the simple truth that no one is right before God.
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
Once you realize you have no control over anything other than the way you react to the things that happen to you, it’s like the most freeing feeling ever
But that’s not the proper definition of narcissistic personality disorder!!!! This is a disorder where one sees themselves as more important or most important in expense of others feelings! Like parents who place their needs before their children. Everyone think they opinion is so important or their definition is need to be shared to the masses. Sometimes it’s okay to have opinions and keep them to yourself.
@@M0J0_ but a lot of Christian’s have done exactly this to achieve being popular. Sometimes small opinions don’t care about yours and will continue to define the world we all live in.
@@israeltellez5996 not as long as I am alive. Small opinions aren’t exempt from the truth . If he isn’t using the definition proper it would make him illiterate. No need to argue wit a fool.
@@M0J0_ argument can be healthy though it keeps us from being narrow minded. N teaches one another. But there’s more people who would understand more about that
Just cause you are a narcissist doesn't mean u have npd. Your life and social groups get effected by the disorder for it to be called a disorder. There's narcissist people with full jobs and a family so scientists can't say those people have npd.
He doesn’t know what narcissist actually are . It’s a personality disorder . As a spiritual person who married and divorced an actual narc this isn’t true, spiritual people actually all have different paths and we don’t all agree on the same things but some people can be narcs and spiritual and it’s not real authentic. So beware of true souls and false ones . Because spiritually is about evolution and you can still believe in God , Jesus pray and meditate and rely on things outside of yourself . We don’t all follow the same things and narcs use people as supply I suggest people study what narcissist actually are
"Narc" used to be a derogatory name for a narcotics officer. Or someone that used to tell on you. "Don't narc on me bro". You've given it an entirely new meaning. It literally never occurred to me to abbreviate narcissist like that.
I grew up with a narccicistic parent who used new age spirituality as a means to feed his narccicistic supply. He went to a group and had everyone eating out of his hand.
I was thinking the same! All this talk on how spiritual people believe and think, but not one I’ve met has been such a way! Glad he is putting in the effort of letting his ego and narc traits go, almost like he is the creator of his reality (like we all are) it really seems he’s just talking smack on how he viewed spirituality before turning to god.
Spiritual people are one of the most best people you will ever come in counter with. You can bash New Age all you want, but the reality is most people are good people and wish no harm on others. On the other hand, there are some Christians that I like, but I have had more negative encounters with Christians than new agers.. It’s all about being humble and compassionate and being a calm individual. Narcissism stems from selfishness and lack of compassion for others do not categorize new ages as having those tendencies because that is far from the truth.. if you don’t wanna believe in spirituality that’s up to you that is your choice . we are all on different paths and we must not judge one another because the same path and the same learnings do not work for everyone.
What people consider new age spirituality, isnt actually new age. What they consider new age is stuff thats been around thousands of years before christianity even began lmao
@@thrasherfoo Well, that’s what the common person understands it is . Personally, I think it’s a stupid word. I just called myself spiritual I don’t belong to any specific denomination.
They are the worst in my experience….they often act, make decisions that cause pain to others, but say “I signed a contract saying I’d do this” or “my higher self is guiding me” all while doing the same messed up stuff most humans do. But detaching from the reality that in this dimension they are choosing to do that action. They always utilize another dimension or their higher self, or the journey. It’s like bruh you messed up just own it and cut the riff raff.
@@the_gibber999 I'm sorry that you had that experience. But I on the other hand try my best to Be The best person I can be while helping others along the way
@@Authenticityistheway333 don’t be sorry, apparently I signed a contract in another dimension where I chose this experience. So, everything is working in balance. Highs and lows of this human experience I guess. Keep on keeping on the good work of being the best you and helping others, that is in all seriousness honorable.
Thank you for this conversation. My sibling died recently and my so called 'spiritual' friends were treating me like a lepar. As if my vibe was too low and I was told I was playing the 'victim' as I was sad about it. I was so confused and went into a shame spiral as apparently we are souls having a human experience, which I agree with to a degree but doesn't mean I won't feel sad. What a crock of shit. It's really changed my opinion on that whole fake world.
I got very little support from my christian friends as well when my dad died. I tried venting about it to a long time friend who always told me everything about what she and her family were going through. She shut me down and said I might need to speak to a therapist. So the conversation can't be about me and what I'm going through for once? I have stopped paying attention when she vents as well, and it feels like such a shallow friendship now.
I’m sorry you had that experience. I used to be really into the whole spiritual community but also got turned off by the holier than thou attitudes and condescension. I still pray and meditation and do my best to maintain my relationship to the divine and the mundane. I agree that we are souls living out this experience, and that physical death is not the end, but your friends were wrong for putting you down over your grief. Spirituality is NOT all rainbows and sunshine and light and love. You have to do SHADOW work as well as light work. The simple fact is, your sibling died, and no matter where their soul may be or how connected the two of you may remain spiritually, they are not physically with you anymore. You will never embrace them or share a meal with them again in this lifetime. That is sad for you and the others your sibling left behind here. And you should absolutely allow yourself to grieve and heal in your own time. I hope you are recovering. And although I don’t know you, I extend to you my love. Every community and ideology has a section of people who do not adequately understand or represent their own beliefs, and I hope I have shown you that the “spiritual world” is more than just fake, selfish love and and light virtue signalers. It can be and is much deeper and very real. You just have to find your own path to it. Consider it a blessing and a lesson that your friends showed their true colors. Best regards and be good to yourself, from stranger on the internet
@@BBoyShadyGrady that's so kind of you, thank you. I agree 100% with everything you said. Ironically I went to a very chilled festival in the countryside this weekend and it reignitated some aspects of spirituality for me and the people were not pretensious and kind. I think there are different levels to spirituality that we all have to pass through. I myself have to look at my own judgement towards others and that's what this whole experience has taught me. I think there's a period where you believe you can only be positive and then you go deeper into the shadow work like you say (and I have done a lot of myself) to discover your parts
Those aren’t real spiritual people.. those are grifters and I’m sorry they tried to downplay your lost my condolences goes to you and your loved ones 🙏🏿
I love seeing people who aren’t scared to say this kind of thing. There’s a lot a guy can get done with this kind of vibe and intellect, he can even get more done being eye-catching like that. Good for you, bro. New fan. 💪💪👍👍
This guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Spiritual people aren’t selfish. Spiritual people don’t try to hate others and talk bad about other people or get revenge.. spiritual people know what love is and they love people they are giving and kind and want what’s best for others. They don’t get jealous. When other people succeed they are happy for them. That’s not narcissistic narcissistic people are very jealous egotistical selfish they think their shit don’t stink anyone who would buy into this and believe this is, just not a very intelligent person. Most people are spiritual people because all people have a spirit.
Doesn’t need to know what it means, just needs to speak to people’s myths and misconceptions about narcissism think. He just needs to match viewers’s gut feelings and preconceptions. Like a priest or pastor or spiritual leader.
oh honey… with that explanation everyone is a narcissist i fear Loving yourself and putting positive affirmations into the universe to manifest things doesnt make you selfish or narcissistic, it means you are trying to do better and focus on yourself. Dont let his ignorance get in the way of your healing 🫶
“There’s a darkness upon me that’s flooded in light.. and I’m frightened by those who don’t see it” Thanks for speaking on this it will trigger many but it’s NECESSARY I run across these types so much- if someone self titles themselves😔 I don’t put much into anything else they say🤷♂️ Being a “Spiritual healer” etc- has to be an attractive thing to people who only care about themselves- it’s basically giving them a Drs title with no real proof of anything, it drives that ego! And a true spiritual leader or person will always question ego, and what it brings up. Be careful- SM is flooded with false light workers and others with BPD calling themselves empaths to get ATTENTION! It’s an EASY way to get attention, or fit in, idk I look at what I have and idk if most would know what to do, and tbh I don’t all that often: but I gave all that over to the Divine nothing that comes from my energy is MY doing, I’m just a vessel willing to. As well as willing to accept and give energy to reach out to those hurting.. and even to expose fakes, liars and thieves. Idk why else I’m here I should not be, there’s something I’m supposed to do still.. Every time I think I find “Purpose” I end up realizing, no they just showed what you wanted I am coming from experience.. these types know how to play and manipulate energy, as well as get attachments as they open up TOO much, and use questionable practices. I think many are missing his point- he’s not saying all Spiritual people are narcissistic he’s saying it’s an attractive thing for a narc to want to act like! They have no empathy so, what better way to fake people? And when he said the thing about vivid stories of how they had something happen in a past life😂 keep telling yourself that🙈 and run and chase(why would someone turn on themselves in a past life for you, but not travel to see you in this one😂🤷♂️ because they know it’s not true) someone that loves you will get up and come when you ask even if they aren’t ready or know it’ll hurt them. So don’t let anyone tell you otherwise that travelling is too much🙏✌️⭐️ if it’s real nothings too much. Keep being you!💫❤️🩹
Having self love, self respect, self care, self confidence, are all different from narcissism. Even putting yourself first is different from narcissism and self importance. From an outside perspective they might look the same but they’re absolutely not.
Ok now I’m just like, these aren’t real spiritual people these are frauds and shouldn’t be confused because narcs will camouflage into any community, doesn’t reflect those people doing no wrong.
Straight up! I got out of a relationship with a narcissist. He was religious until I introduced him to spiritual practices and understanding. For reference, I'm a Pacific Native. He always wanted to be the teacher but not the student. He wouldn't put the work into having a better understanding of what he started to preach to others. I had to constantly try and fix the b.s. he would tell others. He moved to Cali to start his spiritual practice. I wish him the best, but I've seen the way he forces himself and half understandings on others. He always had a natural charm that would make people believe him easily. He would rather have the attention from spiritualism than anything else. This guy used to put me down for how I saw the world until he knew what it would bring to him. It was weird and f'd up. Definitely learned a lot from that situation.
There’s a lot of people who seem really triggered in the comments but I really hear what you’re saying. I remember being a little kid and being sent to kindergarten and I was so taken aback when the teacher was asking the class “what do you want to be when you grow up?” And I was even more perplexed that my peers readily had answers for that when I had none because all I could think of was “what do you mean by that? I already am, what else would I be?” But through conditioning through public school and living in this modern society really drills it into your head that you have to do something or be something and it completely misses the point of what it means to BE here and have this experience and I’m also stuck in that web with everyone else so I get what you mean of how are we to try to detangle ourselves from this false narrative of what existence means especially when it’s so easy to get stuck in the same damn web time and time again in a myriad of ways. How do we get out of that? Especially when after years of being tangled that we forgot what it’s like outside of the trap and now that’s more intimidating because the trap has become more familiar and therefore more comfortable, yet at the same time, there’s an intrinsic part of us that knows we’re forgetting/missing something so fundamental and that’s so far beyond this physical reality. In short I get the point you’re trying to make lol
im a fairly spiritual person but im not in control of everything n im definately not a narcsist im the exact opposite but i have been gaslighted n traumitised by narcsist in my lifetime not all spiritual persons are negative or narcsist
100 percent agree dude I think there are some people who have been hurt so much from narcissistic abuse and I too have dealt with that. It takes a lot of self control to not be like them. I’m definitely far from it too.
In Truth, all people have a soul/ spirit.. When people are communing with God ( prayer) , they are showing that they are humble in knowing that they need to ask God to please help & lead them.
And someday, some experience will come to you. This experience will probably teach you something really important about who you are, what your thinking and mindset had created. I hope when this time comes you have the calm clarity required to understand this lesson. It's hard sometimes when you are young, you want so much to be right. But let these notions go. You seem very angry, or perhaps upset. There is a whole world of amazing beautiful experiences to live through. Try not to be so hard on people, all of us are on a special journey in life. Your experience is no different than any spiritual person. You will find the truth, in time.
My experience: Spirituality was a way of finding inner peace and self-love instead of searching for happiness in material possessions and people. Showing unconditional love to others and allowing myself to receive it. Showing gratitude for everything in life, with the perspective that life works for me and not against me. All of this while maintaining boundaries to protect my peace. If you’re attempting to use spiritually to control anything other than yourself, then you have it wrong.
Not all spiritual people are like that. You’re talking about the influencer type of spiritual person. I know the type you’re talking about and I agree. It’s that lack of God and prayer in their rituals. It’s more like they’re the God, which is indeed very narcissistic.
If we are human, we are narcissists - it's about experiences. Love thyself so you can Love others. It gets easier when you love yourself. That way, when you do come across an annoying human, it doesn't bother you what they do. ❤
You sound insane, but that’s a good thing, it means your expanding your mind. Your closer to figuring out who you are and what you were meant to do on this earth. Most people don’t go through this stage until later in life, they spend most of their lives letting their ego control them. For many that awaken later in life, they find that they lived unfulfilled lives.
☯️ I am a spiritualist. I don’t subscribe to one religion or particular laid out path, but I do study and learn from many. There’s a reason the Bible says “the straight and narrow” ((which according to biblical scholars, straight doesn’t mean linear it’s actually another word for narrow lol)) I’m not sure I fully agree with each of the ways you’re labeling co-creation or I am principles as narcissism. But I do hear your heart and I do agree these are very important meditations. ☯️ it is a narrow path to remain in integrity and the path IS always moving/changing/expanding as part of the ever expanding universe.. to stay in harmony is a dance. Sometimes you explore and take charge or hold/experience your power, and sometimes, you reflect or step back. Sometimes you spring and summer. Sometimes you fall and winter. I know I’m speaking metaphorically, but heart to heart, I hope my messages translate.
Your clothes is just a part of an art, if you think narcissistic is a trait of an artist then blame the building and painters and a hair stylist and musician and writers since the ancient of time. Dude no bs but there is a light path in this. Judging on the way others live, believe or the way THEY DECIDE to live is part of an ego mindset and if you look back on this video, I hope you see that your thoughts and how they are contradictory thoughts. based on narcissistic tendencies and your story with your ex, I can see your point but just let people be and focus on you. Understanding everyone has their OWN journey in life and once you decide to be different and not norm embrace it. The world will tell you who to be and how to be but to know yourself is to love yourself and your flaws, and that is part of understanding the world’s flaws as well. ❤❤❤🤍🤍🤍🤍 Much love and Light! 🙏🏽🫶🏾
Your clothes is just a part of an art, if you think narcissistic is a trait of an artist then blame the building and painters and a hair stylist and musician and writers since the ancient of time. Dude no bs but there is a light path in this. Judging on the way others live, believe or the way THEY DECIDE to live is part of an ego mindset and if you look back on this video, I hope you see that your thoughts and how they are contradictory thoughts. based on narcissistic tendencies and your story with your ex, I can see your point but just let people be and focus on you. Understanding everyone has their OWN journey in life and once you decide to be different and not norm embrace it. The world will tell you who to be and how to be but to know yourself is to love yourself and your flaws, and that is part of understanding the world’s flaws as well. ❤❤❤🤍🤍🤍🤍 Much love and Light! 🙏🏽🫶🏾
You are searching for THE TRUTH KEEP SEARCHING You are pointed in the wrong direction. Using yourself as the starting and ending point is like a compost pile. Just rotting. Change your point of view-look up WHEN YOU FIND GOD you will find THE TRUTH
I absolutely agree. You’re right, whether people realize it or not. Or believe these things for self preservation or to get out of bad situations, when you take things literally and to the extremes, it absolutely is narcissism.
I don’t know if you intended to help believers, but this helped my faith and I thank you I see me having these types of thoughts myself, and I think you have helped me think of it in a different way. I appreciate it.
A truly spiritual being shows humbleness. If it’s not there…they are still not at the spiritual place they try to show, regardless the speech. For me the greatest show of spirituality, humanity, souls of light is showing doubt. Someone who’s certain about everything, that holds the whole truth and doesn’t have flexibility is biggest show of being exactly on the opposite direction
Yesssss!! I know so many people in the spiritual community and they are great people but in connecting through that community I have been exposed to some of the worst people. Spirituality has now become part of a class war and has been used to further survival of the fittest mentality. It has rampantly been overtaken by Christians who now think ascension is the rapture and attribute concepts they used to burn people for as their own. It’s maddening. And it’s all about money now. It’s all Ego. Spirituality is leaving behind the people who need it the most because they don’t have enough money or they are “low vibration” and acting like 5D Earth is an elite place when in reality it where we need to lift every single person to. Like if someone doesn’t manifest themselves out of poverty they aren’t trying hard enough. It’s garbage thinking. So thank you so much for this.
True. This manifestation crap is dangerous. People prey on others weaknesses by pushing this. Making false predictions are also terrible. Everyone today wants to be so special, no humbleness, no empathy or concern except for show. People film tragedies vs help, too much SM & all about looks, clothes, plastic surgery. Good job on this😊💙
Smart people or at least wise people who’ve been exposed to it, often come to that conclusion. We all probably struggle with this stuff, but Jesus didn’t, without succeeding. The way many of us go thru hoops to avoid living a life in Christ is funny.
This is called a spiritual bypass, skipping the heart. Doing the spiritual work to know who you are, humbled by Gods love, you will come to know, you are a Co-creator, addicts learn this in to 12 step recovery programs, its a process to get connected, plugged in and stay on the path to Gods good! , no short cuts, no judgement of self or others.
There is good and bad in everything. There are good cops and bad cops, good doctors and bad doctors; there are good spiritual people and bad spiritual people. Honestly, the intention is what sets one apart. Being spiritual, for me, can help me see value in other people as well as myself and in my own life. Also, people can have narcissistic tendencies without being full narcissists. Please look into this and stop making people feel bad about their way of getting through life. 🤦
Saying “I am the creator” is not narcissistic. We are all one, and we are all a fragment of the creator. It is our divine right to create our life the way we want to. I agree that it should not be done through controlling/manipulative means, but only the ego is capable of that. We are the higher self, and surrendering to it just means allowing it to enter your being in this human body. You are either asleep to it, or embodying it. The “you” you speak of is a false identity in itself. Yes, your ego is not god, and if it does identify as god, then it will present as narcissism. But YOU are not the ego. You are awareness itself. The deeper you go into this awareness, the more you will see our own infinite potential.
Yes it is because the devil tells people the lie he told Eve that you can be like God while we are the creation and Jesus is the Creator and says man that disobeys Him worships creation over the Creator
@@ServantStatusMinistriesand can you prove that the bible didnt tell u lies lmao. No . U cant. So u could easily be the onr manipulated and brianwashed. Yet here you are with certainty that we are wrong lol. Considering your religion wasnt created till thousanfs of years after many others. Might as wrll believe in zeus or hades. Because thats hoe u sound buddy lol. U misinterpret what we mean by we are god. We dont mean us as individuals. We mean we are god or i am god as in we sre all one with god. Much like every cell in your body is you! Every cell is apart of you. It is you. Same for us, but with god. We are essentially the cells of god. We cant be be more like god or less like god. We are all one with god. Theres no magical powers u get lol. We arent claiming to be some god like individual who can control reality. God isnt an individual. God is presence. The essence if everything. An eternal divine cosmic force that is beyond our selfish needs wants desirez. Its egoless existence that we all share a part of. Its silly to think of a devil or an individual god. To think we are made in his image is ridiculous
@@ServantStatusMinistriesIt's called the "christ consciousness" or for whichever religion you believe in. You think in the same way, it even says you are made in his image. Thus you are a piece of the bigger picture, of the full embodied kingdom of God. Thus being more fully present with this higher power, your eyes are open to the kingdom of heaven. The bible is a psychological roadmap to being the king, who sees that heaven is life on earth.
@@kyleschneider3147 somewhat true but remember that Jesus says seek first the kingdom of God and all of His righteousness and Hearts also says that My Kingdom is not of this world. We are only made in the image of God when we have first believed in the image of the unseen God which is Jesus Christ.
Spiritual people dont manipulate other people to get what they want. What you did prior was create bad Karma in your chakra by manipulating people to get what you want
Well obviously it should go without being said that they arent actually practicing spirtuallity then right? Lmao. Someone who treats someone like shit obviously isnt healed. Thats someone pretending to be spirtitual. And failing at pretending.
Actually, we are all everything. Individually and as a whole. God is within. Christ had that realization but nobody understands that it is something we all have in us, we have been brainwashed to think we have no control. We do.
This is the problem with you new Christians. You literally make no sense. The Bible doesn’t say we are all everything individually and as a whole. You’re so self absorbed that you don’t see how dumb it is to say that. If we all are everything why would it fucking matter if it was as an individual or as a whole 😂. Jesus literally tells us in The Bible NOT TO ADD TO THE WORD OF GOD. Your attempting to over simplify what the Bible teaches which is exactly what not to do. People like you would rather lie to yourselves so you can avoid the fact that your uneducated about the book you praise. Rather than opening the book and understand the Bible IN ITS FULL CONTEXT you avoid it because it helps you sleep better just making it up and calling it “your own relationship with god”. All you did was tie a bunch of sentences together that all make separate points. When you say we’ve been brainwashed your right but you don’t even realize you’re using the Bible the same way corrupted churches used it to manipulate the world. You’re over simplifying it and taking it completely out of context to justify the decisions you make. Please educate yourself on the academic understanding of religion. If you did you would know the origins of the word spirituality and that it was created by religious people that separated from the church and decided to practice the Bible without the popes or priests controlling the narrative. It’s important to explain things in context instead of what you commented. I’m sick of seeing you new age spiritual Christians butcher the words and understanding of the Bible.
Every human being that has ever lived feels that they are correct, both in what they know, and what they don’t know. Some humans just choose to impose their beliefs on to others more so than others. 🙏
Seeing someone’s evolution on screen can be jarring and have us evaluate our own journey. Glad you have made it to a deeper level of peace and love in yours.
Thank you for your vulnerability. I have thought about this often on my journey towards myself. And it is a great topic to open your eyes and mind. 🌈🌟🥰🙌
What YOU explained, is how evil ppl who enjoy hurting ppls feelings act. I get whatchu meant, but CLEARLY, you over-exaggerated. Yes, I agree, there are tons of fake spiritualists. But there are good ones too. Even if a small amount. This is a demonic World, you are right. Evil ppl pretend they aren't evil here. This is truly an evil World. So it makes it hard for ppl to care for another persons pain, because it's difficult to know who to trust. But it's never right to treat ppl disrespectfully without a reason of defense. There is a good side to everything. Which means there are good, bad, and evil narcissist homie. You gotta do more research within and without, and go deeper. Most ppl aren't thst deep but take a little bit of information and run with it impulsively. I think you have mad potential for one, because you are honest about how evil the World is. I am only afraid of those who are in charge, who aren't truly and DEEPLY good ppl. Good spiritual ppl are telling you that you are God as well as them. It's common sense. And common sense is very prominent. We are creation, because we came from The Creator. But also whatchu said about Christ Conscious etc is true, as all things have truth to them. Jesus love is real. And I agree, God is my cognitive. Everybody's journey is different. As long as it is based on unconditional and genuine love, that's all that matters. 8 billion different personalities; 8 billion different journeys.
Narcissist is much deeper than a high sense of self, this is more so arrogance and pride which is rooted in fear…true narcissism is a personality “dis-order” based upon unresolved childhood trauma
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
Especially those who feel we are in the end times….. like why are we so special that we’re the ones going through the rapture and the end of the world… if you’re a believer you know that the end times will come when they come, not when we want them to come. Despite all the wrong in the world these are still good times, there’s many beautiful things in this world, when the end times come it will be nothing but sorrow.
Ignorance is bliss. The whole point of finding a better place is realizing no One is in control in this world… It’s all about adapting to your existence. Sir.
The mind is an amazing servant, but a terrible master 💕 I'd love to talk with you in a podcast. Do you do interviews? We have an unbelievably similar story. I kept going past faith to 'knowing'. Worth it. Keep going 🤗
In control, of everything not so much however i am in control of how i react ( for the most part) find what works for you, dont judge those who find somethig else, stay away from those that are toxic to you!!! Peace be with you sir
There are a lot of people here who seem really triggered by this episode. Hate to say it, folks … he’s talking facts, based on pretty solid psychological research. In other words, he’s spot on.
Attachments keep us rooted to this world. Detachment of human ideas is how we ascend to another creation. The very idea of good and evil is divisiveness. What is, just is
I am sorry you had that experience. The true spirituality is when you learn to introspect and control your inner world. The external world you are not in control of however how you respond to it is what you are in control of. Yes people who come off as narcissist have a lot to work on. It is not about you but it is about others. Love, peace and compassion, respect etc. It is best to help yourself before helping others. You can’t pure from an empty cup. I am the creator of my inner world. I choose to love myself and others, to empathize with others, to be caring, to respect others and I respect myself, how I behave around others and be careful of my words. Because I believe I am what I project genuinely. All of this is genuine. Also we are all in this world we have to learn to accept our shortcomings.
Believing you’re the creator of your reality doesn’t make you narcissistic. However, there are many narcissistic tendencies in current new age communities. What I fail to see are people claiming themselves as children of this planet and actually caring about Earth and the beings on it. The second big thing I see people miss is that the point isn’t to be separated from “the matrix” but to live with duality. So our souls must toil with our jobs while figuring out how we can remove suffering from ourselves and the planet. That’s not spiritual, that a simple fact of who and what we are.
My man said new age sage and talked about narcissism without connecting the dots. Get a more humble name. You don’t get to call yourself sage that’s our job.
Covert narcissistic behavior comes with many faces, including spirituality. Being a spiritual adept means you've learned not to stress about things outside of your control, which is mostly everything.
Your comment speaks to people who take knowledge and false righteousness from from someone else’s vulnerability as a means to downplay the person and feed the their own ego. It’s an over simplification and a lack of imagination to engage with ideas contrary to their own.
Very insightful, and brave to put out there. I am not a spiritualist, and I have never watched your channel before. I am a victim of narcissistic abuse. And to see you have so much insight and self-awareness on this topic is extremely refreshing. Well done.
Good job,on explaining the spiritual community,I had a friend that got very heavy in those things and it messed with his mind,this world is so tricky and the way people think in this generation is so scary,thank for your experience to help people,ignore the noice ,keep it up
I have been exploring the existence/behaviors/parenting/psychology/ religions/universe/spirituality etc And this guy just adds me one more puzzle! I seem to always feel but not able to put into words this idea. Iam glad to finally hear it in words:)
Ima empath I have CPTSD hyper vigilance TBI am I a narcissist abuse survivor and I had Bi polar 2 since the 6th grade ( and the stigma around us is extremely offensive and insulting. The criteria for bipolar disorder is hypomania or mania Depression and regular state. Anger and rage has nothing to do with bipolar disorder. It’s a horrible stigma made by prejudice. People) . They have empathy, just not a lot because their brains lack the gray matter and certain areas. Most narcissist are made narcissist by trauma either in childhood or prolonged trauma and adulthood. They made that way by delusions and abuse of society and the judgment and prejudice.. the fact that there is effort getting put in and they are exposing themselves, which is something they don’t do apparently is a huge deal. it’s a huge deal that they expose since everyone is afraid of them or hates them because there’s a type of abuse named after them when the truth is not all narcissist are abusive it’s a mental illness abusive people are abusive. And judging people based on stigma is shameful. The only person who should judge is GOD or the univers who ever u believe in .
As a born Muslim, baptized catholic convert into Christianity ending in atheism. Reverted back to Islam. I’d say that god works through my physical body to take control of my life . Being a narcissist only means so much I’d say that I do have some traits however, I believe as long as it’s beneficial to my personal journey and doesn’t harm others or myself, then I doing what’s best for me . That means all aspects of life.
You’re doing exactly what he’s talking about…. We are all genuinely narcissistic. We all believe we found or have the answers 👆. You can find “zen” and be a realistic person paving your own way also. Be HUMBLE. Spread JOY. Take care of FAMILY. The more energy you put out you WILL receive that’s physics. Concentrate on your EGO and you will remain STILL. ITS EVERYTHING. Science, spirituality and Living in the present. I’m a narcissist just like you.
@@savevsdeath everyone experiences “god” by being happy and spreading love,positivity and knowledge. One persons church is another persons Car Radio. Music is a perfect example. Art, community, family, FORGIVENESS. You don’t NEED to be religious to possess these qualities. You just need to tune in.
Yashua is life and can save your soul,When you repeant and ask him for forgiveness for all your sins he will make you a new soul,heart,spirit,and mind he will be your savior and your Massiah ❤ Yashua is The Truth John 14:6 6 Yashua saith unto him,I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. 7 If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him. 8 Philip saith unto him, Lord, shew us the Father, and it sufficeth us.
This guy is talking crap! He has no clue as to what it means to be spiritual. It sure as hell isn't just attending a church service. My goodness such ignorance!!!
Discover Eastern Orthodox spirituality which I found after DECADES of inflated ego with a guru etc addicted to CONTROL… I finally discovered the ascetic path of the Orthodox Christian struggle against SIN and the passions we have since THE FALL of Adam and Eve.. The early monastic desert Saints understood HUMILITY through ongoing continual REPENTANCE… realizing we are sinners and heal in the hospital Jesus provides in His church
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Narcissists use ANY system… religion, spirituality, finances, business, social structures WHATEVER to fuel their behavior and to legitimize their actions
There’s no such thing as a “system” of spirituality. People are schizophrenic
I believe you're correct. Narcissists will use anything at all they believe will get them narcissistic supply, and they will change as needed to keep getting supply when the old ways stop working.
Truth. New age religions are just witchcraft & satanism in disguise. So is paganism! Its evil and is completely self centered instead of caring fir others like Christianity. If you dont believe me research it all
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
Yeah these guys are talking about egoism, not narcissism
A spiritual person seeks connection with something greater than themselves, displaying empathy, humility, and a desire to help others. In contrast, a narcissist is driven by self-importance, lacks empathy, and craves admiration. While spiritual individuals might sometimes use language like "I am God" or "I am the creator," this is typically meant to express a sense of unity with the divine or the universe, not self-aggrandizement. It reflects an understanding of interconnectedness and shared divinity, rather than a belief in their personal superiority. Though both may exhibit confidence and influence, their core motivations and behaviors are fundamentally different. Their intentions and impacts on others are worlds apart.
Yeah, this guy has no clue what a narcissism means literally 😂 thank u
EXACTLY!!!!!! Because the thing is we have the power on what we want to manifest but we not dumb and know God/angels/universe/ancestors are guiding us. Having a spiritual awakening is on going layer like an onion but we all are going through this and learning. But that’s not narcissistic trait. 🤣🙄 that’s a way of living in your truth and growing up spiritually. A lot of ppl haven’t felt a spiritual awakening and you gain different gifts within. It means learning to accept you are okay with dark and light. The balance of life. Duality. But also understand polarity in the world.😅 it’s a on going learning experience. But that sounds like level 3 he’s in the layer of opening your soul up during the ego death. I don’t know him personally but it’s layers to it.
If it needs an explanation it's narcissistic
Ima empath I have CPTSD hyper vigilance TBI am I a narcissist abuse survivor . They have empathy, just not a lot because their brains lack the gray matter and certain areas. Most narcissist are made narcissist by trauma either in childhood or prolonged trauma and adulthood. They made that way by delusions and abuse of society and the judgment and prejudice.. the fact that there is effort getting put in and they are exposing themselves, which is something they don’t do apparently is a huge deal. it’s a huge deal that they expose since everyone is afraid of them or hates them because there’s a type of abuse named after them when the truth is not all narcissist are abusive it’s a mental illness abusive people are abusive.
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The opposite of narcissism is Accurate Self Appraisal and Accurate Appraisal of Others. It's when you neither downplay nor overexaggerate your genuine strengths or accomplishments and weaknesses or failures. You see yourself and others in a realistic way.
That's a trick too. All this relative stuff of strengths and weaknesses is just part of the web of socially constructed narcissistic illusions. You just are and you'll do what you do. The more you try to think you're accurate or realistic, it'll just turn into covert narcissism eventually thats kinda just the mainstream norm so we think its okay. Eventually, gotta let go. The truly humble aren't downplaying or exaggerating at all, they just aren't thinking about it - throwing out this relative measure of who they are. They just stopped playing that game.
Karma karma
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
By what standard do you measure your accuracy of appraisal? By what standard are you good? Better than the next guy? Better than average? The average of wherever society it is that you live compared to other societies which may have higher or lower standards?
Wouldn't the only objective standard be perfection?
I say this to tell you that God is the ruler of this universe and He gets first dibs on setting what is right. We know morality in our conscience that lying is wrong, adultery is wrong etc, humility is good, love is good, but have you ever held to the laws or your conscience perfectly for a single day in your life? No one has.
To say you believe in something accurate or objective but don't believe in God's law is unreasonable.
You won't ever see yourself accurately until you see that you're a sinner who's offended the God of this universe and that there's nothing you can do to redeem yourself by trusting in yourself. Only Jesus is worthy of trust because He lived sinless than died for sin.
I'm not saying this to "push religion" or whatever but to spread the simple truth that no one is right before God.
@@lucaspoon4202 Well I thought brutal honesty was the way to go about it self appraisal and others people do not approve.
“Narcissists often embed themselves in spiritual communities, putting on airs and graces, finding ways to dominate.” This would be a better theme.
*That guy calls himself a "sage" and then says other people are narcissists.* 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
@@Percival-kl9yy pot kettle, kettle pot
@amusing4000it’s a bad thing because it’s hypocritical
Many therapists have narcisstic traits
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
Oh my , you have so much to learn
There people like the ones you describe for sure ... And there are true spiritual people who don't engage in that nonsense
Once you realize you have no control over anything other than the way you react to the things that happen to you, it’s like the most freeing feeling ever
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 everyone is trying to save everyone … so draining.. peace
But that’s not the proper definition of narcissistic personality disorder!!!! This is a disorder where one sees themselves as more important or most important in expense of others feelings! Like parents who place their needs before their children.
Everyone think they opinion is so important or their definition is need to be shared to the masses. Sometimes it’s okay to have opinions and keep them to yourself.
Exactly he’s just spreading hate and misinformation
@@M0J0_ but a lot of Christian’s have done exactly this to achieve being popular. Sometimes small opinions don’t care about yours and will continue to define the world we all live in.
@@israeltellez5996 not as long as I am alive. Small opinions aren’t exempt from the truth . If he isn’t using the definition proper it would make him illiterate. No need to argue wit a fool.
@@M0J0_ argument can be healthy though it keeps us from being narrow minded. N teaches one another. But there’s more people who would understand more about that
Just cause you are a narcissist doesn't mean u have npd. Your life and social groups get effected by the disorder for it to be called a disorder. There's narcissist people with full jobs and a family so scientists can't say those people have npd.
He doesn’t know what narcissist actually are . It’s a personality disorder . As a spiritual person who married and divorced an actual narc this isn’t true, spiritual people actually all have different paths and we don’t all agree on the same things but some people can be narcs and spiritual and it’s not real authentic. So beware of true souls and false ones . Because spiritually is about evolution and you can still believe in God , Jesus pray and meditate and rely on things outside of yourself . We don’t all follow the same things and narcs use people as supply I suggest people study what narcissist actually are
Thank you 😅
I can’t even listen
It’s hysterical 😂
"Narc" used to be a derogatory name for a narcotics officer. Or someone that used to tell on you. "Don't narc on me bro".
You've given it an entirely new meaning.
It literally never occurred to me to abbreviate narcissist like that.
I grew up with a narccicistic parent who used new age spirituality as a means to feed his narccicistic supply. He went to a group and had everyone eating out of his hand.
Well put thank you!
But that's your, opinion.😐 The guy is talking about personal experience himself.
And you’re projecting 😊
😂😂😂 AND SO ARE U SWEET BY UR RESPONSE COMMENT 🤷🤷🤷🤷😘😘😘 TIME U ALL HEAL AND INTEGRATE UR UNHEALED SHADOW WOUNDS
He paid to get his opinion across from his experience 😂❤
I was thinking the same! All this talk on how spiritual people believe and think, but not one I’ve met has been such a way! Glad he is putting in the effort of letting his ego and narc traits go, almost like he is the creator of his reality (like we all are) it really seems he’s just talking smack on how he viewed spirituality before turning to god.
You’re just mad cause it’s true, most people who claim to be spiritual are just worshippers of self
You beat me to it!
Spiritual people are one of the most best people you will ever come in counter with. You can bash New Age all you want, but the reality is most people are good people and wish no harm on others. On the other hand, there are some Christians that I like, but I have had more negative encounters with Christians than new agers.. It’s all about being humble and compassionate and being a calm individual. Narcissism stems from selfishness and lack of compassion for others do not categorize new ages as having those tendencies because that is far from the truth.. if you don’t wanna believe in spirituality that’s up to you that is your choice . we are all on different paths and we must not judge one another because the same path and the same learnings do not work for everyone.
What people consider new age spirituality, isnt actually new age. What they consider new age is stuff thats been around thousands of years before christianity even began lmao
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Well, that’s what the common person understands it is . Personally, I think it’s a stupid word. I just called myself spiritual I don’t belong to any specific denomination.
They are the worst in my experience….they often act, make decisions that cause pain to others, but say “I signed a contract saying I’d do this” or “my higher self is guiding me” all while doing the same messed up stuff most humans do. But detaching from the reality that in this dimension they are choosing to do that action. They always utilize another dimension or their higher self, or the journey. It’s like bruh you messed up just own it and cut the riff raff.
@@the_gibber999 I'm sorry that you had that experience. But I on the other hand try my best to Be The best person I can be while helping others along the way
@@Authenticityistheway333 don’t be sorry, apparently I signed a contract in another dimension where I chose this experience. So, everything is working in balance. Highs and lows of this human experience I guess. Keep on keeping on the good work of being the best you and helping others, that is in all seriousness honorable.
Thank you for this conversation. My sibling died recently and my so called 'spiritual' friends were treating me like a lepar. As if my vibe was too low and I was told I was playing the 'victim' as I was sad about it. I was so confused and went into a shame spiral as apparently we are souls having a human experience, which I agree with to a degree but doesn't mean I won't feel sad. What a crock of shit. It's really changed my opinion on that whole fake world.
I got very little support from my christian friends as well when my dad died. I tried venting about it to a long time friend who always told me everything about what she and her family were going through. She shut me down and said I might need to speak to a therapist. So the conversation can't be about me and what I'm going through for once? I have stopped paying attention when she vents as well, and it feels like such a shallow friendship now.
I’m sorry you had that experience. I used to be really into the whole spiritual community but also got turned off by the holier than thou attitudes and condescension. I still pray and meditation and do my best to maintain my relationship to the divine and the mundane.
I agree that we are souls living out this experience, and that physical death is not the end, but your friends were wrong for putting you down over your grief. Spirituality is NOT all rainbows and sunshine and light and love. You have to do SHADOW work as well as light work. The simple fact is, your sibling died, and no matter where their soul may be or how connected the two of you may remain spiritually, they are not physically with you anymore. You will never embrace them or share a meal with them again in this lifetime. That is sad for you and the others your sibling left behind here. And you should absolutely allow yourself to grieve and heal in your own time.
I hope you are recovering. And although I don’t know you, I extend to you my love. Every community and ideology has a section of people who do not adequately understand or represent their own beliefs, and I hope I have shown you that the “spiritual world” is more than just fake, selfish love and and light virtue signalers. It can be and is much deeper and very real. You just have to find your own path to it. Consider it a blessing and a lesson that your friends showed their true colors.
Best regards and be good to yourself, from stranger on the internet
@@BBoyShadyGrady that's so kind of you, thank you. I agree 100% with everything you said. Ironically I went to a very chilled festival in the countryside this weekend and it reignitated some aspects of spirituality for me and the people were not pretensious and kind. I think there are different levels to spirituality that we all have to pass through. I myself have to look at my own judgement towards others and that's what this whole experience has taught me. I think there's a period where you believe you can only be positive and then you go deeper into the shadow work like you say (and I have done a lot of myself) to discover your parts
Those aren’t real spiritual people.. those are grifters and I’m sorry they tried to downplay your lost my condolences goes to you and your loved ones 🙏🏿
@@Shellnbabysorry to hear this. Sending love and understanding x
I love seeing people who aren’t scared to say this kind of thing. There’s a lot a guy can get done with this kind of vibe and intellect, he can even get more done being eye-catching like that. Good for you, bro. New fan. 💪💪👍👍
A real spiritual person doesn't let their ego win.
A spiritual person believes their ego doesn't win. It doesn't mean that it doesn't.
This guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about. Spiritual people aren’t selfish. Spiritual people don’t try to hate others and talk bad about other people or get revenge.. spiritual people know what love is and they love people they are giving and kind and want what’s best for others. They don’t get jealous. When other people succeed they are happy for them. That’s not narcissistic narcissistic people are very jealous egotistical selfish they think their shit don’t stink anyone who would buy into this and believe this is, just not a very intelligent person. Most people are spiritual people because all people have a spirit.
They're not spiritual in the first place there are those who call themselves spiritual but aren't
Ikr 😂😂😂😂
Bro doesn’t even know what narcissism is
Doesn’t need to know what it means, just needs to speak to people’s myths and misconceptions about narcissism think. He just needs to match viewers’s gut feelings and preconceptions. Like a priest or pastor or spiritual leader.
Exactly! He's a narcissist
@yucol5661 What?? If you don't know what a word means, you shouldn't use it
Pretty much
He certainly displays all the symptoms though.
oh honey… with that explanation everyone is a narcissist i fear
Loving yourself and putting positive affirmations into the universe to manifest things doesnt make you selfish or narcissistic, it means you are trying to do better and focus on yourself. Dont let his ignorance get in the way of your healing 🫶
Spiritual doesn't mean Christian,Be ware of false teachers
@amusing4000 what is your point
@amusing4000do you have a point?
@amusing4000nobody said it was 💀
Just because a spiritual person has more charm than you doesn’t meant they’re narcissists. They have to set boundaries from people like you.
“There’s a darkness upon me that’s flooded in light.. and I’m frightened by those who don’t see it”
Thanks for speaking on this it will trigger many but it’s NECESSARY I run across these types so much- if someone self titles themselves😔 I don’t put much into anything else they say🤷♂️
Being a “Spiritual healer” etc- has to be an attractive thing to people who only care about themselves- it’s basically giving them a Drs title with no real proof of anything, it drives that ego! And a true spiritual leader or person will always question ego, and what it brings up. Be careful- SM is flooded with false light workers and others with BPD calling themselves empaths to get ATTENTION! It’s an EASY way to get attention, or fit in, idk I look at what I have and idk if most would know what to do, and tbh I don’t all that often: but I gave all that over to the Divine nothing that comes from my energy is MY doing, I’m just a vessel willing to. As well as willing to accept and give energy to reach out to those hurting.. and even to expose fakes, liars and thieves. Idk why else I’m here I should not be, there’s something I’m supposed to do still.. Every time I think I find “Purpose” I end up realizing, no they just showed what you wanted I am coming from experience.. these types know how to play and manipulate energy, as well as get attachments as they open up TOO much, and use questionable practices. I think many are missing his point- he’s not saying all Spiritual people are narcissistic he’s saying it’s an attractive thing for a narc to want to act like! They have no empathy so, what better way to fake people? And when he said the thing about vivid stories of how they had something happen in a past life😂 keep telling yourself that🙈 and run and chase(why would someone turn on themselves in a past life for you, but not travel to see you in this one😂🤷♂️ because they know it’s not true) someone that loves you will get up and come when you ask even if they aren’t ready or know it’ll hurt them. So don’t let anyone tell you otherwise that travelling is too much🙏✌️⭐️ if it’s real nothings too much. Keep being you!💫❤️🩹
Well said❤
Well said
Having self love, self respect, self care, self confidence, are all different from narcissism. Even putting yourself first is different from narcissism and self importance. From an outside perspective they might look the same but they’re absolutely not.
This video screams not knowing what narcissism actually means/is and I’m only a minute in but determined to try understanding the point of view.
Ok now I’m just like, these aren’t real spiritual people these are frauds and shouldn’t be confused because narcs will camouflage into any community, doesn’t reflect those people doing no wrong.
Straight up!
I got out of a relationship with a narcissist. He was religious until I introduced him to spiritual practices and understanding. For reference, I'm a Pacific Native.
He always wanted to be the teacher but not the student. He wouldn't put the work into having a better understanding of what he started to preach to others. I had to constantly try and fix the b.s. he would tell others. He moved to Cali to start his spiritual practice.
I wish him the best, but I've seen the way he forces himself and half understandings on others. He always had a natural charm that would make people believe him easily. He would rather have the attention from spiritualism than anything else.
This guy used to put me down for how I saw the world until he knew what it would bring to him. It was weird and f'd up. Definitely learned a lot from that situation.
There’s a lot of people who seem really triggered in the comments but I really hear what you’re saying. I remember being a little kid and being sent to kindergarten and I was so taken aback when the teacher was asking the class “what do you want to be when you grow up?” And I was even more perplexed that my peers readily had answers for that when I had none because all I could think of was “what do you mean by that? I already am, what else would I be?” But through conditioning through public school and living in this modern society really drills it into your head that you have to do something or be something and it completely misses the point of what it means to BE here and have this experience and I’m also stuck in that web with everyone else so I get what you mean of how are we to try to detangle ourselves from this false narrative of what existence means especially when it’s so easy to get stuck in the same damn web time and time again in a myriad of ways. How do we get out of that? Especially when after years of being tangled that we forgot what it’s like outside of the trap and now that’s more intimidating because the trap has become more familiar and therefore more comfortable, yet at the same time, there’s an intrinsic part of us that knows we’re forgetting/missing something so fundamental and that’s so far beyond this physical reality. In short I get the point you’re trying to make lol
im a fairly spiritual person but im not in control of everything n im definately not a narcsist im the exact opposite but i have been gaslighted n traumitised by narcsist in my lifetime not all spiritual persons are negative or narcsist
100 percent agree dude I think there are some people who have been hurt so much from narcissistic abuse and I too have dealt with that. It takes a lot of self control to not be like them. I’m definitely far from it too.
@@HeartFallenstarJesus Christ love!✝️🩸💒❤️🇺🇸🌏🙏🙏
In Truth, all people have a soul/ spirit.. When people are communing with God ( prayer) , they are showing that they are humble in knowing that they need to ask God to please help & lead them.
And someday, some experience will come to you.
This experience will probably teach you something really important about who you are, what your thinking and mindset had created. I hope when this time comes you have the calm clarity required to understand this lesson. It's hard sometimes when you are young, you want so much to be right. But let these notions go. You seem very angry, or perhaps upset. There is a whole world of amazing beautiful experiences to live through. Try not to be so hard on people, all of us are on a special journey in life. Your experience is no different than any spiritual person. You will find the truth, in time.
My experience: Spirituality was a way of finding inner peace and self-love instead of searching for happiness in material possessions and people. Showing unconditional love to others and allowing myself to receive it. Showing gratitude for everything in life, with the perspective that life works for me and not against me. All of this while maintaining boundaries to protect my peace.
If you’re attempting to use spiritually to control anything other than yourself, then you have it wrong.
Not all spiritual people are like that. You’re talking about the influencer type of spiritual person. I know the type you’re talking about and I agree. It’s that lack of God and prayer in their rituals. It’s more like they’re the God, which is indeed very narcissistic.
If we are human, we are narcissists - it's about experiences. Love thyself so you can Love others. It gets easier when you love yourself. That way, when you do come across an annoying human, it doesn't bother you what they do. ❤
I don't agree with everything, but I appreciate your dose of reality and just how authentic you are. ❤
You sound insane, but that’s a good thing, it means your expanding your mind. Your closer to figuring out who you are and what you were meant to do on this earth. Most people don’t go through this stage until later in life, they spend most of their lives letting their ego control them. For many that awaken later in life, they find that they lived unfulfilled lives.
☯️ I am a spiritualist. I don’t subscribe to one religion or particular laid out path, but I do study and learn from many. There’s a reason the Bible says “the straight and narrow” ((which according to biblical scholars, straight doesn’t mean linear it’s actually another word for narrow lol))
I’m not sure I fully agree with each of the ways you’re labeling co-creation or I am principles as narcissism. But I do hear your heart and I do agree these are very important meditations.
☯️ it is a narrow path to remain in integrity and the path IS always moving/changing/expanding as part of the ever expanding universe.. to stay in harmony is a dance. Sometimes you explore and take charge or hold/experience your power, and sometimes, you reflect or step back. Sometimes you spring and summer. Sometimes you fall and winter.
I know I’m speaking metaphorically, but heart to heart, I hope my messages translate.
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Your clothes is just a part of an art, if you think narcissistic is a trait of an artist then blame the building and painters and a hair stylist and musician and writers since the ancient of time. Dude no bs but there is a light path in this. Judging on the way others live, believe or the way THEY DECIDE to live is part of an ego mindset and if you look back on this video, I hope you see that your thoughts and how they are contradictory thoughts. based on narcissistic tendencies and your story with your ex, I can see your point but just let people be and focus on you. Understanding everyone has their OWN journey in life and once you decide to be different and not norm embrace it. The world will tell you who to be and how to be but to know yourself is to love yourself and your flaws, and that is part of understanding the world’s flaws as well. ❤❤❤🤍🤍🤍🤍 Much love and Light! 🙏🏽🫶🏾
Your clothes is just a part of an art, if you think narcissistic is a trait of an artist then blame the building and painters and a hair stylist and musician and writers since the ancient of time. Dude no bs but there is a light path in this. Judging on the way others live, believe or the way THEY DECIDE to live is part of an ego mindset and if you look back on this video, I hope you see that your thoughts and how they are contradictory thoughts. based on narcissistic tendencies and your story with your ex, I can see your point but just let people be and focus on you. Understanding everyone has their OWN journey in life and once you decide to be different and not norm embrace it. The world will tell you who to be and how to be but to know yourself is to love yourself and your flaws, and that is part of understanding the world’s flaws as well. ❤❤❤🤍🤍🤍🤍 Much love and Light! 🙏🏽🫶🏾
You are searching for THE TRUTH
KEEP SEARCHING
You are pointed in the wrong direction.
Using yourself as the starting and ending point is like a compost pile. Just rotting.
Change your point of view-look up
WHEN YOU FIND GOD you will find THE TRUTH
I absolutely agree. You’re right, whether people realize it or not. Or believe these things for self preservation or to get out of bad situations, when you take things literally and to the extremes, it absolutely is narcissism.
And we each take a stance to pass the time until we die, and our opinions go with us.
I don’t know if you intended to help believers, but this helped my faith and I thank you I see me having these types of thoughts myself, and I think you have helped me think of it in a different way. I appreciate it.
I noticed a lot of the toxic positive “love” and “peace” ppl are evil.
There's some truth to what you're saying. I've seen this attitude in some spiritual groups, people who've been doing meditation for decades 😮 🧘
A truly spiritual being shows humbleness. If it’s not there…they are still not at the spiritual place they try to show, regardless the speech. For me the greatest show of spirituality, humanity, souls of light is showing doubt. Someone who’s certain about everything, that holds the whole truth and doesn’t have flexibility is biggest show of being exactly on the opposite direction
Yesssss!! I know so many people in the spiritual community and they are great people but in connecting through that community I have been exposed to some of the worst people. Spirituality has now become part of a class war and has been used to further survival of the fittest mentality. It has rampantly been overtaken by Christians who now think ascension is the rapture and attribute concepts they used to burn people for as their own. It’s maddening. And it’s all about money now. It’s all Ego. Spirituality is leaving behind the people who need it the most because they don’t have enough money or they are “low vibration” and acting like 5D Earth is an elite place when in reality it where we need to lift every single person to. Like if someone doesn’t manifest themselves out of poverty they aren’t trying hard enough. It’s garbage thinking. So thank you so much for this.
And judging by the comments here you have a fair amount of those people here 😅
Manipulating a human vs manipulating your own circumstances are TOTALLY different. Also, who said you’re manipulating for “ego”???
Exactly... This guy is confused.... I think he still needs to heal until he can speak clearly.
@@fancybutterfly6021for sure! He’s applying all of his narcissism to a pure state of mind, body and soul. Speaking from his lens for sure. Lol
People experience an “ego death” but the ego never truly dies. It grows in the shadows until it resurfaces in curious ways
A true spiritual person knows they manifest for everyone else and not for the self .
True. This manifestation crap is dangerous. People prey on others weaknesses by pushing this. Making false predictions are also terrible. Everyone today wants to be so special, no humbleness, no empathy or concern except for show. People film tragedies vs help, too much SM & all about looks, clothes, plastic surgery. Good job on this😊💙
I don’t see Christ being narcisist. A cross doesn’t have anything about what you are saying.
How ignorant this guy is
Just another case of fools pretending themselves to be wise.
...Let this one alone.
Smart people or at least wise people who’ve been exposed to it, often come to that conclusion. We all probably struggle with this stuff, but Jesus didn’t, without succeeding. The way many of us go thru hoops to avoid living a life in Christ is funny.
I don't think he's saying that. But to point out other's ego is ego. He's still young, will become more humble in time.
This is called a spiritual bypass, skipping the heart. Doing the spiritual work to know who you are, humbled by Gods love, you will come to know, you are a Co-creator, addicts learn this in to 12 step recovery programs, its a process to get connected, plugged in and stay on the path to Gods good! , no short cuts, no judgement of self or others.
The thumbnail is ignorant and misleading 😂
There is good and bad in everything. There are good cops and bad cops, good doctors and bad doctors; there are good spiritual people and bad spiritual people. Honestly, the intention is what sets one apart. Being spiritual, for me, can help me see value in other people as well as myself and in my own life. Also, people can have narcissistic tendencies without being full narcissists. Please look into this and stop making people feel bad about their way of getting through life. 🤦
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Saying “I am the creator” is not narcissistic. We are all one, and we are all a fragment of the creator. It is our divine right to create our life the way we want to. I agree that it should not be done through controlling/manipulative means, but only the ego is capable of that. We are the higher self, and surrendering to it just means allowing it to enter your being in this human body. You are either asleep to it, or embodying it. The “you” you speak of is a false identity in itself. Yes, your ego is not god, and if it does identify as god, then it will present as narcissism. But YOU are not the ego. You are awareness itself. The deeper you go into this awareness, the more you will see
our own infinite potential.
Yes it is because the devil tells people the lie he told Eve that you can be like God while we are the creation and Jesus is the Creator and says man that disobeys Him worships creation over the Creator
@@ServantStatusMinistriesand can you prove that the bible didnt tell u lies lmao. No . U cant. So u could easily be the onr manipulated and brianwashed. Yet here you are with certainty that we are wrong lol. Considering your religion wasnt created till thousanfs of years after many others. Might as wrll believe in zeus or hades. Because thats hoe u sound buddy lol. U misinterpret what we mean by we are god. We dont mean us as individuals. We mean we are god or i am god as in we sre all one with god. Much like every cell in your body is you! Every cell is apart of you. It is you. Same for us, but with god. We are essentially the cells of god. We cant be be more like god or less like god. We are all one with god. Theres no magical powers u get lol. We arent claiming to be some god like individual who can control reality. God isnt an individual. God is presence. The essence if everything. An eternal divine cosmic force that is beyond our selfish needs wants desirez. Its egoless existence that we all share a part of. Its silly to think of a devil or an individual god. To think we are made in his image is ridiculous
This message I agree with. You are speaking of consciousness which is different to spiritualism xx
@@ServantStatusMinistriesIt's called the "christ consciousness" or for whichever religion you believe in. You think in the same way, it even says you are made in his image. Thus you are a piece of the bigger picture, of the full embodied kingdom of God. Thus being more fully present with this higher power, your eyes are open to the kingdom of heaven. The bible is a psychological roadmap to being the king, who sees that heaven is life on earth.
@@kyleschneider3147 somewhat true but remember that Jesus says seek first the kingdom of God and all of His righteousness and Hearts also says that My Kingdom is not of this world. We are only made in the image of God when we have first believed in the image of the unseen God which is Jesus Christ.
So sad to see this.
Don't let the Psuedo spiritual, intellectual, moralist, religious,etc bother you. Just show up as a student, everyday, and you'll be fine.😊
Spiritual people dont manipulate other people to get what they want. What you did prior was create bad Karma in your chakra by manipulating people to get what you want
What blows me is that a lot of them call themselves healed meanwhile treating others like trash and being toxic. Have a whole family of em
Well obviously it should go without being said that they arent actually practicing spirtuallity then right? Lmao. Someone who treats someone like shit obviously isnt healed. Thats someone pretending to be spirtitual. And failing at pretending.
Actually, we are all everything. Individually and as a whole. God is within. Christ had that realization but nobody understands that it is something we all have in us, we have been brainwashed to think we have no control. We do.
This is the problem with you new Christians. You literally make no sense. The Bible doesn’t say we are all everything individually and as a whole. You’re so self absorbed that you don’t see how dumb it is to say that. If we all are everything why would it fucking matter if it was as an individual or as a whole 😂. Jesus literally tells us in The Bible NOT TO ADD TO THE WORD OF GOD. Your attempting to over simplify what the Bible teaches which is exactly what not to do. People like you would rather lie to yourselves so you can avoid the fact that your uneducated about the book you praise. Rather than opening the book and understand the Bible IN ITS FULL CONTEXT you avoid it because it helps you sleep better just making it up and calling it “your own relationship with god”. All you did was tie a bunch of sentences together that all make separate points. When you say we’ve been brainwashed your right but you don’t even realize you’re using the Bible the same way corrupted churches used it to manipulate the world. You’re over simplifying it and taking it completely out of context to justify the decisions you make. Please educate yourself on the academic understanding of religion. If you did you would know the origins of the word spirituality and that it was created by religious people that separated from the church and decided to practice the Bible without the popes or priests controlling the narrative. It’s important to explain things in context instead of what you commented. I’m sick of seeing you new age spiritual Christians butcher the words and understanding of the Bible.
Every human being that has ever lived feels that they are correct, both in what they know, and what they don’t know.
Some humans just choose to impose their beliefs on to others more so than others.
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It’s so cool to see someone’s actual progress and deeper understanding. Power to you brother. Both new age and woke culture are full of toxic traits.
A core principal in Christianity: Love your neighbour like yourself.
There is a difference between being a narcissist and being selfish and self-centered.
And theres a difference between those two things, anr being spiritual lmao
@@thrasherfoo Three things and yes there is a difference.
They can be
And so are those judging another
I hear what u r trying to say, n saying, yet yr anger n yr Narc traits loud n clear. May u find yr centre n walk in the Consciousness of Love. Peace🎉
Seeing someone’s evolution on screen can be jarring and have us evaluate our own journey. Glad you have made it to a deeper level of peace and love in yours.
Thank you for your vulnerability. I have thought about this often on my journey towards myself. And it is a great topic to open your eyes and mind. 🌈🌟🥰🙌
I call you trouble waiting to happen 😂
After the crash ....dont call for help .
What YOU explained, is how evil ppl who enjoy hurting ppls feelings act. I get whatchu meant, but CLEARLY, you over-exaggerated. Yes, I agree, there are tons of fake spiritualists. But there are good ones too. Even if a small amount. This is a demonic World, you are right. Evil ppl pretend they aren't evil here. This is truly an evil World. So it makes it hard for ppl to care for another persons pain, because it's difficult to know who to trust. But it's never right to treat ppl disrespectfully without a reason of defense. There is a good side to everything. Which means there are good, bad, and evil narcissist homie. You gotta do more research within and without, and go deeper. Most ppl aren't thst deep but take a little bit of information and run with it impulsively. I think you have mad potential for one, because you are honest about how evil the World is. I am only afraid of those who are in charge, who aren't truly and DEEPLY good ppl. Good spiritual ppl are telling you that you are God as well as them. It's common sense. And common sense is very prominent. We are creation, because we came from The Creator. But also whatchu said about Christ Conscious etc is true, as all things have truth to them. Jesus love is real. And I agree, God is my cognitive. Everybody's journey is different. As long as it is based on unconditional and genuine love, that's all that matters. 8 billion different personalities; 8 billion different journeys.
Narcissist is much deeper than a high sense of self, this is more so arrogance and pride which is rooted in fear…true narcissism is a personality “dis-order” based upon unresolved childhood trauma
John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him won't die, but have eternal life." Jesus does love you, and you can always turn to him and he'll take care of you during tough times, God bless yall, peace out ✝️🙏🏻
I relate to this a lot. You seem like a very honest person but honest to yourself more than anything.
Especially those who feel we are in the end times….. like why are we so special that we’re the ones going through the rapture and the end of the world… if you’re a believer you know that the end times will come when they come, not when we want them to come. Despite all the wrong in the world these are still good times, there’s many beautiful things in this world, when the end times come it will be nothing but sorrow.
Ignorance is bliss. The whole point of finding a better place is realizing no One is in control in this world… It’s all about adapting to your existence. Sir.
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You speak what I have seen when I learned of the I am mantras. And thinking I’ve is creator when one was created is Delulu. Appreciate that
The mind is an amazing servant, but a terrible master 💕
I'd love to talk with you in a podcast. Do you do interviews? We have an unbelievably similar story. I kept going past faith to 'knowing'. Worth it.
Keep going 🤗
In control, of everything not so much however i am in control of how i react ( for the most part) find what works for you, dont judge those who find somethig else, stay away from those that are toxic to you!!! Peace be with you sir
There are a lot of people here who seem really triggered by this episode. Hate to say it, folks … he’s talking facts, based on pretty solid psychological research. In other words, he’s spot on.
This has to be Thee most ridiculous statement I have ever heard. I'm actually Embarrassed for you
Embarrassed people are narcissists too! And so are land ladies and chihuahuas😂
Attachments keep us rooted to this world. Detachment of human ideas is how we ascend to another creation. The very idea of good and evil is divisiveness. What is, just is
Interesting. You gave me something to ponder on. Thanks
I am sorry you had that experience. The true spirituality is when you learn to introspect and control your inner world. The external world you are not in control of however how you respond to it is what you are in control of. Yes people who come off as narcissist have a lot to work on. It is not about you but it is about others. Love, peace and compassion, respect etc. It is best to help yourself before helping others. You can’t pure from an empty cup. I am the creator of my inner world. I choose to love myself and others, to empathize with others, to be caring, to respect others and I respect myself, how I behave around others and be careful of my words. Because I believe I am what I project genuinely. All of this is genuine. Also we are all in this world we have to learn to accept our shortcomings.
Believing you’re the creator of your reality doesn’t make you narcissistic. However, there are many narcissistic tendencies in current new age communities.
What I fail to see are people claiming themselves as children of this planet and actually caring about Earth and the beings on it.
The second big thing I see people miss is that the point isn’t to be separated from “the matrix” but to live with duality. So our souls must toil with our jobs while figuring out how we can remove suffering from ourselves and the planet.
That’s not spiritual, that a simple fact of who and what we are.
When the veil of illusions was removed from your eyes-help others to see.
Thank you for speaking about those stuff 🙏
I've been waiting for this. Someone to call this out. Thank you.
And you’re participating 100% by posting this.
How so if he is talking about the elephant in the room . You clearly are not . Unless you are .
My man said new age sage and talked about narcissism without connecting the dots. Get a more humble name. You don’t get to call yourself sage that’s our job.
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Covert narcissistic behavior comes with many faces, including spirituality. Being a spiritual adept means you've learned not to stress about things outside of your control, which is mostly everything.
This guy is suffering from childhood trauma now he's stuck in he's past get help
Your comment speaks to people who take knowledge and false righteousness from from someone else’s vulnerability as a means to downplay the person and feed the their own ego. It’s an over simplification and a lack of imagination to engage with ideas contrary to their own.
Very insightful, and brave to put out there. I am not a spiritualist, and I have never watched your channel before. I am a victim of narcissistic abuse. And to see you have so much insight and self-awareness on this topic is extremely refreshing. Well done.
how am i JUST finding out about this podcast?? i know school has me under a rock but damn. great work🔥🎉
Good job,on explaining the spiritual community,I had a friend that got very heavy in those things and it messed with his mind,this world is so tricky and the way people think in this generation is so scary,thank for your experience to help people,ignore the noice ,keep it up
I have been exploring the existence/behaviors/parenting/psychology/ religions/universe/spirituality etc
And this guy just adds me one more puzzle! I seem to always feel but not able to put into words this idea.
Iam glad to finally hear it in words:)
Ima empath I have CPTSD hyper vigilance TBI am I a narcissist abuse survivor and I had Bi polar 2 since the 6th grade ( and the stigma around us is extremely offensive and insulting. The criteria for bipolar disorder is hypomania or mania Depression and regular state. Anger and rage has nothing to do with bipolar disorder. It’s a horrible stigma made by prejudice. People) . They have empathy, just not a lot because their brains lack the gray matter and certain areas. Most narcissist are made narcissist by trauma either in childhood or prolonged trauma and adulthood. They made that way by delusions and abuse of society and the judgment and prejudice.. the fact that there is effort getting put in and they are exposing themselves, which is something they don’t do apparently is a huge deal. it’s a huge deal that they expose since everyone is afraid of them or hates them because there’s a type of abuse named after them when the truth is not all narcissist are abusive it’s a mental illness abusive people are abusive. And judging people based on stigma is shameful. The only person who should judge is GOD or the univers who ever u believe in .
As a born Muslim, baptized catholic convert into Christianity ending in atheism. Reverted back to Islam. I’d say that god works through my physical body to take control of my life . Being a narcissist only means so much I’d say that I do have some traits however, I believe as long as it’s beneficial to my personal journey and doesn’t harm others or myself, then I doing what’s best for me . That means all aspects of life.
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Amen!
You’re doing exactly what he’s talking about…. We are all genuinely narcissistic. We all believe we found or have the answers 👆. You can find “zen” and be a realistic person paving your own way also. Be HUMBLE. Spread JOY. Take care of FAMILY. The more energy you put out you WILL receive that’s physics. Concentrate on your EGO and you will remain STILL. ITS EVERYTHING. Science, spirituality and Living in the present. I’m a narcissist just like you.
Nah. There's no God.
@@savevsdeath everyone experiences “god” by being happy and spreading love,positivity and knowledge. One persons church is another persons Car Radio. Music is a perfect example. Art, community, family, FORGIVENESS. You don’t NEED to be religious to possess these qualities. You just need to tune in.
@@OliveWhisperingEye only saved through a relationship with Christ Jesus, not religion
Empathy and sympathy 3:11
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But I assume your doing this for views... So.. Wtf
Exactly. But it's not about him. This dude is not from God
Yashua is life and can save your soul,When you repeant and ask him for forgiveness for all your sins he will make you a new soul,heart,spirit,and mind he will be your savior and your Massiah ❤
Yashua is The Truth
John 14:6
6 Yashua saith unto him,I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. 7 If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him. 8 Philip saith unto him, Lord, shew us the Father, and it sufficeth us.
Not all narcissism is bad. That's the greatest misconception of this video. Love your self. But you make many sharp points as well.
This guy is talking crap! He has no clue as to what it means to be spiritual. It sure as hell isn't just attending a church service. My goodness such ignorance!!!
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The love 💕 of this era 🎉
Wow you said it perfectly ! Awesome job 👏🏻
So are social media “influencers”
Literally going through this as of July this year….thank you for bringing this up
Discover Eastern Orthodox spirituality which I found after DECADES of inflated ego with a guru etc addicted to CONTROL…
I finally discovered the ascetic path of the Orthodox Christian struggle against SIN and the passions we have since THE FALL of Adam and Eve..
The early monastic desert Saints understood HUMILITY through ongoing continual REPENTANCE… realizing we are sinners and heal in the hospital Jesus provides in His church