Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by: 1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing. 2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways 3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions. Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
My husband likes to hang out with hus friends daily. He sometimes forgets to give me msg, he cannot call me in time. Our relationship is in long distance. He gives his holiday to his family. He spends a very little time with me. When he comes to meet me in my country, he cant call me properly because he spends his maximum time with his friends. He is with me when I am with him only. Sometimes he can skip our date to spend time with them. My relationship is going on for 10 years. But he is not changing. Should I get separated?
Me n my husband never went on vecation. Not even honeymoon. We have a baby now. So it's not possible to travel for me. He's back to our country. And he goes for tours with his friends. I feel really bad. But I still wanna be happy for him. Sometimes I feel like getting revenge. By going on vecation s with my friends. Am I wrong here. Am I just jealous.
It depends. You need to re-evaluate what it is you ask and need for in a relationship. Everyone seeks out a relationship for different things. Some want company and a bestfriend, some want someone they can have at a distance, some want someone short term etc. it is never good to stick to a relationship that doesn’t ultimately give you what you need in a relationship. With that being said try to find a right time to bring this up and make sure you address that you in no way are trying to attack him or say he is in the wrong. Let him know secondly that if there is anything you need to do to become a better partner, that you will genuinely hear them out and make an attempt. Then thirdly tell them what it is calmly that you need from them. I’d say best bet is letting them know what you crave and need from the relationship and giving them examples on how to actively provide them for you. Things can’t change immediately but he if isn’t showing he’s trying then you have to reevaluate what it is you want out of a relationship and if you’re willing to give those things up for this person.
It gets more complicated because you are changing the rules for someone with habits, so you need to be proactive in changing yourself into a much more desirable wife. Make if fun and exciting for both of you and the magic will happen.
That's my situation too, i have his friends and brother who he doesn't want a bad word said against them. I pray that Jesus gives us the strenght to love in spite of the situation
It is time to recognize that what you are "doing" in your marriage is far from working. Your marriage is meant to be filled with happiness and love, which you make that way. Look into the course for women themarriagefoundation.org/
It means he does not cherish you which means he is not gaining from the marriage that which he needs. The course for women we offer is the best way to change yourself and so your marriage. themarriagefoundation.org/
@@TheMarriageFoundation Really? You make it sound like it's her fault. Ashleigh divorce him and be with a man that would knock someone out for making inappropriate comments.
@@lostcause5042 I find the best friends I go to complain about my relationship, are the ones that blame me, and show me how Im the problem. if I had friends that would tell me "you are right, divorce her, brake up with ,you can do better" the relationship would end. and next one would end, and next one also
Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by:
1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing.
2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways
3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions.
Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.
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My husband likes to hang out with hus friends daily. He sometimes forgets to give me msg, he cannot call me in time. Our relationship is in long distance. He gives his holiday to his family. He spends a very little time with me. When he comes to meet me in my country, he cant call me properly because he spends his maximum time with his friends. He is with me when I am with him only. Sometimes he can skip our date to spend time with them. My relationship is going on for 10 years. But he is not changing. Should I get separated?
We cannot make decisions for you
@@TheMarriageFoundation Can you give me an advice?
Me n my husband never went on vecation. Not even honeymoon. We have a baby now. So it's not possible to travel for me. He's back to our country. And he goes for tours with his friends. I feel really bad. But I still wanna be happy for him. Sometimes I feel like getting revenge. By going on vecation s with my friends. Am I wrong here. Am I just jealous.
It depends. You need to re-evaluate what it is you ask and need for in a relationship. Everyone seeks out a relationship for different things. Some want company and a bestfriend, some want someone they can have at a distance, some want someone short term etc. it is never good to stick to a relationship that doesn’t ultimately give you what you need in a relationship. With that being said try to find a right time to bring this up and make sure you address that you in no way are trying to attack him or say he is in the wrong. Let him know secondly that if there is anything you need to do to become a better partner, that you will genuinely hear them out and make an attempt. Then thirdly tell them what it is calmly that you need from them. I’d say best bet is letting them know what you crave and need from the relationship and giving them examples on how to actively provide them for you. Things can’t change immediately but he if isn’t showing he’s trying then you have to reevaluate what it is you want out of a relationship and if you’re willing to give those things up for this person.
Yes get separated and ASAP! He does not love you!
What advice do you give for the wife who is in the scenario where the problem existed from the first week of marriage?
It gets more complicated because you are changing the rules for someone with habits, so you need to be proactive in changing yourself into a much more desirable wife. Make if fun and exciting for both of you and the magic will happen.
That's my situation too, i have his friends and brother who he doesn't want a bad word said against them. I pray that Jesus gives us the strenght to love in spite of the situation
@@TheMarriageFoundation yet if tables turn, men are not given the same advice. Break my heart already
My husband always spends time with phone, friends and at night he is always bsy with phone. What the heck. What should i do?
It is time to recognize that what you are "doing" in your marriage is far from working. Your marriage is meant to be filled with happiness and love, which you make that way. Look into the course for women themarriagefoundation.org/
Exactly my situation
What if the husband allows his friends to make unnecessary comments that are sexual to me and he over looks them.
It means he does not cherish you which means he is not gaining from the marriage that which he needs. The course for women we offer is the best way to change yourself and so your marriage. themarriagefoundation.org/
@@TheMarriageFoundation Really? You make it sound like it's her fault. Ashleigh divorce him and be with a man that would knock someone out for making inappropriate comments.
You may have married a narcissist. Get out if so, before he sucks the life out of you.
@@lostcause5042 I find the best friends I go to complain about my relationship, are the ones that blame me, and show me how Im the problem. if I had friends that would tell me "you are right, divorce her, brake up with ,you can do better" the relationship would end. and next one would end, and next one also