I agree, I enjoy traditional romance even though it's hard for me to initiate it. I like flowers, picnics, hand written cards, box of chocolates, a rose, surprise dates. Lol. Just the cliche things.
I’m EXACTLY like this. It’s unfortunate that EVERY guy I meet just wants to jump in bed right away. I don’t like it so I gave up on dating for a while. Came back & it’s STILL like that:(
Hey! A bit of a late comment, but I used to have a same experience...A lot of guys just want sex with you that is unfortunately true. The way I dealt with this was that I totally focused on myself and my hobbies, and eventually met some great guys, one of them now being my boyfriend. I think the trick is to not try finding dates, because a lot of it is purely sexual. Just meet people organically, and eventually, it will click with someone! Wishing you all the best!
I think that's a reflection on society. Women are getting that way as well. When I was single 20 years ago I was running into women that wanted friends with benefits, but didn't like the idea of exclusivity. That caused me to want to give up as an INTP. I can only imagine how much harder it would be for an ISFJ.
Curious... as an ISFJ guy, I've seen various different thoughts on best matches, and I'm curious how you came up with ISFJ, ENFJ, and ESTJ as best match. On other sites, I've seen ESTP or ESFP as the best compatability, and ENFJ being a fairly incompatible. Thoughts?
Well, MBTI is just a theory that was not laid out for match-mating in a romantic way but as a framework to understand how we think and how that may differ. Nevertheless it is (mis)used for this purpose because, don't we love the categorizing potential partners game? So we end up with different conclusions based on different views on how cognitive functions relate. According to duality, ENTP-ISFJ is the one match, here it is listed as the absolute worst, probably based on stereotypes of both MBTI. As long as a type is mature, they can be with any other. In relationships, there's more to love languages(that may have correlation with MBTI) and attachment theory, among many other things.
Experience new things shouldn't be a problem I guess...since I love to venture out on anything new.. it's kind of exciting especially if it sounds interesting..
I'm curious why ISFJs and INTPs would be considered bad pairs as they both have the same stacks, albeit in a different order. I can see how both of them avoiding conflict could create conflict, but you list a fellow ISFJ as a best match.
Roger Huggett Jr. it’s all personal preference really. My most secure and stable relationship was with an ISFJ. Not much stimulation in deep conversation, but still very fun and humorous. Depends on what you want out of a partnership
Chelsea Roberts I’m currently getting to know one and you hit the nail on the limited deep conversation but I’m in love with her moral standpoint and down to earth ness. I can’t take it, plus her smile and warmth. I’m in a bind
I don't mean to brag but, i'm actually pretty popular at my school and that made her a little bit distrustful about my character. She thinks that I can easily leave her since there are a lot of girls who also likes me.
@@Mr-cd7ep yah she's timid and shy. ISFJ is pretty accurate to her personality. There are other girls who like me and she doesn't want to go against them. I'm trying to keep a low profile as much as I can but.... I can't explain...
Just help her out in her assignments, but keep a low profile. Pretend stupid or say you didn't know anything / notice anything when confronted by her (or her friends). Action >>> words for isfj
@Leah Warrington ah yes defo. It's just that understanding a personality type is kind of a head start and gives you some key insight people may not at times willingly share. I know that there is more to this, just knowing what an isfj may want can help alot.
@@sililtatchu eh? same with him hahaha (he still doesnt know what to take in college) but he's thoughtful you know and supportive too! What else have you seen in him that made u say that? I'm really curious. What are his negative traits, if u dont mind? 😅
@@ooooo6516 he is such temperamental person. I just said to him whats in my mind, i didnt and never force him to do something. I just said something and then suddenly he got mad. You know when he got mad he just suddenly leave me hanging. But i didnt get mad when he leave me because i respect his decision. But he keep coming back to me i dont know why. He is complicated bastard. Idk if all infp like that or its just individual personality.
Simbarashe Mashave tell me more I just started a relationship with a Isfj male I’m an estp female but Isfjs don’t really express how they feel I always express myself when I feel the need to which is not often bc I’m not really emotional but I notice the Isfj isn’t like that but his actions are above expectations going above and beyond planning the most amazing dates ... please share some tips
@@themoonbleu627 Hi my best tip is be true to yourself and i think a lot of isfjs guys like us we like women who as strong mind and you need to understand how he feels about himself it shows you are caring for him❤ and we like women who are also spontaneous truly presentable and does not take life too seriously lool. Myself I am ISFJ
ISFJ my fellows could you please raise your hands?
I agree, I enjoy traditional romance even though it's hard for me to
initiate it. I like flowers, picnics, hand written cards, box of chocolates, a rose, surprise dates. Lol. Just the cliche things.
Same here.
Yup me too anything cheap and nice I like I don't really care
Same here!
This is spot on for the ISFJ
Excellent video. Insanely accurate information from beginning to end. Thank you.
I'm an INFJ and my fiancé is ISFJ ❤️
Thank you for sharing this.
I’m EXACTLY like this. It’s unfortunate that EVERY guy I meet just wants to jump in bed right away. I don’t like it so I gave up on dating for a while. Came back & it’s STILL like that:(
I’m sorry you get treated like that.
Hey! A bit of a late comment, but I used to have a same experience...A lot of guys just want sex with you that is unfortunately true. The way I dealt with this was that I totally focused on myself and my hobbies, and eventually met some great guys, one of them now being my boyfriend. I think the trick is to not try finding dates, because a lot of it is purely sexual. Just meet people organically, and eventually, it will click with someone!
Wishing you all the best!
Kristina Olah I NEVER meet anyone organically that’s the problem. I WISH I met someone like that. Dating sites suck.
Ana Milos you will if you have that mindset be optimistic
I think that's a reflection on society. Women are getting that way as well. When I was single 20 years ago I was running into women that wanted friends with benefits, but didn't like the idea of exclusivity. That caused me to want to give up as an INTP. I can only imagine how much harder it would be for an ISFJ.
This video explains me completely!
Curious... as an ISFJ guy, I've seen various different thoughts on best matches, and I'm curious how you came up with ISFJ, ENFJ, and ESTJ as best match. On other sites, I've seen ESTP or ESFP as the best compatability, and ENFJ being a fairly incompatible. Thoughts?
Well, MBTI is just a theory that was not laid out for match-mating in a romantic way but as a framework to understand how we think and how that may differ. Nevertheless it is (mis)used for this purpose because, don't we love the categorizing potential partners game? So we end up with different conclusions based on different views on how cognitive functions relate. According to duality, ENTP-ISFJ is the one match, here it is listed as the absolute worst, probably based on stereotypes of both MBTI. As long as a type is mature, they can be with any other. In relationships, there's more to love languages(that may have correlation with MBTI) and attachment theory, among many other things.
I’m a ISFJ and married to a ENFJ for 20 years now.
estp n isfj magical
Name davor Name danach no isfj can’t stand entps your wrong
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I'm infj in relationship with isfj. It's absolutely beautiful.
Experience new things shouldn't be a problem I guess...since I love to venture out on anything new.. it's kind of exciting especially if it sounds interesting..
I have a lot of these traits. Even the weaknesses cited in this video - got me right down pat lol!
Shit, I’m an INTJ and the girl I’m gonna ask out in a few days is an ISFJ
How did it went? 😲
🤣
I'm curious why ISFJs and INTPs would be considered bad pairs as they both have the same stacks, albeit in a different order. I can see how both of them avoiding conflict could create conflict, but you list a fellow ISFJ as a best match.
Roger Huggett Jr. it’s all personal preference really. My most secure and stable relationship was with an ISFJ. Not much stimulation in deep conversation, but still very fun and humorous. Depends on what you want out of a partnership
Chelsea Roberts I’m currently getting to know one and you hit the nail on the limited deep conversation but I’m in love with her moral standpoint and down to earth ness. I can’t take it, plus her smile and warmth. I’m in a bind
I'm an ENTP and I fell in love with an ISFJ... Seriously, it's very hard to court her.
Why is it hard to court her, is she shy?
Just take the time to make her feel comfortable and assured around you, this way I think she will open up little by little.
I don't mean to brag but, i'm actually pretty popular at my school and that made her a little bit distrustful about my character. She thinks that I can easily leave her since there are a lot of girls who also likes me.
@@Mr-cd7ep yah she's timid and shy. ISFJ is pretty accurate to her personality. There are other girls who like me and she doesn't want to go against them. I'm trying to keep a low profile as much as I can but.... I can't explain...
Just help her out in her assignments, but keep a low profile. Pretend stupid or say you didn't know anything / notice anything when confronted by her (or her friends).
Action >>> words for isfj
I'm an infp, and I'm in love with an isfj. Are we not compatible?
@Leah Warrington ah yes defo. It's just that understanding a personality type is kind of a head start and gives you some key insight people may not at times willingly share. I know that there is more to this, just knowing what an isfj may want can help alot.
@Leah Warrington so any clue how to attract an isfj?
I am infp too , there is a chance
im isfj but im not tradicional at all
I'm not traditional, am kinda cavalier I have to stay focused to "tow the company line"
Im an intp woman and my bf is isfj, we are planning to marry soon 🙂
What about ISFJ and INFP i heard there are very compatible lool
No they are not
REALLY? HAHAHAHA I HAVE A GUY FRIEND WHO IS AN INFP 😝
Im isfj, and he(infp) is not consistent with what he really wants
@@sililtatchu eh? same with him hahaha (he still doesnt know what to take in college) but he's thoughtful you know and supportive too! What else have you seen in him that made u say that? I'm really curious. What are his negative traits, if u dont mind? 😅
@@ooooo6516 he is such temperamental person. I just said to him whats in my mind, i didnt and never force him to do something. I just said something and then suddenly he got mad. You know when he got mad he just suddenly leave me hanging. But i didnt get mad when he leave me because i respect his decision. But he keep coming back to me i dont know why. He is complicated bastard. Idk if all infp like that or its just individual personality.
worst match is ENFP? i've gotten along w many enfp's. i can't stand entp's
Dee_V what about estp?
Why? :( I’m an ENFP and my bf is an ISFJ
I am ISFJ and I don't think I can handle ENTP's
I think ISFJ male and ESTP female are great match in heaven do everybody agree with me
Simbarashe Mashave tell me more I just started a relationship with a Isfj male I’m an estp female but Isfjs don’t really express how they feel I always express myself when I feel the need to which is not often bc I’m not really emotional but I notice the Isfj isn’t like that but his actions are above expectations going above and beyond planning the most amazing dates ... please share some tips
@@themoonbleu627 Hi my best tip is be true to yourself and i think a lot of isfjs guys like us we like women who as strong mind and you need to understand how he feels about himself it shows you are caring for him❤ and we like women who are also spontaneous truly presentable and does not take life too seriously lool. Myself I am ISFJ
best match is ENTJ i beg you stop spreading lies..
I agree.
Daniel Ivkovich 😂😂😂😂😂 rips you to shreds