Mine too mam... After watching the perfect daily routine and other sort of perfect life video... Once I got frustrated about thinking of mine life... But lately I realized.. Perfection is myth... Improvement is always cherished
U know most of the parents say , if u r procrastinating just think of ur future exam .....this thinking , I was carrying from childhood but when I started engineering ...then lockdown came but there was only classes but no exams , then after 1st wave of lockdown collage took straightly both sem exams (which was incomplete due to exams )....but due to procrastination , less will power and mind control to get rid of pleasures and going to shop if dad say me to complete any tasks ( he is an business man ) , I was so much indulged and unconscious all day in those tasks that dad gave me , he thought thought I was not intrested in studies.... But when my exam came I was totally in anxiety and I was thinking that what's the use of studying right now too much ...let's see next time The sense of perfection came in between the thoughts of my anxiety The fear of failure and accepting before that I will not perform good in exams without trying I got too much anxious because of my distractions and all of that And the theory of the destruction was also the p*** addiction, My thought was not at all organized and clear when I was alone this brought me in lack of self control and less will power extra
I've been struggling with perfectionism procrastination for as long as I can remember. I have realised a few years back that I am afraid of success (I've always wondered why though; i still do). I've never voiced this to anyone. Your video gave me goosebumps. Thank you!
Same feeling i have @papori samah! Exactly same , i have never told it to anyone either because who can understand this feeling of being afraid of success.
What a useful and relatable message! I used to be this way until someone I love dearly said to me, you are human and flawed. Embrace it! You have nothing to prove to anyone. The older I get the more I understand this. It really has been hard to let go especially because Im stubborn! Thank you for reinforcing my mindset!
What a wonderful message you gave anitha... Thats so much relatable . I will really need this . Thank you again for reinforcing to think. Your videos are simply great.
Thank you soooo much Anitha for sharing this......definitely clicked me.... Most underrated channel...I pray your video reach more people who will need
What a message filled with divine goodness, your message resonates, thanks to Yoga namaskar, through which I discovered your channel, and your beautiful energies, thank you for your sharing experience !
You just described me in your video. And to think I dont even like the word 'perfectionist' and never liked anyone who endorsed it without realizing all the while that's exactly what I was trying to do. Eye opener!! 😶
Oh my God!!!! Nothing in this world was as relatable as this... Thank you so so much for the exact representation... Cannot describe in words how much this has helped...it was like popping that bubble. Thanks a lot!
This was me 6 months ago and one day I just woke up to this very subtle reality of mine that I was afraid of success! I have been unapologetically unkind to the universe and to myself! This video resonated on so so many levels! My obsession with perfection reached a level where my jaw began hurting terribly because I was clenching it all the time. This by far was the cruellest I have been with myself. The only positive thing that came out of this phase was the fact that no matter how hard you try, you have to let go of everything, even the effort. Thank you for this video dee, I thought I am the only one struggling with it.
🥺🥺 it’s crazy, so many of the things that we think we are alone in - so many others are also going through! I’m so happy you’re able to see the patterns ❤️
what a message!!!!!! wow anitha... it was with perfectionism I have wasted so much of time. Thank you for enlightening with your gracious words... LOVE YOU anitha garu....
Okay the timing was perfect! I have my exams in a month and I made a schedule and if one thing fell out of place, I was like, there is no point now, let me create a schedule for tomorrow and follow it perfectly. And then the cycle repeats!
It's like you are directly pointing at what I am repeating since years..the message went so deep that it's making me afraid to even question have I been this person since birth or what has made me become one ? Thank you for this video.. much gratitude
Very relatable message Anita. I often tend to think the same way that if not the best way, i don't even want to do things. I wish, I can go back to past and buy more time, but as you said, lets not let our past or future define us .
That is my Reality right now!!!!! Right now!! Am doing this! Seriously I felt like an sitting in your chair , and doing plans again and again to do it perfect! Thanks for this video!!!
I am writing this watching only the first part of the video. This video was being suggested to me by youtube since a long time but I never clicked on it as I never thought that I am a perfectionist, Today I finally clicked on this video and my goodness, the first part of this video potrays MY EVERY FUCKN DAY. Thanks a lot, ma'am. I needed this video. Let me just continue watching the rest of it.
Bang on!!!! This is so relatable...I guess everyone is living in this myth of PERFECTIONISM...n it needs to be changed. Thanks for an amazing video ❤❤❤❤
Oh my god. This video was an eye opener. I was so frustrated at myself for certain things as I wanted everything to be perfect without realizing it is totally killing my vibe. Thank you so much. Make more such amazing videos. More power to you. ❤️
So me once. I mostly came out of it. I am happy to know that so many people have gone or going through this. Simple strategy could be mix physical movement work and desk work while designing the schedules. Physical movement offers better focus rather than sitting long time at desk. Personal experience.
This is first time I am writing but this is an amazing video and very relatable. I am going through severe anxiety and I don’t know the reason and I feel somewhere this can be the reason….love this Thanks 🙏🏻
Came here accidentally... but this channel is amazing... watching your videos continously... I love your lifestyle... lots of love to you...... do more videos like these .... 😀😀
Thank u so much Anita... How you are realising our day to day reality 🙃.. no words to describe i can totally relate the exact situation you have explained in this video.. you have spoken the words that my inner soul wanted to tell me.. really thankful for the wonderful videos.. I just wanted to meet you and had this more wonderful discussion in more deep and root level.. sorry for the longer script message 😝 .. because anyways I didn't thought of writing a perfect message 😁.. peace 🤟
Thanku soo much dii♥️....i needed this very badely ..i can't express in words what i felt what was the problem but now my all questions are answered....
OMG Anita, This is so relatable. Thank you so much for making this video.. Perfectionism mindset has really crippled me and made me feel worthless.. You are doing such a good job. Lots of good wishes and blessings to you. Jai Guru Dev 😊
Thankyou thankyou so much girl 😍😍😍....it really need to hear this at this moment ....I was just like that...but now..no more perfectionism.... ❤️❤️❤️ Thankyou so much
my perfectionism can stop me from going out in the world with my ideas because I always find something to improve. Letting it go is very powerful and very much needed for me ✨
This video is a reality check..🤯🤯 Loved it ! Thankyou for making so relatable one..❤💫 More love and power to you for always coming up with most challenging things and making it easier..😊👍❤
I literally have been procrastinating from past week. I woke up an hour late than my planned time and the whole day I'm miserable. This video really opened my eyes, I feel better now. Thankyou so much 🙏❤️
I just wanna thank you from the bottom of my heart mam..💖 bcos I'm the one like you.. always expecting perfection in every little thing in my life.. so as a result I missed many things in my life.. or life itself..! Slowly I am changing my self with the help of Yoga and Meditation..!🙏 But it's really great that u have shared Ur own experience which is very personal on social media.. I love Ur courage and good Moto which wants to raise others who r in need..! After heared u I accept myself and I'm ready for a complete change over..! Thank you so much mam.. Do more videos on different aspects which others don't.. like this one..!😊🌺🌺🙏
Thank you so much! I too will be watching this over and over until maybe one day it will be part of my new normal. Very relatable skit and your message really resonated with me.💗
Just stop yourself whenever you catch yourself falling into these patterns and take deep breaths.. focus in your breaths and then decide on the next step of action ❣️
O god! Seriously I watched 15-20 videos but can't find any relatable. This is same thing what I do And the main reason of my Procrastination... Thank you so much di This will surely help in my studies. 🤗❤️
I am actually speechless. I match all the signs of perfectionism you mentioned to the t and I literally didn't realise. Not even kidding I would try my hardest everyday and then just put myself down for not finishing things while I am wasting time trying to make it perfect. This literally has come to the point of my self care routines even and no I just didn't realise that I wasn't being lazy but I was being unrealistic perfectionist. You actually helped me a ton today to realise this and I really am gonna focus on letting it go. Thanks a lot again
Anita! I am so grateful, this video came to me at exactly the right time and I cannot believe how perfectly (😂) u captured why I am seemingly working all the time but never *actually* getting anything done.
Still on this mode. Giving struggle to my surroundings too. Couldnt wave off a silly misytakes of them n ultimately taking all the resoonsiblities to my shoulder n killing myself. I watched this video as am seeing myself. Now feeling like to take a step to get out of it. Though tried and failed many times earlier. But, this time i will move forward. Thank ypu dear for this wonderful video. Stay blessed.. 😊
Also the main points are: Where to Start and When to Start... Instead of making us happy by making our eyes see... In the To Do list that it will be done.... Kudos to you💕🙏🏻
Thank you so much, i was literally crying My family and my girlfriend as well And mainly me Said to me that i was just lazy and really struggli g hell lot. Thanks for sharing I understand that its not just me Its normal, It can be changed Thank you
Hey! It's me going through this devastating moves towards perfectionism..and i still am doing the same setting the tasks for later...well...this time it is worth watching..kinda certain realisation that bro..you don't need to have rigid regimes for your daily chores..it's a wave having crest and trough..plans excite but the process broods...thank you a lot for the alarm to get out of the plight...🙏
Wow. RUclips recommended this video at the right time for me. I can relate to every bit of it, and I really want to let go this desire to be perfect but for me it feel like maybe I am afraid of failure. Even the small tasks I do with 'perfection', I keep thinking about it that what a great job I did n all and I aspire to have that feeling for all the things I do.
✌️you are love Anita as always ......you teach me so many things that I didn't even notice I am doing 😪but a great thanks to you to help me and everyone to get out of this unwanted cycle of life ♥️ thanks you so much 😘
This is my sory as well , in race of being upto the mark , we usually leave ourselves and loose us way back and hence we get struck in race w realise we are backward than our begnings.,as we are not with ourselves. I was eagerly waiting for your video, they are just positivity and self awareness.
@@AnitaBokepalli indeed , thats the crucial aspect of life or the essence of our life and existence - the discovery of what we are, who we are and why we are. Maybe the world is toiling for something ,of which even they are not aware of, or have forgotten the purpose of toil in the race to be perfect? Would love to know your ideas over it mam.
This perfectionism has been stopping me for years. I wanted all my things to be perfect. It wasn't only about work, but food, fitness, lifestyle and what not. I just started getting things done with little planning and starting execution immediately and also stopped blaming self unnecessarily for not achieving tasks. As per my understanding getting things started is first step, once you get in pace (if you are able to do things for around 10-12 days), reiterate your planning/optimize it(which a human can achieve and not like will goto the moon in 24 hours😂😂😂).
I recently noticed that i was a perfectionist since childhood..in my case i think i was like this because i thought if i don’t do things perfectly myb my parents or other people will not accept me as i am (flawed human just like others) ..But trying to reverse the pattern.. thnx for the video 💕
This is so relatable.... I felt like you did a skit on my life....your each nd every words just matched with mine ❤️ Thanks for such relatable videos Love love love❤️❤️
Such a useful video...but seriously that English learning app,ruined the flow of the message.... please from the next time, keep it in the end or make a saperate video for it ..... Thank you....
This is exactly me everyday!! Each and every thing you mentioned happens also with me all the time. And I also suffer too. I think I'm thriving to do things the right way, but I don't expect it to be perfect. But the reality is that I expect it to be perfect at the end of the task in some other manner. I feel that all the tips you mentioned out will work for me also but I don't know somewhere from the inner most me is saying that if I don't strive for perfection I cannot develop or become better than before. I still believe this thought of mine is also correct Now I'm just confused and feel like I'm stuck in the maze. 😅😅😂 Now I think that all the time perfectionism isn't the right way because things aren't working for me either. Same meeru skit chesinattugane. Meere yelagaina naa, mee, mana ayina apayam nunchi kapadali..🙏🙏😂
I am 18 years old and your all points are relatable, I used to be insecure about everything so I searched on Google for why everything was like that even though I achieved many things in life. I already finds that at some point I am afraid of success because I don't know what I do after that, then I find the word perfectionism which seems quite relatable and I searched on youtube now after seeing your video I know I am not wrong about my thoughts, thanks for sharing your thoughts. Maybe I start comparing myself from unrealistic things like movies , story but its nvr possible in real life Now all I wants to be happy again
Perfectionism kills time and energy. It's better to be imperfect but purpose driven then being perfect without any purpose. A bird doesn't build a perfect nest but builds a purposeful one.
Perfectionism was totally killing my vibe! Let me know your thoughts ❣️
Mine too ...but you expressed it in so simple way that if it happens again to me I will definitely try to overcome ✌️ thanks to you ♥️
Perfectionism is myth👌🏻
Relatable 🥺😟😟 Eye opening video ... Thank you 😁
Mine too mam... After watching the perfect daily routine and other sort of perfect life video... Once I got frustrated about thinking of mine life... But lately I realized.. Perfection is myth... Improvement is always cherished
U know most of the parents say , if u r procrastinating just think of ur future exam .....this thinking , I was carrying from childhood but when I started engineering ...then lockdown came but there was only classes but no exams , then after 1st wave of lockdown collage took straightly both sem exams (which was incomplete due to exams )....but due to procrastination , less will power and mind control to get rid of pleasures and going to shop if dad say me to complete any tasks ( he is an business man ) , I was so much indulged and unconscious all day in those tasks that dad gave me , he thought thought I was not intrested in studies.... But when my exam came I was totally in anxiety and I was thinking that what's the use of studying right now too much ...let's see next time The sense of perfection came in between the thoughts of my anxiety The fear of failure and accepting before that I will not perform good in exams without trying I got too much anxious because of my distractions and all of that And the theory of the destruction was also the p*** addiction, My thought was not at all organized and clear when I was alone this brought me in lack of self control and less will power extra
what a video seen today,m going through this ,ty for this🌸☺️
Thankyou Anita. Truly. Thankyou.
You're welcome!
I didn't no this was the root cause of my unproductivity,thank you for making this video and youtube recommending !!
I've been struggling with perfectionism procrastination for as long as I can remember. I have realised a few years back that I am afraid of success (I've always wondered why though; i still do). I've never voiced this to anyone. Your video gave me goosebumps. Thank you!
Same feeling i have @papori samah! Exactly same , i have never told it to anyone either because who can understand this feeling of being afraid of success.
This was so relatable Anita, thanks for sharing this..🔥❤️
Thanks so much for watching! I'm glad you found it relatable.
What a useful and relatable message! I used to be this way until someone I love dearly said to me, you are human and flawed. Embrace it! You have nothing to prove to anyone. The older I get the more I understand this. It really has been hard to let go especially because Im stubborn! Thank you for reinforcing my mindset!
Wow, that’s awesome!
What a wonderful message you gave anitha... Thats so much relatable . I will really need this .
Thank you again for reinforcing to think. Your videos are simply great.
I m happy that i came across ur channel and i think u deserve subscribers in millions keep it up all the best
This is the reality of many people. Great video.
Thank you soooo much Anitha for sharing this......definitely clicked me....
Most underrated channel...I pray your video reach more people who will need
What a message filled with divine goodness,
your message resonates,
thanks to Yoga namaskar, through which I discovered your channel,
and your beautiful energies,
thank you for your sharing experience !
You just described me in your video. And to think I dont even like the word 'perfectionist' and never liked anyone who endorsed it without realizing all the while that's exactly what I was trying to do. Eye opener!! 😶
Oh my God!!!! Nothing in this world was as relatable as this... Thank you so so much for the exact representation... Cannot describe in words how much this has helped...it was like popping that bubble. Thanks a lot!
You're so welcome!
This was me 6 months ago and one day I just woke up to this very subtle reality of mine that I was afraid of success! I have been unapologetically unkind to the universe and to myself! This video resonated on so so many levels! My obsession with perfection reached a level where my jaw began hurting terribly because I was clenching it all the time. This by far was the cruellest I have been with myself. The only positive thing that came out of this phase was the fact that no matter how hard you try, you have to let go of everything, even the effort. Thank you for this video dee, I thought I am the only one struggling with it.
🥺🥺 it’s crazy, so many of the things that we think we are alone in - so many others are also going through! I’m so happy you’re able to see the patterns ❤️
@@AnitaBokepalli Yes you have beautifully caught the pattern and really thankful to you that you have shared with us ☺️
This is so relatable, every word struck me so hard, thanks for sharing, I will be always be indebted to you for showing me the mirror
I personally feel this video was made for me. Thank you sooo much
I LOVE you, Anita!! Thanks for all you share.
what a message!!!!!! wow anitha... it was with perfectionism I have wasted so much of time. Thank you for enlightening with your gracious words... LOVE YOU anitha garu....
Okay the timing was perfect! I have my exams in a month and I made a schedule and if one thing fell out of place, I was like, there is no point now, let me create a schedule for tomorrow and follow it perfectly. And then the cycle repeats!
Oh my God..it is like..this vedio is on me... everything thing is matched...it means I am not alone in this matter
It's like you are directly pointing at what I am repeating since years..the message went so deep that it's making me afraid to even question have I been this person since birth or what has made me become one ? Thank you for this video.. much gratitude
Very relatable message Anita. I often tend to think the same way that if not the best way, i don't even want to do things. I wish, I can go back to past and buy more time, but as you said, lets not let our past or future define us .
That is my Reality right now!!!!! Right now!! Am doing this! Seriously I felt like an sitting in your chair , and doing plans again and again to do it perfect! Thanks for this video!!!
I am writing this watching only the first part of the video. This video was being suggested to me by youtube since a long time but I never clicked on it as I never thought that I am a perfectionist, Today I finally clicked on this video and my goodness, the first part of this video potrays MY EVERY FUCKN DAY. Thanks a lot, ma'am. I needed this video. Let me just continue watching the rest of it.
Bang on!!!!
This is so relatable...I guess everyone is living in this myth of PERFECTIONISM...n it needs to be changed. Thanks for an amazing video ❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤️
Thank you so much for this amazing video 😊
Oh my god. This video was an eye opener. I was so frustrated at myself for certain things as I wanted everything to be perfect without realizing it is totally killing my vibe. Thank you so much.
Make more such amazing videos. More power to you. ❤️
You are simply amazing! Love your videos ❤
Loving it Anita. Keep it up. Lots of power to you - love from Kolkata. This single video makes me your subscriber
anita is so right... even I deep down fear success, because it would increase the expectation from me
Such a beautiful video and message! 😊🤗
Thank you so much!
So me once. I mostly came out of it. I am happy to know that so many people have gone or going through this.
Simple strategy could be mix physical movement work and desk work while designing the schedules. Physical movement offers better focus rather than sitting long time at desk. Personal experience.
This is first time I am writing but this is an amazing video and very relatable.
I am going through severe anxiety and I don’t know the reason and I feel somewhere this can be the reason….love this
Thanks 🙏🏻
Exactly what I needed to hear this morning! I'm going to watch this video every morning! Thank you so much for sharing! Love the skit too!
Wow! Wishing you a very good morning every morning! 😁
Thanks for making this video.
Truely relatable... Thank you 😊❤
Came here accidentally... but this channel is amazing... watching your videos continously... I love your lifestyle... lots of love to you...... do more videos like these .... 😀😀
Thank u so much Anita... How you are realising our day to day reality 🙃.. no words to describe i can totally relate the exact situation you have explained in this video.. you have spoken the words that my inner soul wanted to tell me.. really thankful for the wonderful videos.. I just wanted to meet you and had this more wonderful discussion in more deep and root level.. sorry for the longer script message 😝 .. because anyways I didn't thought of writing a perfect message 😁.. peace 🤟
Lol. Love the beginning. It's exactly like me. You're a great actress Anita. I wish to overcome perfectionism and procrastination.
Wow,, thankyou so much sis,love from Nepal 🇳🇵
All i was doing is draining my energy and getting exhausted … its like carrying a unnecessary baggage..such a relatable content 💛
Thanku soo much dii♥️....i needed this very badely ..i can't express in words what i felt what was the problem but now my all questions are answered....
OMG Anita, This is so relatable.
Thank you so much for making this video.. Perfectionism mindset has really crippled me and made me feel worthless..
You are doing such a good job. Lots of good wishes and blessings to you.
Jai Guru Dev 😊
Thankyou thankyou so much girl 😍😍😍....it really need to hear this at this moment ....I was just like that...but now..no more perfectionism.... ❤️❤️❤️ Thankyou so much
Thanks Anita for sharing your little letting it go ritual, it's going to be of immense help ❤️
was going through this phase thanks for sharing and helping us! wish you lots of happiness !
Wishing you lots of happiness too!!
my perfectionism can stop me from going out in the world with my ideas because I always find something to improve. Letting it go is very powerful and very much needed for me ✨
This video is a reality check..🤯🤯 Loved it ! Thankyou for making so relatable one..❤💫 More love and power to you for always coming up with most challenging things and making it easier..😊👍❤
Thank you for your kind kind words 🥰❤️
I literally have been procrastinating from past week.
I woke up an hour late than my planned time and the whole day I'm miserable.
This video really opened my eyes, I feel better now. Thankyou so much 🙏❤️
I just wanna thank you from the bottom of my heart mam..💖 bcos I'm the one like you.. always expecting perfection in every little thing in my life.. so as a result I missed many things in my life.. or life itself..! Slowly I am changing my self with the help of Yoga and Meditation..!🙏 But it's really great that u have shared Ur own experience which is very personal on social media.. I love Ur courage and good Moto which wants to raise others who r in need..! After heared u I accept myself and I'm ready for a complete change over..! Thank you so much mam.. Do more videos on different aspects which others don't.. like this one..!😊🌺🌺🙏
I struggle with this all the time. I’m going to download it and watch every morning as a reminder!
You’ve got this.. you are bigger than this 🌸
Being like this is holding me back from my goals because I want it yo be perfect
Thank you so much! I too will be watching this over and over until maybe one day it will be part of my new normal. Very relatable skit and your message really resonated with me.💗
Just stop yourself whenever you catch yourself falling into these patterns and take deep breaths.. focus in your breaths and then decide on the next step of action ❣️
@@AnitaBokepalli You're the best, thank you! Will try it!
Story of my life! Thank you so so much for sharing! ❤️
As usual another masterpiece video from you madam
Thanks friend.. it is so relatable.. could not identify it.. leads to many cyclic issues. Thanks so much for explaining it.❣️
I’m happy this helped ❣️
I can totally relate to the content. There is someone like me who doesn’t start work to do it with 100% perfection.
O god! Seriously I watched 15-20 videos but can't find any relatable.
This is same thing what I do
And the main reason of my Procrastination... Thank you so much di
This will surely help in my studies. 🤗❤️
All the best Shruti 🤗
I am actually speechless. I match all the signs of perfectionism you mentioned to the t and I literally didn't realise. Not even kidding I would try my hardest everyday and then just put myself down for not finishing things while I am wasting time trying to make it perfect. This literally has come to the point of my self care routines even and no I just didn't realise that I wasn't being lazy but I was being unrealistic perfectionist. You actually helped me a ton today to realise this and I really am gonna focus on letting it go. Thanks a lot again
You’ve got this, I believe you do! ✨
Anita! I am so grateful, this video came to me at exactly the right time and I cannot believe how perfectly (😂) u captured why I am seemingly working all the time but never *actually* getting anything done.
Still on this mode. Giving struggle to my surroundings too. Couldnt wave off a silly misytakes of them n ultimately taking all the resoonsiblities to my shoulder n killing myself. I watched this video as am seeing myself. Now feeling like to take a step to get out of it. Though tried and failed many times earlier. But, this time i will move forward.
Thank ypu dear for this wonderful video. Stay blessed.. 😊
Also the main points are: Where to Start and When to Start... Instead of making us happy by making our eyes see... In the To Do list that it will be done.... Kudos to you💕🙏🏻
Thank you so much, i was literally crying
My family and my girlfriend as well
And mainly me
Said to me that i was just lazy and really struggli g hell lot.
Thanks for sharing
I understand that its not just me
Its normal, It can be changed
Thank you
Your videos are so good
This is my life. 😩 thank you for sharing your story ☺️
I needed this so much
Hey! It's me going through this devastating moves towards perfectionism..and i still am doing the same setting the tasks for later...well...this time it is worth watching..kinda certain realisation that bro..you don't need to have rigid regimes for your daily chores..it's a wave having crest and trough..plans excite but the process broods...thank you a lot for the alarm to get out of the plight...🙏
Wow. RUclips recommended this video at the right time for me. I can relate to every bit of it, and I really want to let go this desire to be perfect but for me it feel like maybe I am afraid of failure. Even the small tasks I do with 'perfection', I keep thinking about it that what a great job I did n all and I aspire to have that feeling for all the things I do.
This is the most important step - to recognise our patterns :)
✌️you are love Anita as always ......you teach me so many things that I didn't even notice I am doing 😪but a great thanks to you to help me and everyone to get out of this unwanted cycle of life ♥️ thanks you so much 😘
Hugs and many more hugs 🤗🤗🤗
Each and every single word in this video is so me. The worst part is I'm not able to cut out myself from this so called perfectionism.
Hell 😒
Thank u so much.....i felt so relatable.... love you❤
Thank you for the awesome vids. I related to this. ❤️🙏🏻
This is my sory as well , in race of being upto the mark , we usually leave ourselves and loose us way back and hence we get struck in race w realise we are backward than our begnings.,as we are not with ourselves. I was eagerly waiting for your video, they are just positivity and self awareness.
Isn’t it so important to be with ourselves, true to our nature? ❤️
@@AnitaBokepalli indeed , thats the crucial aspect of life or the essence of our life and existence - the discovery of what we are, who we are and why we are. Maybe the world is toiling for something ,of which even they are not aware of, or have forgotten the purpose of toil in the race to be perfect? Would love to know your ideas over it mam.
This perfectionism has been stopping me for years. I wanted all my things to be perfect. It wasn't only about work, but food, fitness, lifestyle and what not.
I just started getting things done with little planning and starting execution immediately and also stopped blaming self unnecessarily for not achieving tasks.
As per my understanding getting things started is first step, once you get in pace (if you are able to do things for around 10-12 days), reiterate your planning/optimize it(which a human can achieve and not like will goto the moon in 24 hours😂😂😂).
First 3 minutes are my daily routine!
Felt sooo real 🥺
You are AMAZING!
🥺🤗
I recently noticed that i was a perfectionist since childhood..in my case i think i was like this because i thought if i don’t do things perfectly myb my parents or other people will not accept me as i am (flawed human just like others)
..But trying to reverse the pattern..
thnx for the video 💕
Thank you dear🤝
This is so relatable.... I felt like you did a skit on my life....your each nd every words just matched with mine ❤️
Thanks for such relatable videos
Love love love❤️❤️
Hi Anita can you please make a video on how to MEDITATE....
This is sooo Relatable........🥲🥲😪
Such a useful video...but seriously that English learning app,ruined the flow of the message.... please from the next time, keep it in the end or make a saperate video for it .....
Thank you....
Me first to comment on ur video... Love u darling... That's what my husband demands from me... As he can't tolerate me the way I am...
Sending you love and hugs and joy ❣️❣️
What does it mean to be afraid of success? Why would that happen
Perfectionism is bad, but can you make a video about your hair care, you hair looks so shiny and gorgeous :)
Hahahaha!
Great, awesome👍👏😊
This is exactly me everyday!!
Each and every thing you mentioned happens also with me all the time. And I also suffer too.
I think I'm thriving to do things the right way, but I don't expect it to be perfect.
But the reality is that I expect it to be perfect at the end of the task in some other manner.
I feel that all the tips you mentioned out will work for me also but I don't know somewhere from the inner most me is saying that if I don't strive for perfection I cannot develop or become better than before.
I still believe this thought of mine is also correct
Now I'm just confused and feel like I'm stuck in the maze. 😅😅😂
Now I think that all the time perfectionism isn't the right way because things aren't working for me either.
Same meeru skit chesinattugane.
Meere yelagaina naa, mee, mana ayina apayam nunchi kapadali..🙏🙏😂
Life lessons in simple sentences. Can you believe there are people who are afraid of Success. I believe because i too am.
Now i'm feeling much better 😊
Yayyy mission accomplished!!!
So relatable 👍
I am 18 years old and your all points are relatable, I used to be insecure about everything so I searched on Google for why everything was like that even though I achieved many things in life. I already finds that at some point I am afraid of success because I don't know what I do after that, then I find the word perfectionism which seems quite relatable and I searched on youtube now after seeing your video I know I am not wrong about my thoughts, thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Maybe I start comparing myself from unrealistic things like movies , story but its nvr possible in real life
Now all I wants to be happy again
Relatable sis
I relate to each n every word of urs
Thank you..
I didn't know that I am a perfectionist,
until I watched this video,
a huge thanks
So relatable ❤️
40th view....
Comment before watching.... I know this vdo is amazing
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Perfectionism kills time and energy. It's better to be imperfect but purpose driven then being perfect without any purpose. A bird doesn't build a perfect nest but builds a purposeful one.