I hear u mama. Again, u speak well my fwend. Friendships indeed evolve. Very important to remember its all beautiful and eventually the ones that stay are worth these cross roads. 🥂Cheers to my buttons that still keep my shit together.
Ido hate drama as me and got tired of wanting to please imature friends , like all the time in arguments.M at point where I want that peace of mind and afew matured friends it's healthy
Ido hate drama as me and got tired of wanting to please imature friends , like all the time in arguments.M at point where I want that peace of mind and afew matured friends it's healthy
Flavia, there's so many educative people on the socials that say many things that make a lot of sense.. but you are so pleasant to listen to. Truly gifted.
I lost all my friends am standing alone and it has helped me to focus on my career and future and to make matters worse they are all married and me not,so i only think of becoming financially stable and prepare myself for marriage. Thanks Flavia
Hi Flavia, have ever thought of helping young girls develop their self-esteem? I believe when ever you start classes or tutorials parents would send their daughters. I have observed that many teen girls are making wrong decisions due to low self esteem and so do things to fit in sometimes with the wrong crowd.
Every time i get a notification, I either scream out of joy or scream out of joy!!!! Words are so much power. And this is the evidence! Thank you so much Flavia.
Adult friendship is exactly what I felt when Jackie finally made it to visit me after 5 years of no see and several failed appointments. But the connection was as if we had been together a week ago.
I'm in my late 20s but I've no friends. For me a frd must be a person i can share probs with and doesn't tell anyone else. It's that person I share with my achievements and good things and doesn't feel jealousy. That person that we can share ideas business wise and haven't gotten one. So I just have people I talk too but NOT friends.
I totally relate. Most of my 20s friends left. Or really just faded away but those that stuck are real. And the new ones are more value packed. We sharpen each other.
Wow Flavia thank you! I sometimes feel like am being a bad friend because of the negative feedback from some friends but still can't see how else I can do things. So glad am not the only one!
Am coming to my 30s but I can feel the change already 💁♂️ my mind is so in that I have no time at all....... I really needed this to make it wider. Thanks lady
Meanwhile some friends think if u aren’t talking you have a problem with them . Maybe we are that reserved friend but I have no problem with the friends
This is so true... but my friendships have been like that from my mid 20s. In my circle most of us got work during and after university so we understood each other's hustle
This truly speaks of my situation. U keep struggling to keep friends. And true life happens so fast and u just can't keep up with everyone and everything...
woooow first of all, you look very nice. just on point. i love the dress the hair and everything. secondly change in adult friendship is real. this happened to me at 25 when i gave birth, some friendships lost meaning , i even lost my childhood bestie due to lack of communication. we recovered our friendship at 30 when we were both married and shared most experiences.
I am excited about the content... But before I start listening , let me say that you your outfit, makeup, braids and background is just amazing... God Bless You
Iam also in my early 30's but have lost all my best friends sofar than before.Im now moving on alone and can see steady progress.i think I will get others.Nice words &thanks Flavia.
Well, I'm experiencing my mid-twenties friendship! It's nagging asf... I've been betrayed as much as possible ever since I came to abroad. Things haven't been good with my boys back at home in South Sudan. Guess what, I've moved on after listening to the other podcast of yours about friendship in 20s. Thank you the energising and spicing it up.
Thank flavia for this i feel relieved a friend told me her problem actually i didn't help her for the first time and she was like am a bad person yet me too i was struggling with my own life, i was so heart broken dint know that you can be good to someone but just one time you dont help someone out she forgets all the good things , so these days if you dont want to stay its okay am nolonger chasing friends am occupied with my life 🙈
When i was in my 20s I had challenges with friends, judging me , underestimating me . And am in my 30s now but am unable to make friends. Scared of making friends for what they will be to me.
U r soo right darling Flavia coz i so much relate to dis topic am at dat faze in my life wea I have to choose quality over quantity of people in my circle...am glad ma our good Lord continue to give u wisdom and insight 😍
Flavia, u inspire mi ever tym i watch yo youtube talks, i feel like watching them en following every show, very true, relationships in 30s are so limited but coz we hv alot of responsibilities that come in, but its healthy i like it.
Eh banange thank you for this....Thank you Thank you! So my circle of friends switched really fastttt because I became born again. At first, i couldn’t believe it was happening, I was really heart broken, it was hard to not have people to talk to and count on, it got lonely and all. So I started to just live it out, live each day as it comes and guess what?! I’ve got new friends (yes, it’s going to take some time to build that ka deep connection but as long as we are on the same path, share the same values etc., we are good!!)....and I’m not even 30!! 😅😅Liking this “adulting thing” ...it’s less stressful & less drama (the friendships)...
Maybe am a special gen 😉 the most beautiful, long lasting friendships I have ever made are my primary school friends. The ones in my 30's are either friends with benefits or like you stated. Don't listen. Have lesser time. I love deep conversations. Yes it shouldn't be everyday Coz all of us are so busy..... All in all we can make long lasting friendships from every phase of life. My neighbour is in her late 60s and she calls me her good friend. Since I was always doing grocery shopping for her since the beginning of the pandemic.
I can surely relate with this episode, I hope life gets better with time but the beautiful thing you get to know your ride or die friends in life. Thanks so much for the episode, you are dripping hot 🥰
Wow, this was worth my little time. And what you may have said is in your 30s you start hanging out with pple with the same goals in life. Atleast I do
Yeah, friendships are important! But our lives changed! Friends are there for a season so sometimes it's important to be understanding of the circumstances. So we need to understand and be mature because everything happens at it time. Thanks, Flav!
For friendship is the most dangerous love of all. While other love can have without communication, friendship-which is entirely based on communication-can scarcely be had without participating in the friend`s qualities. According to the variety of communication, friendship will vary. The communications are different depending on the differences of the things we communicate to each other. If these are false and vain, the friendship is also false and vain. If they are genuine, the friendship is genuine. Excellent the good things communicated, the more excellent will be the friendship.
The more I've grown the more the circle had grown smaller ...and I am only 24 years old ..Also really I've given up on having to prove myself as well ..
I'm in my 20s but i'm letting go of some friends. i have started by deleting their numbers. i recently called a friend twice to check on her and she promised to call two times but she never did...i know her time plan and she is not that busy....that s how i realised it was time to let people go who they have moved on to a different stage of life..
The day a certain friend of mine told me we should cut ties coz of the choice I made on how to Liv my life I was so frustrated that thought couldn't survive without them but hey as time passed I was like Ya Allah thanks she even left,coz man....the next phase was moving into needed only I and I alone...some friendships are just toxic can proudly say I don't have any friends I just know lots of people .
Wawuu great message from a beautiful woman my lovely crush, For sure we need to change same friends are there to use us ,if same one doesn't have tym for you it means ur nothing to that person Sweet hrt as you have said that friendship is its easy to make,so i request you to be ur friend bambi 🤦♀️🤦♀️i really really love you .ur my role model
My friendship circle truly diminished so badly in my thirties, even then we hardly communicate except on very vital matters including business & development.
split bills actaully i thought that is a thing of young friendships, but adult friendships you need to afford to cater for the bill if u call someone out or ur the initiator of that outing.
Mi in my ale 20s, i dnt think ave gotten involved in a tight friendship eva since!! All I have are hi- hi friends that's all!!! It's difficult to find a real friend(s) in the youth age bracket, cz of the different expectations and rizons y one Shud be friends with u, deep in their minds. I do think i will involve in adult friendships with time which seem productive tho!!......Thanks for yo words of wisdom always @Mizzflav.
i actually find it hard to make friends now though this has been a struggle since my twenties. currently have 2 good friends that both dont live in my city. Saw one in 2017 and the other in 2018 but these two have become sisters.
Thank you very much Flavia, at the genesis of my 30's I have ideally experienced whatever you said but I had no right words to express them. thank God for the People like YOU.
What about people who have been reserved throughout their lives in childhood up to their 30s without friendships,due to shyness, fear Like my self what advise do you give?
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Meanwhile u look like a flame lately🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I love the changes
Really, mama baby, kasime, much love from Turkey,
I admire u dear
True she is just differently glowing 🥰
I think because she is doing what she loves
@@kiggunduyusuf9636 salaam alleikum ww, how is Turkey
I hear u mama.
Again, u speak well my fwend.
Friendships indeed evolve.
Very important to remember its all beautiful and eventually the ones that stay are worth these cross roads.
🥂Cheers to my buttons that still keep my shit together.
Congratulations on your baby boy 💗
Ido hate drama as me and got tired of wanting to please imature friends , like all the time in arguments.M at point where I want that peace of mind and afew matured friends it's healthy
Ido hate drama as me and got tired of wanting to please imature friends , like all the time in arguments.M at point where I want that peace of mind and afew matured friends it's healthy
True stuff about 30s, I pray for strength everyday, giving up only means missing out on the satisfaction of life.
Flavia, there's so many educative people on the socials that say many things that make a lot of sense.. but you are so pleasant to listen to. Truly gifted.
I lost all my friends am standing alone and it has helped me to focus on my career and future and to make matters worse they are all married and me not,so i only think of becoming financially stable and prepare myself for marriage. Thanks Flavia
Am yo new friend by force now. Lol
You've made my day....hahahah
You've made my day....hahahah
@@jescahkayitesi5360 oh yeah we gonna be friends by force and we gonna be there for each other in all aspects.
Hi Flavia, have ever thought of helping young girls develop their self-esteem? I believe when ever you start classes or tutorials parents would send their daughters. I have observed that many teen girls are making wrong decisions due to low self esteem and so do things to fit in sometimes with the wrong crowd.
100%. Perhaps equipping parents to boost their kids’ esteem because hone plays a very big role in the child’s developement .
Every time i get a notification, I either scream out of joy or scream out of joy!!!! Words are so much power. And this is the evidence! Thank you so much Flavia.
Adult friendship is exactly what I felt when Jackie finally made it to visit me after 5 years of no see and several failed appointments. But the connection was as if we had been together a week ago.
I'm in my late 20s but I've no friends. For me a frd must be a person i can share probs with and doesn't tell anyone else. It's that person I share with my achievements and good things and doesn't feel jealousy. That person that we can share ideas business wise and haven't gotten one. So I just have people I talk too but NOT friends.
Am like you Ray
@@nkuusievelynjoy533 hope one day you and I get some real friends. God bless you
I totally relate. Most of my 20s friends left. Or really just faded away but those that stuck are real. And the new ones are more value packed. We sharpen each other.
Many of us needed to hear this so we stop feeling like we crazy for narrowing our circles of friends. Thank you Flavia.
Right! Haha
Wow Flavia thank you! I sometimes feel like am being a bad friend because of the negative feedback from some friends but still can't see how else I can do things. So glad am not the only one!
Thanks alot Flavia
Your speach is just awesome💯
The look. Girl… you’re killing it.
Am coming to my 30s but I can feel the change already 💁♂️ my mind is so in that I have no time at all....... I really needed this to make it wider. Thanks lady
Meanwhile some friends think if u aren’t talking you have a problem with them . Maybe we are that reserved friend but I have no problem with the friends
This is so true... but my friendships have been like that from my mid 20s. In my circle most of us got work during and after university so we understood each other's hustle
This is my favorite episode of your blog so far. I totally can relate.
I think what you just shared is Gold👏👏👏 Quality + Maturity = Adult friendships👌
This truly speaks of my situation. U keep struggling to keep friends. And true life happens so fast and u just can't keep up with everyone and everything...
woooow first of all, you look very nice. just on point. i love the dress the hair and everything. secondly change in adult friendship is real. this happened to me at 25 when i gave birth, some friendships lost meaning , i even lost my childhood bestie due to lack of communication. we recovered our friendship at 30 when we were both married and shared most experiences.
Very very true. The older you get the less time and friends you have.
I am excited about the content... But before I start listening , let me say that you your outfit, makeup, braids and background is just amazing... God Bless You
The less friends i have the more peaceful i feel. And the more needed time i get to do my own things.
I think i should adopt to this
Good work my Mentor 👏🏻👏🏻
When I got into my 30’s en financially very stable most of became like enemies. Always negative! So I disengaged.
My story
Exactly
Iam also in my early 30's but have lost all my best friends sofar than before.Im now moving on alone and can see steady progress.i think I will get others.Nice words &thanks Flavia.
Am new and i cant get enough of flavia,thanx for being real and kind.
Well, I'm experiencing my mid-twenties friendship! It's nagging asf... I've been betrayed as much as possible ever since I came to abroad. Things haven't been good with my boys back at home in South Sudan. Guess what, I've moved on after listening to the other podcast of yours about friendship in 20s. Thank you the energising and spicing it up.
Thank flavia for this i feel relieved a friend told me her problem actually i didn't help her for the first time and she was like am a bad person yet me too i was struggling with my own life, i was so heart broken dint know that you can be good to someone but just one time you dont help someone out she forgets all the good things , so these days if you dont want to stay its okay am nolonger chasing friends am occupied with my life 🙈
When i was in my 20s I had challenges with friends, judging me , underestimating me . And am in my 30s now but am unable to make friends. Scared of making friends for what they will be to me.
True, years have past haven't said hi to any, I bet they could be saying I feel my self, he'll noo too much busy.
U r soo right darling Flavia coz i so much relate to dis topic am at dat faze in my life wea I have to choose quality over quantity of people in my circle...am glad ma our good Lord continue to give u wisdom and insight 😍
I can totally relate. Thanks Flavia ❤️😊
Well said, that's exactly what happened to me when I got busier. My circle really reduced.
True the circles become smaller and smaller. But the ones that stay are worth keeping 💯
Ure look gorgeous my dia
Flavia, u inspire mi ever tym i watch yo youtube talks, i feel like watching them en following every show, very true, relationships in 30s are so limited but coz we hv alot of responsibilities that come in, but its healthy i like it.
Eh banange thank you for this....Thank you Thank you! So my circle of friends switched really fastttt because I became born again. At first, i couldn’t believe it was happening, I was really heart broken, it was hard to not have people to talk to and count on, it got lonely and all. So I started to just live it out, live each day as it comes and guess what?! I’ve got new friends (yes, it’s going to take some time to build that ka deep connection but as long as we are on the same path, share the same values etc., we are good!!)....and I’m not even 30!! 😅😅Liking this “adulting thing” ...it’s less stressful & less drama (the friendships)...
Maybe am a special gen 😉 the most beautiful, long lasting friendships I have ever made are my primary school friends. The ones in my 30's are either friends with benefits or like you stated. Don't listen. Have lesser time. I love deep conversations. Yes it shouldn't be everyday Coz all of us are so busy.....
All in all we can make long lasting friendships from every phase of life. My neighbour is in her late 60s and she calls me her good friend. Since I was always doing grocery shopping for her since the beginning of the pandemic.
I can surely relate with this episode, I hope life gets better with time but the beautiful thing you get to know your ride or die friends in life. Thanks so much for the episode, you are dripping hot 🥰
Oh yeah
Wow, this was worth my little time. And what you may have said is in your 30s you start hanging out with pple with the same goals in life. Atleast I do
Yeah, friendships are important! But our lives changed!
Friends are there for a season so sometimes it's important to be understanding of the circumstances.
So we need to understand and be mature because everything happens at it time.
Thanks, Flav!
Could you please include a link for these vlogs,they are worth watching.
I like this show this is my first time watching it O my GOODNESS
You are really speaking my mind... I have only one friend and we have taken like 5 months without talking but we are really good friends. Wow
True my dear, l have enjoyed every segment of the conversation. You look great Flavia.
For friendship is the
most dangerous love of all. While other love can have without communication, friendship-which is entirely based on communication-can scarcely be
had without participating in the friend`s qualities.
According to the variety of communication, friendship will vary. The communications
are different depending on the differences of the things we communicate to each
other. If these are false and vain, the friendship is also false and vain. If they are
genuine, the friendship is genuine. Excellent the good things communicated, the more
excellent will be the friendship.
Started on this after my 25th birthday. No fakes in circles
The more I've grown the more the circle had grown smaller ...and I am only 24 years old ..Also really I've given up on having to prove myself as well ..
Flavia this so true and love this reality. No time for quantity but quality friends.
Mrs.k you really look so adorable... I just love everything about you. You emulate me a lot.
Facts...
💯💯
Didnt follow anyone like i follow you of late. Thank you, this is so true Flavia
You're glowing 🥰🥰🥰
I hear you,even typing a txt wears me out,it can take me a week to get an appropriate response to some jazz🤦
Am in my thirties, l have just one friend because she always helps me think wider 🤔🤔🤔.
Okay
I agree thanks for always sharing you inspire me a lot Flavia love you
I'm in my 20s but i'm letting go of some friends. i have started by deleting their numbers. i recently called a friend twice to check on her and she promised to call two times but she never did...i know her time plan and she is not that busy....that s how i realised it was time to let people go who they have moved on to a different stage of life..
Wow.... Lovin this
That's very true, miss Flav.
Absolutely👌. Too many Passengers Sink the Ship.
Indeed friendships do evolve. Iam a witness to this.
Totally agree 💯 true
Flavi, you look great! It's the attire for me & the whole look
Girl you never disappoint. This was lit 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
That's true flavia, I thought I had a problem
Looking so Beautiful Flav... Like a Twenty something .... Keep it up dear
Value..Time...Emotional ability
just turned 30 i see things are changing thanks watching from south africa
So beautiful you're flavia! The dress 👌. Keep on shinning.
The day a certain friend of mine told me we should cut ties coz of the choice I made on how to Liv my life I was so frustrated that thought couldn't survive without them but hey as time passed I was like Ya Allah thanks she even left,coz man....the next phase was moving into needed only I and I alone...some friendships are just toxic can proudly say I don't have any friends I just know lots of people .
I have just turned 30 this week but I don't have friendship boundaries though i know how to allocate my time and deal with different friends
Wow!!! Thank you so much , this is me in my late 20's
Now this is what they call RIIIIYOOOO Talk........As usual, u never disappoint#teamFlavia all the way
Thx flavia for this information
Great content you have here!! Way to go
Thank you dear for this show. You look so smart 🥰🥰❤❤
So True Flavia. You look stunning 😍
Wawuu great message from a beautiful woman my lovely crush,
For sure we need to change same friends are there to use us ,if same one doesn't have tym for you it means ur nothing to that person
Sweet hrt as you have said that friendship is its easy to make,so i request you to be ur friend bambi 🤦♀️🤦♀️i really really love you .ur my role model
I'm counting 24 months so that I can start making friends again
Your hair is on point ..The dress , everything looked so beautiful on you..#Appreciation_compliment❤❤❤💙
My friendship circle truly diminished so badly in my thirties, even then we hardly communicate except on very vital matters including business & development.
Great 👌
God..i love this lady!!
I thought am mutima gwakaluba especially on emotional strength.. you make a point ... I relate
split bills actaully i thought that is a thing of young friendships, but adult friendships you need to afford to cater for the bill if u call someone out or ur the initiator of that outing.
i felt like u were talking to me personally!....Thank u!
Mi in my ale 20s, i dnt think ave gotten involved in a tight friendship eva since!! All I have are hi- hi friends that's all!!! It's difficult to find a real friend(s) in the youth age bracket, cz of the different expectations and rizons y one Shud be friends with u, deep in their minds. I do think i will involve in adult friendships with time which seem productive tho!!......Thanks for yo words of wisdom always @Mizzflav.
I never felt the age pressure until I turned 30, Oh Lord... 30 is full of pressure, it's too much on my mind and I felt I needed too much Independence
Does anybody feel the video is soo short I wanted to keep watching Oba, till when but I enjoyed it💕
I dropped all old friends in late 2019 am now pretty selective when it comes to choosing frds.My relationship crumbled because of them
i actually find it hard to make friends now though this has been a struggle since my twenties. currently have 2 good friends that both dont live in my city. Saw one in 2017 and the other in 2018 but these two have become sisters.
Flavia after the Media. You're getting younger as you age. Share the secret of keeping in shape with our wives and future marrieds 😉🙂
Once I hit adulthood, i lost all my friends.at first it really disturbed me but now am 👌it's better this way for me,
All the beauty for one person isn't fair
Thank you very much Flavia, at the genesis of my 30's I have ideally experienced whatever you said but I had no right words to express them. thank God for the People like YOU.
Love it...
Very informative
I now believe i am adulting real quick, issues to do with time really get me off real quick, qnd aome people tend to keep thinking in the past
Waoo.... Thanks dear
Am already experiencing this in my 20`s and i can't complain
What about people who have been reserved throughout their lives in childhood up to their 30s without friendships,due to shyness, fear
Like my self what advise do you give?
Wow
This is so nice dia
We rilli appreciate and keep these vlogs coming coz i learn sth every time u upload
Tnx we learn from u.