Thinking of marriage? Listen to these 4 lessons first.

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @kabategyekieunice1083
    @kabategyekieunice1083 Год назад +3

    Thank youuuuuuuu about the finances!!! I don’t know why people look at me like am crazy when I say I believe in one pool of finances for a couple...it eases transparence, trust and growth!!!

  • @pkikt.9763
    @pkikt.9763 Год назад +29

    I really love how Flavia gives us real life lessons that she herself has learnt from. If we pay attention, really pay attention , choose and focus on our growth, re-arrange our prioties among other things, we just might save ourselves therapy charges in the near future.

  • @coachmapule
    @coachmapule Год назад +5

    How can I like this a thousand times? I just love Flavia so much.😍

  • @rinaharinda2028
    @rinaharinda2028 Год назад

    The good thing about understanding seasons, you will always be joyful doing anything 💯

  • @rodgerskamugisha8833
    @rodgerskamugisha8833 Год назад +4

    My take home from this vlog :Seasons & updating settings. Thanks Flav

  • @GracesIntentionalliving
    @GracesIntentionalliving 2 месяца назад

    This is very profound .. understanding what season you are in helps you to manage the journey that you're taking. Knowing what you are doing at the certain time is very good to control stress. Stress from experiences can affect your goals.

  • @KihemboNyakatoPamela
    @KihemboNyakatoPamela Год назад +31

    I'm not married yet but our pastor always gives us marriage tips and this has helped me prepare for marriage.
    He always tells us that "a husband is the first baby at home"
    2. See your marriage as the best & happiest marriage, don't compare your marriage with other people's marriages
    Now I've learnt more
    Thanks Fla ❤❤❤❤
    Dear Heavenly Father , your daughter is now ready for marriage 😔😔

    • @fitmisshadijjalubega2001
      @fitmisshadijjalubega2001 Год назад

      Ameeen.Ameen

    • @dianababirye5476
      @dianababirye5476 Год назад +4

      My dear,first set foot there.
      Start applying them,it ain't easy but workable

    • @rachealmbatinaki4476
      @rachealmbatinaki4476 Год назад +2

      Let your husband show up now and then in JESUS'S NAME Amen and Amen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @davidmutebwa62
      @davidmutebwa62 Год назад +1

      Hey baby. I'm looking for you!

    • @KihemboNyakatoPamela
      @KihemboNyakatoPamela Год назад

      @@rachealmbatinaki4476 AMEN AMEN AND AMEN, THANKS DEAR 🙏🙏🙏

  • @hidayahnakiguli3658
    @hidayahnakiguli3658 Год назад

    I just love every bit of your tip.well come back on the channel. Looking forward to learn more.

  • @remetseirene9607
    @remetseirene9607 Год назад +3

    Wow, that's what I always tell women. There is a season for everything. If you don't put much effort in that season, you will go back and work on it in the wrong time frame

  • @mcLeah1
    @mcLeah1 Год назад +3

    Efforts on both sides is soooooo important ❤

  • @aishamasimbi
    @aishamasimbi Год назад +3

    Indeed your the big sister anyone could ever have, thank you and God bless you Flavia

  • @oliviabamwenda1328
    @oliviabamwenda1328 Год назад +6

    Flavior I've been married for over 15 years and you are absolutely 💯 right. Season season season what a great lesson God bless you.

  • @sumayyahkalyegira106
    @sumayyahkalyegira106 Год назад +5

    "Seasons & update settings in marriage" wowww🥰 this's soo nice and actually important to learn in marriage,on the issue of money my dear some pipo are selfish,some men out there want their wives to support them yet they can't do it in return
    Thank soo much Flavia
    We appreciate 🤗🤗🤗

  • @TheCookingNurse
    @TheCookingNurse Год назад +2

    Thank you for these, esp on understanding seasons, that can be a stone in the shoe but glad you explained it so well.

  • @ankndamacklyne5264
    @ankndamacklyne5264 Год назад

    I love the words, thanks for teaching us Mrs Flavia

  • @joannamanya4167
    @joannamanya4167 Год назад +1

    Understanding seasons in marriage is great, growing together is key. Thank you Mrs K. Marriage learning everyday.

  • @JosephineTibasabwa
    @JosephineTibasabwa Год назад +1

    A lot of wisdom in here right from the beginning 💯

  • @haphiegood1800
    @haphiegood1800 Год назад +1

    I love listening to her❤😊

  • @judithejangtravelblog
    @judithejangtravelblog Год назад +2

    Our big sister is back 🎉❤thank you Flavia.

  • @megansandranagasha2872
    @megansandranagasha2872 Год назад +3

    Sooo glad you're back with these words of wisdom!!

  • @carolbagonza4295
    @carolbagonza4295 Год назад +3

    How is it that you are such a knowledge bank😍.. Thank you for sharing..You are absolutely right dear on everything. Very tru how can you grow together if you are not moving together if you are not doing it together.thank you Flav

  • @OzzyOsbornAhimbisibwe20
    @OzzyOsbornAhimbisibwe20 Год назад +11

    Key words; Know the season and update settings accordingly, but most importantly, what hurts the other doesn't necessarily hurt you.

  • @rutharrikod
    @rutharrikod Год назад

    Lots of respect. This is wisdom, thanks beauliful

  • @ishaazisharon6573
    @ishaazisharon6573 Год назад

    go go gal I like the reality in this, most important the excel mission is a correct point.

  • @tushabejudith7653
    @tushabejudith7653 Год назад

    Key note for me: people's expectations and opinions don't matter!!!

  • @kaudhaesther3386
    @kaudhaesther3386 2 месяца назад

    It's important for sure to share finances together but know how to go about it

  • @latiifananziri4583
    @latiifananziri4583 Год назад

    Goodness this is brilliant Flavian, thank you for sharing… much love ❤

  • @joanitanyangoma
    @joanitanyangoma Год назад +1

    The best YT episode i have watched in a long time and I am not even married. I love that the lessons apply across board. We had really missed you, Flavia 😍

  • @mawandasulaiman
    @mawandasulaiman Год назад

    God bless you🙏🏾, this is gold you are sharing. So real and open-minded.❤

  • @arinaitwearran918
    @arinaitwearran918 Год назад

    Brilliant! Love the vulnerability. Sharing bases on personal experiences, especially the mistakes, are the best ones.

  • @margaretmuthoni8464
    @margaretmuthoni8464 Год назад

    One of the best lessons you shared Flavia. Thanks

  • @munashemushamba9793
    @munashemushamba9793 Год назад +1

    Your wisdom is on another level. Thank you

  • @gifttwikirize7066
    @gifttwikirize7066 Год назад +1

    So inspiring
    Learning the season u r in is so important

  • @katusabejackie2798
    @katusabejackie2798 Год назад +1

    Good lessons there. Thanks for sharing

  • @alphamediaug
    @alphamediaug Год назад +3

    It's been long but always glad to drink from your cup of wisdom

  • @estherkessie
    @estherkessie Год назад +2

    This is so helpful dear, we have to evolve through the seasons.

  • @carolhighlyfavored6348
    @carolhighlyfavored6348 Год назад

    You are so lovely Flavia you are!! Thank you so much for always sharing, love you 🥰

  • @lillianahumuza5474
    @lillianahumuza5474 Год назад +1

    The content here in is just everything 🙌. Seassssoooonnnssssss ehhhhhhhyyyyy

  • @AshleyRuth-h3d
    @AshleyRuth-h3d Год назад

    Thank you for sharing am learning alot

  • @littlemissy421
    @littlemissy421 Год назад +2

    The big sis we all need to have 😘thanks for the nuggets nalongo❤ ur looks are🔥🔥

  • @NanoziJustin
    @NanoziJustin Год назад

    There is tym for everything,thank u Flavia

  • @kemigishajesicca8332
    @kemigishajesicca8332 Год назад

    It’s the Seasons bit for me. Thanks Flavia👏👏👏

  • @Doreen-123
    @Doreen-123 Год назад

    You are so real Flavia ,

  • @nantezaprossy668
    @nantezaprossy668 Год назад

    Woooow the one year off was really essential and a beautiful one, the vibe is mwaa. I love the words season's seasons seasons. Oh Lord teach to number our days

  • @patricianinsiima9802
    @patricianinsiima9802 Год назад

    Wow! Thank you Flavia. I never get enough. You are talented at what you do. Keep it up

  • @mercyjumaofficial1943
    @mercyjumaofficial1943 Год назад

    True...some challenges from others shouldn't be mine. Yesss seasons very important...
    So a marriage may not fit into your previous season! Wow!..key lesson, and it's not weakness
    Expectations and opinions of others don't and shouldn't matter!!! Yes yes especially family😂.
    Apo kwa pesa... Yea we didn't grow up with the money together responsibility, so it's really difficult sometimes, but like you say...we choose what our marriage should be like❤

  • @mutesibetty-hd7xg
    @mutesibetty-hd7xg Год назад +1

    True bby gal that’s what we should understand and learn

  • @godsveryowndaughter4009
    @godsveryowndaughter4009 Год назад +2

    Update your settings😊that's a good one

  • @RobinahAsingwire-jw4mp
    @RobinahAsingwire-jw4mp 6 месяцев назад

    l really love you Flavia,eshi ogambagye orujungu

  • @glonah01
    @glonah01 Год назад +1

    Glad to hear these while still single 😅❤️❤️

  • @estheroluka8598
    @estheroluka8598 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing Flavia..Be blessed.

  • @musenerohilda9040
    @musenerohilda9040 Год назад +1

    Seasons a thing God has put on my heart

  • @mukizasamuel4486
    @mukizasamuel4486 Год назад

    Expectations and opinions of others don't matter.

  • @greatstar3866
    @greatstar3866 Год назад

    Wow.. thanks Flavia for this.

  • @nserekoshafique8717
    @nserekoshafique8717 Год назад

    Thank you for those real-life lessons...

  • @edmondletasichosen
    @edmondletasichosen Год назад

    Congratulations on your 4-year anniversary and welcome back dear Flavia! Thank you so much for sharing these valuable lessons ma’am! Stay blessed! 🙏🏾❤

  • @shakie_my_love
    @shakie_my_love Год назад +1

    Thank you so much mummy... ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rwamsrit
    @rwamsrit Год назад

    This is so true thnx Flavia love ❤

  • @sumayanakato
    @sumayanakato Год назад

    Thanks so much for sharing maama.

  • @cathieempress7854
    @cathieempress7854 Год назад

    You always hit the right spots 😊 Thank you to a Fav❤.... Update your settings and finances.. key takeaways 😊

  • @britahnuwamanya4761
    @britahnuwamanya4761 Год назад

    Really really insightful..

  • @beforeido6265
    @beforeido6265 Год назад +1

    Am blessed by this

  • @nansumbanoeline6440
    @nansumbanoeline6440 Год назад

    Thanks dear for sharing ❤❤

  • @namafaris
    @namafaris Год назад

    Bless you for sharing. I can relate to 1 & 2. Thank you, it helps to know that someone else is experiencing life as I am.

  • @KemigishaJackline-nn8rx
    @KemigishaJackline-nn8rx Год назад

    Why didn't I meet you before .I needed these lessons before

  • @kizzaflavia7900
    @kizzaflavia7900 Год назад

    Thanks Flavia for always sharing with us life lessons ❤respect

  • @winniembabazi2355
    @winniembabazi2355 Год назад

    This ended way before it should have, most educative vlog, God bless your family dear❤

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 Год назад

    Finances have learnt fromy parents over 20 years in marriage.
    They have joint account and each seperate account..but some family investments they share costs

  • @sylivianyamwiza3066
    @sylivianyamwiza3066 Год назад

    Thank u Flavia for great lessons

  • @shaniceo8291
    @shaniceo8291 Год назад

    You nailed ❤this my dear , you look awesome..............❤❤❤Mrs Kabura, I love everything you are all about. Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 on your new bundle of Joy , Iam super happy for u, enjoy your season. ❤❤❤

  • @kansiimejustine88
    @kansiimejustine88 Год назад

    Oohh seasons.... thank you so much Flavia for this. This conversation is very educative. God bless you and your marriage more and more.

  • @nakayagaprossy1249
    @nakayagaprossy1249 Год назад

    True
    Seasons is a great things

  • @RebeccaItungo
    @RebeccaItungo Год назад

    💯 True thanks Flavia for sharing ❤

  • @daisylillian594
    @daisylillian594 Год назад

    Thank you Flavia

  • @danielkyaligonza53
    @danielkyaligonza53 Год назад

    very insightful

  • @mbobmoses7613
    @mbobmoses7613 Год назад +8

    I wish she (my bae) comes across this by her self
    Mostly recommending a blog to someone, the focus she gives to it is not same as when she discovers by her self

  • @daisywangila6285
    @daisywangila6285 Год назад

    Her voice...👌

  • @womanoffaith1806
    @womanoffaith1806 Год назад

    Blessings Flav love u

  • @ruth8647
    @ruth8647 Год назад

    I love this lady, I just want to know how you went through that cheating scandal! I find myself in the same position only that I’m not a celebrity, I find it hard to forgive, confused etc

    • @sarahkwebihaw.7564
      @sarahkwebihaw.7564 Год назад +1

      No woman will tell you the real truth of how they handled cheating spouse. Seek counseling. Talk to people you trust . Usually once a person cheats, they cheat again!!!

  • @musiimentaagnes1246
    @musiimentaagnes1246 Год назад

    Am learning soon coming in marriage 😄 thank you dear 💓

  • @namjoon3749
    @namjoon3749 Год назад +1

    Qtn how do u deal with growth especially financially one having to leave home maybe to deal with a job far

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 Год назад

    And people's thinkings and expectations

  • @nabawanukagorreth2981
    @nabawanukagorreth2981 Год назад

    Main point... season... for me

  • @BabiryeFatuma-r2p
    @BabiryeFatuma-r2p 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks dear

  • @YoramAmampa
    @YoramAmampa Год назад

    Wish u the best in everything

  • @judithamuge1161
    @judithamuge1161 Год назад

    Right on time

  • @reymojohn1046
    @reymojohn1046 7 месяцев назад

    Nice lessons

  • @mahorojulian6746
    @mahorojulian6746 Год назад

    Love you babe.. Thank you💯💕

  • @nazziwanasha2876
    @nazziwanasha2876 Год назад +2

    Wow Flavior season OMG am 32 I have 2kids my co wife died 2month back and hubby says I have to take over the 6kids add my 2=8 am I ready for this season wow😮

    • @mbabazimichelle5155
      @mbabazimichelle5155 Год назад

      Ehhhh...isn't that too much??

    • @nakazibwerashidah484
      @nakazibwerashidah484 Год назад

      Struggle is real

    • @cynthia-jo1zz
      @cynthia-jo1zz Год назад +2

      What do you mean co wife??? What life have you lived to make these decisions?? Ohhh we have a long way to go to change things

  • @kabasiitapriscilla5504
    @kabasiitapriscilla5504 Год назад

    Woow great show ❤

  • @lifeofachom
    @lifeofachom Год назад +10

    I wouldn't mind combining money with a husband, but most men cheat and it will hurt worse knowing our money was spent on a lodge😒

    • @namjoon3749
      @namjoon3749 Год назад +2

      U discuss leave a few to urself

  • @prossybravo5841
    @prossybravo5841 Год назад +1

    Flavia please share some weight loss tips you use....am about to burst

  • @notready2569
    @notready2569 Год назад +3

    congrats Flavia now you are conservative or let's call it traditional because truth is the urban way of doing things in marriage is ascam.

  • @celineopido7903
    @celineopido7903 Год назад +1

    “Seasons” boy that’s my take away today. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @NsanzeJimmy1
    @NsanzeJimmy1 Год назад +1

    Thank you Flavia for this much needed information for our sisters. These young girls are really living in coco land , and if we as men said this we would be labeled as Conservative or Controlling and so on.
    You really bring clarity to these young people’s minds in a way that no one else does. ❤

  • @nakajigosandra5953
    @nakajigosandra5953 Год назад

    Just love u ❤❤flavia,ive followed u since teenz club on wbs🥰🥰🥰

  • @shamelesstumuhaise3364
    @shamelesstumuhaise3364 Год назад

    thank you for this

  • @sumayamya357
    @sumayamya357 Год назад

    We love you always

  • @zaitunnamuddu683
    @zaitunnamuddu683 Год назад

    Your are just the best ♥️♥️♥️
    Thank you.

  • @nanyanziaidahyawe
    @nanyanziaidahyawe Год назад

    Very interesting