The pressure to get married quickly...
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- The biggest question I've come across was
'How did you deal with pressure to get married?'
Hmmm let's have an honest conversation.
Happy watching and let me know in the comment section how you dealt or deal with this question.
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I make 29 in a few days. I felt that pressure and still feel. I went through bad relationships. I left the country to work and grow my career. I did cut off all my friends to find myself. Let's says I'm happy finding myself now. Ive hit a few financial goals and I'm clear about who I want to marry. I pray marriage will happen to me. If it doesn't I'm already on my path of personal fulfilment. There's someone I'm talking with and it's mature now. All I can say,find yourself.
Don't worry. Seek your joy and it will come
Live your life and pursue your career goals. Nothing should put you on Pressure
Gal, Hit those goals
Sometimes leaving the country is one of the best decisions. Uganda does not have a lot going on. It's weddings and Kwanjulas back to back. When you leave the country you see life in a different light. There is more to marriage and having kids. There is a whole lot out there people. I commend those parents who never put their children under pressure to get married.
Sounds great ♥️
I just love you Flavia. I'm a Cameroonian and do follow you and most others Podcasts from Uganda. I want to say thank you and the rest for impacting this new generationl with wisdom and knowledge. 🙏🙏
Flavia is like a big sister
A virtual big sister you can run to any time ❤
I clock 30 this August...l am.thankful I kept myself and I knew it was for the best..I have been relating..and Next year we shall be visiting..the pressure comes..but..with prayer,patience and wanting to be the best..thankfully my parents have not asked me when this when that narra...I started to feel the pressure at 28...
And then there those friends your wasting time etc..I kept saying guys everyone has got there time and God's timing is best..
I am glad I net someone who even flew to where I am just to ask me can we embark on this..I first kept them on Katebe....and guess what they flew second time to ask me....
I started to study and prepare myself..thank God most of my married friends were in different country from now....
So the pressure is there but know and understand what you want..and prepare your list...they may not have it all..but check and weigh in.and let them in from start am not here for jokes and games am here for good!..so are you in it for good too..if not..move baby gal.otherwise your going to struggle alone...
Above all discover yourself!..
Thank you for sharing.
Am making 24 in 15 days...I have never been in a stable relationship. I just realised, I don't even have a passport and I have not been at serena hotel yet am stressing about being in a relationship and marriage. Thank you Flavia💟
Passport should stress you first 😂 not relationship things
Life is a journey and when it comes to marriage, it's not a one day event that happens out of the blue.. It's a union between two people who are ready to tolerate each other
It hit me at the age of 28 years, dated someone for about 6 years right away from kampus and he candidly told me he wasn't ready ..it hit me ,and sttayed in several bad relationships looking for marriage ..well I didn't get it ..until I had to love myself and clearly I focused.. pressure around married friends got me thinking am not good enough...lesson in this was we have different lives...my career is on the move and will meet love along the way ...thanks Flavia ...you made sense of what's been happening ..happy child 🚸
I get you,,faced that
Thank you for the advice Flavia, I am 23, still a virgin 🤗, I have been having a lot of pressure lately about my dating life, asking myself questions of who would date me. I clearly need to first love myself before anyone can. You are right when you say we shouldn't force our partners in marriage, I am not thinking about marriage just yet but, been somehow trying to trigger someone to date me(it ain't) working😂 clearly, he is not ready for a relationship (with me). I have realized that and now I am on a journey to self discovery 😀❤️
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Hold on to your values and the right person will come your way
@@aronronnieamanya9922 thank you
Do it when you want to not when people want you to! Also, sweety you are 23, damn I am getting married at 31. Go make money and enjoy single. I never advise any one to even marry before 30. We need to eat our money in peace first 😂😂 just do you!
@@anitanatuha8897 😀 this is my journey now girl 🤗... Things will happen when they happen 😂
The pressure maybe too much and leads us into regrets with forcing relationships. I can't heal😭
I feel you Flav, the pressure is real but financial freedom fst for me
Thank you for this Flavia. Thank you for summing up my book “Life In the Single Lane: Finding Joy in the journey of Single-hood”…
You spew wisdom and nuggets that will help our generation and the next ❤🎉
No truer words have been said! Enjoy singleness to the fullest, it doesnt come back! Enjoy that season of your life! What happens most single people miss enjoying singleness while looking for/into the next season (marriage)
This is so insightful for the single ladies. Wanted to have this conversation on my podcast but after the wedding. I still will do but let me share this with my friends. Cz this pressure can be so painful. Been there.
I ask every guy on the first date, what do u want from this relationship? His answer will determine if I.have tea or a full meal with him.
I love this
One reason I love @Flavia is that she always knows how to hit the point... thanks for the content...came in just on time for me ☺️☺️
My bestfriend just shared this and I am so glad I listened to this now . The timing is perfect . Xx
you have invested so much in me, am so glad i can always learn from you
Be blessed
I realized if you break down the whole thing that is in marriage and ask yourself how you could do about it, it will tell you if you are there or not. I recently released that I don't know the how for the parenting style I want to use and that is a clear sign that I might not be ready till I figure that out how am going to raise my kids without them going through what I went through. So am here learning how I will parent my kids.
Was halfway though n was like i ned to rewatch already. Also how do we get our numbers to 100k. Flavia is doing the most👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 am just so glad i have an opportunity to listen to such minds
We will get there. 🥰
The pressure is real, even for men...🤦
Live your life, Enjoy...Get that best bod,Get that job, get that career,Get that money....Daily motivation, Thank you Flavia. Turning 30 and ehhh Life is a rollercoaster from all angles
My notification button, check. Thanks dear Flavia for the beautiful content🔥🔥🔥.
Thank you for the content Flavia. Finding oneself and knowing what one wants is important. It's the beginning of attracting better people who deserve you and who you deserve.
You’ve spoken a very big point, knowing yourself/understanding yourself , it was until I leant that my entire life completely changed not necessarily marriage . It’s very important once you understand stand yourself, you’ll keep cup full and overflowing. Most times we blame others when we are actually the problem, once you’re whole and complete you’ll always live well with others because you know what to say and when to say what but once you’re empty and dry definitely there is nothing that comes out of empty cup.
Have you ever thought of the worst moments in life? That's the time as a girl child.Me the best thing have always done to avoid that pressure,I keep away from all people who ask me about all that,and if you want me to hate you,ask me such things, it sounds so disgusting. why? Am only a girl child who can't look for a man to marry me,And me because of even gone through some hell staff!! Eeeh!!! Oh! Am careful my dear, it's ok to have single stress than getting married to a fake person ,katonda mwesigwa,his not a son of man to fake around with his creature.
Great advice Flav 😍 And yes you are right , not all that glitters is gold ! Those that "act" calm ,turn out to be what you least expect of them...
Something about you that makes life interesting whenever you speak! Love you.
Be blessed
I am 28 this yes the pressure is there from family from friends but recently I made a decision to focus on me I walked away from a relationship that clearly had no future and immediately someone I dated in the past is here and his mature now coz we broke up in the past coz he was very undecided he seems serious now but I have given him conditions and we talking about officializing hopefully we do it but before this I had to do alot of self discovery and I am at a better place now
Wow.This is amazing ❤
This is so relatable, and you speak with so much humor. Thank you ❤ This has helped me so much!
Enjoy while you can as a single person
I enjoyed this one... The Fake it till you make it chaps are so many....
I really love this gal, I will look for her one day just to look at her
Why is she talking exactly the way i was month back, thank you flavia🙏❤️
Oh My God!!!! my dear, i thank God for you. You spoke to my heart.Telling nothing else but the truth. It's very true all the bad guys are in church. Forgive me Lord. Tbt....
For GOD'S love unto us is amazing, the bad boys haven't loved GOD deeper.
30 and single,,,,and loving it, though sometimes the pressure feels like am living in a wrong country .
You were like me Flavia I turned 32 this July and guess what? all my friends are married and all my sister's are married too now see how your sister is suffering.
your time will come dear
Thought I was alone and starting to get stressed but let me wait on God
@Brenda Asiimwe thanks for the courage 😂😂😂😂. We shall land on the best
ma dia ..all ma siblings are married even the one younger than me ...but i have stood ma ground..Put all ma energy in developing ma self career wise en economic status ...let me tell u am not lying when i say I love ma life
Flavia..you spoke my mind.
Wow!!!
My lady ..you bright my day when ever I open up
Thank you dear Flavia, many people go through this but the fact you have clearly explained for us/them. We shall overcome. Again I thank Lord for you, I have been following you on capital fm for many years but seriously I have learnt alot from you. From gal talk I got alady and now we are married and enjoying seriously. Thank Flavia. God bless you
When realisation hits you, you wake up. We all have those frustrations but the way to handle them, thanx gal
I don't regret subscribing yo vlog cause am evolving everyday learning at while trying to practice them, bravo dear ❤
Thank you mummy Flavia 🙏💞for the beautiful advice to singles..iron sharpens iron,,,prob 27:17
Let me invest when am still single wamma..
The way how you ended the show wasso amazing 😂😂😂
I love this Flavia
And the elders tell you , there is never time when one is ready for marriage , oooooow when you got a mentor and big sister to guide you, hehe and above everything God being at the centre of it all,, Senchu thx for this ,, always ready for classes.
Thank you flavia, you just spoke my mind. You’re a great inspiration to us
True to live your life and know what you want at the end.
I must say! I have enjoyed this. Besides you look like my sis...the way you speak and your face. Oh my God
Bro John😂😂😂, now let me relax abit eeeh I was finished
feel like, liking you a thousand times 😢❤😊
Flavia, you know how to ruffle feathers but you are right on the money. I can not even begin to tell my story and the pressure i have had to undergo. Thank you for yet another eye opener.
Every John ain't happy with you 🥰
But hey gal thank you so much for this vlog, you spoke to my heart. I have been living my life and so will continue.
Thanks so much Mrs K❤❤❤🇴🇲
I wish i would meet u physically and kneel down to say thank you....🤭😂 @flavia lemi leave my life now
😂😂😂it’s the fake it until you make it for make . Where is the lie those brothers are there . But in all this I think ladies have to be open minded .thanx dear you always bless us .
Thanks for this in for it is an eye opening, it came for me at the right time
I really love you Mrs Kabuura. There are many things we learn from you always 🤝🤝
Oh i like you Flavia you are sensible
Marriage is a longterm commitment one should take time until they have indeed worked on themselves it really is important to go in when one feels they are ready
Flavia shaking her own table lol 🤣🤣
Your drinks poured already o🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Well said. Your mom did a good job 👍
I'm here for revision 😄😄😄 re-watching the Video
Right on point Flavia, you are on point. Knowing who you are is the most important thing. I can't say this enough!
Thanks Flavia .. i really needed this
I guess you're right about enjoying my singleness...I loved it once again
Wow Flavia this is so beautiful, have always been straight forward so i don't waste my time.
Flavia, me as me 🤗🤗I went to Flavia Tumusiime Kabuura University where I attained a first class Ms degree in Personal development. 🙂🙂 That University invested so much in me and I am forever grateful.
Thats why I love you. U have cleared it for me
Am 25 and I have not even thought about. Staying with anyone under one roof for a week
Thanks Flavia
I needed this so badly 😢 thanks
i know that feeling 😢
I am really at this point, this pressure is too much ,now I commit myself to relationship that don't even deserve it ,God have mercy on me
Thanks Flav.for this moral topic abawala twebuzabuza nyo
The last 2 minutes are hilarious... and accurate 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks Flav
Beautiful topic I love the way u present these views😂😂❣️❣️❣️🥰🥰🥰
Flavia we didn't know about questioning on who to marry.
This is so interesting...senchu...my favourite....
Ooh PRESSURE!!!!! Can’t they leave us alone banaye, 😒 things happen in their right time
U are absolutely right
This is really nice. Thanks Flavia
Thx darling Flavia,very educative
Very realistic Flavia..and for the church men..olemwa
Wow!
What a message, thank you so much flavia for always giving us knowledge and real facts about Life 💯💪. How can I get this whole video like having it in my phone?
Thank you Flavia for this great advice.
Thank you so much you have reminded me that I should work on my goals first
I love this lady
The home work I have to do.....eeeeeiiii Thank you for the eye opener
Thank you so much Mrs. Kabuura. Me I will not mind about the pressure from people.
Ehhhh Ella all drinks have been poured down 😅😅
Thanks Flavia.
Lovely! Mostly I wud really figure out how to fix my finances in the due process of kwezula.... otherwise love ya flav 🥰
Flavia you're so lost and quiet. Rewatching your vlogs to reassure myself that one day you'll post something new. 😀
My role model Flav😘😘, thank you for that piece of advice 🙏🙏
Flav jst tapped on my really life
Thaxs mukazi
Big up ❤️❤️
Tumusiime ❤️❤️❤️great advice
This is a very interesting vlog to us ladies 👌👌 thanks for this topic Flavia🙏
thankyou for the wisdom!
Well said Flavia,thank you
the omushaija arahi? noshwerwa ryari questions bagyenzi🙃
It's the last look for me😂😂😂😂tell us more mommy. Thank you 😍