Am 23 years and the eldest at home but I always have this pressure inside of me of not having a good financing job, not having a good partner, the way I behave whereby I have to be a good example to my teenage sisters but its all exhausting and stressful. So far I have not enjoyed my early twenties in the fear of being judged. There are certain things that I don't love about my self but wow thanks to u Flavia that I have realised that I should love myself ( self love). No more pressure anymore. Thanks , I love u Flavia more than u can ever imagine
I’m 22 right now .last year I traveled to Dubai to look for a job but the pressure is getting worse now 😢😢l have a lot on my head . Life is hard out , l have to help out my family. Thank you so much flavia
Flavia, talk about the 25-30 Ka pressure, everyday you wake up and "career, financial status, soulmate" are things ringing bells in your head, is this what they meant by "ko'kule onakiilaaba?"
What I learned in my early 20's Lesson 1. Enjoy with caution. Have fun, partyyy 🥳. Lesson 2. Heartbreaks in the early 20's are nothing. You will not die without that guy. Future hubby will find you. lesson 3: Work smart. its time to work on what you want, venture out on different opportunities,because you don't have responsibilities yet. lesson 4: Travel and explore your country or the world.
I just made 20 this year.... But I am very intentional I think I went through the wild phase in my teens but am glad I am okay now waiting to build myself up
I know right these days it is very easy to lose friends although I can't relate to it as losing them becuase of the it perspective of my lifestyle or anything of the sort but overall it is just some move to new environments and schools.
I don't think there is any vlog you have put here that I don't relate to. At least when i don't, it has spoke to me. Thanks for sharing, I oways look forward to these
Thanks a lot Flavia! as I speak I’m 20 and right now I’m going through a phase of losing friends and I thought I was the only one but it’s amazing it’s amazing to hear that it happens to everyone one
Ooh Flavia... I love the way you bring this celebrity reality foward, like we who are not celebraties keep thinking you guys are like perfect.... And all that! Buh man!! To an extent we like super alike👌 and thanks for the reality of Damn!!! 20s.....
Thank you Flavia..I love your talks..they help me know what to do next with my life..am 24 and my campus friends are getting married already..don't know if it sounds wierd but am not feeling the pressure at all...focusing on making something for myself..
Indeed thanks I needed to hear this am 24 and simply don't love myself, feel I haven't archieved alot for the 4 years I have worked, I meet the wrong friends who use me for what I can offer to them. Am a mess apparently rlshp wise it's pride,ego and selfishness of my partner. But this here I heard ,I choose to appreciate me,love me work more hard and define the me I want to be.Today I take the lead from here.thank you flavia
Am 23 haven't gone through the faze of reckless because am busy working my i hav responsibilities as the older child at home I guess I will face the reckless stage later on in life on the other hand am on a spiritual journey with God and I, busy building me am focusing on loving me with all my imperfections, thanks Flavia.
The YOLO phase is at large for me as of now. Friendship🤦🤦🤦 still going through the phase ,for Maturity...am learning. Yeeeee self love is on board for me though it was a hard pill to swallow. Thank you thank you for always sharing and educating us in the different aspects of life.
Thank you very much for sharing, Iam 26 and the way I have been putting pressure on myself about dating and having a serious relationship has been way overrated. Thank you for sharing. And now I have accepted myself more by the Grace of God, I have learnt to rest. Growing up takes God to be on your side and assuring you that you are not a mistake. I am learning to love myself more.
This is super cool, Flavia. I have just been saying yesss the whole time I watched. One of my close friends(known each other since S.1) is making 23 today, I'm definitely gonna quote you in my speech at the celebrations over dinner later! The lessons are real, undeniable and really timely, webare munoonga. PS; Your expressions are so hilarious!
Miss Flav this is really true. Am in my late 20s but the pressure is too much. You start wishing you could have done things differently, perhaps go back in time and change your mistakes but one thing am sure of, mistakes are what make us who we are. They are our experiences in life.
Initially l thought l had just become a terrible person coz of the rate at which l'm losing friends but l guess l relate to this clearly... Even worse when nothing good is happening for you and everyone else is progressing in something....Life🙄
Do I jhs so love Flavia. Frm 2015 wen I first heard her voice till now! Not so long but she's always a priority wen it comes to Media personality. Her composure, exquisitely simple. God bless you Flavia
Done with that reckless phase, thanks for the good content darling. I can relate but thank GOD 'am working on my maturity right now because i am 25 and getting married soon
Thank you for this great Vlog, all the points you've pointed out are so important and to be meditated upon by all of us that I can't choose out one but all! Thank you again.
You are spot on, Flavia! Thank you for being an Inspiration. I just started following you after you had a baby and I also had just had a baby around the same time. I felt like I had a friend! I’m in my early 30’s and I am so glad I was able to live my life fully in my 20’s!
Am 23 years and the eldest at home but I always have this pressure inside of me of not having a good financing job, not having a good partner, the way I behave whereby I have to be a good example to my teenage sisters but its all exhausting and stressful. So far I have not enjoyed my early twenties in the fear of being judged. There are certain things that I don't love about my self but wow thanks to u Flavia that I have realised that I should love myself ( self love). No more pressure anymore. Thanks , I love u Flavia more than u can ever imagine
Hey twin 🥺being exemplary is killing me at home
@@RuthButta It shouldn't bother u anymore my dear,let's just enjoy our twenties before its too late.
Flavia I have watched you grow. You are so much younger than me. But I learn so much from you. God bless you.
who looks up to Flavia like me..damnnn
🤗🖐️
Me too darling
Everything you have said I can relate 100%! Am in my late 20s and the pressure of society on marriage is real.
Tell me all about it
Me IAM lucky 😂 iam far away from my society and even if I go for a visit I hide so much
Shit is real, I'm 26 but society looks at you like walking cows
This is REAL struggle ....am 27 but everyone around me feels like am too late to getting a partner
@@joanitananyunja622 me am making 25 next month but people are asking already wen am getting married 🙄🙄
Currently on self pressure phase 25 year old . I needed this . The self doubt and pressure to have it all is insane
I’m 22 right now .last year I traveled to Dubai to look for a job but the pressure is getting worse now 😢😢l have a lot on my head . Life is hard out , l have to help out my family. Thank you so much flavia
Just 22.
So by 25 u will be a queen byyrself
Flavia, talk about the 25-30 Ka pressure, everyday you wake up and "career, financial status, soulmate" are things ringing bells in your head, is this what they meant by "ko'kule onakiilaaba?"
i feel like Flavia started this channel late, so many things i wish i would have heard in my 20s. like this contents is everything.
oooh now we make up for the lost time.
Flavia Tumusiime I am 28yrs now I just feel a lot of pressure.
Thank you so much 💓
The fact that i can only like this video just once 🤦🏾♀️ am turning 23 in a week, But feel like i’ve been through it all 😅🙏🏾
Thank you for this mama!🤩
Me on 10sept i turned 23
Hope Nsereko Happy belated love! 🤩
@@B.Bunyenyezi thank you dear
Flavia thanks for speaking to my soul
The way I love this lady..
This is the vlog!!!! .. Thank you so much for sharing Flavia. You are such an inspiration.
What I learned in my early 20's
Lesson 1. Enjoy with caution. Have fun, partyyy 🥳.
Lesson 2. Heartbreaks in the early 20's are nothing. You will not die without that guy. Future hubby will find you.
lesson 3: Work smart. its time to work on what you want, venture out on different opportunities,because you don't have responsibilities yet.
lesson 4: Travel and explore your country or the world.
Well said I think everyone in their 20's needs to hear this message
This has been my best vlog. Everyone in their 20s should watch this. Thanks for sharing with us.
For real. So relatable
We need to hear from a guy's version. I concur that it's really relateable
I think it's the same for guys too. It's very relatable.
am in my early 20's am glad i found your channel before it's too late.
I just made 20 this year.... But I am very intentional I think I went through the wild phase in my teens but am glad I am okay now waiting to build myself up
Like wyz t m
Girl, you still young enjoy more but responsibly
I know right these days it is very easy to lose friends although I can't relate to it as losing them becuase of the it perspective of my lifestyle or anything of the sort but overall it is just some move to new environments and schools.
I don't think there is any vlog you have put here that I don't relate to. At least when i don't, it has spoke to me. Thanks for sharing, I oways look forward to these
Thanks very much Flavia much love dear at least have picked something let me continue hustling and being responsible before I leave my 20's
Best timing!!!
So in my head am like I just have one year to 25 what!!!
Thankyou Flavia my 20s are in good hands now!!!!!!
Bless you.
Exactly..frnds in early 20's..OMG av lost many too but i dont regret infact av a few important ones
Very grateful for my girlfriends, been together since high school(2008). it hasn't been an easy ride but we have grown together...since.
Thanks a lot Flavia! as I speak I’m 20 and right now I’m going through a phase of losing friends and I thought I was the only one but it’s amazing it’s amazing to hear that it happens to everyone one
I thank God for you miss Flavia.🙏
Ooh Flavia... I love the way you bring this celebrity reality foward, like we who are not celebraties keep thinking you guys are like perfect.... And all that! Buh man!! To an extent we like super alike👌 and thanks for the reality of Damn!!! 20s.....
We are all human after all. Bless you.
I like yo fluency wawoo ❤️,it's gud to enjoy any stage of life....
“Self love so that no one else defines you”
If I’m to take away anything, it’s that. Really powerful. Thank you.
Thank you so much Flavia
Thank you Flavia..I love your talks..they help me know what to do next with my life..am 24 and my campus friends are getting married already..don't know if it sounds wierd but am not feeling the pressure at all...focusing on making something for myself..
Thank you for sharing Flavia❤️❤️❤️
Amazing advice, what you said gave me peace of mind. Thank you!
I've jhs watched this at the point I needed it most.. Thankuu Ms Flavia
This is among the few vlogs I've watched that speak my language through and through.....thank you♥️
Bagyenzi Flavia the way am relating to this, I've got my chair sitted bulungi and am waiting for part 2😂👏
Just found you and you speak with so much wisdom. Thank you for sharing! Love you❤
Oooh thank you so much Flavia 🥰😘😊😇
Thank you for this video, so timely.
All those restaurants at 20😂😂😂😂, some money.
I'm watching this, I'm 20 years old. Thank you for this!
She began working at a young age 😁😁
Already shared this with my frds, how I love u flav, you inspire me.
All this wisdom yoooooo much needed...thanks Flavia👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Indeed thanks I needed to hear this am 24 and simply don't love myself, feel I haven't archieved alot for the 4 years I have worked, I meet the wrong friends who use me for what I can offer to them. Am a mess apparently rlshp wise it's pride,ego and selfishness of my partner. But this here I heard ,I choose to appreciate me,love me work more hard and define the me I want to be.Today I take the lead from here.thank you flavia
My dear this happens to us all especially when we start working early n get some ka money..leave those ones n pray to God to send you better ones
@@bebirah2306 thank you
This is the best vlog ever🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧it's reality. It speaks more about me and the mistakes I made. Thanks alot Flavia 💯💯💯👌👌👌👌👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
This is so good. Thanks Flavia. I just had an awakening recently and realized just like you that my 20s rushed past so fast I didnt realize it.
Ooh thanks much the journey has just began for us in early early 20's🤔keep inspiring us
Am 23 haven't gone through the faze of reckless because am busy working my i hav responsibilities as the older child at home I guess I will face the reckless stage later on in life on the other hand am on a spiritual journey with God and I, busy building me am focusing on loving me with all my imperfections, thanks Flavia.
I have clapped for you to stay and continue ,thanks it's real life what you miss in those years turns out as fixation.be blessed Flav
Flavia,thanks so much
The YOLO phase is at large for me as of now. Friendship🤦🤦🤦 still going through the phase ,for Maturity...am learning. Yeeeee self love is on board for me though it was a hard pill to swallow. Thank you thank you for always sharing and educating us in the different aspects of life.
Its the subtle honesty for me!Ilove it.Here's to being a more honest friend.
yessss
I can totally relate 120%. Actually am sending my little sister a link, it's perfect for anyone in their 20s.
Many thanks Flavia.
Thanks Flavia, very vital advices
Best talk. Most talks just add pressure on what I already had
Thank you very much for sharing, Iam 26 and the way I have been putting pressure on myself about dating and having a serious relationship has been way overrated.
Thank you for sharing. And now I have accepted myself more by the Grace of God, I have learnt to rest.
Growing up takes God to be on your side and assuring you that you are not a mistake. I am learning to love myself more.
Who else likes before even watching 😂. Thanks Flavia for always inspiring us😘😘
Literally me😂
i cant wait for he maturity video. Thank you Flavia his was very insightful. iam 25 and many pressures are up already
Thank you so much Flavia for this ❤️🙏. I find it important to know as I grow
Woow 🙌🏼 This is great advice, God bless!
This is really nice...it has actually helped a lot 😂😂I rarely relate with motivation talks but this has been a head turner. 🤙🏾
This is golden! Thank you so much!!
Edit:
I'm in my early 20's and let's just say I need to hear this.
Thank you so much Flavia, you've blessed me
This is super cool, Flavia. I have just been saying yesss the whole time I watched. One of my close friends(known each other since S.1) is making 23 today, I'm definitely gonna quote you in my speech at the celebrations over dinner later! The lessons are real, undeniable and really timely, webare munoonga. PS; Your expressions are so hilarious!
thank youuuu
Miss Flav this is really true. Am in my late 20s but the pressure is too much. You start wishing you could have done things differently, perhaps go back in time and change your mistakes but one thing am sure of, mistakes are what make us who we are. They are our experiences in life.
Beautiful piece Flavia, thank you ❤️
Am 26yrs , l have few friends coz most of them are married.
❤❤❤Thank You Flavia
Initially l thought l had just become a terrible person coz of the rate at which l'm losing friends but l guess l relate to this clearly...
Even worse when nothing good is happening for you and everyone else is progressing in something....Life🙄
Do I jhs so love Flavia. Frm 2015 wen I first heard her voice till now! Not so long but she's always a priority wen it comes to Media personality. Her composure, exquisitely simple. God bless you Flavia
I really relate to everything you say .... love you so much Flavia
wow, thanks for sharing Flavia
Thank you @ Miss Flavia for being this honest.Bless you
Thanks Flavia... I needed this.
Much love 🥰🥰 Flavia
Ooh my God flavia you are everything all the things you said is right all love from rwanda
The 20s💯💯💯.thank you flavia
I love everything you say Flavia. You've helped me to appreciate and think positive about me.
Thanks dear.
thanks for the advice Flavia
Thank you so much Flavia... this one is nice
I just love this lady OMG ❤️. Everything about you Flavia inspires me alot. My 10year old daughter is now growing this love
Lol these lessons are so real, undeniable, timely i made twenty this year.......thank you flav
Perfect words for a 23 year old me.
Thank u 😍
Done with that reckless phase, thanks for the good content darling. I can relate but thank GOD 'am working on my maturity right now because i am 25 and getting married soon
Thanks mummy Liam ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks so much for sharing
This is so helpful. God bless you Flavia T❤️🙏🏾
This is one of my best vlog👏thanks for sharing with us. I love you
This is my first time watching your video but , inspired me a lot, Thank you so much
The first thing that clicked in my mind was "you need to write this gal"
Thank you for sharing us, all this happening on me
Your tips has made me change part of my life
"Waking up and the day before is like a blur"- so truee 😂
Thank you for this ,you are so adorable!!
Thank you so much Flavia . Have learnt a lot from this and now am gonna work on my temper also loving myself.
Thank you for this great Vlog, all the points you've pointed out are so important and to be meditated upon by all of us that I can't choose out one but all! Thank you again.
I'm grateful to this
Woow!..thanks Flavia. This is so true.
Lovely 💜
You are spot on, Flavia! Thank you for being an Inspiration. I just started following you after you had a baby and I also had just had a baby around the same time. I felt like I had a friend! I’m in my early 30’s and I am so glad I was able to live my life fully in my 20’s!
Thank you sweetheart, this is all I needed to hear right now 💋🙏🏻
😭😭😭you inspire me everyday Flavia.